ARE YOU A PU$$Y? (6 Things That Make Men Look PATHETIC!)

[@alpham]

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[@mank004]

Yo

[@fade8371]

@@mank004 yoooo

[@mank004]

@@fade8371 yoooooooooooooo

[@koudacyen]

The thumbnail could've been done differently unless that was clickbait, autistic people such as myself cover our ears because of painful auditory sensitivity. If I've judged the thumbnail wrong then my apologies but if not then you're making out all peoplewho cover their ears are pussys. Let me know if I'm wrong please.

[@koudacyen]

an idea for a video: MENS MENTAL HEALTH DAY to boost energy,confidence ect Stuff that you wouldn't do everyday

[@Ethan-cr4qb]

1: Not being able to accept criticism 2: Not being able to stand up for yourself. 3: Having a victim mindset. 4: Not taking a hint. 6:00 5: Talking crap about somebody behind their back. 6: Getting overly emotional or sensitive.

[@anirudhsharma2182]

You are a life saver

[@user-xz1wy4to4o]

6: ...about things that don't matter*

[@aarongeorge7089]

@Marl Senin yah he is gentleman who values time but we can't skip his video which gives us motivation

[@rexcelent8560]

The only problem I have is Number 6

[@anirudhsai2115]

Thanks for my revision👍🏻🔥

[@lucad4913]

Alpha once went to the Virgin Islands on vacation. They’re just called ‘the islands’ now.

[@masonf7332]

👁 👁

[@kingpeedorah]

He went to west virginia Now it's west ia.

[@jakechristie5932]

Sounds noncey

[@zzz.tyrone]

@@jakechristie5932 sounds like a combination of pure cringe and 💩

[@jakechristie5932]

@@zzz.tyrone That too.

[@Loadz]

Been watching since I was 14/15 and I’m now nearly 19. Alpha is a legend

[@rashidanwar5200]

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[@saumyavardhannn]

Have you seen some improvement

[@Loadz]

@@saumyavardhannn 100% bro these videos keep me motivated to be my best self and have helped me with fitness as well as self confidence, which helps with the spicy senoritas ;)

[@mattmoney6654]

Alpha made us men

[@sammysprinkler]

Amen! Here too bro! I wouldn’t be the man I am today without alpha M.

[@ericberlin456]

If anyone can make you freak out or incredibly pissed off, then anyone can control you. Master your emotions and you will master your life.

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

That is a fact

[@Ishmam_Dhrubo]

You're like a father-figure who guides us to the right path

[@thearthurmarston9897]

Couldn’t have agreed more

[@faris8318]

in fashion i agree other than that he is a bluepill beta male

[@haloflip]

yikes

[@IggyTthunders]

I think you need a better father, imho

[@landengoma2420]

that’s so true

[@ChanceTalksBusiness]

Actually listening to Unfu*k yourself now! Great book!

[@aaronmercer8711]

I’ve already made a habit of liking alpha’s videos before it even starts, and I’m never disappointed

[@rashidanwar5200]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/bKDKdXWcYseFmNE 🙏❣️🙏

[@travelsphere7402]

stop being a puss

[@mattmoney6654]

Same

[@shoaibjawad4650]

Me too

[@ananthan1723]

Metooo bruh

[@gwillis01]

As an old proverb says "You will not climb up the ladder of success if you are constantly using one foot to reach down and crush the fingers of someone climbing below you." Causing havoc and creating obstacles in someone else's life usually means you are being prejudiced and mean instead of working to improve your own skills and abilities.

[@SaifZiya]

I've been let down by some people lately. Your words help me find my inner strength. Thanks! ❤️

[@christianbenn316]

Even myself to & i don,t ever want to see a toxic woman again

[@coldwind3629]

You are so right Alpha , I’ve always struggled with the being to nice thing . I’m getting a better balance on it lately . Thanks for helping out all us alpha M family with your knowledge .

