Old man fears young Filipino wife just wants a green card...

[@elea97]

People always judge the woman for wanting a green card/money - why do you think he liked her? For her personality, her intelligence, her kindness? Or is it because she's the triple threat that all old men fantasise about: young, hot, and foreign 🤷‍♀️ In these circumstances it's transactional from both directions.

[@honestyisadyingvirtue]

Well sure but we know it on his side. She will deny it till she's blue in the face and insist it's for love. And frankly he could still love her, the chances of him having ANYTHING she wants besides money is slim to none. He's not even a good looking old man

[@genericname8727]

​@@honestyisadyingvirtue Often the women who marry these men do so to escape poverty, and I knew one woman from the Phillipines who was sold to an older white man by her family to be married to him as soon as she turned 18 (she was sold before then) and felt she had to stay with him once married since she was Catholic (that woman would be middle aged now and as far as I know is still married to that man). I know a younger Filipino woman who was nearly trafficked by family in the Phillipines too, but thankfully avoided that. I knew a man who was always going on anti-Asian rants, mocking their appearances, calling them slurs, being generally bigoted. Then he went to the Phillipines to get a wife and, after she eventually divorced him (for good reasons and after several years with him), he went back to find another wife. At least those women came to this country and got married by choice though. These creeps don’t get my sympathy, and if women are in positions where they feel desperate enough to date these creeps to escape those conditions then I won’t judge them for it. Especially not when so many aren’t even given a choice. Also, I know exactly how little respect most of these old men have toward the women they marry. The women are often barely people to the creeps. Maybe he developed genuine feelings for her over time, sure, but maybe she developed genuine feelings over time too if he genuinely wasn’t the typical creepy old man. I do know Filipino women in healthy relationships with white men who respect and value them. If not for the massive age gap of the couple in the video I’d not have trouble believing their feelings for one another were genuine tbh.

[@nathangaspacio6128]

@@honestyisadyingvirtue I think its obvious for both of them. Both will deny it.

[@nathangaspacio6128]

The old dudes also like that there is a clear power imbalance in their favour. Additionally, most of these women get into these relationships out of need due to poverty, dating someone their own age/nationality/wealth is not feasible. The old dudes could date someone their own age and be just fine.

[@phoebecarter4240]

The giggle in the “right so” gets me every time

[@samuraikudzi]

arthur’s really stolen my heart

[@SindyJ37]

It really is cute

[@lijo4518]

It's like a sarcastic " here we go again " lol I 💖 it

[@klarabarunovic9841]

He knows what he's doing

[@ThePoptartjunkie]

She doesn’t need to divorce him because she knows he’s got a handful of years left. Why settle for half when you can have it all?

[@charliedeegan1598]

The long game 😂

[@DiDi-xr1dd]

I knew of a couple that was transactional. The age gap was huge.He was so in love and she wasn't. she played the long game, waiting for him to go. She'd get good money after his passing and amazing house. He lived up to 92 and she died before him. 😭

[@Lilion500]

​@@DiDi-xr1dd Jesus Christ!!!! The whole of heaven would have to tape my mouth shut with the amount of screaming I'd be doing if that was me😭😭😭

[@sunnynsydney4705]

@@DiDi-xr1dd 😂 😂 karma damn…

[@DeadSezSo]

He could last another 20+ years...that's a long time to have to wake up every morning, look over and see him in bed next to you then have to run to the bathroom to hurl.

[@IslaAldridge]

actually love this duo sm!!

[@shaniarocho5515]

“This man’s been through many a world war!!!” Hilarious 😂

[@maxscardanelli6185]

Even though the guy was born in the 1950s…

[@Catmom-gl5nt]

My mother was born in 1953, her parents uncle was in the Korean War, her high school boyfriend’s brother was the first soldier from Connecticut killed in Vietnam. They there’s Dessert Storm, the War in Iraq, Afghanistan, not to mention growing up in the Cold War. Whether a military action is deemed “World” or not, it still has global consequences.

[@demontrader1222]

@@maxscardanelli6185 I know. The ageism is dreadful.

