What Makes A Man Fall In Love With A Woman? (2 Coaches Reveal)

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

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[@Portia620]

Maybe you all should focus one episode on how so many people have baggage and middle age and how people have been betrayed and hurt really bad and how that could affect a relationship. It seems like the majority of people are just having friends with benefits and stuff like that because, everybody has severe trust issues. The ones that work on it most people bail before them because they want to become intimate before they really know the person.

[@Portia620]

Let’s talk about how society has created this problem, where women are more masculine now, or where men have abandoned children and families, and the women had to be more masculine or trauma can cause more masculine features. It’s not always something that the women are conscious of I think as well then you have another females that do gravitate towards the masculine and very proud of it. I don’t think every woman wants to be diving into their masculine energy, just a thought. Sadly had other choice.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Great topic suggestions!

[@MmM20978]

Some men aren't masculine period.

[@kristinalargent7006]

It seems that most men are still expecting a woman be a wife, mother, take care of the house, kids, cook, clean, etc, all while working a full time job. But men just continued doing “just the full time job”. Do you see how unequal this is? And then they wonder how we don’t have time for them 🙄. as a woman, it’s a very difficult existence.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Yes the masculine gives, the feminine receives (like in sex) if you are giving more than him then the polarity has been reversed

[@Livhappy25]

I see that it’s most the woman that wants to have a career for whatever reason and then the expectation of the house is still on her because man usually are not built for that or don’t care. So woman have put themselves in a difficult place also modern woman have been told a lie about jobs and careers and you can have it all. Stay home and take care of your kids and maybe if necessary do a part time or side job. Let man be man and work and most man will and it will motivate them to do better. The man who don’t work pass

[@kristinalargent7006]

@@Livhappy25 Where are these men? Most of my friend group have had men who were working and then stopped. The woman had to go get a job because he wouldn’t. We still have to pay bills, they don’t go away just because man stops working. Man decides to stay home and do housework, but then doesn’t, guess who steps up then too, the woman. It’s not the easiest thing to just throw out a man when there are kids involved. And if we throw out the man, we are back in the masculine energy because now we are single and again doing it ALL with kids! It’s a whole lose lose situation

[@romana-yn1fr]

​@@kristinalargent7006If a woman shows a man she can do it all he gets lazy and too comfortable...becomes the feminine in relationship

[@bethdouty4591]

It sounds like you need to speak up. A man that truly cares about you wants you to be happy. If that means showing you acts of service (since that sounds like a big part of your "love language"),then he needs to step up to the plate. It's kind of the "conquer and divide"way of handling household or childrearing chores.

[@karen-if7zq]

Some men bring out my feminine side more. The more masculine the more womanly I feel. It's hard to explain. I just need a very strong man to bring it out. Yes, when a man cleans and cooks some and takes over , that really brings out my feminine side. I feel so appreciative. Just the way he looks at me.❤

[@kre8504]

Amen2that

[@bellaloita]

Yes!! This is how my man makes me feel! When I am around him i am more soft and feminine and nurturing because his masculinity allows me to soften.

[@oar-N-oasis]

As a female, my femininity manifest if you make me feel I'm safe with you. The more you protect me, the more you will discover my femininity, I hope you understand that. You as my leader, my man, has a very important role to build me up too.

[@l4l414]

100 percent.

[@yasminstarmade]

a dangerous path to take on so many levels, humans do disapoint us, you need to be strong for yourself and prepared to fight for your own survival, so activate those brain cells, these guys are just training women into ineffective slaves, we know how that turned out for women, we are most likely to be hurt by a male in our closest circle, just keep that in mind as you embrace the pliable female energy.

[@rmg2419]

This video is great. You guys should make a whole video on teaching men how to make a woman feel safe, secure and how she can trust him, so she can open up to him. A lot of men don't know this.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Totally

[@NgG-g2n]

these 2 men in the video are weak, no man listens to these 2 and these 2 know it, thus they talk to women about how to please the guy...no difference between these 2 and the bro internet manosphere

[@shans1986]

Truth.

[@Melinamiu007]

Men don’t watch videos on relationship. That’s why these guys speak to women

[@NgG-g2n]

@@Melinamiu007 men do watch videos on relationships, go find all the entrepreneur bros talking about dating...these 2 should talk to these guys and teach them how to treat women and to help them quit p0rn and p0rn looking women. But these 2 have no backbone, so no guy will listen to them. I wonder if they watch p0rn, if so, forget it, they have no authoriity whatsoever to talk about monogamous loving long term relationships. Check out John Gray talking to men in bros podcasts, full authority.

