I think it’s important for them to control the narrative of what happened to their mother. The tabloid press would have torn her apart otherwise. I’m so sorry for their profound loss and I understand completely where their mother was mentally. We need to talk more about mental health and suicide and they’re very brave to speak about this.
@JeannieMitchellMyers2 жыл бұрын
I agree, our media and tabloids have done some MAJOR damage lately!
@ljwilliams7552 жыл бұрын
you said it perfectly. My heart breaks for them.
@eyemnew29912 жыл бұрын
How come no one is this upset about the recent death of Mickey Gilley ?
@DivineInspirationsClothing2 жыл бұрын
@@eyemnew2991 Hadn't heard yet about the passing of Mickey Gilley 😪
@eyemnew29912 жыл бұрын
@@DivineInspirationsClothing Mickey Gilley passed away May 7th 2022
@ellamaeloftus34932 жыл бұрын
My highest regard to Ashley for controlling the narrative of her mother’s passing. An example of demonstrating love and respect to her mother.
@cindyjones82842 жыл бұрын
No one should question what they choose to say. This is their mother that they did everything they could to help her. They need to do what they feel and I hope they find some peace knowing she loved them so much.💞
@Angelonly2 жыл бұрын
❤💙❤
@tracybosworth10332 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!! ❤️💔❤️💔
@rosettascott85492 жыл бұрын
Absolutely true 💯
@debbiebeatty69222 жыл бұрын
So true.
@jeannex45832 жыл бұрын
I lost my husband to suicide. It was a good decision for them to talk about this honestly and as openly as they chose to do. It takes away from the stigma that those who don't understand that this is a disease of the mind attach to suicide and the unfair judgments made about those with a mental illness or who made an impulsive decision because of a crisis they were feeling. It is helpful to talk about it, so that more can be understood about it, and so that those who are struggling are not afraid to seek help. From my own experience, it will also lighten the load of the survivors . . . the more you talk about it, the more it helps a survivor process what happened and get support. Naomi's suffering is over, but now the family will have a difficult time. But there are support groups that greatly helped me and so will their faith. I really feel for them. From my own experience, unless you actually have gone through this kind of traumatic loss, you cannot imagine the depth of the grief and all the emotions that go along with this. I wish them continued healing and peace in the coming weeks and months.
@wesmcgee16482 жыл бұрын
Lovingly said. Lost a brother that way 8 years ago. Thank you so much.
@brendacook92772 жыл бұрын
Well said
@talapeanutbutter42502 жыл бұрын
The sad part is, many people feel like it’s such a private thing. That no one will understand, that they’ll think it’s crazy. I’m a depressed person and I’m in a good place now. But I’m a retired teacher. Had parents known, how would that have taken it? Perhaps think I’d bring a gun in and kill? Especially in this day and age where people do harm others. There’s so many facets to mental illness. I’m so sorry for your loss of your husband. I’ve been married 38 years and my hubby has told me if it gets bad, he’ll go outside under a tree and commit suicide. I pray so often that he won’t.
@beverlymitchell2342 жыл бұрын
Wow, I show gratitude for your vulnerability in sharing that. I send you so much love and light and healing. I have not gone through it personally but I have a very close childhood friend that went through this twice, with her father and then her mother several years later. It changed them beyond depths you can see. I could not fathom. I have loved ones that suffer from mental health issues, as well as myself. So I know that part of it. Begging someone to stay when they just don’t want to be here. It’s gut wrenching and indescribable, that pain. I pray for you, and your family, as well. That you continue to find peace in your heart. And know that your husband is right there by your side every step of the way. And I KNOW he’s sitting in the Lords arm, pain free now. In perfect health. It’s just an unimaginable pain. I worked with dispatch for several months until I received a call from a wife, a grandmother. Her husband was outside with his gun. The screams that came from her soul…..needless to say, I am not in that line of work anymore. Those are screams I’ll never forget. For as long as I live. Her grandson was there that day. I pray for them often. That is all I can say. As for the Judd family, I pray peace upon their hearts. Again, I can not imagine what they are going through. I commend Ashley for getting up there and speaking about this. There is such a stigma, even as far as we’ve come. Yet, it seems to be something people want to tiptoe around. I innerstand wanting to respect their privacy, however, I can’t help but feel that the reason for tiptoeing around the conversation is bc people almost feel embarrassed for them. When it’s nothing to be embarrassed about. No one can EVER EVER EVER really truly innerstand a persons pain when they get to that point. No one can ever fully comprehend unless you’ve gone thru it personally or you walk a mile in their shoes. When the soul is tired, it’s just simply tired. But I have full faith is knowing, her mom sits with the Lord, he has forgiven her, and I pray that they have, too. And can fully process all the emotions and effects this has had on them. They do not deserve to live in pain or shame, that’s projected on them by the ones that have no INNER standing Of what they are going through. For you all and anyone that has traveled this world, just remember, we inherited this World, imperfections and all. We inherited all of the good and the bad. While we may not be where we want to be and far from it, take a moment out of your day, each day, and pray for all of those that are dealing with pain. Take a moment to just pray for them, for peace and inner standing. Everyday when you go out into the world, have compassion and empathy for your brothers and sisters. Even just a kind word or an action of love could change a persons whole day, or life. That act of humanity could re-ignite a fire within them. When you see a person down, ask what you can do in that moment for them or just pray. God will always give you the discernment to know. And, just like I do everyday, I’m continuing to pray for everyone, that we heal the world and all it’s diseases and illnesses one day at a time. I’d love to leave this Earth better than I found it, for my/our children, grandchildren, great grandchildren and all the rest down the line.🌍💛🙏🏽
@juliemarshall74582 жыл бұрын
Jeanne X, I'm so sorry for your loss, and your transparency is greatly appreciated. Sending love, support, understanding, and prayers for comfort to you and your loved ones. Also sending the same to the sweet Judd family, in this time of profound sadness. You are not alone.
@Smurfyis7302 жыл бұрын
Sadly I can relate to this, only I was 9 years old when my mother took her life. It took 30 years for me to finally forgive myself because I blamed myself for not being old enough to realize what type of state she was in that night. I kissed her good night and went to bed, only to be woken up by police. It's so heartbreaking and it leaves the loved ones behind with guilt. I am finally at peace and I’m finally openly speaking about it. My heart goes out to her loved ones.
@loveinthematrix2 жыл бұрын
❤️
@Smurfyis7302 жыл бұрын
@Trudy * thank you so much for your kind words. It helps my heart tremendously.
@Shann21122 жыл бұрын
🙏🏻😘
@evie78452 жыл бұрын
I am so very sorry!!!