[@WatermelonFreedom]

Damn Americans always in war … almost like ur the problem

[@LoyalandTrue.]

@@Catmom-gl5nt Seppo, who asked?

[@MissDanah]

It’s a really strange concept but real. They both sign up for it. They know what the deal is. You be a wifey and entertain me and I pay you and give you a better life. SOMETIMES it’s disgusting and sometimes it’s actually NOT THAT BAD! Sometimes both sides appreciate that the other is giving them what they need.

[@jessicaadami3499]

cam just has such good energy

[@carolinesconcertvids860]

Omg my dad was 47 when I was born. I've always felt odd being one of the only people I know with an older parent. Can't imagine dating a man my dad's age. Don't care how much money they have lol

[@ysejj]

yh my dad was 44 when I was born

[@Kaigirl27]

My dad was way older when he had me and I never felt weird about it. Miss him though.

[@MegCazalet]

My uncle had his youngest son when he was 63. His next youngest child was the same age as his wife.

[@violette7600]

Yeah my dad was also 47 when I was born, it’s so weird growing with such older parents, like when I was 13 he was 60, people also thought he was my grandfather

[@carolinesconcertvids860]

@@violette7600 there's 17 years between me and my brother as well. My parents timed having each of their kids weirdly lol

[@shethingsd]

The Love Don't Judge couples are usually much better than 90 Day Fiance. These two genuinely seem to like one another.

[@SindyJ37]

If they are happy than I say good for them

[@nathangaspacio6128]

@@SindyJ37 Even if its superficial, I see no harm in it if an old man gets company, even if he only wants it from a younger more attractive woman, and a woman from an impoverished country gets a much better and (probably) the chance to provide for her family.

[@Hansta97]

that knocking sound effect really got me! haha

[@anthonyorsini]

Almost had a panic attack. Not cool yall!

[@ccahlk]

@@anthonyorsini same lmao

[@Tchika]

man, I got up and looked around the house 😨

[@HaleyBug221]

I jumped it's raining so hard right now I was like oh damn it's the demons ☠️

[@CatherineEdwards-oz5vo]

I had the same reaction 😅

[@katharinabraum6431]

Why there is so much bad comments about her when HE is in his 60's on a dating app in a very poor country looking to date a girl thats barely legal to date yet?!?! He is a creeper! I feel so sorry for the girl, i doubt how much choice she in reality has. Too much power difference plus a whole family waiting for her paycheck to arrive. 😢

[@devinxoxo8350]

Exactly, these dynamics are inherently predatory, they literally are seeking out much younger women that feel they have little to no prospects in their home country that would be desperate enough to leave and be reliant on them as they likely don’t have friends or family in the areas where they’re moving to be with these older men. These relationships are also ripe for abuse because the women do not know what legal protections they have and can be led to enter arrangements where they are not benefiting purely for the chance of citizenship. They are often too scared to contact the police when abuse does occur because they are afraid of being deported. They are literally trying to trade something they didn’t work for themselves and were born into (citizenship) for free companionship and caretakers as they are so old and then act like the women are entitled and greedy for agreeing so they can have a chance at a better life.

[@janetheard4357]

Exactly

[@catherinelyon2181]

The woman arnt innocent either they do it to get out of their country

[@honestyisadyingvirtue]

Barely legal? 😂😂 she's almost 30,.she's almost at an age for geriatric pregnancy. The way y'all love to infantilize women, yet somehow they're still strong, independent women at 18 to make their own OF, is just sad. She knows what the flip she's doing. The chances of him actually loving her are a lot higher than or her actually loving him. Poor doesn't excuse using someone. The excuses made for women are hilarious, but of course blame the man when the women decides if their is a relationship at all SMDH 😂😂😂 and frankly what comments are you talking about? I've seen probably one calling her out alone but most are either their cute or calling them both out. Let me guess...no one can speak ill of any woman because woman=good and man=bad?

