Are You A Brawling, Angry, Or Contentious Woman?

[@tobiuchiha8370]

Social media has been a disaster for women.. this man is preaching.👏

[@carolyndavis9913]

Please preach this again and again our daughter’s and young women NEED this badly!

[@rickschneider3887]

Thank you so much for preaching this topic! I’ve suffered so much as a married Christian man because of this very problem!!

[@shariceornah]

My husband called me a quarrelsome woman today. That was a huge wake up call. I'm now trying to learn how to not be quarrelsome. Please pray for me brothers and sisters that this character be far from me and God helps me to drastically change. I don't want my husband to be miserable.

[@rickschneider3887]

I admire your heart! I wish my own wife would do the same that you did. Instead of taking my words to heart, she takes every word of instruction or Godly counsel as a personal “attack” against her. God will bless your submissiveness more than you know!

[@ejirogheneokolo6428]

Your sincerity is applaudable. May God help you to become a better wife in Jesus name. Amen.

[@ICXCTSARSLAVY]

Feminism brainwashes women into being filled with the spirit of Jezebel. I wish I had heard a sermon like this before I married... I wish most men heard this sermon and got hope from it. I wish there were more women in the West who took this to heart. Sadly, it is RARE ! Even in the OT it warns of the difficulty in finding a good wife. I would submit that it is 1000x harder today than back then.

[@redneckhapa]

I let feminism in and it ruined my life. I never heard this kind of sermon growing up. I wish I had. Thank you for this sermon. I must go forward for the benefit of my son now. Makes me feel so guilty and sad, my anger. Moms, don't be angry with your kids :'(

[@ramonacarter6918]

Been there got my ex to pay child support my kids were grown up by the time i got it God gave me what i needed two jobs. Im not greedy it was hard but not greedy. Not just Americans today

[@vadessa7680]

Please pray for me. I have a angry, contentious, brawling spirit. I need deliverance. I am a loud woman. I am disrespectful. I roll my eyes. I am struggling.

[@bible1st]

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways submit to God and he will make your path straight.

[@rickschneider3887]

I admire your honesty and your humility to ask for prayer for this. I pray for you in Jesus name that the Holy Spirit will produce in you a peaceful , gentle and quiet spirit. Know that when you submit your will over to Gods way and not settle for doing things our way then results will happen. James 1:22 “ be ye doers of the word and not hearers only deceiving yourselves”.

[@ScotchIrishHoundsman]

May the Lord guide you and show you how to overcome. Thank you for taking responsibility, it’s is very refreshing to see a woman do that.

[@andreapril6969]

Revealing your heart and asking for prayer to repent - May God grant you that and bless you abundantly!

[@YouButter]

I believe realizing we are contentious , is the first step and the next is to soul search and repent. We have to get right with the Lord. He will deliver us and restore us. 😭 He is awesome and loves us. He wants to have us victorious in Him.

[@dakotablack2003]

I thought my wife was angry and unforgiving on her own untill her mother lived with us for 2 years. My wife learned how not to….from her mother who screamed at her husband her whole life. Lady’s your daughters are watching

[@Breezy11harvard]

This is an EXCELLENT teaching. EVERY woman needs to hear this message to make SURE she is not this contentious woman!

[@michaelking4578]

Great biblical message and true.

[@Coughtry]

I can testify to this. Going on 6 years of marriage; my wife and i are no closer than the day before we met.

[@Rangoslap8]

Giving more of what you already give ... that isnt appreciated wont work....most often. Example.....pour water on a fish to FIX HIM....

[@SMBrandon24]

I’ve been passing over this video for over a year. I needed to hear this as I’m trying to no longer be a brawling wife.

[@Rangoslap8]

Its like pregnant. You are or you not. There is no trying. That is hard as diamond.

