How To Pursue Without Chasing & Make Her Find You DESIRABLE! | Apollonia Ponti

[@robert4you]

Always pursue a woman, never chase. Avoid desperation, just patiently wait for results. She already knows how you feel, she's not going anywhere. Relax. Mindset: _I do not chase, I attract. What belongs to me will come to me without hardship and without pain. What I attract will stay with me._

[@g.1260]

Thank you so much for your advice. It is exactly what I needed. I have been thinking similarly...be patient...look at the long-term, not the short term. Don't do anything foolish out of desperation and end all chances...give time the time. Hard to do, but may be the only option sometimes. Again, thank you!

[@jimh527]

How many phone numbers have you attracted? 😅

[@CHill-tj4gw]

Let me say this one more I’m a short guy chubby and women dig me not because I’m rich or handsome it’s because when you love yourself and happy with the person you are women love confidence

[@travisandrews3909]

I need to be rich

[@lawdawg194]

So true! Looks are usually third on a woman’s check list!

[@mightymagnificent3267]

Why are you on a dating sites on how to get a partner?

[@Ajax2696]

Confidence put in the simplest words. Thanks brother 🤙.

[@bbkingme8831]

Lies. Truth is some girls accept chubby little guys. But its a reason girls cheat on guys with money with guys you call ray ray and pookie. Ray ray n pookie are by nature more appealing to girls because they arent infatuated with the girl. They kno shes pretty and thats it. Ray ray knows she wants him even if hes broke. U want her to want u and it shows.

[@justinbrockwell8396]

@Apollonia thank you for your sound and accurate advice as always. Dudes, NEVER chase ANY woman. Be available, make your intentions clear, treat her well... but if she doesn't reciprocate then let her be. I believe it's all about heading in the same direction with a possible partner. If either of you have different ideas about what you want, or are unsure, it won't work long term. Know your worth!

[@prashanthb6521]

The days of pursuing women is over at least for me. I am happy !

[@williamlamontphotography4827]

2:20 I was stable, grounded, and happy. That's what attracted her. Then her behavior in the relationship shifted due to family issues, and now it flipped. My cortisol spiked due to stress and work, and the cycle got worse

[@Jimminityjabooboo]

Gotta hold frame brother

[@T1nes]

When devil sees your better and happy... he sends you a demon.

[@Elscorpio606]

Do what makes you happy on your own, and spend time with the people that makes you happy, never pursue or chase who you want. When you know who you truly are, you will find the right person. The right type of energy will attract the right persons in your life

[@ivanramos519]

you are one of the most sensible coaches out there... this advice is right on.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you so much Ivan xoxo

[@derekroh4785]

Thank you Appollonia. We should not be afraid to initiate, and also be human enough and serve you back her way. Make it natural.

[@dr.dijagonala2464]

Very useful information. Is only women have at least 20% of such awareness many problems would be gone. Lots of them lack accountability and being honest about themselves.

[@g-man3093]

For me allowing a women to show up for me happens as you make your initial encounters while looking for every opportunity to make small meaningful connections, both emotional and objective (i.e, lead a woman into her femininity), and this is how she begins to "show up for you." Then you begin to look at those times when she shows up for you and appreciate them as opportunities for her to express her confidence as someone who has an equal say in qualifying you. With many high value women it is very easy to worry about the pace being too slow, but often times these women especially are very intentional about the pace at which they show up for you. And as Apollonia has pointed out, women fall in love more slowly and qualify you more slowly, after you're convinced she is qualified. Just let her enjoy the process and don't stress. And remember also once there is real momentum, you still must test to see if what you thought was there actually is.

[@DK-ki2fh]

So it can take years for a woman to qualify you and fall in love with you? Because that's what it's sounding like based on your comment.

[@TomFox1]

@@DK-ki2fh Same. That’s not right. We qualify women.