[@katharinabraum6431]

@@honestyisadyingvirtue her age was not almost 30 when they met... this is what i was talking about 😉. She was 21 he somewhere in his 60's. So at 60+ he puts his age range on the app for girls at 21.... (or under we dont know) in a very poor country. You can have your opinion but mine is, that guy was looking for something young with low financial changes. So taking advantage of poverty in a bad way.

[@victoriam4656]

“David just isn’t her type” has me creasing 😂😂

[@briancain9486]

What’s creasing?

[@wotintheworld]

Love that word, so descriptive of that image. As much as I love wigging out (freaking out).

[@nathangaspacio6128]

@@briancain9486 laughing very hard. it refers to the fact that when you're laughing hard, your skin on your face creases.

[@HeartbeatCN]

Arthur, she is not putting him in a home even if he goes senile. That's the advantage of western men dating young women from Asia. Our cultures are very accommodating of elders. We don't send our own parents to homes let alone our spouse. So pretty much if it works out, you get a partner and caregiver in one.

[@jinxedreviews]

Someone I went to school with is going out with a 64 year old and she's 20. People say it's not wrong and then I watch these and I'm so glad people agree it's wrong

[@lanigirl01]

I know a 30 yr old that was w a 75 yr old. It was gross to me.

[@Heyheyhaleyd]

I don’t care if it’s legal, you shouldn’t date someone 20 years older than you until your like 40. It’s so weird for people to be attracted to others who were in diapers when they were graduating college.

[@nathangaspacio6128]

@@Heyheyhaleyd I think once people hit like 35 they can go crazy, but anything below that, especially 25 or lower, its inherently predatory.

[@drunkenwench]

“When he spunks it’ll be dust” - priceless 😂😂😂

[@patriciawagaa6735]

Nooooo 😂😂😂

[@LilySaintSin]

His man milk comes in powered form.

[@megypops2002]

YAYYYYYYYYYY ARTHUR AND CAM!!!!!!!!!

[@ZsiZsiSzabad]

I think this is a mutually beneficial, transactional relationship. He gets a young, hot wife for his remaining years, and she gets to walk away from this a wealthy widow with a green card. Win/Win.

[@urlocaldevilbaby4797]

ok but that man looks far older than 70 😭 holy hell

[@hyacinthmoon6289]

Right?! He looks annnncient!

[@Elle-xf8mw]

EXACTLY, i have several 70 to 80 years old in my family and all of them look way much younger than this corps

[@michelslaura]

He looks like the crypt keeper !!

[@that.ll_do_pig]

So do I and they all look the same as him. Genetics and lifestyle dictate that. 💁‍♀️​@@Elle-xf8mw

[@lijo4518]

He looks very fragile 😳

[@bydandtom9109]

both seem super sweet, even if it is transactional, they're both clearly happy with how its going, i agree you do you haha

[@tomefira]

So good to have Cam on the channel

[@tshepison8907]

He seems really slimey, no way a man that old is normally just looking for 21 year olds. If she is a gold digger than this is a mutually transactional relationship and they deserve each other

[@hollyshinn1274]

I like that she is working to financially help her family. He isn't having to support them too.

[@dimaayman496]

No cause as soon as I heard his voice I was like omg he sounds like Herbert I really hope they mention it AND ARTHUR DID LMAOOO YES

[@elenabloksberg212]

This man is so cute, i can't tell but i do really hope she genuinely likes him ❤ and even if she doesnt, i dont think he would care because hes that old, he knows this is the best thing he could get, hes already experienced love let him experience joy

[@johnking5174]

A Saturday lunchtime video Arthur, wow! Wasn't expecting this. Thank you!

[@WyldFyreFli]

You know some transactional relationships are way less toxic than those built on emotions ya know? Like they seem like they would barely fight because they both know what they're putting in and putting out.

[@Djm8520]

No Arthur! Wrong! There is no U.S. divorce law. Divorce is a state matter and each state has different laws. In fact, there are only 9 states with 50/50 Community Property Laws. But, that only applies to assets acquired DURING the marriage.

[@ZazooEel57]

That is not entirely true, but it's a long topic and not really fully interesting unless it concerns you directly.

