Are Filipinas Talented In The Bedroom? The Truth Revealed!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

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[@thebigmann81]

He should have had a talk before he moved in with her. But ar least he knows before he gets married

[@thebigmann81]

A hug or kiss on cheek is normal but the kiss below the ear that isn't real so innocent in western culture.

[@WolfsDE]

It is the last issue that makes me wonder about dating a province woman vs a city woman. I know from the videos on KZbin, city women tend to have more experience in bedroom matters. Which can be good or bad or a mixed bag, depending on the situation and perspective. I personally love an experienced partner because at least they know what they are doing. Now, this doesn't mean I want her to have been with an entire battalion of soldiers. Just would prefer someone with enough experience and confidence to know what she likes and can communicate what makes her really happy. Someone who knows how to please her partner as well. Is willing to be open minded and try something new now and then. Because it is important to keep the romance alive in the bedroom.

[@karlcauckwell2947]

No problem. It’s great to see another Filipino pea soup adventure video lol😂😂😂😂

[@dallasarnold8615]

Pea, you handle these issues so well. I think you have given so very good advice. One might think you have had formal training as a counselor. And WOW what a repetoire of innuendo for oral.

[@Walts-Travel]

I've found out for myself about how orally talented they are. They can talk talk none stop. 😅🤣😂

[@TheFilipinaPea]

HAHAHAHAHA Very true 😂😂😂

[@hansmeier3287]

Every woman can

[@jamesoconnor2753]

And very loud as well.

[@nahteo]

Omg this hits hard lol

[@thomasgordon1792]

Amen! Some days I pray for Tampoo lol

[@jerometruitt2731]

1) NEVER move in with her. 2) If she has kids that should be part of your vetting process. Lazy undisciplined kids mean a lazy undisciplined parent. Get outta there FAST!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Faster than fast, if possible 😂

[@DMSProduktions]

ODD for a Pinay mum!

[@Amazonkiller65]

Not necessarily...I am a single parent and sometimes it is overwhelming...don't be to quick to judge especially if you don't have experience with being a single parent!

[@Amazonkiller65]

Help is what they may need...it's your responsibility to build trust in the family unit so that you can help develop them. If you are not committed then don't waste her time!

[@RickTheBoss98]

Europeans brains and bodies develop quicker than East Asian brains and bodies we hit milestones quicker and puberty and such like quicker so maybe a 10-year-old European child is more similar to a 12-year-old East Asian child somewhere around a 12-year-old East Asian child and their behaving like a 10-year-old European child we might say well they're lazy or rude or not disciplined but the reality is they're just behaving their age we're just ignorant to that

[@MN_Engineer]

The first email isn't a cultural issue. It's something you'll run into with dating single moms.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Then don’t date single moms 😂

[@mikelund327]

@@TheFilipinaPeaExactly

[@49525Bob]

@TheFilipinaPea "Dating" sure has a different meaning from when I was doing it 60 years ago.

[@alastairthegreat2887]

​@@49525BobTimes change

[@Danno_A_Jyd]

For what it is worth @@TheFilipinaPea I married a single mom decades ago and we were very happy together until she passed on. I plan on repeating that 'mistake' in the hopes that lightning will strike again.

[@jonathanjohnson7036]

My ex-wife was Filipina and an expert at "playing the flute". She said she loved it because she enjoyed the feeling herself. Many times she would tell me that she wanted to play the flute and the rest of me should stay out of it. She wanted to know how it all worked. She was a serious student. In short, every woman is different. Everyone has things they like and do not like. The key is to try under the best circumstances. The advise I would give is to talk about what is good or bad and why something is good or bad. Encourage experimentation. Work at making your partner comfortable at trying something new or different. Trust built through communication.

[@angelbrother1238]

I have to thank Filipina pea for turning off of Filipina women as she admitted yes that most don’t take their religion seriously :) Thank God I got this info now . I like the honesty anyways

[@numinous2506]

Smart

[@Trodpint-A]

Playing the skin flute .

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

That's hot

[@glenfoxh]

Have talked to many people. Be in an online site, or in spaces such as VRchat. One thing is for sure, everyone is different. And not everyone fits in some boxed in stereotype, even if most do. Many have a thing for "paying the flute." Not just women. Sad but true, in part due to such concepts of modern feminism among women, and the "Red Pill" community among men formed due to modern feminism had gotten women to think about men in general, a concept called being Bi-Curious was created. That is, basically strait men, letting gay men who love to "play the flute" preform for them, when no women can be found who is willing anymore. >.> Is no wonder as to why many strait guys are wanting to find women outside of the US. It's not only far less gay, than to relent to the idea of letting gay men preform for a guy who is not gay, but makes it easier to find "women" many men actually want.

[@n3xr0th]

The puns had me laughing. Also, love the outros. Thank you for the videos.

[@CG87343]

The lengths you went to making that last question KZbin friendly was absolutely hilarious. Keep it up.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I scrubbed it as clean as I could 😂

[@christopherturco197]

@@TheFilipinaPea That was a stroke of genius!

[@BluEx22329]

She was baring up 😂

[@stevef68]

Yes, those were hilarious!

[@captainmango1355]

The issue with the children is a good example of why many men don't want a "ready-made" family. Wow, I thought I'd heard every slang for oral activity...but now I can add a bunch more to the list! I'm glad Starlink is doing well for you!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

If I were a man, I’d rather have my own family or none at all 😳

[@GUNMETALGUYUSA]

​Excellently Stated 💯

[@DMSProduktions]

@@TheFilipinaPea Hear hear!

[@metaphy]

@@TheFilipinaPea If you were a man, we wouldn't watch you 😁

[@napoleonmdusa8877]

@@TheFilipinaPea Come back to America and you'll be able to change that (act like a man) or take a side trip to Thailand to come back as a "man".

