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@TheStygianKing21 күн бұрын
Great video, Pea! You always bring a unique perspective to these cross-cultural relationship stories. It's interesting to see how different cultures approach love, communication, and expectations. I think it's important to remember that a successful relationship takes effort and compromise from both sides. If one person has a hardline stance on something, it can be difficult to find common ground. Sometimes, it might be necessary to meet in the middle or find alternative solutions to keep the relationship healthy. Ultimately, the best relationship advice is to focus on the things that bring you together, rather than the things that drive you apart. If you can't do that, then the relationship is likely doomed to fail.
@angelofthelight665021 күн бұрын
This video was definitely clickbait. I only clicked that video 'cause I thought you were gonna wear that costume. I feel cheated. At least I'm honest about it.
@Pe_8_7_421 күн бұрын
Thanks for the video
@firstnamelastname671721 күн бұрын
Hey Pea, I wanna thank you for your recent first Heart ♥️ Badge coming from you personally about 19 hours ago, thanks for reading my comments. , sometimes I’m serious or joking around or just saying something silly with no purpose ( like corny jokes ), Etc. it it’s all good 👍🏼 with good intentions;, I think that you’re now late thirty something !?, even though age doesn’t matter cause it’s just a number, it’s all about the person’s personality and attitude from the heart 💜 that matters, anyways, I’m an older guy with a young heart., you are in the right ripped age, like a good glass of fresh 🍷 wine ready to be poured and drinked., I think you’re smart, intelligent, educated, still very young and beautiful, funny, goofy, silly and yet serious and mature, if I were looking for a Filipina girl / woman , she would definitely 💯 % has to be like you. I mean that , I find your thinking 💭 knowledge and wisdom about life and things to be very attractive, besides your natural beauty, I’m not coming on to you , I’m just saying that you’re my type of Asian 👩🏽 woman , ( not a Filipina ) , Yeah , I do have an Asian woman who happens to be younger than me ( again, age don’t matter as long as it’s a legal mature age for me lol! ) , and I also know that you have an on - line distant boyfriend too!?, that’s 😎 cool, I wish you both the best out of respect. But still , I just had to express my feelings and thoughts about you and your pod cast social web on You Tube, hope you see this, you deserve the best!, I think that there are other copy cats doing the same thing as you, but to me I believe that you are the original Filipina Queen 👸🏽 Pea of all the Philippines 🇵🇭 good job and keep it going girl! Boston, Massachusetts 🇺🇸
@richardm302321 күн бұрын
@@angelofthelight6650 Check out the nurse costume at the end of the video.
@mowgli207121 күн бұрын
"Women make the mistake of thinking men will change. Men make the mistake of thinking women won't change."
@TheFilipinaPea21 күн бұрын
👍👍👍👍👍👍
@rogerlenton333521 күн бұрын
So true!
@matthiasherfert134221 күн бұрын
Cool 🙏🫰👍
@tj28198321 күн бұрын
Yep you are correct on that PhD Phil
@LJtheSouthernVegan21 күн бұрын
Facts!!!
@zaneelliot696321 күн бұрын
If a woman holds me accountable for a dream, then that woman is not for me. I am not into games, I want peace and tranquility.
@nobody781721 күн бұрын
Peace and tranquility... that's just a dream...
@cgar806420 күн бұрын
You need a good dog, lol.
@MeanieKuyaSteven19 күн бұрын
Peace and tranquility is found in s monastery.
@nobody781719 күн бұрын
@@MeanieKuyaSteven you misspelled "grave".
@jishani113 күн бұрын
@@nobody7817 Still a better one to chase than most.
@micheallinke927821 күн бұрын
I made the "mistake" of introducing leather and bondage (and other stuff)... and I have unleashed a beast. I may have made a happy mistake.
@TheFilipinaPea21 күн бұрын
Release the Kraken! 🤣🤣🤣
@LeatherneckSears034121 күн бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPeahahaha that movie was before your time! Hahahah
@Brandon-yy5cc21 күн бұрын
Sounds like paradise 😂
@ricksdestinationcebu21 күн бұрын
Omgosh,,,,Pirates,lol..@@TheFilipinaPea
@seansanb552721 күн бұрын
thanks for the tip!
@johnclark797321 күн бұрын
You said, "Leave... She"ll realize she is playing Tampo by herslef.". That is BRILLIANT!! 👌
@hermitbob730421 күн бұрын
Tell her to give you more details about the blonde so you'll recognize her when you see her. How tall, boob size, hairstyle, nationality? I need details honey so I don't waste time chasing the wrong foreign woman.
@puppyupper456521 күн бұрын
I can deal with Tampo by telling her I am going for a walk, but violence is a no go. Hands in a relationship are for showing affection, not anger.
