Are Chinese Girls Easy?

Are relationships with Chinese women easy? Dating Chinese Girls? Wanting to get married? Watch this first...
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[@serpentza]

My wife's "Are Foreign Guys Easy?" video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/ep2ZgnaOe9qsn8k

[@UltimateMTB]

Hey Winston, I lover your videos! I just have a quick question, what are those random announcements you can hear in the background? You can hear them at 11:13 and in a few other places throughout the video, and I noticed it in an ADVchina video too... it sounds like random numbers, but I'm not sure because 我的中文不好 ;) 谢谢!

[@28ebdh3udnav]

serpentza your response should be: those guys that are easy are desperate.

[@trufflerodriguez239]

serpentza thank you so much that's why my friend from china told me about my dark skin I didn't understand before now I got the answer thanks to you..

[@mikhailadams3498]

I think your opinions are subjective.

[@jimmyjamesraynor6180]

Interesting perspective from a lady

[@BigGuy_Trades]

I love how people kept coming up to him asking what the video was for, and he had to think of something to say other than "Are Chinese girls easy?"

[@TINA-il6gr]

A lot of fun 😂😂

[@malster1239]

Same 🤣

[@jingzhang158]

假的吧兄弟 一看就安排的啊

[@walt_man]

Hahaha

[@HaneeFannee]

I think it has more to do with him not being able to say that he's making videos for KZbin - a platform that is illegal to access in China.

[@diagorosmelos3187]

I understand why he said hes from England instead of South Africa. He just avoided 20 minutes of interrogation of why hes not black, and also created a much smoother dialogue to get his answers. I spent two years in China and have had a few Chinese girlfriends. I can assure you they have a direct, almost childlike set of questions that would make any politically correct person cringe. Seeing some comments from idiots about him not saying his origins means they haven't lived in china... don't have any Chinese friends... or watched his video about the open racism in china.

[@bjk6574]

True, plus he has stated in other videos before and had to go through the explanation why he’s not black. I’m sure he doesn’t want to waste film time on this

[@barringtonsmith9147]

you call that wisdom

[@nhunka44]

Do you think it's a cultural norm in China to ask impolite questions or there's just so many poorly cultured people? I have heard some arguments that the Cultural Revolution killed the educated, well mannered intelligentsia of China, and eventually farm folk with no knowledge of etiquette moved en masse to cities, bringing their poor manners and habits with them. For example, in Vietnam most people cut the line, but others still get annoyed when that happens (which indicates that it is not okay to cut the line). Also, most people will smack their lips and slurp when eating. However, the highly educated families in Vietnam I have encountered do not do those things.

[@bjk6574]

nhunka44 Generally, I believe it’s cultural. My wife from China along with friends and family never think about asking questions that to our western culture seem out of place or personal. I found it a little unnerving at first. But in the scheme of things it really isn’t a big deal😀

[@aghatalal4828]

I thought the same thing.

[@Coffeebourne]

I absolutely love when your filming gets interrupted. It is fascinating.

[@JordanJank]

Those people were probably chinese government spies...

[@lanj131]

@@JordanJankLOL What r u talking🤣请你不要搞笑了好吗？

[@aoxueyang2801]

@@JordanJank 哈哈哈哈少看小说电影，多出门走走

[@samrad6508]

@@JordanJank I wouldn't be surprised if that was the case

[@raimonestanol8234]

That girl bumping on somebody carrying boxes at 14:05 tho xD

[@HowslyOfficial]

White guy in a suit: exists Chinese Women: England is your city!

[@fen4554]

"Are Chinese girls easy?" *proceeds to get hit on multiple times*

[@davidndiulor8428]

*When you think getting talked to = getting hit on*

[@ssh83]

First girl said "you're handsome." Second girl throws her self at him. Their faces 100% flustered. Did you watch the video?

[@davidndiulor8428]

Seens like a regular (platonic) video to me.

[@coolbuddydude1]

I think they thought he was some kind of celebrity.

[@Ragniirox]

They were saying that he was handsome then looking to each other and laughing whenever he talked to them. Clearly they thought he was a handsome alpha male and they were testing the waters with him.

[@stockjonebills]

I love how you stopped and talked with people that interrupted. You were being very kind.

[@dandosapershing6103]

One and Only haha

[@RonanAquilius]

lol he didn't cut it out because he knows it proves his point about the video

[@alexanderasadullah5253]

Yes, that shows he is actually a very good person.

[@AlexanderPews]

GENTLEMEN

[@TheSpiceAndRice]

@One and Only I WAS THINKING THE SAME LOL

[@Stanford_iDATA]

Q: How to find a easy Chinese girl? A: Being a white, make a film on the street of Shenzhen.

[@followedtodeath5850]

Makes sense.

[@aliteralpieceofbread3373]

Unfortunately I’m brown

[@aliteralpieceofbread3373]

So when I grow up I might just leave Hong Kong

[@TW0man4RMY]

Try wearing suits everywhere. 😎😎

[@Craziecat70]

@@aliteralpieceofbread3373 haha dpeneds how brown you are

[@Paskovitchz]

I love how you didn't dare tell them the real video you are making haha. I don't blame you!

[@user-ti9bx1ux3p]

Should be honest

[@TampaTec]

Chinese people love being on cam. Winston you are cool and have patience with people intrupting your videos. Liked

[@ThierryC2373]

I did not hear anything rude at all!

