"Men Who Won't Date Trans Women Are INSECURE!"

[@marcusdib]

Should I make a video about "chasers"?

[@pibawww]

yess

[@misakistalker]

and the transphobes

[@eternallusion]

Yes!🙌

[@LeotheRoomba]

hecc yeah

[@turdferguson9356]

yes, so you can highlight that they have plenty of people who want to fuck them and this weird incel talk coming from them needs to stop

[@bmcagent]

Funny how they insist everyone accept their sexuality and preferences, but don't afford that same courtesy to straight people.

[@krisleppy]

Their giving us homoSEXuals the same grapey bullshit as well. Some of us have orientations, not preferences and that arnt negationable. Let the blokes in frocks cry all they want about it. Lol

[@rikafurude9102]

theyre doing it to lesbians (and from what i've seen, gay men too) as well

[@tandysaysyoucandoanything6758]

@@krisleppy since the tiktok cult started, I’ve literally did just what you said and never been happier. They will stress themselves out until they off themselves. They want lesbians and children to sleep with men and be ok with it. They’ll always cry about people who even slightly disagree so I just leave them alone. When the next republican president comes in, they’ll be surprised how fast their bullshite stops. It just sucks for the LGB and transexuals like our Marcus, Blair white, and transpa Buck who just want to live their lives.

[@baconsarny-geddon8298]

It's not about straightness- They try to bully/guilt/manipulate lesbians into sex, maybe even worse than with straight people. And gay men aren't excused, either. It's about the authoritarianism and intolerance of "gender" ideology, which says that anyone NOT "trans" doesn't deserve basic rights like consent, bodily automony, privacy, single-SEX spaces, right to free speech and freedom of thought. Becuase their idea of so-called """trans rights""" (which are actually special PRIVILEDGES for a select group, not rights that apply to EVERYONE) requires violating the existing rights of everyone else (straight AND gay/lesbian... even other trans people, if they don't go along with the demands of the cult...) For eg. You can only have the """right""" to be universally treated as the opposite sex, if EVERYONE ELSE loses their basic bodily autonomy, and their right to say "Nope. Sorry I'm only into biological women/men".... You can only have the """right""" to enter any space for the sex you "identify as", if EVERYONE ELSE loses their right to same-sex spaces, fair sports, womens prisons without men, etc... You can only have the """right""" to only ever be addressed by your """preferred""" pronouns, if EVERYONE ELSE loses their right to free speech, freedom of thought, and the right to acknowledge simple, evidence-based reality. This is just one of many examples, where so-called """trans rights""" requires everyone else to LOSE their existing, basic rights, in order to grant anyone who self-ID's as "trans" (who ALREADY have the exact same rights as the rest of us) special priviledges, which nobody else has EVER had...

[@Ilivedbruh]

​@@rikafurude9102 They've been doing it to lesbians for years now, even before it became an epidemic. There's even a joke "I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body" and harassing lesbians. But now lesbians get called transphobic when they say they're uncomfortable and unsafe.

[@songs4polarbear]

If they’re so proud to be trans, why hide it? Bc you already know the answer.

[@gottistmiregal9587]

they are hiding from.. themselfs? please give me the answer?! :'c

[@SarahDelSasso]

Same reason they insist they are real women. They cannot accept themselves for who they are.

[@Ilivedbruh]

​@@gottistmiregal9587 They're hiding it for potential partners they know they might not have consented to it otherwise - aka, they're insecure in who they are so they don't want to look for a partner that would be into it.

[@Yoshimitsu293]

@@gottistmiregal9587 in addition to the other comment: It probably has something to do with Denial as well

[@OsakaJoe01]

@@SarahDelSasso And this is why they despise real women. You hate that which you could never be.

[@truthmerchant1]

Nothing screams 'red flag' like trying to shame someone into dating you.

[@rbarnes4076]

I think the subject of the video's red flags have red flags. There is so much wrong with the entire line of reasoning. Some trans aren't computing one important detail: many men date looking for future wives to HAVE KIDS. A trans woman (i.e. a biological man) will never be able to do that due to ( wait for it) : BIOLOGY. I realize common sense isn't common.. but this is just basic biology 101.. I'm fairly sure all kids at least had high school science class where this would be taught..

[@deedash9675]

It’s predatory

[@martinpalm5]

@@deedash9675 trancels.

[@rogersepeda]

Idk why they don’t date other trans , like a trans man dating a trans woman.

[@chefnyc]

Honestly it’s not any different than married men pretending like single while tricking chicks. So it shouldn’t be a crime. But is it shameless? Definitely it is.

[@DarkBrown-gn9bs]

I like my women to come from the womb, not the operating table...period.

[@TonyMontanaDS]

That dude just admitted to rape by deception. He should be in jail. At least in Canada that is a crime.

[@DutchIsraeli]

I have a very hard time believing a man wouldn't be able to tell the difference between a real kitty and a fake one.

[@Bonsqueesquee]

Some guys are programmed by hole is goal

[@gottistmiregal9587]

great. now i kinda wanna know -.-

[@vanessa.jasmine]

I think in the middle of the act, they'll notice a difference, but they are not going to automatically jump to the conclusion that they're trans. They'll probably just chalk it up to women being built differently.

