"It's Too Hard Finding a Good Man..." Black Women Tell Anton Dating Is Messy The Older You Get

[@AntonDaniels]

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[@Avembe]

Why should any blk man commit (and especially get married) when the stats SHOW they will loose big time... Women'are encouraged to take full advantage of men BY the court system, By the medias, the Democratic Party and the corporate world, not to mention the school system ... Meaning that's to much to fight for a man.... Marriage rates are plummeting, can women at least acknowledge this?!?!? Oh did I forget that worldly reputation blk women about the attitude have built....

[@ShawtyDaPimp]

Quinton had the STOP PLAYING W ME FACE 💀💀💀

[@davidsejjombwe2313]

There are good men everywhere. The problem is modern women want traditional men while they remain modern women .

[@To_increase_travels]

Bingo 🎯!!!

[@lakerfan8297]

💯🎯

[@diegaspumper8501]

Nailed it

[@TheprophetDJ]

Factual

[@michaelmaysjr.3228]

Say that sh*t louder for the people in the back!!

[@SportsIconsTV]

Gentlemen sit back and watch society collapse

[@DPizzle]

Patiently waiting and gone laugh at the unruly women who don't survive

[@mrcell2762]

A cowardly way to go about 🤔

[@SportsIconsTV]

@@mrcell2762 Why should men doing anything for a society that disregards them

[@BuffKangaroo1]

​@@mrcell2762can you explain

[@Hustle_Or_Struggle_Podcast]

Yea I don't feel bad for our women no more , I can't wait until shit hit the fan .. 😂

[@PREEM513]

It’s funny how the least attractive person is the most argumentative.

[@zayinseven7923]

Its always the least attractive and least desirable women. They are projecting, like Anton said.

[@jwreckurtzspawnofdonthedon7376]

Right

[@Cadillaclance]

That's why. She mad. Any attention is better than none. It's always the ugliest one with the most to say.

[@Cadillaclance]

A beautiful woman don't have to say anything. The ugliest woman in the world is a dark skinned woman with blond hair

[@marcusmontague1275]

All I'm seeing is big, angry foreheads 😂

[@lonestarrk9308]

To the women who say men should not be scared of marriage, are you willing to sign a prenup? I didn’t think so. Shut up and sit down.

[@rombios3056]

Prenups don't protect shit

[@s.tanh9818]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Intuitivefisherwoman]

Pre nups are for rich folks, average men and women ain't worth ripping off.

[@truthseekingfreethinker5214]

​@Intuitivemermaid but the prenup doesn't have to just discuss the monetary situation. You can put behaviors in the prenup. You can put duties in the prenup. We tend to get caught up with just the money aspect but a prenup is a contract to show you and your wife are on the same page.

[@truthseekingfreethinker5214]

I'll know that black women are really trying to change when they push for all marriages should start with a prenup. Until then, like you said sit down and shut up.

[@garywright7826]

It's more good men than there are good women .

[@victorblackman]

Facts

[@geoffhampton9155]

Truth

[@Intuitivefisherwoman]

That's a lie, sounds suspect

[@mr.dccomics9018]

💯

[@BDAthleticInsider]

@@IntuitivefisherwomanYall quick to call someone suspect. This is facts more men prioritize family than women y’all are taught to prioritize a degree and a career

[@tysebastien6396]

It’s not hard to find a good man it’s hard to do the things to be with a good man like showing respect loyalty having his back.

[@ladellmimms]

Yep 😅

[@ronbeeman4557]

💯👊🏾

[@jonnyenough1531]

Don't get married fellas. The laws will take everything you worked for.

[@Jazz313]

Get a passport

[@SuaveGA]

Agreed! The Risks far outweighs the Rewards!

[@s.tanh9818]

Facts 💯....the family court system need to be updated.

[@najeermceachin9039]

@@s.tanh9818women don’t want it to be updated sadly

[@annengei2814]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@cliftonsingletary90]

It's all about what a woman wants What about what a man wants .Most women don't think they have to do anything and ask for so much and not even worth it

[@truth_is_strongest]

Exactly

[@Recklyss]

It's solipsism. They think everything revolves around them when their entire purpose is to help us complete the mission

[@zayinseven7923]

Women seek relationships SPECIFICALLY to serve themselves. Aware or unaware a relationship is ABOUT THEM in their whole view and outlook on one. Women seek to BE LOVED, not to GIVE LOVE.