[@Djm8520]

@@ZazooEel57 Wrong! It’s ENTIRELY true AND factual!

[@Aliceecila2121]

Arthur you are insanely attractive Nothing else just wanted to let u know

[@jenn8179]

His smile! He has those eyes that smile. I love him! From afar...not in like a stalker way 😂😂😂❤

[@idxee]

Commenting for engagement

[@hyacinthmoon6289]

Cam’s the one that gets me 😫

[@desolate2]

​@@jenn8179The "from afar" def sounded like you were hiding in the bushes though.

[@Georgiagupsx]

YAY THIS DUO IS BACKK 🎉🎉

[@elevatorface]

You two are a riot! XD Such a great duo. Thanks for linking this in your latest main channel vid cos I keep forgetting to check here even tho I'm subbed.

[@idkwhattocallmyacc]

YESS YOU AND CAM BACK TOGETHER!!

[@grm47]

One of your "three subscribers from Slough" here loving Slough slander midway through🔥🔥🔥

[@TheeEnglishKnight]

When are we getting the farm vlog with isaac and george 👀

[@Arthur_Frederick]

probably next week’s video, maybe thursday!

[@rosiedollface]

"Old people's home and she's a carer..." hahah, accurate !!

[@PingSpoofer]

CAM KIRKHAM ON ARTHUR TV REACTS 💯🗣🗣

[@turnoffthetv]

If they're happy, let them be, even if it's transactional. The fact she's stayed so long is telling.

[@stefanimorgan5728]

audibly screamed when I saw Cam in the thumbnail :D

[@MM-ng8lj]

Just found this other Arthur channel, have some binge watching to do 😊

[@ViralCog]

I have seen this a lot in Canada. We get lots of patients who are 80 or 70 or 90 , married to young Filipino women. Many of these women can’t even communicate with their husbands or partners properly because of lack of language or the partner is too old. Filipinos are a massive population here in Canada, they will do anything and everything to get to uk or us or Canada. So many nurses are Filipinos. Some are nice people, majority are materialistic people, focused only on gaining things and materials and money. It’s something to do with the history of that country and how people had to live and survive there.

[@Emma-zm7zb]

That's dumb. I've had 2 philipino nannies, both were the sweetest people I've ever met. I met their families too. All were super amazing. They are still like family to me 10 years later

[@ViralCog]

@Emma-zm7zb Didn't I say some are nice people! I work as a registered nurse and majority of nurses here are Filipinos. I'm speaking from experience with colleagues, patients, neighbors etc. Of course your nannies are going to be nice to you. You pay them. Also, who is talking about niceness here ? I'm talking about how people from there will find ways to survive and come to western countries. There is nothing wrong with that. The poverty and history of that country is what makes people from there yearn for more materialism.

[@neverBMX]

14:45 nah mate, too much sun the point where it's barely 8am and the sunlight already hurts like hell and we've reached 40° as well

[@sophiefrost]

I love this collaboration. Nice banter!

[@dianam.2211]

Actually I AM watching this from a sunny country love being Portuguese 🙏🏼

[@traceyarnaud8433]

His dancing made me think of his bedroom moves so now I’ll have nightmares

[@ezraastoreth6625]

I'm sure she does enjoy his company, but let's not pretend this isn't transactional which is fine as long as they're both aware and consenting yk

[@kiriminari]

Wouldn't be surprised if this is some kind of companionship (he gets a companion & a helper, she gets a better life) pushed by the production team to look like a loving couple.

[@sunnynsydney4705]

Reminds me of Ana Nicole smith…

[@zoearsenault902]

My two favorite youtubers, together once again 😭

[@ZsiZsiSzabad]

“When he spunks it would be dust “ 😂 I think a little flag pops out with the word “Bang” written on it

[@Mewrionette]

"mid pandemic and she takes off the mask like 'i hope j bring this back'" is WILD

[@TyloduPlessis]

Watching from Puerto Rico🇵🇷

[@Elle-xf8mw]

that is NOT 70 years old!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IMPOSSIBLE. he is in his 90s

[@BigSisterNeko]

I agree

[@eleanorlevitt543]

As someone from slough you are right in everything you said everyone hates it there and we all leave the first chance we get

[@alicehodder6131]

Not me sitting here watching this in Slough

[@BigAlexgator]

7:45 honestly about the using an American for green card thing, people who are immigrants work harder than people who are here they like give to the economy a lot. They’re hard-working people. If you’re gonna date somebody that old and go through that, I don’t blame you. You deserve everything you get for it like everything good

[@kingofravens215]

I was expecting it to be really gross but honestly they seem pretty wholesome imo

[@AmazonEspionage]

All of your British jargon just tickles me!