[@Robisquick]

Oh it’s completely obvious. I’ve seen them online. Not too be mean, but medicine and surgery are not anywhere close to making passable parts. Other than removing breasts and building up a muscular frame for trans men, there is still 150 years before these trans peoples arguments start to make more sense. Once passable is normal, then this whol conversation gets interesting.. but for now it’s a game of propoganda to insulate the feelings of a minority group who feel something that isn’t currently scientifically or objectively backed and the only way to protect these feelings is to villainize the majority and shelter their side

[@TarynRMartin]

It seems like it would be made fairly obvious by the fact that fakes don’t self-lubricate.

[@Revert2017]

These people are completely disconnected from themselves. It is always about blaming someone else.

[@joshuarock4631]

remember kids dont let the few tiktok represent all of us, i dont blame all Christians for my mothers death just the few radical ones at my ex church

[@jibberism9910]

@@joshuarock4631 remember kids, I'm not Christian. Keep evading, see where it will get you.

[@joshuarock4631]

@@jibberism9910 your def doing their bidding

[@jibberism9910]

@@joshuarock4631 Absolutely not, that is your warped world view.

[@MellonVegan]

That's just modern society in a nutshell.

[@gfighter897]

So it’s insecurity now……not unpacking the fact that some people will sit there and chase straight men then drag them when they say no.

[@Cardinal_claw]

Circled right back into homophobia, now with the mix in heterophobia!

[@artemuliashkevych7892]

they know they’re the ones who insecure

[@Ayookd293]

We also get called insecure for not wanting to marry only fans prostitutes

[@anamosity_soso]

That is the exact opposite, when guys do that with women. Not okay to force a person to have sex. Disgusting.

[@mikewestwood]

As Marcus said: Those activists are representatives of conversion therapy. Let's kick them out of our LGBT community.

[@Punky_Brewski]

It doesn't matter why someone doesn't want to have sex with you. They DON"T WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU! End of conversation.

[@deedash9675]

Exactly, it’s crazy how ppl don’t call them out in their predatory way of thinking

[@benoitdesormeaux2752]

There you go finally someone who gets it.

[@DiabolicalAngel]

It's literally this simple.

[@MrsEmmKay]

Rape by deception is a crime here in the UK. It's horrendous behaviour.

[@Danny_Deleto]

They're really trying to say that sexuality is a choice. I thought we were done with this.

[@naomivought9317]

Fr. Hasn’t the argument always been the opposite? Right there, is showing me that the T does not belong with the LGB.

[@resurrectionevil6581]

@@naomivought9317 they really don't. the T has been stepping on the LGB and straights toes for a while now and I'm honestly shocked there isn't more of a vocal confrontation over this. they've literally invaded every single space and made it about themselves.

[@arkbien9303]

​@@resurrectionevil6581 Even asexuals aren't safe. You tell them you aren't sexually attracted to anyone and they will still call you transphobic. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@joshuarock4631]

whose they? the few narcissistic tik tokkers? cause yea i think some fake illnesses too, fk this youtuber bull dke

[@insanecheapo195]

​@@resurrectionevil6581 cuz of identity politics I guess, youre either 100 percent on one side or the other

[@203azzopardi9]

Why would a trans woman want to sleep with someone who doesn't accept that they're trans? Or someone who would say no if they told the truth? 🤔 This goes for everyone, you shouldn't have to lie about who you are to feel loved, find someone who actually will love you for who you are!

[@joen4642]

They are just using all the tricks they can think of to coerce or deceive in order to get sex and validation...

[@gottistmiregal9587]

YES !

[@MarieCurtis92]

They do it because they're scummy MEN, who only care about getting off. They don't care about the other person at all.

[@joen4642]

They want a straight man because it validates their gender feelings.. a gay guy cannot. To me it looks like homophobia..

[@reneep.1978]

Good old-fashioned narcissism and they see it as a "validation" of their "womanhood",

[@mr.mediocregamer9653]

How come Trans women never seem to date trans men?

[@RKingis]

Fr

[@greenaum]

They have so little genital function between them, that there wouldn't be any point. Unless they're both pre-op, which would be so hilarious to see someone should make a porno comedy about it.

[@magdalenahrg]

I actualy remember seeing video about trans female and male who are married and have kids, but other than that I realy didn't heard about other cases where there is trans couple

[@cookncrook6902]

Because trans men don’t have functional man parts downstairs. Which most trans women desire

[@astralclub5964]

Because they want “real men”!

[@firedupplayers]

We're not insecure. We like REAL WOMEN. NOT MEN PRETENDING TO BE WOMEN.

[@JeremiahHartmanPhotography]

So there was a trans person in my old apartment complex that had a fetish with picking up straight guys and "turning them out", we talked often and she was a nice person....unfortunately she was murdered one night because she did this to the wrong guy. I tried telling her multiple times this was wrong and it would backfire in ways she's not thinking of (it already had several time...ranging from guys running out of her apt to beating her up). This is just wrong...and what is this obsession with people trying to FORCE others to date them? If someones not attracted to you...they arent attracted, YOU CANT FORCE IT.