[@rajajidubey6981]

alpha is the perfect mix of youthful fun and experience of age...I just love this man

[@rotimi9501]

I greatly agree with you

[@akashsundar9941]

Agreed

[@BigGamingBossMan]

That’s a good way to put it

[@k9ily724]

alpha’s like that father figure i never had, thank you for everything you teach us 💯

[@afterdarkpodcast4657]

This is something that needs to preached and talked about more in the mainstream media. Most influencers who believe in red pill and all take it too far and make it very hard for the mainstream to respect and understands. Hats off to you, Alpha.

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

Definitely bro

[@laurensthoughts6920]

Being a girl, I've found Alpha's advice 100% true and trustful !! Keep going man ❤

[@evanwashington6959]

Stay out of this . this is a guy's club this for men trying to get our shit together so we can talk to beautiful women like YOU

[@jonmwanda]

@@evanwashington6959 💀💀💀

[@ebkllnkl_]

@@evanwashington6959 cha cha real smooth u Casanova and he have got us gor the time not gonna lie

[@vaab5545]

@@evanwashington6959 true but she has the free will to come here if she wants. Freedom..... in this cruel yet beautiful world.

[@evanwashington6959]

@@vaab5545 freedom isn't free my friend

[@ivanbecerril4227]

I just barely learned how to stand up for myself, but that was cuz of them OCD thoughts that gave me the spark to snap, that combined with a little maturing and watching Alpha's videos, I never let people get away with it, as a result I feel more confident in myself

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

I Lorned who to stand up to myself since i was in juner high

[@litebohomothokho7607]

Dear Alpha, I have been following your work for almost 2 years now and it has helped mould me into a gentleman. I read this book 3 years ago when I was going through some things. For you to recommend it takes me back, and I know now that I have been following you for a good reason. Keep up your good work sir, it helps many of us find our inner alpha. Thank you very much.

[@theDapperVault]

I absolutely LOVE how Alpha makes these kinda talk seem so effortless ❤

[@scottwilson7376]

Dude, thank you so much man. Taking the hint was the beat tip ever!! Life changing.

[@rahulsudhakar4203]

If alpha sits ahead of that wall it's high time to take him serious!!

[@skylerdevitt1021]

Alpha my man this is what the world needs to hear seriously! PREACH MY FRIEND!!!

[@alexblejdea7233]

Here before watching, seems like a good one.

[@DD-vz7ci]

It was

[@JulianoMatthew]

🔥

[@Alex94able]

Thank you too show yourself so open vulnerabel and strong. It seems like you have been bothered latly by some negative events and try to give something from that in the video with real intents. All the best to you!!! People like you are fuel for humanity!!!

[@Chopperboy561]

First time commenting on your channel, this has to be one of my favorite videos I’ve seen from you. People in general have gotten “soft” over the last couple of years.

[@rashidanwar5200]

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[@sr4lifebaby]

classic ad in the middle

[@the7thhokage404]

This is it. I'm going to stop the negative self talk, bullshit and take action now.

[@gauravadlakha6602]

This guy is the reason for my life's positivity Alpha lines not only hits the mind it hits our heart Would love to meet you brother someday

[@trippyfizzy9911]

I literally grew up watching alpha m Since i was like 13-14 now im 22 now... Owe it to this guy on teaching me how to be a better man.....

[@yeojinslittlefrog1610]

No you need a therapist 😟

[@trippyfizzy9911]

@@yeojinslittlefrog1610 hahaha maybee

[@yeojinslittlefrog1610]

@@trippyfizzy9911 yes please!! toxic masculinity isn't normal

[@trippyfizzy9911]

@@yeojinslittlefrog1610 yeaa i do agree so you gotta take these advice with a pinch of salt... But most of his advice about getting girls by not showing you really like them. It workss and others.. mostly what he says is nice guys finish lasttt!!! And it is trueeee

[@yeojinslittlefrog1610]

@@trippyfizzy9911 i don't want to destroy your beautiful imagination of life but girls that like men that aren't showing affection or giving them attention are closeted lesbians..

