How To Make Him DESIRE You

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

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[@1tommyday]

I love when a man treats me well. I can't thank him enough!!!

[@johannajo1359]

I was raised being polite and appreciate to all but I noticed offering the plumper a cup of coffee and a thank you after saving the day indeed made him stick too my house too long lol.

[@paulariano334]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

[@BenjaminJones-re8re]

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back

[@paulariano334]

amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?

[@BenjaminJones-re8re]

His name is Fatherabulu , and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@BenjaminJones-re8re]

His name is Fatherabulu , and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@paulariano334]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked he up now online. impressive

[@rebekaholiphant7084]

We are all responsible for our own happiness but a good man can bring JOY, LIGHT, and make you feel like there’s magic in the world❤️ and there is🤗

[@DeborahDelValle]

So can a good woman😊

[@shonarobinson9914]

My childhood was extremely traumatic, and I had no choice but to be in masculine. As Allison Armstrong says "the first thing to go out the window when you are forced into survival, is femininity." Then I approached life from that place, and thought it was normal. It wasn't until I started to address the trauma, and started to shift more into intuition, wisdom, spirituality, that I grew increasingly more curious about leaning into the feminine. But you're right, vulnerability felt scary and unfamiliar- and thoughts of "will I be rejected if I show my compassionate and gentle side?" Watching your videos and belonging to a "Queens Code" book club has been instrumental in understanding men, but also myself as a woman. Thank you for providing your insights to us ladies :)

[@DeborahDelValle]

I don’t give these guys credit for their opinions that’s what humans do form opinions🎉 being well read an exerciser a life enthusiast takes care of it all…

[@pamelav.5699]

🌈🌟🌾🌻ThankYou so much for this! I met someone before I turned 16 he was almost 10 yrs older than me I was in survival mode for 40 yrs of our marriage. He passed away 7 yrs ago and it definitely is tough to figure it out it has been very challenging! I'm worth more than just to be around drunks and child molesters that's why I stayed in a 40 yr marriage instead and my survival mode was always in gear! Sometimes it seems like there's so many do's and don'ts and you won't be accepted if you do this or if you do that like where do I go from here! But thank you very much for this!

[@RitaP41]

1. If "All YOU hear" is criticism and not the compliment, then you're not doing the thing enough 2. Women appreciate men who DO Things to be Appreciated

[@queenj.8i895]

AGREED! I left this comment: I think a lot of what you’re saying is true, & some examples are great, but sometimes you need to use much better examples…Ex… when you’re talking about how to compliment & show appreciation for a man, PLS, for the love of God, do not choose to speak about times when he has actually really NOT done well. Why should we teach women to put up with, overlook, & reward bad behavior?? No, issues need to be addressed. I think we should reserve most of the words of affirmation for when the man is actually doing something right, good, TIMELY, thoughtfully, etc. But when a man has ignored his woman, not listened well, not showed care for her needs or concerns, not been respectful of her feelings, not been handling his business or responsibilities, I’m sorry fellas, but that is not the time to stroke his ego. IM NOT SAYING ITS THE TIME TO TEAR HIM DOWN EITHER! But a real man should be able to listen to someone asking him to do better and should DESIRE to do better and to actually put in the proper work for the outwardly expressed encouragement that he’s wanting. Pls stop telling women to make a big deal out of bread crumbs. That’s really harmful to us and keeps the bar way too low for men who need to do much better. Thx for listening! Many blessings! ♥️ …….. Maybe someone would say I’m “too much in my masculine”, but that would only be because of the men who have continually failed to be what they needed to be. 🤷‍♀️ There are definitely good men out there, but they are RARE. And, I think they would hear me & agree with what I’m saying. Keep the faith, keep your head up, keep your standards. 💋 xoxo

[@RitaP41]

@@queenj.8i895 I hear you girl! And I agree. These irresponsible boys getting Praised like they won a championship for doing 1/10 things right is what makes these boys think they don't have to try any harder! When women stop putting up with guys who give them little to be thankful for and walk away, these boys will have a chance to become men, since their mama's and dads didn't teach them how.

[@robinmagee1638]

❤ 11:36

[@MJtroops]

Speaking of vulnerabiliy, I cried so many times besides him, but he mostly done nothing about it.

