Are Younger Filipinas Too Immature for their Older Partners?

Are Younger Filipinas Too Immature for their Older Partners? Street Interviews. Lorie asked a few Filipinas on the streets of Bicol, Philippines, if younger Filipinas are too immature for their older partners.
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[@TheFuentesFamily]

S U B S C R I B E L I K E C O M M E N T Hit That Bell---------->🔔❤

[@jamesvreeland2632]

I am an older American farang. Any perceived immaturity by young Filipino girls is refreshing and welcome. It is mostly because of their happy positive attitudes.

[@WhenTheManComesAround]

I've met 40 year old men & women that are incredibly immature & 23 year olds that are mature far beyond their age. For me it all depends on the person 👍

[@hillbillyintheasia6122]

true , meet 45 to 55 still partying and stuff they think their 21

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @WhenTheManComesAround ! That is very true. I’ve seen younger people here in the province of the Philippines who are mature and very responsible too.

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @hillbillyintheasia6122 ! Yes that’s right! There are really people who are 45 - 55 years old and think they’re young.

[@Electrichead64]

Depends on the girl. My wife was 28 when we met and to be honest that was at the low end of my age range and I was a little concerned but after getting to know her I realized she is the most mature, level headed girl i've been with in my entire life, regardless of age.

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @Electrichead64 ! Wow😍 That is very true, being immature or mature is regardless of age. You are very lucky that you met your wife. We are very happy for you. God bless you and her.

[@mickie2412]

My filipina wife and i have a 20 year age gap and she was 22 when we met. She had to take care of her family from a young age even if she is the youngest of 4 siblings and that shows on her maturity, she is atleast as mature as i am but like one of the girls said maturity is also combined with life experience. But she can space out when she is with her filipina friends and take a break from being an adult and being childish and i love that about her. We all need that mental pause once in a while 😊

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @mickie2412 ! We’re very happy for you❤️. There are really Filipinas like your wife especially in the provinces of the Philippines and definitely they’re responsible and kind too ! You are very lucky that you met your wife. God bless you and your family!

[@talktimewitheddiej]

Interesting interview, great answers 👍

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @talktimewitheddiej ! Thank you!

[@rona8663]

My Filipina is 21 and we have no problems with immaturity. We get along great in all ways.

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @rona8663 ! Awwww that’s good, we’re happy for you guys❤️.

[@bigtoolgarry]

And how old are you? What's the age gap. The age gap has a lot to do with it, or I should say, could have something to do with it.

[@b-41subject57]

​@@bigtoolgarrymy Filipina is 19 and im 43. We get along great. Just need time to get to know them mate.

[@cdmorrissy3692]

ALL younger women are too immature for older partners, if you're talking about "age gap" relationships, and when I "semi-retire" in Davao City 4/2024 (I'll be 66) I won't date a Filipina under 35 years old.

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @cdmorrissy3692 ! We’re happy for you! Filipina over 35 years old sounds matured and responsible.

[@NoComplience]

Smart

[@dbuck1964]

Very presumptuous of you to believe you know what’s true about other people and their relationships.

[@michaelwilbur4320]

I noticed all the ladies would answer in their native/ other language instead of English, I'm glad you translated their answers

[@coedshowers]

I agree my filipina does seem spoiled and immature when I am not there with her. When we are together its all fine but when she is with her family its like dealing with an immature brat. it makes it hard to move anything forward.

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Oh noooo , sorry to hear that @coedshowers !

[@patrickmullane30]

Yes😂 but it’s a test of love commitment and your own maturity - it’s worth it with the right woman. ❤

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @patrickmullane30 ! Wow! We definitely agree with you.

[@marshallsislandadventures798]

Age does not equal maturity. Age offers a chance and opportunity for maturity but maturity is a choice. That is why there are 50-year-old boys and 19-year-old men. The same can be said about Pinays. Even if she is immature she has a choice to become mature for both her and her partners sake.

[@sooliomargod]

Good Subject here. I want to thank you Fuentes Fam for a great channel. 👍. The first lady Maria. She seems so mature for not having experienced relationships yet. That is exactly the kind of girl i am always hoping to be with. She is blessed to have a good education and a good age to start her life from. 🙏. I'm thinking if Bicol is where I will first visit when I finally make it to the Philippines. So many great girls in your videos ❤😊

[@TheFuentesFamily]

You’re welcome @soolionmargod . Yes you have to visit Bicol when you come to the Philippines. Not just great girls but Bicol also is a beautiful place.

[@AlyssamaeIcamen-qt8kv]

Hi ate si Alyssa po ito,btw salamat Kasi naka sali kami sa video mo☺️ up lang support

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi Allysa! Salamat din ❤️

[@jasoncarnes9846]

The way young Filipina girls sporadically bust out laughing is super cute! They seem to have a very happy demeanor, regardless of their circumstances!

