That's Not An Apology | Therapy Thursday | Issac Curry

[@seanae233]

I speak life into every single person in the comments! I pray God heals your mind, body, spirit and soul! I pray God takes His children to the land of milk and honey! FATHER I PRAY that you send an overflow of your anointing upon your children and Reverse any and every curse in Jesus name 🙏

[@porschajohnson1890]

AN APOLOGY MUST BE CONNECTED TO CURIOSITY AND CHANGED BEHAVIOR. Because if you don’t change your behavior, you can keep your apology”.🎯🎯 So good!

[@porschajohnson1890]

My only feedback on this episode is that he did not correlate scripture with the topic. I love Therapy Thursday because you guys do an amazing job helping us better understand scripture and the practicality of applying the word to our daily lives.🙏🏽

[@wdsanders04]

These are not Apologies 1. Quick apology - focus the other person to be silent and unheard (controlling) 2. Conditional apology - when you apologize with the word (If). If should not be in the clause..You can’t apologize only having a monologue. 3. Houdini apology - Someone who knows how to blame shift onto the other person. They escape the conversation blaming you like you did something wrong. 4. Manipulative apology- When you apologize with the word (BUT). You are still responsible for you own behavior 5. I am justified apology - When you apologize and you use the word (JUST). You want them to see your perspective and be understood. 6. Two Step apology- It’s when you dancing around the apology but never really say the words “ I am Sorry “ you have to acknowledge what you did with change behavior. 7. Tug of war apology - Is when you say I will say I’m sorry if you will say you are sorry. When they withhold apologies. Few behaviors 1. Accepting apologies too quickly 2. Not demanding changed behavior. (Boundaries are required) 3. Misusing your empathy 4. Being unforgiving and unreasonable with your demands. Real apology 1. Real apologies give permission for the other person to feel. 2. An Apology must be connected to cursorily and changed behavior.

[@MI55P1NKI3]

I AM READY

[@GodMade1012]

Thank you for the notes brother 🙏💯

[@GodMade1012]

Everyone NEED this 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@jennypaul10]

Thank you

[@chrisyoun6520]

I am ready

[@vitacroskey4100]

I’m here for the first time😊

[@rubberbiscuit99]

Hello! I am here for the first time too.

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Welcome! You’ll ❤ it here!

[@magalysoto007]

Welcome!🎉I ask our Heavenly Father that this channel blesses you as it’s blessed me, in Jesus mighty name amen❤🙏🏼

[@jayla8301]

Welcome ❤

[@amyedwards6644]

Welcome! I'm proud of you for being intentional about your growth! We hope to see you back! May the Father's blessing be upon your life. ❤️

[@jephtawallace2135]

Thank you Mr. Curry for helping a full grown 53 year or man fully understand what transparency looks like when apologies are exchanged and received!

[@labethanimay9962]

May you receive everything you deserve!

[@SierraRichards-gq8vg]

You" GOT THIS" MR.WALLACE!

[@jephtawallace2135]

@@SierraRichards-gq8vgBless up!

[@jephtawallace2135]

@@labethanimay9962Thank you, working on me!

[@sheriroland2760]

We all have work to do ... apology should be connected to changed behavior/curiosity... listening - being quiet long enough to get to contrition in order to change

[@melaniedaly4321]

My sister glad ur here I am watching the replay but God bless u my sister 🙏 ❤️

[@melaniedaly4321]

I NEED THIS TODAY GLORY TO GOD

[@melaniedaly4321]

That's not an apology

[@melaniedaly4321]

I AM READY!!!!

[@msaverielle]

With an apology should come CHANGED behavior.

[@tanetrawrentz4679]

Exactly! Without change behavior, now it becomes manipulation by choice which is even more hurtful.

[@msaverielle]

@@tanetrawrentz4679Amen.❤

[@msaverielle]

@@tanetrawrentz4679Amen.❤

[@miseducated7185]

I pray that God moves in a mighty way in the lives of all connected to Therapy Thursday

[@AmandaWatson-h6v]

I'm her for the first time . I believe God has something for my healing.

[@melaniedaly4321]

Glad ur hear God bless pastor Curry is amazing

[@ladennayoung2939]

Welcome. I pray your strength in the Lord in Jesus' name. AMEN. ❤❤❤

[@SierraRichards-gq8vg]

He absolutely dose! May God heal you in every way!🙏🤗

[@AmandaWatson-h6v]

I'm here for the first time. I know God has something for my heart

[@aprilfurcean8302]

Welcome.