[@Dawgyjoe]

@@zayinseven7923 but that’s not an excuse though

[@rohall5060]

I rather stay single than date any woman that weighs too much, wears fake hair, colour contacts and has a tattoo over her chest💯

[@johnlawful2272]

Imagine that trying to get on your bike

[@sovereignalpha5682]

Don't forget the big butterfly lashes lol RIDICULOUS

[@MoreAmazonShorts]

Trigger is exactly the problem with the community. Why is she even speaking? Sorry. But not sorry.

[@Go_Griff73]

In fact she speaks the most but says the least

[@elfromthabay1989]

Frfr🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾

[@Dipset415]

🦆🦆🦆🦆

[@thinkfreely5178]

💯 I hope she’s not raising any children

[@macgoldie7771]

Triggar should keep her mouth and legs closed

[@Randy-md6xl]

Im sorry but Trigger isn't getting a man for a long term relationship as easily as the other ladies.

[@heirtothethrone000]

Trigger is triggering

[@elfromthabay1989]

​@@heirtothethrone000😂😂😂

[@Nigerian-born_American]

Damn lol

[@SpaceLikeAwareness]

But she is writing a book to help men.

[@nickc3250]

@@SpaceLikeAwarenessbest seller.

[@Cyber-Rain]

A lot of them think they are better than what they qualify for.

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

my father committed to my mother in a few weeks and they have been married for 53 years. Of course, they are African. lol my mother is 100% traditional even though she worked. both retired now.

[@emperorcesar8208]

Modern day women have a specific type of physical looks they want. They don’t care about his personality character and morals. I know of a girl who only date guys with dreads she is 40 & still dating dreads and still single. Dating in America to women is like a video game. Would encourage men to go overseas and find a woman who knows what she wants.

[@4577joshua]

spot on, i know a woman 40yrs old same thing, dread head/weed smokers only even though she dont smoke. multiple dudes just like that have been running through her since she was 16. she still single to this day, and have the nerve to ask what she cant find anyone.

[@emperorcesar8208]

@@4577joshua women have no reason to be single because they got sooooo much options nowadays and thanks to social media. The problem they got is misplaced priorities. They are attracted to the worse men in our community, strictly based on physical features and bad boy personality. I don’t feel sorry for them. I play their game and I always win.

[@johnlawful2272]

​​@@4577joshuayep they turn them down if 4 dudes try and 1 has the physical traits she looking for even if he has multiple baby mommas he still gets a chance.

[@TammyBlevins-u6h]

Oh no!!! Personally and character means everything to me!!!!!

[@MrDRKH20]

That is correct. If u are handsome and can pull women on a regular basis, they will drop all there morals if u an average man, u need the 666 rule and they can be overweight and a 2 but think they are a dime.

[@theotherside5865]

They don't really want a good man. If they did they would be with one. Ask yourself why Pookie and Ray Ray always has multiple woman.

[@Jazz313]

The are crazy for supporting the Democrats welfare state mindset ❤

[@elfromthabay1989]

💯💯💯👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽

[@steviemak10]

Because they have the low self esteem.

[@koreylr]

Abusive men always got a good woman

[@seanlewis1148]

Multiple women *

[@Mr.CalCal]

The problem I’ve had with dating wasn’t putting myself out there the problem was when I meet a woman they all did the same pattern. Starting off everything is going good and then next thing you know one day they switch up have a bad attitude or just don’t text back or wanna get on the phone. Then when I fall back they sit up there and blame me when it’s their fault. Had this happen to me yesterday. These women today don’t believe in putting in effort they think the men are supposed to do everything and they don’t have to do nothing. Then get random attitudes out of nowhere and expect you to sit there and deal with that. Now I’m at the point I don’t care about dating and marriage anymore. I love my single boring peaceful life. Especially with GOD there with me. So it is what it is.

[@MikeM-np4od]

Had the same experiences.

[@CobraR1993]

Same experience. Renting fun seems like the better deal now.

[@lonestarrk9308]

Why is trigger talking about the dating scene like she’s dating?

[@teresworrell7973]

Every time I see her I'm like not again.

