Are You Really Ready To Love Again? | Therapy Thursday | Issac Curry

[@wdsanders04]

You are ready to love 1 when you are able to be held accountable 2, When you are willing and able to create and enforce boundaries. 3 When your relationship with the Lord has moved beyond transactional and surface. 4 When your last relationship and past trauma are in the rear view mirror and not the front windshield 5 When you become aware of your filter and don’t allow them to make decisions for you. 6 When you receive the gift of empathy and nature it to health in your life 7 When you are cable of not viewing another person as a project or as a parent.

[@Pickedpurposely]

Thank ya Brotha 🙏🏾

[@gyongyverdr.tamas-kovacs7164]

Thank You, I think it's nurture - not nature - :)

[@candacesmith5572]

Looks like I'm ready based on these

[@KelseyOnSocial]

Thank you!

[@GodMade1012]

Amen 🙏

[@AnotherBeliever]

I have to watch this again and again. Lord help me lead my family. Im here for a reason. Im strong in every season. So goes the man so goes the home. I plead the blood. I Decrease so YOU can increase. Planted not buried. Amen Amen Amen

[@AnotherBeliever]

4th rewatch. I'm trying. I'm learning. I'm growing. Dear Lord help me be the husband and father my family needs. Thank you pastor curry and redefined TV. And momma flowers. 🙏🙏🧑‍🚒🚒🔥

[@ctanaw]

Amen 🙏🏽

[@zynekaroberts]

Amen

[@TheRealGuusMcgoose]

you’re the one i picked to pray for.

[@AnotherBeliever]

​@TheRealGuusMcgoose Thank you. It's much appreciated. 🙏on my 5th rewatch.

[@mydivineiamchannel9654]

Holy Spirit, thank you for leading me to this channel. I need this.

[@MsElleDluv]

I have taken years to heal my trauma to become the best version of myself. I have so much peace in my singleness that I cherish. A relationship takes maturity and a lot of work plus sacrifice- I’m in no rush. Maybe one day or maybe not. I’m good where I’m at. Blessings from Dallas!

[@Rshullick]

This is my first time here. I’m standing for my husband’s salvation and our marriage restoration. Even though man granted his divorce may 2023. I walk by faith not by sight. I will never stop until I see God do what only He can do. In Jesus mighty name I decree & declare it’s done Amen

[@claraafuera]

Right here with you.. stand in the gap and wage war for them. God has the last day. That walk by faith and not by sight can be so hard. What I see now is certain death of mine and my husbands relationship… BUT GOD!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼 He will do it. Often times it has to look so dead and so impossible so when it suddenly comes to pass, only God can receive the glory and we can surely know it is him. God bless you. I began writing this comment before the part in the video where he said to find someone in the comments and encourage them. I recently dreamt I commented back to someone on a KZbin video, encouraging them to continue standing for their husband. So when he said that, it was SO confirming and reminded me of that dream. Be blessed, hold fast to Gods word no matter what you see or hear. 💕

[@GodMade1012]

If you struggle with accountability, you are very likely going to become a liability 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@CharissaKoekemoer]

First time watcher from South africa I'm excited about my healing journey just because I found this channel Thank you Jesus

[@Kangwa-p1k]

This is a much needed conversation,I’m learning how to love,I recently broke up with the person I was “inlove with” and now I’m realizing what we were doing doesn’t qualify to be called love and I’m being intentional with my healing because it still hurts

[@laquintajones4044]

Pastor Flowers and Curry…through God and my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ saved my life!! I am in Los Angeles and I have binged watched almost every series. So many places to worship near me, but the Lord brings me here…Amen and glory to God for this healing and transformation in my life!!!!!!!

[@teronclax2906]

Same here and I’m in Kentucky!!!

[@erinmiles3083]

I think your ready to love again when you choose a posture of servitude.