@cestmoi736821 күн бұрын
But if the episode lasts for days, as I find it frequently does?
@puppyupper456521 күн бұрын
@@cestmoi7368 Filipinas can't handle not knowing where there man is. When she starts Tampo, give her your phone and say you are going walk, maybe snorkel and then might visit a friend. She will hate not knowing so she will either stop her Tampo or end the relationship. Either way it's good. A man must set boundaries and not let them be crossed in the smallest way. Women will test. Tampo is testing. And if you fail, Tampo will last for days. In the Philippines Tampo is very common because most of the men are simps. I lived there 10 years off and on prior to the Plandemic. The men act like women. So when their Filipina does Tampo, he will apologize and even do nice things for her. The girls learn this at home and use it to control their men.
@TheKruxed21 күн бұрын
@@cestmoi7368 I've watched many videos from different providers, some of these ladies are saying they actually expect a guy to show compassion etc rather than just ignore it. So its going to depend on the context, who you are, who she is, why she acted like that and how often it happens. If your partner is mad for days and you've no idea whats going on then thats a pretty big problem
@TF-im7ez21 күн бұрын
@@cestmoi7368for the rest of your relationship. It doesn’t get any easier.
@wingatebarraclough355321 күн бұрын
Absolutely
@miked.528721 күн бұрын
That thumbnail gonna cause ur inbox to explode pea..😉
@Robert-Hamm20 күн бұрын
hahahahahahahaha
@brcaswell20 күн бұрын
ah.. yea, I was click-baited in a way. Though... It's not like that. I saw and thought the thumbnail was a reference to sexy Halloween costumes at first glance; But actually, I clicked just to confirm it was a clickbait thumbnail after I read the title. Scouts-honor (I've never been a scout).
@dustin427419 күн бұрын
I agree with half of that
@ThistleAndSea21 күн бұрын
I always enjoy your mailbag videos, Miss Pea! Thanks for sharing this one. 🙂 You look Lovely today. 💕
@brandonlevy868021 күн бұрын
Nope Nope and Nope. If you find a filipina who is into the alternative lifestyle by choice and not money, keep her. She is a Unicorn.
@CG8734321 күн бұрын
To that last guy: RUN! Run as far and fast as you can and never look back. You’re seeing her true colors the second you asked her to marry you. She’s not going to change and it’ll only get worse.
@chrislausen663918 күн бұрын
I second that! Run as fast as you can.
@stephenmitchell791521 күн бұрын
The last letter you addressed reminded me of a very sweet, born-again evangelical gal I dated over 20 years ago. Once we got serious I found myself hosting meals at nice restaurants for 20 people I didn't know. She also seemed comfortable treating sales people and hotel folks like she was Zsa Zsa Gabor. She also did not have a problem letting people know if she thought they were fat or dressed badly. She embarrassed me A LOT but she did not understand why. She did not appreciate that at one time I was one of those poor folks washing dishes, driving school busses and picking up trash and I have never forgotten how I felt about insensitive comments made to me in passing. Surprising she was that way given her very hard life growing up.
@OldPapaBear2 күн бұрын
Her name wasn't Diane was it? Cause I just shook one that was just like you described.
@stephenmitchell7915Күн бұрын
@@OldPapaBear Nope. But went by Lynn, like about half the women I met over there. Was from Mindanao and then transplanted to Cebu.
@Black-Sheep-Society-xx21 күн бұрын
That backdrop is awesome, Pea!❤
@Owenafish21 күн бұрын
Pea, while your advice is applicable to the Fhilipinas out there I think your no nonsense advice applies to most humankind relationships. I love how you have a such an organized and mater of fact approach to dealing with issues. Clear and concise communication, and just walk away when someone is getting unreasonable, playing off the insecurities. In a loving and respectful way of course. The more I get to know you through your videos the more impressed I am. Love the dress btw, your selection of patterns is quite lovely.
@TheFilipinaPea21 күн бұрын
Thanks Owen! I’m Just a practical woman 😊👍
@chipparmley21 күн бұрын
So true, her advice is universal
@johncortesi428820 күн бұрын
I'm not really comfortable discussing peoples sexuality unless I'm personally involved, but after watching a number of your videos I came to a startling conclusion! The combination of your beauty, sassiness, caring attitude, feminine demeanor and most importantly your love of Star Trek makes you an ideal mate for huge swaths of the male population!!! Keep up the fun videos, and never doubt your worth!
@teddybear-cb3kc21 күн бұрын
I always get excited when Pea drops a video
@TheFilipinaPea21 күн бұрын
I’m really glad to hear that, Bear 🐻 👍❤️
@darrelldundee504514 күн бұрын
How could you pea ......nosebleeds.....just how could you 😂😂😂😂😂😂@@TheFilipinaPea
@haroldwalls659121 күн бұрын
Pea, it's a ways a pleasure to hear your wisdom beyond your years. You're amazing!