[@RansomMemoryAccess]

It's more like they are very curious about foreigners than necessarily being on camera. I found their open curiosity endearing.

[@BebeTechManiac-fu4wu]

Jay I think you like that, and was the only thing you could write about. Go... keep watching your porns. Is my opinion that his videos are truth of life in China. My respect to people that are respectful, and to the good people in China.

[@BebeTechManiac-fu4wu]

Jay OK, is good to learn. Tu... Aprende a ser educado con los demás, aprende español.

[@LorenzoJimenez]

One of a kind youtuber who is more interested in the people and culture that the video. Kudos for him.

[@bobs5624]

My wife is Chinese, and we just celebrated our 14th wedding anniversary. You are correct that the cultural differences never go away. But we have learned to enjoy those differences! The only real exception is ‘humor’. As exemplified in your video, they laugh easily, but will never understand Western (or American) humor, such as sarcasm or ‘kernel of truth’ comedy. It has been a bit stifling over the years, but it’s truly funny how comedy is simply beyond their cultural grasp. 😜 Love conquers all! (except American humor)

[@DTMC00]

Interesting to see this - my wife is chinese and she is damn funny. She totally gets sarcasm and everything. But I do think kernal of truth humor is lost on her... We have only been married a short time, but maybe being from the internet generation makes a difference. Anyways, thanks for sharing your experience. Cheers!

[@brennendehexe7934]

dude i know white women who cant get/take a joke so.....dont expect to be ranting and rambling as with your buddies when youre talking to a lady....

[@simontmn]

Just met a Chinese woman in London, yes humour is proving to be an issue 😅

[@BillAnt]

Culturally they are lacking western humor, however if one if brought up with some interest of the west over the internet, they are more likely to get it.

[@simontmn]

@@BillAnt I'm dating a Chinese lady now, from HK but I don't even try with the jokes any more 😄

[@KonorDraven]

Love the openness of your videos and how in real time we get to see the interactions with natives.

[@pjsama]

Man your patience level is over the boards. And the last part was quite hilarious. Stay safe where you are and stay awesome! ♪

[@keithmasumoto9698]

i really enjoyed the candid interviews with people on the street. please consider doing more of those.

[@saffron1006]

Yeah, interviews would be awesome!

[@arcaneluis]

+serpentza, is it the man trap?

[@mrsnailzzz]

it's really awkward...

[@saffron1006]

+Taras MrSnailz you're right lol. but he was caught off guard when he was talking to those people. I bet if he made a real video where he interviews people it wouldn't be awkward because he would be prepared and he could speak in Chinese and just add subtitles, so it would go much more smoothly

[@mrsnailzzz]

+Nieidealny świat you understand that the conversation he had with those girls is happening every time. So in order to interview 20 people, hell have to talk about "where are you from", "what are you doing here","how long have you been here", "your Chinese is really good","how much money do you make" and so on. I feel sorry for him

[@AronPowa96]

Good job on being loyal Winston, thanks god our society has people like you. That is the base value for any relationship to work.

[@12kenbutsuri]

This is completely opposite from Japan. An average Japanese person would never want a relationship with a foreigner lol although, white skinned Japanese is preferred for the same reason there in China.

[@12kenbutsuri]

@Username No, it is extreme rare to see mixed couples in Japan. I don't know about Korea. I did hear the culture is somewhat similar to Japan, but with a slight mainland vibe.

[@12kenbutsuri]

@Username good point.

[@Hideyoshi1991]

From what I understand if you know Japanese it'll be a lot easier, as with everything simply being nice will go a long way

[@MrBluejfo5]

Idk I was stationed there for three years 2016-2019 and it was not too hard to find a relationship

[@CUBEOFSIX]

I’ve dated several Japanese girls, and I’m just a European white dude.

[@IvexRodriguez]

Makes a video "are chinese girls easy?" Gets chance to score multiple chinese girls on camera LOL.

[@andrewfraser3343]

good to see the copy and paste is working

[@Darkerxz]

He's a married gentleman

[@surajbhat5447]

Andrew Fraser I like to think he has a text file that he saves for whenever he feels triggered.

[@andrewfraser3343]

he will

[@hectorlewis2464]

They ugly as fuck though...

[@mingju776]

Again, I am from China and I can tell that what Winston says is very real. Like in America, oftentimes people ask me if a local Chinese restaurant offers authentic Chinese food, I can tell them if it's authentic. These videos are really informative even for a native Chinese like me who want to revisit the social and cultural nuisance in China. Keep up!!!

[@serpentza]

+Ming Ju Thank you! So glad you like the videos

[@MatthewMin]

真没想到这有中国人😀你是哪里人

[@randymarsh9487]

lets chat about it sometime..

[@schecterdiamond177]

I love the late 80s early 90s aesthetic of your videos, like with the music and the video tape that reads stay awesome. Truly awesome.