[@ophwin6680]

"One of the reason why a woman [wants to lead] is because [the man] is not stepping up to lead,, and you create a vacuum. Women will always step up and fill that void." It's very profound, and that may be when the woman becomes the mother of the man...? Why is it hard for men to lead? Why do they leave those voids? Maybe sometimes men don't lead because they don't have a vision or their vision stop at sleeping with the woman.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

True as well and a man can also have his masculine core awakened by a truly feminine woman who inspires his devotion

[@NgG-g2n]

@@MagnetizeYourMan 🤣

[@francy2127]

This is a different generation now.. men are short of chivalry. Very visual coz they want to show off in instagram 😂

[@anissaholmes4495]

@@MagnetizeYourManI’ve been married almost 20 years and I work a full time demanding job, raised three kids, do most of the chores and men wonder why we can’t devote time to them. I blew my $h!t a year ago about his disrespect and we fought and fought. He finally saw what this was doing to me and it sent me into a deep depression. My spirit was crushed. He started to help out more and he started planning date nights. I don’t like to scream my needs to someone and I hate to have to take the lead on everything. I told him that it’s exhausting for me. Watch Jimmy Evans on how to have a great marriage.

[@mamaknow8056]

It takes a good man to bring out the feminine. Be a good man. Simple.

[@trollhunter3944]

So, who you are is dependent on a man?

[@joannerainey600]

The problem with this is a man who is not in his masculine in a healthy way just becomes a taker. As a woman, I then step up and take care of things myself or it won’t get done. I start out “asking”, then start “nagging”…taking care of everything myself does not make me FEEL sexy, it makes me resentful ….then one of us leaves the relationship. I can’t believe how many men in their 40s and 50s are boys who want a mommy. Being mommy to an adult man is not sexy OR FEMININE!

[@KevinandCeline]

That is unfortunately a common dynamic. I am doing my best to coach as many men as possible to be healthy masculine men.

[@joannerainey600]

@@KevinandCeline hopefully that helps the younger generation! I’m 63 and have given up and it’s much more peaceful by myself (with an occasional encounter with a good male friend who’s happy to assist, hahaha!)

[@amandaboado7057]

You discovered you are a good leader. I discovered my leadership when my husband was posted away for 6 years. I discovered I wasn’t the idiot he wanted to think I was. I’m awesome! But I then started to see some of his flaws and it made me go silent on him. It’s true I was in my masculine and I had no time for him, I lost respect. There were no affairs I just became more confident, assertive and trusting in my own judgment he stopped wanting to help and I lost more respect and silently distanced myself from him. I stopped caring about being with him coz it was easier on my own and that’s what I needed some peace. I had nothing left to build his ego anymore, I just couldn’t do it.

[@LucyACPA]

So well said. Exactly my experience. Exactly.

[@eriegirl9007]

As a woman when a man can’t step up into his masculine, I step away from him. I am a queen. If he can’t see it, NEXT.

[@jennifermiller5041]

I LOVE being in my feminine, it's easy with a man who loves well. Someday, I hope that man finds me.

[@amandaboado7057]

I couldn’t help but laugh

[@stephcarpediem]

Same

[@livinggood6876]

He will!❤

[@BrookeSantiago-u8s]

Just all a mind game.. we are doomed.. Men just be secure in who you are so we don’t have to tip toe around your ego

[@lilg2300]

exactly

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

This is actually being your most authentic self with a man living from your feminine core

[@eriegirl9007]

Your missing the point

[@SilValGal]

“Make him think it was his idea.” Pleez! It’s so exhausting building up a man’s ego.

[@NgG-g2n]

just look at these 2 men in the video, they look weak and are teling women how to please the guy....c;mon now. check out John Gray for solid advice. These 2 in the video are pathetic.

[@shans1986]

I K R!

[@amandaboado7057]

I know right! Men are awesome but when it comes to having to constantly boost their ego when you don’t require it yourself it’s hard to understand even harder to do all the time. I f” wish I could do it and also be as dumb as he thinks I am. I find it so insulting really. But I just explain nicely so he gets it. My girlfriend acts absolutely useless and it works for her. Her husband does EVERYTHING for her and rubs her feet. Does all the washing , cleaning and brings home more money than she does. He buys her gifts all the time. She’s got it down pat. He cleans her vomit and anything else she she dirties. All she does is go to work and come home and receive. It makes it hard to travel with her though because she expects me to do everything for her aswell while she gets drunk and takes drugs. I don’t get it Why is that worth it? I WISH I could do that but I find it boring, a bit like a bird in a cage. I want to learn stuff and work with my man. But at the same time be treated nicely not as his slave while I worship him. I’m definitely going to use the, “ I can do it but I like it when you do it for me” that way he feels good without pretending I’m stupid.