@robertruck550121 күн бұрын
Tampo and filipina moodiness, is a very real emotional problem. My opinion is that a man needs to ignore the childish behavior, and go on with your day. There are really so many quirky personality traits involving a filipina. Still worth it in my mind though.
@jimverdi799021 күн бұрын
It's real alright...crazy $h!t... personally, I think it's non-admission of being bi-polar...I'm just saying 😂
@TheFilipinaPea21 күн бұрын
We can be wonderfully frustrating creatures, yes 🤣
@globalismoblackman21 күн бұрын
That's why I keep it MGTOW despite all the cute overload in The Philippines. Gringos need to study the culture and the mindset there and see if they are willing to deal with the drama or complexities. Love 😍 The Philippines is an amazing beautiful country for travelling adventures and the warmth and friendliness of the people like no other. However getting into a relationship there again ?. Naaah never I just want to enjoy paradise islands of the Philippines solitude mode. MGTOW 😎✅
@NewYorkAcupuncturecenter80421 күн бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPeaha ha I already learned that When I told my long distance GF “You’re a lucky dog” and she though I directed her 😮 Took me a while to explain and google the definition Were ok now lol
@drewinseasia406921 күн бұрын
Wise partners know tampo means time out for you enjoy your free time😂 Once you start mastering that tampo is short and reduces
@trewells21 күн бұрын
In that first story, the fact that she slapped him is grounds for termination of the relationship. You don’t put hands on each other like that.
@SanchoPanza-wg5xf10 күн бұрын
Your tampon needs changing @trewells.
@kenamaro21 күн бұрын
If you do something that she never had done before….and you rock her world….she will never forget you, and she will respond in many positive ways!! Never give her a reason to doubt you ! Great job Ms. Pea 🫛!! 🇺🇸💖🇵🇭👍🏻💯😊
@TheFilipinaPea21 күн бұрын
👍👍👍👍👍😊
@richardtaylor980221 күн бұрын
I was fortunate with my Filipina of 5 years. Once she got that ring, she was still legally married but convinced me that becoming a Muslim would help her resolve her first marriage, she changed. My last visit was bad. Everything was about her. Allowance, land. I left her and will be single when I relocate from states next spring. I think I dodged a big headache!
@Ody-up6kg20 күн бұрын
Even if she were the perfect girl for you, would it be worth selling your soul by becoming a Muslim?
@TRICK-OR-TREAT23620 күн бұрын
LIKE MOST FILIPINAS SHE WAS A SCAMMER PLAYING YOU FOR A FOOL.
@davidfisher514019 күн бұрын
uhhh what??? So you put a ring on the finger of a married woman??? A woman married to a muslim??? Can there be any bigger death wish? I mean other than strolling into a busy mosque to burn a quran? BEFORE you relocate from the states. Get a psych eval Richard! Listen to what they tell you. Be sure they know your story (yeah this one!)
@Cbgrandtheftauto16 күн бұрын
Don't sell your soul for a lie. Stick to Jesus and find another woman
@TRICK-OR-TREAT23616 күн бұрын
@@Cbgrandtheftauto OR TWO
@gregwilliams279221 күн бұрын
Hi Pea, thank you for always providing your audience with informative content, your compassion and dedication to your craft is inspiring. Have a good weekend 😊
@TheFilipinaPea21 күн бұрын
Thank you, that's very kind of you to say, Greg! 🙏😊❤️
@tomspecht473321 күн бұрын
Oh my!! The very first story of Rasmuss perfectly fit my life married to a Filipina I met here in America!! Well for that man all I can say is she will eventually leave him!! She will first start talking to many other men and eventually leave for hopes of greener grasses. Run dude. Save yourself from that heartache!!! When someone is so jealous that they are getting furious at you over a dream they have it is likely just her way of rationalizing her own thoughts of cheating. There is just no room for childish behavior. I suggest you go to counseling together. My ex wife and I tried counseling twice and both times after the 2nd visit the counselors both diagnosed her with Borderline Personality Disorder. I think this disorder is fairly prominent with women from the Philippines who faced a lot of trauma in their childhood. It is sad that they have this type of mental struggles but trust me you can't fix it and likely they won't because in order for them to fix their issues they first have to admit them and their pride won't likely allow that.
