this episode really had me in tears when Jess talked about how she’s not the scared little girl anymore. I’m really glad she’s sharing this journey with us.
@kosiii4 жыл бұрын
Same here :( it’s proof that it can help to think of it that way and for healing. We’ve got some homework to do 😭😂
@TheMaria2324 жыл бұрын
For real I came to the comments just to see if anyone else cried at that part 😭😭 Such a powerful and emotional moment
@Wxtst.33 жыл бұрын
Timestamp?
@Paulfighteronline4 жыл бұрын
Stacey really adds a lot to these conversations in terms of the dynamic. She really stands her ground and she's not afraid to challenge opinions or takes, if she feels it is important for the other person to hear her perspective, because she clearly cares. Great talk!
@JoJo-lf5jg4 жыл бұрын
Bring Stacey on more please! she’s literally the best guest you guys have had, the convo just naturally flows with her, the dynamic is amazing. 💕
@xgpl87714 жыл бұрын
this has got to be my fav ep so far. pls do more serious topics like this!!!
@emanuelgonzalez72134 жыл бұрын
When she was saying all the symptoms of codependency, I lowkey started to sweat 😅😅 NGL I was just like. Check, check, check, check ,check, check, check, check, check, check
@alexareed80434 жыл бұрын
Me af!! Lmao I was like "I have all of those and this is why"? Got me shook as hell.
@goldenspice83824 жыл бұрын
Meee toooo!!! This episode has legit changed my life.. sometimes you just need to hear it in another way.
@mel-hz4vu4 жыл бұрын
This past weekend i was really struggling with fear of intimacy. As a child, my parents seperated but still lived together, i heard them fight and threaten to kill each other. It trickled down on the siblings. I always wanted to play with my brother, and he would yell at me to leave him alone. We started to fight so much by age 10 or so we just stopped talking. I see im at home and we just dont say anything. I started doing my own healing, and i thought i had my fear of intimacy under control. Though, i met this awesome guy.. he makes me feel safe. I realized now that I still self sabotage bc this weekend i told him that my gut doesnt feel anything for him (but my lady parts and mind do). Anyway, back to the drawing board to do more inner child healing. This episode could not have came at a more perfect time for me, Thank you Big Mood and Stacey for blessing us with you knowledge and vulnerabilities. "I am here with you"
@muxlimah7864 жыл бұрын
LOVED STACEY D and this topic in general! . I wish the ADs were prerecorded and added into the podcast..the segways kind of disrupt the flow of the conversation.
@aznstefani4 жыл бұрын
I agree. Sometimes their segways are funny but after the first few times I got really annoyed
@karmelayeah4 жыл бұрын
I love how Jess is really opening up more and more with each episode I love how every girl on this show really gives different viewpoints and it's really just a good conversation overall ❤️❤️❤️ And if yall run out of big mood episodes you can also check out Nikki and Steve's podcast shit they don't tell you!!!!
@at80524 жыл бұрын
I cried when Jess talked about hugging herself as a child
@houdinix39964 жыл бұрын
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE Make Stacey d a permanent host (especially now that boze + geo are gone) ! She's always been one of my favourites.
@good_to_be_gold84 жыл бұрын
Stacey is so therapeutic to listen to. Good stuff ladies.
@fabulosa0024 жыл бұрын
this was by far the best episode everrrrrrrr!!! stacey is soooo centered and mature. it's always so refreshing to be reminded that first you must love yourself above all things, and then everything will fall into place. i love itttttt. and jess was awesome when she first admitted very personal things, and even had notes. very professional. love these girlsssss
@rose-stainedframes32464 жыл бұрын
"Have you seen you? Have you gotten to know you? Have you ever realized how wonderful you are?" - Stacey D BBY
@davidperez-is6ny4 жыл бұрын
So can Stacey be on more regularly
@TheBrainVomit3 жыл бұрын
This is one of my favorite episodes you guys have ever done. Stacey could’ve been a therapist in another life I love it 🥺
@nhivu65384 жыл бұрын
Omg one of my favourite episodes!!! Literally a topic that has been on my mind and I was super curious as to what others thought of codependency. And I love it when they hype each other up and support each other 😭❣️
@kristinechao124 жыл бұрын
YAY I love Stacey 💓 y’all just vibe so well! I really love that you’re talking about this topic!
@tayamorales41474 жыл бұрын
“Oh I’ve been waiting for this one” 😜❤️
@Npg12344 жыл бұрын
“TURN IT UPP!” 🤪
@it_punkkid72984 жыл бұрын
I loved her so much glad to to Stacy on again on big mood
@liveyourlife2434 жыл бұрын
Omg I’ve been waiting for this episode ever since Stacey mentioned in her vlogs that she went to film for big mood!