[@ladennayoung2939]

I pray that you feel you got what was needed from the LORD IN JESUS' NAME. AMEN. WELCOME. ❤❤❤

[@deangelarobinson1362]

God bless I pray that God gives you longevity

[@jalilfreeman-debrow]

Changed behavior. Changing my conduct and produce according to my walk not just by lip service only.

[@sonialittle4590]

This was my first time tuning in and I was divinely led here, to prepare me to extend a much needed, overdue, and sincere apology to someone. Thank you for allowing God to use you.

[@reynabermea1860]

You need this that’s not an apology. Welcome and you are right you were led here divinely and are going to love and grow. I joined two years ago and this is Holy Spirit lead. May you be blessed today and everyday and everyday 🙏 ❤

[@ladennayoung2939]

Welcome. I pray everything works out for you in that area and that it ends well IN JESUS' NAME. THE NAME ABOVE ALL NAMES. AMEN. ❤❤❤

[@SheenaMarie05]

This was SOOO good pastor Curry! 🔥 “You’re apologizing, but NOT changing your behavior.” That part!

[@tanetrawrentz4679]

Exactly! When people do this it really makes me upset.

[@emmadavis4407]

I’ve listened intently and learned some major points…. Jesus! I’m going home to listen AGAIN and take notes because I learn and retain better with visual notes and cues! This was perfectly detailed on what an apology is NOT, examples of what an apology is NOT and a layman’s explanation of what an apology IS !!!! 🔥

[@veleciadudley5383]

glad you can make it in the room queen. thank you for your obedience to God I hope what ever is on your heart and mind you continue to cast onto the lord because he cares 1 peter5:7 I love you and Jesus loves you best

[@christychristy7962]

Trying daily to forgive when I’ve never received an apology. Or seen changed behavior.

[@tanetrawrentz4679]

You’re not alone. It’s really a process that’s not easy on some days

[@shirukayp]

Listening from Nairobi Kenya, this ministry is a blessing 🙌

[@TheSoughtAfter1]

🇰🇪 🇰🇪 🇰🇪

[@LatoyaG_]

stop making others suffer for something someone else did amen‼️🙌🏾

[@GodMade1012]

Amen 🙏

[@lauratorres-gutierrez2197]

That's not an apology. I'm here ready for healing 🙌

[@gerardoaguayo6308]

Second week of therapy Thursday I’m grateful for your service. God bless you 🙏🏻

[@florathomas7289]

Praying that god keeps bringing you hear to help you find yourself on your journey of healing mentally and spiritually

[@donnascott4328]

This is my first Therapy Thursday! Blessings ❤

[@ladennayoung2939]

Welcome. I pray your strength, growth, healing, wisdom, insight, perspective, and growth in discernment IN THE LORD IN JESUS' NAME. AMEN. GOD TRULY DOES LOVE AND CARE FOR YOU AND SO DO I. YOU ARE NOT HERE BY RANDOM, COINCIDENCE, OR MISTAKE. NOT ON KZbin CONNECTED TO THIS CHANNNEL BY MISTAKE, AND YOUR NOT HERE ON THIS EARTH BY MISTAKE IN JESUS' NAME. AMEN. YOU ARE LOVED. YOU MATTER IN JESUS' NAME. YOU HAVE VALUE, WORTH, AND PURPOSE IN JESUS' NAME. FOR SUCH A TIME AS THIS. THE NAME ABOVE ALL NAMES. AMEN. ❤❤❤

[@GracefullyHealed]

Replay: this came up on my for me to watch twice and i was like I don’t need this and boom it comes again so I am like ok God I am going to listen and I am glad I obeyed.

[@LatoyaG_]

An apology must be connected to change behavior…. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@oldskoolempire6314]

I did not know that our Empathy can be misused 🤯 this is such an eye opener!!!!!! God bless this ministry 🙏

[@donnascott4328]

This ENTIRE session hit me like a ton of bricks! I heard my own voice in the words you spoke. I heard my Fiancé s voice via examples you shared. It was as if you had a camera in my home privy to arguments and conversations we've had. Wow. Some of these exact things have been said by both of us this past year. Im grateful to God, I'm encouraged & I feel like burdens were just lifted in my spirit! Very powerfully profound. Blessings to you and may you and your beautiful wife continue to grow in love!❤

[@ladennayoung2939]

Keep coming back. Hang in there. Don't give up. They have a live service on Sunday afternoon's.