[@Tessamonet]

Very true! Address trauma! The Lord has me in my healing stage 🥰

[@vivianwebber2001]

God let this word help me in the area of my heart

[@Kierradaniellee]

Hi Vivian. May God allow this word to bless you. May things become clear to you, and you see God in everything you do. I pray that you will have divine discernment, and your heart will be open only to those who mean you well. I pray that The Holy Spirit will guide you, guide your speech and your actions. I pray that you’ll be gracious to yourself. I pray that you’ll love yourself and God so much that whoever comes your way will have no choice but to see Him. I pray for your heart. For love. Love you 🤍🫂

[@loveli210]

Pastor Curry, you are a great example of a son, man, humble human being and KING! God bless you and your family in Jesus name brother in Christ ✝️🙏🏾🖤

[@KaraKnott-ye6mw]

Again, I’m @ a loss for words in describing how impactful these therapy sessions have been to me & those I’ve shared w/. I always think the last one is the most powerful ; until I hear the next. Pastor Curry is just as much so; in a calming sense. They both compliment one other in their gifts. I’m thinking God for them!

[@laquintajones4044]

Amen. I could not agree with you more.

[@msaverielle]

You have to accountable so you don’t become a liability.

[@corawilliams7056]

First timer, from Durham NC. Didn't get child hood love. Dad married my mother and we all had different dads. I married so i wouldnt go from man to man had a 12yr old . Got married so thinking it would stabilize me to get married .and i wouldn't have children with different daddys. because my dad left when i was 3yrs old .i said if i get married i would stay married. The enemy came in and i was not prepared for the destruction. I Was Married 23 yrs to a Pastor . A dominated time . Divorced 15yrs . I have never been in love .to me love gives each other time to grow .we both were broken . I walk now bent over and really you see me walking look like I'm straighten up. God Almighty is lift me up and straighten me up . I dont think i want to be married again im 69 now . Broken . I love my children and grands and greatgrands . Prayers up for me . Thank you for the therapy. CMW. 34:15

[@AnotherBeliever]

Praying for you. Praying you find peace that passes all understanding. Love is all around you it's not just a human. It's the wind. The rain. The sun. The SON. THE FATHER. THE HOLY SPIRIT. hang on to true love. Pass real love on to those babies. They are the future. I pray for you strength, understanding, and peace. Thank YOU Lord.

[@kierraemoni]

This is my first time here !

[@Chozen93]

This is right on time. I literally blocked someone yesterday with no explanation because he was temptation for me. However, I began to instantly regret my decision and when I sat there and thought about the reason why I was in regret was because I didn't want him to think or to feel like I didn't care about him or what I gave up on him and I was exactly what has led me to the narcissist every time. That's exactly what made me stay in situations longer than I should have and said yes when I wanted to say no because I was afraid of being perceived as a bad person, that's what people pleasing will do. Praise God for this confirmation! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🩷🙏🏾🩷🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🩷🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@Ke-MiMi]

Communication itself is Empathy. They coexist. This was enriching. Thank you. 💜✨

[@lisagoldsmith7435]

He showed me 2 times this week that I had a worldly view that I didn’t know existed!!!

[@Pickedpurposely]

Praise God 🙏🏾💕 I pray now that your obedient to whatever the Holy Spirit is leading you towards and in due time your able to erase the Worldly doctrine and replace it with the WORD of God 🥰 ERASE & REPLACE👏🏾

[@silvergray2345]

Welcome 1st timers! This message is a blessing🙌🏼

[@MayaAngelah]

I pray provision and healing over everyone reading this 🫶🏿

[@Janotherk87]

I’m watching from Japan. 14hrs ahead of eastern time. Thank you so much for the word. It has been helpful in my healing and my self growth as a man. I want to be the man god is showing he created me to be. Thank you for this word.

[@crystalsimon8860]

This video is such a blessing! Straight biblical wisdom!!

[@aliciaphilander6047]

Watching from South Africa.. thank you, thank you, thank you ❤

[@aprillynn9928]

Thank you, Isaac , for being faithful to your call to be used by God , to help us grow. I pray blessings ✨️✝️✨️ and protection over your mind , your heart , your family and your ministry , in Jesus' mighty name , Amen 🙏.

[@ingridedouard7567]

Good morning, I want to say this is my first time listening to one of your videos and I appreciate this topic so much! I thank God for healing, and I want to tell that person who heart has been broken/shattered and they can’t see healing or being whole again… Trust God to lead you and allow Him to move you through the “process” of healing and He will get you to a place of peace, a place of healed, and one day after establishing and maintaining an honest relationship with God, you will find yourself ready to love and be loved again!! Glory to God for all that He has lead me through during my “process”. 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️

[@Pickedpurposely]

Amen ! Welcome 🥰

[@LRMCBRIDE1]

First timer here 🎉 I'm from Chicago currently residing in Texas!