@stephenfiore99602 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing. God Bless you
@tishw45762 жыл бұрын
The family did the right thing. They took the "power" away from anyone else releasing it in a salacious way. By drawing a privacy line and saying clearly they were going to ensure their mums passing and memory is handled with dignity is wonderful. Naomi was a true lady and deserves to continue to be treated as such.
@mrwaterschoot56172 жыл бұрын
not that i want to discount the demons of mental illness the country storyteller tom t. hall took his life months ago. he took his own life because he felt left alone. i believe that he walked to a favorite spot in the desert and used a firearm to end his life to join his wife in life after earth. his son had to find his father doa (dead on arrival for processing of a autopsy. i do not discount these two transitions of life. i can only think of one harder to fathom and that is my friend jorke . he had 5 boys and one daughter. some of the boys had broken marriages. his daughter had one frog husband then she found the catch of a life time. she found her prince charm in a polish american named after a fellow like stanley tool or the makers of sweet hart hinges of stanley tool. stan had a load of freight due in new britain . he had to wait overnight for an unload slot saturday morning. he was 25 miles away from home base in manchester he and his life partner had 4 year old twins a his and hers set . a daughter who clings to her mom who wanted to be a domestic with kids and a dog and a loving husband. jorhe called his daughter meaner than a junk yard dog because she was the only estrogen between 5 brothers and their testosterone. poor stan so close to home yet so far away. i do not know enough to help and at the time i was dealing with medical induced depression. stan went to heaven overnight. since time passed his donatable
@deniserichardson6302 жыл бұрын
You said a very important thing there “they took the power away” from anyone wanting to make a buck off her pain. The scum suckers don’t care about anyone’s pain just as long as they get money off it.
@DReid-ry9ff2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@christineperez75622 жыл бұрын
Not really because the ugly rumor mill will still start
@mrwaterschoot56172 жыл бұрын
it is hard to say some right about suicide. i followed the sudden or maybe a not so sudden death of a WWII POW of the battle of bulge infantry man edward carpe. i think that i heard of his passing from my dad. if i remember correctly mr carpe went to his basement to put himself out of the misery of non curable lung cancer and to spare his life partner mrs jane crossen - carpe the challenge of caring for him. eddie as he like to be called. took.a hunting rifle and rammed it to the roof of his mouth and he would be gone. but because he was so close to the end of the rifle it misfired and it messed up his face. he was in the hospital. and died 2 days later. i guess i might have understood that his mortal body was at peace. i took the responsibility of how to notify his nephew stanley carpe the son of joe carpe a co-worker in the travelers data center that his uncle left planet earth. my choice words were that his uncle eddie had an accident with a hunting rifle and was dead. funeral services to be determined and in the newspaper. that was best solution that i could come up with at the time. one more true story. my spiritual leader pastor/reverend david Christenson of berlin congregational church in berlin connecticut. a church member and veteran of WWII a seaman or pilot. mr snow contracted a terminal illness and he used his pistol to take his own life because he did not want to be a burden to his wife millie. pastor david was at the house in the room where mr snow took his life. there was blood everywhere. there were pros(professional cleaners of blood spills mike rowe of dirty jobs fame on the discovery channel did a story on one blood cleaner) sorry for that long winded tangent. it was critical to return the home to condition that millie could stay home. and of course everything thing was in the middle of the night and appropriate funeral arrangements that might have been in the hands of pastor christensen. my memories dredged up charley snow. and he was in the navy and his hobby of model building helped build a navy vessel that he sailed on. his game room had navy pictures and mr snow liked piloting a small passenger plane. he had a coal and wood fired stove. millie had the dilemma. what to do with the anthrocite coal for the stove. i had the blessing to say i could help. the coal was in the basement hatch way. i shoveled the coal into 5 gallon buckets and gave it to ronnie dunham to add to his metallurgical stuff. coal was used in heating/ melting metal ores for smelting. spare me on other event of death. my good mechanic cigar smoking farmer begin. george begin. his had to deal with a tragic events. his youngest son darreyl had a busy night of heavy drinking and in a drunken stuper put a loaded pistola and pulled the trigger and the shot heard in the neighborhood. and certainly 3 doors down at mom and dad. george begin must have heard the shot and probably was called by his daughter in law miss shara chapman-begin and she heard something bad happened. i suspect that darryl was still alive. i know george went over to see if he could help. i suspect the he was crying while his youngest or next youngest son was dying in his lap. adding insult to injury the police had to do thier sworn duty to gather evidence but had for the moment to threat it as a domestic disturb a father and son had a disagreement add a gun was pulled and a gun was pulled and the son suffered a gun shot wound that will be fatal soon. i feel sorry for george he is a farmer spirit that only raised vegetables george loved growing vegetables in home gardens butnhis pride and joy was raising acres of carrots on a farm. george probably could no hurt a fly. but he raised exotic fish and he knows a lot of animals. his only daughter his own junk yard dog as he called her because she was the only girl between 5 boys. his girl had an Alaskan malamute white hair puppy dog. that stuck like glue the girl and george treated the dog as one of his children. when the dog needed a friend it was the master or the masters parents. malamute loved her surrogate parents but for me i was an interloper and had to be like a junk yard dog at meet until someone from the family said shout up why are you marking at me. i am friendly enough. it might have been a female dog whose duty was to keep the family safe she had to bark after me even if i was friend of the family i hate to see what she would deal with a true intruder. it would not surprise me that they would be mincemeat. there is a nice picture of george with his faithful friend of malamute. george is scratching the ear of the grown dog like a puppy in puppy that she is in his hands. george i know that you are a true mentor teacher father figure that replaced my own father who disowned me for buying a piece of equipment built in a communist block country a belarus 525. to days replacement has a tractor of india a mahindra a tym team of tractors neat lawn and garden tractor with belly mower. small front end loader and back hoe to replace the wheel horse tractor that we bought jointly in 1976. you 2/3 and mom was half of your share. i had the last share. i have do some work to bring the belarus 525 back to the glory that it had when it was running good or replace it with a ytm tractor with same horse power.sronger loader front end. rops (rollover protection in the form of a an enclosed cab with heat and cooling comfort safety features. ..... over 30 years years of my ownership vs the 20 years of your and moms ownership. though combined almost 53 years that it has been in the dynasty of waterschoot mom and dad. it now can generate money to cover taxes. it is so profitable one neighbor thinks he owns my land because i had health issues but he harvested trees from the middle of my property.he destroyed historic sites with his son" s monster yellow imported bulldozer firmly on my land per google earth photo all with out my permission. if he can prove my land is his. the state of vermont may assess him development fees of my land under his hands. if it is my land he will pay timber trespass fees and other penalties. and my paid forester will be charge for timber fraud and land use penalties and other messes he did a similar stunt in new hampshire where he shorted a land owner of funds. he pleaded guilty and go lucky and only had to repay the landowner. now that i know where to look i will take him to court for damages he has done to me. fake billings for unnecessary work and mismanagement of timber sales. he is known crook who drafted poor management plans so he could make top dollar profit at the expense of my family's interests over 40 years. i better figure it out soon. he wants to retire and sell the business with a ton of unpaid liabilities that have not hit the books ...... sorry for another tangent let me calm down and return later.