[@deedash9675]

I don’t condone murder however she had it coming, tricking straight men into sex and getting off on it is predatory. Many of them were victims of sexual abuse so they end up doing to others with no regard, it’s a sad cycle

[@christopherjones8448]

Sorry for your, friend? It seems like an ego thing, deep down these people know certain traits make them less desirable for whatever reason so it feels empowering to be able to pull the mask off and say, "Look, I was *Insert undesirable thing here* all along!" Seems like no amount of reason can ever change their minds either.

[@JeremiahHartmanPhotography]

@@christopherjones8448 I totally agree...i think it's ego and a power issue. Like "can i make them like me" or "can i make them sleep with me" definitely dysfunctional.

[@TheodoreCross-d7b]

"IT" wasn't a she, or her, it wasa man, period. Got what he deserved, just not soon enough.

[@Limaj-kv8qu]

I’m not gonna lie that’s funny

[@JinxMarie1985]

Okay as a woman that is a lesbian, if i found a someone that is an attractive looking woman, id be looking at her like damn shes hot lol but if i found out it was a trans person then thats a big N O for me. Period.

[@lindaandersson5257]

Agree..I think Blair is hot but she has never had her penis removed.

[@greenaum]

Fancy a lesbian who doesn't want dick. You should work on un-learning to be a lesbian. Apparently. So some transvestite can get his dick in a lesbian, but it's not a fetish though, _noooo!_

[@davidsilvercreek8541]

As a double member of the LGBT community, I am a Trans-Lesbian traped in a man's body, my pronouns are sniffy and licky but not on no dicky... Yet my wife has not noticed a difference... You and me would get along fine...

[@tekeguy68]

Nope. You have to learn to love the D. Straight, gay, lesbian---in the future everyone has to be willing to take a D no matter who it's attached to or you are insecure.

[@user-tn8ci6wg5k]

Bigot! lol /end sarc/

[@FretNoMore]

Never has the expression "you're just not my type" been more true.

[@S_H9260]

I don't know what happened that we have gone from "no means no" and the idea of respecting people's choices, to now Not being attracted to someone or not wanting to sleep with someone *for any reason* is something to be shamed for. Crazy times we're living in.

[@EuroMIX2]

"No means no" flew out the window once it became massively inconvenient for a minority.

[@Enki1013]

The big ego and sense of entitlement continues. If a girl was not interested in a guy, he would say she must be lesbian. And so forth. I've seen a long laundry list of weird accusations of someone was not interested. This is just another one to add on for entitled egoists who cannot fathom why others would not be interested in them.

[@deedash9675]

@@Enki1013 no means no don’t apply when it’s a trans person, sad how we justify predatory behavior when it isn’t a straight male

[@brandocalrissian3294]

​@@deedash9675society says "straight males are the problem" so treat them how you please

[@RadicalValkyrie]

It's no different to when someone you were physically attracted to turned out to have a horrible personality, it changes your view of them. It's completely normal for a person to become suddenly unattractive when the reality is revealed.

[@chefnyc]

Or when they were 30 pounds fatter than their online dating profile photo 😏

[@TinyStar-oz3bo]

Yeah, it could even be something like they have kids or they live too far away or their mom is too involved - anything.

[@danamania150]

Imagine a man who is shy and just wants a wife and kids getting close to a trans woman who lies about it. That man is scarred for life…

[@blueiris1542]

I don't understand this at all! It's not insecurity if a straight man doesn't want to date a trans woman. Biology is REAL, and matters for most ppl(especially straight people).

[@Robisquick]

The problem is that these activists are arguing from the perspective of 150 years from now when surgery and medicine will be refined enough to make trans people completely passable. Because these activists have a juvenile understanding of what it means to become a woman especially in the eyes of the majority, and because they hang out with people who gas them up to think that they have reached the goal of appearing like a woman, and think that anyone who says they aren’t is some alt-right hate-monger, they argue from a place way ahead of their time. But in the future if men can indistinguishably blend in with women, then for all intents as purposes, a completely straight man can engage in straight sex with a transwoman. The only people that could disprove this would have to be a biologist in a lab. Which is so far removed from how humans experientially determine the straightness or gayness of a sexual encounter, that the functional definition is more applicable than the forensic definition. Because the experience wouldn’t be any different physically. Perhaps there can even be uterus transplants too and then it’s the entire package. But that’s not what’s currently going on, because 99% of trans women and like 85% of trans men are clearly not presenting truly passable. Almost everyone can point out a transwoman without even trying.

[@reneep.1978]

The trans person is projecting their insecurity onto others.

[@naomivought9317]

Yeah I don’t think these people use much of their brains. I’m attracted to an actual male, born as a male, always been a male. with a real natural 🍆 and ability to have children with. Even if you don’t want kids with them, still valid.

[@OsakaJoe01]

@@reneep.1978 Yep...