[@reginaldhall1810]

Queen pea? You're advice and your way of breaking things down telling like it really is and no sugar coating the truth 😊 two thumbs up to you

[@robertmeshew1935]

Great advice! Moving in with a ready made family is a difficult journey and will always invite conflict! Avoid being a third wheel and just enjoy her company at your home on your terms but do not be surprised when she decides to move on to a more permanent relationship! Either look for a woman that does not have children or enjoy her as a short term fling, because she will move on!

[@jackdale9249]

never understood why ANYONE would hook up w/a single mom ? and already married they are BAD news ! why you should verify your Pinoy you MARRY is a virgin! easy enough ! my relative suggested they both" get medical check ups !" he paid for it ! he arranged ahead of time the Dr would verify her virginity ! ( being careful ) the doctor assured him he would not go assertively inside w/a speculum and break her hymen! ( yes she had one! ) He broke it after they were married to her, it was a special gift to give her husband on the wedding night ! her family ( and her ) were proud she waited she was good educated catholic girl fr the provinces ! YES there are Millions just like her ! waiting ! they waited until the wedding night ! and have been happily married 31 years! YOU COULD? SHOULD DO LIKEWISE! btw THAT THING ABOUT SUPPORTING THE WHOLE FAMILY is bs YOU FIND A GIRL WHO's family ALREADY HAS SUPPORT LIKE A OLDER BRO/SISTER WORKING OVERSEAS AND YOU JUST TELL HER " WE ARE not A BANK FOR YOUR FAMILY! we GET PRIORITY ! " if you do help ? make it like hand up NOT a hand OUT ! one guy i know bought a tricycle for them now they own 3 jeepneys! see? and YES , you are safer w/ a girl who has NO family in USA or your country! so noone to leave you to be w/

[@2wheelin-IT]

Hello Pea! I just started watching your videos, and I must say that you are very savvy when it comes to giving relationship advice. I don't know if you have any professional training in this area, but you seem to excel at it. And, I love your clever words choices when it comes to unmentionables!! Respect from Texas

[@joesixpack5691]

Vlogs like this make me appreciate my sweet and educated Filipina wife of 12 years and her not needy, no drama small family. Don't sell yourself short, fellow expats. The good ones are out there...just takes some time to meet them. Don't end up with low hanging fruit.

[@dennisw5803]

The first letter regarding the kids really hit home. I had a lady with just 1 kid, exact same issues. I ended our engagement and walked away.

[@santos.2020]

For a time now, I'm seeing a lot of red flags around pilipinas women, I'm considering look up for Thailand or Cambodia 'cause they are more disciplined people when the subject is family and marriege. The Philipines culture is more complicent with undiscipline and careless about following foreign rules.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’m so sorry, Dennis, but at least you got away 👍👍❤️

[@michaelbarmby9105]

​​@@santos.2020🤣🤣🤣🤣 look forward to reading/hearing your sob story on a podcast or in the Bangkok post. 😁

[@spartanx169x]

You didn't see that before the engagement? You should have been able to see that within 5 or 6 dates.

[@PabloGonzalez-qh6ii]

​@@santos.2020Yet again you are generalizing. You can't really escape it.

[@robertlalor8090]

Pea, you are simply the best. I haven't laughed so much for a long time. You address serious issues in such a humorous way, while providing brilliant advice. Thanks so much

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Perfect! Then I consider that mission accomplished 😂😂👍❤️

[@RickTheBoss98]

@@TheFilipinaPea do you think using Christian Filipino I can find wife material in the Philippines and bring her to the UK? The problem is the UK has very bad prenuptial agreements so I don't want to be legally married in the UK I own one house mortgage free and soon will own a second mortgage free and I already have four children so I can't afford to lose their inheritance I did not inherit these houses I had to work for them so I value them highly I'm 35 years old and white male

[@ronaldjohnston439]

Yes Pea you are the best and I like the girl hitting on you at the beach here in America. On the third question my girl and I use it as foreplay to get ready for the main event she is worried if do it to long she might bite me and we would not want that and yes she is from the Philippines.

[@55018]

Great video Pea ...The 1st guy needs to step up and act like a father if he wants to move in with a Filipino mother, it's not all about him. For sure the Filipina would love him more. He could gradually introduce a few rules...and put a lock on the bedroom door! #2 Should mention the wife's sisters over amorous nature to his wife but very tactfully, and like Pea said... Slow down with the compliments. The last guy ... I think if he pleases his gf regularly... She will become more confident in the bedroom and want to return the favour! Well those are my thoughts 😊

[@smann7236]

@@RickTheBoss98 how did you manage to get two houses in England? The prices are super high...did parents help? Just some guy needs advice on the ladder

[@paulace0674]

I love your diplomatic answer to the last email. Loving your content. Hope you are well!

[@jamesandjelic7807]

OMG-you must have worked HOURS on those 'word substitutions'! You are very wise (and hysterical) Filipina. Very pretty too, love the dress and your long, long hair! As always, ang galing mo!

[@markmcdougal1199]

"A no denture adventure"??? OMG, I almost spit out my coffee I was laughing so hard.... For some in that sweet, innocent, naive country, where do you come up with all this stuff? You're amazing. 🥰

[@jamesmichaelfrank]

😂😂😂😂😂👌

[@Crazykid949]

my hot coffee came flying out my nose on the third e-mail when she got to her innuendos. Now I have to clean it all up

[@matthewgraham2546]

Pea's sense of humor is sharper than a dime store tack. Just when you think you've heard it all!

[@Crazykid949]

@@matthewgraham2546 it takes a high level of intelligence, a wide perception of things, and a really good understanding of cultures and vocabulary to be as funny as Pea is in her videos. This is one of the many reasons her videos are so entertaining.