@timstrickland44232 жыл бұрын
I love Ashley, what a hard thing to tell the world about how your mother took her life. My deepest sympathy to her and all of her family.
@blindsidedbylife1432 жыл бұрын
I know I do too she's amazingly strong. I as well want to give my deepest sympathy to her and her family
@paddyholly21842 жыл бұрын
@@blindsidedbylife143 I loathe those tabloids AND the people who read them. Same type of people who watch and Believe Fox Propaganda. Salacious Gossip is EVIL. R.I.P. Dear Naomi. And many heart 💕 hugs to her family and friends. 💖
@teresawilliams50982 жыл бұрын
I appreciate her family sharing with us. I can’t even imagine the sadness and disbelief her families going thru because her fans loved her and have a feeling of this too. We will remember her as a beautiful, caring and talented lady.
@austinhowland300gmail.2 жыл бұрын
Hello Teresa how are you doing today
@mariannemarek66832 жыл бұрын
It only shows what great love, courage and Faith they have as a family. May the Merciful Jesus grant her eternal rest and peace and the family the grace and mercy to follow Him in this journey. They are a credit to their Mom and are helping others by sharing this story. God Bless them all.
@debbikaplan12552 жыл бұрын
So sad. The family has every right to deal with this loss however they want. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family☮️💙
@egreene592 жыл бұрын
As someone who has personally been affected by the suicide of a loved one also brought on by mental illness, I understand how painful and difficult it was for Ashley to make that statement publicly. It's a type of pain that never entirely leaves you for the rest of your life. My heart and prayers go out to her, her sister the rest of their family.
@TheKatherine19582 жыл бұрын
I think that whatever Larry, Wy, and Ashley decide to do is right and appropriate. This way it takes away the gossip & speculation and puts the focus on just how devastating depression can be. God Bless them & their family during this sad, sad time.
@BelindaTN2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Very well said.
@eyemnew29912 жыл бұрын
If I ever did that.. I would want people to know how I did it and what method I did it, Instead of all the guessing, the speculations, the rumors, the gossips, the wonderings. All that's mental to
@Horm9992 жыл бұрын
The pain of their loss has to be immense. The fact that they have spoken at all and are doing it with such dignity and respect for their mother is amazing. What a tragic loss for the family! I like the way they phrased as “the disease of mental illness” that’s exactly what it is. People don’t choose this path, sadly it chooses you!
@maryshaw7372 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your beautiful reply! As a person who has been hospitalized three different times, I so agree with your response. Blessings for us all!
@beverlywatkins87112 жыл бұрын
Yes. It chooses a person.
@shannonm752 жыл бұрын
Definitely true. It's no different than cancer or some other disease and some end their lives for these things. Both my grandfather and uncle died from suicide due to physical illness, to which they were distressed and in pain.
@glenclarkchidley36372 жыл бұрын
Boatloads of money, access to the best health care… How are the rest of supposed to cope? Sad
@jeaneneenglish23212 жыл бұрын
I BELIEVE that NAOMI was so very BRAVE to try and work at controlling this disease of Mental Health. This will of course, I HOPE & PRAY that other people who see it as something we should be able to suck it up, move on, don't dwell on the past, YOU don't need medication?? ,Will see that, NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE IN THIS WORLD, HOW RICH, FAMOUS, SMART, GOODLOOKING &/or BEAUTIFUL IS WHAT MOST EVERYONE SEE'S, ON THE OUTSIDE. IT'S THE TURMOIL WITHIN THAT THEY CAN'T SEE or POSSIBLY KNOW HOW or WHAT PEOPLE ARE DEALING WITH. WHAT MIGHT BE BS TO SOME, COULD BE THE ONE THING THAT OTHER'S ARE PARALYZED WITH or BY. THIS MOST MAGNIFICENT WOMAN, NAOMI HAS CRIED OUT, YET HER PAIN WAS JUST SO VERY MUCH MORE THAN SHE COULD BARE. I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT SHE MEANT AT ONE OF HER LAST INTERVIEW'S WHERE SHE WAS ASKED ABOUT, IF THERE WERE ANYTHING YOU WANTED TO SAY TO PEOPLE, TO YOUR FAN'S, FAMILY ETC., WHAT WOULD THAT BE?? SHE SAT THERE FOR A QUITE MOMENT, TRUING TO PUT IT IN NO UNCERTAIN TERMS THAT, WE SHOULD ALL STOP JUDGING EACH OTHER, BECAUSE WE DON'T KNOW WHAT OTHER'S ARE HAVING TO DEAL WITH ON A DAILY BASIS. SO, PLEASE SHE SAID, JUST BE A SUPPORTING ROLE OR AN EAR FOR SOMEONE TO TALK TO. BECAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT YOUR WORD'S CAN DO TO OTHER'S THAT HAVE BEEN STRUGGLING TO LIVE ON, BUT ARE LOST IN THIS DISEASE OF MENTAL HEALTH. IT CAN CRIPPLE EVEN THE STRONGEST OF PEOPLE, AND SHE SAID, TRY COMFORTING A PERSON WHO MAY BE HAVING A BAD DAY, YEAR, MOMENT, BUT JUST LOVE THEM . PLEASE DON'T JUDGE OTHER'S. AMEN, NAOMI, REST IN THE ARM'S OF OUR LORD & SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST, YOU ARE TRANSFORMED WITH PEACE OF MIND & NO FEAR WILL EVER COME AGAINST YOU IN GOD'S GRACE AND PRECIOUS PEACE!! R.I.P. YOU SHALL BE SO VERY MISSED.😭💔♊💋❤️🤟☮️
@catcar82122 жыл бұрын
This family has always presented themselves with grace. Even now, under the most difficult conditions, they are choosing how to proceed. This is their family, their tragedy, and there is nothing to question here. This public message was delivered with courage and grace and love.🌷💐🌷
@corky-lane46712 жыл бұрын
They are brave to share this so others can cope with loss as theirs. Thank you and May God comfort ALL who grieve from the effects from this disease and May the souls of the faithful departed through the mercy of GOD Rest In Peace.Amen.
