Ep 1: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli

[@jakeishadavis9302]

Having on a bubble coat, with sandals and a throw on wig while talking about everybody else wardrobe is CRAZY WORK 😂

[@latrishahayward9359]

I came here for this comment 😂😂

[@teegee6597]

Right 😂😂😂😂

[@truereligiononlyy]

Omgg 😂😂😂

[@vdub4323]

I'm D**D! 😂😂 NO LIES TOLD THO! Instantly zoomed in when I read this comment.

[@teegee6597]

@@vdub4323 me too 😭😭😭

[@advocate1913]

The wig and the sandals with a puffer is insane!!!!

[@iamtinara]

Like girl why you didn’t put effort into your appearance!

[@sabrenabean6498]

Came solely for vibez lol

[@user-Emarriaalexandria]

literally 😂😂😂😂

[@bebita404]

It’s giving HOT and SWEATY 😅 like she could’ve tried a lil harder.

[@Roddinascat]

The cargo pants with that outfit is wild too the whole outfit is off 😭

[@Voltron881]

“Because your name is Garry and people know that I like SpongeBob” has to be the stupidest reason I heard someone say no in this episode.

[@dirkxi]

Yes indeed that a horrible reason, but there are worse. One lady rejected a man because he has chapped lips...

[@afrikanjamaicangrl2077]

Stupid asf…my eyes popped open when she said that

[@sincere3005]

Shit makes zero fuckin sense! 😂😂😂

[@jackieclark8253]

If anything, that would be a reason to pick him because she loves the show. Women are backwards sometimes . 🙂

[@eltonlocklear7659]

Cause she know she wasn’t getting picked so had to deny before being denied and therefore didn’t have a reason

[@sarawr28]

It’s so refreshing to watch these older episodes and see how much more organized and evolved the show has come along! Way to go Arlette!

[@pamelamoore8188]

I was thinking the same thing.

[@austinevick]

Yeah same here

[@queenthomas4140]

Agree

[@cherry-love2024]

The only thing that didn't evolve was Arlette's inappropriate constant laughing and maniacal at times. When she draws out laaaaaadddddies, that's annoying

[@RoseGoldPDX]

​@@cherry-love2024 nah, that's definitely changed too. She still laughs a little when shit is funny or awkward but it's toned down from these 1st episodes.

[@ShaeShae_muah]

Flip flops with a bubble coat is wild! Ma’am, are you hot or cold! It’s pissing me off 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@princesssfem.e]

She a damn mess

[@babyrheas]

Then have the nerve to look men up and down! The audacity!!

[@peacebalancetruth]

😆

[@peacebalancetruth]

Baby, The wig for me was giving hat/raccoon. And I come from a non-judgmental place Babybay.

[@kali911doll9]

and that stiff ass wig 😂😂

[@nae1998nae]

“I’m a fan of Shein” took me FLAT OUT 😂😂😂

[@mayaalexander7634]

Deadasss 😭😭😂

[@glendamervil8930]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@fabmanthereal]

AND she had the nerv to tell a fashion designer about style 😂 . she allso tellin her doctor hoe to diagnose??

[@QiaBaybi]

Then added "You put that on!" 😂💀😂

[@kicon7054]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Toritorytore123]

I did not realize Arlette has only been doing this for less than a year! She is truly the blueprint came through with quality out the gate

[@cfoster6804]

I just noticed that today. I thought she'd been at it for years!

[@Toritorytore123]

Me too!!

[@krunkerking4115]

and literally right after she had a baby! No excuses

[@TheAfroGoddess]

my exact thoughts. Well done Arlette!

[@ogeniusonefamily4912]

The idea is originally from a Nigerian lady called Nons Miraj.. Just so you know

[@PrinceGucci94]

Arlette was definetely unhinged in the earlier episodes. And for some reason I love this version better😂

[@hoos3014]

She was too excited...laughing at her own jokes.

[@formxr]

She be screamin into that mic. Honestly she still does in the newer episodes lmao

[@lifewithceecee9035]

Rearl 😂

[@AugustLady77]

The girl in the ugly white dress was extremely judgmental on things that weren’t even facts. What the electrician said about her was right!

[@AreEssJeee]

Yeah she does have an attitude lol

[@latoyak20]

Yea, her attitude was really nasty.

[@FTTBoog_1016]

Her thinking electricians are broke is crazy

[@Alwayzsmilin]

​@@FTTBoog_1016 Facts!!! Electricians make bank

[@Kelalo9739]

He told her she wasn’t ugly but she wasn’t cute either! 😂😂😂😂

[@terrancewalker3169]

the girl in the jacket didn’t know if it was gonna be winter, summer, fall or spring that day but she came prepared 😂

[@lah-s3v]

😂😂😂 omg ..I’m in Zimbabwe and laughing loud at your comment lol.. Good one

[@bleura4212]

And she was either immature or dumb as a mf

[@WifeRunner]

😂😂😂

[@Taghredn]

What about the weg

[@lisak8168]

It's giving She by Sheree!

[@keepitfunky1858]

I like the host of this show, coz she doesn’t just allow the participants to give vague answers.

[@CoreyChampagneTV]

Exactly

[@nehsangbong7259]

Facts. Like Nesta wasn't giving anything.

[@thomastaylor1217]

I like her cause she FINE, on Da Grind with a Thicc Behind!!!

[@balance3809]

Almost like she’s trying to start some shit😂

[@fisf.2148]

I like her too, she reminds me of the host of Smash or Pass

[@BethBirhe-vo5nl]

The way the Nigerian guy didn’t back down…nothing but respect!!