[@matthewgraham2546]

@@Crazykid949 This is why I won't eat when watching Pea, she will suddenly say something so funny I'm afraid I will spit my food out.

[@JohnTanquary]

Hey Pea. You are amazing and your take on question was hilarious. Have to say I have never heard such a playfully tangled mix of metaphors for question #3: From a "Bill Clinton" to "carrots" to "dining pleasures", you were brilliant both at avoiding YT censorship and conveying your ideas and sound recommendations. You ARE the best!

[@Alan-e8v]

Yes and you put it into words most foreigners will understand

[@mpeugeot]

Some are more talented than others, but most are passionate and willing to learn, especially if they care about you.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

And that’s really all that matters ❤️👍

[@ClovisPoint]

IF !!!!!!!!!!!

[@MrJx4000]

Be careful what you wish for--once they "learn" to do that new thing, they may not want to stop doing it, and it won't be with you ;-)

[@garygehegan1468]

I think that everyone should have healthy boundaries and a clear understanding of what you can except and the things you can't 🌹

[@daronrice9931]

Excellent delivery 👌... You were able to get your point across 100% without having to using the words that you didn't want to use.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

It’s my specialty 🤣🤣

[@jerometruitt2731]

Going downstairs for breakfast and Kissing the Wookie are my new favorite innuendos😂😂😂😂

[@TheFilipinaPea]

😂😂😂😂😂 Happy to help!

[@bobbruce4135]

Warning: In my experience (and many other men who made the mistake of putting a ring on it or a visa petition) you'll be having no breakfast and getting a cold sandwich for lunch.

[@anthonyharris478]

🤣🤣🤣😅😂

[@Brandoloian]

For the first guy, this is why I don’t date single moms. Weather they are Filipinas or not. Thank you Pea!❤

[@TheFilipinaPea]

If I were a man, I wouldn’t either 😳

[@reddragon4482]

Agreed bro, I have dated them and it's worse than just staying single. You have no say in what way they are raised at all and you get no respect from anyone.

[@nickythekidd5517]

Single men and women should stay clear of single parents

[@MikeyzFunLair]

What about single guys who have kids? Double standards?

[@bigdaddy1371]

No makeup need it, your beautiful the way you are. Keep up all the hard work, always fun to watch.

[@Tential1]

The starlink update and episode was VERY useful. Starlink was something I considered as a way to get around any internet issues. Glad to see it works so well. It really opens up living options.

[@jorgschwartze6895]

Your choice and use of words in a language that is not your own is simply delicious. That was very entertaining.

[@justinwilbur4094]

hahaha I think your alternative language use on that last email was even better than hearing the original would have been!! Another awesome video, Pea. Thanks!

[@JJfromIA]

You can make any subject humorous. Thanks for the video, Pea!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks for sticking with me, Jason! ❤️

[@lobosolo3215]

Great video Pea. I was having a bad day until I watched your video and you had me rolling in laughter especially all the "excellent" word choices on the last email about bedroom etiquettes. You are very well educated above and beyond, I would say/think, 99% of Filipina women in all areas of life. Many Filipinas are very smart (well educated) yet they cannot hold a candle to you. Take care, glad to hear your system with Starlink is working. You will have issues during really heavy rains I feel as I use to have basically same system. Take care and may each day bring you joy filled and love into your life

[@rockersheart]

Biggest mistake is dating a woman with two kids. Don't do it guys. You have no say in discipline for them, they aren't yours! They are her kids. Just get your stuff and walk away. Not worth the headache

[@dirttrackin280h]

What about one with 6 kids...? 🤣🤣

[@rexlaughlin3897]

That would be mine she has 6 kids and she expects me to do the discipline 😂

[@TimeToTravel-u2x]

Amen...NEVER get involved with a woman with kids...biggest longterm waste of time/money ever.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

In most every case, I agree - for many reasons 👍

[@homebasebelgium359]

I would sit her down before moving in with her and I would say: "Listen, hon! I'm quite OK with the fact that you have two children and I'd love to be a responsible and caring father to them. But then I also expect them to accept me as such. I will be there for them when they need me. They can talk to me about anything. I will protect them from the dangers of the world. But they should realise that they are children and I'm the man in the house. What I say goes and I expect you to back me up on that. If I need to discipline them I will do so and I need you to accept that. A relationship between a (step)father and his children is pretty much like a relationship between a man and a woman: the love has to be mutual and respect has to come from both sides."

[@michaelmto]

Absolutely perfect guidance today Pea❤ You are mature beyond your years and have a perfectly wonderful attitude. Was so disappointed that I didn't get to run into you while you were over here in Florida but happy you got a chance to experience my country with all it's insanity and wonder Hope to experience the same in yours sometime soon. You really are fabulous girl

[@paulcantrell7900]

I just love your colorful terminology and use of word pictures you are truly amazing and talented. Please don't stop 😅

[@TazCid303]

I truly LOVE mostly all of her material. Pea has pleasant voice. She's definitely creative and intelligent. But...I wish that she'd just talk in a regular conversational tone instead of sounding scripted or like she practices to be a news reporter every day. She REALLY has a beautiful disposition and it'd be cool to hear her in her genuine regular tone and voice. Ijs ❣️🇵🇭

[@paulrine7447]

For me, when I first married my wife she had been a widow for several years. When we got married, I ran into conflict with our oldest son as he had been the man of the house since his father passed. When I showed up and stepped in, it caused an issue. (My wife had 4 kids at that time). the other 3 accepted me with open arms. The youngest, was 6 at the time, and I am pretty much the only father she has ever known. Since we have been married for almost 6 years now, the oldest has now come around and has fully accepted me with open arms. especially since I got him out a couple of sticky situations. Now we are all happy and one big family.