[@NgG-g2n]

@@amandaboado7057 so this girl plays dumb? how does she make him do everything?

[@amandaboado7057]

@@NgG-g2n she does nothing, no real ambition for more. Infact she’s working on working even less. But I noticed she treats him like he can solve everything and she always thanks him and talks to him with tenderness except when she’s drunk, then she occasionally makes fun of him. She relies on him for everything. Infact she just lost her driving license and has to rely on him driving as well. She stands at a door and waits for him to open it. She asks him to carry anything. He respects her opinion. She thanks him for anything he does and she asks him for things she can do herself. She says she doesn’t even enjoy sex. She gets her hair done, he pays for her beauty treatments. She just sits on the couch and watches TV. She said to me once you should give up doing things like me. 😂 I would personally find it hard to respect myself. It works for her. I’m baffled really. But she’s on to something.

[@KIMBERLY-er9yk]

I am always perplexed that a female has to be a mommy to a grown man. Imagine one adult having to ask another adult to do a chore. “When you take out the trash it makes me feel --.” It’s like toddlerhood. Or I can’t imagine one adult leaving their clothes on the floor expecting another adult to pick up after them. Etc. I don’t get it.

[@tanyaflanders2196]

I couldn't agree with you more. This stuff is about how to raise a boy. Give me a break.

[@angelayapchung5288]

There should be videos for men teaching them to be masculine.

[@aurorarostenila6708]

I as a woman, don't need a man who need me to prove them that they worth something for me. What I need is a man who is confident by themselves, not seeking for approval or acknowledgement from other, but not overly pride of themselves too, because it only prove that they don't feel secure within themselves. Which kind of woman is attracting men the most? The woman who is confident by themselves and not seeking for attention. Exchange / giving & receiving in balance, but not a "need".

[@eriegirl9007]

Your missing the point about feminity

[@Paoula]

Am I just a slave to fulfill your needs? This is exactly how I’m feeling, but I’m the woman.

[@eriegirl9007]

That’sa you problem. Maybe you need to think of yourself as a queen and not a slave and avoid men who make you feel less than

[@AleahStewart-ug2wc]

Amen. We as women need our men in our lives to follow through. For them to walk the walk and talk the talk. Major brownie points there!

[@Stoicgal777]

I would love to be able to trust totally and be in my feminine instead of feeling like the dominant one. ❤

[@helenjones2067]

The last point was the best. Women need to feel safe. Men need to be men but also help out a home. The woman can ask him for help. He can cook a meal once in a while. Both parties need to be respected and values.

[@JulieMorales-kp4yc]

He has to want her because of mystery. He has to feel like he's earning her..Women can take that away from men by chasing. His hero instinct needs to be activated.

[@stephE80]

Okay and I've been single for a few decades because I'm waiting for the chase that never occurs lmao 😂

[@JessicaHallam21]

I am a ballerina…. I dance many pas de deux with men….. Your analogy about dancing is so spot on. A woman in her state of essence, surrender…. And most of all trusting his lead is such a POWER TO INSPIRE! My man loves it when I am still…. Not rushing… and most of all trusting in the silence between each other. I always tell him “I am with you in the silence and trust you” It melts his heart…. We have profound Deep intimacy and well that also translates into all of how ornpolarity dances naturally….. I love your videos! On both sides…. I am grateful for your reminders and encouragement to stay in my true essence… we as woman have been pushed into Wounded woman because of society pushing us to be independent and femenism and the need to be equal to a man has crippled us! Find the BEAUTY IN OUR DIFFERENCES!!! In the end we both need each other…. Women are so anxious they cannot see it because we ourselves have not healed our inner child and past traumas….. women…. Please listen to these men and DO YOUR WORK!

[@rafaelamsp_]

I think you could tell more about it ! :)

[@SarahJacksonLV]

Love this perspective

[@Cheeksgonzaga]

"I KNOW I CAN DO IT,BUT I LIKE IT WHEN YOU DO IT FOR ME..."

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Brilliant

[@TianieMitchell]

Real strength comes in gentleness

[@chisomoffor6877]

When I’m with him, I feel like the most beautiful woman, I don’t even have to use my brain , he makes so calm,literally a big baby, I just sit and receive , respect him, let him be the man when requests. I do nurture him and he loves it

[@stephcarpediem]

I can’t tell if “I don’t even have to use my brain” is sarcasm or you’re being for real 😂

[@stephE80]

Yeah okay haha I like using my brain, this sh*t is ridiculous

[@GalacticWoman]

He is supposedly giving examples of how men fall in love but is talking about situation in marrige of living together: like take trash out etc. Falling in love happens during the dating stage.