[@oluwatobioluwanifemi2904]

Bro held it down!!!!

[@bonfaceosuka]

Mad respect to all Nigerians damn . That's a lot of patience and courage

[@aneeshamoore3425]

The puffer jacket and cargos with flip flops got some nerve!! 😭

[@Xgil2Play]

That's drip fam 😂

[@jacintagamble-brunson1483]

That part !

[@lebomillicent9824]

0% effort but the nerve is on 100, I'm not laughing 💀💀💀

[@charellesexii6555]

She said she's 21 😢 ladies please get on top of your weight smh it makes you look older

[@jayelee7112]

Yup pick a season

[@pineapplewhowho8828]

This line up is wild. Between that wedding dress with the shawl, the weirdo asking about salary and the puffer sandals - it is not giving.

[@bsharwill]

sure was not. Notice how the most attractive three were his last 3 pics. I like the girl with the pink hair spirit & attitude, but not her hair color nor her outfit. She also had an optimistic answer about not judging people outfit on the first day.

[@bsharwill]

***last 3 picks

[@emaudeblevins88]

Let’s be honest on average the ladies as a whole are a 5 , 5 1/2 in looks and no comment on the fits. How are they comfortable tryna tear most of these men down. Talking bout they like to shop for they men , how sway when they can’t even show for themselves smh 🤦🏽‍♂️ fix it Jesus

[@JrueThrondsen]

She did thst because of the body shaming. She wanted to get back at him. These ladies are petty.

[@emaudeblevins88]

@@JrueThrondsen reading is fundamental but ok . They started it he responded and they didn’t like it . Meanwhile they look a mess cohesively as a group. If they was all that wouldn’t need a dating game to find love is all I’m saying

[@peoplesyemi6287]

The girl in the white dress embarrassed herself. Pure example of "you looked smart until you opend your mouth." I hope she watches this and realises that she has a lot of maturing to do.

[@KarolinaGirllife]

Terrance def busted her bubble. He said you not that cute😂😂

[@nickyg1752]

And she really not cute and to be acting like that ...she full of s##t

[@Wonderfullymade1212]

She didn’t look that smart

[@RealTorien]

She was making all kinds of dirty looks the whole time especially when the other ladys complemented the dudes. Like yeah she don’t need to be back her energy stank

[@user-nf7nu3bl6q]

She's overinflating her title/position. "I don't do dreads" yet she pre-qualified herself as a match for an upper class professional although her choice of words and attire do not match her desired class of man.

[@shaleenAnderson]

Arlette is more professional now which makes the newer episodes more serious. This episode is wild lol 😂

[@nanaaishaabdulqadir9845]

Exactly my thoughts 😅

[@1SweetQ]

I'm 41 minutes in and these women are a trip... they can't take criticism or unfavorable comments but this is what the show is for...

[@cdub3019]

Absolutely, they can pick the men apart but as soon as the men speak on what their preference is and if she doesn't fit that she gets defensive and insecure, none of them are worth it except for Ashley, she seemed very nice , confident and levelheaded

[@honestreviewer-dp6gr]

Sis in the maxi dress lol talking about Gary from SpongeBob, the lashes were CRAZY lol

[@LoveMeBrezzy]

💯

[@realrosesforever3847]

Agree 100~ They can't take it!!!!

[@sprice9964]

I don’t like how the women think they can say whatever but when the guys dish it back they get offended.

[@karithema9ician657]

That’s literally what we have been saying for YEARS now. These women are lucky they live in this “free” country. 👌🏾💯

[@TheWhitestKidUKno1]

Literally this. Like will st8 be snide & condescending in these men face & be surprised when mfs ain’t goin for that lmao

[@worldwandererx4041]

Bro you need to watch the redo where it was the men come see girls shaming the guy who wasn't even judgemental and all saying dust

[@flygodson5891]

for reallllllll !!!

[@jay80]

Literally smh

[@5iveTheGoddess]

The fact that people STILL don't know that electricians make BANK upsets me

[@jazzylulu22]

That’s alright it saves them for the rest of us lol.

[@jazzylulu22]

It seems like they’re looking for more white collar or influencer type lifestyles. They want a man who will pay an electrician to do the work rather than a take charge guy at all

[@DreLuxeLV-fe7qk]

Girl, you are absolutely right. Not only do they make bank, they could also be their own boss and employ you too. LOL

[@mylegendbegins]

master electricians make BANK

[@SpoiledLocGurl]

Oh I've known for decades 😂

[@Sammi.Lynn.93]

I lOVE HOW HAPPY ARLETTE GETS WHEN THEY GET A MATCH UP!!! That’s how you know her marriage is good because she wants others to be just as happy as her in her relationship ❤

[@tunizlle]

💀if I walked in & everyone popped their balloons I’d just start crying 💀

[@temmy8529]

🤣🤣🤣🤣gal chill 😂

[@Alwayzblessed36]

🤣🤣🤣

[@liqua95]

And turn around😂. These ppl are so brave

[@ksazobafit....2216]

😂😂😂😂I wouldn't even be part of something like this, don't care if people call me insecure

[@screamatchaboi]

😂😂😂😂

[@Habeshamorena8]

"And so your shoes go with your outfit" he couldn't wait😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@BeauteKreyol]

The scream that I scrumpt!!! 😂I

[@a8b23]

😭😭😭

[@DarvydaTeddy]

Such an accurate rebuttal- cause that’s the first thing I looked at the FIRST time she started talmbout outfits……

[@lobmob3235]

He was right too😭😭😭

[@nixxya3828]

😂😂😂

[@slashnagy6]

“She not ugly, but she not cute either” I’m dying over here hahahahaha 😂

[@dreadreya]

She is not who she thinks she is. Poor thing. I had to say a prayer like “God please let me see and know who I am and who I am not!” I would hate to be out here thinking I’m more than I am.