[@aeubanks0]

Precisely!!

[@raisinbrand3663]

Who wants to date anyone who looks like lil cease and notorious big lol

[@TheprophetDJ]

😂😂😂😂

[@terrancegray5499]

As long as she is on the panel, the panel is ☠️

[@DRO4G]

Anton was right when he said they was jaded. To much I don’t need a man. To much experience. To much “finding myself” which basically means sleeping around. Giving your self to 10 different dudes then when you get to the 11th guy he gotta jump thru all these hoops to get a chick that can’t even give you all of her because a piece of her is gone with every previous dude shes been with. So you end up with a used Honda with over 150000 and the owner selling it for $30000 and looking at you like she giving you a discount 😂. Clown world. No to even mention that majority of them bring another man kid/kids to the table and want you to jump thru more to get her than the man that she let “shoot up the club”. Just a bad deal all around.

[@jwreckurtzspawnofdonthedon7376]

Couldn't had said it any better 😂😂😂

[@JayRob2161]

Trigger hate men with a passion , women like that are dangerous

[@curtbuckmire9194]

It's a coping mechanism. The men that she wants don't want her so to cope she can just get mad at them first before they can reject her.

[@uncannytheos2454]

Brainwashed to hate men an she doesnt know why

[@dprob1985]

Women w attitude is the #1 problem. #2 is their standards are too high. They'll be a 5 thinking theyre a 10 and want an 8+ man.

[@clippamarshallAtmosphereTv]

OnChuuchNem 💯

[@paidpal4]

It's interesting how women that say that they want good men NEVER speak on the improvements that they're making in their lives, in order to attract good men.

[@modernjosephus356]

Plenty of single men who wouldn't cheat but would be happy with just one woman.

[@johnlawful2272]

They want them to play step daddy and to get with whales

[@elfromthabay1989]

Factual

[@me1eye]

Facts!!!!

[@Dawgyjoe]

I am one of them.

[@DarkSacredSerpent823]

there is a huge jump between dating, and commitment. you can be looking for commitment, however, if getting to know a person, is rushed, you end up picking wrong anyway

[@AngeleAlAahnnAn]

My husband committ in a week we been happy bliss married 38yrs

[@Deejay-e2f]

Congratulations! I just celebrated my 36th anniversary three days ago.

[@heirtothethrone000]

We weren't dealing with some of this stuff we are dealing with today 38 yrs ago, but congrats on your 38 yrs.

[@InI_JemOfDaNile_InI]

Men want a Woman to be their peace

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

and modern women are everything BUT peace.

[@InI_JemOfDaNile_InI]

@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp agreed, most have lost their "natural" ways

[@Renzo_Renzy8op]

Ricardo Kaka wife left him cause he was too perfect! Even if a number of women get exactly what they’re asking for I think for a lot of them still won’t be enough!

[@truth_is_strongest]

Facts

[@DagenLucas]

My father told me, “always make sure you and your woman have issues weekly” I never understood till I started dating , never give a woman 💯.

[@markgillus99]

Everybody gets what they want in life. After you get it. And if you really want it or not is up to you. Women will get everything they want in the dating game. But they don’t want real love and commitment.

[@ejayemike6541]

Sadly a lot of these chix nowadays are overstimulated due to modern oversaturation and they run around like chickens with their heads cut off to find an unrealistic nonstop journey of excitement and feeling tingly butterflies. It's like they don't know how to adjust to many dudes who are just satisfied with peace and solitude in their spare time without all the extra unnecessary filler added to the mix.

[@johnlawful2272]

​@@markgillus99no life ain't Disney

[@Arrozconchopsticks]

Find a good man in polygyny 🤷🏽‍♂️ or stop ignoring good single men.

[@Ghostisback24444]

I have an interesting perspective on that. I think humans are better off like that I mean think about it when did one person complete another person. I always thought monogamy was a lie imo. It’s always I miss this person and that person and then you figure you fell in love with multiple people and just settled. I think that happens often.

[@mosl2te]

Many women live in their minds vs. reality.

[@dswynne]

Correction: "It's Too Hard Finding a Good Man That I Want..."

