Are Women Truly Oppressed?

[@russellmolimock]

We often conflate problems of nature with problems created by men. As if men were responsible for scarcity, war, inequality, etc., when in reality life is just hard. The great irony is we as men (good men anyway) do everything we can to make life easy for the women in our lives, and this contributes to the view that life is and should be easy, so when bad things happen it’s because men made them, rather than realizing that’s the default and we should be grateful for the limited peace we have. It’s a lot easier to criticize the systems that produce that peace than it is to contribute to them.

[@erinbyrd5377]

@@russellmolimock Wow, you just summed that up concisely, well done 👍

[@Patson20]

This is often because women, and urban people in general, have been sheltered from and disconnected from nature for so long that they assume it doesn't exist anymore and nothing Is beyond our control. So all these things have to be willful choices rather than natural laws

[@jw5163]

so basically the West is suffering from success

[@orangeandslinky]

@@erinbyrd5377 Yes, russell, did that, but it's only because you have ears to hear him and eyes to see what he's talking about. You might be free now Erin. You sound free.

[@nerychristian]

Very true. The default in nature is danger and scarcity and discomfort. It takes a lot of work to create a safe space in nature that is comfortable and clean and orderly. The problem is that most women are out of touch with reality, and don't understand how food is produced and who created most of the things that they are able to enjoy. Women think that they are entitled to those things without having to work for them, just because they were born with a vagina

[@Kevin.Boyle007]

Funny how no one talks about the oppression of men. Most men are not rich millionaires - most men are wage slaves living a life of trying to stay afloat, trying to provide for their families, trying to save up money to take a vacation one day, hoping interest rates don't go up, making it that much harder for them to pay the mortgage, working 8-10-12-16 hour days. To be fair, now women have assumed the role of wage slave as well. But this is not the fault of men, women got exactly what they wanted, only to discover working at a job you don't like, because you have to, is not all sunshine and roses.

[@daniel-gardner]

This is truth. We are programed genetically (an evolutionary characteristic) to value the female over the male, and we literally can't see truth unless we deliberately "squint".

[@Ssstone3.14]

Which is how men are harmed by our capitalist patriarchal religious colonial society. And women are harmed differently and arguablly worse and the people reasonable are men

[@Pardesland]

That is the miserable existence of most _americans,_ who have been brainwashed by wall-street propaganda into believing that's the way that modern Life should be. In all the countries all throughout Europe, for example, from Russia to Portugal, from Greece to Norway, it is very different. Because all throughout Europe, workers do, in fact, have rights. Only the americans are willfull, brainwashed slaves, with a severe case of stockholm syndrom, who prefer moaning and complaining about how miserable they are and what poor victims they are, instead of just fucking *DO* SOMETHING ABOUT IT.

[@n0b0d1-rc6dz]

Elites tapped another group to make more for themselves.

[@Anotherguy1st]

Yeah I always laugh about my supposed male privilege. It seems to be mysteriously absent in all areas where it might help me as a man.

[@david8905]

"Are women truly oppressed?" Yes! Not all, not all, not all, but most are oppressed by their own emotions and imaginations.

[@gort5583]

Yep women have been primarily oppressed by their inherent biological state.

[@mohdmohtashim9841]

we suffer more in imagination then in reality

[@ghiffaribara2949]

But men are also oppressed though... just in a different way and the why

[@dquinn9482]

They suffer from their animus. They abuse themselves with it and call it internalized misogyny

[@jondo3817]

great comment.

[@fakshen1973]

I've never known an oppressed group to also be the largest voting bloc in a free country... most eligible to vote, most registered to vote, and most votes.

[@kyledabearsfan]

With the most financial assistance for higher education, and better results in court systems. Amongst many other things.

[@jeremyfallock4088]

And most educated

[@lovelettertothewest]

"I had never seen the Barbie movie because I'm an adult..." 😂 Priceless...

[@jasonjones4036]

I found a smart, articulate woman- with views like yours. I can't express how happy I am and how fortunate I feel.

[@erinbyrd5377]

@@jasonjones4036 We need to ban together and change society.

[@pugster73]

Mothers should teach their daughters how to be accountable. Instead, mothers teach their daughters that it is the man's fault and they should be accountable for everything.

[@Anotherguy1st]

@@pugster73 Collectively we should teach women many things, but we don't seem to ever want to hurt their poor feelings, and sometimes that is necessary.