@driftwood1114 жыл бұрын
i've learned so much from this podcast, like it's not even a joke. i feel like i wouldve made so many mistakes if i didnt learn these. i'm so glad u guys can share ur experiences
@M21614 жыл бұрын
omg yess Stacey!!!
@aznstefani4 жыл бұрын
damnnn I love Stacy 😂😂😂😂 "LISTEN co dependent! Let her set up her own boundaries!!"
@karina16654 жыл бұрын
Love Stacey 😭💖 but I absolutely loved this episode! Thank you girls for all that you do with this podcast. Thank you sharing your thoughts and experiences it reminds me I’m not alone💖
@Tukuklan4 жыл бұрын
I loved this podcast. Very relatable from everyone's experiences. Yes i...am definately codedependant, for me qhat I experience the most is the pulling back, getting love and affection and then getting all that pulled back which makes me self conscious and in turn makes my partner not want to be around me.
@mariarosep62084 жыл бұрын
Stacey THE QUEEN
@y.e.s.i.c.a64464 жыл бұрын
I loved this topic! it made me realize that I was a codependent person in my past relationship. I was completely broken after our break up and was for months after but I started to work on myself and I think I have changed, I have given myself the love I used to provide for everyone else. Working on yourself is so important, this way you can give your best self to others and know that you deserve their best as well. AND stacey's tiktoks have helped me with that hehe
@lysh94014 жыл бұрын
I was LITERALLY binge watching Stacey vids and tiktoks, thinking that wow, it would be amazing if she came back to big mood and wow a gift ♡
@jinlissul4 жыл бұрын
yooooo thank you so much for this episode i really needed it because it helped me realise that i'm extremely codependent too. last weekend i broke up with my partner and there were so many red flags after i ended it, especially the past few days after i found something out. i was willing to give him a chance later in the future because i loved him so so much and couldn't imagine being happy with anybody else but after the past few days, i decided to cut him off completely, which angered him and his narcissism jumped out so quick. now that i don't have those rose coloured glasses anymore, i noticed so many things and now i completely resent him and do not want to talk to him anymore. love yourself before anybody else because otherwise you will hurt more than you love.
@ArminciaEdwards4 жыл бұрын
You all did great & have grown a lot. Especially you Jess!! 😂☺️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@liberasum4 жыл бұрын
I want to give kudos to Jessica. Respect on the notes, the work. I love it 😍
@Delabpm4 жыл бұрын
Girl the process is long and healing never ends. This episode spoke to me on all levels 🎯 broke up w my ex 3 days ago and have already obsessively called him to fix things bc i feel i overreacted. Recognizing patterns and cultivating self love. Been struggling w codependency ever since i can remember. Consciously aware of it for the past 7 years. Really needed this , so thankful for this!! finding myself a meeting . So much love to all of u💌
@tammyngo74054 жыл бұрын
jess carries this episode!!! love u girl
@SilentFaces4 жыл бұрын
I would love to be on a show like this. I'm a woman with mostly male friends so would love the chance to have deep conversations like this
@Janelyg14 жыл бұрын
STACEY, omg yasss make her a permanent member pls🥰🥰 love you girlys
@aks41424 жыл бұрын
Big Sis Stacey after looong ass time!!
@mariarosep62084 жыл бұрын
Follow her ig her stuff is dope
@stacey56804 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story Jess I’m glad that I’m not the only one and I will definitely do the meditations y’all recommend. This podcast is definitely one of my favorites. I really enjoyed this topic and Stacey’s insights on the situation!
@WhitneyUwandu4 жыл бұрын
Wow I really love that meditation method that Nikki mentioned, where you have a convo with your future self! I’m literally gonna try that 💖💖💖
@neychachi4 жыл бұрын
I love that you can tell that they’re ALL genuine friends because they’re all checking each other in order to help each other grow.
@s.90584 жыл бұрын
I didn't even listen to the podcast yet but I can already say.... Add Stacey as a host!
@JW-oi4wc4 жыл бұрын
Looooved this episode. I like the honesty in this. I feel like not a lot of people actually talk about this stuff❤️
@emmaaaa28394 жыл бұрын
Stacey is so introspective it’s amazing. Please have her on more she brings a lot to the podcast ♥️
@alexareed80434 жыл бұрын
This was such a GREAT episode, I felt like you guys were talking to me and about me and the crazy part is that I didn't even know I was in this kind of relationship. Especially the part about the symptoms, I'm going to try to seek help so I can break these patterns and know how to set boundaries. I can relate to Jess a lot in this, I always subconsciously go for people with drug abuse problems. What an eye opener. Thank you for talking about this.