[@JoshJorg44]

It can only help you if you are willing to listen and taking honest look at yourself. My wife just rejects everything I say and throws it back in my face. Im desprate now after almost 6 years of verbal abuse. But my wife just blames me for why is is that way and excuses her actions, and turns herself into a victim. its really hard to edure

[@holinessofthebride1935]

That's horrible. I'd be willing to speak with both of you about it. My e-mail i on my channel.

[@Kat-qf4wb]

Right on time! Thank you!

[@joanneelliott8049]

As a wife and after a hard day at work it's nice to have peace at home.

[@Kristina2]

I'm not a wife... but this applies to me in many ways.

[@МоникаМуравьева-л5т]

Kristina you need to repent, still have time

[@shellyslioneyes]

Watch me eat: (No thanks) NOW THEN, Why would you say such a thing to a young lady who is showing she IS REPENTANT? For what? She is ALWAYS the most teachable woman on this channel and expresses growth and change with EVERY SERMON she hears? A person who admits and repents for error of his or her ways will always be forgiven and received. Are you God? Those who judge others,...well? I am sure you know the ending, eh? In Luke 18:10 - 14, there is a great story I thought of when I read your "comment." I'd love to share it with you. So here is Verses 10 - 14, "Two men went up to the temple to pray, the one a PHARISEE, and the other a publican. The Pharisee stood and prayed thus with himself, "God, I thank thee, that I am not as other men are, extortioners, Lunjust, adulterers, or even as this KRISTINA. I fast twice in the week, I give tithes off All that I possess. And KRISTINA, the publican (who on every sermon, always recognizes her OWN sin), standing afar off, would not lift up so much as her eyes unto heaven, but smote upon her chest, (changed word for modesty sake) saying "GOD, BE MERCIFUL TO ME A SINNER. I tell you, THIS WOMAN, KRISTINA, WENT DOWN TO HER HOUSE JUSTIFIED RATHER THAN THE OTHER, FOR EVERY ONE THAT EXALTETH HIMSELF SHALL BE ABASED; AND SHE THAT HUMBLETH HERSELF SHALL BE EXALTED. Please, Mr or Ms "Watch Me Eat" (No thanks) - go and consider this LESSON JUST FOR YOU FROM GOD'S WORD and pray about it. "For with the measure you use, when YOU JUDGE OTHERS, IS THE MEASURE GOD WILL USE WHEN HE MEASURES IT BACK TO YOU. HAPPY BIBLE STUDY!!!! :)

[@shellyslioneyes]

KRISTINA: You are ALWAYS so humble. I just want you to know that I again admire your courage for always admitting your faults one to the world. Your AMAZING. God bless my sister. Shelly

[@MsRae-ev9hs]

Who pays for your lodging and transportation? When the last time a guy asked to grab a coffee and get to know you? When a guy answers those 2 questions in your life then you repent. Submit to someone who loves you and proves it not someone just passing by the neighborhood who demands to be submitted too.

[@Rangoslap8]

Most females are not truly a woman. They are legally. Not spiritually mature in God. Most married females are NEVER TRUE WIVES.....applies yo males/ men/husbands too. Godly levels of maturity....marry a WIFE /HUSBAND. NOT A BIOLOGICAL MALE /OR FEMALE thinking they will grow. Its possible. Not likely. When you want a car do get roller skates to upgrade into a bicycle into a car?!

[@ramonacarter6918]

Right you spot it you got it! I learned about myself, learned from myself and from others.

[@ScotchIrishHoundsman]

Honestly quite surprised at the lack of backlash in the comment section

[@andreapril6969]

I wanted to comment the very same ...

[@elysian95]

I came up against a rather vocal and arrogant woman today who was telling people God speaks to each of us individually, through the heart and used God speaking to Moses through the burning bush as an example.This may be true sometimes but I tried to explain to her that God now speaks to us through his word(Bible) also quoting Corinthians 14:34 to her, in which she turned rabid, cursing my profile,calling me proud and basically condemning me to hell for turning women away from Jesus by bringing attention to Corinthians 14:34.I just find that this ''feelings'' doctrine is almost exclusively preached by women and draws people away from reading their bibles.