@tinakeeling13542 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ashley for sharing of what really took your mother's life, rather hear it from the family than the gossip on Facebook or anyone else. Y'all are in my thoughts and prayers and great big hugs go out to you and the family 🤗😘
@lyndalikeslace5672 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad to see the nature of Naomi’s passing, not being swept under the rug. The only way to help others understand this insidious disease is to bring it out into the open, and not treat it like it’s a dirty little secret. Thank you Ashley for being so brave.
@susanmcintyre53772 жыл бұрын
It’s not a dirty little secret, but it is a private matter. It’s no one else’s business. Even her family can only speculate.
@Triumph-nz8pt2 жыл бұрын
@@susanmcintyre5377 Being through this myself, I guarantee you that 'Mom' wrote a letter either as a whole, or to each person that mattered to her, individually. They don't have to speculate on anything. As far as I am concerned this is enough information other than telling people to please let anyone know if you are feeling suicidal. It can be, but doesn't have to be, the hotline. Pls pls, we at least have to bring this out so people know where and how to help themselves. Paparazzi speculation is the worst, so I get this, but no more please, that's enough.
@lyndalikeslace5672 жыл бұрын
@@susanmcintyre5377 I was stating that society treats suicide like a dirty little secret. Not the Judd’s.
@VintageVegans2 жыл бұрын
You’re so glad?????
@rnr56822 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@BelindaTN2 жыл бұрын
Yes. They did the right thing. For the reasons that Ashley gave. And I believe Naomi would have wanted them to tell her final story. Naomi spoke publicly about her struggles with depression and the times that she considered suicide. She was a spokesperson for the mental illness of depression. So I believe she would have wanted her family to tell the ending of the story of that part of her life and how very serious of an illness that clinical depression is. And yes. I have had 2 relatives and a couple of friends that have done this and in the same way that Naomi did. It is beyond awful what this does to those that love them. My prayers for Naomi’s family. 😥🙏🏻 I cannot imagine what Ashley went through going back in that house and finding her. I pray she can pull through this. I believe I read where she also struggles with depression.
@lorimendenhall4112 жыл бұрын
Its none of our business rember here from.video .i had dream of here i saw noami in my dream shecsaid byevto me
@eyemnew29912 жыл бұрын
@@lorimendenhall411 It is our business. It becomes all of our business when it goes worldwide.
@PK-bh1ww2 жыл бұрын
@@lorimendenhall411 Ashley didn't tell us so we would know.. She told us so al the ugly rumors and comments wouldn't grow into monstrocities which can be painful for family memebers left behind. And you must have felt it was your business because you tuned in even tho you didn't have to..
@donnawoodford66412 жыл бұрын
Naomi always seemed to be as honest as she could, and I think she would want us to be truthful as well.
@eyemnew29912 жыл бұрын
@@PK-bh1ww Ashley did tell us so we would know. I've been saying that all this time ever since the news hit the air. We know what she did What we didn't know is what method she used. People were coming up with all kinds of guesses, assumptions, speculations, wonderings, rumors, and every kind of thoughts.
@kathyharris37462 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Ashley, for being open and honest. My beautiful son, Chris, took his own life using a hand gun a little over a year and a half ago. We need to be able to say these things out loud so that it will help reduce the stigma, and hopefully help others.
@noracharles93662 жыл бұрын
Whoa, that's tragic Kathy... I am so very sorry. 💜 God bless and keep you and yours- And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:7 ESV ⚜️
@Myhiddentalents_642 жыл бұрын
how sad my condolences ❤
@corp.37692 жыл бұрын
So very sorry for your loss.🙏
@Ecclectic_Vibes2 жыл бұрын
I'm so very sorry!
@teenamalanga53422 жыл бұрын
I’m very sorry 💔
@evatoney64932 жыл бұрын
I lost my dad this way in March It's devastating and the hardest healing I've ever went through after a loss ...idk how on earth she is able to speak like this....I couldn't have . Bless thier hearts
@gypsytears17852 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss.. may strength & peace be with you
@schooldirector4542 жыл бұрын
Thank you @ashleyjudd for being so brave and for continuing to honor your mother Prayers of comfort, understanding, healing and peace 💐
@valdez32452 жыл бұрын
As a person who has gone through the tragic experience of a family member commitung suicide, my heart breaks for this family. It's tragic when a family member passes, but it's double the pain when you know they took their own life. RIP Naomi Judd.
@jrot49532 жыл бұрын
yes, i remember when my uncle passed i was there when the police came to tell my grandparents so heartbreaking. I cant even imagine my goodness Ashley
@dfattyadams1232 жыл бұрын
Blessings and healing to you.
@peggypasson87942 жыл бұрын
Amen
@2ndtonone192 жыл бұрын
I feel complicated pain!! They are at ease for once but I am hurting
@GreasyBaconMan2 жыл бұрын
The agony they m saddle experiencing is just unbearable.
@beasleyben91912 жыл бұрын
When they released the news, I knew she had committed suicide. Suffering from depression is horrible and adding anxiety to that is beyond horrible. Anxiety is the worse thing that you can ever imagine. Shedding light on depression and anxiety and being honest showing the world that it is not about money, having it or not. Its about the mind, the brain and illness. This was a very hard decision for them to make. In the end though I am sure it is a positive thing to bring more awareness of depression and anxiety and the effects both with the person suffering from it and those who love them. RIP Naomi. My deepest condolences to the family.. Sending them hugs and prayers.
@tinam7612 жыл бұрын
Yes, dying by suicide is painful for all.
@valueinyou99312 жыл бұрын
So true. And depression and anxiety are HORRIBLE bffs that play off each other in an utterly devastating way. The depression robs you of the strength and motivation to act during the day and then anxiety keeps you awake all night worry about what you didn't do and need to. To say it is a vicious cycle is the understatement of the year.
@Sandy-xb1jp2 жыл бұрын
What I’ve learned is I don’t understand. If this made sense, she would have done this after the award show. It makes no sense.
@rennie8232 жыл бұрын
When I heard she died from mental health...I knew straight away. But a firearm? So sad that she couldn't handle the darkness of depression any longer. I suffer from depression and head meds are not tolerable. I just bury myself in my pain until it subsides... A little glimmer of hope here and there. 70 yrs of fighting this. And my family all suffered from depression and suicide runs in my family as well. As a Christian, I am terrified of the result of doing myself in and God having nothing to do with me... don't really understand what God would do it as there don't seem to be any answers. So, I just hope I can hurry up this waste of time in a prison cell of pain, loneliness and invisibility. I am sorry that Naomi died. I love her music and truthfulness. Rest Naomi, rest! May God understand how you suffered and have you in the palm of his hand, settling your brokenness and tears. We weep for you beautiful lady!!!