[@TimeToTravel-u2x]

Ufffdah...sounds like a nightmare!😂...

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Four kids? You’re a brave man - congrats 👍👍❤️❤️

[@wolf30324]

You deserve a medal of honor.......I would have run at the sight of all them children. Not a ready-made family. Unless you never wanted a family of your own or have done that already.

[@pyramidlake7124]

Congrats for being a DAD! All good things come to those who wait! or "Work for it" as you did.

[@TimeToTravel-u2x]

@@pyramidlake7124 here is your Trophy for being a world class sucker...sadly he is being used...

[@kmorris180]

Pea, I want to thank you for some advice you gave over a year ago. I had a situation wherein the girl started with acting like I was insulting her by offering assistance (I know, I know). But then a little help was ok. Suddenly she stepped it up and started threatening to do cam shows if she couldn't find another way to cover the family's needs. She stopped the affection when I became unable to help and never asked how I was doing when I had a sciatic attack. I know that I should have listened to you from the get. But I was in it big time. I came to my senses when in a dream I remembered what you said. I walked away and I want to thank you. Pea, I think you saved me from some horrible trouble on down the line. I'm sending you a virtual hug and high five. Winggirl Pea, the Kenman owes you one. ❤❤❤❤❤ Also, I don't think that I have ever heard so many ways to say "slob the knob."🤣🤣🤣

[@billbillson3129]

Great video Pea!!!! Incredible euphemisms as always! ❤❤❤

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Gotta keep it clean! Mostly 😂

[@billbillson3129]

@@TheFilipinaPea BAM! Another double entendre! Impressive as ever! Thank you for making and sharing your videos, and I hope you and your family are happy and healthy! Best wishes from Texas!🥰

[@PETERBURKE-l3e]

I love Your honesty, openess and humour Miss Pea. Your content is Excellent !

[@richardkoehler9917]

Alway enjoy you video . Stay safe and well .👍🏻🇺🇸🙏🏻❤

[@willietee8979]

I am Celebrating my 1st wedding anniversary in November. Everyone is different and you will have mixed feelings about alot of situations. My wife is the Greatest!! We are dealing with our differences as they arise Yes, it requires alot of give and take. But, if you are both in Love, I recommend to sacrifice yourselves. Do not let lustful behaviors change your feelings for her/him. After all lusting and certain lifestyles that you may prefer, may be against the Laws of God. I know it's tough, but if she doesn't like something don't make her do it. I would do anything to make my wife happy, within reason. But, she does the same for me. I cannot complain about my Pinay. But, I am thankful to God for his gift!! God Bless everyone and your relationships!! God is GOOD, ALL the time!!❤❤

[@BillyBoy444]

As always Pea you're never afraid to dive head first into such a sensitive subjuct. Giving guys a heads up on how to get ahead in the Philippines 🌭😂

[@AdventureAryck]

I see what you did there! 😂 It’s the best way to get in a women’s Head and see what she’s thinking 😅

[@smferreiro2610]

"Talent" is just a cherished ability developed with passion, love, and patience! Keep up the good work, guys! Rome's brightness glows just beyond the horizon!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

👍👍👍👍😂❤️

[@arthouston7361]

Once again, I have seriously enjoyed your choice of words. You really are a breath of fresh air.

[@TheDstokley]

I like the way you describe things to make it youtube safe. You are very good with words and creative.

[@neildillon837]

There is no reason to ever fall into the trap a being a step dad especially in the Philippines. The choices of beautiful, motherless girls abound.

[@michaelb2388]

Motherless? Perhaps you mean childless...

[@Gmantrini]

Yes Phillip this is totally normal and won’t change. Pls don’t let your emotions control your situation.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

It’s extremely common, yes 😳👍

[@steveforbes8287]

OUCH! Your response to the third person's issues had me falling out of my chair laughing like a hyena! You are too much! You are absolutely brilliant! Keep up the good work and never let your sense of humor fade!

[@CharlesBrown-p5j]

You are looking great and your work is top notch. Love your efforts.

[@Nature-bt3mj]

NICE VIDEO AS USUAL, thanks for the conversation.

[@Solo-sailor]

Dear Sweet Pea, Excellent and Very informative video! True story: After my divorce (from a mid-western woman), I began dating a recently divorced Filipina (10 years my jr). She was very playful in the bedroom (lights off, of course), until I wanted to pleasure her down there! Her exact response: “dirty down there”😮- although she (voluntarily) provided lip-service to me. I tried to reason with her. Told her it was unfair, why should I have all the fun? Then about a week later, without asking, I slowly went downtown, fully expecting to be rejected. To my surprise, the forrest was bare, and her 🐈‍⬛ was pleasantly perfumed! Without getting too explicit, let’s just say she was (literally) singing a different tune! On a side note (if any Filipinas are reading this): this is another great reason for choosing an older partner- we know where the “little-man-in-the-boat” is located😉! Before long, my Filipina was ready for more adventures, like the 68+1, for example. In conclusion: a man just has to “plant a seed”, then be patient, and let her figure it out. Filipinas are so willing to please that I believe there’s almost nothing she’s not willing to try, at least once. And if she likes it, you can add it to the repertoire. I found out later that she talked to an older Filipina friend, who convinced her that the act in question, would be to her benefit. Well that’s all I have to say (for now) except your Pom-Pom’s are purrr-fect ! ❤

[@VictorPrice4081]

My Filipina is happy with anything I like. I'm still in the USA right now. She insists to go with me to football games, to work with me, or any kind of special event. She loves anything that I love. She has a beautiful soul, but she doesn't seem to know much about Americans. She is precious trying to learn more about our culture, and it amazes me

[@joshuaramirez6039]

I remember that you once did an episode about how Filipinas consider children as assets. One thing that Filipinas need to be educated on besides sex is that other men’s children are not assets when it comes to foreigners. Just having one child for a Filipina is considered by most as a dealbreaker.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

They’re definitely not assets to a foreigner, no - they’re a cash drain 😂

[@Danno_A_Jyd]

JEEZ @@TheFilipinaPea ! Let's give the kids a break! Children are our future, so they deserve to be loved and need to be encouraged to remember how important family is. Not all foreigners are simply looking for an under-priced, very beautiful sex toy.