[@SMgail_]

@@dreadreya😂🤣 that is actually a great prayer for remember!

[@what9331]

Her face expressions were killing me. Look at her acting arrogant and all, even when the guy's talking to somebody else and she's like 🤨 🥴🧐😒😤😠 Looking like a used soap with that forehead

[@2010DERT2010]

😂😂😂😂😂 that part

[@rayyyherway]

She definitely bought that comment 🤪😂

[@beattyboyproductions9128]

As much as i loath dating shows im grateful for the candidness of this show because its shows the dysfunction ppl have in what matters to get to know ppl.

[@mr.hirisklorisk]

Asking for someone's salary right off the bat after meeting them for 3 minutes and in a group setting is Crazy.

[@nathalieasah5948]

For real that’s what I thought too, like I get it money is important for her but asking for his salary on the first meeting is crazzzzyyy

[@meganr9280]

Absolute insanity. I can’t believe she thought that an appropriate question. Must be a gold digger.

[@Karmalu]

Then had the nerve to say to the next guy “you can’t afford me as a wife” like girl you’re literally 23 years old😭

[@newmooninlibra]

Yeah,the more she spoke ,the less I liked her....😂

[@braileyray4885]

Crazyyyyy!! That was too personal in a public setting

[@syriahudson4331]

I cannot stop watching this. It’s the hostess Arlette FIGHTING to keep it together the entire time 😭

[@safaecreates3361]

Every time

[@florencelovme]

Forreal

[@renata13-13]

I am hooked on this, too. Sometimes people will really miss out on good people over petty stuff. This show is crazy & interesting.

[@allurebysamirasamira142]

Literally obsessed with this channel and show ❤

[@daijaniquegreer4256]

No LITERALLY 💀

[@mstBel889]

I just watched the last few videos and this is my first time going back to watch their 1st. It's so cool to see how far the camera man, sounds guys, lighting, timing, Arlette herself has grown so much. They are amazing, such a good idea. It feels very 2000s and us in our 30s miss these old school dating shows!

[@marykaycabral3741]

Gary said, “I’m a fan of SHEIN” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sophiaschneider4680]

He was so passive aggressive lmaooo

[@babyrheas]

LMAOOO.. Gary also said the Shein starter pack.. I died!!!

[@Christystcyrallen]

Cracking upppp

[@peacebalancetruth]

@@babyrheas 😆😆😂

[@mikeygeneral7080]

I died with laughter when I heard that man… this man ate that.

[@vadagee]

"You not ugly, but you not cute either" is nasty work LMAOOO

[@Sochill617]

Lmaooooooo and she was sick because he was dead on!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@lovergirl4472]

Man I was literally 💀

[@Latrice2YouBoo]

Diabolical 😂😂😭😭

[@ajaxthomas2012]

>> Her attitude made her HIDEOUS 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@taurahelms3068]

He let her know what's real, that's for sure. How are you going to dislike someone for being from a state that you don't like. The entire state? Really?

[@Ninitsu720]

I’m sorry but The girl that asked him about his finances I’m a public setting, has no etiquette. Good job for him standing his ground.

[@ozzee5094]

She’s a lazy scrub just looking for handouts just another bop bot nothing about her was unique or original just a very bland boring indeed

[@AF-gy7vu]

that was so weird

[@msairs]

she oozes gold digger

[@PhillyGirl207]

and I’m almost certain Carmen, would not have answered the question, if she was asked on a social media platform.

[@gracegonzalez0620]

U can tell she’s a gold digger and gave me stuck up vibes and u can tell she’s been with many men lmao😂😂

[@tenitinks]

Ashley with the locs is super beautiful I love the eloquent way she spoke!!! Her aura is amazing

[@saintjosh9014]

I know we’re not looking at the same Ashley here, white dress?

[@shaemus3383]

@@saintjosh9014Ashley is the one with locs in black trousers

[@andreearl3258]

Yeah she is 🔥

[@tenitinks]

@@saintjosh9014 no way not that one! Lool She had her hair tied up with a green tank top

[@clitlickah]

I thought the dude with the loc’s was gonna pick her. He had a very hard choice too make, because the other sister he chose was beautiful too,

[@Adrian-cn5rk]

Arelette's approach changed a lot in a short time. I love the growth and direction

[@aspenenglish4976]

Arlette’s first show is hysterical!!! She laughs at these people and their reactions!!! It’s priceless. 😂😂😂. She’s more reserved now!

[@ErickPereles]

I like this side of her way more!

[@aspenenglish4976]

@@ErickPereles I agree. She is so funny and her expressions are priceless!!! She seems very kind, down to earth, hardworking but isn’t afraid to be a little goofy!!! They need to do a whole video of outtakes or Arlette’s expressions and when she bursts out laughing! Great show!

[@laurahorne8378]

Arlette was very unprofessional and silly in this episode.

[@Zmakebeats]

“You not ugly but you not cute either” Terrance got me rolling🤣💀

[@Alliekachala3692]

Ate her up😂

[@peterwilliams1050]

😂😂

[@omari1camille18]

And I'm like u dumb af saying that about Alabama..it shows the ignorance

[@golf4fame]

And you heard her, telling him that he thinks she's cute .. why do men HAVE TO take it, but women are ok if they don't.

[@thatdrawingguydanny]

Tbh I think he lying let’s be fr😭

[@emi62507]

The audacity to ask a stranger their salary is outrageous. Well done Mr designer/accountant. He is also very well put together.