[@GoCamera-dm2xd]

Good questions, relax answers

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @GoCamera-dm2xd ! Thank you !

[@GoCamera-dm2xd]

@@TheFuentesFamily your welcome

[@chrisgoeswest9882]

I think people confuse being immature with not being jaded. Very different.

[@travels129]

Everyones different ones i knw in davao city very mature even wen in there 20s

[@bertstreet5299]

Well like most young women they are gorgeous but I couldn't see myself with someone under about 34 or so

[@JAG72270]

I am 53 and my filipina fiance is 24. She is very mature, well educated, English teacher.

[@ejtaylor73]

I don't think age is a defining factor in maturity level. Yes, younger people are generally seen as immature, but there are some that have had to grow up quick and VERY mature for their young age. There are older people that can be far more immature than a younger person. It just depends on the person and their background. I joined the military at 17, and was in a position dealing with nuclear weapons, I had to grow up FAST. It also depends on the foreigner, some are OK with a younger immature woman just so they can show off they have a young pretty girl on their arm. Other foreigners want a mature woman that knows how to be in a relationship, that already knows the dynamics of one, knows how to compromise, knows how to work together with her partner to achieve a common goal, etc., they want someone who knows how to be a mature partner, not someone they have to raise as a child. But always being serious, mature, and adulting adds more stress and is bad for your mental health. Sometimes you just need to pull your pants down and slide on the ice, be immature, act like a child, and just take a break from reality, forget about real life and just have some fun.

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @ejtaylor73 ! You are right. Age can’t define someone’s maturity level. We are very proud of you. Joining military at 17 and dealing with nuclear weapons is something that you won’t believe you can especially at that very young age.

[@iLAGnDC]

Younger Filipinas maybe immature but that is just part of the charm. Guys find it cute and part of its appeal is that men want to protect that innocence. That being said, Filipinas know what they want, they know what being feminine is and know the traditional boundaries set on them while in a relationship which already shows more maturity then most women in the west. That is all guys really want/care about so for older partners, I would think they appreciate and respect them to the point they will overlook any other immaturities.

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Thank you for sharing that 😊

[@paulcanfield4157]

I really like that comment about how a man should be more mature in order to lead, she was completely accurate,

[@Anthony_in_Bloomington_Indiana]

Tuesday, July 18, 2023 ☁⛅☁ Thank you for your video, Lorie! 😀 A couple could have the opposite situation. An older man could be too immature for a younger, Filipina woman. 🙋 I think the key thing is if both the man 👨‍🌾 and the woman 🧑‍🌾are willing to work together and make compromises. So they are both happy together. 👫 Every man and woman has his or her issues. No one is perfect. 🧑‍🏫👨‍🏫

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @AppleSouffle ! You’re welcome! Yes we definitely agree with you that there are couples with the opposite situation. The older man could be immature while the younger one could be the matured partner. Also, you are right that no one is perfect, well said AppleSouffle !

[@kuzinit2374]

I think maybe a little immature but also mature beyond there age because of hard life they see as normal

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @kuzinit2374 ! We definitely agree with you. Especially Filipinas from the province. They tend to be more matured at the young age.

[@user-kg9eh2sq5l]

If Maria is not married I would love to meet her and make her a happy wife

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @user-kg9eh2sq5l ! Wow! Make her a happy wife? That sounds sweet but one of our subscribers got her Facebook already.

[@user-up6ug2ek2q]

I married a Dominican girl and she is 10 years 4 months younger than me. We got married when I was 53 and she was 43 but she is well educated and lives by her self and has experience in life. Age is a criteria and maturity, integrity, respect, responsibility, and be of the same religion. There is exceptions to the rule but for me I would never marry a 20 year old..

[@travellolo]

I don't think the old men are looking for "maturity ".

[@badspasm1]

Being immature can be at any age!! I’ve met people in there 50’s I thought that were that way!! How one handles themselves prob starts in the very early years of ones life. If you have good mature role models then it’s a good chance that those quality traits will be instilled in the child early on. Just my two bits on the subject

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @badspasm1 ! That’s very true!

[@user-zy1oh8jk7j]

Maturity does not directly correlate to age. But, from interacting with over a thousand Filipina between 16 and 60, I find that those under 23 are extremely influenced by toxic western feminism. Unfortunately, the country that requires women over 23 to take a class/seminar before traveling to a foreign country to start a job also allows children, even under 10 to use Tiktok, Facebook, Instagram, and other social media sites known to be frequented by pedofiles and sex traffickers.

