Are You Really Ready To Love Again? | Therapy Thursday | Issac Curry

Let us be people that experience what biblical love truly looks like, so that once we enter into relationships we do not repeat what should've been repaired.
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[@wdsanders04]

You are ready to love 1 when you are able to be held accountable 2, When you are willing and able to create and enforce boundaries. 3 When your relationship with the Lord has moved beyond transactional and surface. 4 When your last relationship and past trauma are in the rear view mirror and not the front windshield 5 When you become aware of your filter and don’t allow them to make decisions for you. 6 When you receive the gift of empathy and nature it to health in your life 7 When you are cable of not viewing another person as a project or as a parent.

[@Pickedpurposely]

Thank ya Brotha 🙏🏾

[@gyongyverdr.tamas-kovacs7164]

Thank You, I think it's nurture - not nature - :)

[@candacesmith5572]

Looks like I'm ready based on these

[@KelseyOnSocial]

Thank you!

[@GodMade1012]

Amen 🙏

[@AnotherBeliever]

I have to watch this again and again. Lord help me lead my family. Im here for a reason. Im strong in every season. So goes the man so goes the home. I plead the blood. I Decrease so YOU can increase. Planted not buried. Amen Amen Amen

[@AnotherBeliever]

4th rewatch. I'm trying. I'm learning. I'm growing. Dear Lord help me be the husband and father my family needs. Thank you pastor curry and redefined TV. And momma flowers. 🙏🙏🧑‍🚒🚒🔥

[@ctanaw]

Amen 🙏🏽

[@zynekaroberts]

Amen

[@TheRealGuusMcgoose]

you’re the one i picked to pray for.

[@AnotherBeliever]

​@TheRealGuusMcgoose Thank you. It's much appreciated. 🙏on my 5th rewatch.

[@CharissaKoekemoer]

First time watcher from South africa I'm excited about my healing journey just because I found this channel Thank you Jesus

[@KaraKnott-ye6mw]

Again, I’m @ a loss for words in describing how impactful these therapy sessions have been to me & those I’ve shared w/. I always think the last one is the most powerful ; until I hear the next. Pastor Curry is just as much so; in a calming sense. They both compliment one other in their gifts. I’m thinking God for them!

[@laquintajones4044]

Amen. I could not agree with you more.

[@seashell1037]

Grieve ….. then leave….Pastor, this is so hard 🥲

[@corawilliams7056]

First timer, from Durham NC. Didn't get child hood love. Dad married my mother and we all had different dads. I married so i wouldnt go from man to man had a 12yr old . Got married so thinking it would stabilize me to get married .and i wouldn't have children with different daddys. because my dad left when i was 3yrs old .i said if i get married i would stay married. The enemy came in and i was not prepared for the destruction. I Was Married 23 yrs to a Pastor . A dominated time . Divorced 15yrs . I have never been in love .to me love gives each other time to grow .we both were broken . I walk now bent over and really you see me walking look like I'm straighten up. God Almighty is lift me up and straighten me up . I dont think i want to be married again im 69 now . Broken . I love my children and grands and greatgrands . Prayers up for me . Thank you for the therapy. CMW. 34:15

[@AnotherBeliever]

Praying for you. Praying you find peace that passes all understanding. Love is all around you it's not just a human. It's the wind. The rain. The sun. The SON. THE FATHER. THE HOLY SPIRIT. hang on to true love. Pass real love on to those babies. They are the future. I pray for you strength, understanding, and peace. Thank YOU Lord.

[@Tessamonet]

Very true! Address trauma! The Lord has me in my healing stage 🥰

[@aprillynn9928]

Thank you, Isaac , for being faithful to your call to be used by God , to help us grow. I pray blessings ✨️✝️✨️ and protection over your mind , your heart , your family and your ministry , in Jesus' mighty name , Amen 🙏.

[@msaverielle]

You have to lead through love. Lead the way Jesus leads the church.

[@tammyjones6703]

This is my first time here

[@Ke-MiMi]

Communication itself is Empathy. They coexist. This was enriching. Thank you. 💜✨

[@jeaninerichardson7179]

ENFORCE BOUNDARIES

[@MADDAMMARI]

This is my second session and I must say MY GOD MY GOD ‼️‼️‼️‼️ 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@TheComposerRell]

Glad to have you!!! Continue to come & get this goodness God is sharing with us through these vessels! 💪🏾💪🏾

[@williamcaudle7436]

New Comer out of Greensboro NC. Brother you are blessing my soul in this new season of my life. Blessings 🙌

[@hunnycup2008]

Welcome to Therapy Thursdays! So glad you are here working on you for you!

[@Janotherk87]

I’m watching from Japan. 14hrs ahead of eastern time. Thank you so much for the word. It has been helpful in my healing and my self growth as a man. I want to be the man god is showing he created me to be. Thank you for this word.