@beasleyben91912 жыл бұрын
@@valeriefromoregon - So many of us have been effected by sexual abuse, and why some of us make it and others do not shows how different we all are. I think or believe that there was a straw that broke the camels back.. So many kill them selves who suffer from depression, low self esteem. My best friend shot and killed herself. She had never been through a traumatizing event other then she suffered from low self worth. Tragic in it 'self. I hope and pray that we figure out how to help ones in need. No matter how or why they are there in this deep dark place. We need to figure this all out and make a cure possible.
@cathybrown93982 жыл бұрын
My Husband, and Best Friend, took his life, seven years ago, in the same manner. He had advanced kidney disease, and because of his age, he was not a candidate for a transplant, and was facing the rest of his life on dialysis. I had no idea that he would end his life the way he did, and though it broke my heart, I understood. Love, and prayers to the Judd Family.
@leewhite-graham7532 жыл бұрын
Love and prayers to you, brave lady.💝🙏
@mariasirico73652 жыл бұрын
Sending prayers 🙏🏻 to you as well
@ItsJustLisa2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss.
@daynachapin79162 жыл бұрын
My sons father took his life the same way last July… my son is 13 our hearts are shattered everyday I feel like it’s a nightmare and I wish I knew how bad he was struggling 😔
@lisab95412 жыл бұрын
@@daynachapin7916 bless you and your son and if you haven't maybe seek grief counseling. May your spouse rest in peace.
@dino93952 жыл бұрын
I also suffer from depression and anxiety,So I can definitely relate to what this beautiful lady has went through..No matter how great your life may be going this illness will still make you look at almost everything in a negative manner,People will say "snap out of it" etc.But you just can't make it happen..I hope anyone reading this will seek help if you suffer from it also..
@tigergreg82 жыл бұрын
What you say is so true. Peoples who’s lives aren’t affected by this can easily make assumptions about it. They think because it appears you’ve been given so much, you should be more grateful, and that makes the depression even greater
@MadeByGod19732 жыл бұрын
Please get your magnesium and vitamin d checked. Deficiency affects depression.
@peggypasson87942 жыл бұрын
I feel your mind plays tricks on you when depression an other mental illness cause a "break" down . It's very complicated however it's just so very sad .my prayers sent 🙏🙏🙏 for the family an loved ones
@blueStarKitt79242 жыл бұрын
@@tigergreg8 Yes, unfortunately.😮💨
@colleenhelminiak14292 жыл бұрын
My heart breaks for the family......and thank you for sharing her with us for all of those years. 💖💖💖
@valueinyou99312 жыл бұрын
This poor woman told us...she TOLD US in 2017 about how horrendous what she had been dealing with for DECADES was. She shared that it is a disease...a horrendous one....and not a character flaw. I hope the world one day way wakes up but won't hold my breath. RIP Naomi. Prayers and deepest condolences for her and all of her loved ones.
@Soapgirl642 жыл бұрын
What do you want the world to wake up to?
@valueinyou99312 жыл бұрын
@@Soapgirl64 Well for starters, how about how absolutely horrendous suicidality/severe mental illness is? How about how dismal resources often are for those suffering...? How about how suicide is not the result of some character flaw or lack of religion or weakness or cowardice as idiots often comment that it is...? When you break your arm, they run to sign your cast. When you have severe flu - they comfort you and bring you soup. But when you exhibit signs of depression/anxiety/severe mental illness, you are often told to go do yoga. Get some sun. Think positive. What other life threatening affliction is so often met with shame and condescension and eye rolls? That's what I want the world to wake up to. Maybe then and only then will we cut into the shameful fact that someone on this planet dies by suicide every 40 seconds. It's been a public health crisis for decades, and it seems a wake up call is sorely needed.
@eyemnew29912 жыл бұрын
ValueinYou Wakes up to what?
@mschenandlerbong85392 жыл бұрын
I think sometimes it's one thing, a disease, and sometimes another, character flaw. The important thing is to note that no one knows but God. So don't guess.
@goodmeasure7772 жыл бұрын
@@Soapgirl64 WAKE UP TO THE LEGITIMACY OF MENTAL HEALTH AND WELLNESS! Mental illness is a DISEASE. AND NOT A CHARACTER FLAW!
@MaryyyamA.2 жыл бұрын
May she rest in peace. It's heartbreaking to share the passing of one's mother in such a painful heart-wrenching way. I hope that people would give them the space to heal and grieve their loss in peace. My heart goes out to her family, friends, fans and loved ones.
@dianejohnson52162 жыл бұрын
It will take a life time for the two Daughters to come to heal from this,I know because I have this to happen in my family, and they never healed from it
@arisadarkone2 жыл бұрын
I couldn't have said it any better than you just did. My heart breaks for Ashley and Wynonna. May Naomi Rest In Glorious Peaceful Paradise ...😔💔💕
@MaryyyamA.2 жыл бұрын
@@dianejohnson5216 I hope that you all heal sometime soon Diane. When we lose our loved ones, they do take a part of us with them. We are definitely changed forever, but we move on not past them but with them embracing the beautiful moments we've shared with them as everlasting wonderful memories. Wishing you all all the best.
@donnamauriello84442 жыл бұрын
I hope that this absolutely beautiful woman is now resting in peace, no more worries, no more demons, just beautiful peace!! I’m so very sorry and sad for her, depression is a horrific thing to go through, sadly a lot of sufferer’s don’t see any light at the end of the tunnel and choose to end the constant pain they are living!!! It doesn’t make them any less of a person and it certainly isn’t the fault of anyone around them, but that fateful decision will be with them for the rest of their lives!!! I pray for peace for her daughters and family in the face of grief that they now share!!!
@hollydavidson5012 жыл бұрын
I lost my older brother in Jan 2020 to suicide and 2 1/2 years later, it still feels like yesterday. It takes alot of courage for the family to be so transparent about this huge loss.
@j.reneewhite9152 жыл бұрын
Our hearts go out to your family and we appreciate that you shared. So many families are trying to fight the disease and it's a difficult one to win. Our family included. It leaves a person to "feel helpless" to help. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Sending hugs and love.
@pennyspapers11272 жыл бұрын
No one can imagine what Naomi was feeling but having been through depression and anxiety there are times when you feel that it will never end and you don't think of anyone else, you can't, you just want it to stop. You can't take the pain one more minute. Been there.