[@johnlawful2272]

Correct

[@Armychick]

That is so sad🥲

[@akbeatz5021]

And that wants them

[@TajeniV]

Bingo😂

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

"...and that wants me back". she can find the man she wants. give him the cookie and that guy will leave like all the rest.

[@stashinstackz]

It’s crazy how far we have fallen.. my next door neighbor told me how her and her husband met , they were getting ready to deploy in the navy, and went on one date. He proposed to her the night before they deployed. She said yes. They were married for 30+ years. He died a few years ago. She still talks about him to this day. You can absolutely find your person within a week. It’s all about real connections. Being your authentic self.

[@CobraR1993]

Those days are over. Dating/romance seem to have died in the late 1990s. Even if you want to date it's just too expensive to go out on dates let alone buy your first home when you're in debt with student loans.

[@raheembyrd6309]

Being stoic is a choice not an emotion, it's actively not allowing emotion to influence your reaction. It not the absence of emotion, it controling the outburst.

[@FindYah]

Bring people on the panel that show some sort of personal growth over time. Trigger is not moving forward and is consistently dragging the topic down with her lack of self awareness. Bad look for our community giving her the floor too much too. A walking stereotype

[@Go_Griff73]

They allow her to talk way too much. Way too much. And always over talking. Sometimes I think they feel sorry for her bcz she is facially challenged so they be polite and patient with her. They treat her like looks is a disability 😂

[@dandyjandon4231]

Huge red flag when you hear a woman say hard to find a good man especially if they are 28 and up. It is not hard to find good men, because society continues to run due to good men upholding the justice/law, services that keep your water and electric running.

[@thetraveler1182]

Trigger….aint nobody trying to take you no where. You don’t know what you’re talking about. I’m not even talking about esthetics I’m talking about that whole energy she seems VERY unpleasant to be around and her world view is horrible.

[@ellisperry6802]

Some women can never admit that sometimes it's the women causing the problem.

[@truthseekingfreethinker5214]

Women having being giving out box freely to men for the last 30 40 years with no real expectations. Then after the box has been beaten to eternity, now they want to set some unrealistic expectations, and somehow now its the mens fault that they act the way they do? What a crazy world.

[@steadmoney3431]

😂😂😂

[@BlackCondor88]

Plenty of good black men out there. They're too short, too light, too dark, doesn't make enough, makes more than you but wrong type of job(skilled trades, truck driver, etc), no degree, went to college but didn't pledge, went to college but pledged the wrong fraternity, etc. The ones who do fit the Keisha 30 point inspection are already taken, leaving the country, and/or reclusive.

[@deanbeamon2825]

You forgot one: Wrong astrology sign 😂

[@TajeniV]

Literally had a shorty I liked tell my homie that I was perfect I just wasnt tall enough🤦🏽‍♂️😑 Now that same shorty be asking my homie why I barely speak to her🥴😑

[@Lumpygrits76]

I fully understand that my senecio is not the norm these days. But I honestly knew by my 2nd date that I was going to marry my wife. And I married her within 6 months of our first date. $15 at the courthouse, a cheap gold ban for her from Walmart and a pinky nugget ring I already had that I had stretched for me that eventually broke and I had to get an actual wedding ban. I knew exactly what I found and didn’t hesitate to lock it in. Creeping up on 30 years later we’re empty nesters and out here trucking together through the week and playing with our grandson on the weekends. I knew I found a good woman and legitimate wife material. The fact that we also turned best friends was just icing on the cake. From less than $10,000 a year to start to building a million dollar house just outside Nashville. She still wears her Walmart gold ban and still refuses to take it off or upgrade it. Our daughter was also 1 week old the day my wife graduated from high school.

[@Lumpygrits76]

😂😂😂 On our 2nd date I didn’t realize that I still hadn’t even asked what her last name was. She asked “What’s my last name? Do you even know???”. I was stuck. She said “Wow. You can’t even remember my name.” She was setting there in my FoxBody mustang shaking her head. I just said the first thing that came to mind. Why bother remembering a last name I have every intention on changing? 😂😂😂 The deal was sealed. 😂😂😂 Stopped her in her tracks. She just got quiet. And the rest is history 😂😂😂

[@Lumpygrits76]

😂😂😂 Bvs. Any female who reads this all the way through. Just know that our son is looking and he’s looking for a potential wife and not a tap n go. And selfishly 😂😂😂 I want more grand babies to spoil rotten. Just let me know and I’ll line y’all up.