[@richwiedeman3128]

​@@Danno_A_JydThere is a difference between giving someone a break, and breaking your own happiness. Everyone deserves to be loved, but it's important to love yourself with the life you have. If you're sacrificing your peace hoping that someday in the future someone else's children will love you, then you are being a sucker.

[@Danno_A_Jyd]

I know just how wrong you are @@richwiedeman3128 because my ADULT kids STILL surprise me when they worship the ground I walk on. It is clear that you have had a bad experience. I'm sorry for your pain.

[@hhessu90]

Being a stepdad is maybe the most ungrateful and degrading position you can be in. Don't do it, mothers should learn to stay with the father of their children. If they can't do it, what loyalty do you hope to get from them? Think you're special? Take the short bus then.

[@dougmichaelroossien9115]

I love your humorous analogies ...very tasteful and enjoyable. I've had some interactions with Philippina girls over the years and I've been watching your videos one after another and just subscribed. I am a writer and have very much identification with all of your topics so far. We are just approaching the holiday season, and I recall a few particular things. One, the boxes and delight in shipping out to family at Christmas. The question always as an introduction in a chat ..."Have you eaten"? The temper and the jealousy, ...and the love of music. Many interesting memories.

[@darwinlaw2757]

I must say that you have a very awesome sense of humour and I really enjoyed your family friendly alternative descriptions in your last story Keep it up 😂

[@AS-ph4rb]

I had that same problem with my filipino girlfriend except it was her grandson. He would just walk into our bedroom without knocking and for the life of me I can't understand how she saw nothing wrong with that. Then he started sleeping between us, I spoke about it and nothing changed. So I started sleeping naked and what do you know, no more grandson sleeping between us.

[@TheJacali]

Hahaha 🤣

[@jimgilbert9984]

Hi, Pea! "Forget all about your problems." It seems my only problem is that I don't have a Filipina in my life. 😞 💔 Though I've sort of given myself a Filipina GF virtually by introducing a Filipina nurse into the urban fantasy novel I'm currently writing. Kids: That first guy must not have any experience with children at all. In America, kids practically live on their phones, and it starts when they're babies. I can't count the number of times I've seen a baby kept distracted by mom giving the little one her phone while at the supermarket, doctor's office, etc. And parents have been using the TV as an electronic babysitter since the 1950s. 😆 I think your advice for him is right on target. Sister-in-law: I can't even get one woman to show me any affection, even friendly affection, and he gets two? Humbug! My advice to him? Enjoy the ride until sis crosses the line. Bedroom bewilderment: Holy Crow! I've never heard so many different ways of saying (and avoiding saying 🤣) one thing in my life! Very well done! 👍 I understand the third guy wanting a certain act performed in the bedroom if it's something that really gets him going, but I think he's watched too much porn, wherein every woman seems eager and more than happy to indulge every man on Earth in this manner. But in reality, not every woman wants to drop to her knees in worship of the manliness of her partner, not even in America. Your words of wisdom for him were right on target. It's not just Filipinas who are reluctant to indulge their partners in this way, as I said above. I'm happy that your new gizmo is working well, but I think the concerns some of your followers voiced about rain might be valid. We have a cable TV company called Direct TV, and you get a small satellite dish to place on your roof or rail of your deck when you sign up with them. It's not a flat dish like yours; it's a "salad bowl" style dish. When it rains, reception goes downhill for people with one of these satellite dishes. All I can do is hope your dish works out well. Thank you for another great and funny video. As always, I'm looking forward to your next video. Be well. ❤

[@Daehawk]

I would LOVE to have one. My wife passed 5 years ago and Im alone and bored.

[@Michael-we9vp]

My neighbor married a Filipino woman and all he does is smile! Every time I see him he's smiling ear to ear!

[@TheJacali]

That’s sweet!

[@kenjohnson9654]

Must be a huge age gap haha

[@jimgray9169]

Hi Pea HYD? Listen, I liked the way that you shaded out certain that you couldn't use on you tube kinda like the way when a movie comes to tv but they had to filter out certain words and other things after it was played in theaters. BTW ( By The Way) I started saying kiss my grits after you said it actually we both have Florence Jean Castleberry for that one.

[@dew4040]

This young lady has the most amazing ability to play with words I've ever seen. I dated a Filipina in the US for 7 years and she was also very witty. Pea's answers to the email questions match up well to my experience. Love the vids!

[@mrvapor4791]

I predict that this is going to get some views.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

You think so? It’ll be interesting to see ☺️👍

[@CaptainJackSparrow110]

Why would you think dating a single mother has a "happy ending?"

[@reddragon4482]

It does for the kids father as he can fuck off and laugh at you the whole time lol. Men need to grow a spine these days and give these women the shame they deserve because, it is shameful.