[@Knauchs]

And, he already stated his job/career. If she wanted to find out his est salary she could've Googled it. Like, average accounting and finance jobs here in the ATX, is anywhere from 30k-100k. It's roughly the same for Fashion Designer. So, it's like $10-30/hr depending on experience and such. But, to just ask something so personal is crazy. Those are respectable jobs as well. If it is policy in the workplace (due to the exp etc.) why would someone just give that information to a stranger. Like what if we as an audience reversed that on her, and asked what she brought to the household.

[@martinokwaro3191]

I believe she will just bring her gold digging vibes.

[@kimgo4518]

@@Knauchsor ask her how much she has made as a model last year

[@handbanana5555]

definitely not a first date question lmao, not one of the first three things to ask someone even more certainly on another note, why would any man want her? a busy bee that wants a provider? so then wtf are you staying busy for then? seems pointless to only want men for their money in that case

[@FLaSHFReeeZ]

She was asking that to be an ass because he already made everyone's shit list. Girlies before future husband ya know.

[@Thisguyecm]

Arlette is hilarious. The girl staying laughing in people’s face after comments. 🤣🤣🤣

[@chelsie1203]

I’m obsessed with the girl with the locs! She’s adorable!!

[@tontekwaramba2965]

She's is clear

[@adrianminott2584]

I love her

[@ElJefe-cm2by]

She has a nice attitude

[@JustAGirlly]

Yeah she’s really pretty and soft spoken

[@acbaybee]

Omg thank you everyone! 🥹🥰 I was so nervous I was I felt out of place.

[@splitbrace3639]

"I'm a fan of shein" is wild crazy 😭🤣 the host laughing like that didn't make me laugh less

[@davaughnwilliams5100]

😂💀

[@boldforchrist3010]

The starter pack 😂😂😂

[@yourofficialrealtor1057]

He flamed her lmao, she had it coming though

[@kaheaisaac1]

​@@boldforchrist3010😂😂😂

[@BethJehovah]

What is Shein?

[@Newpac1]

The “SHEIN” line was crazy 🤣🤣

[@keitarouse468]

Yes

[@RafaelReyesofficial]

He ate that one😂

[@GetDUNNUP]

He out there doing God's work

[@JokeJoints]

​@@RafaelReyesofficialshe ate that one

[@ebonih7138]

17:00 😂

[@markdeucefilms]

Who is watching in 2025?

[@valerievaughn9439]

Meee...I just realized that these shows are on YT lol 😅

[@carissa8647]

Me 👋🏾🤣

[@MonaLyssasChannel]

Right here! 😂

[@Mizzsharone]

Me

[@InPlainSight33]

🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️

[@tropikanaaa]

neon green shirt & patterned green shirt with locs kept it the most genuine. they were so sweet and humble compared to all the other women 😭😭

[@cupcakeavi]

Yes!!! They carry themselves in a beautiful way

[@chriseanrose4304]

Their voices 😍

[@emi62507]

The girl who got matched first (in the black and white) was pretty genuine too.

[@bsharwill]

The girl with the patterned green shirt seemed to really like him and they seemed like the ideal couple. They both had locs that looked like the same color and had the same taste in music. This girl also seemed very satisfied when he popped the light skin girl’s balloon, like yeah bih, you thought 😂 The girl he picked respectfully demands attention when it’s her time to talk. That’s probably why he picked her. Although the girl I mentioned was very sweet and more of his type(I wanted him to choose her), he was more drawn to his pick. Notice her posture, of course her height, how she reaches for the mic to answer questions with confidence looking directly into the camera. Her couldn’t help himself from choosing her 🤷🏾‍♀️😂

[@zibelebruciebenubrucieb8850]

Boy she the oldest... she had to tf

[@brickthagr8871]

"Nahh you aint ugly...You aint cute either though"😂😂💀

[@natureboyshorts3390]

Facts... She not cute. Fuck she talking about I don't like y'all

[@Benwazworld]

Ohhh ! He aint lying tho.

[@kioshabright1085]

She not cute she confident so that's good

[@Firstpick1]

The way the host bust out laughing 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣

[@AlwonDomz]

@@kioshabright1085 She’s insecure. That’s why she was worried if Terrance thinks she’s cute or not.

[@califxraised]

Pisses me off how almost all the ladies were rude yet the guys were so calm with them

[@Geegee-r1n]

they dont have class

[@Gk54493]

Usually how it is because they think they’re the catch and men have to do everything to please them.

[@kuromishedemon1980]

The one in the white just kept pissing me off

[@itslaquesha]

Finally! Someone said it. And the superficiality as well. There is a better way to explain why you're simply not attracted to someone without being rude and superficial.

[@Pvamuvamp30]

@@kuromishedemon1980fr

[@quelewis4879]

Yooo, as a woman, I can honestly say a few of those woman need to be put in their place! You can turn someone down without being rude and disrespectful!

[@Asinrad99]

The electrician definitely could’ve presented better but the fact that she clearly has no idea how valuable of a trade that is. Plus he fixes car too?! Chile I love it.

[@StewartLucrative]

I totally get that the lady in white wants a guy that can provide for her and any children, etc. But if she assumes only doctors and lawyers make money she is doing herself a disservice.

[@ElcieWard]

Provide for yourself.