[@joshuarock4631]

im trans who date trans gay men i agree 100% and cant stand closet cases chasing me! annoying AF , lets all be accepting and move on soo that no one has to be a closet case anymore and hide or pretend they "didnt know" lol

[@ChimeraArchive]

Finding out your partner is Trans after sex would kinda feel like getting a text after a one night stand to go to a clinic and get tested. If you knew me having the full picture would be a deal breaker but hid that info, of course I'd be pissed.

[@OsakaJoe01]

Right?

[@insanecheapo195]

Yeah cant tell which one is more soul crushing

[@larrychaney2518]

me too

[@willowoak68]

If I were a straight man thinking I was having sex with a real woman only to later find out that she's actually trans, I would feel violated. This is akin to SA in my opinion. Edit: Grammar

[@DMSProduktions]

It IS sexual assault! It's a form of coercion!

[@chrispickett3092]

No, we're not insecure. We're just not gay. Nuff Said

[@karimah8687]

They forgot honesty is important in a relationship….

[@issigonis975]

Bang on if it is not an issue why hide the fact.

[@StevieChilds]

Consent is the difference between sex and rape. In my opinion, if a person withholds or lies about anything to gain a person's consent - when they know the person wouldn't consent if they had all the facts- it's tantamount to date rape. Lying or withholding relevant facts to gain consent is despicable, might as well just skip consent and force a person. It absolutely should be illegal. If someone lies about having a transmissible disease and infects someone through sex it's illegal. True consent implies that a person has all the relevant facts in order to know what they're consenting to.

[@greenaum]

It IS illegal, and people have been prosecuted. Rape by deception. It would be good if, if anyone's been a victim of this, they would go to police and insist on a prosecution. I can see it would be difficult, because police are bone-idle and don't want to make waves, but this message needs sending out. It's absolutely wrong to lie to someone about something that affects their decision to have sex with you or not, and that includes lies of omission.

[@darksavior1187]

Not just your opinion, but the very definitions of informed consent, and rape by deception.

[@PepitoBadHat]

Theyre calling it a 'parts preference' that's fucking wild

[@TheBaumcm]

Yeah, I have a preference for height and intelligence but the body part is nonnegotiable.

[@OsakaJoe01]

"Parts preference." 🥹 Oh the reach... yes that thing that has kept the human race going on for millions of years is a "parts preference..." 😂

[@nthgth]

It's like "birthing person" or "minor-attracted person"

[@greenaum]

I know. Massively sexist and completely disrespecting the existence of homosexuality. People don't prefer "parts". This idea that he's a woman, because he says he is, and his genitals are just a footnote... that's disgusting. As well as ridiculously childish, manipulative, and dishonest. Why the hell is anyone listening to these evil, crazy people!?

[@EuroMIX2]

It's frustration on their part that simply claiming to identify as a particular sex and potentially dressing up like that sex doesn't magically make those people you're interested in, interested in you. They're trying to "cheat" the system by shaming people into desiring them, and using the "oppressed minority is automatically right" rhetoric that's become popular in order to do it.

[@densalbeach1]

A dude pretending to be a woman is not a woman, it is a breach of trading standards law!

[@chefnyc]

Fraud

[@kristinrooney-erb501]

Informed consent means not only a “yes” but upfront about STI’s and trans status… etc.

[@lynn2574]

Them: ‘Trans women ARE women!’ Me: in the same way Koalas are bears……

[@Werewolf.with.Internet.Access]

Looks a lot like it, but no 😂

[@Bonsqueesquee]

Trans Women are real women but trans women are more real women than cis women.

[@Ilivedbruh]

Like if they just heard what they said... If they were women, they wouldn't BE TRANS in the first place. It doesn't make sense what they're saying they're so dumb 😭☠️

[@wintermoon7003]

@@Werewolf.with.Internet.Access I have not seem any trans woman that passes all the way. As pretty as Blaire White is, I can clock her as trans. Just look at the build alone, ignoring the obvious fake knockers. Maybe it's just easy for me to tell because I'm sick of men acting like they are women. Blaire gets a pass, as well as other REAL trans who are just wanting to be alone. I just don't like the activist type who are about as trans as I am, meaning, THEY AREN'T!

[@antoniovedivici6202]

The same way a hot dog is a dog 😏

[@lexloose2112]

I'm a white straight male and find watching yours and blaire whites channels, I enjoy them both and find it fascinating. you speak a lot of sense.

[@theusefulidiot4202]

You sound kinda sus bro

[@naomivought9317]

Yes. I’m happy to know there’s some non crazies still left on planet earth.

[@danabryant6138]

It's weird to want to have sex with people who don't want to have sex with YOU. Sex is so much better when ALL people involved actually want to be there. I just-

[@naomivought9317]

I’m pretty sure we have a definition for this already r*pe.

[@joshuarock4631]

100% dont let the few narcissistic tik tokkers represent us all! remeber tik tok is where people fake illnesses for views!

[@svetlanaandrasova6086]

This!!! If they are ok having sex with someone who is pushed into it, thats rapey!

[@danabryant6138]

@@svetlanaandrasova6086 📠

[@greenaum]

@@svetlanaandrasova6086 It's _actual_ rape. Consent is important, and misleading someone means they didn't consent to what actually happened. That's rape, and there's been prosecutions for it. Although getting it into court in this climate, who knows? Not in Canada, at any rate!