[@Life-Taught-man]

Most mothers don't teach their children (especially the boys) anything.....other than to hate men and even their own fathers.

[@andreparadis6076]

I was viciously attacked by a female partner in a sustained physical onslaught 30 years ago. I didn't even defend myself for fear of hurting her and nor did I report the attack. As a man I don't believe men of my generation even have the capacity to understand let alone defend against the brutality women are capable of. I struggle to understand that some women care nothing about who they hurt.

[@erinbyrd5377]

@@andreparadis6076 I'm really sorry that happened to you.

[@ChyroneMcThunderschlong]

I've been assaulted by at least 4 women.

[@TheJohnDoeLibraryRoom.]

"Harvested for their seed". God, are there women out there actually saying that?!!😧

[@erinbyrd5377]

@@TheJohnDoeLibraryRoom. Basically lol

[@thepope9023]

Sperm donars. Can find these women easily on any dating app. They see men as nothing more than sperm donars and disposable resources.

[@Varonno]

Say it again, Cher! 🎼🎤I’m a w-o-m-b-m-a-n!

[@rambopack9140]

It’s funny how some say this but its most likely the opposite will happen although men are for the most part ignored. They remain the main innovators,rulers,warriors,laborores of society. Men will someday outinnovate themselves from women and they wont be able to do a thing about it.😂

[@Patson20]

Whats even more crazy is just like most feminist ideas an artificial womb would make women irrelevant rather than men. Combine a sex bot with an artificial womb and crispr and we could erase the weaker more costly sex from society.........and women think this will benefit them

[@j-555]

I’ve never understood how or why women ignore the centuries of matriarchal monarchies, for example. And they also have so much privilege in society it’s unreal. They get a pass for everything but then get to act oppressed, eating their cake and having it too. American women hate men.

[@AliciatheCho]

I’ll never get why women think a matriarchy would be heavenly when they’ve all experienced mean girl behavior.

[@HarigastiEisen]

@@j-555 like nowadays EU with Ursula Von der Leyen. She’s doc med, mother of many child’s and gives a shit on feminism. Or 16 years Angela Merkel in Germany. Feminists better complain to them. Look to Norway . I live there. Feminist country. With the most dissatisfied women.

[@mmmbbop9351]

I know. Be careful of that hatred though man, it will eat you up inside.

[@mitchsorenstein7105]

Who would’ve know taking accountability for your actions would make you happier and feel more fulfilled! Great work love the vids

[@kabirdas2786]

The Goat

[@gabrielhagedorn5942]

Unfortunately, taking little-to-no accountability for your actions and decisions in life has become much more common nowadays. I’m still young, so I don’t really have much lived experience to base this claim on, but just hearing the various different claims made about sexism, racism, or any other type of -ism without giving any consideration to other possible reasons for people being treated differently gives me more than enough reason to believe it.

[@TheNatedoggva]

Are you implying that racism and sexism is the same? I'd love to hear this.......

[@gabrielhagedorn5942]

@@TheNatedoggva That was not the implication. I mentioned those two prejudices because those are the most common prejudices people use to explain away their bad circumstances rather than critically thinking about why they might be in said circumstances.

[@gabrielhagedorn5942]

@@TheNatedoggva I am not. I used those -isms as common examples of things that people use to shift responsibility away from themselves when something doesn’t go their way. They were both relevant to mention, but they are obviously not the same thing.

[@TheNatedoggva]

@ If they are not the same thing then why did you mention racism? You do realize that your statement backs SEXISM much more than it does RACISM. And that also depends on how you define racism. How do YOU define racism????

[@gabrielhagedorn5942]

@ I already explained why I mentioned both -isms. I’m not sure what you mean by my statement “backing” racism. My statement in no way defended or endorsed any -ism, but maybe I’m missing something. How do YOU define “backing”?

[@AnakinsDaycareForPadawans]

The truly oppressed must believe that they are the real oppressors. The majority of men have been convinced that they’re oppressing women.

[@drdzdd]

I sincerely hope you and your husband have a great life. You have the intelligence to get it so tons of respect to you

[@benchapple2117]

"I've never personally seen the Barbie Movie, Because I'm an adult." Fantastic.

[@cwilliams7630]

They're not oppressed at all. Thier wants and complaints have been thoroughly acknowledged. You see it in the housing market, the job market, the judicial system, government assistance and subsidization, in popular mass media where positive feminist reinforcement is in abundance. So on and so forth.