[@kendralewis4293]

ACCOUNTABILITY!

[@TheComposerRell]

FACE YOUR TRAUMA!

[@talishacancerian6959]

This is powerful

[@ms.acbeautiful]

First time

[@maryduffy2086]

Thank you for sharing

[@Amirra.reflects]

Such a great message, thank you!

[@nedraford5461]

This therapy session helped me! I already know there are still areas that I am not fully healed in yet, but I am doing the hard work to become whole! Thank you Pastor for this message

[@nicoleboyce]

Thank you for Therapy Thursday and for the Ministry of Jerry Flowers and all the wisdom poured out in each one of these videos. I am filled and immensely blessed by how you do churchand realness and rawness, TRUTH, speaks directly to my spirit. Im watching from Richmond Indiana. I have been diagnosed with PTSD bc I dealt with my people that were supposed to love me mishandled. It led to them blaming me for their problems adult problems they talked negatively and blamed me and I can sense a fakeness bc I have been speaking 🗣️ GOD and sending sermons. Mmm I let mu family yo bc of their toxic ways that have undermined and left me hanging to figure life out and my mistakes of trying to figure what I have never seen, abuse after abuse and I went into those unhealthy relationships 💔 that broke me mentally physically emotionally sexually and I broke my back hooked on pain pills led to arguments in my mothers household I had a child and one of the arguments led to police getting called and I went to jail my son was taken with the help of my mom going to my aunt that visited me and I didnt want my son in the system and I made the decision they wanted me to make and I have not been able to forgive myself bc they didnt follow through and allow me after they adopted and I was 19 at the time. Ive dealt with anxiety my entire life from all the burdens put onto me from others that I carried and I went into drugs and I finally after years of trying and 😭 out to God to take it from me. I was doing drugs for over 20 years of my life and im 39 this month. My mom blamed me for her and never defended me and gave me a voice actually shut me up. Im married and thank God he is still here while Im going through a transformation and I dont have a church to go to. My family im the one thay pours and pours and its not reciprocated. Yesterday I stepped away bc the Lord needs me to be committed to my walk and they dont understand. I just went through my 6th miscarriage. And I have a lot of work that needs to be done to help me process and grow 🪴. I love my husband but Im struggling with where I am and dont have anyone to help me process and to rell me truth that is going to help me. Im self accountable but my husband holds me accountable about how kuch Ive allowed my family to take advantage and dump on me. I wont do it until im all the way healed. Im aware and need a people that are able to help me in this process and help me to let go and grieve stepping away from the toxicity of my family. I love them more than they love me bc its not reciprocated. They manipulate and im being aware of that behaviour that they cannot be held accountable when i approach them and tell them they dont care that im hurting. They never have. My mother made a big difference between her children causing problems amongst us and there she goes and when I say to her how she gurt me she tries to cry and say i guess im wtong its ALL my fault in a manipulative way. Im not standing for liars and manipulators anymore. If my love and what I offer is not reciprocated then ill dust my feet off move on and pray the right people the church people that will help me to grow and thrive.

[@LatoyaG_]

Are you really ready to love again 🔥🔥🔥

[@keepmovingjumping]

Pray for me God knows my needs❤ Thank you and im from Finland🇫🇮❤

[@DDwalker-nl7nx]

This is amazing thank you

[@samanthasingh49]

First time here.

[@garthandhuldahhenry]

First time here

[@pelkieroberson5511]

Speaking life. Thanking God for therapy Thursday

[@ECleavage20]

Whew! This was great!

[@samanthasingh49]

Boundaries

[@LibraLife47]

I needed this so much. 😢thank you. 🙏🏾I have no idea what healed looks like

[@jessicafindlay175]

Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

[@jeaninerichardson7179]

Praise 🙌 JESUS I love this ministry.

[@eulaboyd2204]

Thank you for the heart encouraging message.🙏🏿

[@Nicole__97_]

Wow wow and wow I needed to hear this. Thank you

[@pelkieroberson5511]

🔥 firefighters rescue

[@jammyfresh2429]

Am I really ready to love someone else?

[@rifkatarigan3887]

From Cali

[@seashell1037]

What if your husband didnt want to lead our family? I had to be the leader, then i was condemned (by him) for making decisions. But he would not partner with me in decisions, and he would not lead us

[@lisagoldsmith7435]

Face your trauma!

[@Kangwa-p1k]

And it’s sad to see the worldly definition of love

[@arielhrrs13]

❤🎉

[@MegannDanielle]

Question, how did David use Michal? She helped him escape and when Saul died and he became kind, he told abbey that it was nothing for him to say to him unless he bring him back his wife Michal even though Saul gave her to someone else to marry… ? You said David used her like her daddy did …?