[@efimaarongalperin6061]

electricians and plumbers CLEAN UP

[@idontgetpaidenoughforthis]

I’m addicted to this damn show lmao this first episode is so unhinged compared to the newer ones, I’m screaming 😭😭😭

[@naeemahplaysgames477]

Lol yo I said the same thing 😂 compared to the newer ones yu see a big difference 😂

[@anacaba2488]

FACTS! I started watching backwards and omg 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@NikkiPenick]

I noticed that Arlette is cracking up a lot in this one lol !!!!

[@NikkiPenick]

& I noticed Arlette cannot keep it together 😂😂😂 lol! She’s laughing a lot in this one but in the later ones she’s more together lol! She was cracking up on this episode

[@Favour-Gabriel]

I am here watching and I am laughing my ass out!😂😂😂

[@ConversationswithKellie]

Terrance needs his own show… He seems very genuine…I’m glad he called out the terrible attitudes-

[@eveningowl9443]

did he ever found love?

[@kenyataterry]

he’s been on several times and they pop immediately because he is short so sad

[@eveningowl9443]

@@kenyataterry that sucks, im 5'11 and my Boyfriend is an 5'6 alpha male , lol him himself confess to me that he was scared to approach me to conversate wen we first met, i never understood why tho

[@Godisrealfrfr]

They just did lol

[@kobiemeggs9333]

@@eveningowl9443your a tall beast

[@aqua_finessa6030]

"Oh i work out...."🙎🏾‍♀️ 🤷🏾‍♂️" i like it when i can tell" 🤣🤣😭

[@ajaycbaby8837]

"I'm a fan of Shein." The shade was classic and she earned it.

[@mickad98]

Earned ALL that shade & it was funny too!! 😂😂

[@Luisa-v2i]

Her outfit don't make sense 😂😂 slipper looking heels with a coat Ita giving stripper vibes 😂😂

[@RONNIELA400]

😂😂😂

[@SincerelyLexy]

Gary seemed so warm and laid back. Loved his laugh. Terrance is so sweet but his commentary is hilarious 😂 “you not ugly… but you not cute either”

[@aprilshorty4094]

The fact that she bust her balloon because of his name shows how immature she is

[@SincerelyLexy]

@@aprilshorty4094 right?! I loved his personality AND he’s tall. It’s a win-win.

[@sunflowerchild7236]

I liked Gary too

[@DreamAwayLullaby]

The fact they didn’t like him because of his name… shallowwww

[@DreamAwayLullaby]

Insulting his birth given NAME and getting butt hurt when he doesn’t like your FAKE caterpillar eye lashes his hilarious 🐛🐛

[@swamptowntv59]

“The outfit no givin” says the lady dressed like The Candyman 😂

[@samanthapatino2676]

lol 😂

[@GreenYoshi3881]

Omg 😂😂😂😂😂

[@gbtv3740]

She gotta go fight in the matrix after this 😮‍💨

[@zizoegy8460]

😂😂😂

[@aleshasinclair8529]

With capris and think she is the fashion spokes person girl byeeee and I’m glad he clocked her tea about that

[@LetsJustCee...]

I love Arlette. She's changed so much from this show to the current show but she's such a vibe🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 and so pretty😍😍

[@kaylvinnkristlah6985]

Nah Arlette used to be unhinged 😂😂 im watching this shit backwards & she really changed as the show progressed understandably but i love this version of her

[@cadaishasmith673]

Baby same😂😂

[@jayjefe_13]

Deadasss!! Just finished everythinggg😢

[@randomshortsentertainment739]

She was so giddy and clowning! I love it so much

[@joyceamos7281]

Otr I said they must’ve told her she gotta chill😭

[@lananxt]

Terrence is the real OG 😂 he’s been here from episode 1 😂

[@everythingislovelee3400]

Gary funny asf 😂 he said she got her outfit from SHEIN. He’s a whole vibe though he’s laid back I would date him

[@dj5180]

gagged 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@bubbagump1306]

SHEIN!!!

[@roncall6065]

He was dope

[@tinkerbell3667]

That was a low blow 🤣

[@AspirationalDesires]

Ashley is indeed a breath of fresh air, not to mention the fact she looks so much younger than the ladies who are 21-24. In fact all the older ladies looks younger than the rest.

[@kateupton7522]

I was just thinking that. Beofre anyone says it a hater I’m 24 and yeah the oldest lady there looks the best

[@Nellz1]

Watching the last episode and now the first....Boy the evolution 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@sherineofficial7851]

They should have a show just for Terrence where he can find the love of his life. He’s so down to earth and very positive no matter what! I want to see him in love and boo’d up! 🙏🏾

[@Christystcyrallen]

💯💯💯💯

[@sherineofficial7851]

@@Christystcyrallen he deserves!🙏🏾

[@CandidAnn]

Right, Terrence seems so cool, nice personality and electrician makes great money. I hope he finds someone.

[@VibeWithAmara]

Same here ❤❤❤

[@kenyab3526]

Love him.. theses shows truly allows u to see how superficial woman and men r .

[@natalyaroberts804]

Ashley is so damn pretty ,her energy her smile and she’s soft spoken

[@brianaaustin9484]

I agree. Very pretty

[@AnomalyBelleza]

I totally agree! Very very beautiful! A unique pretty.

[@berrybanana653]

i second that. Ashley is so lovely.

[@deepinjazminesmind3169]

Yes, I definitely agree! I kept saying "she's so gorgeous!" every time that they showed her!

[@classmassgrass]

Coming from a guy .. pretty yes energy no. And because of her energy that makes her really ugly. Majority of us don't like attitude.

[@Halfforeign]

You can definitely see how Arlette matured through the episodes

[@kaeshaephriam6554]

Definitely! She seems a bit more relaxed with the newer episodes

[@queenadeniboye]

yea and i have a feeling her husband helped coached her on how to keep her composure and remain unbiased while hosting.