@TraditionalAnglican21 күн бұрын
I was married to an Anglo “Borderline”. I would suggest that some of what you saw was partly an effect of her being on the American dating merry-go-round without her village telling her to get off…
@tomspecht473321 күн бұрын
@@TraditionalAnglican I had never heard of it before that experience but all I can say is in both instances the counselors treated me like I had just lost a loved one. They already knew the writing was on the wall long before I was ready to admit it and let it go!!! The lesson I learned is it isn't worth getting angry and jealous. If you can't trust your partner just leave rather than going crazy with jealousy. When I would have to travel for work she wouldn't even respond to my texts or answer my calls because she was so furious because she just knew I was cheating. I never had anyone who could seem so loving one moment and then wanting to bury me in the back yard the next second just because of something I said reminded her of something in her past. I am planning to go to Philippines in the future and try to meet one in Philippines not America because in my 4 years with her I fell in love with the culture and in my one visit it felt a lot like America did when I was a kid where most everyone in the community looked out for each other and families were actually close.
@andrewcarlson217821 күн бұрын
Yup my ex had BPD as well. No way it ever gets better. On to the next one
@carltondaye823121 күн бұрын
Another ""Exciting"" week has gone by here at the Hermit Hideaway all is good cool and dry this Friday Morning Hope life goes well in Dumaguete Ms Pea.......
@TheFilipinaPea21 күн бұрын
Nothing exciting here - unless you count typhoons 🤣🤣
@ronrhodes794220 күн бұрын
Pea. This is more to encourage you to keep doing you. I'm an advanced age executive, living in the Philippines, over 16 years. I'm married to a beautiful filipina and manage thousands, so I know where I am. I find your content largely accurate,logical, and pretty funny. I just watch it for occasional entertainment. Love it.
@johnmurphy879121 күн бұрын
I just want to tell those watching your videos to pay attention. You are so accurate, it's scary. Well done again 😊
@brainiac806021 күн бұрын
Here's a simple test: flip the script with Ramus. If a man slapped a sleeping woman over a dream the man would viewed as dangerous and the woman would be told to leave him or even call the police. Rasmus needs to RUN AWAY from her!
@davidandrew10783 күн бұрын
Go back home. Huge red flag.
@whenderson666921 күн бұрын
Thanks MsPea. Hearing other’s perspective’s opens the world. PS. You wear everything well. 😊
@guyandre494621 күн бұрын
Hello dear Pea! I should, by now, be used to it, but I am once again flabbergasted by the non-stop exciting variety and the superb, extraordinary quality of each new video you manage to produce and edit so professionally, twice a week, without failing, and always on time! I can’t thank you enough, for the pleasure, but also for the ever so new and fresh topics you analyse, and that, often, I didn’t even know existed or were possible! 😘❤️
@wayneONvolarte21 күн бұрын
Well Said Sir Guy!😊
@guyandre494621 күн бұрын
@@wayneONvolarte Thank you Wayne ! 👍
@nobody781721 күн бұрын
LOL You misspelled exiting... but I don't know the correct spelling of it either. excite... has to be exciteing? no...that's wrong too... anyway... thought you might want to know, in case you can figure the correct spelling and edit it.
@guyandre494621 күн бұрын
@@nobody7817exciting. .. thank you, I blame iPhone autocorrect! 😂😂😂
@Alex27uh21 күн бұрын
Turning it into 'playing the silent game by herself' , that is genius 😂 How did you come up with such wisdom?
@jamesmichaelfrank21 күн бұрын
INCREDIBLE thumbnail miss Pea !!!
@DMSProduktions21 күн бұрын
Yeah, she looks PHENOMENAL in that outfit!
@xmas072pt321 күн бұрын
Agreed. The suit is 🔥🔥🔥
@JACB00621 күн бұрын
Pea just had to say that I have never been into leather … but looking at you in your leather dress, I may have to reconsider, what a temptress you are. WOW you look great 😉🍾🥳
@floydhill926521 күн бұрын
My Filipina is definitely not into alot of crazy stuff in the bedroom, and that's okay. I love that she is not in tune with the most hedonistic part of herself. She is above that, and I respect it.
@anonanon755321 күн бұрын
I appreciate your perspective, because I feel the same way as a woman. To each there own.
@jamesholland576121 күн бұрын
When I get my notification of another Pea video, I get an instant smile across my face! Enjoyed it very much! And as always, you look amazing! Have a wonderful day! ❤ P.S. your thumbnail is fire 🔥
@BrianMolstad21 күн бұрын
Honeychild is hot!
@HELPSUMOVE17 күн бұрын
Hi Pea, I have been watching your videos for a while. You have a commendable quality of helping others. Being of service to others is the true meaning of life. Keep up the good work. I'm married to a Filipina. And loving it.
@fazbell21 күн бұрын
At my age (74) I'm happy with a cuddle and someone to do a little light cleaning. Gotta be practical. Big salute from Fred in Thailand.
@JamesPittaro-g3h14 күн бұрын
I have discovered you channel Pea and all though I will admit I'm just learning about this from you. But being honest if you are indicative or other Pilipino women they must be amazing! Thank you.