[@parthi8996]

Thank you so much for all the content you make. After a hard break up, I watched a lot of your videos which really helped me process everything that happened and change a lot of things for the better 🙌🏽

[@ApolloniaPonti]

I'm so glad! Thanks so so much for letting me know.

[@parthi8996]

@@ApolloniaPonti of course!

[@kirbyd3185]

Always positive and beneficial information!

[@ApolloniaPonti]

I appreciate that!

[@travisandrews3909]

Yes she does

[@bsoul216]

I'll never chase no women I'd rather chase my goals

[@ChrizEofficial]

💯

[@countvespasian1659]

It's a shame not all women are as intelligent, open and communicative as Appallonia! Some great insights here, your points make perfect sense, it should be a bit of a dance... Men have to lead, but not be too over-bearing.. Very hard to get the right balance

[@patrickoconnor8774]

Great video. So clear and concise!!!!! You defined the different very well and also showed the mindset/motivation behind intention.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Glad it was helpful!

[@MrTheomighty1]

My Ex was watching the Tyson fury fight last night with friends and she sent me a text saying I miss you ALWAYS. I’ve just replied back to her to say if you miss me then show me don’t just say it …

[@TomFox1]

yea

[@cuttilo2122]

Update????

[@mara680]

At first I was happy, stable and grounded and she chased me. After she had me for good, she lost interest somehow and I started chasing which drove her even farther away. Its so difficult with women these days. Why are they so complicated not to say what they really want and need? Are they anxious of commitment or do they fear loosing alternatives or are they just flaky or or or....Its always like we men need to guess, its really frustrating...

[@sarahjolly2221]

Love your videos 👍

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thanks so much!

[@zlatnik82]

Helps a lot. Spot on

[@jiggyjames9237]

Remember you are always loved thanks for the advice bye for now... 👋🏾

[@tsering6580]

Thank you for ur openness..and advice when needed the most..

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thanks for being here with me. :-)

[@tsering6580]

I also like when you use such as conpassion for ur partners. Because we don't know what is going on in their life.we exaggerate the situation and make it worse ..and it's very difficult to be patient in such time.still I hope it's worth the effort 👌 in final.

[@ramoncampbell4419]

Love your content ❤️❤️❤️

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you so much!

[@thefnaffan2]

Very informative. I'm just now starting to date after losing my wife of an illness, we were together for 20 yrs. I'm so out of practice of the dating game with new women.

[@g.1260]

You've been through a heart wrenching experience...and you have grown. Wishing you all the best ahead...

[@RJN8580]

Thanks for the information

[@biplobpaul9073]

I love your content. Very informative. Excellent!

[@ApolloniaPonti]

I appreciate that! xoxo

[@4hinson777]

Lead a woman to release her femininity.🔥 Yeah, that's a title for boot camp 101! 🤣🤫👌🏽

[@Brookie408]

So beautiful Apollonia !!

[@deepsoulfulsounds]

Excellent info! Thanks!

[@davidleonardjrakujobi7609]

Thanks for the insight Apollonia

[@chrismcevoy2503]

I seek validation from women Apollonia I admit it.

[@emotionalmodels8463]

Emotional connection will always bring her eyes back to yours 😎😀

[@joeguilfoyle3120]

Hit it out the park as usual

[@DarynSmith955]

Too be honest during my dating life in the past woman was chasing and attracting to me i didn't had any standards back then because i was trying to figure out what i want or dont want i learned alot of that i didn't look at the red flags but nowadays I payed attention to the red flags and rebuilt myself sitll love myself and respect myself

[@emc2928]

thank you so much for the free Diamonds💎

[@Heyya01]

Im a politican and me and my gf broke up because of how controlling I am and acting like I own her and forcing a life where she would only depend on me at all times. Now I realized the more you try to control something, the more it falls apart. I hope its not too late. I want her back.