[@Hoochie243]

Immature is not the right Word...I think filipina in the province does not have much life experience sometimes and they get attracted to a Expat who is also not experienced in life. You must understand that some expats look for a filipina because they have not as high standards as American women..the older man maybe had failed marriage or a widow so they have little dating experiences.

[@douglasscharbrough3603]

All of you are beautiful

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Thank you.

[@bluesart7]

Maria took a lot of wrangling to keep her in the shot Lorie, bouncing all over😂🤣👍

[@TheFuentesFamily]

😆😆🤭

[@bernardotanguilig-pf3hh]

Ako ages doesn't matter bsta nagmamahal kayo okay go go dahil in practical hirap Buhay sa pinas db so we don't say that's immature okay for having and olders mate

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @bernardotanguilig-pf3hh ! Yes! Age doesn’t really matter. There are younger people that are actually matured than their older partners.

[@bernardotanguilig-pf3hh]

As nowadays you're very correct ma'am and tis really truth what you say ,younger ages it's more matured than the older ages

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Yeah, not all but there are really young people who are matured already.

[@stanleyboothe4893]

In short , yes. It's sickening to see Grandpa (60+) with 18-29 year old poor province girl.

[@mikhailbulgakov1472]

Interesting. You could also do a video on communication between foreigners and their Filipina girlfriend. The Filipinas that you interview seem to understand English but they mostly respond in another language. How does it affect their relationship with a foreigner? Do they pick up English quickly? Does it lead to a lot of misunderstanding?

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @mikhailbulgakov1472 ! Yeah they could understand English but they’re very shy to speak it, they choose to answer the questions in Tagalog because that’s where they are comfortable and could express themselves.

[@travellolo]

As an American married to a Filipina, yes, there is a language barrier. What we and they consider fluent are very different. Culture is also a big obstacle. Having to "pay off" family members is trying.

[@davinciavilo5731]

Hi Kamustaka. I plan to visit the Philippines in December/January. If the first girl (Maria) or 3rd girl (Claire) is still single, I would like to meet her if she is interested in an age gap relationship. Salamat

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @davinciavilo5731 ! Wow. Hoping that you’ll enjoy your visit here in the Philippines. Sorry but no idea whether Maria and Claire are still single.

[@davinciavilo5731]

Ok very good. Thank You for replying. I enjoy the KZbin post from you and your husband. Keep up the good work. I look forward to traveling to the Philippines soon. God bless.

[@TheFuentesFamily]

You’re welcome @davinciavilo5731 . We’re very happy that you enjoy our videos☺️. We really hope you’ll have a nice time here in the Philippines. Godbless you too !

[@jimwooldridge1721]

Seems like the question may be asked to a few older girls also. I see in my family that it also depends on the family status. Possibly if bunso, little more spoiled and immature. Seems the younger are more to show tampo. I also agree with a few of the comments. Too large an age gap is not healthy and not respected.

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Yes you’re right about "bunso" most of them are a little spoiled 😂 I think it’s because some parents tend to cuddle them more than their older kids and because they’re the youngest. There are also couples who have large age gaps but their relationships survive and they’re actually very happy together. Their relationships are as good as couples who are in the same age or couples who do not have large age gaps.

[@jimwooldridge1721]

@@TheFuentesFamily Hi. Sure they work for the life of the older man. And both do benefit in their own way. But I cringe and don't respect it for the man. Just my opinion. As long as the girl is well taken care of and improves her life. Than that was her choice. Thanks. 😁

[@AaronOlafson]

women who need to think when asked about their relations status is a big red flag. Games and more games.

[@WineSippingCowboy]

This is a trade in every date 📅 or marriage 💑 of an age gap relationship: the Western man has social security while the Pinay has purity. The Pinay is young enough to break off or be broken off a date 📅 in case the relationship fails. Note that if a marriage is a Catholic ⛪ Pinay with a Protestant who is not validly baptized or is not a Christian, such a marriage is subject for annulment due to being unequal yoke.

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @WineSippingCowboy ! It’s sad to say but it’s true. There are really Filipinas who are married only because they wanted to have a better life. But we can’t generalize this that every Pinay would do this and would think of like this.

[@WineSippingCowboy]

@@TheFuentesFamily ➕ as with Latina families 👪, Filipina families pressure their daughters to marry before age 25 and have many kids. Doing so works in farm 🚜 areas 😊, not 👎 so well in city areas. 😖 I noticed these as I was in The Philippines 🇵🇭 in 2022.

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Yes @WineSippingCowboy . That’s very sad right? But now I guess, parents are more concerned now. I’ve seen families that are struggling but instead of letting their kids have their own family, they make sure and do their best to help them finish school so they could help the whole family. Parents don't want their kids to experience the same life they have. Like, doing the farm work and everything.