@secretagent8611 күн бұрын
She is rare
@Warf_45921 күн бұрын
OMG!! PEA!! THAT COVER OF YOU IS AWESOME!!
@faranger21 күн бұрын
Suck up! (beat me to it) 😅
@Azazelsminion21 күн бұрын
@fifarage7389 Simply enjoying something and stating so or giving a compliment is not simpimg. One could just as easily tell you to "stop drinking the kool-aid" and assume you are just another sheep jumping on the newest generational bandwagon. Both your statement and the scenario i laid out are in the wrong. What is right for one person may not be so for the next person, but that doesn't make it wrong for the other individual.
@fifarage738921 күн бұрын
@@Azazelsminion meanwhile back on the ranch.
@TruSigma71221 күн бұрын
@@fifarage7389When did giving a woman a compliment become “simping”?
@fifarage738921 күн бұрын
@@TruSigma712 when she is not YOUR woman.
@JodyBerryhill-f4r20 күн бұрын
Hi Pea! Another great video! Finally made it to your country yesterday, looking forward to a great week! Have a blessed day!
@scotthawbaker21 күн бұрын
Jealousy is the only thing I see in the Filipina's I've met that really stand out. 🙂If my head is even tilted towards the direction of another Filipina, I get evil eyes. And when I am with a women, other Filipina will look myself and the Filipina up head to toe, then I get smiled at and am instantly in trouble. 🤣 Oh well, none of the women I have dated are worthy of my buying them a milktea . 🤣🤣
@MrRogerRabbit121 күн бұрын
I don't even notice other women. My wife will look at men and women and comment on their looks and clothing she likes, but I got all I can handle and want.
@douglasgraham191621 күн бұрын
Another great video filled with great advice and common sense! Looking forward to Tuesday's video! Until then have a great weekend Pea!
@stan4d196921 күн бұрын
This is the video I've been waiting for. You had me at the thumbnail.
@TheFilipinaPea21 күн бұрын
Perfect! Mission accomplished 🤣
@GodzillasaurusJr21 күн бұрын
For real. I am not even into that sort of thing and I am still smiling about it.
@MindFusion-ij1xl21 күн бұрын
Wholeheartedly, you have a command of English and human spirit and subtleties of communication and expression seen nowhere else.
@markbm121 күн бұрын
Thanks Pea for sharing your interesting perspectives on different subjects. The world needs more people like you that has positive attitude, critical thinking skills, and true inner beauty.
@TheFilipinaPea21 күн бұрын
Well thanks, Mark! ❤️👍
@KutWrite21 күн бұрын
Interesting and fun, Pea. Love the thumbnail!
@charlesyoung998021 күн бұрын
That's a great name for a new adult toy shop.. "Bondage and Stuff!" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@TheFilipinaPea21 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Can I be your company mascot? 😉
@charlesyoung998021 күн бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea Sure. Can I pay you in "product?" 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
@NewYorkAcupuncturecenter80421 күн бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea pea 🫛 is kinky lol. “Show me the video “ you asked the guy. Love you your wisdom and whip smart humor
@JMgmkh21 күн бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea Can you be more obvious ? LOL
@ronnie326212 күн бұрын
I haven't seen any of your videos for a while now (not just yours, but any of them). As always, your information is top notch and very insightful. On a personal level, I can't help but think that you just get more and more beautiful each time I see you. If I could be guaranteed of ending up with you, or another lady just like you, I would leave for the Philippines tomorrow and never look back.
@DavidECoy21 күн бұрын
Totally agree with Pea on the last one. Sounds like she thinks she hit the dating lottery and slipped up and showed who she really is. I know it’s hard but I think I’d be asking for the ring back and be ending the relationship. And no I’m not against marriage. In fact I’m currently married to a Filipina myself. Unlike in the west where women can show just how disgusting they are openly, in the Philippines they still get shamed for it. So most would hide their bad behaviors to get you then when they feel like they have you they can be comfortable being their full selves. There are many more women over there to choose from. You really have to be careful about marrying in the Philippines because they dont have divorce there. You can go back home to divorce her but in the Philippines they will always consider her your wife. That’s another reason they think once you have given them the ring that it’s over because you can never divorce her. I married a Filipina in the U.S. and then we got divorced and now I’m married to a Filipina that married me in the Philippines. The judge literally told me this is forever so are you sure to both of us. Run my friend and take some time to get over it then find a better woman.
@andrewcarlson217821 күн бұрын
There's annulment. Where There's money There's a way
@DavidECoy21 күн бұрын
@@andrewcarlson2178 ya but that’s a $10,000.00 five year process and there’s no guarantee you will get it. So u might go through all that and just lose all the money and time for nothing.