[@TammyBlevins-u6h]

Love your story!!!

[@prayerwarrior5554]

Beautiful story ❤

[@Tenno22]

They don’t WANT good men

[@Randy-md6xl]

I was seeing a woman from NY and she said I was too polite. I thought wtf! 😆 It didn't last long at all.

[@Deejay-e2f]

Oh so she was looking for a pookie, someone to dog her out. SMH

[@ladellmimms]

Wow 😅yeh these women made a whole argument about a man being too nice. I’m like what 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@benbeckmann6703]

These women are jokes, they can reject you because you did wear a pair of pants they didn't like for example

[@MikeM-np4od]

They look for reasons to reject you

They'll get pregnant in less than a week tho. @6:35 It was some time in middle school that I discovered you can do pretty much anything you want to, to women so long as you're THAT guy. Jamerius D'Squarious Jackson, held back 3 times, can grab Kiki's WHOLE CHEEKS, and she'll give him that "boyyyy stooooop" *blush* line.

[@Jazz313]

Incentive welfare

[@kidplayed]

I broke up with my Ex. She became a single baby mama in less than a YEAARRR after we broke up. Car smells like weed, dirty, life style degraded and no child support by a pookie, whose mother is a single BM by 5 guys. Her mom and sister are a reflection on her n the dude. All single BMs. You can't save these birds.

[@flashbang5075]

The casual date comes first. If you don't get a coffee date you sure as hell aren't going to get a long term relationship!

[@Dawgyjoe]

Facts

[@just_2swift]

I was told im not 6ft.... Im 5"11 😂

[@Go_Griff73]

I'm 5'11 too.. I just tell em that xtra inch went towards girth 😂

[@TheSub-SaharanAmericanLegend]

​@go_griff_go73 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Dawgyjoe]

@@Go_Griff73 😂

[@dolaopposite]

Apparently all of the women are just fantastic!

[@TammyBlevins-u6h]

Men sure aren’t!!

[@TammyBlevins-u6h]

No that’s not true but putting up with men is a nightmare!!!

[@charlieparker7159]

​@@TammyBlevins-u6h Who hurt you

[@shabba7829]

@@TammyBlevins-u6hThen be a lesbian

[@Dawgyjoe]

@@TammyBlevins-u6h I can say the same about women! Both sides are disappointing and need a reset button.

[@markmcgrew9012]

Too many crazy things going on out in this world 🌎

[@DreMedia81]

The one that is unattractive is the angriest

[@3390974]

Some men treat more attractive women better. I see it. With that being said. Fit feminine and friendly. You will get married

[@SpaceLikeAwareness]

Is that supposed to be some revelation. Men, not boys, will always treat someone they find attractive good unless that person has a terrible attitude. Being Fit, Friendly, and Feminine just amplifies that attraction.

[@Dawgyjoe]

Not me, I treat everyone the same 💯. I don’t put anyone over anybody

[@MomoTheDisciple]

@@Dawgyjoe no you don't. If you have two women of equal attraction and one has a bad attitude and 100 bodies you will not treat them the same.

[@Dawgyjoe]

@@MomoTheDisciple bruh you are making it more than it is, I solely speaking on an instance where there are two women who are regular nice people. If I am not attracted to one then I will treat her the same way as the one that I am attracted to. I’m not saying that I have a crush on the one that I am attracted to because that would be a different story. I am saying that I would treat them the same because that is who I am as a person. Of course I wouldn’t treat someone who treats me like shit the same way I treat someone who doesn’t, like c’mon dawg that’s common sense.

[@QZigZagg]

I have never in my life met ssoo many women that had trauma. It was either relationship trauma or childhood trauma. Over 80% of the women I’ve came across had some form of trauma issues unfortunately.

[@TammyBlevins-u6h]

Oh dear Lord!!! I’m sure you’ve had your share of drama but you just stuff it down but it comes out in other ways!!!!