[@musicman9434]

Great job Erin, you really understand this and can make a difference! Feminism is a slice of the oppression/oppressor pie and once you have studied it honestly and truly get it all the other slices of the pie will become apparent. Race, sexual orientation, gender(feminism) and class are the main ones and have the exact same operating system that are collectively known as woke. The ideology is at its fundament identical for all of them. What lies under all that...well that another discussion all together! Fantastic work!

[@yamaforough9021]

You are a breath of fresh air

[@The-Man-On-The-Mountain]

No matter what they do or say, no matter how horrible and toxic they are, they are always victims and stunning and brave, oppressed and empowered, all simultaneously (which is impossible if you use basic logic) according to the MSM and society.

[@dennisbr123]

Great video, if you havent read it yet, id like to recommend the book the manipulated man by Esther vilar. Your Channel is a blessing

[@Varonno]

You can listen to a talkie if you’re resourceful enough on here

[@Guildofarcanelore]

I would definitely like to hear your thoughts on that book.

[@Ssstone3.14]

Of corse it's a man saying this 😂 good job bro, you're such a based little pawn of patricapitalism, I'm sure you'll win!

[@KJ-pu8dw]

@dennisbr123_read it first in 2018. Some of it aged a bit but sadly very true information.

[@Blazerbarelyknowher]

Written in 1971 - that book is so accurate its terrifying.

[@discoveryman59]

This young women has wisdom FAR beyond her years! She will be blessed in her life.

[@billybpoon]

I completely agree with your point about taking control and accountability in our actions and choices. It's become too common for people to view themselves as victims, shifting the blame to external factors instead of recognizing the power they have to change their circumstances. This mindset not only limits personal growth but also contributes to a culture where responsibility is seldom taken. Emphasizing individualism, personal agency, and accountability is essential, not just for personal development, but for fostering a society where individuals can thrive and take ownership of their futures.

[@FireballKGK]

Crazy that this video isn’t more viewed

[@erinbyrd5377]

@@FireballKGK If you have any recommendations for getting it out there, let me know. Maybe using different tags? I appreciate your comment, thank you 🙏

[@lesliemacmillan9932]

Presentation style is improving as you get more comfortable. Good job. Great content, too.

[@r.s.4174]

Erin, this video is gold. I often recommend you to other people who drunk the feminist coolaid.

[@joemahma3017]

Book recommendation: Ernest Belfort Bax - The Fraud of Feminism

[@doloresabernathy9809]

In the US, women have most of the new college and graduate school degrees by a proportion that increases every year, including in powerful professions such as law and medicine. In many powerful organizations and professions women are the majority of managers, such as in government, academia, media and publishing. I work for a government law office and every person above me in the office is a woman, over several levels of reporting. It’s fine with me if they do a good job but I have to wonder why there are still programs targeted at the professional,advancement of women and women affinity groups. A male professional affinity group would be banned if anyone was foolish enough to attempt it. I suppose history is full of over corrections but enough already. And I feel bad that my son is facing a world where he is constantly facing explicit discrimination in school and in his future profession.

[@valerialcc16]

Have you ever read Camille Paglia? Her essays on feminism written 30 years ago are incredible

[@halo_1232]

Of course they are now that they pushed away men willing to provide for them the easier life. Now as a collective they are free to work for their living, just as men have been doing until the dawn of time + no more courting, dating and initiative for relationships by men.

[@hempenasphalt1587]

Sad

[@jeremiahreilly9739]

★★★★★ Another brilliant, reasoned discourse. Thank you.

[@mrfloydp]

Thank you so much for another great video. It really does help.

[@jPaulSmith1994]

Another brilliant video, Mrs. Byrd.

[@wisefix9256]

Your work is top level, and very important in the fight to save our society and western civilization as a whole.

[@joeywilliams7490]

This is my favorite video yet. Erin you are truly an inspiration and a breath of fresh air. Thank you so much for your courage, your research, and your willingness to share this information. So grateful for you!

[@mrdawks8932]

Thank you for this Video Ms Erin. You are very Beautiful!

[@erinbyrd5377]

You are welcome 🤗

[@ianwynne764]

Thank you Erin. Have a wonderful life.

[@kfiralfiavideo]

Janet Fiamengo makes a pretty strong case that the feminist movement was poisonous and radical from the outset. I say this only because I get the sense that you put more blame on the latter “waves”.

[@jwtrucker5402]

Feminism-giving women the legal ability to exercise their natural inclinations in order to then destroy the family and thus the nation. It was known that women would destroy the nation from within, once given the ability to do so.