[@ajordan1847]

I had to pause the message at 48:25 "Placing a demand on the other person." Whew. 🙏🏾

[@LiViNLoViNliFE1017]

I'm so grateful to have caught the replay!! So grateful, I immediately played it back for a second time. TOP TIER!! INFORMATION WISDOM AND GUIDANCE

[@jimmyhaynes1131]

First time here

[@grownfolksperspectives]

✌🏽🖤💡 I am catching the replay on 3/13/24. Blessings to everyone!

[@sonjahassani7902]

I love listening to him. Therapy Thursdays are such a blessing! He is so gentle and warm. And the way he delivers the message gets through to me every time! God bless you all.

[@shakitaanderson1618]

I'm here for the 1st time! Great message. This is truly an eye-opener to what we all need to do and apply to our lives. Thanks, Pastor.

[@skyWalk02470]

These are both the roots and fruits of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Thank you, Holy Spirit, for shining divine light on the demon of cluster b disorders.

[@ladennayoung2939]

People who have NPD are not the only ones who have these issues.

[@GodMade1012]

Quick Apology- Danger is the offended doesn’t have the ability to feel🔥🔥🔥

[@Janotherk87]

I’m here for Japan. I’m glad this found me tonight. Although I’m 14hrs ahead of eastern. I thank you for the word tonight.

[@SierraRichards-gq8vg]

Change my behaviors heavenly Father🙏

[@Mrs.Guzman]

GLORY TO GOD!!!! WHAT A WORD!!! TY FOR YOUR OBEDIENCE !! HALLELUJAH ❤

[@JusticeHint]

I’m here for the first time and was sent by a good friend of mine. May you all be blessed and in exceptional health and high spirit ❤

[@Shanaejastewart]

Pastor Curry...as we say in Jamaica 🇯🇲 that message was well curry...blessings 🙏🙏

[@CallMeMicahT]

My wife sent me this after an argument. That is not an apology.

[@ladennayoung2939]

Proverbs 25:28 (KJV) He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down, and without walls.

[@charnellabrams8666]

Tug of war apology!!! Wow stepping on my toes...

[@vanessam0707]

Replay listening commenting❤that's not an apology😢😮

[@kenyannapennington3075]

I just ended a relationship w/ someone due to lack of action after apology. This is so true. You gotta have action attached to apology. Thank God for this word to let me know my heart led me correctly.🙏🏽❤️

[@rafaelsantana7936]

Thank you, Isaac. I truly needed this, I had an issue with my daughter earlier this week. My tone and the language were off.

[@ladennayoung2939]

AMEN!!! EXACTLY. THAT'S TRUE. THAT IS RIGHT. AMEN. THANK YOU, LORD JESUS. THANK YOU, LORD. AMEN.

[@TeeTheSweetheart]

Therapy Thursday has ended for the summer. I started Therapy Thursday maybe 5 episodes before it ended. So here I am today going back everyday. Watching a new message. Thank you for this!

[@isabellemendez1607]

Hello…..Here for the first time….Blessings to all🥰

[@blessingmulalambuka3039]

Am here for the first time 😍 love from Zambia 🇿🇲

[@angelacharleston2249]

Welcome

[@HisLoveEmpowersMiracles]

Great teaching!🔥🔥🔥♥️🤩🙌 This message needs to go viral!!

[@sheriroland2760]

Changed Behavior

[@abebe3944]

Mr Curry you're right on time.. That's not apology

[@afuadankwaahowusu699]

Replaying this: but I’m ready!

[@ninah608able]

This was amazing on vast levels!

[@billhufman3514]

Thank you, Pastor Curry! This really "therapized" me ( a new word )! I will need to listen to this a couple of times more, at least. 🙏✌️🤟

[@keitalong870]

Yessss!!! Please do a Therapy Thursday live

[@Yehudah911]

This man is the truth. I’m subscribing today. He made me see I really don’t know how to apologize and change my behavior. Thank you for this channel.