[@stephE80]

Right, just wasted an hour of my life for this bs haha

[@TheAll5555]

Thank you for this video 🙏 I am an American woman. I am working on being the best version of myself & that includes embracing my femininity. I was not comfortable with this for a long time and considered this as being weak. I am dating a lovely British man that is very masculine and sensitive. Chivalrous is how I would describe him. He is the first man that brings out more of my feminine side. And I love it! I like men to be men. I am attracted to him and I feel safe with him. He treats me with respect, is polite and actually listens to me when I speak. Much of what you speak about, the positive behavior of women, I’m already doing without realizing it. It feels like a natural, authentic aspect of myself. My goal is to be balanced in both my feminine & in my masculine side.

[@sonofhibbs4425]

OMG you guys are the real deal! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SAYING THE FOLLOWING:…’’ whenever a man does not step up and lead he creates a vacuum in which the women will always step up and fill that void. Always.’’ Could you please scream it louder for the guys in the back row? And leading does not mean commanding, belittling, or arguing (fighting) with her like you would with your brother, your boss or a male friend from school. Women are not men. If you treat your girlfriend, wife or daughter like a man, she will start to behave like a man. To be female means to be VULNERABLE. If you dislike masculine women, don’t treat them that way. You can as a man work miracles to soften her if you treat her like the feminine woman you wish for.

[@annadonahue4119]

Very well said!!!!

[@carolinereidartist]

In Argentine tango there is lead and follow but actually it is complete mutuality and complementarity. The lead steers and navigates and allows the woman to respond to his suggestions or not and to decorate within a structure. But also the best tango the follower can take over for periods

[@MightyMama]

As a woman it really upsets me to the core to hear that women get upset when reminded to be in their feminine and with this comes being more submissive. Hello ladies!! We are born feminine and this is our super power to attract a man! No shame in my game! Use your super powers ladies!💋

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

A woman owning her true femininity is an incredible gift to everyone around her

[@amandaboado7057]

What the heck, I know it can work I’ve seen it happen. But I just can’t stop helping myself dam it! I’m going to really try harder to be useless! Also I’m going to practice liking it when they are trying really hard to impress me by bragging about stuff. I’m going to turn a blind eye to their unnecessary emotional outbursts. For some reason in the past I just walked away because I saw them as weak. But maybe I should harness it 😃💪🌈 Wish me luck.

[@annadonahue4119]

@@amandaboado7057 yeah! What Amanda said! 👆🏻

[@stephE80]

​@@amandaboado7057omg this entire conversation has made more concrete why I'm over it haha not worth the bs

[@kristinalargent7006]

It’s hilarious because men don’t think of it on their own. Most of us women are overwhelmed with everything we do. If they would just lift a finger and help out, we’d definitely be more available for sex because that stress would be lifted off our shoulders. When we have so much to do, it makes it difficult to turn on the vroom vroom. 😅

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Totally

[@KevinandCeline]

Agreed. This is an important piece I teach to my male clients.

[@sadiqua7]

So simple for a grown man to just be a grown up. Why do women have to be their mother and direct them to do basic things that are common decency in a partnership? It’s a 2 way street, both can give and receive, and have mutual care and respect for each other. It’s so not hard. Men make it hard.

[@OceanSound100]

Being in love is not about roles. It is seeing and accepting the other person as they are. If a man is too feminine and needs a feminine woman to make him masculine, it is not about love; it is about feeding him the energy he desperately needs to be a man. Love has nothing to do with it.

[@giselabottcher3184]

Got this experience: the boy who needs a girl is not going to be the man for the woman she becomes. As a woman I need a man who passed that stade.

[@sonofhibbs4425]

@@giselabottcher3184 well said!!! How many times do we see a man using a woman until he finally finds one who makes him want to grow into a man. But that man is not a real man until that happens. Until and if ever that happens, he will not be a real man, he will be a user, a boy in man’s skin.

[@StoryShiftYT]

THIS 👆🏻 All the rest of it sounds very immature.

[@dawnh8254]

I think if men are naturally in their masculine, it naturally softens us up. It may feel weird because we’re so used to having to take care of so much. But the right man will organically bring out the feminine.

[@amongstthepigeons1020]

What I am hearing them say is that I can't be loveable and defend myself from abuse. Why don't they just love us as us? Why do they hold us in such contempt? Why do they create more and more sophisticated ways to paint us into a corner that we can't get out of unless we reject them as an idea completely?