[@pelkieroberson5511]

Grieve and then leave

[@MsElleDluv]

I have taken years to heal my trauma to become the best version of myself. I have so much peace in my singleness that I cherish. A relationship takes maturity and a lot of work plus sacrifice- I’m in no rush. Maybe one day or maybe not. I’m good where I’m at. Blessings from Dallas!

[@Kangwa-p1k]

This is a much needed conversation,I’m learning how to love,I recently broke up with the person I was “inlove with” and now I’m realizing what we were doing doesn’t qualify to be called love and I’m being intentional with my healing because it still hurts

[@vivianwebber2001]

God let this word help me in the area of my heart

[@Kierradaniellee]

Hi Vivian. May God allow this word to bless you. May things become clear to you, and you see God in everything you do. I pray that you will have divine discernment, and your heart will be open only to those who mean you well. I pray that The Holy Spirit will guide you, guide your speech and your actions. I pray that you’ll be gracious to yourself. I pray that you’ll love yourself and God so much that whoever comes your way will have no choice but to see Him. I pray for your heart. For love. Love you 🤍🫂

[@loveli210]

Pastor Curry, you are a great example of a son, man, humble human being and KING! God bless you and your family in Jesus name brother in Christ ✝️🙏🏾🖤

[@Rshullick]

This is my first time here. I’m standing for my husband’s salvation and our marriage restoration. Even though man granted his divorce may 2023. I walk by faith not by sight. I will never stop until I see God do what only He can do. In Jesus mighty name I decree & declare it’s done Amen

[@claraafuera]

Right here with you.. stand in the gap and wage war for them. God has the last day. That walk by faith and not by sight can be so hard. What I see now is certain death of mine and my husbands relationship… BUT GOD!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼 He will do it. Often times it has to look so dead and so impossible so when it suddenly comes to pass, only God can receive the glory and we can surely know it is him. God bless you. I began writing this comment before the part in the video where he said to find someone in the comments and encourage them. I recently dreamt I commented back to someone on a KZbin video, encouraging them to continue standing for their husband. So when he said that, it was SO confirming and reminded me of that dream. Be blessed, hold fast to Gods word no matter what you see or hear. 💕

[@laquintajones4044]

Pastor Flowers and Curry…through God and my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ saved my life!! I am in Los Angeles and I have binged watched almost every series. So many places to worship near me, but the Lord brings me here…Amen and glory to God for this healing and transformation in my life!!!!!!!

[@teronclax2906]

Same here and I’m in Kentucky!!!

[@silvergray2345]

Welcome 1st timers! This message is a blessing🙌🏼

[@LiveWellNowTV]

Curry, You were all up in your bag with this one! I’m going to have to watch this one a few times and pause in between to really soak all this GREAT wisdom in. There was so much confirmation that came from this therapy Thursday! Thank you for letting God use you in this one!

[@ingridedouard7567]

Good morning, I want to say this is my first time listening to one of your videos and I appreciate this topic so much! I thank God for healing, and I want to tell that person who heart has been broken/shattered and they can’t see healing or being whole again… Trust God to lead you and allow Him to move you through the “process” of healing and He will get you to a place of peace, a place of healed, and one day after establishing and maintaining an honest relationship with God, you will find yourself ready to love and be loved again!! Glory to God for all that He has lead me through during my “process”. 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️

[@Pickedpurposely]

Amen ! Welcome 🥰

[@TestimonyTuesdays]

First time watching! Love the idea and the news. Speaking of lenses i know i do have some trauma with submission to men and church leaders espically if i don't see christ in them. It's hard to see beautiful broken down women being less than what God has called them to be, because religion, cultural, or even their own mind says they are worth less. I was struggling with 1 corinthians 14:34-35 this morning. Do you think that part or at least how it was written could have been related to Paul's lense and trauma? I'll admit that i struggle with seeing the gifting of women not seen as valuable in church, espically single young women like me. The religious abuse I've experianced has been horrible and makes me less trusting of authority and spirtitual/religious things. It doesn't help that parts of the bible are used to inflict that abuse on women.

[@alissa_nicole_]

First time here, thank y'all so incredibly much and may the Lord continue to bless and work through you to serve people. I'm beyond grateful to have landed here tonight!!! 🙏✨🌟

[@callihabekott]

Oh snap! Oklahoma coming in hottt! You guys are literally tearing the scales off of my eyes and ripping down the walls around my heart. Y’all done started a fire we ain’t ever gonna put out! Love y’all so dearly, for the TRUTHs you are allowing God to pour out through you❤ #therapythursday

[@msaverielle]

You have to accountable so you don’t become a liability.