[@Life-Taught-man]

The Feminazi movement was a HATE movement from the start (Seneca Falls Convention 1848). It was an official war on men right there and then.

[@TurbodanNM]

The bigger picture is that this ideology, among several others, is supported and proliferated within society specifically to cause turmoil, division and conflict. We must be kept preoccupied trying to put these fires out so we don't start looking at economic issues.

[@MrArkwrights]

Unfortunately non of these observations will reach the mainstream media

[@AurielAlpha]

The MAJOR ISSUE is that the majority of women are fed bits of information from an outside source and THEN are led to believe what they were told and live like what they were told was the TRUTH.

[@jimmyboy131]

Another part of that is that the media consistently preaches the same message, with no nuance, no discussion allowed (especially if you're a man), and no dissent allowed.

[@AurielAlpha]

@@jimmyboy131 - RIGHT Jim - just as happens HERE.

[@bplayerr1]

Lies women told. Lies women bought. Men who say otherwise are chastised and can even lose their livelihoods.

[@dissect123]

No, women are not "led to believe", they actively choose to follow a certain propaganda without any critical thinking. They are not mindless sheeps led to the slaughter, they are capable of questioning a narrative and they need to be held accountable for their actions and choices.

[@nukelaloosh4795]

OKAY

[@armanddimeo6575]

Great video that speaks the truth.

[@Mayhamsdead]

I'm glad to see your subscriber count drastically went up since I've last seen one of your videos. Keep it up! This video in particular is very poignant and delivers when it comes to addressing the subject in your title. Thank you for being straightforward, rational, and punctual.

[@DerStoischeBeobachter]

As a Swiss Man, I find it always amusing to hear People talk about equality of the Genders. I like to say, yes you should have that ... Right and also I support Mandatory Military Service for all fit swiss Women. Surprisingly only a few Women are fine with this proposition. All fit swiss Man have to serve from the Age 20- 34, first basictraining about 127- 147 Days then every Year 3-4 Weeks refresher training until you have Served your full Year. The unfit have to do a civil Service or Pay till 34 a compensation. Women don`t have to do any of this, for them it's voluntary. IMHO if you really want equality, you have it in every single point and bear the consequences like an should do Adult. But Away with the humor for a moment, I don't want to see women in combat roles, because what can happen to them as POW's or even by their Male Comrades, War brings up the worst in everyone.

[@Life-Taught-man]

What can happen to women during war is NOT anywhere near as bad as what happens to men (as even the worst of the worst of enemies always are more humane to women than to men) and even if it is just as bad then SO WHAT ? Is men's suffering any less painful to men ? Do men feel less pain if they're subjected to torture ? Is a bullet capable of killing a woman incapable of killing a man ? I have no problem with women being subjected to exactly the same thing men are subjected to, otherwise you without maybe realizing it do support favourtism and discrimination against men just for being born men. Palestinian men in israeli prisons are being raped by IDF soldiers and with objects. Is that less vicious than women getting raped by enemies ? During the former Yugoslavia war Bosnian and Croat women might have been raped but their men had their heads chopped off WITH KNIVES by the Serb men and they played soccer with their heads. FACT.

[@neoglacius]

not only they will refuse it but in ukra theyre marching so more dudes are drafted

[@GearysGarage-h6s]

.. thank you for the video link Erin, a brutal example of ideological one sided conditioning; think my way and you're a patriot, against my thinking and you're a communist (or reverse if that works for the ends justifying the means) .. the death of open dialogue creates a hazardous environment, as exampled repeatedly in history to disastrous results .. personal note: for years an old yard-sale hula hoop has hung on my wall in a prominent visual spot, to daily catch my eye and remind me of the true circle of influence in life... people, places, and things outside of it are beyond my control, and inside of it lay my attitude toward any given circumstance and responsibility for personal accountability, and that has produced the only lasting freedom to be found .. Geary

[@djzip9231]

I always like hearing what you have to say. Never have heard a woman or man say anything quite like the things you say in such depth.

[@erinbyrd5377]

@@djzip9231 thank you

[@Tux.Penguin]

This video title alone may attract the attention (and rage) of feminists online. I wonder whether angry people will take the time to watch this video, or will jump straight into the comments to argue.

[@Pardesland]

In the case of the so-called _"democrats"_ = *certainly* the latter.