[@sebclay1526]

I love being in my feminine 🎉 my career is demanding and my man is my masculine to lean on and be at ease. He loves to lead , and knows I'm well able to❤❤❤❤

[@Robin-xt7yo]

63 here. Although ppl tell me i look in my 40s. Joined a couple dating apps recently. Posted very feminine pics on my profile. Received 100+ swipe rights in the first 24 hrs. Averaging 3 dates a week with different guys. Could easily have 4 dates a week but i have other things to do! Having fun at 63 as a divorcee!

[@carlaenriquez9039]

I’m 59 and so intimidated to try dating sites, but I never meet anyone, I don’t do bars, tried Starbucks, nothing , what apps do you use?

[@Powerskaty]

Not to burst your bubble but it's been proven that men swipe right on all then wait to see who responds. Women in contrast only choose who they think might be a good partner. Men online are only looking for a hole. You're better off to meet people in real life.

[@Powerskaty]

Men swipe right on all- proven. Women are more choosy. Men aren't picky. At all. They swipe for quantity not quality. You shpuld focus on Men in real life.

[@shine4712]

My situation is way different than what you guys explained. When I’m vulnerable, the dudes cut me off thinking I’m a liability or a problem.

[@angelanahera3295]

Deadly C's thats a goodie criticize, complain , negativity.. say no to that and change the words stay positive to have a better bond for our relationship with our men.

[@lisacreason]

I have only danced one time like that (with someone who knew how to lead, twirl, dips) many years ago and I still remember it. ❤

[@kittymeyw8299]

I've been watching these videos all night and I feel like men are talking in circles. Compassion, empathy, acceptence. That's all he needs honey.

[@kellykay217]

I’m sorry but the way the men are talking about needing such over the top appreciation for not too difficult of tasks, done late no less, reminds me of how I talk to my children….😕 I don’t expect such praise for minor tasks either like cleaning up the house. a simple ‘thanks babe’ and a kiss should be sufficient. On both sides.

[@lisadixon3127]

Amen. They make men sound like boys, weak and scared. Exhausting. Where have all the real men gone? Women have to dumb down to get a man's ego in check. Definitely feels childlike.

[@mcash4063]

I agree with you. I want a MAN not a man child

[@BetterTogether300]

@@kellykay217 uts a strategy of behaviour...a rewaed system fir good things done reunforcung those goid things unstead of raking over bad behviour

[@queenj.8i895]

AMEN! We should praise ppl when they are deserving of it, and let ppl know when they are not performing at par. It’s called maturity to be able to communicate both ways as the talker AND THE LISTENER. A man who needs undue praise &/or can’t handle being asked to step up when needed isn’t a good man, he’s still child~lSH for sure. Blessings! 💐✨💝🦋

[@shelleysquires7225]

I love seeing you two together! Thank you! 🌺

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Our pleasure!

[@gc825]

I choose not to be single, i want to be someone else happiness....

[@sebclay1526]

Keep dating and know what you do not accept. Enjoy the journey. Respect your boundaries 👏 and they will also. I'm 59 divorced x 8 years and have met wonderful men. Finally...lol happily ever after. ❤️

[@clarisec1451]

Thank you. I really appreciate you guys. I really don't know much about guys and it really helps me to know what not to do and what little things I should be doing. I want to be the most authentic and feminine woman I can be. I want to bring positivity joy love and kindness to my man's life and you guys are helping me .

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Happy to help!

[@sgafner]

❤Thank you so very much! This helps so much! As a very very experienced woman that has crushed ppl with my masculinity and self sufficiency. This is very important to hear.

[@Kailinnicolelembke]

To render

[@d1v1n1ti]

this is if you're already in a relationship... if you're just dating and you try doing some of these things, you're gonna send him running for the hills . or if you're not his type or he's not attracted to you, this will repel him lol

[@justmehhl]

Help! What does it mean by him mentioning he would always want to leave an option for me to leave without feeling bad and doesn't want to put pressure on moving forward with him after the first date? I'm seeing him for a month now, he shows lots of interests and care but what he mentioned is annoying me, I'm not sure if he keeps meeting me because I didn't reject him.