[@simplyouniquev4450]

This was good. Thank you! 🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@maureenwatts2941]

This is my first time my name is Maureen Watts I am living in Atlanta

[@flott285]

Face your trauma.💯💪🏾

[@lisagoldsmith7435]

He showed me 2 times this week that I had a worldly view that I didn’t know existed!!!

[@Pickedpurposely]

Praise God 🙏🏾💕 I pray now that your obedient to whatever the Holy Spirit is leading you towards and in due time your able to erase the Worldly doctrine and replace it with the WORD of God 🥰 ERASE & REPLACE👏🏾

[@lisagoldsmith7435]

I said that I have to be okay with people not being okay with my decisions!!

[@brithanyhaynes3035]

This is my first time here, hii❤

[@kierraemoni]

This is my first time here !

[@jasonpimienta1336]

I’m so excited to share in the experience of therapy Thursday GOD BLESS MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS IN CHRIST ❤❤❤

[@GodMade1012]

If you struggle with accountability, you are very likely going to become a liability 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@Thetaxresource]

Thanks!

[@kishiablackman2348]

Filters

[@erinmiles3083]

I think your ready to love again when you choose a posture of servitude.

[@LRMCBRIDE1]

First timer here 🎉 I'm from Chicago currently residing in Texas!

[@phyllisbelieves8148]

WHEW! Right on time with this one! Am I really ready to love again????

[@shawnasatchell8897]

I’m not … just being honest. It sounds good & beautiful But I don’t think romantic love is for me. I feel like “ Romantic Love “ is like playing the lottery Many people play every day…. But, …very few actually win. I’ve played…. I lost EVERYTHING!!!! I don’t want to play anymore. I’ll give all my heart, mind, soul, strength, time & energy searching for God… I KNOW HIS LOVE IS REAL and DOESN’T change.

[@crystalsimon8860]

This video is such a blessing! Straight biblical wisdom!!

[@ccartagena2262]

Thank You ❤🔥🙏, I just had my lens cleaned spiritually , The codependence is not a healthy place to be when trying to be congruent with a partner.

[@BrendaSmith-f4q]

I know God is working through y’all for me !!!! God Bless you

[@jenniferbooker4984]

Answering the question When I hear authority or submission I hear Control.

[@goldenlifelove7251]

I want my husband to lead & I've BEEN ready to submit to the right man in marriage. I hope God blesses me to be a wife one day soon. I have so much love, nuturing & care to give my Godsent husband.

[@seashell1037]

Face your trauma. You have to have the funeral by yourself

[@SistaPritchard]

This is phenomenal teaching!!! Thank you Pastor Curry. This was an on time Word and exactly what I needed to hear today. Amen 🙏🏽 🙌🏽

[@brooklynnandblake]

This is my 1st time viewing, I throughly enjoyed it. All glory to God.

[@comfortinyang7644]

This was therapy for me...Thank you for this 🙏

[@VAleri-dr8ci]

It takes a lot of courage and self awareness to 1st admit I don't really know what love is, what it means to love right and more so loving God's way rather than culture... couple goals ought to be set by God not culture... re.assessing if I am really ready to love

[@smilewithsadieb]

Do you really know what love is? No I don’t think I do. Thank you for this word.

[@bonakelekunene5959]

Empathy, empathy, empathy is essential in a relationship 🙌🏾

[@serah333]

Are you really ready to love again? Accountability...

[@ntsikisithole]

I’m streaming from Joburg South Africa... I’m hooked on these sessions thank you ❤️💫

[@MayaAngelah]

I pray provision and healing over everyone reading this 🫶🏿

[@talishacancerian6959]

I’m I really ready to love again? Great question

[@johndire9280]

Regret trying to get back with an ex that once hurt me. Back at the same place. 😢

[@Iamshelbyfaulkner]

I don’t know what healing looks like 😪… that’s real…

[@valeriewashington9564]

A lot of times are women will not allow the man to have authority over her because a lot of men have abused that Authority actually became control but the word is if and have that authority over her with love he will follow

[@loveli210]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Therapy Thursday was 🎯💯🙏🏾🎉Wellll done! Well said!!!!

[@dianamugambi1369]

God bless you Isaac... These sessions are transformational...

[@pelkieroberson5511]

Have the funeral of your past relationship

[@babyt080299]

Pastor Isaac....that was a beautiful word!! This resignates to me on so many levels. This one will be on repeat!! God Bless!! I love my church!!❤

[@meaganowens1137]

Lord just touch your child! Let them know you see them and better days are to come. The past can no longer them. Because who the son sets free is free. So let them walk on freedom.

[@msaverielle]

You must enforce boundaries.

[@dknoop9838]

My question is, Am I ready to be loved ❤

[@Kim-gg3xz]

This is my first time here from Detroit, Michigan ❤

[@rolandarobinson5241]

Im here for the first time. The title resignates with where I am in this season. I'll watch and respond at the end.