[@Kiwonfu]

Sure maybe women in America are not oppressed but others are

[@mathedson]

Dear Erin, thank you for your thoughtful videos. You are an exceptionally intelligent person, extremely articulate, and I truly enjoy listening to you. Congratulations, and keep up the good work. Cheers from a mathematician from Brazil.

[@daniel-gardner]

I second this! Cheers from a science guy in Canada

[@jorgegomes83]

You've answered to the question I made in your last video, although I thought you didn't read it. It is a very good answer, as far as I can see.

[@Mobius_ll]

Its getting to the point where I will see content from women (whom I do believe genuinely care) make an hour long essay about the modern problems men face and still conclude that its because of the patriarchy. Let me ask, if the patriarchy suppresses men then what sense of the definition are we using anymore?

[@joeywilliams7490]

Erin you look so pretty in this video! NOT saying that as a "creep" or anything disrespectful. Just had to say it. And as usual, your content is FANTASTIC. Thank you so much🙏🏼

[@erinbyrd5377]

@@joeywilliams7490 Thanks! I've lost some weight

[@UncleMikeDrop]

We can all benefit from gaining the grace to accept the things we cannot change, the strength to change the things we can, and the wisdom to know which is which.

[@nickthompson1812]

It has taken me months to figure out that my rage is simply going into the abyss. My anger changes nothing. My bitterness hurts only myself.

[@UncleMikeDrop]

@nickthompson1812 Rage can often stem from feelings of vulnerability. I too, struggle with rage issues and while vulnerability is no excuse, it is an explaination.

[@Gratiasuperomnia]

A great video again, as always. Happy new year, Erin

[@gamer-gw9iy]

Love it

[@FeralPhilosophy_mw]

Thank you

[@swayp5715]

This was great and I think many men appreciate your work at spreading the truth and increasing women's awareness of the Gynocentric world they inhabit and their inherent privileges they take for granted. Thank you and yes your channel is a blessing. ❤

[@TheSawyert]

Yay! What great timing! Edit: Sorry, I got excited and nothing profound came to mind.

[@archstanton9073]

Great video! Starting off 2025 on a high note!

[@Lastindependentthinker]

"Luxury beliefs" Is a term that I have known about for a while, but I only recently learned what it really means through the lens of classism. As a generalization. Women have a luxury view of society. Where'as most men have a Utilitarian view.

[@DrLpodcast]

Erin, have you watched the Netflix show " The Diplomat"? It's a great show, but demonstrates precisely what you're speaking of here. In that show on multiple occasions, the husband of the diplomat (a US ambassador to London) refers to himself as "the wife". Oh, and need I say that every male character is typically flawed; no emotional intelligence, power-hungry, incompetent (UK's prime minister & US president). Despite the obvious flaws, I still enjoy the political drama.

[@BillBui_]

Hi Erin, have you been oppressed by other women for speaking out against feminism and gynocentrism? It seems as though anyone who criticizes (and rightfully so) their doctrine is labeled a “pick me” or a traitor for stating the truth about this bias system

[@erinbyrd5377]

@@BillBui_ Oh yes, I've heard the "pick me" accusations. I think it's clear that my motives have more to do with intellectual integrity than garnering male attention, but I let them say what they like because it makes me stronger.

[@BillBui_]

@ I’m glad that you’ve turned it into motivation, it’s a shame that we live in a society where speaking the truth is met with such disdain and hostility Your work offers great value and you should be commended for it as i’m certain that a lot of people, particularly women, will benefit from hearing a critical perspective about feminism from a well spoken and intelligent woman firsthand as opposed to hearing it from a man

[@erinbyrd5377]

@ Well thank you so much for your comment

[@joemachine4714]

I'm assuming the Toronto protest is that one with "Scum Girl" and "Big Red" going off the rails. If so I consider that a watershed moment in MRA history

[@darktenor4967]

As a teenager I experienced regular, public sexual assaults and violence from girls, where I was literally shamed into sitting still and just letting it happen. I have real issues with the current insane levels of misandry, and how men are literally silenced! When my very lovely wife;who is wonderful, was having a debate with a friend of hers, her friend just said: "well men are just experiencing what women have gone through for years!" My wife was appalled!

[@Carson-w2o2t]

When grape was defined in terms of physical force then it was understandable that it was only males that were able to be accused of it. Then they changed it to SA and defined it in terms of consent but still want it to only apply to males. If SA was defined as coercion to penetrate or be penetrated then females would be charged equal to males and we would have actual gender equality. Many times in the past SA or DV laws were redefined in genderless terms and immediately afterwards there was a huge increase in females charged until police departments were reeducated in how to "enforce" the laws equitably.

