【Apple】MIL and SIL leech off my husband and me but when our son got COVID, my husband realized...

[@youmadhuh6375]

I'm sorry, but it's a NO for me... Jacob would've been an EX HUSBAND 2 months in.. he's giving his family large sums of money, taking out large sums of debt without even talking to his wife about it.. but expects her to help him pay it off. That is NOT how a marriage works

[@donnasilvio3974]

I heard him say he took out that loan & my immediate thought was "DEATH!" lol. My husband would be dead meat.

[@donnarupert4926]

@donnasilvio3974….My husband too!! It would be that new disease 🦠 “Death by Donna” 😂

[@donnasilvio3974]

@@donnarupert4926 DONNAS UNITE!!! We'll create our own "disease" & then still get life insurance to deal w that loan 🤣

[@sharonwoods3021]

Mine too

[@lindahill7315]

Never put yourself in financial difficulties to help your family because they will screw you over faster than a stranger

[@sarahbrooks1801]

Or friends!

[@defender4004]

I just realized how rude my Bank is. They never send me thank you notes for my loan payments.😂

[@samanthafairweather9186]

Same with my electric company when I pay the bill. Or my landlord. 🤣🤣🤣

[@shadowki5687]

Honestly, i'm suprised she let so much slide with him considering he's broken promises in the past, he's damn lucky his wife never divorced him

[@victoriadann4556]

You should totally use this fortuneteller as a recurring character!

[@Gazing-09]

Or those old ex CIA/hackers characters. If I remember correctly, there's this old man who enjoys fine whiskey and an old lady who worked as a spy or something like that.

[@donnarupert4926]

I’m 65 years old and NEVER heard of “nibblings” I guess I have a couple of them in their mid thirties🤷🏽‍♀️

[@dogstaraycliffe]

It's a replacement term for a Niece or Nephew that was coined sometimes in the early 1950s, credited to Samuel E. Martin, a professor of Far Eastern Linguistic at Yale University.

[@dragonfliesnh4204]

@@dogstaraycliffe Yes, you're right! It's making a comeback in many areas. I live this term so much and have started using it myself!

[@suewashere]

​@@dragonfliesnh4204I only heard niblings in the past year. I love it and use when talking about my nieces and nephews and great nieces and nephews. The nieces and nephews from my siblings. My niblings.

[@whistlerwind7422]

- 22:00 minute mark - Forget about saving him from himself, give him back to mommy. - Let a 75k loan slide? - I'll guarantee you, those balls are temporary. - This guy appears in these videos often enough to know that not just anyone can edit videos.

[@donnarupert4926]

MIL and SIL are both insufferable!!! Finally Jacob grew a pair!!

[@mleighqs]

I feel like the change should have happened right after the marriage, but better late than never.

[@tovelokiwifeodindottir9936]

It takes time for people to get out of that life long FOG of abuse, manipulation, programming, and Brain washing. Its not a switch that happens over a night/week/month or even a few years. It takes time and usually alot of Therapy is involved. Along with someone who TRUELY loves them and wants whats best and to see them become the best version of themselves.

[@dittymargoo]

@@tovelokiwifeodindottir9936 You are correct. Although, I've also had friends and family who have 'light bulb' moments when something just clicks. It may seem sudden, but their growing realisation of the truth has usually been building for some time.

[@LucyB34]

The end part made me laugh lol

[@jacquelinecallejas1390]

For a bit I thought the fortune teller was going to be a scammer but was surprised she wasn’t. Either that or ops mom told her what to say. Liked the story it was something different. I would have filed for divorce when he put the 75k in debt without discussing it . Glad he grew a brain and saw how predatory his family was before it was too late. What DID they do about picking up the kid with COVID?

[@christinefrench7530]

Loved the way this story ended❤

[@DoomPotato]

They want to get married but the guy uses emotional blackmail (you don't trust me) on an issue that is important to the relationship, i.e. basic means of supporting the family and he wants his mom to manage it? A giant red flag.

[@MichaelBrooksmsb400]

I would not allow my own Mother any control of my finances. May she rest in peace.

[@youmadhuh6375]

MARRIAGE is about partnership and building a life together. Keeping secrets such as finances from your partner is a marriage breaker.. Jacob is also a wimp. He allowed his mom & sister to walk all over him. But seem to grow balls when it comes to his wife... no ma'am, you can't make decisions like this without speaking to your spouse.. I would've felt disrespected.

[@ediamondsounds]

Wait a minute 😂 wth are ‘niblings?’ Reagan’s niece and nephew are niblings? Is niblings a nickname for that? lol so cute

[@annamoonc2175]

A nibling is hour sibling's child. Its a gender-neutral way of saying neices and nephews. Yes, it is an actual word.

[@dragonfliesnh4204]

It was first used in the 50's and starting to make a comeback. It's much easier than saying "nephew and niece" or referring to a sibling's unborn child that people don't know their gender.

[@kpopninja]

To all of you dissing the husband. Grow up. It's clear he's been financially and emotionally abused. Yes he fucked up but it clear it's because of the abuse that he fucked up. He grew and spine and realized what they have been doing to him. So why is he the bad guy in your eyes?

[@Orsonfoe]

My best guess is people know people like the husband in real life who never broke the cycle and suffered in one way or another for it.