[@LenSwartz-x1v]

How do you expect others to accept who you are, when you clearly couldn't accept who you are???

[@crabfat1494]

It should be a legal requirement to admit to being trans before any thing happens.

[@growingoaks]

What that person said bout how she doesnt want to tell others shes trans, that's called "rape by deception" and is currently a crime in the usa

[@Ktakahashi18]

Again telling people you "should/have to" sleep with someone who is trans because you where initially attracted to them feels very *grappy*. And you definitely need to tell someone you are trans before sleeping with someone. Thats extremely dishonest at least and very *grappy* at most.

[@darksavior1187]

It is in fact a form of rape, rape by deception. Also, informed consent (something the Leftists used to care about) cannot be given when critical information is omitted.

[@203azzopardi9]

Sorry, who was drunk enough to think they weren't trans? 😬

[@OsakaJoe01]

🤣🤣🤣

[@megangambill2018]

I know right

[@mmadmic]

Maybe Crocodile Dundee ?

[@knrdvmmlbkkn]

"Sorry, who was (...) they weren't trans?" Just about anyone... I don't have to be drunk at all to think that I'm not trans.

[@alexamg6675]

Well that’s the issue if you are old enough to drink or been drunk sometimes beer goggles clouds your judgment

[@AlmanusS]

Now days you need to ask if they are real women or men. What has this world come to. Only in America

[@robertbowersock3471]

I never pick up women in bars anymore. Wouldn't want to end up in prison reacting to that mistake when I got sober in the morning.

[@Forever_Thatter]

As a gay man, I'd much rather be insecure than date anyone like those scarecrows. Btw the second scarecrow is for real, they're on Jubilee...

[@OsakaJoe01]

He never fooled anyone; the opposite is true. 🥹

[@blademaster7879]

Agreed, plus I can't stand the toxicity. I'd rather just stay single at this point. Unless, I can find a gay guy that's sane 🤣

[@nthgth]

As a straight man I 100% agree with you. We like what we like, and asking us out of our sexual comfort zones makes us uncomfortable (by definition) so we're completely right to say no to it, and it's that simple. And of course getting sex by deception is a huge "oh no-no."

[@martinpalm5]

yea I rather be called every name in the book and lose my job, than to be forced to have sex with someone I don't' want to.

[@Forever_Thatter]

@@blademaster7879 there's a few versions of "insane" that are doable. the FUN ones. but they're a rare breed. I had to wait 39 years to find one.

[@therickandbillieshow9803]

This is a genuine question. Why do trans people not want to date other trans people?

[@VentrexTheXVth]

Because the fantasy is to live normally.

[@therickandbillieshow9803]

@@VentrexTheXVth If they believe that being trans is exactly the same as being a woman or a man then that makes no sense. Other trans people should be no different than straight or gay people. But they aren't. Even for trans people. Says everything you need to know.

[@minionsarebae2434]

Many trans people are t4t actually. I'm a trans man but for me personally I couldn't be with another trans man caus I would be comparing myself to them and would give me severe dysphoria. Idk why I get dysphoric with other trans men but not cis men though but yeah.

[@dr-ozone]

They very often do actually

[@greenaum]

Because, ironically, they don't consider them real men / women. Though as the other poster said, they often do end up dating each other, because almost no non-trans people want to have sex with them. That's something they ought to warn these poor "trans" kids about, "almost nobody will want to date you". The middle-aged autogynephiles OTOH, let them find out they'll only be cooming with other middle-aged men in dresses.

[@1977Bonishow-man]

Its not about parts,if it has a coc*,its not a woman,no matter the way you look at it !

[@Anna-fw7lm]

Even if he doesn't have it. Women are not just he absence of a d*ck. We're not just a hormone level, a cup size, long hair and nails, make up and a st*pid high pitched voice. I'm understanding and respectful to people who have gender dysphoria and transition as a trauma response, it's like having an ED, they're still humans, they have rights... they also have responsibilities and accountability and if they do criminal acts, then they're criminals, if they want to f0rce themselves, thei vocabulary, their beliefs on other people they're 99.9% NOT dealing with the mental condition they claim to have... they have something else and just use being Trans as a shield to commit any sort of shenanigans And there's not better people to prove that you cannot change sex/gender than trans people: 'cause no matter how many changes they get (physical, hormonal, behavioral) they're still what they're born into... like everybody else. A white person cannot change race even if they get surgery and tan like crazy.

[@dukey19941]

And straight guys aren't attracted to that. Why is that so hard for them to understand. They can't have a preference but the trans can? It's like Trans women going on the lesbian dating sites.

[@Ilivedbruh]

​​@@dukey19941 Hell, I'm bisexual, but I'd actually prefer their real parts and not a wound etc. to make it look like the opposite. The thing is - there's many people who would date a trans person, but them lying about them being trans shows they ac hate being trans and delude themselves into being "the real" opposite sex. Oh also "trans women" have been going on lesbians sites for years now 😅 not even real trans, those men don't even make an effort to pass or even change their manly name lol.