[@erinbyrd5377]

@@darktenor4967 That's exactly the attitude of feminism, right there.

[@darktenor4967]

@@erinbyrd5377 The very same girls involved in my abuse refused to clean up the classroom after themselves: "because it's sexist!" I'm afraid every time I've run into feminism, it just seems to be a movement to silence, belittle and mistreat men! Whether in academia, publishing or just in the media. What is worse, is it crops up literally everywhere. I spent ten years on male survivor, the one website for male victims of sa, until, after commenting how I didn't like society's constant misandry and promotion of women, I received a warning for "misogyny." (I wonder how many websites for female survivors of sa would call out women for misandry?). Needless to say I haven't been back to that website since. I wouldn't countenance harm done to any woman at all, but I am actively sick of the constant celebration of women and denigration of men.

[@darktenor4967]

@@erinbyrd5377 The girls involved in my abuse even refused to clean up the classroom after themselves "because it's sexist." I wouldn't countenance harm done to any woman, but I am heartily sick of the celebration of women for simply being women, and the denigration of men! Btw, the first reply I made was deleted, as happens often when I make comments about men and women and try to share my experiences, because even the youtube algorithm is biased towards one narrative.

[@darktenor4967]

@@erinbyrd5377 The girls involved even refused to help clean up the classroom after themselves, because asking a woman to clean was "sexist." I am sick of the celebration of women and denigration of men and the constant narrative pushing. Heck, this is the fourth time I've written this reply because the youtube algorithm keeps sensoring me!

[@VOID-Venture_Antagonist]

Everyone is oppressed. This is why you get nervous when a cop is behind you on road.

[@Carpy-Thom]

I work in a female dominant environment/healthcare and was there while they were talking about how horrible/traumatic their experiences were during IUD insertion. Then ADAM came up (a new birth control method for men) and I said "I'm not sure how I feel about it." They instantly became upset and didn't even ask me to elaborate on my opinion. It's like they heard me say "women should just suck it up and keep using IUDs." My fault for trying to bring a rational opinion on a new procedure to an emotionally charged topic. I realized they DGAF about my opinion b/c I'm male... awesome behaviour to be around

[@erinbyrd5377]

@@Carpy-Thom I have worked in that kind of environment and I know just what you're talking about. Women like these seem to despise me or anyone that isn't a lock-step conformist.

[@CRONOSAGGRESSIVE2]

The Bechdel Test good till i watch war movies or horror

[@vikingsofvintageaudio7470]

Agree. But if your house is struck by a tornado.. then you're probably responsible to some or the full extent.

[@erinbyrd5377]

@@vikingsofvintageaudio7470 Why for choosing to live there in the first place?

[@holycombat]

"Because I'm an adult" lol

[@antunmcmagnais8856]

Excellent monologue, Erin. I'd like to add sth. There is a glaring contradiction in feminist ideology. On the one hand, women are the perpetual victims, as you pointed out, of the 'omniscient and evil patriarchy.' On the other, they are promoted as strong, independent, and superior to men. I think you stated that this is an overcorrection, but I don't believe it is. For me, it demonstrates that women are conflicted, far less homogeneous as feminist thought leaders would like, and that, in the final analysis, they're desperate grifters angling for power and the money. Whatever the truth of motive, there's nothing positive and beneficial for society as a whole with this grift, so it needs countering at every opportunity.

[@erinbyrd5377]

@@antunmcmagnais8856 I agree with what you're saying here.

[@ValentinBrutusBura]

Yes, unfortunately. But mere formalities won't help on this one.

[@colinlawrence5393]

Hi Erin, you asked if there is anything we would like you to talk about in your videos. I would like to suggest the difference between male and female consciousness. Are they the same, or is there something fundamentally different about how men and women view the world. I know you broach on this topic implicitly in some of your videos, but how about being explicit about this issue, and taking it head-on.

[@theoriginalDAL357]

So, you became an adult by recognizing your decisions were the problem in your marriage? Congratulations on that epiphany! You learned what, sadly, most (blank)-ist-steeped woman never learn and, as a consequence, destroy their lives. I applaud your stepping away from the herd mentality.