[@bonakelekunene5959]

Empathy, empathy, empathy is essential in a relationship 🙌🏾

[@simplyouniquev4450]

This was good. Thank you! 🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@Kim-gg3xz]

This is my first time here from Detroit, Michigan ❤

[@lisagoldsmith7435]

I said that I have to be okay with people not being okay with my decisions!!

[@LiveWellNowTV]

Curry, You were all up in your bag with this one! I’m going to have to watch this one a few times and pause in between to really soak all this GREAT wisdom in. There was so much confirmation that came from this therapy Thursday! Thank you for letting God use you in this one!

[@VickiBoyd-i8x]

Pastor Curry, I have been shown through your instruction, a new "open door" to acceptance of my recent divorce! 😢 🙏 It's painful, but necessary to operate in TRUTH! 💔💪🏆

[@seashell1037]

Grieve ….. then leave….Pastor, this is so hard 🥲

[@stevenkemp3765]

I read the title. It's all I needed. I feel like I'm so ready to love again.. let's see if I'm right. I pray for my wife often. Bring her to me, Lord, Amen

[@goldenlifelove7251]

I often pray that my husband finds me soon❤❤

[@stevenkemp3765]

@@goldenlifelove7251 Oooooooo!! Love this comment!!

[@stevenkemp3765]

@@goldenlifelove7251 maybe I'm him 😅

[@mbuwemogale9528]

😂😂 ….. mmmmmmhhhhh lovely 🥰

[@MADDAMMARI]

This is my second session and I must say MY GOD MY GOD ‼️‼️‼️‼️ 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@TheComposerRell]

Glad to have you!!! Continue to come & get this goodness God is sharing with us through these vessels! 💪🏾💪🏾

[@TheComposerRell]

FACE YOUR TRAUMA!

[@tammyjones6703]

This is my first time here

[@msaverielle]

You have to lead through love. Lead the way Jesus leads the church.

[@Melsmest]

First time watching from Detroit,Michigan ❤

[@leahenglish1821]

Ty for allowing yourself to be a tool of the almighty to help others heal

[@dknoop9838]

My question is, Am I ready to be loved ❤

[@flott285]

Face your trauma.💯💪🏾

[@SistaPritchard]

This is phenomenal teaching!!! Thank you Pastor Curry. This was an on time Word and exactly what I needed to hear today. Amen 🙏🏽 🙌🏽

[@brooklynnandblake]

This is my 1st time viewing, I throughly enjoyed it. All glory to God.

[@meekahharrison5413]

I’m really not ready to love again‼️are u really ready to love again.

[@nazarethstream5874]

AMEN ❤🙏 In JESUS CHRIST 💗 Mighty NAME ❤️ He's Worthy To Be Praised 🙏

[@jeaninerichardson7179]

ENFORCE BOUNDARIES

[@alissa_nicole_]

First time here, thank y'all so incredibly much and may the Lord continue to bless and work through you to serve people. I'm beyond grateful to have landed here tonight!!! 🙏✨🌟

[@rolandarobinson5241]

Im here for the first time. The title resignates with where I am in this season. I'll watch and respond at the end.

[@Pickedpurposely]

You first timers tuned in at such divine timing 🥰👏🏾 God is so good !

[@callihabekott]

Oh snap! Oklahoma coming in hottt! You guys are literally tearing the scales off of my eyes and ripping down the walls around my heart. Y’all done started a fire we ain’t ever gonna put out! Love y’all so dearly, for the TRUTHs you are allowing God to pour out through you❤ #therapythursday

[@jasonpimienta1336]

I’m so excited to share in the experience of therapy Thursday GOD BLESS MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS IN CHRIST ❤❤❤

[@timaiyarobertson6538]

IM DEFINITELY GREEDY FOR THE WORD❤❤❤❤❤

[@ccartagena2262]

Thank You ❤🔥🙏, I just had my lens cleaned spiritually , The codependence is not a healthy place to be when trying to be congruent with a partner.