[@coolkent8306]

Don’t allow her to rule over you

[@rickschneider3887]

That’s an example of what I believe Paul called “ doctrines of devils”. When you preach the truth the devil will rise up and cause the other person to become aggressive and violent!

[@joanneelliott8049]

Thank you.

[@Godcreatedmj1]

I agree! and solely understand and agree God does the correction when the wife move out of the way.

[@Coughtry]

There’s a reason why we have hunting seasons. Bears in the spring, deer in the fall, fish in the summer, and trapping in the winter.

[@rickschneider3887]

That is literally…” going in the wilderness” to avoid a contentious wife. They just don’t get it!!! Nor do they want to see it!

[@wireless4819]

Thank you Pastor. This helped me.

[@codyherndon2097]

What do you do when your mother is the contentious woman

[@cozwoz5841]

Know that feeling just shut your mouth and let her say what she wants to say no matter how provoking and hard to respond! and pray. eventually you will see a change in her, because of your conduct not hers. trust me!

[@aliciamorris5054]

@@cozwoz5841 that’s not accurate. Being quiet all the time will encourage the behavior. It’s best to leave!

[@cozwoz5841]

@@aliciamorris5054 that’s true. If you can’t leave then.

[@ktktndmx8869]

@@cozwoz5841 that's true, I seen that in scripture one day , but I couldn't find it again.

[@thedust850]

This is one brave pastor. He is keeping it real in a time when keeping it real is a crime. He is an honest man.

[@wildwoman2able]

Spoke to my heart, thanks Pastor 😇

[@mi66gt80]

Hit it on the head preacher....wish I would have heard more when I was younger. Hope I’m not out of line w comment

[@skylaallain5732]

I have to comment lol . my husband and I are very affectionate towards eachother online but that's not fake haha we NEVER fight. Its very rare. And we are even more affectionate in person. I think we are just overly excited that God led us to eachother. I love watching your videos on stuff like this though. I strive to be more of a Godly woman because my husband definitely deserves it for he is such a good God fearing man . and I overall I strive to bring glory to God! :) Thank you for your videos pastor.

[@sfernandez2002]

Thank u for truth just found this channel and is biblically

[@jshir17]

Since wives are required to respect and submit to their husbands by Scripture and they vow to respect him when they are married, it is a ground for divorce for a man to disown his wife if she continually breaks her vow and Scriptural command. It's good Pastor Cooley is preaching on this because it is a real issue: I have gone to a church where the pastor's wife thinks it is her job to interrupt, undermine, debate, contradict, and correct her husband the pastor as he teaches, and other men during the Bible study.

[@joanneelliott8049]

Stand back ,seek to understand quietly and watch God do His work. Dont be a doormat. Dont collude with evil . Dont submit to abuse. Remove yourself and children from danger. There are services to help you.

[@jshir17]

Also the contentious woman who is brazen and arrogant is almost always a Gentile (like Jezebel the foreign woman who intermarried Ahab)while the Virtuous wife in Proverbs is a Jewess

[@normajean7332]

God help us! Thankyou Pastor Cooley,its very hard to deal with workplace situations and dominate female coworkers, if you wouldnt mind praying for me as i dont want to get caught up at all in certain things and im sure i have fallen short, but its really difficult in the workplace, please pray for me!

[@normajean7332]

There are also more subtle trouble makers who undermine or kiss up to the (tough ones) or let them usurp a little and praise them and belittle the one they dont really respect because that is the way it geos too, i need prayer and deliverance so that i keep my focus and my place.. thankyou

[@normajean7332]

i need prayer today Pastor Cooley!