[@erinbyrd5377]

@@theoriginalDAL357 It was a lesson I had figured out long ago, but then forgot. I was also battling a mental illness that nearly took everything away from me and that robbed me of my rational faculties. I know this idea is really simple, but I know so many women in my life who don't incorporate it or who have never figured it out, so I decided to spell it out simply.

[@jaroslavfoldes1213]

I did not watch it because I am an adult :D :D :D Overall excellent video! There is some real problems not only with individual men, but with the system as a whole though - but in theory, women are not oppressed in my country

[@yoddha529]

I dont know in the rest of world, but in india women celebrated and protected as nature, but foren funded feminist NGOs propagated propaganda of oppression theorys on a individual crime, and made such laws on the name of women proptection and provoked hate against men, and by judicial activism they got some agressive rights such as right to adultary, prostitution, nudity, etc which are provoking women to go around multiple mens, and destroy own family and as a judiciary we will incentivize you if you break the family

[@Life-Taught-man]

I've followed all the sick and hateful feminist war on idian men for several years now and I can say india is probably one of the worst countries in the world that treats men as if they are lower than dogs while elevating women to a god-like status. I've seen many reports by indian police depts being open about "rapes" in india as nothing but FALSE RAPE ACCUSATIONS or women taking revenge on men for refusing to marry them. India's treatment of men is beyond vicious and disgusting.

[@manuelmota1318]

What side is the people who need to watch this video whenever come across it

[@ethanmiller5487]

Who cares about fault? What do you accomplish by assigning fault? Telling who should do something? What does that really do? Nothing is changed by finding who is at fault. It might be helpful for emotions or whatever, but it doesn't change the issue or how to deal with it. Fault doesn't solve problems. It's not my fault the rain came but it would be my problem to do something about it.

[@remfj40]

Arguing an emotional subject with facts is futile. Responsibility and accountability are problems in society in general and deeper in certain groups. Being a victim holds higher status than achievement and until that changes few things will. Culture is what a group deems important. It has taken well over a generation to get to where we are, it will take time for the pendulum to swing. Just observations.

[@daniel-gardner]

She's on the right track: she is a trailbreaker a. making keen and unbiased observations, followed by b. sound and thorough reasoning, and then c. courageous and clear communication to the world. Eventually other trail breakers will follow with compelling pathos arguments (appeals to the emotion). We all have roles (strengths and weaknesses in life) and with due consideration it is wise and strategic to focus on maximizing the utility of our strengths, as others naturally compensate with their own strengths. Keep it up Erin! :))

[@moxiehonda]

Two resources that you may find awesome are Dr. Leonard Sax on KZbin who delves into the challenges of young women AND young men. As an educator and Board of Education Member, I have always been sensitive and concerned about these types of issues and movements on society and child development. You really seem to have a special gift of love, compassion, and a keen intellectual orientation. Another book about manhood is, "Wild at Heart" by John Eldridge. Thank you for your excellent work! We need you!!

[@HarigastiEisen]

Thx

[@fyidiyy]

Sometimes I think, we're should not be allowed to progress this far 😂 People aren't concerned with learning too much useless information and misinformation. Good video ❤

[@Patson20]

There's a reason why every holy book contains parables and warnings of why women shouldn't be allowed agency

[@Fishymen101]

If you made a Substack I’d read it. Great content. Keep up the good work!

[@NELSON3947]

Women certainly get better NHS healthcare in the UK. State pensions were another biggie in the UK, equality is fine until they (women's) retirement age was increased to that of men's.

[@neoglacius]

what about state pensions?

[@Life-Taught-man]

Women get better health care in the US and canada too. Most of the resources go to them.

[@goodlookinouthomie1757]

In socialist, European nations like mine, parenting IS a paid occupation.

[@DuffyLasker]

i take it that you follow Janice Fiamengo

[@erinbyrd5377]

@@DuffyLasker I think she's smart, yes

[@Kaya-q6x]

Yes, they are. Not in the west though.

[@bumpercoach]

Homemaking IS PAID since you save/earn the $$ you'd be paying SOMEONE ELSE to do it

[@kaisersykes2782]

I'm a little curious, are you and your family Catholic? I noticed what I think is a rosary hanging off the wall. I myself am Catholic.

[@erinbyrd5377]

@@kaisersykes2782 No, my parents were atheists, but I consider myself a Christian. I just enjoy having the rosary because it's something sacred.

[@ChyroneMcThunderschlong]

No, but they will be.