[@dadgamingandguitars7175]

Look up to your videos a lot. Never had anyone to teach style, confidence as a man or how to really be a proper man. Thanks A.M. Never stop.

[@babakshahin3706]

Bro stop You're the perfect man😂 Everything I need to know about relationships and how to do things right and etc. , u teach that to everyone here. Appreciate that buddy

[@derekramsaroup3883]

Another great post ..the last point was especially strong for me ..I am so tired of people losing their shit over what everyone else says/does ....focus on being better yourself ...I think Mr Spock had a point ...

[@sanbyar5059]

Like I said before there is always this positive energy comes from you.

[@GabrielRodriguez-nx3em]

most authentic video yet really hits home I can relate it seems as though we all reach that breaking point to unleash that ferociousness that is him inside all of us

[@kingdavid8178]

Learning to tell people "NO" is a HUGE skill to learn, because if you are to afraid to hurt someone's feelings or worried about offer ding them or thinking you are doing something wrong by saying "NO", you are going to be taken advantage of. Most of these times will happen when a friend, family member or co-worker ask you something or a favor and by you not saying "NO" most people will take advantage of you. Now there are some people who wouldn't take advantage of you but most people honestly will take advantage of you if they can. If you don't want taken advantage of start saying "NO". Realize telling people NO doesn't make you mean, it means you have boundaries and it's not always your responsibility to do favors for other people as if you are their mom or dad. The main reason people have a hard time saying no is because they don't want to hurt the other person's feelings or get into an argument. Well this is how you overcome that Would you rather say NO and have a possible argument which you can just walk away from Or would you rather not stand up for yourself and keep saying YES when you don't want too and be taken advantage of for the rest of your life? If you get into an argument over saying NO at least once the argument is over it's done with When someone takes advantage of you it's a continuous thing usually I'll give you examples of saying NO Someone wants to keep borrowing money from you and taking advantage of you with it, start saying NO unless you want them to rely on you for the rest of your life because they can't pay their own bills People who try to bum rides off of you to places that is not their home or work and even if it was home or work it's not your responsibility, start saying NO unless you want to be their new uber for the rest of your life I'm not saying you can never lend someone money or give someone a ride But some people will take advantage of it Some people just do it as a rare thing which is fine I guess But when people are purposely using your kindness to take advantage of you Learn to say NO It's not your job to be their mom or dad It's not your job to correct their life choices and it's not your responsibility to be responsible for their bad choices When you first tell someone NO it might be terrifying as you wait for their reaction But when it's over with you will feel relieved and won't feel so terrified to tell people no in the future Learning to say NO is a HUGE life skill, it applies ok every aspect of your life and you will be taken advantage of it you don't start drawing lines You don't have to be mean about it and if the other person starts to argue just walk away And let me edit this and be clear I am a Christian and I believe in helping those in need, you don't have to be a Christian to feel or be the same way, however the reason I stated this was so you guys understand there is a difference between helping someone in need and someone taking advantage of you. A person starving is a person in need A person who keeps asking you to pay for their food even though they have money and blow it all is not a person in need, that's a person who is purposely using you So learn the difference or else you'll have your lunch eaten in this world. An example of someone using you is a co-worker getting paid the same as you do but asking you to buy something from a vending machine with your own money The person is always smoking cigarettes yet is asking you to buy them something A situation like that is their own fault, that's not a person in need of no fault of their own, that's a person thinking they can make dumb decisions and have others solve their lack of good decision making Always help someone in need of you can and do good and be generous when and if you can But don't let people like that take advantage of you You aren't helping those people, you are just teaching them to rely on you and others instead of relying on themselves

[@markbrownthebrownfamily8883]

Hi, I just purchased a Level 3 system cause skin care is so important and well I’m 46. I bought your level 3 on a 1 time try and love it so I just ordered a subscription. Thank you and I appreciate Grant adding the toiletries bag. Your awesome and Grant is amazing