[@amyedwards6644]

I was just on here live but I HAD to come back for more notes!

[@shanticerichburg9788]

This was serious. Thank you Jesus for this session. It hits some areas that explain why i was stuck. This is good. Healing is good.

[@allisontyrrell2560]

Here for the first time.

[@colleenreid1715]

Hi 👋🏽 this is my first time watching therapy Thursday. Watching from London UK 🙏🏽

[@latoshiabutler5908]

I'm ready! Two months later but I'm ready!

[@shariboyd5657]

Lord this hit me soul and I just so happen to stumble upon this at work and have ignored everyone took out my journal and have wrote everything down but the one that stuck out to me the most and I almost lost it MISS HANDLING MY EMPATHY BY MAKING EXCUSES FOR ANOTHER PERSONS BEHAVIOR I have to star that one. Thank You for the amazing word and work you and your wife are doing.

[@donnajoyner9781]

Most comprehensive exhaustion of this topic! THANK YOU SIR! People of God, let's do better...glory to God. This was amazing! ✝️🙌🏽🕊

[@gdaniels5433]

I’m so thankful that the Lord bought this teaching my way. Not only did this make me evaluate how I give apologies but also it helped me to understand why I felt stuck when certain people apologize to me. What he called a conditional apology, I called a blanket apology. A person trying to cover all of the bases, but yet there was no change. God truly use this word to set me free. I felt stuck for years thinking I was walking in unforgiveness towards people, but really what it was I felt stuck because of the lack of change behind a person’s apology towards me.

[@coryb.flowers9568]

I'm ready @ 5:00 in the morning

[@jaleishajacobs3129]

Life changing message.

[@JesusismyKingNL]

Great message❤🙏God bless everyone on here.

[@nikkinicole899]

This word was so rich and enlightening!

[@melaniedaly4321]

Hallelujah

[@miseducated7185]

Watching Replay

[@denisewoodall1178]

Here for the first time 😊

[@beverlystokes7135]

Amen...on time message!

[@brianna32185]

Thanks!

[@CharityJackson-ee7di]

My first time... and I'm super excited.💙

[@BarbaraChristian-k8z]

I am here for the first time

[@truebeautyandBREyond]

"Stuck in toxic"...all so good, so gooddd! Love this

[@isabellemendez1607]

I’m Ready….!

[@smilewithsadieb]

This was a WORD!!!!!!!!!!

[@tamikalachelle]

Oh my goodness. I have never received an authentic restoration apology 🤦🏽‍♀️. Thank you so much! 🙏🏾

[@chermagnewright5517]

On time message 1🙏😇🙏🙌😁 Praise God Holy Name Amen Thank😅 you Brother in Christ bringing this changing word via God. Help us Dear Lord too continue to learn and grow with in the Lord In Jesus name I pray Amen ❣️🎉

[@sheliaharrison200]

CURIOUS!!

[@JHeartofGold]

I’m curious as well to hear not just speak! Amen

[@BabyRuth1]

Shalom 👋🏼

[@mdavis1able]

I’m here for the first time!

[@vinnieedwards9699]

Curiosity ❤

[@loveisfree247]

I'm ready and been ready for this. 🙏🏽

[@Queeneve78]

First time here 🙏🏾

[@jessiedotson8101]

thank you for this, I'm guilty of a lot of these types of apologies. And guilty of accepting them as well! I HAVE WORK TO DO!!

[@latinamitchell5663]

I'm here for the first time ❤

[@justee33]

This is so needed in this season….We all need this!

[@brianna32185]

Thank you🥹

[@LLCoolBeans86]

I'm a first timer 🙋🏿‍♀️

[@VanessaTheGlammer]

Loved this whole session. It is definitely an eye opener for myself on how to give others an apology. Also, how to verify if an apology is sincere from the other person. Love Therapy Thursdays🙌🏾

[@TheLittlePrayerCafe]

This is GOOD!!!

[@SierraRichards-gq8vg]

This is great knowledge,and teaching!

[@jamiemarshall2695]

This is my first time listening

[@newenglandtoffee9190]

I'M READY🙏🏽

[@QueenRoe504]

Replay here💯

[@walterwilliamsjr5163]

First timer

[@bethanyevekelly7182]

That’s not an apology! So excited for this word! PTL

[@mzfitness5578]

Change behavior 🙏