[@RickTheBoss98]

It does for many couples I know people have had the same step dad for 30 years

[@AlanAwesomeness]

#1) I definitely knew about that cultural thing with shared beds and I addressed it well before we were married. It's not happening here. She has come to appreciate that fact that our daughter has her own room, appropriately decorated for her. #3) I definitely addressed that, very gentlemanly and delicately, on our first weekend together when dating. I love it and can't live without, giving and receiving. I told her she was under no pressure to do anything our first weekend together and we could just focus on getting to know each other. In fact, we didn't go "all the way" for several months. However, on the third night, just above the Taal volcano, she was frisky in the middle of the night and did her first ever "Monica." In our 7th year of our wonderful marriage, she has long ago read up on perfecting DT has never missed so much as a drop in the process. Hope I kept that clean enough for KZbin. I would address any relationship honestly, but gentlemanly, at the very beginning. This guy is already in a relationship, so I think Pea gave great advice...along with a hilarious way of telling the story. 😆

[@reddevilparatrooper]

I love watching your channel for your down to earth honesty!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Been married twice to a German woman and a Panamanian woman and have had bad luck. Me myself being born Filipino, my Mom wanted for me to marry a Filipina woman but knowing the culture of the husband being exploited by her family I said "NO"! Im getting older now and don't care. I chose not to get involved in any drama and move on to be just single. I chose to have my sanity over waking up angry everyday no matter where these women come from. I have noticed this working my job in casino security, domestic violence always happens....

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Well you definitely know Filipino culture then 👍👍👍

[@reddevilparatrooper]

@@TheFilipinaPea Thank you for being a great I say a truth teller and honest person. You have a great insight into human relationships in an in depth manner that even me as critical of all things, I respect that you are spot on in what you say. For me I love watching your content and respect what you present especially life changing things. I have made very bad decisions in my past that I watch your channel to prevent anymore bad episodes in my life as I get older. You have a great day and I will keep watch to keep my old dumb ass away from trouble. 👍👍👍

[@davidronbrothers1764]

Love your channel, love your content. Glad to be a supporter on Patreon. More Americans should know about your channel.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Well I certainly thank you for that, and for your support!! ❤️❤️👍

[@robertshaw2602]

Ours is a different story, finding love without these complications has been a great journey both in the province and in Australia. We are home with the family for the 8th time is the past couple of years and finding this soul and her family has changed my life thank to you ms Pea as we met via your channel. Good and bad in this life and 100% in relation to this subject 😊

[@Federico-ht7ks]

Guys, it’s so important to observe if the single mom you’re interested in has control of her kids. Do the kids respect her authority and do what she says? Or do they ignore her and view her as just annoying? Worst, are they running roughshod over mom? Then decide if it’s something you can live with. Find out before hand what kind of relationship does she expect you will have with the kids. Will she allow you to discipline them? Don’t be so quick to pass on what could be the love of your life because she has kids.

[@mannyrodriguez3933]

I’m dating a girl online who has one son. A 3 year old. What kinds of questions would you recommend me ask about this sort of thing you mentioned? I’ve been curious but I’ve been unsure what to say or how to pose the right questions

[@Federico-ht7ks]

@@mannyrodriguez3933 The first question to ask is to yourself. Are you up for helping raise a child this young as your own? You could be the only father the child will know. It will require patience, time, energy and financial resources for years. Can you see yourself with this woman, in this kind of relationship for 5, 10, 20 years? Yes, there's a risk that any relationship may not last like we think it will. But we get a feeling that this is the one and put all of our chips on the table. Now, the questions for the lady: Where is the father of the child? Is he still in the child's life? In your life? Do you still love him? What are your expectations of me as a potential step-father? As the child gets older, can we agree that I will be involved in disciplining the child as I would my own? A word of caution: If the lady is married, few can afford a divorce, so most likely her and the husband are just separated. In which case you want to seriously consider not going forward with the relationship. He can show up anytime with all the legal rights of a husband and you're out no matter what she says. Lastly, what kind of financial support will you be expected to provide for her family? This is a huge issue for some guys. Most Filipinas feel compelled to share their resources with their families. If you can comfortably and freely do it, of course it's a huge feather in your cap with the family and your Filipina.

[@preseil6285]

Pea, you are the best at double entendre 😄😄 As you know, my wife is a Westernized Filipina; however, some of my experiences with her are similar to what you describe regarding Filipinas born and raised in the Philippines. For example, when we first started dating I was expected to pretty much court her entire family and we were never allowed to go anywhere without a chaperone....usually her little sister 😄 Very different from what I was used too but well worth it as it turns out. Things are great now but when we first met she wouldn't even hold my hand in public😄😄 She said she didn't want to make her friends jealous😳😄😄 I won't speak to our bedroom activities but I will say that communicating desires, as you said, can fellatiate bedroom proclivities👍 Take Care, Pea! Have a good week😄👍🤙

[@lovebloomsfromafar6302]

fellatiate?!🤣

[@preseil6285]

@@lovebloomsfromafar6302 oh ...I meant facilitates 😁

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Fellatiate? And that, folks, was called a Freudian slip 😂😂😂

[@byronjones7263]

Fallatiate??? Wow that's a reach. "Please pass me the Tea Bag." @@TheFilipinaPea

[@larslarsman]

Thanks for you good advice.

[@fauxque5057]

The bedroom door is an easy fix. You have to swap out the door knob for a locking door knob. When my kids were little the simple push lock on the bedroom door was enough. But they figured out how to pop the lock and come in during adult play time. So I put a digital lock on the bedroom door so we could just avoid scarring them for life.

[@genepothier8398]

Hi Pea .. just came across this video … I have to say the last of the 3 responses cracked me up .. especially at the end if I heard that right a ‘no denture adventure ‘a no denture adventure’ HAHAHA … that was great! Keep the videos coming… always very entertaining and informative … ty

[@daniseakey6773]

Pea you are awesome!!! I think I am already well adjusted to being comfortable with the Filipina woman

[@stub4958]

Pea, you gave some good advice. I was thinking about just leaving the first girl, mostly based on the lack of respect from the kids. I believe if I'm going to live with a woman with kids and pay the bills, I deserve respect. I think you gave him a better path, including the go back to separate homes. It may not end well, but she couldn't say he didn't try.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I always try to avoid the most extreme options till all else fails ☺️👍

[@stub4958]

@@TheFilipinaPeaGood way to be.