[@albaptiste8691]

@@TammyBlevins-u6hyeah that’s none of y’all business tho and y’all jump to conclusions and start questioning niggas when all y’all gotta do is mind your business

[@danteprice1874]

Exactly

[@QZigZagg]

@@TammyBlevins-u6h drama or trauma? 😂. I’m guessing you may be a woman who suffer from trauma. And that’s perfectly fine, if you’re taking the steps to get help from your trauma. Most women I’ve seen have trauma & are not making it a priority to get help (pastoral counseling, professional counseling or therapy).

[@jrossofskb]

Trigger is trauma personified.

[@chicog24]

When I was single I the mid 200’s my generation took chances to approach women even if we might get rejected and if we did we moved on to the next woman. Today women communicate through dm’s and text messages that’s not communication when trying to get to know someone.

[@So_Oneal]

Pretty much these modern women's "preferences aka men that they like" were actually having their own preferences and in turn these women got the short end of the stick and are indeed jaded from their own choices in men.

[@jakesmith1273]

Trigger gives mouth hugs

[@phill5917]

Yup, she's one of them Last resort type of girls lol

[@jwreckurtzspawnofdonthedon7376]

​@phill5917 nah 😮

[@curtbuckmire9194]

@@phill5917 Sorry, but she is the last women on earth type of girls.

[@TheprophetDJ]

Quinton said don’t nobody want it 🤣🤣🤣. Q there is a difference between thirsty and down horrendous ain’t no man that thirsty

[@ronpointer708]

Anton was taking that talk this past podcast with much respect ladies a lot of women are in their own way.

[@airmaticv3]

The Trigger is not getting chosen by ANYONE … she looks a mess .. she has NOTHING to worry about

[@funny_thoughtprovoking5341]

She may not get married but her ideology is a cancer. She’s spreading that mindset to other women.

[@jwreckurtzspawnofdonthedon7376]

Facts

[@postmastersgt1670]

Why you think she so anti men she bitter af for a reason.

[@mr.dccomics9018]

Keisha only wants Pookie. Good Men get Used. That's the truth.

[@thinkfreely5178]

Trigger has the unaccountable, cheering in last place, victimhood mentality mindset.

[@schwanhumes323]

You can't ask for the best... If you're not at your best... That's the rule I have for men and women... Because there's a lot of men who say they want a certain caliber woman but they're not on their job either

[@ACE-Fast29]

That good man is coming with system, order, and structure. They would rather be alone or be with a bum and stay in the control seat. Plenty of good men, but its not plenty of good men that have zero expectations from the woman hes gonna be with.

[@martenw757]

¨these men have traumatized us¨ ... you mean the men you picked ...?

[@MsBird322]

Being sexually-sober is so important. The trauma that comes out of it is catastrophic. Too much hinged on a single encounter, because you’ve shared with too many.

[@plforeal4392]

When y'all let trigger go on and on I just fast forward

[@ulikemypodcast1683]

You can tell Trigger has NO LUCK with dating 😂😂😂😂

[@MomoTheDisciple]

Because no self-respecting man would be seen in public with her.

[@MIC_BROWN]

Mental health is real 🙏🏿

[@mrdacusthenavigator4989]

For most females, the guy that could have been their life partner slipped out of their hands for whatever reasons. How many men can relate to being ghosted by a female they liked, only to hear from them years later after going through drama by a man she got pregnant by?

[@jwreckurtzspawnofdonthedon7376]

Facts

[@jimmyrea779]

How do woman no about men so much but don't no about themselves

[@TammyBlevins-u6h]

Know

[@dblcrsa]

Every time I watch these shows, I appreciate my wife even more...

[@Zone_Intellects]

Trigger is 36. That woman talks like she’s drunk or high. Nobody’s looking at her and she knows it.

[@mohamedgoldstein5565]

Men quickly find where in the pecking order he stands. Women all think they are 10s

[@Koolassjayyy]

Blonde hair shortie got emotional damage 😮‍💨

[@goffsgetawaygardenhomestea5997]

Even the studs caught onto the finesse..