[@angelayapchung5288]

Good video. When a man is in his feminine, which many men are, a high value woman should leave, not stay, if we love ourselves, we would never entertain non-sense. Love yourself and protect your femininity just like how you would protect your heart.

[@francy2127]

Men do sometimes trophy wife. Then when the woman turns old & the man can’t engage in a conversation with substance & humor, everything turns sour. 😒

[@TianieMitchell]

I agree if a man does something for you always show gratitude and appreciation hug him and kiss him thank him show it more than one way when whenever possible do something thoughtful and kind for him in return

[@stephE80]

In all honesty this sounds like when I have to praise my little nephew for little things so he will pick up more behind himself...a step up from just saying "no" and expecting the women in his life to always clean up his messes. Nope, I want a man not a little boy. I raised my own son better than that. And this is also putting myself in his shoes...I would not want someone coddling me and making like a big deal that I put my clothes in the hamper and cleaned up my breakfast mess smh ridiculous

[@karen-if7zq]

I can be very independent, never realized they may really want to help me, incredible!

[@shans1986]

They help if they want something.

[@karen-if7zq]

Unfortunately that is probably true but women can be just as sneaky.

[@clairefoxall2313]

Love how you too… helped us woman understand how to communicate with men to bring us both closer together 🎉🎉

[@user-cs1xz]

amen! ty both for the brutal honesty on what men want and how being our most authentic selves gets the guy meant for us in the end

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Welcome! :)

[@Nomad.Hawk_87]

Great duo :) thank you 🙏 it's so true... i see this every day at work... before we had men to help us with the heavy tasks, i was doing them all by myself... since they're here, i feel so much more relaxed, i smile much more and i feel grateful for them being present and making our day easier... Men really respond positively to sincere appreciation !!! I never have to ask them to help me anymore, they do it spontaneously !! I just asked the first time...

[@martacoughlan7555]

I love this episode of your teachings and this playful way of explaining everything. I had a great fun listening to you 😍 and obviously I learnt a lot. Thank you very much 🤩

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

You are so welcome!

[@lindalucas8888]

This is such great information! Super helpful to hear you explain the how and why. ❤

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@isabelleboulay2651]

The best relationship I had with a man was easy. There was no tiptoeing around We were sincere, intentional on caring for the other. He knew and understood that my cycle was monthly while his renews in 24hrs. He understood that mood swings are sometimes inevitable and it had nothing to do with him. I understood that his sexual needs were as important to him as the affection I needed. His main hormones, testosterone and (vasopressin) make him a man with the masculinity. Mine are estrogen and progesterone (oxytocin) ... which fluctuate all the time so are not as stable as his. So feeling close to him and caring made me want to be available to him. The fact that I was doing this made him affectionate to me because it's what I needed. Not complicated. Being feminine is much more than receiving and nagging. Being masculine is much more than needing approval for giving. There's a maturity that comes with reciprocal genuine caring.

[@shilpasingh559]

Your advice really helped me in understanding my man.we both are in love and respect each other.thank you.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

You are so welcome

[@starsin54]

No literally Doesn’t work if the man is a moody narcissistic individual.

[@bmc348]

Ive had so many guys like me because I was the only feminine girl where I worked. One guy was telling me how sweet I was and then just blurted out that I was submissive . His eyes got so big because he thought he had insulted me, but I just laughed. The thing was I knew I was submissive because I chose to be, especially around men. I always try to let men be men around me and I reap the benefits because they are always sweet and helpful. Ive even helped guys by stepping back so they could step up.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Nice, yes every woman has a feminine core some are just more connected to it already than others but it's possible for every woman

[@KevinandCeline]

Yes, that is the power of being in your feminine! And yes, sometimes giving men the space to step up is a good strategy. If he fails to step up, then you have learned some important information.

[@joellemartin4466]

Same girl! It’s absolutely the best and they do thier best around you win / win situation 🎉

[@TheAll5555]

That’s great! I do this too, I like men to be men, because I want to “rest” in my femininity. I don’t buy into “toxic masculinity” that’s a BS agenda from some think tank hell bent on derailing our society. I’m still a strong independent woman but being so much in my masculine side was affecting me in unpleasant ways. So I change it at will by becoming self aware, and having a deeper understanding of what our masculine & feminine aspects really are. 🙏

[@NgG-g2n]

at work you don't bring your feminine, you are polite and friendly but not flirtatious nor vulnerable. he's turned on because of the polarity you are creating by bringing your feminine side to work, quite unprofessional behavior from you and you'll end up turning the few women there against you and this can result in getting you fired and badly for your career if you care about having any. You are very unprofessional and tarnishing the huge effort professional women make to be competent and respectful.