[@Bishop355]

Hi, could you do a quick video on seperation between longterm marriage? How The wife feels she needs seperation and how the husband feels he is losing her. Specifically when she says shes not sure how long she needs this. Yet is basically a ghost and the husband is doing everything she is asking for...just a quick video lol

[@cliffdariff74]

At what point does a woman "show up"...?

[@randystreetman3282]

You're a genius! 🙂

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you!

[@Brookie408]

Amazing !!

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you! Cheers!

[@jerimodel]

Hello Apollonia I wrote on contact from website to inquire about packages. Can I find out prices anywhere.

[@hawk4366]

Pursuing a woman is the fastest way to the friend zone

[@ApolloniaPonti]

You mean chasing

[@hawk4366]

@@ApolloniaPonti both have the same outcome

[@JT-gm4fk]

If anyone has to pursue another...that means one has their back turned. If two adults cannot form a friendship, have a normal conversation and be upfront with their intentions then neither should move forward.

[@rayromo7222]

You have great advise.. its has help me somewhat.. but still getting rejected and all.. think it's me.. don't feel I belong here anymore

[@strikefofficial]

Big vid 🙌

[@Watch_nolly]

Thanks ma'am 🥰

[@travisandrews3909]

Yes thank you mama

[@hodshonf]

"Also too"

[@andrewhilliard9360]

I gave token online gifts but didn’t really expect anything. But it’s weird I wonder if they like me or my level on the app.

[@kolton1688]

i signed up and paid the 600 and some dollars and received an email stating its processing..... its be several days now and and left a message to customer service wanting a refund but still no response. is this a joke or what?

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Hi Kolton, No absolutely not a joke. Maybe the coaching purchase did not go through. Can you please email us at [e-mail] right away so we can make sure we get this taken care of. We are here to help and def don't want you to be upset or discouraged. - Apollonia

[@kolton1688]

@@ApolloniaPonti okay thank you

[@kolton1688]

Thank you for clearing everything up. Apollonia ponti is someone i would definitely recommend for relationship heartache advice. thanks again.

[@carlosrolon3952]

Apollonia I have a question can a women be interested in a man and you will never know ?

[@alexanderanderson9805]

good morning how are you doing god blessed you shining star stay safe and positive #FEARLESSMODE

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you! You too!

[@MrHydevsDrJekyll]

Men do not chase. Everything I am hearing is wasting your energy into a space that will not return

[@archniki_]

My English level What is the difference between chase and pursue 😂 Now I will learn

[@ziongreen569]

But we live together and she dunb me and said because she has to work on herself she said she wants us together in the future but she said she not happy and need to work on herself but before she broke up with me her friends don't like me and was and still trying to set her up with another guy so don't know what to do

[@MOE13576]

Her friend are toxic

[@rayaneaoussar8040]

Hey,I was wondering: Should I pursue a girl who lost interest in me?

[@josephsaladi4001]

No

[@TheJRo]

Nope. On to the next one.

[@niidarko9115]

Noo

[@ddmusic3646]

Please i have a question i have been dating this lady a month now she is not showing any sign of seriousness and even told me straight forward i have to buy her gifts and spend money on her first please is she right or wrong ?

[@bobmorgan5636]

Get away from her. She just wants to take your money.

[@andrealouisabasile8529]

I’m a woman and I wouldn’t be okay with letting you buy me gifts and spend money like that… That’s ridiculous… That’s what she wants? She has it all wrong… oh boy that soul has some growing to do lol

[@Steve-ud9wl]

That’s wrong my guy you got too value yourself you don’t need to spend a girl because she wants too you should do it.

[@CyberBolls]

No. Just leave her. She’s using you, she’s not attracted to you.

[@jsmooth023]

Leave her be!!! If you got to buy her gifts and spend money IMMEDIATELY…she’s trying to use you. DUMP her

[@watamuholidaying]

PLEAE SE RECTIFY THE TITLE------ PURSUE NOT PURSE.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Haha thank you!