[@markbrownthebrownfamily8883]

Alpha, Grant is the man. I somehow always get Grant when I use customer service chat and 3-4 times my man Grant treated me with so much kindness and respect. Very friendly guy and knows the products with so much knowledge and confidence. Grant is amazing. He is the kind of employee you want to always have as I’m sure all your employees are this good. So again it’s been a while since this original post but thank you Grant for taking the time to answer my questions and keep up the great work you are doing. It’s so pleasant as a customer to get to deal with wonderful customer service people, it makes me as a customer know how great of a person you are and how great the company is. Respect to all of you

[@MisterPol]

Alpha M always delivers

[@randomsomebody7958]

Going through alot right now. Your videos really do help the soul

[@theurbangentry]

Your best video of the year so far. You reminded me exactly why I still watch, follow and support you. Onwards and upwards mio fratello grande! Best regards, TGV

[@ji3519]

Agreed

[@keaqan]

True

[@Justendlloyd]

Jesus Christ. Did not expect the support...

[@bottleneckeffects939]

I just wanna thank that girl who was constantly using me and didn't loved me, who made me watch this video, this video is going to change my life forever

[@parthjoshi7104]

Yeah I got that problem of saying yes to everyone , I need to change that habit , thanks alpha 💪🏽💯

[@sampeterson5271]

Alpha is freaking amazing bro. he’s like the dad i never had and he’s the perfect remodel. Much love

[@rstarguitar5350]

It’s very tough for young man today I’m sad for them because they are caught between a Rock and a hard place to stand up and do the things they need to do they’re considered toxic and the alternative is what you talked about today

[@sanjaychaudhary8526]

Love you man. Thanks for support.

[@thecorruptversion]

"It's nobody else's responsability that you are where you are" well, I disagree. We depend on a lot of factors, we aren't as "self made" (in a utopic socio-economic vacuum) as instagram entrepreneurs love to think. I was bullied and left alone for years, a lot of girls treated me like shit and my family is a toxic mess. So, I won't take responsability for having trust issues, panic attacks and be depressed as hell. I can do some things with my willpower, but I'm fundamentally broken. Nevertheless, great video as always.

[@lucasantoszyk1135]

This video isn't for you. It was about you.

[@papazulu1944]

Dead on Alpha ... GJB's books are life-changing !!! ... “You are living the life you're willing to put up with.” ... HEAVY !!

[@AbhayKumar-gb9vc]

Thank you ,Alpha

[@Scythera99]

That second point is vital, not a day goes by that I regret letting people walk over me, especially when I was a kid.

[@arnavsingh3436]

Thanks Alpha!❤️

[@johnsonpinto6163]

Love the way you add those funny moments!

[@jackjayaraman]

so early alpha be dropping ❤️'s

[@watchmeplayit6730]

Great video alpha 💕! What I've learned from this video: - try to figure out when you receive criticism from people if it's constrictive criticism or destructive criticism.If it's constrictive thank them and review your actions or if it's destructive you should review the relationship you have with this person because toxic friends will only drag you down - a lot of people fall in the category of people that don't wanna upset anyone but what this does is that it prevents you from actually saying what you feel, ultimately standing up for yourself - don't waste time talking shit about other people cuz it won't bring you any good - don't take everything so seriously and don't let others' opinions upset you at the end of the day your opinion about yourself is what matters - treasure and praise your friends that actually matter

[@gabeordave6170]

Alpha starting to show his age with these videos and I’m here for it

[@jeddy5719]

Wish I would've had this guy as a life coach back in the day. Had to learn through hard knocks. Good job. Love the channel!!

[@PtSXXVIIX]

You mean so much to me, you help me so much

[@jaydu6109]

Thanks Alpha I've been feeling bad earlier, you're the only one I got listen with to feel much more better and guided.