[@Thetaxresource]

Thanks!

[@williamcaudle7436]

New Comer out of Greensboro NC. Brother you are blessing my soul in this new season of my life. Blessings 🙌

[@hunnycup2008]

Welcome to Therapy Thursdays! So glad you are here working on you for you!

[@msaverielle]

You must enforce boundaries.

[@lovemotherherbalproducts]

Whew!! I didn’t realize how much I needed this! Especially the part regarding a man having authority over his wife. I have also come to know through my healing process that I prefer/learn better from men because I always wished my father taught me things he knew rather it be his crafts or just his wisdom gained throughout life. I can’t wait to catch another one of his teachings. Issac Curry is a beautiful addition to the redefined family!

[@MirroredGeneration]

Am I really ready to love again ? Yes myself fully. To know and learn how. This is for me tonight 😭🪞

[@balloonsbyflorallyyours3998]

This is SO good and SO needed in this part of my journey. Took notes on this that I will definitely refer to and share with others. Thank you, Pastor Curry for this teaching and the detailed breakdown. You didn’t just throw information at us but took your time with it! NO QUESTIONS, SIR! Only ACTIONS! Blessings to you!

[@reshaundaliv9176]

This is so powerful 🔥🙏

[@ubaok24]

I don't think I'll ever love someone else again.

[@brithanyhaynes3035]

This is my first time here, hii❤

[@comfortinyang7644]

This was therapy for me...Thank you for this 🙏

[@FollowMeStopPlayin]

I'm ready for love again ❤

[@Listentomusicist]

I’m allowing God to heal more how I respond in all my relationships 🙏🏾

[@nicoleboyce]

Thank you for Therapy Thursday and for the Ministry of Jerry Flowers and all the wisdom poured out in each one of these videos. I am filled and immensely blessed by how you do churchand realness and rawness, TRUTH, speaks directly to my spirit. Im watching from Richmond Indiana. I have been diagnosed with PTSD bc I dealt with my people that were supposed to love me mishandled. It led to them blaming me for their problems adult problems they talked negatively and blamed me and I can sense a fakeness bc I have been speaking 🗣️ GOD and sending sermons. Mmm I let mu family yo bc of their toxic ways that have undermined and left me hanging to figure life out and my mistakes of trying to figure what I have never seen, abuse after abuse and I went into those unhealthy relationships 💔 that broke me mentally physically emotionally sexually and I broke my back hooked on pain pills led to arguments in my mothers household I had a child and one of the arguments led to police getting called and I went to jail my son was taken with the help of my mom going to my aunt that visited me and I didnt want my son in the system and I made the decision they wanted me to make and I have not been able to forgive myself bc they didnt follow through and allow me after they adopted and I was 19 at the time. Ive dealt with anxiety my entire life from all the burdens put onto me from others that I carried and I went into drugs and I finally after years of trying and 😭 out to God to take it from me. I was doing drugs for over 20 years of my life and im 39 this month. My mom blamed me for her and never defended me and gave me a voice actually shut me up. Im married and thank God he is still here while Im going through a transformation and I dont have a church to go to. My family im the one thay pours and pours and its not reciprocated. Yesterday I stepped away bc the Lord needs me to be committed to my walk and they dont understand. I just went through my 6th miscarriage. And I have a lot of work that needs to be done to help me process and grow 🪴. I love my husband but Im struggling with where I am and dont have anyone to help me process and to rell me truth that is going to help me. Im self accountable but my husband holds me accountable about how kuch Ive allowed my family to take advantage and dump on me. I wont do it until im all the way healed. Im aware and need a people that are able to help me in this process and help me to let go and grieve stepping away from the toxicity of my family. I love them more than they love me bc its not reciprocated. They manipulate and im being aware of that behaviour that they cannot be held accountable when i approach them and tell them they dont care that im hurting. They never have. My mother made a big difference between her children causing problems amongst us and there she goes and when I say to her how she gurt me she tries to cry and say i guess im wtong its ALL my fault in a manipulative way. Im not standing for liars and manipulators anymore. If my love and what I offer is not reciprocated then ill dust my feet off move on and pray the right people the church people that will help me to grow and thrive.