@Moody_momsta4 жыл бұрын
Wait I have a question though. When Jess said “I’m addicted to heroine so I don’t need/want coffee” like, she wants the hard core stuff and the moderate stuff doesn’t do it for her, HOW tf do you make that switch?! I think I had the heroine for years and now I’m trying to like coffee but it seems less then and not fulfilling. And I mean I’m GENUINELY trying to like the coffee... Anyone relate?
@kosiii4 жыл бұрын
:( does this apply to someone who’s had a rollercoaster life since birth? That’s why I watch a lot of comedy and laugh at anything I find simple but funny. It helps kinda
@Delabpm4 жыл бұрын
It could be bc “the heroin” is what you’re used to and what you already know. It takes time to understand how it’s not really healthy or contributing to your self love and growth even tho “the coffee” being what’s actually healthy maybe not as fulfilling since u may still be holding on to whats unhealthy the drama and the back and forth can be addicting to some, some people confuse that w “passion” and what love is about. Im tryna make the switch myself , takes a lot of work but trying to stay humble w the process
@MichaelP-ke1tm4 жыл бұрын
@@Delabpm Wth is heroin and coffee supposed to be code for??
@liyahdelana79984 жыл бұрын
I fricking love these podcast
@stephaniearana4914 жыл бұрын
Immediatley clicked as soon as I saw Stacey on :D Love all you girls
@kvstar1003 жыл бұрын
"I deserve love just because I exist" awww Stacey, that was beautiful
@eaz544 жыл бұрын
Jess Lizama then Stacey Diaz?!? Such a great combo. Plz more of these two
@Mavo1394 жыл бұрын
Please keep doing what you ladies do! This video is so detailed and I love Jess's input, it brought so much more sense into codependency and how to go about it! Stacey, Nikki and Gina are super insightful too! Thank you as always! 💜
@itsNinaLeeyo4 жыл бұрын
I was avoiding this bc i really needed this. I finally muster up the courage and freaken cried in the middle. Now I'm at the point where, what are the details?!! Lol, the whole Gina situation. But I can relate so hard so I understand.This is another huge topic that we all probably need advice on lol. My new favorite ep ❤😊😊
@mariarosep62084 жыл бұрын
We LOVE STACEY!!!!
@cynthiaqrz4 жыл бұрын
😳 when this episode makes you realize you are codependent 🤯
@americadayz4 жыл бұрын
Yesssss, thank you for bring Stacey! She's the best I swear, I'm a fan thanks to you guys!
@MusicFreak615944 жыл бұрын
Wow I really liked this episode! I learned a much
@jeita76674 жыл бұрын
Yessss this episooooode 😩 👏🏼 Yessss Staceyyyy
@eyo68124 жыл бұрын
Best podcast yet !
@NiCoFabolous4 жыл бұрын
Love this episode 🥰💕
@christianlopezspeaks4 жыл бұрын
would love to see Mama Beaw Geo back with the ladies 🙏🏽❤🙏🏽❤
@daryllepedrosa6924 жыл бұрын
I like the way everyone validates and relates their own experiences.
@MegaBloodrain3 жыл бұрын
Stacey.. you need to be a permanent cast because these kids need a babysitter tbh.. Your level of maturity and self-awareness is outstanding, easily one of the most level headed individuals I've come across recently.
@katherinegomez34034 жыл бұрын
Same Gina.. I was like waiting for the definition. lol I kinda had an idea but i wanted to make sure. LOVE YOU GINNAA!!!
@MusicGirl25974 жыл бұрын
So glad Jess brought Codependency up as a topic. I related a lot when Nikki started talking about dating a narcissist. Nikki said, " People were inconsistent with the love they were giving me....Thinking that love was only giving based on doing and not off of just being..". Many people develop this bad habit with guys. I know I sure as hell I did. Like Nikki said, I think relationships can get to the point of guys not wanting to be with us because we (I) needed to please instead of thinking of what makes me happy or what I want for my life. Stacy was dope as well. She does a great job of making sure anyone can understand the topic. All the feels lol. You guys are all dope!
@caseyholder77194 жыл бұрын
Stacey
@choonshon51654 жыл бұрын
I can totally see myself in Jess. I wonder what type of books she's reading... 🤔
@Monsquishy4 жыл бұрын
I love Stacey Diaz so much!!!! Please keep bringing her back on here or on jk 💕
@milllllllllllll4 жыл бұрын
That was a great episode Jess, you did a amazing job preparing it!! You making this episode is truly an action of self-work and I. Love. To. See. It.