@timothy-ray927517 күн бұрын
I love listening to your videos (although not as much as I love looking at you). They are full of useful information and behavioral analysis. I have not been to the Philippines since a vacation long ago, but every time I watch you, I think of making a trip there from Thailand because I feel I might actually find love there, but I am not sure it would be any different than the experiences I run into here. However, I may go there for a month just to get my own first hand perspective. Thank you for sharing.
@clydeallen868121 күн бұрын
Another mail bag Friday from the Pea. Certainly some sticky situations.
@wayneONvolarte21 күн бұрын
😂Funny,Informative and really interesting 😊 thoughts provoking.
@themalejodietaylor259921 күн бұрын
Ah, the mailbag - my favourite, and this Friday with a spicy inclusion. Great video, as always Pea. Have a great weekend.
@antoniovega497820 күн бұрын
Great video, Pea. It's a pleasure to watch your video, always learning something new, each time I watch. Keep up the awesome videos, Pea❤❤❤❤🎉
@Cpt_Adama21 күн бұрын
OMG that first story gives me chills, that is my ex-Filipina whom was so jealous she started turning green. It was the major cause of our breakup and I'm not sure there is a cure for this. It will poison your relationship. This is a problem that probably cannot be overcome. If that guy is smart he will end that relationship right away. My mistake was spending 6, yes six years dealing with this and never getting a resolution. Dude bail out now and save yourself years of aggravation and misery.
@David_Air_Force_Vet21 күн бұрын
Very interesting topics. Thanks PEA.
@cestmoi736821 күн бұрын
Not being able to separate reality from fantasy is a serious mental issue, not a “cute” quirk. And “tampo” is a terrible version of emotional abuse. Especially when it lasts for days…. These behaviours are not “cute” and cause long lasting damage to the relationship.
@cizzymac21 күн бұрын
Exactly. This is not acceptable behavior at all. It's emotional abuse.
@bayoumanbryan21 күн бұрын
yep i get mad enough to almost choke my Filipina when she does that crap.
@Mottleydude121 күн бұрын
@@cestmoi7368 meh, it’s immaturity. It didn’t take me long to break Filipina of it. I just treated her like a child having a tantrum.
@deandee808221 күн бұрын
for my cousin tampo lasts for months, oh boy, she has him under her thumb so much I believe he may slowly be having a break down ... no jokes, she runs him like there is no tomorrow and then his two teen kids, same deal .. firs time that happens at my home? I get on amazon, order up 2 nice large luggage bags .. leave until the deed is done... nope, homey don't play dat .. it IS s form of abuse and control freeks are generally the ones exercising that garbage, with Asians being so close to commieville central they have that shyt ingrained into their DNA . . yup seriously you can see it under a microscope, lil' teeny hammer's and sickle's floating around in their blood stream ... no jokes, oh boy...
@fhorst0221 күн бұрын
You should dive deeper into asian culture. Predictive dreams are "real" as any religion, for many cultures, including the Philippines. Get of your high horse, and accept that you aren't in Kansas anymore!
@larryharrison440817 күн бұрын
Thanks Ms. Pea I love your videos, I've learned so much and it has help me a lot on my two previous visits to the Philippines, I'm going back this December for three weeks to see the Filipina that I've been talking to for 2.5 years, still figuring out whether we are compatible.
@Grimjack100021 күн бұрын
Hey Pea, I think you missed the mark on the first bit of advice. She slapped him in the face over a dream. No one should tolerate physical violence in a relationship. I wouldn’t want to be with someone willing to hit me. In this instance he should walk.
@RebelCowboysRVs21 күн бұрын
This. Assault is crossing a line. Doing it over a dream is worse. Show her the door.
@Nomadic990021 күн бұрын
You piss off a Filipina, you might be looking at a bolo. 😂😂😂😂
@steveos511221 күн бұрын
Yup she assaulted him. Red flag. It will only get worse if he stays.
@vesubioromo942521 күн бұрын
Hmm. Interesting your comment didn't get a heart.
@batboy55521 күн бұрын
Yeah ild walk. That stuff makes me flashback to my mother. Not a good idea.
@anamericancelt653421 күн бұрын
My fiance is now on her plane and will be picking her up at the airport tomorrow. Thank you so much for your videos!
@TheFilipinaPea21 күн бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️👍 How exciting!
@MateDrinker3321 күн бұрын
0:00: Your thumbnail for this video is out of control, lmfao! :D Thanks for uploading, Pea!