[@sinshenlong]

"everything is my fault." truly a liberating phrase

[@dakodablack7312]

Lmao

[@amalnair6525]

You and TMF changed my life completely Thankyou sir.

[@Marinho..]

Alpha, you da man!!!

[@anupamkolay193]

This is the reason why I love you. you are brother as well as a father.

[@deveshgupta8655]

Dude!! I find your videos quite helpful . But , Can you make a video on how to cope with loneliness?? This last year has really got me pissed off ..

[@lasombradelaluz8802]

Hi Alpha thank you for putting this gem out! The incessant gossip behind people's backs and everyone getting overly sensitive and emotional is rampant. How right you are about what you discussed in this video.

[@LibertyShuroWildlifeArtist]

Did you know? WHEN ALPHA WAS BORN HE DROVE HIS MOM BACK home from the hospital 😎💪

[@rashidanwar5200]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/bKDKdXWcYseFmNE ❣️🙏

[@josanishere1384]

How?

[@JTFU]

Like Chuck Norris ? 🙄

[@michaellovely6601]

That is as funny as this little joking observation: Al Green is so smooth that his mother had no pain giving birth to him.

[@sunnyphoenix5603]

I love how honest you are

[@jeshuayancey5264]

Need this!!! No more patheticalism! Lol (made that word up)

[@dallasstiles118]

Nice!

[@QnM-Psychology]

THANKS ALPHA, i needed this!

[@pariselzoghby1596]

Well I see a notification from alpha M and tap it instantly lol

[@asolongchar5912]

This is an incredible video Alpha. Just what I needed😎👍

[@NostalgiaMan]

Sir you speak volumes here

[@drewbarnes9296]

Yea max volume because he is always yelling

[@joshuagagner2634]

I just finished that book last week. Definitely was life changing!

[@thomastraikos8648]

I love this titles 😭😂

[@oldcreekroadpictures]

It’s been a few years since I seen your videos. Bro...I’m so glad the algorithm brought this into my feed! Subscribed.

[@johnnygunzfilmbuff7821]

I can relate to the 1st 2. My family can not see I'm human and make small little mistakes and not perfect. My BIL is hard on me treats me like I'm an employee then a brother. He doesn't know the difference between work and family.

[@dallasstiles118]

Tell him to pay you if he wants an employee!

[@johnnygunzfilmbuff7821]

@@dallasstiles118 you have no idea.

[@johnnygunzfilmbuff7821]

@@dallasstiles118 in high school I use to work for him. My favorite day was when I left.

[@curtismckinnon1033]

Alpha, its like you took the words right out of my heart and shared them. Thanks bro, many blessings to you

[@doublea125]

AKA Something that needed to be said by the Alpha M.

[@jamesadamgleason9471]

Is that you Doge?

[@goosegossett4170]

Needed this RIGHT now. Thanks, Alpha!

[@lonerforlife7680]

Okey I had today a struggle in being motivated, so a video with this title is just what I needed.

[@lonerforlife7680]

Yo Alpha, I see you liked my comment, Could you please make a video about how to change bad habits, how to get a positive mindset and how to stay motivated? I have struggles with this for years and even tho I started reading self-help books it's still hard to keep getting up at 6:00 to go sport, start my day, keep being motivated for school etc. It feels like I get knocked down every day of my life and when I try to get up, life kicks me in my face again and again and again. Now I have this quality to not even think about giving up, because I don't want to be a spoiled, lazy, pu$$y, but it's just not fun anymore.

[@no8592]

@@lonerforlife7680 Get Religious

[@lonerforlife7680]

@@no8592 I appreciate that you want to help, but I do not want religion as a foundation for my life. I rather listen to life advice from people who inspire me because they wanted to push their own limits and got where they wanted to be in life.

[@thepersonbehindelonmusksuc1634]

@@lonerforlife7680 get religious

[@lonerforlife7680]

@@thepersonbehindelonmusksuc1634 look listen up brother, I'm not going to, I have all tolerance for religious people, but please don't push it. Because that's one of the reasons I don't want to.