[@sandylyle621]

I NEVER heard of anyone paying their parent cause they raised you .don't make any sense

[@alyssagentry9412]

I've heard so many stories of parents doing that nowadays

[@sandylyle621]

@alyssagentry9412 years ago this girl sued her parents for being born so I guess it's possible but insane

[@jacquelinecallejas1390]

@@alyssagentry9412I’ve never heard of it in real life, only in these stories. Of course that doesn’t mean abusive parents haven’t convinced their kids this is a thing but O would expect them to realize they’ve been taken when they grow up

[@alyssagentry9412]

@@jacquelinecallejas1390 not always, some parents can be so manipulative to their kids to the point the kids start to believe that it is the right thing to do. At least until someone points it out. There are so many stories on r/entitled parents about this.

[@crazycatlady6396]

How refreshing!

[@IncuBB]

Somehow i feel that this video must have a Part 2.

[@amberleeannalee1999]

He will obviously take her money when he runs out after paying his family. I wouldn’t marry him EVER

[@sharonwoods3021]

I met my husband in yr 2000. Got together in 2004 Got married in 2006 and still married to this day and we're still happy and living life the way we should our way

[@susanhansen1290]

Wow, In many areas in California houses are $500,000 to 1million plus.

[@donnalynch6845]

You had no right going too that family , servers you right Penny 🙄🥱🥱

[@amberleeannalee1999]

When ur married financially you should be honest with one another and I know that family has been leeching off him forever. Probably since high school first job. He should be honest with his fiancé and or wife

[@teddymanguerra]

What a mess!😂

[@lesleygreen273]

Pleased Jacob finally found his spine.

[@andream7873]

That cut off suddenly

[@ediamondsounds]

First thought as I’m listening. The topic of finances should be dealt with before marriage. However I would never combine finances ever before marriage. Neither trust each other, it is over. If he’s telling the truth he is a total momma’s boy. Him not dealing with his finances is a massive red flag. If he doesn’t break free of that immediately before marriage, they shouldn’t marry. Omgosh she went thru with the wedding oh boy The mil bad news already. I am pleasantly surprised he told her the truth about where his money in the past has gone. The in laws are leeches and the op will make a stand against the evil mil. The op is being very smart. Wth do they need 5k on top of his pension?! Omgosh the mil is sick. Ooh the op can cook😊 Oh no!!!! He bought her a nail salon?! Here we go doom and gloom I’d be done. He is a big baby

[@tricorvus2673]

:51 okay time to leave the relationship girl

[@Gah2Kylie]

"NIBLINGS"? LMAO 😂

[@dragonfliesnh4204]

It's real word, but hasn't been added to English dictionaries, yet. It was first used in the 50's and starting to make a comeback in many areas.

[@PrimeEnigma]

a child of your sibling (= brother or sister)

[@OridiusMorphius]

I would have given up on him a long time ago but she got it all sorted

[@bryzcrochet]

Kind of a strange story with the timeline, location and people talking just jump around with no explanation. Like staring a book on chapter 4.

[@Dd-sunshine68]

I think i would have walked away before the wedding

[@olly2027]

Why are you looking at his bank account.

[@clukecluke8316]

I get her concerns, but she is mad annoying. And she complains about his mom handling his money but demands to handle it herself?? And thr fortune teller visit was just sad. This guy needs to take some time to learn about life without his family & girlfriend.

[@LoveOnTheInsidex3]

No after that? What are niblings?

[@alyssagentry9412]

A child born from your brother/sister. Like nephew but spelt different

[@MaryanneN_]

siblings’ children are niblings

[@naoyukiogura5299]

They’ve been slipping up with the After That sections lately.

[@dragonfliesnh4204]

It's a term that was coined in the 50s and it means children of someone's sibling. It's starting to make a comeback in many areas.

[@helentoy8339]

on your bike mate, wedding is off.

[@renee176]

Never have I Ever heard the term "niblings".😂

[@PrimeEnigma]

a child of your sibling (= brother or sister)

[@daidersanto1867]

It's fine to help family in time of need. But if your family is in need all the time just giving money isn't going to help.

[@youmadhuh6375]

Is Jacob a little delayed?

[@nannamoates2518]

More like groomed to be an ATM for his mother. If you hear it all your life, it isn't even questioned until someone else asks questions.

[@Gah2Kylie]

The ending was a HUGE disappointment.

[@cathyb1273]

Big 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 at very beginning. His mommy is in charge of his money. Big nope.

[@cathyvickers9063]

Where do they live? Americans don't get paternity leave. Penny only got about 2 weeks maternity leave, after all!

[@annab4032]

Covid? Really? Give me a break. And why is the wife such a pushover?

[@ritasmith4042]

I'm not sure. I had Covid and would be wary as well. Could it have been a fall or similar ?

[@igi679]

First red flag no saveings second wants to take a loan on future house (home) that is a singes mo to get maried to such a porson.

[@damhnaitcockburn2970]

All parties in this story are awful people.

[@stonerbaby895]

Applaud to Jacob for finally having a backbone!

[@dragonfliesnh4204]

Yeah, that was refreshing and I loved that!

[@earthraindove2870]

Bye bye jacob

[@shaynellmesadieu]

no after that?

[@tmnthairbows3542]

Niblings?

[@edgarmatzinger9742]

Incomplete story....