@TheFilipinaPea21 күн бұрын
I’m glad you enjoyed it! 🤣🤣
@jamesmichaelfrank21 күн бұрын
@TheFilipinaPea Oh yes miss Pea, i bet you can whip us into shape 😍😛
@philiplivingston277620 күн бұрын
💖 I just love your humor and fun thinking. You are Sensational!🥰
@sbcal8521 күн бұрын
Superstitions are VERY real in the Philippines. It's part of your traditions and somewhere, sometime in the Past they were started to ward off evil spirits but there maybe some truths since past experiences could also be at work to safeguard a Filipinas heart, life and spirit...
@jefftaylor432821 күн бұрын
You're so adorable! It's difficult to resist watching your take on all things related to Filipino girls and western guys. Your little ending segments with you as a nurse, genie, Cleopatra, etc... are so cute and endearing that I want to give you a sweet little hug. 😉 ❤🔥
@Mottleydude121 күн бұрын
ROTFLMAO at the first letter. I had the same thing happen to me. Shortly after I married my Filipina she woke up screaming one night in bed. I bolted up right and asked her what was wrong and she slapped me hard across the face and then she yelled at me that I had cheated on her. Astounded I said I’ve never cheated on you and that’s when she told me I had in her dream. She then proceeded to tell my Mother and both my sisters that I had cheated on her in her dream. They all promptly called me and chewed me out for cheating on her in her dream and wanted to know how I could do such an awful thing to her. Needless to say I was rather confused but just shrugged my shoulders and said “Women!”. Though to be fair I have not cheated on her in her dreams again. 😂😂😂😂 As for the second letter, yea you’re right. Wait until you’ve really developed a deep level of trust with your Filipina about adding something like bondage to your bedroom athletics. 😂 I have found out over the years that most women do like playing with some light bondage and so does my wife but she had been married for quite some time before I suggested it and she did enjoy the experience and we do that occasionally but that was long after trust had been developed. So he needs to just cool his jets and things will probably work out for him unless he’s like serious into whips and chains. Then she should run! 😂😂😂 As for letter #3. He should run as fast as he can or be a man about it and let her know emphatically that she is not to make any life decisions they include him without discussing it and having his consent and then see what her attitude is like.
@nobody781721 күн бұрын
THAT Added part of the family siding with her... PRICELESS story; and your reaction "Women!" LOL THAT was hilarious.
@Mottleydude117 күн бұрын
@@nobody7817 Thanks. Sometimes reality is more bizarre than fiction, right? 😂
@nobody781716 күн бұрын
@@Mottleydude1 So true. Stupid I can handle... crazy? Not so much.
@MI_Prepper18 күн бұрын
Looking VERY PRETTY in that colorful dress PEA!
@raymahannah433621 күн бұрын
I've been "talked to" about my bad behavior in her dreams before... She just told me about it, but didn't accuse me, said she realizes it's just a dream, and most likely her insecurities about losing me manifesting when she is sleeping. Shortly after that she did mention that one of her favorite movies was Misery... Should I take that as a warning, promise or both? 😂😂😂 Also, great advice on the last one... That's definitely a warning, and premonition... 😳
@johnsmith-gs4qf21 күн бұрын
Run Forest Run!
@benlaw464721 күн бұрын
Love the mailbag videos Pea! Always interesting and entertaining! Thank you Pea! Have a fantastic weekend! 😊💝🙏
@garyboswell571821 күн бұрын
A Filipina opened my mind to all things naughty . She had no limits but unfortunately i did and i knew our relationship would never be compatible. Always enjoy your videos ❤
@szymonbaranowski818421 күн бұрын
was she mentally stable? it's not typical for this country but typical for some conditions
@jimmyg918621 күн бұрын
Go on, give us the deets!
@garyboswell571821 күн бұрын
@@jimmyg9186 not a chance in hell matey . Certainly not online .
@JeffersonRah21 күн бұрын
@@jimmyg9186 bro didn't want it in the wrong hole🤣
@deanplagmann380220 күн бұрын
To funny dude. Tell us what she suggested to make you say this.
@richgetz7 күн бұрын
Pea, great insights. Really enjoying your channel.
@gkeller995821 күн бұрын
While Pea may give you explanations, opinions and possible solutions. I have a more direct answer. First guy: RUN ! Second guy : what’s wrong with you. I’d tell the Filipina to RUN ! Third guy: RUN EVEN FAST !
@TruSigma71221 күн бұрын
Great one Pea! I’m a believer… if you observe a person enough, their true self will “peek” out. When it does… believe what you saw.
@VoltronsRev402121 күн бұрын
I think anyone accusing their significant other of cheating should be investigated for possible cheating from themselves. That man need to look into what she's up to!
@TheKruxed21 күн бұрын
Its often a confession
@colseverns984821 күн бұрын
Great Vlog Pea !! Tampo hey hahaha we also cop that in the west !! 😂 BTW love the nurses uniform …. Maybe give me a heart attack 🤣🤣
@stoneagedjp20 күн бұрын
Maybe we can help guy #2. Women in the US with his fetish? It's rare. In the Philippines? Surprise! It's rare there, too. These guys with niche ideas need to use some common sense.