[@SusanArmstrong-b3z]

I have complemented my man on how good he smells, on his nice chest, told him he had nice legs for a man, and I'm met with silence...makes me not want to say anything to him.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

The best is to share how he makes you feel using Magnetic Feminine Communication rather than complimenting him

[@lina73681]

Well, as I see it.. complimenting physique means showing you're turned on sexually. A man could be traumatized or cheated on too, so they may get scared or check your patience with him if it's unconditional. Maybe you could try different compliment on what he Does do for you. Right now you're already criticizing saying ''I'm met with silence''. Learn to listen to his language and try to ask 'How come you never compliment me, do you appreciate me in any way?'' and if you're unhappy make him understand that you feel unseen or unattractive to him. If nothing changes and you're not happy, ask yourself if this is really worth any energy.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Feminine energy is also about being detached from the outcome, if you were sad or upset when he didn't respond it also can show that you were in masculine energy trying to give to him to get something from him and attached to the outcome which he likely felt as well

[@SusanArmstrong-b3z]

@@lina73681 I'm stating "I was met with silence". I did not tell him that. I've also, brought up that he never compliments me except in sex and my cooking. I only mentioned it once to him. This man is emotionally unavailable, so, maybe the reason.

[@SusanArmstrong-b3z]

@@MagnetizeYourMan I actually was detached. I was in a good mood when I gave my compliments. We were in the moment (s), when I said these things. And they were all on different days.

[@tuned_in_turned_on_light_up]

This has been a great listen! Thank you so much! I have a question, If a man is angry, and regularly pointing out how much he does, how little gets, how he is never considered ( speaks this to his children, to his former partner) And says he doesn't want to take care of all the things and how nice it is for others to have an easy day- is that the masculine? What can be done there to show support? Thank you

[@shanchan8247]

Sounds like a man-child that needs to grow up and understand that no relationship will ever be 50/50. At times it will be 70/30 or 20/80. Thats just life. Nobody has life on easy mode unless they're extremely wealthy. It sounds like no man ever gave him the 'lifes hard, get used to it' talk.

[@queenj.8i895]

I think a lot of what you’re saying is true, & some examples are great, but sometimes you need to use much better examples…Ex… when you’re talking about how to compliment & show appreciation for a man, PLS, for the love of God, do not choose to speak about times when he has actually really NOT done well. Why should we teach women to put up with, overlook, & reward bad behavior?? No, issues need to be addressed. I think we should reserve most of the words of affirmation for when the man is actually doing something right, good, TIMELY, thoughtfully, etc. But when a man has ignored his woman, not listened well, not showed care for her needs or concerns, not been respectful of her feelings, not been handling his business or responsibilities, I’m sorry fellas, but that is not the time to stroke his ego. IM NOT SAYING ITS THE TIME TO TEAR HIM DOWN EITHER! But a real man should be able to listen to someone asking him to do better and should DESIRE to do better and to actually put in the proper work for the outwardly expressed encouragement that he’s wanting. Pls stop telling women to make a big deal out of bread crumbs. That’s really harmful to us and keeps the bar way too low for men who need to do much better. Thx for listening! Many blessings! ♥️

[@XYZ-qu4yq]

Broody-Boy! 🙃 Please make a video with two columns showing what kind of woman’s behaviours make man’s testosterone shoot up and what kind of woman’s behaviours make man’s testosterone go down.

[@analynsilvia3485]

I love watching your videos i learn a lot more in this video😮 i miss my late german husband tereibly 😢😢😢

[@tammysiemer4872]

You guys are so cute. It’s so refreshing.

[@lina73681]

Thank you guys

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Welcome!

[@jamekawilliams9773]

Kevin have pretty blue eyes

[@Shambo44]

Being too nice all the time can be boring and kill the excitement in the relationship

[@lisalawson7195]

Being calm and there for others is how you build trust.Melodrama and chaos may seem exciting.But they will kill a relationship.The other person should not have to entertain you.Better for them to be there steady through the good.But better to know they will be there to help you when you really need it.😊

[@lanahale7321]

Not true

[@lanahale7321]

Not true that being nice is boring

[@yourbossismyslave3409]

@@lanahale7321Read the OP’s comment again. They said “ being nice **all the time** is boring, not “being nice is boring”.