[@codreaming9304]

I love being in my feminine energy 💖. With that being said, I think it’s difficult for women these days to surrender to it and open up in the early dating stages because there are so many psychos and stalkers out there. We have to watch ourselves (some men aren’t good at getting signals) and protect ourselves. Men don’t have a clue as to what kind of danger we face. They get offended and take it personal if you are careful with what personal information you divulge. We can never just “relax” for fear that we will be taken advantage of or send the wrong signals.

[@desertgirl3810]

Thank you for all of this. It’s great. It’s also in the same way classic John Grey’s books and teachings Or explaining our differences. It’s great.

[@magnaajube7784]

Both of you are so lovely teaching together! Thanks Healthy men are lovely!

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Welcome and glad you liked it!

[@SalomejaSaulyte]

The situation that these men discuss are very insignificant, and most mature women won't care less telling their men how to handle them. What about the really dangerous situations where you make as many "suggestions" as you wish, and a man will just ignore them. E.g.taking important medicine for his own health. Should a woman let the man die/harm his health letting him decide for himself and face the consequences, or should she in such situations just leave him because he is too stupid to be around and create a safe environment for his woman?

[@KevinandCeline]

Thank you!!

[@TheAll5555]

We must have honest communication about expectations from the beginning, even if afraid to speak up, we can’t just let things fall in whatever place. Most people are not mind readers, or just think “oh he knows what to do,” no, he doesn’t know. Our roles as men & women have become so complicated & trampled upon that we do not know what role we play or even what’s authentic.

[@JennaFrancesca]

Thanks Fellas! Super great to see high integrity men promoting traditional values… Definitely don’t get your dog a mullet!

[@riekabosman7894]

I enjoyed this and I think that men really do need to take responsibility for their feelings around wanting to fix. Its a knee jerk reaction, is it actually impossible for a man to stand back and be with her without the need to change, fix or do anything with it. Maybe just asking, can I help you with anything honey? That would be nice. When we are feeling strongly about something that is not about you, if you make it about you then keep that in check, notice your own reactions. Knowing how it effects a man is helpful and I do believe men need to learn when to step in and when not to...I don't want to have to take care of my mans reactions to my feelings that are not about him. Maybe I just don't understand completely what was being said?

[@margaretahogberg6869]

I agree with you , working full time job then do everything in your home , its his home too , not only my home

[@MoNika-pu9jy]

This two make me going into my masculine energy.

[@claudiagrewenigable]

I totally understand the concept of staying in my feminine power. I had to learn thus

[@annien3960]

It's difficult when they don't do what they say they will. It's tiring to repeat in a nice way.

[@TianieMitchell]

When you help me around the house when I feel overwhelmed makes me feel like you love me it shows me that you love me and it makes me more drawn to you as a man

[@clareoreilly7187]

Thank you both very much for this very informative video.

[@KevinandCeline]

You're welcome!

[@curlyisconfident]

Great conversation! Thank you ❤🎉 so many of us are grateful!

[@FearfullyandWonderfullyMade139]

Best Analogy 🙌❤️Good video guys...enjoyed it!!

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@marywhite8517]

I find it sad that a strong woman is equated with being masculine. Its also sad that men feel that strength in a woman is a bad thing. Maybe it takes a man that is truly a man of strength that recognizes that strength added to strength only makes him stronger. I see this topic all of the time and I have to conclude that it is men that truly are not strong men that see a strong woman as someone competing with him. Perhaps he is simple too weak for that particular woman.

[@annadonahue4119]

Absolutely 💯%!

[@eriegirl9007]

You sound like an uhappy woman. Be in your femine amd try ot. You will see how wonderfully men respond. It is how they are wired stop berating it and you will enjoy your relationship more.

[@elainieish]

I know masculine men who fall for the masculine woman (I am hyperfeminine) and leave the feminine woman behind. All of this is truly exhausting for us single feminine women.

[@janny.p]

Can you please explain what hyperfeminine means?

[@elainieish]

@@janny.p think of a hyper feminine woman as rather submissive, the quintessential 1950s housewife, looks is fit wears dresses all the time. Is not in competition with men.

[@janny.p]

@@elainieish may you give me an advice how can I get into my feminine energy, cuz it seems too hard and i`m 27yo cute woman, I wear dresses all summer but i`m very action oriented and my astrological natal chart has twice more masculine energy than feminine. It`s just too hard for me to be feminine - inauthentic

[@tiffanyhoffman4250]

I love the wisdom and advice you share! I really wish i knew these things much sooner to attract the man i have always wanted. Thanks for all your videos! They are helping me to be the woman i have always wanted to be and just never knew how to! ❤

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Glad you like it Tiffany! :)

[@KevinandCeline]

You're welcome!