[@shaneclee5512]

That's one thing that I really loved about my few weeks in China around the World Roller Games in Nanjing, the open friendliness of the ordinary person in the street, the innocent curiosity about you personally, and their willingness to hear about where you come from and what it's like, from totally random situations or for no reason at all. I felt a certain sense of safety, as everyone seemed to be just so chilled and friendly everywhere, even away from the Roller Games. My 13 year old daughter and myself went as the support squad for the Australian Roller Hockey Team and had the same event guides and security guys at the venue for the 11 days. After getting to know them in the initial few days, each time we turned up to the venue, we were offered gifts from all of them, thanking us for coming. Nothing big at all, however what they did give was personally from them and hand made the previous evening, from having taken the time to speak to them that day. My daughter had a massive following, and we have some awesome pictures of her and the staff (Unpaid Uni students forced to work at the games during the study break.) including her being surrounded by 4 huge armed to the teeth security guards that absolutely adored her, in a nice way that wasn't creepy at all, it was genuinely nice. There was a feel and a vibe that I loved with the ordinary people in the street, however, there were some glitches in the Matrix that I saw and felt after leaving Nanjing. It wasn't so nice anymore, and in Shangdi, it was 'get me the hell out of here!' The locals seemed so depressed and miserable. So much so, I could pick the Chinese tourists from the locals. I've worked with a lot of Chinese students and totally get England not SA. They would be so interested to hear all about SA, you'd never get back on point. :) They are a very naive, humble, subservient people for the most part, I believe as a result of being oppressed in one way or another for 1,000's of years under the dynasties, the concession periods and now more recently the CCP. Please correctly me if I'm wrong, they've never really been able to have a crack at being a truely free people, always under the thumb of the few.

[@Renwoxing13]

⚫️Explain to me you “glitches in the matrix”! 🖤I am sincerely interested, and would like to request that you illustrate for me what it is you mean exactly!!!‼️‼️‼️💯💯🖤

[@tsts3174]

You are very hypocritical.

[@user-gb3jv7lm3v]

I need to clarify that: Different culture, different mind And the understanding of freedom varies to different people, I understand you r standing at your point to speak that, it's normal you wouldn't know the truth deep inside.

[@dannyocean7090]

Shiiiit! My boy can't even do his video with all these Chinese babes hitting on him! Gotta go to China next vacay and pull a camera out like I'm doin the news!

[@timothylee8597]

what babes?

[@yeweiwang3878]

傻逼

[@timothylee8597]

dont hate the truth

[@user-ik6sg6ws7w]

Twat F off

[@willmoua1]

You're too ugly

[@wlan246]

Strictly speaking, the Chinese cultural preference for lighter skin pigment is classism, not racism.

[@wolfwald4690]

probably this is what chinese tell you, it is classism not racism, because classism sounds less rude, but is it really so?

[@wlan246]

No: This is what my reasoning tells me, because the origin of this preference had nothing to do with race: it was a preference for Chinese people with lighter skin, over Chinese people with darker skin. That other people from other parts of the world have lighter or darker skin was irrelevant. It is unfortunate that this cultural bias now causes them to look more favorably on a Northern European ditch-digger than on a Sub-Saharan African business executive. But it has nothing to do with their ethnic backgrounds.

[@wolfwald4690]

wlan2 so it is only about skin, not facial features, body proportions, head sizes etc.?

[@wlan246]

As I understand it, that's how it started, back when the only people in China were Chinese. Most people with tanned skin were poor outdoor laborers, and most people with paler skin were the well-to-do who paid others to work. If you want your son/daughter to marry well, you'd give preference to the ones who looked like they were financially well off, over the ones who looked like ditch-diggers.

[@wolfwald4690]

wlan2 so what if they looked like now like a sun burned richard branson?

[@dougmurphy1777]

I wouldn't say I've travelled Asia extensively (I've never been to China), but I have travelled to the continent multiple times and visited a few different countries - but I have never encountered as much curiosity toward foreigners as I saw in this short video! In my experience, usually the only people who go out of their way to strike up a conversation with you are scammers.

[@jessejames7757]

Dude if you have enough money 99% of all girls are easy.

[@celticwind4122]

"I teach doctors" tell that to any girl and her interest sky rockets lol

[@Reth_Hard]

I'm curious about sexual education in China, what are they being teach and at what age... And like what are they considering acceptable or not acceptable about sex. For example, I know pornography is illegal in China, so I guess there is probably many other differences like this.

[@xaviergarrido04]

@@Reth_Hard As well as prostitution is illegal but it is full of it. However as he said, you can find some on every corner.

[@user-ti9bx1ux3p]

Liar 🤣

[@worldaviation4k]

I prefer the word friendly rather than the word easy.

[@serpentza]

Me too

[@worldaviation4k]

+serpentza I just arrived in Hong kong, staying in a hostel is a great way to make Chinese friends. Hong Kong can be 50/50 but on this trip I asked a business guy for directions out of Olympic station and talked to him a little and then after he even wanted to give me his umbrella as it was a typhoon and because I mentioned about walking to another place because it's quicker than changing at central

[@arcaneluis]

Serpentza

[@originalideas9617]

not as easy as the places having US base

[@sharkbaby4860]

you r so damn clever!!!

[@supersaiyangoku3580]

As a Chinese person watching this, everything you say I agreed and is a fact. Awesome

[@iceyg012]

yesss im crying（but im not that kind of person

[@user-zp7pb8yc7e]

And i guess you are a chinese man,lol

[@somerandomguy7068]

Although I doubt you're Chinese, I can't imagine being this cucked

[@justdoit4789]

@@somerandomguy7068 what do you mean? please elaborate.

[@ayylmao2190]

@@somerandomguy7068 There are over 1 billion of them dawg, a drop of oil in the ocean doesnt make it black lololol

[@KaptainKKD]

Thank you for even saying that the title of your video can be misleading. I've watched your other videos so I know you're a decent and faithful guy, but even so, I was prepared to be upset because I'm sure a video with this title would attract the sickos wanting to know where to go for sex tourism, and if not careful, could be a hub for misunderstanding and the promotion of creepy men to go to China. Kudos for all the clarification you did at the end of the video. Not every KZbinr makes their videos with due diligence for respect and precaution, especially when talking about other people's cultures.