[@naomivought9317]

Yep same with trans men too. No one is obligated to have s*x with you goddamn 😭 why are we having to go over the same shit again and again. I’ve gotten rejected plenty of times as a f’ing straight women. Sometimes you just ARENT THEIR TYPE. no matter what you identify as 😒

[@joshuarock4631]

i hope shes not a woman i love fem with coc lol

[@baronghede2365]

This person needs to be arrested, Blessed Be.

[@Scuba_Tim88]

Pretty sure this is that trans person projecting their own insecurities onto others because they feel like maybe they made the wrong choice

[@brandih8972]

I'm bisexual, so I could be into a man, a woman, or a trans. But I personally wouldn't be comfortable with surgically-created genatalia.

[@BernsrdKnoll]

Amen.

[@Mikinaak2023]

Then your not really poly. Just bi.

[@moviekidd222]

​@@Mikinaak2023did they say anything anything else? lol

[@reneep.1978]

@@Mikinaak2023 OP didn't claim to be poly

[@naomivought9317]

@@Mikinaak2023lmao. Read.

[@thelonesouloak1600]

Not disclosing your true gender identity during coitus or intercourse with another individual is equivalent to stealthing without a condom. It is wrong and abuse and needs to be labeled such

[@OsakaJoe01]

🍇 by any other name...

[@joshuarock4631]

they know lol done believe the lying closet cases lol

[@comentaristametaforico9287]

"You are just choosing not to pursue it because of your parts preferences." And? That is literally a-OK!

[@greenaum]

As others have said, it's not "parts", it's a preference for a particular sex. And sex isn't something someone can change. You're attracted to, say, men, because you like what men are like, in general. A woman with a dong, even if she could grow a real one, would not be the same thing. These trans campaigners think people are nothing but genitals. That that's the only difference between people, that you can get yourself an ersatz genital, or else not bother, and be the opposite sex because you say so. They're the ones with genital preferences. And ironically, mangled genitals. It's astonishing, the amount of complete shit they can make up. There's a whole mountain of it! A mountain of complete nonsense and lies, that TRAs have decided are more important than reality, and that by changing the meaning of the words they use, they can change reality. Reality doesn't work like that. It's only compulsive liars who create fantasy worlds through misusing words, and denial.

[@babayaga2977]

Ummmmm YEAH!!!! THAT'S THE FREAKING POINT!!!!!

[@pezlover1974]

Some of these trans women are so unhinged that they will start suing men for not wanting to pair up with them.

[@wigglygiggly776]

Why do they expect everyone to think they're attractive and want to sleep with them? Not everyone is just looking for s.ex. Some people have their own beliefs of desires and their allowed to have them. I'm a straight born female and I prefer straight born male. That's my preference and I'm allowed to have it.

[@deedash9675]

It’s entitled and a predatory mindset, they see straight ppl are trophies

[@PaintingPowers]

Imagine a 13 year old wanting to have sex with a legal adult and not telling them they’re underage. Also the dude doesn’t know they’re underage. A normal man would not have consented to having sex with an underage girl. It would still be statutory r*pe even if he didn’t know and she consented.

[@priscillajimenez27]

Yeah I honestly have sympathy with that since youth do look grown for their age nowadays. Girl can be 15 and lie and say she's 19. All the more reason to not hookup and date the old fashion way

[@brandih8972]

​@@priscillajimenez27I worked with an 18 year old who was hit on by a girl. He asked her how old she was, and she said 19. He asked for ID, which she didn't have since she was 15. Point being, if a man that young had the wisdom to ask, there is no man who has an excuse.

[@katharine2435]

I knew a man that slept with a 14 yo bc he thought she was 18. She lied on a dating website. He's on the Registry for life now and went to jail for 2 years.

[@priscillajimenez27]

@@brandih8972 don't forget the fake ID for bars

[@intermezzono1]

​@@brandih8972so is the answer to always ask for ID when dating now, in real life and online?

[@moon83star30]

If they keep doing that, they are going to come across the wrong guy who might get really physically violent when they discover the truth.

[@OsakaJoe01]

And then the activists will use them as poster dudes. 🙄

[@greenaum]

@@OsakaJoe01 Right! Poor trans woman, accidentally met up with a white-supremacist Nazi who stalked and murdered her for no other reason than ignorant hate.

[@jennastewart7290]

These people are their own self-fulfilling prophecies. 🤦‍♀️

[@Deadclown45acp]

Right? Then the guy will be labeled as some phobe because some jerk deceived him

[@justaninksearcher]

Saying that men no longer wanting to have sex now knowing that she's actually trans is insecure, is just like saying a groomed kid is insecure for no longer wanting to be friends with the adult after seeing now that it's a groomer and not another kid

[@TetsuYama-t4b]

I reserve the right to change my mind as I get to know the person.

[@MrBadGamer519]

WOW! Somebody with a lot of common sense! FINALLY!

[@The2ndFirst]

Guess what? If I find out that someone has lied to me I can lose attraction for them. If my buddy dated a trans woman yes, I would give them sh*t. That said I give him sh*t about everything.