[@takashientertainment1689]

Definetly, on those early épisodes she looks like she is on cocain lol 😅

[@dreadreya]

Looks like she lost weight too.

[@Mohamed-lw2ig]

Fr the old arlette kind of instigated though I wish she still did that from time to time 😂

[@nickolazit19]

I can’t believe it’s been one year already! My wife and I watch this show every week! Congratulations Arlette and BM! ❤❤🎉

[@MsLawdogg]

Kudos to all the men on here showing respect to these ladies regardless of their rude and condescending comments.

[@brigittepurnell9904]

Agreed

[@poundc8ke]

Right, I never realized how brutal some women are. Watching this show lmk why everybody single 😂😢😂😂

[@MsLawdogg]

@@poundc8ke 😂 So, this was my first episode. I saw one with the men rejecting the women, and they were kind of brutal too. 😂 However, they at least listened to the ladies first before popping their balloons.

[@belvy2012]

I agree because some of these heffas were extremely disrespectful!

[@awp8331]

Wrong they need to be checked and learn to talk like a lady.

[@gab4121]

The puffer jacket was making any excuse to pop the ballon…& the weirdest excuses too 😂😂

[@AckeeandSaltfish]

She was poppin the balloons herself because she knows nobody would pick her so she self sabotaged 😂

[@donalddonald348]

@@AckeeandSaltfishfacts 😂

[@uptownsupport1062]

I agree

[@shae.the.gymini]

@@AckeeandSaltfishdefinitely a “let me reject them first before they reject me” type of deal 😂

[@Jezeb2k]

Shes there to promote her IG thats it…

[@HeyyHayZ]

The host has gotten so much better as time went on. Her more recent episodes she’s more poised and guides the conversation so much smoother !!

[@xPhoenixx97]

I agree

[@wolfprice]

I kinda prefer how shes hosting in this older episode because shes showing more reactions more raw

[@CMHMom23]

I noticed this!! I’m new here so I wonder if she got some feedback about this.

[@marciarodrigues4237]

She was instigating and funny here. You can tell she agrees with some of the things they are saying

[@PhillyGirl207]

I noticed it too. I started by watching the last three episodes, then decided to watch from the beginning. The evolution is evident.

[@gabrielosei6725]

I decided to come check the first episode to see how better Arlette has become and I’m glad to say she’s really evolved.. very proud of you Arlette 👏🏾

[@therealtechdeckhero]

I love how Terrance checked the girls who needed to be checked.

[@BeachBallCrusher]

Ngl, he is illiterate as hell. Dude can't even put a sentence together or speak coherently.

[@honestreviewer-dp6gr]

😂😂😂 he was so funny

[@rhymefreak4815]

"And so your shoes go with your outfit" got my ribes cracked

[@shorts-gc3bp]

@@rhymefreak4815terrance didnt say that

[@lemonpeppasteppa7279]

Especially the lady in the white dress. She deserved what he said 😂

[@ellierhiannon9483]

That girl with the green shoes and top is so gorgeous from her aura to her face, she’s stunning

[@dealwindem4453]

Not really. She's knocked kneed and an iron board

[@marciarodrigues4237]

Absolutely gorgeous and she’s in some more episodes. Her voice is so soft and comforting too 🥹 these men are missing out

[@Noah-hk6gd]

Electrician ate girl in the white up and she was MAD😂

[@JamesAuditi]

Yeah she was mid fr

[@Wc7823]

And he said it with a smile.

[@fancyfancy8549]

Lol right? She was mid and awful. That attitude!

[@trell_money7789]

She was definitely mad

[@mzztricey]

😂😂😂😂

[@Dd1NlyB3B3]

I actually love seeing Arlette’s personality here! While I love how the show has evolved and gotten more organized, it’s nice to see that she’s just like us and finds some of these statements ridiculous fr 😅

[@TimieriEllington-mc4pg]

When women rejects a short man, everybody laughs and it’s all good but when a man rejects a lady for being fat, oh he’s body shaming 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@AugustLady77]

Yup bc weight can be lost height can’t change

[@lilsam2324]

@@AugustLady77that makes it even worse dumb ass 😂😂

[@gp9677]

@@AugustLady77so what?

[@gp9677]

@@AugustLady77it’s even worse to be fat cuz that’s your fault

[@jakearrow8047]

@@AugustLady77 that's exactly the point dum dum so it's ok to make fun of someone for something they can't change or have no control over ladies and people in general are disgusting

[@mimidee8305]

That girl with the puffer jacket and sandals have the nerve lmaooo

[@Dontgiveup964]

For real! 😂 She looks like a hot mess😂

[@amanilayea]

i’m saying!! she came in looking the worst out of all of them but had the biggest mouth and giggle on her face.. who does she think she is? 😭 pissed me OFF

[@beatsbybri]

I stg . Need to gone on home

[@b.michelle2393]

She look a mess and definitely not 21 yo

[@Levelupdivas]

She look a mess 🤢

[@Sophia-ve6hs]

Who the hell wears a puffer jacket with cargo pants and FLIP FLOPS LMAOOOO 😭

[@adrienjohnson591]

She reminds me of Neil Carter from the TV show Give me a break!

[@sopeintimilehin9059]

😂fr fr

[@thickyellacinderella]

She also threw her wig in the air and caught it with her head.