[@jandersen6802]

He condemns cheating, yet lies straight to peoples faces. Are you a cheater too, since you are projecting your virtuous morals like that?

[@allenhaywood9608]

are you kidding? its' a straightforward title and who the fuck would go to china to get laid? if you are that creepy you can just buy a chinese girl and have her shipped to you in a box with a few holes

[@beastydude123]

If only the news outlets were as honest and informative as this man, the world would be a better place.

[@ThanatosXIII0]

"how easy are chinese girls?" picks up a girl who is with her bf

[@dowskivisionmagicaloracle8593]

5:45 His point gets made AS he's making the video. Ha ha ha!

[@andresmith760]

@@dowskivisionmagicaloracle8593 LOL, yeah. This makes me think about the multiple videos on youtube where they go to china (or any asian country for that matter) and ask the women what they think of western("western" being code word for white) men. The most common answer is that they thought that white men were hot. Some even going so far as saying that they thought that white men were hotter than chinese/Japanese/Korean men (depending on where the interviewers asked the question). In the comment sections of these videos, you'll always see something along the lines of "relax, weebs. They're talking about men like Brad Pitt." Seeing this video, they clearly are talking about the average white guy.

[@hedgefund1844]

Twice. This man is ON IT!

[@lupreztryson]

This guy was cleaning up

[@lloyddavidson3736]

It was really fun watching your interaction with people who had questions for you!

[@cornman8252]

Winston you're a genius. I'm SUPER glad you did this on the street

[@tsamplifiers6493]

All girls are easy when you have something that they want......

[@vitas75]

When you have money*

[@tjyoung6611]

James Russell in your dream

[@yifeitan2482]

it is true

[@eliza1826]

@@vitas75 more like white man for them is enough.

[@eliza1826]

Try this in other countries then.

[@ak6781fan]

I really enjoyed and respected how polite and respectful you were to all of the people who came up to talk to you.

[@Chanesmyname]

It is so interesting to get a fair view of China, we hear so much that is just not true about it. Thanks, I stumbled across your channel looking at cons around the world. Subscribed!

[@johnkarls2132]

I am 55 and worldly in my opinion!!! You guys put out some fantastic video's that would have done me a world of good back in my early 20's!!!! I learned the hard way.....lol

[@manatwork7799]

In 16 minutes 3 girls came up to Winston. Damn.

[@traveltime5358]

+ManAtWork All the ugly ones. Girls who wear glasses don't make passes.

[@ibrahimkendirci3268]

Travel Time 53 i see super hot chinese girl with avarage looking foreign even i see super hot chinese girl with african guys from mali if you dont believe me give me your instagram i show you dude not be jealous, jealoust person not Will happy

[@yyohan1473]

Travel Time 53 This is why majority of girls wear makeup

[@Mousy]

boi I went to china 2 times, this year and last year and holy fuck some girls are hot af and a lot of them wear round shaped glasses and man that is sexy. Thank you

[@ibrahimkendirci3268]

傻逼 fuck of she has a 60k chinese follower on Instagram

[@bennartey3409]

There is something cool and very composed about serpentza. Boss level

[@SuperBartles]

I noticed that several videos ago. It's not something you often see to that level.

[@kammykwok2888]

😃🙏 Thank you very much 🌸❤️ SerpentZa 💕 Sasha 👍🏽. You videos are not only Awesome but GENUINE 👍🏽. We love all your videos about China,Taiwan,Vietnam etc..........keep up with your good work. Thanks again 🙏❤️

[@brianruane8505]

Really wonderful and enlightening video..!! Excellent presentation..!!! KEEP MAKING THEM..!!!

[@c.edwards1814]

Man, you handled that well. Nearly 2 decades in rural Japan wore me down, but midway through, I began asking a similar question for every question asked of me (the usual top 5: country, job, wife, kids, how long . . . .). The questioning would usually stop when I started inquiring about their work, where they work and what uni they went to . . . . Most people did it out of innocent curiosity, but (usually) middle-aged men had a chip on their shoulder toward foreigners, and they had to pay for information with information; they didn't like that.

[@GruffGames]

"Are Chinese Girls Easy?" What a sexist title for a vi.... Oh nevermind, my bad. Chinese girls are literally stopping in the street to flirt with him haha

[@xijieqin8910]

Gruff Games they are trying to practice English

[@gaoxiaen1]

@@xijieqin8910 That's often the case.

[@InnocenceExperience]

he really is handsome so it might be easier for him as an individual than the average foreigner.

[@andywu8558]

Is not that they are easy. The correct term is "friendly"

[@kako7147]

They are trying to practice English. Same thing happen in Japan, but most of them will be children and guys.

[@zanonirodriguez5687]

My respects, everything you said was confirmed with facts, the best part is we are learning how China culture is, thanks!!!

[@carbonEYE007]

Your channel is one of the best on KZbin. I commend your work Winston, you do a fantastic job of bridging the cultural gap

[@marks2807]

I kind of knew the way Chinese look at skin already. I have a little sister my family adopted from china, and she likes to stay tan. Chinese people have told us that you can tell she is Americanized for this reason. A girl from China would avoid the sun, and try to stay as pale as they can.