[@GomesFereira]

really liked this video

[@patriciaviii]

Great video. Great tips.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Glad you liked that!

[@gladysvitaliano4410]

I totally agree .

[@ADRS271]

I’m not a competitive person but my husband turns everything into a competition. It is exhausting and frustrating.

[@staywellandstrong4199]

Enjoyable energy radiance. A shining rise within while just pondering it... Many Thanks for this multi-faceted presentation ~ and particularly for that great tip 😊

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@JasminJ.Olesen]

this format really suits me

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Awesome! It's fun

[@kathrynmolesa1641]

It would help to have visual charts.

[@FreshEclecticism]

Powerful stuff!

[@humaneleaguelancPA]

So what if you grew up as a tomboy: I was very close with my Grandfather and lived with my Grandparents for several months at the age of 5yr....My Mom almost died. My Grandmother was not warm and fuzzy so I felt safe with my Grandfather. I used to pick nigh walkers with my Dad and Grandfather and went fishing with them. I climbed fences, then climbed trees to get onto the roof of a garage or a shed. I was married 27 years, my husband's main office was 1.5 hours away, he would come home exhausted and needed time to recharge. But I paid the bills, trimmed the bushes, painted the shutters, carpooled the kids to swim team during the summer etc. etc. So I have been in my masculine side more often. And he was in his feminine side. I tried to suggest dong more things together but he wasn't into it. For the past 12 years I've owned my own home and it's starting to get old. Would love to let go of my alpha side more. I have had 2 other relationships where I felt I could bring out my feminine side, but one was long distance and he was an avoidant. And the other was recovering and passed away. Any suggestions?

[@cindyyouell8326]

Wow ! Even if the woman is 65? This is what 65 looks like gentlemen !

[@RubGoddess]

I'm 73 and a man magnet 😂

[@arlenelovelace18]

I am 63, single and I always dress feminine (unless I’m working in my yard). Funny thing, I wore my favorite dress to Church this past Sunday, and a Pastors wife told me “you always dress so femininely”. 😊

[@bookwoman7803]

​@RubGoddess what's the secret?

[@RubGoddess]

@@bookwoman7803 homeopathic HGH, red light therapy, no sugar, posture, lots of water etc etc etc

[@BetterTogether300]

Why not

[@katelyncloud-h3l]

HI, my name is Katelyn and i just want to say thank you I couldn't be happier with this sweet video

[@peacefulloveagain4124]

Handsome men. Thanks.

[@cherrylane79]

Men's clothes are far more comfortable and they have pockets. I'm not gonna do a fake smile for someone. I've learned that people often use and abuse you if you are kind.

[@yourbossismyslave3409]

Ok & the only people attracted to females in men’s clothing are certain types of lesbians. If that’s your lifestyle, that’s cool too.

[@juliebratts767]

Love this ❤

[@candicelondon-hessert8723]

Does the same feminine energy work for Avoidant men?

[@Thrivingby]

What if you are expressing and he is pushing you away or neglecting? He says he isn't and that it can't be expected that I expect him to soothe me, which isn't true. To me it feels very like he is pulling away

[@samm4637]

So when you are vulnerable with a man, do you wait for them to ask you about your feelings or is the women expressing those feelings without being asked, because as a female I want to share my vulnerabilities but I feel like maybe he might not want to hear about them or I may come across as whiny or needy.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Share before but you want to ask first if it's ok

[@ellensevens]

You guys are extremely funny 😂. You make me laugh so hard 🤣

[@pascalledouven7022]

What about being chronically ill and how to express that , for him i am complaining to much as start in the day by messaging I get that But i am sick

[@Redh0tfire]

Thank you gentlemen 😌

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Our pleasure!

[@sweetstephlee00]

I'm trying to take this all in however it's conflicting to a degree. Some men like women who take charge and exert a more dominant attitude they don't want the girly girl more needy women 🙄. So what can you say if the man doesn't compliment her very often is she just supposed to ignore that fact and only speak to please him? This is tricky.