[@larhondageorge5743]

This is my first time here!❤

[@iamwiebers30]

Blessings! Watching from the Netherlands 🇳🇱

[@babyt080299]

Pastor Isaac....that was a beautiful word!! This resignates to me on so many levels. This one will be on repeat!! God Bless!! I love my church!!❤

[@meaganowens1137]

Lord just touch your child! Let them know you see them and better days are to come. The past can no longer them. Because who the son sets free is free. So let them walk on freedom.

[@michellemorris9181]

Yeah I just saved this one. There is a lot to think about when you are ready to love and be in a relationship . For me this is a blueprint to make sure that I am ready 🤗

[@aiceleroom]

Are you really ready to LOVE again ?

[@nedraford5461]

This therapy session helped me! I already know there are still areas that I am not fully healed in yet, but I am doing the hard work to become whole! Thank you Pastor for this message

[@BrendaSmith-f4q]

I know God is working through y’all for me !!!! God Bless you

[@joi5787]

This was an awesome message!!!

[@Ms.SelfFabulous]

This is my 1st time here from Roanoke, Va

[@ntsikisithole]

I’m streaming from Joburg South Africa... I’m hooked on these sessions thank you ❤️💫

[@phyllisbelieves8148]

WHEW! Right on time with this one! Am I really ready to love again????

[@pelkieroberson5511]

Speaking life. Thanking God for therapy Thursday

[@KaylanJaTara]

GOD heal us all so that we will be able to LOVE again 💙

[@gabrielleanderson8624]

Thank you for the healing message . Lord help us to restore our family unit. The man submit to Jesus christ and The woman submit to the man. The man must lead through love , he has to lead through grace which means he had to lead the way Jesus did !!!! The man cannot submit to GOD if he don’t have his devotional time with GOD as well as the woman. Holy spirit help us become aware of our filters and learn how to love the kingdom way.

[@latiergriffin6213]

Awesome!! ❤

[@jenniferfuertes2668]

Hi from New Mexico.. first time

[@Amirra.reflects]

Such a great message, thank you!

[@LatoyaG_]

Are you really ready to love again 🔥🔥🔥

[@myhealthislife]

This is good 30:58

[@danettacargle6591]

Excellent!!!!

[@keepmovingjumping]

Pray for me God knows my needs❤ Thank you and im from Finland🇫🇮❤

[@ladennayoung2939]

COME ON, HOLY SPIRIT!!!!!! YESSSSSSSSSSSSS!!! THANK YOU, LORD JESUS. THANK YOU, LORD. AMEN. HALLELUJAH. WHEW. THANK YOU, LORD JESUS. THANK YOU, LORD. AMEN. HALLELUJAH. THANK YOU, LORD JESUS. THANK YOU, LORD. THANK YOU, LORD. AMEN. HALLELUJAH. AMEN.

[@dalleanemcnichols1149]

Powerful!!!

[@tretre4u72]

This is sooooo good!!!

[@sashahernandez5457]

What’s crazy is I just asked myself this question today!!

[@rodahmusyoka831]

❤❤❤❤From Nairobi Kenya am truly grateful,this is truly Godsent . The amount of wisdom being shared over here is just on another level may God be glorified . You're living out your God given purpose I salute you . Am learning so much, thankyou be blessed am humbled🙏

[@cherokeemarsh]

I am thankful and believe I was led to your podcast, thank you for this!! The self-reflection explains my mind, my decisions before were from the wrong place and now I'm so frozen and scared to even consider the prospect of trying again, because "Am I ready" and more importantly, I want the decision to be "Of God" and not "Of my own will" .... please pray for me. And if it be thy will Lord, help me to be content alone. Praise be to GOD and GOD bless all of you.

[@talishacancerian6959]

This is powerful

[@JCsWorlddd]

Glory to be God! Powerful message

[@missb7842]

What an absolute blessing for therapy Thursday. Thank you men of God for not just teaching us these biblical principles, but for helping us be equipped in order to put these biblical principles in practice so we can be effective in our lives as followers of Christ. This video really forces you to do some introspective analysis of where your heart is at.

[@maureenwatts2941]

This is my first time my name is Maureen Watts I am living in Atlanta