@lisab95412 жыл бұрын
Hold on, keep up the good fight. I too know this struggle. 💕
@thegmom78122 жыл бұрын
This too shall pass !!! One day at a time, or one minute at a time, whatever it takes !! Just hold on and keep fighting, better days are ahead 😊
@rivercanyonmissile21372 жыл бұрын
People don't understand that it also causes physical pain within the body.
@bobberguy12 жыл бұрын
It is sad when peace can be attained only by death. Prayers for the daughters. And thanks to Naomi for sharing your beautiful voice with the world.
@fioreariadne2 жыл бұрын
Mental illness is so hard because the rest of the world can't see the wound and pain, only the person living it can. To everyone going through this, please know there is help, you don't have to go through this alone. You are brave and precious, don't give up the fight! ❤️
@shelleycharlesworth51772 жыл бұрын
The horrible thing is Naomi HAD help-the best that $$ could buy. She went to psych wards, mental health places, had talk and group therapy-private psychiatrists, family therapists and she was on Rx meds,- she endured 22 shock treatments. Read her book- River of Time. She had a loving husband, wealth, a beautiful home, she was beautiful and smart. Two loving successful daughters, grandchildren. Everything to live for. Yet her depression won in the ned. So shocking and so sad. So many women would love to have 1/20 of what she had. The heartbreak a suicide leaves is a horror. Some depressions are treatment resistant.
@GrdmaKat20002 жыл бұрын
I lost my son who suicided in 2013 just 56 days after he retired from 20 years in the Army. They say 22 a day (suicide). SUCH a loss to this method of losing a life, as you stated, others cannot see into their pain.
@fioreariadne2 жыл бұрын
@@shelleycharlesworth5177 you are so right. Sometimes there seems to be no treatment that can help, she was so scarred that nothing could help her. That is the devastation of an invisible illness. However, it is because of their suffering that other people can be compelled to seek the help that might save them. Just like there are tons of lives lost and devastated, there are some examples of people that were able to recover. It's just so, so sad to see people end their lives 😞
@jannett43332 жыл бұрын
They love to judge one with mental illness..
@jannett43332 жыл бұрын
@@shelleycharlesworth5177 all the things don't really help once on gets to that dark place and must those people go by books not a person unless one is in a peer group of people who suffer the same system
@reneebanbury70662 жыл бұрын
It takes great courage & strength to say this. My heart goes out to this beloved family. Naomi was a beautiful & talented woman & so many people loved her. Mental disorders & disease are not to be taken lightly. I’m glad the ladies chose to control the narrative.
@debbiem64062 жыл бұрын
This was handled in exactly the right way. As the mother of grown daughters, I just find it crushing that she took her life, especially in that manner, knowing that her daughter would find her. Which indicates how deeply her illness took her.
@MISNM02 жыл бұрын
I am not a Survivor of Suicide Loss so maybe shouldn't speak to this but will try. I love how you wrote your post.
@debbiem64062 жыл бұрын
Thank you. It’s difficult from every aspect.
@kimalonzo33632 жыл бұрын
Did she overdose or shoot herself?
@ursulamullikin47232 жыл бұрын
Naomi was beyond thinking about anyone when she took her life but Ashley will have it always in her head how she found her mother, and wyona and Naomi didn't speak for years, that also has to be tough on her so much wasted time.
@MISNM02 жыл бұрын
@@ursulamullikin4723 Stop
@melissagahn2 жыл бұрын
I admire Ashley's courage to disclose the manner of her beautiful mother's passing. It must have been devastating for her to have to say the words, "Mother used a firearm." I can't imagine what she, Wynonna and the rest of Naomi's family are going through. I can identify as my brother used a firearm to end his life. It brought back memories for me of the news that I lost my brother and what happened. The pain of losing him has subsided but doesn't go away, for me, anyway. We will never know the reason as he didn't leave a note. I am comforted knowing that he is with family on the other side and that he isn't alone. I send love and thoughts to Ashley and her family. I hope they are comforted in that Naomi's pain has ended, she isn't alone, and she is resting in peace, free from the pain that took her away from them.
@dianebradley14702 жыл бұрын
I am so so sorry about the Judd family Im in s situation I think about doing what she dine
@dianebradley14702 жыл бұрын
Done amen
@goodmeasure7772 жыл бұрын
@@dianebradley1470 Hello friend. Please reach out and dial 988 and you should be directed to the suicide prevention lifeline. Dial 988. Or have a look at this website. suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ Please Friend, allow someone to help you. You are precious in HIS sight.
@gsmith60262 жыл бұрын
I can’t imagine finding her mother after she took her own life. She will have nightmares. My heart breaks for her.
@sharoncrawford71922 жыл бұрын
My niece at 21 jumped off a dam into the water. She was 6 weeks pregnant at the time, and her boyfriend was going to leave her.
@kimdelorme63142 жыл бұрын
I believe for them, it was the right thing to do. Talking about unimaginable tragedy can help you heal. Very very sad. My heart goes out her family 💔💔🙏🏻
@RobinLaneLowe2 жыл бұрын
I feel the same. Comfort them Lord.
@tommiller97432 жыл бұрын
There is no shame in disclosing a loved one committed suicide. The more we make people aware of the difficulties people are experiencing, the better we can prevent future attempts or successful suicides.
@phriedokra61582 жыл бұрын
well her insurance policy WON'T payout but I guess that is not a problem for THE JUDDS ...rip lady and hugs for the girls!!
@tommiller97432 жыл бұрын
@@phriedokra6158 it depends on the policy any if there are any provisions or exclusions. Some won't pay within the first two years of the policy's inception.
@catherinewilson30332 жыл бұрын
I, personally am so proud of both of you. However you choose to share, is your business. As a mental health clinician, you have boldly brought this disease to the forefront and it deserves to be acknowledged….. love you both so much! 🙏🏻❤️
@tammyfratus2 жыл бұрын
I think the two of them are more brave than they could have ever imagined. My heart and prayers are with them. I feel as though the family needs private time to grieve and to learn how to move forward together, will all the grace and love that they share.
@nmikali38482 жыл бұрын
I am so sad for the family. Especially Ashley finding her mom like that how heartbreaking. I'll be 🙏 for you all..
@delana64632 жыл бұрын
Naomi was indeed a beautiful woman, and it breaks my heart to know how much she was suffering. I have a sweet memory of meeting Naomi one day while outside a local beauty shop. She had mistaken my car for hers, as she waited for it to pick her up (it may have been Larry picking her up). We sat in my car and chatted, as she played with my dogs. Once her ride arrived, she asked to show them to her driver, and returned them along with a autograph picture to each of them from her. We had a little chuckle about the girls loving her. That afternoon has always been a charming memory, one I treasure for that little chat we had. and her sharing in the love for my two little girls that have passed on as well. I hope she runs into her two little fans in heaven and feels all the love they showed her as well as all we feel for her. Anyway and anything that the family feels to do or not do is the right thing. It's their hearts and healing that is important. Naomi was an brave, insightful, sweet, caring, and loving soul. Now she's an Angel.