[@kimpliny]

I'm actually pretty amazed at how well you know about Chinese and China.. . I'm Chinese from Hong Kong and one of the main reasons for me to subscribe your channel is that I'm curious to see how accurate on what your say.. . Yes, you are real!:). In fact, I have seen more than I know about China from your videos.. . Great videos!!!

[@serpentza]

Thanks mate!

[@davidecapps65]

Dude, you’re a rock star.

[@dowskivisionmagicaloracle8593]

5:45 His point gets made AS he's making the video. Epic!

[@REVIEW_JUJUR]

I'm brown, My Ex Girl Friends are chinese, my wife is chinese, and my phone is Chinese...

[@jambomambo3808]

OokTiaopi lol for the phone

[@GravaticBurst]

He likes fine china XD

[@REVIEW_JUJUR]

i think chinese girl is very beautiful...

[@NJ-wb1cz]

OokTiaopi I bet your phone is cheating on you with a white man

[@chiefenumclaw7960]

OokTiaopi your phone is racist.

[@bicyclesummer9284]

I love how genuine your videos are

[@nielknox]

Thank you Mr. Winston!

[@tusharvatsa5293]

You mean i am a labourer. I thought i looked good. You made me upset, haha! Love from India

[@michaelhyre5332]

I love your honesty.

[@jacquibillson597]

Chinese don’t know about SA so normally we just say America or england

[@sophiaelizabethclark]

@pegan farm "I could have just chatted those girls up and taken it further... but of course I'm not interested in that kind of thing". Scratches his ear. Haha

[@rehabwales]

I don't know. He did tell that girl he trains doctors and he said medical. I think he trained them in English. He also said he was English. He's from South Africa. I know he does this to save time as he gets those questions a lot and it's just easier to go with what they assume.

[@RayoSombrio78]

They are easy....if you earn a high salary. if don't, you are out.

[@lionelhutz5137]

Be white, be tall, be handsome *drops mic*

[@FXFXFXFX]

Lionel Hutz none of that matters without cash

[@altalio5383]

most prefer be asian, be tall, be handsome,

[@infanterui]

if u earn a high salary, all girls are easy

[@deduzz]

Exactly, look at trump. Ugly af but hot wife. even talks about how he would date his own daughter.... ew.

[@ty2124]

Nice one buddy, thank you and God bless you and yours.

[@ricosuave7102]

This thumbnail cracks me up. It looks like a game show.

[@raulmontano3310]

Lol was that girl with a boyfriend trying to smash him while with her boyfriend???

[@daschund7680]

Raul Montano they are really that cheap because they need to marry a white or better featured man so their kids don't have to do plastic surgery

[@trevorwang7201]

You need to know that after 100 years's humiliation from 1840 to 1949, countless Chinese people had lost their beief and prid, and from 1950 to recent years most Chinese people are still suffering from the poverty. I admit that many Chinese people are not so confident when facing white people, and some Chinese people alway degrade themselves when facing you, that's just because your western civilization and wetstern countries have been far more advanced, far more powerful and far richer than us for many decades. However the good news is that we China is becoming more and more richer and powerful, and we Chinese people are moving steadiy to our bright future. I firmly believe that my country will never be backwar and poor, and sooner or later all the Chinese people will live more confidently and more colorfully.

[@RagbagMcShag]

Shut the fuck up hazel you spread your hate speech all over this comment section

[@hongkunzeng1230]

She was just asking him some question.

[@Artdeepmind]

No need to be rude. Calling someone ugly is pretty dumb, especially with anime avatar.

[@musicmugger666]

I like this guy. His no holds barred, and honest unbiased way of presenting his broadcasts is very refreshing. It’s a shame MSM don’t take a leaf out of his book. Well done Winston, great work, keep it up.

[@kundaigotore992]

You guys expect so much from MSM. It’s MSM for a reason, it’s supposed to be not be offensive.

[@V4Now]

It's always MSM with you people, just say western media, so you think the Breitbarts of the world have a higher standard? I bet you think Rupert Murdoch was a benefit to news publication? Geez, you're so transparent with your own bias and unaware of your hypocrisy. It's all bad.

[@urmantaqi3253]

Very informative video. Your videos are amazing.Thanks much.

[@Ryndika]

thank you so much leaving photo-bombers at 2m mark. That interaction was awesome

[@shmookins]

OMG, you blew my mind with that and now I understand the weird stuff that was happening when I was seeing a Chinese girl a decade ago. A couple of months in she was asking (repeatedly) to get married and she was checking my phone (the mistrust thing you mention). I found out she was checking my phone when she angrily questioned me about a picture of a woman I was with in a photo (a relative of mine). It was so odd to me that someone I only met a couple of months ago was giving me all this drama. Now, thanks to your video, I understand why. We say 'different cultures' but we don't really know until we learn what are the differences.

[@CombateArmsOndraya]

I think the question is more are foreign men easy?

[@samuelepicurus8456]

*Psst* Boys and girls are different. Men are expected to pursue women. Women are supposed to be choosy. Thus in the game of sex most men are "easy."

[@CombateArmsOndraya]

Samuel Epicurus Nope, that was the game in the 80s maybe but using the Dominant Strategy we have seen the light. It's a whole new game now

[@samuelepicurus8456]

Ondraya *Psst* you don't change genetics via wishing it is different. You have to understand evolution to see why in humans women being promiscuous is obviously going to be seen as a bad thing.