[@machector892]

You’re a true friend.

[@angelacurry5793]

True, guys do give each other shit over everything!

[@MichaelDG2023]

Marcus is getting hotter and hotter.

[@ba3725]

Damn, they are

[@Vincychs]

Chill, he has a bf 😭

[@OsakaJoe01]

Yeah he is... 😏

[@kevino4372]

Find someone unexpected on bumble..... definitely unexpected 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@AsaTrenchard1865]

A word of advice: spring your little surprise WAY up front. No sane person would willingly invite the unwell into their space. Expect things to go completely sideways when Johnny plans on parking his prized street rod in tuna town, only to find out the actual plan is to have him park it at the manure factory. You like tx's so much, you date them.

[@dianrongyu1326]

Starting a relationship on a lie seems like a bad start..

[@Denise_2262]

These people are so desperate and in a lot of ways it is sad. I mean let's try every way possible to manipulate, push, shame, degrade, bully people into having sex. It is pathetic

[@tekeguy68]

It's all part of the plan to forcibly mold society around the egos and entitlement of a small group of people. Pretend the flaw lies in EVERYONE else instead of themselves.

[@miche6563]

Im a straight woman, i can be at the shops, see a woman and recognise shes attractive without have a sexual attraction. And attraction can disappear. Very easily. I once lost all attraction for a man simply because he didnt wash his hands after going to the toilet.

[@cradica]

I'm aromantic (as possibly asexual). I had a hard time telling the difference between feeling sexually attracted to someone and thinking someone looks attractive.

[@Nyarlathotep63]

We've all seen oranges in a fruit basket that turned out to be plastic, so is this guy suggesting we should've eaten them anyway, because we like oranges? What a clown.

[@Marco_87]

That’s the kind of videos we need.

[@ferndoggiedogg181]

What annoys me most about individuals like this is they don’t understand that preferences exist and it’s normal to have them they are hypocrites about it yet won’t admit it that they want these really attractive guys who 9 out of 10 of them probably wouldn’t find them attractive it’s the same as those annoying guys who look attractive, but have horrible personalities complaining why they can’t get anyone to date them

[@Kanonfangirl]

It’s main character syndrome. They know damn well they want the best of the best while getting upset at everyone else for wanting the best of the best. it’s predatory and manipulative. It very much reminds me of those fat women that exclusively go after attractive guys but get mad, start talking shit and guilting people when those guys want a thin woman. How dare we not find the main character attractive! We are such horrible people for not finding someone someone fuckable smh. Predators going to predator I guess. My favorite is when these types of people try to convince us that they are attractive but we don’t see it but because we are horrible people. Maybe they’re not as attractive as they think they are. Being annoying doesn’t help either. Nobody wants to be with a bitter manipulator.

[@PurpleMonadoBlaze]

I’m a woman who wouldn’t date a trans person. Does that make me an insecure coward?

[@mikaneko]

NOpe, but it would make the trans person an insecure coward for not being up front with you about it.

[@greenaum]

You and everybody else in the world.

[@mikaneko]

@@greenaum Ah, I found the insecure bigot who can't handle being rejected I see.

[@greenaum]

@@mikaneko Yeah I was replying to OP, did you get that? Because if you thought I was replying to you directly, that would give the message the opposite intended meaning. It was intended to be a quick throwaway joke / sarky insult. That is, most people wouldn't date a transgender person.

[@mikaneko]

@@greenaum I'm well aware you weren't responding to me, based on the fact that you weren't responding to ME, since my name wasn't in your comment. Transgender people, like most people, are not OWED relationships, which appears to be what the people in those videos believe with the amount of crying about how 'no one will date them' are doing.

[@retrozip]

They can't get with their own, and now they want people who aren't into them

[@Giants4641]

That's like going to buy a truck but they keep telling you the car is a truck. But when you get home you try to fill the truck up to go to the dump n realize the truck of the car is NOT the bed of a truck. Same shit. Get your warped minds together people.

[@katyavinogradova7688]

From all the horror stories that I've heard about bottom surgery, there's no way that a fake kitty looks and feels like a real one. So, this delusional person is flat-out lying.

[@QueSeraSeraaaa]

"ThEy ArE iNsEcUrE!" Say the insecure.

[@yellowsoy2475]

You can be attracted to someone based on how they applied their make up doesn't mean you are attracted to the original face once it comes off. An initial interest does not mean anything

[@gordonfreeman3072]

Insecure is the new word for "not my type" LOLOL

[@ryanlewandowsky2077]

Lid for every pot. Ironic that I think the Aussie couple of Steve Irwin and his wife best embodied this sentiment. I mean wild enough that he loved dangerous animals but she was right there with him! ❤

[@Blackdog222]

This is an absurd position to take and should be wholly rejected. Everyone should be free to determine sexual partners based on their own personal parameters. If the transsexual gets to choose their partner than so should straight men.

[@darthtaiter]

I would exchange the word "insecure" for self-aware.

[@alphabong-w3h]

'Parts preference'? That idea presumes that everyone is as shallow as the person saying it.