[@coolkent8306]

Norma Jean you are really good to me please keep the faith

[@ramonacarter6918]

Im not suppose to preach to your husband. Amen

[@kevindavis4709]

Sound like my mother sad to say

[@tonycruise]

my mother has kind of always been angry from her childhood... she took it out on us, i love her but i had to leave my house after she divorced my dad for no reason... i hope she changes and my sister is also super quarrelsome i think it applies to not just wives but also women in general

[@joanneelliott8049]

Brawling Contentious man also.

[@christakd5633]

Men be very very wise about what you are getting yourself into

[@joanneelliott8049]

Remember Ananias and Sapphiras, she had the choice to obey God and not man. Also remember Abigail.

[@ramonaurueta9804]

Right Not having God

[@holinessofthebride1935]

Get to know a woman before marriage. Do not marry a woman who is disrespectful, ungodly, and who cannot submit. She should have a gentle spirit. She should be feminine. She should accept your instructions, guidance, and correction easily. No one is flawless, and we all need time to grow, but the basic character of a godly woman and submissive wife should be there. If not, find another woman.

[@andreapril6969]

What if she just "complies" during courtship, but once beyond the wedding altar, the nails and grinning "white teeth"? comes out

[@holinessofthebride1935]

@@andreapril6969 In most instances, I believe a woman who can show submission, and a gentle character during courtship, and whose family and church family also testify to her character, is going to be sincere about her faith, and will do her best to respect her husband once married. If she does not, the husband should instruct her in better behavior, let her know what he expects of her, and discipline her if necessary.

[@Rangoslap8]

Silent rebellion total Neglect is the next gear used by some....like a stubborn hateful cold snake....once you expose SIN...LEAVING NO EXCUSE.

[@Rangoslap8]

Helpmeet in Genesis is same root word of COMFORTER IN NEW TESTAMENT...referring to Holy Spirit......the gift of women to speak is to be aimed focused in HOLINESS LIKE THE HOLY SPIRIT HIMSELF....still/ quiet peaceful repeating the FATHER not. I FEEEEEEL....LIFESTYLE BY GOD NOT FEELINGS.

[@Rangoslap8]

She is as a ROTTENESS IN HIS BONES......BONE CANCER

[@Rangoslap8]

The deadliest enemy in nature are silent stalking you...making noise when near upon you in Advantage. Military uses silence before attack...silence and noise are both used for good and EVIL. INTENTIONS MATTER. SATAN USED SCRIPTURE AGAINST JESUS....wives do too. Correct facts and scriptures used for evil purposes is an abomination to God....forgery/embezzlement/ misappropriation of His accounts goods services.

[@Rangoslap8]

Old Godly Women are told to TEACH the younger How to LOVE THEIR FAMILIES. THEY AS women do not have GODS LOVE SPIRIT. NATURALLY....

[@keepthefaith1912]

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[@robinahlquist9953]

Some narcissistic men gaslight a woman into brawling with him and then shes the one to blame...the rest of the story needs preaching, men need to understand their position as well and its to love the woman the way Jesus loved the church in that he gave up himself up for her, im assuming this message is towards Good Godly men who are doing right by God and the woman and she still wants to quarrel

[@jacobyates4016]

Amen

[@RamonaCarter-d7g]

Drugs here

[@syotos03]

He seemed to speak out of unresolved bitterness instead of love. I feel bad for his wife. But maybe she is the angry women whom he made the sermon for. But if he has the dogmatic view that "women need to do this, and women need to do that" and then maybe there is a reason she is so angry. Just a thought.

[@sjurdurkjv]

Most of us don´tthink so.

[@kickrox4606]

@EJ Everlast Exactly👍

[@soioioioioioio34]

Hey look at you manipulating things. Witch

[@HomeforaMoment]

I think it’s 25” where he says mens lack of responsibility ruin marriages just as much.

[@YouButter]

I actually think he’s on point. My flesh ain’t 👏🏽 but I needed to hear this. Geez I needed this.

[@saramuresan9305]

Amen

[@keepthefaith1912]

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[@RamonaCarter-td3tu]

Amen