[@shysky5561]

I was about to watch Cam's vid so this is a perfect timing, love it

[@yoghurtmoo9342]

13:28 scared the shit outta me lol 💀

[@envymordecai4429]

They might not be *in* love, but you can tell they absolutely have love for each other.

[@Stella-n-Luna]

In 1969 my parents met in Italy where my mother was born, my dad was 13 years older than her, already had full custody of his 5 children from his first wife, and owned a restaurant back in the US…they were married not even 2 months later! I was born in 1982, my daddy died in 1991, but my mom has never even remarried. She never loved another man since he passed way either. Crazy how arranged marriages were somehow better and lasted longer than the marriages of today

[@shaneedaniel5125]

When he first kissed her look at how far back she went. When you love someone you lean forward.

[@zoobzie9362]

Babe! New Arthur vid just dropped! 🎉

[@AmyMcstravick]

The best duo!! ❤

[@barracuda9736]

Say whatever you want, that's not love. You can try pull the veil over your eyes, but the truth is this is revolting. Both of them should be ashamed of themselves.

[@casey4290]

This couple actually makes me feel uncomfortable just something about David gives me the creeps and I just wanna rescue Jackie 😅

[@HeartbeatCN]

Lol at the several references to the Philippines 😂. Watching from said sunny country, problem it isn't just sunny, it's boiling hot. I wouldn't mind a vacation in Sloan or whatever. 😂

[@michellemorningstar6610]

Even google maps pronounces Slough as sluff 😂

[@TheBreechie]

When it’s referring to the skin, it is correctly pronounced as sluff… When describing wetlands it’s generally slew for Americans and slow for British speakers….

[@michellemorningstar6610]

@@TheBreechie Thanks, what's that got to do with a town in the south east that's isn't pronounced like any of them?

[@TheBreechie]

@@michellemorningstar6610reading comprehension not your thing huh? Nevermind then

[@michellemorningstar6610]

@@TheBreechie you didn't have to be rude . I have read and understood but you're comment seems unrelated. You gave me pronunciations for words that arnt in the op . I'm trying to decipher why?

[@TheBreechie]

@@michellemorningstar6610I take it you have zero capacity to self reflect or consider your own behaviour….. You’re calling me rude after your original comment 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@jaybird7915]

To be fair, they’re certainly both getting something out of this relationship.

[@bitacrumpet]

This is a great team up!

[@whoishayleyjanesmith]

MISSED THIS DUO!! MY BOYYYYYS

[@gabrieltate9455]

13:28 nearly shit myself thought there was someone in my walls

[@folddealfeal2740]

Woah 😮. That sentence is wild, the way im reading it

[@TrumpOneB]

I agree. I am from a sunny hot place and move with my fiancé to a dirty, smelly, cloudy city. I appreciate a lot more where I came from and hope to move back to retire in homeland.

[@traceyarnaud8433]

Sorry but I’m 66 and I wouldn’t touch him with a ten foot pole (and vice versa!) To me he seems much older and sounds older than 70.

[@michelslaura]

Yeah he looks closer to 90 ...

[@CyanSandwich]

13:28 I actually got up and opened my door

[@MrMattMohler]

He must have used the word "lit" in a Facebook post, young chick's love it when we older guys say "lit", it's FIRE AF...