[@justwatchingyoutube3285]

YES!!!! Thank you, I have been seeing this and talking to many people about this exact same subject.. Many women have said they are seeing a lot of weak men with low self esteem, no job and co-dependent men..

[@brayantavera3427]

Seriously people are not motivated now days and especially males always complaining about working out etc

[@eric-schleien]

Love that you mention Gary Bishop. He led my landmark forum when I reviewed it years ago. That book is super basic compared to what you’d get in 3 days from that training. Highly recommend it!

[@thehackingdom2868]

I'm so early that the summary guy is not here yet!

[@BEEBETSSPORTS]

Your videos keep getting better & better this last whole week! Much love Alpha🤘💯

[@vivekbisht5994]

Love from India......uttrakhand❤

[@vivekbisht5994]

Thanks sir....after 30-40 comment i got my first like

[@exmob88]

My friend told me about this book 2 years ago. Got it, started, stopped somewhere in the middle. But if Alpha recommend it, I’ll give it another shot. Greetings from Russia, Alpha, thanks a lot!

[@Rudeboyglen268]

Nowadays if you stand up for yourself you either get called “Rude” or “Toxic” I take those as compliments 😎

[@richjback]

You shouldn’t.

[@JC-ld1xq]

Another great video! The one thing that you said that hit home was, being able getting out of your own way . I think I need to check out this book. Thank brother!

[@arndegothia3413]

You’re so right with the 6th, I need to work on it...

[@MarkaiCat]

These thumbnails are amazing- they just make me want to click on the video and I don’t know why

[@Luigi-xg7hx]

How can I learned to stand up for myself and stop being (sometimes) emotionally sensitive?? I seffered bullying when I was a child and sometimes is hard for me to defend by myself. This bring me some bad memories about bullying.

[@thebardock6785]

Its funny how my brain recognizes what word you're trying to say in the title.

[@rashidanwar5200]

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[@dallasstiles118]

What's a puy?

[@thebardock6785]

@@dallasstiles118 I wish my brain read it that way.

[@dallasstiles118]

@@thebardock6785 reminds me of how audio is deleted when people drop f-bombs😁, sorta pointless

[@tharinda.attanayake]

Yo alpha! I just want to say thank you so much for all the knowledge you've shared, and continues to share with millions of men all over the world. I'm 20 years old and I'm from Sri Lanka. I've been watching your videos since I was 18 and you've changed my life! I've learned so much! YOU ARE A LEGEND and YOU ARE AWESOME!!! ✌🏼

[@kieranjackson9206]

"Snowflake" has been a trend for some reason and it honestly drives me crazy.

[@samuelmoss9487]

Really needed to hear this. Thanks Alpha🤘🏻

[@haloflip]

this channel is embarrassing

[@11binf92]

and yet..here you are. Commenting on this topic.

[@haloflip]

@@11binf92 yes exactly. cus thats what the comment section is for. ya know, so you can write down what your opinion is? and my opinion is that this channel is embarrassing because its spreading information that's harmful and everyone is just agreeing with him. if my comment bothers you so much you didn't have to reply you couldve just scrolled past it but you decided to waste your time and mine for no reason.

[@thisisafakeaccount3431]

It feels like big brother giving advice!!! Thanks Aaron!!👍🏻👍🏻

[@jonathonbanks8673]

Been watching you for 6-7 years. Just awesome!

[@kartiksardana3058]

Thankyou alpha for calling us amazing all these years❤️❤️

[@fenrirnidhogg5243]

Good morning Alpha, have a nice day. Greetings from México

[@mattpreciado1128]

One of your best videos in a bit. Thanks Bro.

[@Timmonius311]

I know this comment is way late, but after a divorce at a young age and a failed relationship following, I realized I needed this more than I thought. Thanks man for the reality check.

[@NapOLeon-pe6jp]

how timely, thanks alpha!