@robertbeining1412 жыл бұрын
Graeme, Thank You for covering this. I am very proud of Ashley and Wynonna, for being so brave, courageous and conveying on their terms, in their time, how Naomi died. They put the rumor mills to rest quickly and that is self honor, and honoring their mother's memory and life. Good for them. I, like so many in our world have lost a very dear loved one to the disease and the lie the disease told him. We can only heal by sharing our pain. Thanks again Graeme. You have a good heart brother and a wonderful sense of decency.
@samsonian94682 жыл бұрын
Naomi had already mentioned on a prior video interview, years ago, that she wanted to commit suicide by self-inflicting gun shot.. but didn't go through it at that time. She knew the way she would go and revealed it. She was very open about her life. May she rest in peace.
@gentleman5932 жыл бұрын
Hello Samsonian how are you doing today
@christineperez75622 жыл бұрын
Yes we know
@3harts2 жыл бұрын
I had the same experience with my husband. What pain she must have been in. I will hold you in light. All my love to the family!
@fool4singing2 жыл бұрын
This is so very, very tragic. I just hate this for their family. I too have had to come to terms with my sister's suicide, and it never really goes away, so I know the road they have ahead of them. I wish Naomi could have found peace on this earth...
@MisterWondrous2 жыл бұрын
I am so heartbroken by this. It is one reason I am an advocate for gentle ways for people -- who know their work is done, and for whom life offers no more joy -- to the ultimate benefit of a peaceful, beautiful transition out of this world of suffering.
@inquisitivejade71912 жыл бұрын
There is a law coming into effect here in Canada in 2023 that will allow this.
@MisterWondrous2 жыл бұрын
@@inquisitivejade7191 Your lovely country become more attractive every day.
@polliefuchs34282 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for the loss of their mother, and so sorry that Naomi was in so much pain. I don't feel the public has any right to judge how they handle anything in this situation. I pray time will bring some healing and peace to the family, and we should respect their wishes.
@debrasong2 жыл бұрын
I've suffered with C-PTSD and Chronic Depression for 2 decades. I've been hurt since early childhood. I tried, unsuccessfully, to end my life here. I'm blessed to know Naomi could finally be open about her disease with those closest to her...her Family. I've been singing The Judds songs forever it seems, but never knew just how relatable our personal lives were. Being that my family has shunned me, and refuse to acknowledge therapy as a helpful process, I have become closed off at the age of 62. My Mama died just 5 mos ago, but because I told the secrets in treatment, she refused to speak to me and got all my siblings to carry out her final wish. To keep me alone, without them. I wasn't allowed any part of her memorial or a small amt of her ashes or anything to bring me closure. So yes, I understand being in a moment where you just know you don't want one more day of the voices in your head. Telling you your broken and unlovable. When your Daughters take the Grandchildren away,, when there's never ever been any cause to, its just Debilitating. How do you ever heal when there's so much hurt being hurled at you every single day. I'm lonely everyday. I'm longing for my kids and grandkids. Truth is...there is no way out of this nightmare. Its being perpetuated by people I thought I could trust and who I have cared for, supported and loved my entire life. Naomi... Rest in sweet peace. I ache in places only those connected to this disease can understand. I find it so off putting that those who put your little child self and adolescence through unthinkable torment, are out there celebrating life. How does one ever find true closure and a new story to call their own? Nobody was held accountable. Noone. It isn't what Naomi shared...its what she never did, solely to spare others the pain. I will never forget the beautiful spirit that is, and forever will be Naomi Judd. May Gods Angels Set Her Free once and for all. With Love ✝️🕯👑🎤🎶
@joyceellis92842 жыл бұрын
Go to Jesus, He will give you love, healing, and peace🙏🙏🙏
@bethhardinhealing2 жыл бұрын
I love this family so much. Thank you for sharing. I will light a candle for them and hold them in the light. She is free from her earth pain and I pray 🤲 the family left behind can see her wings over them and hugging them. 💜💜💜💜
@kaseybrewer5452 жыл бұрын
My heart just breaks for them. Depression and anxiety really do cripple you, and make you think the worst possible things about yourself. When I watched Naomi on the red carpet, before the CMA's I remember thinking she seemed very anxious. My heart hurts for her, and for her girls.
@austinhowland300gmail.2 жыл бұрын
Hello Kasey how are you doing today
@rivercanyonmissile21372 жыл бұрын
It's debilitating.
@austinhowland300gmail.2 жыл бұрын
Hi kasey
@COUNTRYGIRLMUSICLOVER2 жыл бұрын
This hits hard in a different way from other celebrities deaths that I’ve seen..growing up with The Judds and listening to their music and to know the struggles they have all been through..is heartbreaking 💔 RIP 🙏
@lanathomas16922 жыл бұрын
My mother used a firearm to commit suicide in 2019 there was no note ,nothing . She had cancer stage 4, a pacemaker, wet macular degeneration, her companion died 6 months earlier. But she was fully functioning able to walk talk drive. I was in another state, I called the police to do a well-being check when I didn't hear from her. And it was really such a shock. I'm still not over it. Naomi was a very strong woman with a dream, very beautiful, very successful. She will be missed. Medications can make you depressed also.
@mainenanabear97462 жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss. I will pray you find peace and comfort.
@soulfireonfire64232 жыл бұрын
Yes medications can make it worse.
@lanathomas16922 жыл бұрын
@@mainenanabear9746 thank you 😊
@lanathomas16922 жыл бұрын
@Andrea Fredrickson thank you very much!
@mickylee60592 жыл бұрын
This is rough. I lost my brother to suicide 12 years ago and 2 months ago my sister. It is so awful living through this again. The more important issue is the pain of mental illness. My sister struggled through Covid, she did everything she could to heal. I will never stop missing her but I know how hard she fought. My heart goes out to you Ashley and Wynonna. I understand your pain.
@barbarastrayhorn46672 жыл бұрын
So sorry. Runs in my family too.
@mickylee60592 жыл бұрын
It’s horrible to go through this but supporting others is so important.