[@auliciad7132]

She had on the witness protection wig on.... she thought this was the "Hard Wig, Soft Life" show 😂

[@loveourworldproductions6640]

@@thickyellacinderellaIm crying 😂😂

[@B_dawg-jg7po]

I think the host was nervous for her first episode that’s why there is so much going on here 😂 but I loveeeee ittttt! Girl be you I love your show ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@juicediy2495]

The fact that she said her parents would be disappointed in her bringing home a short man tells me about the values that shaped her.

[@samukelephiri6310]

I honestly think she didn't know how to say she doesn't like short men. She probably thought she was saying it in a nice way but it actually came out very mean.

[@astralmindny9055]

EXACTLY!

[@toni4369]

Right??? Girl please!!

[@loveest7230]

She’s so real for this

[@Michael-z1u]

That was just her way of telling him that he was not her type because she left with a short man after told her everything he was gone do for her

[@staceywharton5459]

Don’t underestimate someone who works in the trade field. They actually make really good money and will always have a job.

[@andreac.5596]

Exactly, a lot of women don't understand that a lot of them make good money

[@anthonyhall9862]

Alot of them make more money then me and I am a engineer

[@MACA_Zeon]

@@andreac.5596they want the white collar stuff. That's why even tho blue collar make 💰💰💰

[@tavii80sbaby82]

Exactly…that light skinned chick sounded real dumb discrediting that man’s trade.

[@mrsoftnessful]

Exactly, and they have a guaranteed job all the time. Not only that, they have a skill that can translate to helping out in the house with whatever is broken. I swear red pill and social media has ruined the expectations of both men and women

[@ajet1212]

The lady with the seductive church dress on needs to work on her attitude and maturity, and she looks much older than 24. Ashley was delightful!

[@Hereforentertainment2]

Seductive church dress lmfao 🤣 with the visible bra strap.

[@finallyanaccount]

I thought dread guy would have picked Ashley.

[@stevenhodges5160]

Seductive church dress😂😂😂

[@aaliyahparillon7027]

seductive church dress? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@lisasmith742]

😂😂😂

[@OLAROY-f1d]

recently started watching this show, had to go back to ep 1, @Arlette has really improved her presenting and progressed. Big up her

[@BRITANYKAY]

The 2nd guy respectfully gave them hell 😂😂😂😂 he was so laid back with it

[@catallguy43]

They gave him hell first though! I'm not going to lie, when they tore him down I knew I had no hope! 🤣

[@tyekincade152]

Gave them the hell they needed cause geez

[@AjaniSpeaks]

Bring the electrician back 🤣 we need to see more of him .. 🤣🤣

[@cocoakeys9948]

He’s in the second episode lol I want him to find a match so bad since it can’t be me 😂

[@AjaniSpeaks]

​@cocoakeys9948 😏I found my love and is your where we going my luv ?😊

[@shireecathomas306]

Whats his ig so I can slide in his dm 😂

[@brandonfranklin975]

“You not ugly, but you’re not cute either” 😂😂

[@M3333C]

He was Fair and accurate lmao

[@anathianathi5366]

She thought so high of herself🤣🤣🙌

[@M.H.S.W.818]

🤣☠️

[@elizabethray179]

Terrence for the win!

[@marquettastrait4788]

😂😂😂😂

[@jtwins1982]

I’m just watching this 1st episode and honestly I love how everything evolved into what it is now. From Arlette’s demeanor to how the ppl are dressed and their responses!! Wishing more success to you BM & Arlette

[@zamyaspurlock7420]

There is nothing wrong with him liking skinny women. He wasn’t rude or anything he was respectful and I can respect that. He was straight up.

[@lizgottalent2861]

Yuh there is nothing wrong with having a preference but he didn't say it in the best ...of ways originally

[@animezae]

Exactly. He said it as kindly as possible and they’re still mad, talking about “sassy”; foh.

[@steenmusic8808]

@@lizgottalent2861 how else would you have said it

[@sam1286]

@@steenmusic8808he called one of the girls heavy weight that was a lil much

[@invaders905]

@@sam1286 so she’s not heavy? Come on now

[@jazzyj48]

Ashley is a true gem! So kind, down-to-earth, gentle, like a ray of sunshine, gorgeous, and she speaks with a lot of love. What an absolutely amazing woman. The host is wonderful too!

[@ttsnypa7234]

Nah she shallow if she needed men to wear drip to prove they good men 43:43

[@k.b2457]

@@ttsnypa7234 she didnt say that. but putting in effort. women speak the language of actions and words. If you care, dress your best.

[@Naegotjuice]

she looked the best out of them all

[@jahiyahaywood38]

I wish white dress could’ve met Dr.Elom he would’ve wore sis outttt

[@midnightmbxm]

FACTS 😂😂

[@elondaallen4543]

I’d pay to see and hear that. 😂😂😂😂

[@edwardsprisca3800]

😅😅

[@GodBodyKing98]

🤣🤣

[@worldwandererx4041]

Finally women speaking facts. 1 particular self identified 304 got into it with me yesterday about doc Elim she was so bitter but I'm pretty sure she like this first video . Bloody hypocrite

[@bkallday2998]

The best part is the comedy 🔥🔥🔥🔥I can’t stop laughing 😭 the Host is hilarious‼️💯😭😭😭😭😭💪🏼

[@CeceCharles-tx9cn]

The girl with the flip flop irking 😂 like you got on a jacket, cargo pants and FLIPFLOPS

[@asiabruce7098]

Is you hot or is you cold?!!😂

[@christinemimi7066]

Confusion🤣

[@iamjeranp]

😂😆😆 is she going hiking, walking on the beach or skiing?!