[@srinavin]

Thank you Mam

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Most welcome 😊

[@poet2181]

My wife filed for divorce but we still get intimate and she calls and txt. Seems like after we start getting close she pulls away I'm confused

[@cucovermillion369]

Let her go. Move on. Co dependency is toxic. She got what she wanted now it’s time to get yours. Work on self improvement you’ll be better for it

[@h8rmgnt144]

1:40 🤔🤔

[@ECO473]

So...when police officers go after criminals...DO THEY PURSUE OR DO THEY CHASE??? Hmmm...

[@TomFox1]

Chase yo a$$

[@jncyj]

I asked this girl at a coffee shop which muffin she would recomend, She told me double chocolate, i said that's too much chocolate, what's your 2nd choice she said most people like blueberry i said i'm not most people. She said there's carrott i said are there any raisins in it she said i'll have to ask, i said ok, she asked then came back said no raisins I said ok i'll take the carrott. She said anything else?I said yes, have you tried any of the muffins? She said ya the double chocolate, i said what did you think, she said it was ok. I said it was ok, not great? What was it missing to be great? She hands me the bag. She says are you flirting with me. I waited 2 seconds then i said no, i'm just being friendly. She looked at me for 2 seconds she said ok, then gave me a smile. I think she was reading me in the 2 seconds to see if i was true about the flirting question. Did I get her interested?

[@MOE13576]

Were you or were you not ?

[@chopstickfighter5776]

Apollonia, your message is good but I think your videos could use tighter scripting. You tend to ramble on a bit instead of being concise and your phrasing is often sloppy.

[@travisandrews3909]

I dont chase women i let them chase me

[@ApolloniaPonti]

🤦🏽‍♀️

[@lexes5061]

Hero😂

[@chrismcevoy2503]

I have Nice Guy Syndrome Apollonia.

[@TheHannibalTV]

👽

[@zamushodge4590]

Longtime u ain't write a quote

[@ApolloniaPonti]

I got some coming! :-)

[@ddmusic3646]

First here

[@mrporsche4236]

Modern western women should grow up and stop playing games. Men are fed up. Say this dont do this. Phone her now. Dont text her this. I am a 52 year old male when i was young i and alot of guys i know had thousands of women literally without any of this nonsense. Did what i want said what want called when i want never a problem

[@theone8187]

I watch few videos with you, first, i don't like your voice, second, you can talk like 1hr without shaying actually notting. How you do that?!

[@Stay_Loose407]

If you don't agree with her then you better call ya mamma

[@kc270352]

Pursuing and Chasing is the same thing

[@Mixmastermez]

No it's not

[@TomFox1]

❤️❤️🙏

[@strawbasket1]

You need a licence because your looks could kill! 😛

[@jimh527]

You'd better chase her phone number, or nothing's gonna happen. 😅

[@nubianwinner6758]

🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆

[@shadracpierre3456]

Never chase women

[@Anvita444]

lmfao. simp central. good luck with your channel

[@chevchelioz6663]

Stop simping guys! We are the price and have way more to offer than woman! Let then chase you

[@Tshego2000]

A lot of rambling, not a lot of practical advice and concrete differentiation between perusing and chasing.

[@bbkingme8831]

Pursue is the first word in the definition of chase. Its litterally the same thing but pursue is actually worse than chase. These coaches using weird words and phrases gotta stop. The funniest is high value man. Wtf kinda shit is that. By defult high value man isnt possible becuase that would mean any dude with miney is high value. Trust fund kids. Lottery winner who were on crack can all be high value. We need a new coach. A real pereon who dont use the same words and invent outcomes

[@theTimmer]

Don't "pursue" or chase. Attract. This video is gonna do more to fuck up guys than anything else. There are too many talking head wanna be infuencers on the web regurgitating information poorly and creating lousy content to build their brand. She's doing this because it's what men want to hear. Most men want a license to chase, so she's telling you what you want to hear and calling it "pursuing".