@finabibi4 жыл бұрын
Omg i saw that they had a new episode and was excited then i saw that “ft. Stacey” and i was even more excited!!!
@stuffedtoylover3 жыл бұрын
26:56 "just the fact that you're human means that you need love." saving this for me to look back later, bc this is the moment that rlly hit me in this episode. i rlly was a wrinkly beAn and they already loved me :0
@ericamoua74264 жыл бұрын
You guys are literally speaking to me I love this episode. I feel like someone else finally understands me. Please keep this up!!!!!
@iselamg4 жыл бұрын
I love this episode of the stories you ladies share! Plus Stacey is so wise please bring her back more! ❤️🙌🏽✨
@Hooney2me4 жыл бұрын
Stacy is so intelligent, she sounds like she got a degree in pychology. I love hearing her talk.
@lunadenaj4 жыл бұрын
I am bawling my eyes out! I needed to hear this today. Not everything applies but thank you for sharing this. Lately, I’ve been feeling like I’m stuck in “child mode” and I am having a hard time reassuring myself that I am Ok. Wishing everyone the best!
@pillowtyme33763 жыл бұрын
This is definitely one of the BEST episodes so far! Loved the topic and loved having Stacey on! Please do a continuation or more similar topics with her on!!
@daiishi_kinyoubi4 жыл бұрын
Staceyyyyy!!!! yaaaas
@itzeldelgado154 жыл бұрын
It has been really hard for me recently, this helped in a way, please update more videos like this. Thank you girls!
@kimnahboi31884 жыл бұрын
If Stacy was part of the crew I would watch every single episode!!!
@lunalhd33814 жыл бұрын
kim Nahboi agree
@alexisparra65504 жыл бұрын
Yes more Stacy pls!
@lorena24944 жыл бұрын
Loved this ep. with Stacey! Shout out to Jess for preparing this needed topic and talking about her past.
@marinariquelme39824 жыл бұрын
Stacey is awesome love her
@paLeevang4 жыл бұрын
Loved this episode! ❤️😭
@IvoryD_4 жыл бұрын
LOVE STACEY 😭💕
@marianareyes32494 жыл бұрын
Love this episode, love Stacey in the show. This episode helped me a lot girls. Love u guys
@nikkibrianne89824 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this episode, it really spoke to me. Could you make an episode about how to deal with toxic messy roommates?
@theresab46032 жыл бұрын
When this episode came out, I couldn't finish it because I was slapped in the face with reality of being codependent. I can now finish this episode and feel so proud of myself 🤍
@DutchesLove19264 жыл бұрын
This was an amazing show and I love Stacey thank you
@janesjourney90924 жыл бұрын
I needed this. Thank you ladies 🖤 you guys are like my big sisters
@TheFoodie1014 жыл бұрын
Love Stacey.
@TheFoodie1014 жыл бұрын
really needed to hear some points in this episode!
@liciafeuerstein62964 жыл бұрын
Stacey is so level headed and emotionally intelligent. I love that she is a good listener and accepting of people. And also never overbearing, preachy, or a try-hard. So much solid big sister advice in this episode. I feel like I was sleeping on her in past guest appearances on jk. Hope she's back in the future!
@BurningHellz4 жыл бұрын
this was a really great and much needed episode for people like me :) love you girls
@lilgoat11844 жыл бұрын
This episode was so amazing and y’all gatta keep making more
@lunalhd33814 жыл бұрын
Omg Stacey love her
@andyher49684 жыл бұрын
awe yay!!! I love Stacey! really good topic. and nice flow with everyone.. just a perfect podcast
@lady219934 жыл бұрын
Love seeing Stacey in your episodes! She’s amazing!!
@jasochoa944 жыл бұрын
This was deep, loved it. More episodes like these please.
@lysh94014 жыл бұрын
I love you ladies ♡ I just went through a break up and I really needed this!!!
@daryllepedrosa6924 жыл бұрын
I love when Stacy comes on!
@karmelayeah4 жыл бұрын
GINA YOU LOOKIN SO GOOD GIRL!!!!! I mean you're always so pretty but something about you recently you look well rested and fresh and please just take this as a compliment HAHAHA
@nailsbyvictoria10134 жыл бұрын
Finally watched the full video. Looooooved it✨
@cvang1014 жыл бұрын
LOVE STACY🥰
@liberasum4 жыл бұрын
I love this episode. It was so great. Stacey did so awesome!!!