[@AuthorNicoleEglinger]

Not telling someone should definitely be a crime. This person slept with people and didn't tell someone the truth about being an XY when the man was attracted to an XX. I'm sorry that is the R word!! 😳😳😳🤬🤬🤬🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[@hobknobbobbityjob2414]

You cannot force attraction, let alone guilt someone into it.

[@BullseyeBenR]

The hypocrisy and double standard is so prevalent it’s mind boggling

[@davagevorriose8046]

What happened to sense of entitlement to sex is rape culture? These are predators.

[@AmericanAmy]

I will never shame anyone for Dating anyone if they are both consenting adults. It would not be any of my business.

[@rebel4466]

Men give each other shit for everything. Doesn't even have to be honest criticism. If there's something your buddy might be a tiny bit insecure about, it will be exploited

[@jackvoss1527]

@@rebel4466 while I agree with her, this is also true. But it’s only your good friends that can get away with it. Makes no sense, but there it is.

[@ccurrie9672]

All debating aside this could lead to violence. It is not right to deceive a sexual partner.

[@joet7136]

Hypocrisy is their middle name.

[@msteen72]

I love everything about you. You articulate your thoughts and feelings in a very meaningful manner and say what should be said. Love from Canada 🇨🇦

[@mapsandstuff2923]

Gay woman here. When I'm attracted to a woman, it's a mind, body and soul thing... not a parts preference. We're just dealing with the rise in narcissism. Narcissists only understand love and attraction as something superficial about someone. You can spot them by the way they describe someone they're dating. They mention what the person does for job without prompting and talk about how the person makes them feel... they forget to actually describe the other person's personality.

[@johncolosimo1863]

THANK YOU! Finally someone else used the term, "heterophobic!" And before you go off on me, I'm not straight. Still believe heterophobia is a thing.

[@wendykinsey-o6x]

Most bio men want bio women. Some would prefer robots. Most do not crave a trans experience as connections are about many things, not just dating anyone who comes along. Many people want to know a person and understand what they have in common with them. Physical attraction matters but it is combined with her personality and character. If a good looking trans woman has male parts, that is not attractive to many straight guys. Not discrimination, just no more attraction. Do not worry about it. You make this choice so you will find the persons who genuinely want to date you. Character, personality, looks, and sexuality all matter to different degrees for people. Accept it. NO ONE gets to have every person they meet. How silly would that be?

[@MichaelMackenzie-sb4hx]

not telling someone should be a crime. now days people need to do a full background check on someone before dating them.

[@RobertGraham]

A guy can slide it between 2 pieces of veal and get the same effect. What I want to know is why if a guy doesn't want to date a trans woman he's a transphobe, yet at the same time if he does hes a chaser? Seems counter productive and a double standard.

[@JenniferMcMahonhawaii78]

Honesty is a lost art! I appreciate you Marcus for doing this.

[@tassiodrigues]

Sex is one of the most intimate act between two human beings. If you ever had sex with someone you didn't like that much, you know how crap you feel after, like a piece of garbage or something. Having sex with someone who hid they were trans might be even worse, the garbage feeling plus betrayal feeling... that sounds like a nightmare, honestly 😰

[@belmerrios5577]

They always finish their statements with period, the absolut truth, no debate, it is my word and everything else doesn't matter 🙄

[@jonthorton]

This story really hits home here in California there there's no law that says they have to disclose what their previous gender was a friend of mine married a lady that was not and killed himself a week later after getting married if he had known he could have made an informed decision however it was never given how much to face

[@denyshadials5702]

Men’s attraction is based on their perception. There is a study out there about how men respond to women, based on his preferences for makeup that was pretty interesting. If I’m recalling it correctly, men who were typically more attracted to women without makeup, still found women who wore makeup online to be attractive. However when they met that exact woman, with that exact makeup, they weren’t as attracted to her face to face as they were her photograph. Sound familiar? Once the bubble pops, it’s popped. The initial attraction means very little.

[@SarahKCrowe]

As a bisexual woman in the past I had the odd lesbian go AWOL on me when I was honest in saying I was bi, it's tough but its life and nothing you can do but move on and be your best self. Honesty always the right thing, Buck has talked about this when as his younger self he went into gay bars and was just honest and non pushy. Dishonesty and pushiness don't give good Karma vibes, ever.

[@rhiannancaraway]

What I'm hearing is "Good looking straight men don't want to date me and I demand that they date me!......please date me." It's pathetic actually.

[@johnbabylon7626]

It is pathetic. But it's also dangerous. Because it won't be long before it will be a punishable offense

[@francismarion6400]

It's psycho

[@deedash9675]

It’s predatory

[@danielnigel6920]

Imagine deception is wrong. In this case dangerous too

[@RT82162]

If, by "insecure", you mean normal, then yeah.

[@wteverisgud]

Not telling the men is actually a dangerous thing to do, people have been hurt and even more killed for doing that when the man snaps when he is told after. You should want someone who wants you for all that you are inside and out, not some poor man you lied to and deceived.

[@TheHangarHobbit]

What is narcissism for $400 Alex? She literally cannot stand the fact that there are some who simply would not find her attractive.