[@ebony777]

Wow, I’ve been doing this

[@natcheztracefan]

You Can Leave Your Hat On by Joe Cocker

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Great song

[@YogaMudraFlow77]

I just ❤you guys!!! Much needed information Keep it going 🎉

[@marianfosuah1460]

Amazing 😊😊🤗💗

[@PäiväHeinonen]

awesome

[@HidemiTaguchi]

best!!!

[@deec411]

My sweetheart Ed loved my reaction so much to the lobsters he bought for an intimate dinner at home, he's bought them many times since then. I always say he spoils me and he appreciates it so much. ✨💖✨

[@jeanettecastle7601]

What about men complaining, which i find is alot more prevalent. Why don't you focus on learning to love and think about how you act.

[@lisacreason]

I’m sorry I roasted you… I was trying to flirt… not good? 😂

[@s.e.s.9802]

😂😂😂

[@kathylynn2193]

It's funny how we see more videos on how to treat a man and get him to run to you. Then we do about what the man needs to do so we stop complaining. It's so old school even in today's society they want us to cater to a man.

[@mariad1151]

Lol lag behind me bc I dumb but supposed to be smarter than you lol 😂😂

[@truemorris6695]

Do you guys listen to jonathon aslay? He disagrees with the duct tape on the mouth

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Duct tape? We don't really cover that here so not sure

[@quinnychiang3721]

What if the complaint or the criticism is the truth? Still swallow it and shut up about it?

[@marleyjansen1306]

Fragile male ego lol

[@BetterTogether300]

Ru guys getting more handsome?..n how r u doing it whats ur secret..r u face melding with anothers pic. Is it a filter..?

[@sharonroe893]

I’ll tell you why it’s not safe to be in your feminine core it’s being raised by a narcissist and being married to a narcissist. With them you are attacked for being in your feminine it’s not safe…nor do they care about your feeling they’d just want you to shut up because they are weak Winnie men and can’t be there for you…

[@janinearevalo1627]

❤❤❤

[@DrivingThoughts691]

I have to coddle him? I want to stay single and find a cuddle buddy. I'm tired of men.

[@sharonroe893]

I’ll tell you why it’s not safe to Al away a be in your feminine core it’s being raised by a narcissist and being married to a narcissist. With them you are attacked for being in your feminine it’s not safe…nor do they care about your feeling they’d just want you to shut up because they are weak Winnie men and can’t be there for you…

[@PenelopeI-m7v]

Today, there's so many tips techniques and tricks that it's sometimes hard to know where to start. But it's not rocket science to get your man shivering with ecstasy just by changing the way you talk. As simple as this sounds, maybe try escalating it a step at a time, go’ogle something like Words of Desire by Celestine Dessike to sneakily crawl into his mind and let it build on from that.

[@darlenemeyst7095]

Have you guys talked to a woman seriously lately to get a woman’s viewpoint ?

[@BetterTogether300]

Give examples of feminine u speak of behaviour

[@shine4712]

Are you sure all these advice is current to this generation? Seems like gender role is switched. Man becoming boys and woman becoming mothers.

[@Natasha36474]

Bj is such a big sin.

[@hereiam2942]

??

[@annetaylor7496]

Aah no they're not but if that's what you believe just go with it.

[@mywonderfulname]

Why?

[@mikochild2]

Zooming in on the complaint and not noticing the compliment is selfish. You are failing her and you should know it. I have noticed that when you only give the compliment, they think they have been great. And when you finally let them know they aren't, they remember the compliments and become confused or don't take you serious. Basically, it sets you up to have to accept the same level of behavior with something nice every blue moon. Guess we can't win for losing. I'd love someone to love and appreciate who i am the way i love and appreciate who they are. We aren't all "excited silly happy dance" people. Why do we have to be fake to be attractive? And why is it "masculine" to communicate your wants and needs and to not to pretend to be incapable or not good at your talents? Seems like men define masculine as anything that doesn't stroke their ego and any emotion that isn't making them feel good. Like can I have a bad day? Can i mourn? I have to smile, use a soft voice and pretend to be pleased eith my boyfriend when he has crossed a boundary? Maybe I'm missing the message. Any one care to reword?