[@annehechesliverdonation9624]

Not with those cans 🍈🍈

[@MrTrenttness]

🔥♥️🔥

[@BabaBest2000]

Sorry you had to sit through the Barbie movie. But it's all part of research 😅

[@SartorialisticSavage65]

Mostly no. Somewhat by themselves and the lie they live now though yeah.

[@SartorialisticSavage65]

I would say they don't realize how free they could be.

[@AnnulmentProof]

Were you reading off notes for the first 60 seconds of this video

[@uprightmovement]

In the modern world, particularly in Western nations, we are witnessing an era that could be described as a Golden Age for women-unparalleled in human history. This period is defined by unprecedented rights, freedoms, and opportunities that stand in stark contrast to the systemic oppression that characterized much of the past. While challenges and inequalities persist, the progress achieved represents a profound transformation in the trajectory of gender equality.

[@erinbyrd5377]

@@uprightmovement I think women are lonelier and more unhappy now than they were in the past. How is that progress?

[@uprightmovement]

@, it’s not however the Government and Corporations have sold them that propaganda for their benefit and bottom line, and not to the benefit of Women in many ways.

[@ΟδυσσέαςΚαστανέντα]

No.

[@AngrySahraoui]

Algorithm

[@blas4me50]

I watched The Barbie Movie,. before I let my girls watch. It really wasn't that bad, and although I don't like messaging in my entertainment, it actually addressed things we're currently experiencing in the world. The other thing is, I'll watch anything with Margot Robbie.

[@rosscoe8674]

I have a few thoughts for you, and some questions. You mentioned the media, and how it portrays ideas to women about how they're oppressed by men. Who owns and runs the media? You mentioned education, and how increasingly, women are indoctrinated to believe they're oppressed by men and a male-driven society. Who financially benefits when women enrol in university? You mentioned capitalism, but never expanded upon it. I've got a challenge for you: go listen to any feminist dialogue, and replace every instance of the word "men" and "patriarchy" with the terms "the rich" and "capitalist exploiters", and see how much more sense feminism makes. Feminism is class struggle, but it's merely the powers that be, directing that frustration and anger towards men, instead of at the true culprits, capitalist exploiters. You were so close, but you missed.

[@pyxylation]

You are correct! Sad to see she missed, but I'm happy knowing these problems will be solved once the revolution happens!

[@erinbyrd5377]

@@rosscoe8674 Yes, feminism has a lot in common with communism.

[@rosscoe8674]

My question remains: why did you mention capitalism but never expand upon the inherent exploitation that both men and women go through?

[@erinbyrd5377]

@@rosscoe8674 Because that's a different conversation concerning economics.

[@djzip9231]

@@pyxylationNo revolution is happening😂 and in what way did she “miss”

[@mrslave41]

i agree with much of this video - unfortunately i disagree with much as well - please debate me 🎉🎉🎉

[@neoglacius]

what is your biggest disagreement?

[@mrslave41]

@ the red pill 💊 complain about women. removing all responsibilities from men.

[@neoglacius]

​@@mrslave41 makes no sense, they have been held accountable for centuries, they gave their lives by millions in battle to conquer democracy, freedom and human rights

[@neoglacius]

​@@mrslave41 makes no sense, they have been held accountable for centuries, even paying wih their lives

[@neoglacius]

@@mrslave41 makes no sense, they have been held accountable for centuries

[@danieltenebrion9413]

I think these are pretty fair criticisms on the radical perspectives of feminism. Both men and women are treated unfairly, though that unfairness often looks very different and is usually left unrecognized. I think the only thing I see left out is that men are also sexualized in media; because the overly muscular, perfectly sculpted, strong or overly dominant men in fantasy are not at all reflective of average men. Not that I see that as a problem with fantasy, just as much as I don't see a strong badass woman being depicted is a problem, but it is also just as much of a sexualization as the complaints of perfect model bodied women that are sexualized in normally consumed media. There are other things that I feel are fair to point out also, such as much fewer men will ever be cat-called by women, followed or harassed by women due to the normalization of men needing to approach women in dating, men will experience less situations that women quickly have to learn to defend themselves against. While I am "lucky" enough to be approached by women and that I learned early to develop healthy boundaries around refusing women from getting unwarranted attention from me, that is not a normal experience for most men. Ultimately though, despite some inherent biological differences, men and women are more psychologically the same than we are different. Our society and our social evolution has just pushed those differences to one extreme or another. Understanding what a social construct is in Psychology is very helpful towards learning what these differences are.