[@CombateArmsOndraya]

Samuel Epicurus We are beyond evolution, WE control ourselves and our future. We go against human nature every single day, why would this be different? There is a reason why would brain is so much more advanced and that's so we can defy the primitive piece of meat plaguing us. I can make a case for it to go with human evolution too, if you want.

[@CombateArmsOndraya]

Samuel Epicurus I have sexual urges and if I so choose to (if I was single) I would go find someone I see as attractive and hook up. I still see people as attractive or not. The Gender thing... I have only had one BF and I'm going to keep it that way; I much prefer women You have built a strawman making an argument I never made. And as such until you come back into reality and discuss my argument that I (not YOU) am making there is nothing to talk about.

[@spacevoyager7410]

You have immense interpersonal etiquette. Impressed!

[@samuelmerchante1187]

Thank you so much for your wonderful video, people of China are very sweet and kind at heart. at least the common ones.

[@harrypot9000]

That couple was the cutest racist couple I've ever seen.

[@sweet-melody3609]

harry pot 😂😂

[@Sreven199]

At least they're honest XD

[@sweet-melody3609]

Jordan Belfort Tf? U triggered or some shit? U just mad cz u have no life bruh

[@sweet-melody3609]

Jordan Belfort boi don't start more racism in these comments.

[@sweet-melody3609]

Jordan Belfort u mad annoying. Ur the one that decided to respond to my comment so fuck off. I ain't even gonna reply anymore.

[@truthseeker000000]

So nice to see that you didn't edit all the friendly distractions you encountered. You are absolutely right about Chinese women and even Chinese men liking fair-skinned partners. It is the same in most of Asia, even in Taiwan, Hong Kong, Singapore, Japan, South Korea and India. I like your videos!

[@MarkisCouch_1WhatJustHappened]

Interesting! Informative! Thanks

[@achuang582]

Thank you for very clear facts about Chinese girls and Chinese culture!! I'm totally appreciate that!!!

[@nykolazjoya]

My man! You such a calm person! wow... I will be so pissed, and I feel I could be more calm like you bro. Ive just started watching ur videos (started with the scams ones) and I like the way u live there, it really talks about how much u really appreciate Chinese culture. Cool videos.

[@Pressed_For_Time]

Finally, a KZbinr out there asking the important questions..

[@richsmith3300]

You recon Whos more hansome a black or white man.ok.

[@SuperDrJeckyl]

I'm getting me a video camera and going to China! I am always amazed how many just walk up and start talking while you are filming.

[@michaelking9818]

Another great video

[@danielnicolas69]

My red hair freckled friend went to China with my school and people would buy him food and stuff.

[@huabitao6556]

They are so friendly but you don’t deserve ,you just laugh at their kindness.damn it

[@JettSkoll]

LOL..hilarious!

[@RdOZITO]

believe me, they just want to practice thier English with you

[@jessysoong164]

Luodan Zhi i do agree, haha

[@masterblaster5170]

Are you sure?

[@aurorakk8198]

hahahhaha，this is truth.

[@angieblack1199]

Luodan Zhi Yes, I think so. Sometimes I just want to practice English with local native English friends.

[@cpuamd6333]

Steve Jansson ok next nerd~

[@Super-yw7ss]

Your the Best on KZbin always speak the truth and how it is, while others talk and do the opposite.

[@kilroy314]

very nice video man, congrats

[@stanspb763]

I have gotten hooked on these videos. Just by chance I ended up watching one and each was more interesting than the last.I have been to China and enjoyed it a great deal to observe the culture and people but knew very little of the language which lowered my interaction opportunities. I tend to enjoy every society I visit, ( 87 countries so far) so differences in culture from my native USA are expected and I tend to appreciate most those that are the most different. In fact I moved to Russia 15 years ago due to liking the culture and people so much. One thing in common with all the the places visited, they are all completely different than usual western mythology about them. My first visit to Russia was when it was part of the USSR and found immediately that everything I knew, despite reading every book printed in English about the place, was wrong. The US is very isolated despite the ease of communications now, very few of the stereotypes are based on reality. In almost all new destinations, I find the societies more interesting and having more advantages than if the commonly held beliefs of people back home were true. Great videos and presentations.

[@serpentza]

+Stan SPb thanks mate and welcome

[@esanchez3232]

Stan SPb wow u must be rich to be able to Travel to many different countries must be nice.

[@dannyhughes2680]

You love who you love, you like who you like, that's alright.

[@fanresponsepodcast4091]

Amazing video and so true

[@longhuynh5249]

You are spot on on every points.

[@CandleKern]

Great video, you have my respect good sir

[@serpentza]

+CandleKern thank you mate

[@billg7531]