[@terryweber5369]

You should do this for older people (even though you’re not old). Things are a little different. The polarity talk is interesting. Food for thought.

[@dianealbert3]

Amen!!!!!!!!!!! For everything! A Lady from Quebec, Canada

[@sirajsyeda3714]

Thank you so much for sharing the wisdom; I learned how to be (as a woman) in order to communicate with a man ❤️

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

You are so welcome!

[@KevinandCeline]

You're welcome!

[@desertgirl3810]

Being in my natural feminine is powerful. I watch couples Notice the difference in women way in their masculine and ones in their feminine and how their partner or husbands are.

[@emma-sadie]

Bingo ! 👉 "Feminine". I knew he was gonna say that:)

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

😁

[@MeMe-od2mg]

That was for ppl who's already in a relationship. Could u do a video on how to make a crush into a boyfriend? Can I behave in the same way or will I scare the guy?

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Applies the same

[@MeMe-od2mg]

@@MagnetizeYourMan Awesome, thanks!

[@PurpleChurchMouse]

Amen to keeping your word. Sometimes, we want it done a certain way, so if that is the case, sharing the reason helps, I feel, to get it done your way. The "why" is important, and if your man isn't going to respect that, then they should just say so, and we will do it ourselves... boils down to communication and respect.

[@KevinandCeline]

Yes, if how it is done is important, just let us know why. I do find that much of the time the how isn't really that important, but getting it done is.

[@shans1986]

Women decide to do things for very intuitive reasons and most men have no ability in this arena. Usually if you let them know why, they'll shoot it down as stupid or illogical and do it their crappy way, thus discounting . the Women's feelings entirely. Fun Times!

[@annadonahue4119]

@@shans1986 sadly thinking exactly this👆🏻

[@chantalhill9268]

@@KevinandCeline what if your partner does the dishes but half aren't clean?

[@RaysOfSunshine-uw2sc]

Before my husband had passed away, my husband always said to me that he can be a pain in the butt and to have mood swings. He noticed that i don't nag, complain instead, i am quiet and have all the special qualities that a man appreciates in a women.

[@mau345]

Ew

[@yudollia]

Quiet with no mind and opinions 🤣 youre just a ragdoll to him

[@OlderWomenRock]

I’m a very feminine Woman , some Men like Tom boy sporty types Being feminine didn’t keep my ex from leaving

[@rmg2419]

What if a woman asks, but he doesn't give it to her?

[@leonaperdue8784]

Best to find out why not.

[@Shannon_Stamm]

If a woman has clearly communicated her needs and he STILL doesn't give it to her, then she has two options, cheat or leave. It is not up to you to 'find out why' and try to figure it out. His issues and why he can't perform should've been communicated when she was verbalizing her needs. She doesn't deserve that manipulative bs. If I was her, I would leave because he doesn't listen or care about her.

[@internationalwriterISTanbul]

WHAT ABOUT WOMEN WE NEED WORDS OF AFFIRMATION AND IF YOU WERE SHARING CARING IN THE FIRST PLACE , A WOMAN WOULD NEVER HAVE TO ADDRESS YOUR SINGULAR LAZINESS ABOUT ANYTHING.

[@trininikki88]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@Apocalyptiseptical]

You don’t need to use caps, we hear you

[@pamelav.5699]

ThankYou about the men stepping up!

[@ChinaSu-i3k]

WOW! A couple of good looking guys!

[@dianasshow1186]

It’s a good thing most of the things you said I’ve been practicing on my own ❤

[@MariaBanholzer]

You are soooo sweet you two! Handsome men! ❤from South of France

[@AllureDaySpaandSalon]

It’s hard not to be in your masculine when as a woman you are expected To be the only one putting the effort in, to evolve and level up from past trauma. A lot is expected of a woman to be feminine, but as you spoke about, a man has to be aligned in his masculine to allow you to be that feminine.

[@RaysOfSunshine-uw2sc]

I enjoy listening to all of you.

[@zoflo78]

Key to my marriage 😮 Do you have a good training on “being in your feminine”?

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Yes check out our website here: BeFeminine.com

[@karen-if7zq]

I see I did a lot of things wrong in my first marriage and so did he. I say my first marriage cause I intend to try again. I want to get this right with the righ

[@JennaFrancesca]

Amen… your word is everything….