[@honestreviewer-dp6gr]

She fr looks like she rolled off the couch 😂

[@MrAceospades25]

The host is low key savage laughing at the jokes never lose that

[@youknowwhatflav9916]

😂

[@youknowwhatflav9916]

😂

[@joshuajustfine]

😂😂she makes it worse I'm so here for it lmao asking the questions the people wanna know

[@Aja.l_]

Ashley knows how to be honest and still be kind

[@LM_357]

Guys see right through that "kind" facade

[@acbaybee]

Thank you, I don’t plan on changing☺️🤞🏾✨🫶🏾

[@bethanyangelheart]

@@acbaybeeyou are the prettiest girl on here!!!💕💕💕💕💕

[@KandyKoatedKrafts]

That’s called class and grace ! ♥️♥️

[@aissatakebe5212]

Arlette has come a long way. Coming from the newer episodes, she is more poised. The show's lighting has also gotten a lot better.

[@kevinmancilla7271]

“I like men that are in the medical field and lawyers “ girl…. You’re not even their type lmao 😂

[@goshcourtney1414]

At all

[@Uctonoi]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@pakilicious]

STAWP! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@edj2045]

I'm a woman in one of the fields and she is their type. They date women that are not overweight, that's pretty much their only qualification for a woman. None of them are with models, but men that aren't in our fields always seem to think that they date models lmao. So not true though.

[@MBord-zq8ud]

AT ALL!!

[@kirkthompson876]

That girl who’s in that brown pants & black blouse look crazy for 21. Her hair look so crazy

[@AriousM]

She looks crazy period…. Looks lost and thrown together

[@kirkthompson876]

@@AriousM no cap

[@Nunofyabizzzzz]

And she’s the rudest of all funny enough

[@sadarah89]

She said that boy had a baby head! That’s crazy! 😢

[@SouthernSweetTee]

I'm looking like did she know she was coming on the show because she looks so thrown away. Like WTH

[@PeaceIsAlwaysBeautiful92]

These women need to remain single and grow up 💯💯💯

[@LaPetrova]

Absolutely 💯

[@anajilewis8978]

THANK YOU💯💯💯💯

[@chukneho7956]

I swear

[@orwellianyoutube8978]

They end up with 10 stray cats and blame the universe, all while giving good men no chance. They live in a bubble where they believe they will end up with the perfect man. Perfect doesn't excist here. Nobody is perfect but God.

[@PeaceIsAlwaysBeautiful92]

@@orwellianyoutube8978 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@parisvaughn5381]

Wow I finally tuned in. Seen many clips on FB. And yes Arlette has definitely evolved. But this is very entertaining. These particular women were very harsh all except Ashley. Ashley is/was so precious. But yeah interesting.

[@jaycebaraka757]

Tutu only came to judge the outfit 😂😂😂😂😂

[@jasminerobertson7514]

Yes and she not even dressed 😂😂

[@AugustLady77]

When hers was average at best

[@Slavocean]

So true 😂

[@peacebalancetruth]

_It's not givin'!_ 😆🤌🏾💀

[@laurynnnxox6667]

@@jasminerobertson7514right she look a mess

[@jhana-marienewkirk597]

This is my new guilty pleasure. The projections, the shade, the red flags and nasty work has me cackling and glad I am not on the dating scene. I feel bad for people dating now. Good luck with that ladies and gentlemen.

[@MrsYoung-in9ov]

Mine too lol

[@xochilsilva1357]

They slept on the electrician. He seems genuinely sweet and hard working

[@mommy_models_healthy7682]

Exactly! They have no clue 😂

[@ms.inspiration8476]

Right! And electricians have the potential to make great incomes

[@loveest7230]

No

[@spystar18]

They're really close minded. There's plenty of jobs with high incomes that aren't doctors or lawyers

[@sprklejumpropedoll]

He made that weird sex comment

[@ohthatsdahlialovee]

I literally come back and watch these over and over. Addicted

[@ighdesigns]

I can’t figure it out. I’m an old white lady, and I’m addicted to this show. I think it’s the men. 95% of them are respectful, and or funny, or sweet, and really looking for a partner.

[@ms.dannyd9219]

If I was the first girl I would CRYYYYYYY the way she thought she probably ate with that basic ass outfit 😭 she's beautiful though, just has no business critiquing anyone's outfit.

[@psychedelicbonbon]

exactly what i said. she just runs me the wrong way criticizing ppls outfits when hers ain’t much better like cmonnn girl do better if you going to critique ppls outfits

[@mengmeng9oz16]

30mins in and she did it TWICE🤣

[@lindilengcukana7659]

my man said her outfit came from Shein😂😂

[@savagebaby0]

She told the man in the white outfit his shoes didn’t match like girl white goes with anything just as well as black wtf 🤣🤣

[@monalisatsoro3512]

Baby head😂😂😂😂

[@lauraeeeee]

I am just now beginning my pop the balloon binge. Start chronologically because I’m not an animal ❤

[@jilllicatTTV]

Enjoy the ride hahaha 🎈📌😭

[@chynahgre]

Same hereee

[@parrisnia72]

Sameeeee ❤

[@Toritorytore123]

Hello I am too but I initially started backwards and realized I needed to start from the beginning lol

[@miramunozv]

X2 😂

[@Resilient__one1]

These ladies act like they look amazing 😂😂😂

[@ShanaeHall-rz9df]

Exactly an they don't 😂😂😂😂

[@jalishdawes864]

That part!😢😂

[@ILoveTheAllCreator]

😂

[@lonerebeI]

And act as if their personality is great lol smh

[@afridgetoofar1818]

This is one of the least attractive lineups yet

[@TiffyTiffTv007]

“You’re unfortunately gonna go home … SINGLE 👁️👄👁️. “ im dead