[@Papasan6363]

I have dated a few Filipinas, only 1 would not have a banana snack. Once she informed me that is something she would never do ever and no sex until married, and this was after she pushed me into a trip to Niagra Falls. Sorta felt used because if you basically demand someone take you on a trip somewhere, especially a romantic location and then you say that AFTER I took care of her "man in the boat" just seems like false advertisement. She had been in the US for years, even works for the federal government. So she definitely knew she should have mentioned before the trip. So much for trying to make our first time together special. All I am saying is, a woman should be honest so a man will know BEFORE he takes her to a romantic location.

[@Trodpint-A]

She could’ve been saying those things for leverage on you. Why do anything for a woman who refuses to sleep with you?

[@jackdale9249]

no sex until marrige ? sounds like you did!

[@paynalward6921]

This is always so funny! And the best humor has a little( or maybe a lot) of truth in it. When in Cebu first spending time with my girlfriend she expressed a desire to learn how to orally pleasure me….sure I could teach but I decided to show her how there are literally hundreds of thousands of …uh…”instructional“ videos available free on line! Well, you would have thought I had found a treasure map! Being the great student she is my teacher friend learned quickly and moved on to many other subjects as well! 😂😂😂 Problem solved!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I think … you created a monster 👹 😂😂😂😂👍

[@shared-value]

@@TheFilipinaPea I think a that kind of "monster" dating service would be quite popular ;- 0

[@brianbond7754]

Lol love your comments . This is as good as a tv show . Can't wait to go there after Thailand

[@TheVinsontafoya]

Holy chit Miss Pea!😅 I almost didn't watch this one because of the title.. But you gave excellent advice and the last question was so artfully explained. I laughed pretty good with your answer!😂😂😂 Once again good one. I'm still being introduced to your content via the KZbin algorithm. I enjoy your take on what you speak on. Thanks again for your video. I enjoy your content.❤😅

[@christopherturco197]

Pea, you truly had me rolling with your response to that third email question! 🤣🤣🤣 I didn't know there were so many euphemisms for "playing the upright organ" or for "eating clams raw on the half shell." You always entertain me with your creative wit, and I love your sense of humor! ❤👍👍👍 I especially love how you make yourself laugh when you turn a phrase as only you seem to know how to do. Hmmm! For some reason I'm suddenly hungry for a Filipina-made all meat taco. 😋🤭 Oh, well. See you in 3 days.🤙

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahaha Thanks for adding two more! 😂😂

[@Mottleydude1]

I’ve had the exact opposite problem with my wife’s older sisters. You probably know how domineering older sisters can be in Filipino families. Well my wife’s older sisters tend to criticize her for private aspects of our life and me personally telling them to mind their own business in a polite manner didn’t work. So I did what most Midwestern guys would have done. I repeated my “mind you own business” comments only in an aggressive, loud and not to be misconstrued statement. That not only got their attention it made their husband’s laugh at their predicament (I had talked to both their husband and they both gave permission to read them the riot act). The other issue was they have a bad habit of making unilateral family decisions that affect me without discussing it with me and just assume I’ll be ok with whatever they decide. Her one older sister is particularly bad about it. I know that part of the issue is that of hierarchy and status by age within Filipino families and even though I’m actually older than her sisters they view me as of a lower status because I married their Younger sister. Again talking to them about that was a waste of time. So when her older sister eventually crossed a line where that was concerned i again had to get her attention, in no uncertain terms. I hated having to be a jerk about but if they learned anything it was not to cross me when it comes to my prerogatives as head of household and family leader.

[@wernerschneider4460]

Oh, one year before our marriage and one day before I went to the airport again to fly home, my wife's eldest sister, nicknamed "The General" by some neighbors and the local head of the Department for Land Reform, asked me to her house, seated me in a chair and started interrogating me (in the presence of my later wife) to find out if I was really serious with her youngest sister. It lasted 10 minutes and ended with her being completely satisfied with my answers. We have a very good relationship ever since, and she was twice in my country too (on her own expense, she can afford).

[@Mottleydude1]

@@wernerschneider4460 Now I would have had no issues with that. I’m the professional type myself. However, my wife can walk circles around them in her leadership skills. Not only that let’s just say her older sister’s decision making abilities aren’t exactly the best. Besides once I had my wife’s Nanay’s housekeeping seal of approval it was like that was it. I was in. Besides, I didn’t care that her older sisters were so bossy. I cared that they were sticking their noses in our personal business.

[@deejay7060]

You weren’t being a jerk about anything. You were being blunt.

[@grahammidwinter9895]

Similar experience for me, but my wife has become more westernized now.

[@Banyan3]

I LOVE "kiss'n the wookie"!😂

[@TheFilipinaPea]

😂😂😂😂👍

[@jeffb2592]

You always have the best videos... very entertaining and always puts a smile on my face. Thanks!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thank YOU, Jeff 👍❤️😊

[@Alan-e8v]

You are so hip and up to date with your words and information

[@chrismacqueen4891]

If she's not willing to happily service you 6 months it it won't change. I've had this issue myself and known many foreigners the same. They act like its the end of the world and that you are so bad for asking. Let them know its a deal breaker for you and they will *promise* to work on it but never really do because they don't want to. Filipina's don't get it or care that sometimes you do things you don't personally like to make your partner happy and they don't understand the pleasure in making their partner happy doing said thing. They aren't materialistic as western women but they are still women so mostly self centered.