@mentalcog218721 күн бұрын
The Thumb Nail made me think it was a Halloween Video and then,...... WOW was I wrong!!! 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
@TheFilipinaPea21 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@1brasov21 күн бұрын
Thanks! Lady in Black!
@kazi121 күн бұрын
🔥🔥🔥
@TheFilipinaPea21 күн бұрын
Well if that’s the reaction I get, I’m wearing black more often! 😳 🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@bayoumanbryan21 күн бұрын
Pea Your program is getting better and more professional all the time. i see your program passing over 1 million subscribers.
@TheFilipinaPea21 күн бұрын
I sure wish I could see that too! 🤣🤣🤣👍
@vincnet198221 күн бұрын
Advice for each 1. Run 2. Walk 3. Sprint
@globalismoblackman21 күн бұрын
@@vincnet1982 and not to drink too much red horse 🍺 beer lol 😆
Hi Pea another great informational video. They never fail! & I must admit that black leather outfit in your video title was made for you! 😍 Always appreciate you Pea & your work 🤩👍🏼💘💖❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💯
@joethecomputerguy119 күн бұрын
Watching this just confirms my feeling that being alone is a better option. As long as women give away the milk without having to buy the cow I am going this route.
@thomaswiegand965817 күн бұрын
Nice nurse outfit, Ms Pea Thank you for another great video 😊
@gibblespascack141821 күн бұрын
"A double negative is proof positive!" The dream was a real dream. Reality and fantasy can be difficult to differentiate for some.
@MakeTheRules221 күн бұрын
When "someone" can't tell fantasy from reality, it is called a mental disorder.
@christophbrand17 күн бұрын
You are a very smart, life-experienced, always positive thinking, extremely lovely, beautiful woman - just as one wishes for love ... I notice how my desire to visit the Philippines becomes more and more obvious. At the moment I live on the outskirts of a dull big city where I rarely see such cheerful and lovely people as you ... especially between November and April ... (oh my!) 🌼
@frankkie384921 күн бұрын
Nicely done and said,,interesting topics,,thanks for sharing,,😊
@ItsTimePictures21 күн бұрын
Pea! Pea! The thumbnail! Your reactions! We just can’t handle it! 😅 Edit: that final letter… Wow. Sometimes the curtain reveal is a heartbreaker. 😢
@JakeYde17 күн бұрын
Thank you for another great video Pea. Sorry for the delayed comment. Life has gotten interesting.
@chjj937118 күн бұрын
thanks Pea. I always learn something new from your work. this time was about engagements. Also, crazy dream believers? bondage s & m? I feel a bit more sane now, comparatively boring maybe, but just fine. 🙃
@alanweisner242121 күн бұрын
As always, honest, real and, just plain good advice. I do however very much enjoy the way you bring the humor 😂 Your content is always light, with humor and a hint of naughtiness. Stay safe 🙏
@lowlandbear21 күн бұрын
your so great Pea, so much of our difficulties are with our expectations. Stay honest, Thank you!
@Laszlo3421 күн бұрын
Wow!! You are *ALWAYS* soooo attractive, but this video's thumbnail is _burning a hole in my monitor_ !! wow! I love it! :D And thank you for all the awesome videos!
@Robert.Sheard21 күн бұрын
I love your mailbag episodes, Ms. Pea.
@clmco3621 күн бұрын
Pea is an absolute DREAM!!!!!! omg
@peterwilliams623921 күн бұрын
Hi Pea! I didn't think I was into leather until I saw you in the thumbnail ;)
@mikea.764621 күн бұрын
I simply love your wisdom, common sense and pure talent Pea! Salamat!!
@Theodicy10121 күн бұрын
Yes Pea, you should always "bring it up...in a good way", and it can be a "sticky situation". hehe Given all your puns and innuendos over the years, I couldn't resist on this one. Always nice videos. Take care!
@TheFilipinaPea21 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@dogsgowoofwoof2321 күн бұрын
You seem to be very open and very honest but I can't argue with anything you say as you are always right. Good for you and well done! 🌹Best wishes to you, wishing you health and happiness 😃🌹
@hermitbob730421 күн бұрын
As always top-notch advice from the reputable Dr. Pea.
@travisbonzpiercy266021 күн бұрын
I love peas videos and I am in awe every time of how beautiful this woman is. Wow thanks pea
@CorazonBagaipo16 күн бұрын
You're the embodiment of modern, cultured,smart educated Pinay. Am very proud of you !!!
@andrewsebastian95537 күн бұрын
Thank you for another great video ❤ I have to say that my filipina wife has been the best thing to ever happen to me 🥰