[@stinestizzlethegreat6887]

She lying, ain't nann Ninja checking for her

[@JustdaVibeMoore]

We as men need to take back society and stop all this bull shit

[@sovereignalpha5682]

Hmmm Trigger is TRIPPING

[@MsPrice-pn2py]

*I can🖐. It is good guys all around, they just terrified of this dating market*

[@BigOpp2024]

Women still have a better chance to find a good man than a man can find a good woman. Real ish

[@carolynwilli213x]

When yall started giving it up for a compliment 😂😂

[@aikenp]

They don't move towards this. They turn down coffee dates which is designed to talk more to each other and perfer fancy restaurants so they get a free meal

[@jakesmith1273]

Even if they got a good guy there’ll self sabotage anyway

[@Kuroyasha2099]

10:20 a healthy amount of skepticism is usually good. But it has to be the right skepticism. If you meet a guy and by default deem that he's a cheater like what Ms Arii described upon meeting her husband then that is blind pessimism. It's not skepticism driven by acute observations of interacting with the person in a meaningful way i.e. asking hard questions to determine compatibility, assessing his competence, assessing his work ethic etc. Instead, like Anton said they'll project past negative experiences to feed their confirmation bias. A broken clock is right twice a day, and your pessimism may have actually helped you at times so you think it's an effective strategy. However, it's also hurting you because you're passing on potential mates you have high compatibility with. I also believe this mentality dulls your analytical skills and critical thinking because you're not properly engaging your intellect to identify the subtleties of person's behavior and character. Alternatively some women go completely against their type in an attempt try something different but if they're STILL not using their critical thinking skills to identify the subtleties in behavior or asking the hard questions to determine his character and values they still may end up disappointed. A lot of women don't think they have to do any work in the mating dance. The man they want should just show up, be what she wants him to be and that's it. She doesn't want to approach, initiate a conversation, think, analyze, criticize, compromise, assess the tradeoffs etc. This is the 21st century you're all sovereign women with agency in the most zecksually liberated era, you have to be more proactive to get what you want.

[@brandanjordancomedy]

Trigger is going to die alone. She takes zero accountability and blames every single thing on men

[@HIMNESS1]

13:30 The Indoctrination in Trigger is depressing

[@mr.lenobaby]

I think in today's society..men and women are jaded..

[@Judah92]

You know it’s amazing seeing what women complain about what they not getting but they attract the complete opposite

[@benmacdhui]

He said Nigerian prince😂

[@karenwhitaker738]

I agree with the sister that's why The sisterhood is single because of the mindset is all skewed we need to get back to our femininity we need to lose some weight we need to be more friendly we need to stop being baby mamas we need to marry before we carry.

[@mccoymilli5569]

Crazy thing is , majority of women think like trigger , super sad

[@ByrdMan37]

Yes they do most of the women i shoot my shot at always had skepticism at first jump n then they use that trauma of getting hurt n cheated on n whatever n bring that into other relationships instead of fully healing

[@breadbutter8708]

Trigger is the problem

[@mrc3226]

Its not really woman job to find men but to attract or create a space for men to come. Because a woman energy is feminine not masculine

[@Self-improving72]

1000%

[@hardlessons9732]

There are more good men than good women. Let that sink in 👀

[@lakerfan8297]

Better to be a fool and say nothing then to speak and remove all doubt... "trigger" 🤦

[@Thaprince9]

I support you Anton. I don't know how you do it. Good job

[@g.v.fitmason1326]

Trigger will never let us Down😅😂😂😅.😊

[@Dr.Thomas_Elliot]

Never.

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

eternally damaged and will always say the damaged ish

[@BigRic126]

Cool show, I like how you throw a question out there. Them sit back and analyze the situation

[@thinkfreely5178]

These heffas today are finished… get ready for golden girls, cat ladies, dog ladies 2030-2050

[@Mact8891]

IslandGya said the key words, we (but I’m meaning everyone not just women) need to take ACCOUNTABILITY. Once that happens on a regular and be honest with ourself healing can really come and we can grow and move together. Until social media/ unrealistic expectations with nothing being reciprocated, and unwillingness to cooperate together with understanding will be the fate.

[@jjames9803]

Trigger, relationship 😂😂😂😂😂

[@destbestkings8590]

People are overthinking it. It's about maturity. You can physically be a grown man or woman. But still have the mind of a 15 year old. Let the world tell everybody is a good man and a good woman. So how do you separate who's who. Maturity. Is this man or woman mentally mature enough to to merge with another person's personality and coexist in one body as one. People enter relationships with vague intentions. So you're not in it for the person you're in it for what they can offer.

[@deebell7964]

She is just mad because she is not attractive.