ARE YOU TOO GULLIBLE? | The Slumflower Hour podcast

[@Kayla-kd8ov]

Anytime I start overthinking and obsessing over a man, I gotta remind myself that many have dirty white socks, possible skid marks in their boxers, probably use a 3 in 1 to wash their hair face and body, and only lotion up the areas that are visible. It really puts things into perspective

[@sixtyblackmystictraveler]

I am sixty years old and you are talking about my life from my twenties to my fifties. In variations but dominated by the patriarchal programming that puts women on the path to being preyed on by trash men. Last year my sixtieth birthday put me in a revolutionary mode regarding relationships with men. You have been part of that revolution. Thank you. I am grateful for the cycles of celibacy I experienced that gave me space for a little more learning. I’ve been seeking what patriarchy told me I should pursue!! Marriage, being in a pretense monogamy relationship with a man. Whatever achievements I could pursue the highest would be said relationship with the man. Why wouldn’t a man want that for women??

[@Svga0006]

Don’t point at me like that😭😩😩

[@Lala-eo4eq]

🤣

[@kaysmellsgood]

😂😂😂

[@liiiiooo]

47:32 «Your self-esteem is so low that you view a man loving you back as a ‘thank you’ for you overextending yourself in his life when you could have receive that same love from him by not lifting a single finger. Because you shouldn’t have to lift a finger, you shouldn’t have to prove your use to a man. It should be the other way around: he’s the one who should be auditioning for a spot in your life» 😭❤ love this

[@jessycavalentine4866]

It is true ..but i have been bullied all my life for bri😮big ...it always feels like you have to audition to be in someone's life .....

[@whiterabbit2237]

Perfect timing to hear this. It really takes time and time of giving all the love to yourself to be in your power enough, so that you don’t feel like you owe anything to men calling you pretty or smart or nice. Even if you like them. Because the time you give to them is taking away from the time you could work on yourself. And before you realize you find yourself without a goal and your only goal becomes keeping this man in your life because he is now the only source of your worthiness. Why are we so pathetic sometimes 😅😅

[@KatieLeyden]

I have *checks calendar* 65 days until I am 25 and believe I am BINGING. I am SCRAMBLING i am SCRIBBLING and JOTTING. I will be STUDYING the Patreon I will be LISTENING and HOLLERING at the show in Novemberrrrr and 2 months from now I will arise anew Thank You Goddess Amen 🤭✨

[@tragimelody]

This whole video is GOLD ✨️ I can't get offended when you describe the mindset of a low-esteem woman / pick-me no matter how pathetic you make it sound because I've been there and I can tell you have been too... You're not being mean, you're telling a cautionary tale and I love you for that! I've been trying to get my best friend to shift her perspective because I can tell she is gullible and too accommodating in her relationship buuuuut I cannot do the work for her... I'm afraid she'll have to see her own 'first love' through before gaining the ability to see things pragmatically.

[@chustar2620]

When you we’re pointing at me I said to myself darnit Ive been gullible in my past 🥴💀 but Ive been working on it

[@pgam1892]

You said ‘what is this behaviour Pooja?’! 🤯🤯🤯 Girl, you talk nothing but facts, thank you.

[@candygirl1990]

Im not gullible that's why im single. 😅

[@JessicaBarreraGinGin]

As I listened to this video, I quite literally got text messages from a dude who claims to be into me and wants me to be his girlfriend but has decided to unfollow me on IG and blew me off last week when we were supposed to meet in person for the first time. What a world. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Muva123]

Got got at 22 going on 23, 5 yrs later… preggooo! Lolol

[@FlowerlyF.]

Perfect timing!! Are there books you‘d recommend on these types of behaviors from men?

[@SP-eg9hg]

aren't you a bit scared of being vulnerable? not saying this from a bad place

[@pulchritudinouscommunist]

0:50 its a cannon event

[@dominique_black]

f a cheeseburger bcuz it's got that grip grip im deeead

[@nikita6076]

❤❤

[@ChristinasJourney1]

Not me...

[@ChristinasJourney1]

But I'm still going to give you a view and listen because you say things that I have already thought.