I am assuming that life in Shenzhen is different than most of China, as Winston is correct in many of his talking points, but he does not take it far enough. Shenzhen is a relatively new city that is highly influenced by western society. Perhaps this is the reason Winston's videos are a bit light on realities here in China. This is not to say that he is incorrect. He just does not take the discussion far enough.Let me give you an example of how Winston often does not go far enough in his explanations. Are Chinese girls "easy". It depends on your definition of easy. Sexually, the answer is "no". Sex is not something that is practiced before an engagement often. Even the concept of holding hands, kissing, or "touching" is a bit taboo. Another example is the idea of marriage. Winston casually mentions that women are pressured to get married at a young age. This is true. Through his telling, you might think that it is a choice. It really is not. Girls who are not married by age 26 can often become an embarrassment to the family and society will frown upon the as having something wring with them. Families begin to put lots of pressure and guilt on the girl. By the way, the same holds true for Chinese boys who should be married by age 28 at the latest. Although things are changing in China through the younger generations with more and more women wanting to have a career and forego marriage until later in life, the pressure in most families is too much for them. If a westerner is looking to just have some fun and play the dating game, they are doing a huge disservice to the Chinese girl. She will date you with every intention of marriage from the first date. If a westerner does not have this in mind and strings the girl along with false hopes, you have damaged her, taking away valuable time and energies. This does happen all too often here in China. As such, many Chinese girls are told not to date foreigners because the odd of marriage are not great. The foreigner just disappears one day and leave the poor girl with wasted time and broken expectations. One other note about Winston's videos is that he will talk about Chinese culture, but in a very basic way. When you are trying to discuss China to people, culture and traditions usually have to be mentioned. That is because culture and traditions is everything in China. Not only do you need to know it, but you must understand the "why" and "how" of the culture to truly explain and understand. Winston does brush the issue of why white skin is idolized over dark skin, but he skirts the issue with a very watered-down version. I do enjoy his videos as it reminds me of most foreigners viewpoints and thinking here in China. Winston has been in China for 10 years and is married to a Chinese woman, which gives his a sense of authority. But, I suspect that most of his time is spent in a modern city which is highly westernized and Chinese culture and traditions are not as prevalent there as they might be in a second or third tiered city. Let me finish this comment to say that I appreciate Winston's work with his videos. He is doing what I strive to do with my blog writings and that is to try to re-introduced people to a new China of the 21st century. The old stereotypes that many westerners have are pretty much dead or dying quickly. Like many nations of the world, there are very dark periods in Chinese history, but that is a China of olden times. I am sure that Winston would agree that Chinese culture and western culture is like night and day. But, the two cultures are merging fairly quickly and that merging is producing a dawn that binds the night and day together.

[@scriptnomad]

Thanks for your input, that was interesting to read. So where's your blog? I could try that as well.

[@billg7531]

Thank you Oleg. My China blog is at nashboroguy3.wordpress.com. I also write for a blog at oxfordseminars.com. I hope my comment posted on Winston's site is ever misunderstood as me knocking his efforts. I thoroughly enjoy his commentary, along with his cohorts with their V-blogs. They often speak to topics that are both interesting and important to those coming to China and for those of us who live here. I am especially excited to see what their latest project will be like from their trip up north. Every one of us in China who develops a blog, writes articles, or produces KZbin videos, are giving others a certain viewpoint and a set of experiences unique to that one person. Just as Winston gives a view from living in one of China's newer, 21st century, western-infused, tier one city, my view comes from more of a traditional, country-wide, conservative view focused on cultures and traditions that are ever changing. Therefore, I suggest that if a person is interested in China or coming here to work/live, take in all different perspectives.

[@scriptnomad]

Thanks for the reply Bill! I read bits and pieces from random parts of your blog. I can see you've really found your calling as a teacher. I'm actually at the start of that journey, I'll be going to China to teach this year. So if you could only give me one article of yours in order to prepare me to be a successful teacher, which one would it be?

[@billg7531]

Just one? Not possible. First, let me apologize to Winston for hijacking this part of his comment section of his video. Oleg, the first thing I suggest is to enjoy the honeymoon period of the Culture Shock experience. It is the most remarkable time of your travels. The second thing I would suggest is to make your lessons your own and develop them to suit the needs of your students and for yourself. Most schools do not have high expectations. Many teachers are discouraged by this. I see it as a blessing. If you only teach from the textbooks and do the minimum amount expected by the administration, the level of satisfaction and sense of accomplishment quickly disappears. If you take your teaching profession seriously and try to go above and beyond, you will know that you have made a difference. Two examples from my experience. I was tired of doing the performing monkey act in classes without feeling that my students were learning anything. I quickly changed my lesson plans and developed a speaking program that enhanced the students abilities. This program took me over a year to develop and most of the information was garnered through lots of research online. The second example was when I was assigned a textbook that focused on reading and writing skills. When I discovered that most students had no idea what the four sentence structures were in the English language ((simple, compound, complex and compound-complex), I began developing my own writing program. My students had no idea how to write a simple paragraph. And, as my students were preparing themselves to study in America, writing essays was a very important skill for them. I spent nearly two terms developing this writing program, teaching them basic sentence structure to writing a five paragraph essay. Going into my third year with this program, my school has seen the value of this program and it is now an expectation. Basically, the biggest advice I can provide to you is to make your lessons meaningful and advantageous to the students. I seldom play games or show videos, just for the sake of wasting time. My games and videos are often important to the student's learning. I have spent hours and hour reformatting PPT games and researching things to use in the classroom. I have studied the concepts of group study, project based learning, and other teaching techniques. Here is the key to the process. You as a teacher must realize that all of your efforts may fall on many deaf ears. That is par for the course. Sometimes you will only reach a small percentage of students. That is ok. Just try to bring the students along for the ride. Finally, in China, I make two big statements to my students at the beginning of the year and reinforce it throughout the year. 1) As a teacher, all teachers can only introduce and explain skills for the students to learn. It is up to the students to become their own teachers and learn how and why these skills work. They must study these skills and put them into practice. Sitting in a class for 40-60 minutes does not automatically mean they have learned what is taught. 2). In china, teachers teach to the exam. But, to truly understand the material and to be able to use it in their lives forever, they must learn to ask deeper and more involved questions. Chinese teachers teach the "who, what, when, where" information. That is all they need to learn to pass a bubble sheet exam. Westerners not only have to learn this, but we also must be able to ask "why and how". This gives us an advantage in our careers and lives. We learn to ask why it is important to know such things and how does this information make us better employees and human beings. In closing, I will just say to you that you must decide what kind of teacher you want to be. Think of all the extra hours our western counterparts put in to prepare their lesson plans and in grading papers. You have a choice. You can be the dancing white money spewing just what the textbook offers and become like so many other ESL teachers around the globe. Or, you can develop yourself into being the best damn teacher that your students and school has ever known. Basically, you can take the easy route or a path that is less traveled and more difficult. Many of my critics will say that all of my efforts are for naught. I totally disagree with that assessment and I have five years of experiences and result to show that they are wrong.