[@Danno_A_Jyd]

In your opinion, when is a pinay old enough to not be immature? Is one who is 29 and has a daughter mature enough to be trustworthy in a relationship with a guy 30 years older than her? I ask because I believe my gal is responsible and cautious enough to be able to honestly commit to a long term relationship [marriage], but maybe I'm wrong. Maybe I'm the immature one and I should give her a break and cut her loose. All I want is for her and her daughter to be happy. A good topic might be, 'Do Filipina's settle for older foreign men?' That has been on my mind for months.

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Actually you’re the only one who can answer whether she’s mature enough to be trustworthy and to commit a long term relationship. Once you meet her and be with her for a long time or even short time, maybe you could answer that question. But to be honest, a lot of Filipinas are really mature enough for a relationship, it just depends to their partners or the relationship.

[@jankohrasko1547]

Ooh i love that 18 old girl so preety so cute

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @jankohrasko1547 ! You mean Jaira? Yes she’s pretty and cute. Actually the lady wearing white tshirt is her girlfriend ❤️.

[@jankohrasko1547]

If she will change her mind I will interesting to meet her 😊

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Oh nooo😂😂

[@Hoochie243]

Filipinas are very fast learners and to use the Word Immature is not RIGHT ..most filipinas dont have the same life experience as western Women. Its unreasonable to expect a 20 years old girl to be more mature than a 60 years old man...if a guy marries a Filipina who is young he needs to let her still have Friends her own age

[@aclosson8193]

I don't think Filipinas are immature. I think they are innocent and sweet. They lack the bad attitude of Western women and provincial girls lack the cynicism of many Filipina city girls. To my mind, the best girls the Philippines have are their Provincial girls. They are well-rounded. Family oriented. Able to manage multiple tasks simultaneously. Most are no Drama, well-rounded women. Wonderful wives and mothers. Caring and concerned. But, if you talk to another Filipina be careful. These girls can be very very jealous. Western men think nothing of making small talk with random girls. This is a big problem with Filipinas. If a Filinipna doesn't give you big-time Tampo when you make small talk to another Filipina. She doesn't really care for you. Period. She's with you for another reason. Most likely MONEY. Filipinas that truly love you are jealous. Clingy. Siamese Twins Clingy.

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @aclosson8193 ! I agree.

[@aclosson8193]

@@TheFuentesFamily Thank you. I enjoy your posts. Been married to a Visayan girl from the province for 40 wonderful years. We met at UCSD. She's the first University educated person in her family. She applied for the Exchange Student program and was accepted. We have together made sure she is no longer the only one. We have put several promising younger nieces and nephews to Universities over the years.

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @aclossom8193 ! You’re welcome! We’re happy that you enjoyed our videos. Wow😍😍 40 years!? I’m so happy for both of you! And you both are very kind sharing your blessings to your nieces and nephews. I’m sure they won’t forget your kindness. God bless you and your family ❤️

[@bobbyliquit4169]

Day na sa pinas ka gamitin mo yong pag ka pilipina mo para maraming manood sa volg mo at maintidihan ka sa lahat.

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @bobbylinquit4169 ! Thanks for stopping by and we appreciate your suggestion. Actually, we would love to use Filipino language but we also have foreigners watching our videos. There are more Filipinos that could understand English than Foreigners that could understand tagalog.

[@java1221-sv7bh]

yez immature they want to have money without working so finding a old foreigner man with lots of money

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @java1221 ! It’s sad to say but there are Filipinas who are only with foreigners because of money but there are also others that are not. Not just Filipinas but there are women from other countries that are with foreigners for money.

[@java1221-sv7bh]

@@TheFuentesFamily if that's true the same age but instead they choose older ones because more money or savings and have pension

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Well I’ve seen lots of couples that has older partners and these people are not even rich. So I guess, we can’t really generalize that young people are only after their partners money or their pensions.

[@hillbillyintheasia6122]

@@java1221-sv7bh if she in the philipines she female odds she has no money as well due to the age limit to work. over 40 have no jobs

[@XA1985]

Personally I don’t care if she is immature and dumb 😅, if she’s young, attractive, I am IN! 😊

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @50medude ! Oh nooo😂😂😂

[@merwinjohnston7074]

They lack age experience. They act inmature.

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @merwinjohnston7074 ! Yeah some younger people act immature but there's also some that are matured enough and sometimes the older people are the ones who are acting like children.

[@dbuck1964]

Who does? Are you speaking for all of them?

[@user-bh1se9hn9j]

Of course they are ...imature and they should be they have a life time of experience to encounter

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi @user-bh1se9hn9j ! Yeah there are some people that are young and immature but there are also few people regardless their age is matured already.