[@Family4Trinity]

And Christian men have a challenging time with surrendering this until marriage, some women do too. And then blessing each other with all of this, you know? Just a little extra patience and perseverance before the finish line, and grace and kindness as they forge past their frustrations with God’s help. But I hear you, yes, men really need it, but it’s detrimental spiritually and sometimes in other ways of the holistic too, to be early on this and not hold to pure and right values before marriage.

[@Cinnamon349]

I have given my man the manual and he just can’t read

[@AD-hh6dd]

I have a very masculine boyfriend who always tries to compete with me. He actually enjoys it and it’s stressing me out. How do I stop this without being a pushover? Does he just like a challenge?

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

You have to share your feelings with him about that using Magnetic Feminine Communication

[@Volpe2025]

Timestamps please

[@TianieMitchell]

Yes I agree when women just Express what she might need or would like from a man or to say something that if he's offended her to say something like I feel bad because I don't know why you spoke to me like that or what I did wrong or you know or when you raise your voice I don't like that you overstepped a boundary that hurt my feelings, and I feel that you need to make you aware of it, so that you don't hurt my feelings and if you do hurt my feelings on accident or whatever then I need to be able to tell you so that you can understand how I feel and we can move forward unequal happy ground with understanding and compassion

[@Gs-qm1vr]

I watched the first 7 minutes and i didtn learn anything what does it mean to be feminin? How do u do that? Is it like wearing high heals?

[@n0tfr0mth1sw0rld]

This was so helpful ❤

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Welcome!

[@veronicasarabia3821]

I practice the sport Olympic weightlifting 🏋🏻‍♀️, yet i am super feminine, sweet , soft . The other woman not lol 😂 and I observer guys treat me like in more gentle way and they treat the other woman like dudes lol .

[@lauralauze9137]

Have you both read and, most importantly, understood the David Deida's "Intimate Communion"? Or his "The Way of the Superior Man"? You might change your perspective on many things if you do. Your content is interesting and valuable, but there is one core thing that seems sticking out all the time, and I think it's because you might need to explore more profoundly the masculine /femenine polarity and the important purpose of many unconscious feminine behaviours that you might deem as "lacking emotional maturity". Which from the perspective of the "third stage man" would seem an immature wining. I'd suggest wholeheartedly the "Discovering God Through Sex" too, same author. Hugs and keep up with good job in human evolution. Thanks for what you do.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Yep his work is great, have 2 more books of his to add to the list that I haven't read yet

[@lauralauze9137]

@@MagnetizeYourMan and the “It’s a Guy Thing” 👌🏽😊 .. So, that’s what I had to add to accommodating natural feminine behaviors to the convenience of an unconscious un-present masculine that widely is being classified as “emotional maturity”… 😉

[@KevinandCeline]

I have read pretty much all of his books (some more than once over the last decade). The Way Of The Superior Man is standard reading for my male clients. I fully understand his ideas and don't see any conflict with what we discussed in this video.

[@janinemillirons2927]

I'm done being mommy. I've stopped doing everything. He wonders why. At this point he has to do everything as he knows I'm done. I want a divorce but my circumstances dictates otherwise. I'd leave tomorrow if i could.

[@Nina-ur3ld]

I don't buy in the feminine and masculine energy stuff. Is there any empirical evidence for that?

[@carolinereidartist]

Now that’s a tough one -- TELLING-- to the female that feels like MANSPLAINING-- discuss

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Yes, there is femsplaining and mansplaining but that also depends on the intention behind the words and other factors. Would be a great topic for future videos :)

[@NgG-g2n]

@@MagnetizeYourMan 🤣 you know NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!

[@starr234]

I wonder if women have to tiptoe around telling or suggesting to the man something she knows how to do that he doesn’t know how to do because of his ego. Many men still see women as inferior and they have a difficult time coming to terms with the fact that a woman had knowledge he didn’t have or had skills he didn’t have.

[@shans1986]

This is an example specifically of the male patriarchy

[@annadonahue4119]

Boom!

[@positivel5530]

I know I can do it but I like it when you do it for me 🌟🥇🏆💛👑

[@laurad3077]

There is no "lead" in a cooperative successful relationship.

[@joanakebss.7]

I know I can do it but I like when you do it for me.

[@merilymerily]

Do you offer private coaching?

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Yes I'd recommend taking our free quiz as a good starting point! MagnetizeYourMan.com

[@jasminealexia]

Thank you guys for this! I love being in my feminine! Could you guys do a video on what feminine women can do to be more approachable?

[@Redheadbelle]

💗💗happy to watch!!

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

:)