[@scriptnomad]

Alright, I got your message. It's basically about work ethic vs slacking off. I still have some idealism left in me, so let's see if China cures that xD

[@josephotto939]

Thanks. Helps to understand

[@littlebigfish9205]

A video that comes with theory and also practical... along with examples too

[@trekreview]

I love this you absolutely proved your point against that article!

[@stevenmonash624]

Most Asians say the same - especially about preferring to have fair skin. As for Thailand I remember the gossip that used to occur when the foreign teacher was black. On one occasion the foreign teacher had a Thai face - and could not speak Thai. and the Thai teachers did not believe he could not and did not hold him in the same esteem as white teachers. Just look at the job ads in China and Thailand and you will see what kind of teachers they want - the same is true in Japan. This is people not liking to hear the truth - about what they overtly say to be the case - and then they try to act all self righteous by twisting the topic to their own twisted perception. Winston was not saying they were easy sexually - but pointing out the attraction of white men to Asian women. You can go to ABC Australia and see a program on the sexual revolution in China. Most are tasting freedom social freedom for the first time in years and are expressing it like never before. So , I agree wit you - his points are absolutely valid and his title quite benign against the content which fully contradicts the fabrication of the journalist who sought to create fervor and feign indignity.

[@preetsingh694]

+Andreas Luebeck and love me Long time

[@MrAlvaradodan]

These videos are completely addictive. I am fascinated by the culture.

[@jamieingels1190]

No you aren't. You like Asian chicks.

[@mikeaurelius1292]

Very good video, thank you very much!

[@verl0000]

"You are different from the then... there... Chinese human" HAHAHSHAHA

[@snigie1]

Human and person have the same meaning

[@ArtsherrifHD]

snigie1 human is a race, person is an individual...

[@Shadow77999]

Ikr lmao

[@jellychen4163]

Speak Chinese *** you.

[@mohead2611]

Du bist unterschiedlich von.... dem ... USA Menschen.

[@Qjones54]

Your point proven so quickly back to back lol!

[@isfun7680]

Chinese easy or not just because r u handsome or not.. it's the same standard for all guys around the world :)

[@ruiyaxiao1635]

hahaha.All girls love handsome boys.

[@Nate-dv5dp]

3:17 true, my Chinese girlfriend doesn't even want me getting tan 🤣

[@tylerk3616]

Song in the intro is called Arcade Summer by FM-84 one of my favorites for road trips through the winding Ontario roads with the windows down in the summer.

[@mad7206]

I love how chatty the women are

[@llb4285]

ya uhhhhh, nothing hotter than a chatty woman :/

[@mad7206]

L Lb that's true and they are ever so polite when they're doing it

[@llb4285]

i was being sarcastic

[@mad7206]

L Lb ah the lowest form of wit

[@llb4285]

yes, and it still went over your head, derp!

[@rain-yg6lt]

Fuaaark! My guy Winston"teaches doctors" what a fucking legend! Your very funny Winston. you teach English. But I liked your response.

[@ronaldreed7698]

Rain Maker he teaches dr's english terminology a normal english teacher may not be educated in.

[@bobsingh5521]

It's all about FACE in China 🇨🇳

[@Iggyhaxor]

Blew my mind when they started talking to him, for some reason i thought he was in front of a green screen with b roll going lol

[@runkemarius322]

Winston, u r the best thing that happen to China in a long long time ;D

[@DanielButlergungfu1967]

lol. Watching people run into each other while walking and looking at what Winston is doing is funny.

[@Capajebo]

Once i was at a festival in the Netherlands, and i was kinda drunk. So i was sitting on this bench outside with a friend of mine. And this Chinese group of girls was walking around, and i saw them from the corner of my eye looking at me and talking to each other. But because i was drunk i didn't give a shit. So a minute later, one of the girls, wich was HOT for Asian standards, and she comes to me, and says right in my ear because of the music: ''It's boring here, huh?'' So i leaned towards here, and said in here ear: ''Then wtf are you doing here?'' Girl got red as fuck, turned around, walked away. Biggest regret of my life. Fcking alcohol.

[@Osbaldoownz]

Lmao

[@TheAscension11]

Forget about alcohol :) Blessings :)

[@Capajebo]

+TheAscension11 i did, since then...

[@NexusWarior211]

And thats why Islam forbidds you to drink it. cause shit like that happens.

[@barunrai8004]

wtf u mean by HOT for asian standards ?? Wat the fk u think u are ???

[@voltaire6668]

I love watching another wideo!

[@acquiescence5331]

"What are you making a video about?" "Ermmm, ahhh... oh fuck."