[@bobbruce4135]

Truth. I made the mistake of petitioning one and I met many Western men who had wives that were colder in the bedroom than a fish. We hear lots of accolades from married men on this site. But that's not what I've observed at Asawa couples parties. If the men mostly wanted babies they hit the jackpot. But, if you want "fun" and have the snip it's often disappointing.

[@xrpwatts2116]

They are as talented as you make them. teach them what you like.

[@urbanws1234]

I love my Filipina wife. The differences we have make us both stronger. I don’t view any of our challenges as a problem.

[@Nordic_Sky]

How long have you been married?

[@urbanws1234]

@@Nordic_Sky 6 Years but that really is irrelevant. Nothing will ever have me viewing a challenge as something negative. Every relationship be it with a friend, family, or lover has challenges. It’s about how things are handled. Neither she nor I are victims nor do we view it in such a way. neither one of us causes harm and we both have good intentions. Also we both know that we don’t need to see eye to eye 100% and that is perfectly acceptable.

[@Nordic_Sky]

@@urbanws1234 Good for you! Reason I ask how long is in the initial period, when love is raging, it is easy to underestimate how important the differences are. But you've been married long enough you've figured it out. Congrats!

[@urbanws1234]

@@Nordic_Sky :)

[@kenjohnson9654]

The biggest difference that makes you stronger (and happier) is the age difference haha

[@royeriksen103]

Thank you Pea! You are giving clues on how to understand and sometimes how to solve issues on what can happen between people of two different cultures. Ooops, that was a long sentence :) Anyway, your advice's in this video is sound. I met some of you kabayans, and never did I feel disappointment in the bedroom. I love the attitude of making love instead of taking painkillers. And, it seems to me that Pinay's from any background are up to exploring different sides of sexuality. Sure, some might have trauma's. That's another story, but in general, you are so good! I would never go for an European female activist, who has so many issues when it comes to relationships.

[@paulcantrell7900]

Fantastic advice and so appropriate, you certainly have a way with words that leaves me nearly speechless awestruck smilultaneously

[@leonardocrisostomo5975]

Omg . I almost died on happy meal.

[@jerryfritz374]

Question number 2 Might turn to disaster. Don't be alone with the wife's sister. Always try to be around wife.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Agreed 👍👍

[@brandonlevy8680]

They are ruthless in the, Philippines. Especially on social media and text. Your partner's friends AND family will be messaging you to..."meet up", without the partner around.... This is seriously a common occurrence. So bad in fact it i a specific requirement when I hook up there. Don't add me to any social media unless you want drama.

[@dirtydoug5050]

He should parade around naked in front of the sister. Then he will know. It’s important to get to the bottom of this.

[@StanHasselback]

I've actually found in Asia especially in Bundist countries that a "Lewinsky" is not a normal practice. The Philippines is more of an exception, I've read that Filipinos have one of the highest rates of watching certain videos or maybe it's just more westernize. I wonder if asking that question in a tasteful way in your interviews might be possible?

[@TheFilipinaPea]

The Philippines is the number 1 consumer of porn in the entire world. Fact. 😳😂😂😂😂

[@davideos5943]

then its a wonder that generally they don't have experience or desire for oral. @@TheFilipinaPea

[@robertwilliamson922]

@StanHasselback “…Bundist countries…” Do you mean “…Buddhist countries…” ? ?

[@patricks357]

Your wordplay is awesome! Great video

[@etmax1]

Well I was just really impressed with your ability to vocalise such clever innuendo. I couldn't have come close to such a high level of expertise.

[@torahwarrior2442]

Enthusiasm trumps everything else in the bedroom...

[@TheFilipinaPea]

👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@spykemxd]

I repeat, no single moms. Ever!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I do tend to agree ☺️

[@nostringsguy185]

Only problem is that a filipina without kids 99.99% for sure wants kids, and that is absolutely the last thing I want personally. I'm happy with single mothers 35 to 42 roughly, as by then the kid(s) are close to or past 18. Finding a filipina who doesn't have kids and who also doesn't want kids is like finding hens' teeth.

[@spykemxd]

@@nostringsguy185 oh no, I'll gladly give her kids, I just don't wanna play some other dudes save file, if you get my meaning.

[@nostringsguy185]

@@spykemxd yeah, understand. I'm way past the stage of life of wanting kids. I value my freedom too much.

[@spykemxd]

@@nostringsguy185 I can understand that.

[@colinsmith1071]

I can confirm my wife, hates it, I mean really badly. I can count on two hands, and we have been together for over 13 years. Also with the kids it seems to be a cultural thing. I'm Irish/Anglo-Saxon which it is the opposite, however either the kids are kidding into our bed or she is sneaking into theirs. IDK, i just kind of accept it.

[@bobbruce4135]

I've met dozens of Fil-west asawa couples at parties and the majority of the wives loath doing anything with their husbands unless it's for the purpose of making babies. I hear all the positive feedback in these channel comments, but that's not what I observe or what happened to me. IMHO, the bedroom goes cold after they make their retirement plan (babies).

[@JonnyDee]

I'm with you on the "preferred activity" in the bedroom, & not bragging, but I've been with hundreds of women, & my Filipina gf is the absolutely the best I've ever had. I believe it's because they are so caring & wanting to please.

[@catarctic]

Salamat Pea 😊 for an other entertaining episode of yours. May God bless you and brings joy to your life, greetings from Hungary 😸

[@garyjacobsen4990]

Thanks for sharing Miss P. Very enjoyable 😘 Love you

[@VintonVinnyVicci]

I just started watching you a few days ago but damn, you are amazing at this! Great work!!

[@davidwood3852]

Nice video enjoyed it I love the costume cheerleader works

[@JohnHumez-kw8hx]

As usual great insight from the Pea, BTW nothing wrong with your pom poms

[@ChasRMartin]

You get three gold stars for your collection and variety of euphemisms. 🌟🌟🌟