[@kH_Ld13]

i can see this from both sides as my parents have a 27 year age gap and have been married for 22 years. my dad turns 74 this coming tuesday and my mum 46 in june and they met in china while my dad was on a work trip. they tell me and my sister stories of how everything happened and my mum regularly reminds me of the fact that i’d never be able to find a man like him as he is genuinely amazing and my dad was the one who organised her and her family to come to the uk. so with that i do think that age gaps really don’t matter and doesn’t effect anything i only say this as in my mums wedding vows she says that she has given 10 years of life to my dad which i think is so sweet but yh loved the vid guys!!

[@Lily-ok9lp]

I don’t know if you’re aware, your father sounds vile, that is the pattern of white sex tourists in Asia- I think the comment was supposed to be in support of him but any grown man finding their wives in a barely adult girl is disgusting. Wild.

[@vic_whitaker]

Have you seen there's a new programme starting on Channel 4, called The Nevermets? It definitely has 90 Day vibes about it.

[@gabsonmars]

I found them sweet, they both seem respectful towards each other

[@thirstaefortae5057]

I’m watching this from a sunny place and while I want to be appreciative, temperatures have hit 40°C and even 50°C in neighbouring countries 🔥🔥🔥 I saw a Doraemon being used in a ritual in Thailand to bring rain and it actually worked lol

[@Alice__Rose]

Even if it's a transactional relationship, it's not just her benefiting. He gets a youthful, beautiful woman to look after him, be his companion etc. I'm sure he's well aware of the risks.

[@rosiedollface]

The 'Herbert from Family Guy' is such a shout too haha !!

[@Parakaruthi]

Love these reaction videos!! Keep em coming Arthur

[@oliverse_crazy930]

14:41 I'm from texas and it's not great when the sun is out which is all the time

[@soshuldistansingh2629]

Oh god, David met her when he was mid 60s and she was 22, that's utterly gross. He is decrepit.

[@annadavey6117]

You guys are the best duo! My tummy hurts so much from laughing 😂

[@madelinegreen3506]

No better way to end the night than with an Arthur video

[@user-wm9qt6sq3s]

That knock scared the life out of me😭

[@jimpenney1898]

That door knock got me. 13:27

[@deevillarreal9475]

❤ anything where people are honest polite even good roommates he isn't alone that's a plus

[@MyNameHere101]

6:58 her eyes are looking at 10 different directions at once.

[@wumbology6072]

Maybe not for a greencard but his life insurance might be it 😂

[@shethingsd]

Maybe both

[@Cheznrice]

Watching from Hawaii, aloha! It's been non stop raining for 4 days 😑

[@RKELS69]

What show is this I have to see it😂😂 thank you ARTHUR

[@Arthur_Frederick]

It’s called Love Don’t Judge!

[@idkwhattocallmyacc]

NEW ARTHUR FREDERICK VIDEO DROPPED‼️‼️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥

[@tiggercampbell6198]

my buddy connected with a Filipino girl and she said all the right things..sent him love letters..he sent her money ..jewelry..for a year..and she talked about marriage with him..after a year she told my friend she was getting married..and that she could introduce him to her niece..wth! this game happens with all nations..I was just so sad when he found out..he was heartbroken..just another sweet guy who got played..this was in 1989.

[@dwynapotter6121]

I just love watching you boys. You are both a great comic relief to us all. 🤣🤣😂😂I am not laughing at the couple…lol🤣🤣🤣🤣I am laughing so hard that I am crying😜🤣🤣🤣😂😂

[@loosemoosegoose]

my grandfather married a woman half my mother's age. my mother is his youngest child. his wife is closer to my age, and I'm her husband's granddaughter. she is roughly half my mother's age, and I was born when she was 30, and my grandfather was 60. His wife would've been like 10. I don't know what she was up to, but he was well into at least his 60s when he met her, and she was in her early 20s at least. I don't think I want to know what he was up to.

[@Jenniferlynn6504]

The "bullshit" right out of the gate had me 😂

[@Jschof2029]

19:11 we don't have a single picture of my mum in the house and my dad's re-married (after her passing tho)

[@Louca-pv9ne]

3:22 there is, its called grindr.

[@stephiechefy]

Not now, sir. The sun is screaming.