@cyndyrn12 жыл бұрын
I’m so heart broken for them as I know the pain and anguish as my sister took her own life. There are no words to comfort them in this time other than I’m so sorry for your loss and as 7 years have now passed for me the pain is still so raw. The family left behind to pick up the pieces is such a tragedy. God be with these girls as the learn to navigate and I pray they too get the help they need to understand why. 🦋🙏💕💔
@toryberch2 жыл бұрын
I think it shows strength honesty and the deepest love for their mother to speak out
@brendaweiss47282 жыл бұрын
I applaud them for disclosing this. It will help many families who are dealing with this terrible illness. Blessings and condolences to the family.
@austinhowland300gmail.2 жыл бұрын
Hi Brenda how are you doing today
@traceyhue-sang52292 жыл бұрын
First of all so sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers go out to your family. I admire your braveness for talking about the loss of your beloved mother.🙏🏻💜
@shonaboufford73422 жыл бұрын
as someone who has battled depression for most of my adult life I'd like to thank Ashley and Wynonna for coming forward. the nature of the monster that is mental illness affects everyone differently and sadly sometimes the monster wins. may Naomi finally be free of its claws and be joyful, happy and content. I can also understand how Naomi couldn't hold on until after her induction into the Country Music Hall of Fame. for one day of elation the monster would have taken 10 and it was constantly telling her that she wasn't good enough and no body wanted her to get this award and so on and so on. the monster would have torn at her until she gave in to it and believed it. my thoughts to Ashley and Wynonna may you find happiness again one day
@fullofstars9772 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to you Shona. And you are not alone. Depression lies to us - believable lies. I've said many, many times that I would rather have physical pain than depression. I hope you have more good days than bad and more joy than sorrow. ❤
@rebeccalasiter54292 жыл бұрын
I didn't think about it, until you mentioned, Naomi not being able to hold on until after her induction. It all makes sense, especially when she felt not good enough, valued enough. I am sorry for your depression, living in dark days with a sense of hopelessness, it's difficult. I wish for you peace.
@katmd4052 жыл бұрын
She was such a beautiful person. My prayers and condolences to the family. You should handle this however you feel is best for your family. Country fans loved her and we understand and are so very sad she was so overwhelmed she took her own life. We love her. God bless you all.
@diannleich60092 жыл бұрын
My deep heartfelt prayers and thoughts are with all of you. She was a talented, brave and well respected women and will always be thought of with love from thousands of her loyal family and friends.
@brentclayton68942 жыл бұрын
It was very brave of them to share this. I know it was hard for them! Suicide is never the answer. It leaves more unanswerable questions. Ashley is right when she said her mother believed a lie. May God give them comfort, peace, and strenght!
@stephstarotinterpretations96822 жыл бұрын
I admire them and support Ashley & Wynnona 100%. I've battled severe depression for 32 years, but I am fortunate that medication did help me. It is an evil disease that insidiously whispers in your head that you are not worth anything, you take up space, you'll never be good enough. I hope Naomi is now at peace.
@ellielizhavenofbless9452 жыл бұрын
Big big love and hugs to her family. That pain of losing a loved one in that way is just inconsolable. Praying 🙏
@joycest.martin30132 жыл бұрын
God bless you girls! As a mom, my heart aches for you!! Your mom is hopefully at peace. I pray to God that she is finally at a place of peace and happiness.. no longer in turmoil. She can be free of the torments that haunted her. A place of love and freedom to just be happy.
@gentleman5932 жыл бұрын
Hello Joyce how are you doing today
@kingsdaughter96592 жыл бұрын
So So tragic 😢. I feel immense grief for Larry, the Daughters and Grands, but even more grief and compassion for Naomi that the lies within her were more than she could bear. May she be at peace now. The loved ones remaining have a long long road of recovery ahead. 🙏 Edit. I commend the bravery of Ashley for going public and get the jump on the vicious tongues. Can only imagine how painful it was doing this interview. But worse was finding her beloved Momma after Naomi had taken her life.😭 🙏 for All but a special one for Ashley 🙏
@maryannegunter1152 жыл бұрын
What matters is that mental illness took Naomi's life; it's not selfishness that drives someone to do this. I am 72 and was diagnosed with bipolar depression in 1994 and prescribed antidepressants, which I will take for the rest of my life. They help to a certain extent but I have days/weeks sometimes, that depression absolutely keeps me from wanting to continue to fight it. I think I know how someone feels when they just want to quit hurting so much. I saw that Naomi passed away but didn't know about her depression until my daughter told me that she took her own life. It was shocking to me but mostly feel very bad for her suffering, and her daughter's pain. I want so much for there to be more help for those of us who suffer from this terrible disease. 😞
@orlaboland49692 жыл бұрын
Deepest sympathies🕯
@prettypumpkin23142 жыл бұрын
Jesus Christ the SAVIOUR. A Saviour is one who SAVES.
@deannapowell38042 жыл бұрын
I think their mother would be so proud to have her children turn out to be such brave women. They honored her and protected her memory in the best way they could. I hope this family finds peace and comfort in time.
@jaimeeleeradio2 жыл бұрын
For them to heal, they needed to speak their truth. My brother took his life. It's horrendous to be continually asked how they did it or to spread rumors. People can be so insensitive when it comes to this. And when people so rudely ask "how" it just brings all that trauma back. Let them heal
@jayquellen13352 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss. I cannot begin to imagine your burden of pain. I pray for your peace & comfort. 💔🙏🏻
@beverlylippy31922 жыл бұрын
Having depression myself, it’s a battle every day. I’ve a physiatrist, counselor and medication too help battle this everyday. God Bless Naomi, what she battled every day. I’m sorry sorry girls for you lose. Y’all are in my thoughts and prayers ♥️
@alexdiaz41812 жыл бұрын
Hello 👋 Beverly How are you doing today?
@emilydill93572 жыл бұрын
Very brave daughter, and I totally agree with her decision to speak about it. The best way to shut down gossip is to speak the truth on whatever the subject. Very sorry you have this to live with and hope you find some peace very soon.
@kellybethmcmahon97612 жыл бұрын
You are brave and courageous Ashley…thank you for being so open about what happened. The way you described what mental illness did to lie to your precious mothers brain was extremely insightful. Your ability to speak despite unimaginable pain is a tribute to your mom. Wynona is going thru this outside the public eye, and that is completely understandable. Know that both of you, and your family are in my prayers.
@austinhowland300gmail.2 жыл бұрын
Hi kellybeth how are you doing today?
@nadurkee462 жыл бұрын
Condolences to your family. May you all find peace and joy in your lives and in your remembrance of your life with your Mother. No judgement here, mental illness is such a perniciousness condition. Thank you for stepping up to this awareness.
@katarinacarlos92512 жыл бұрын
I think this is very sad and heartbreaking. I can't imagine the grief, horror and sorrow these women and this family must be dealing with, especially having to disclose this kind of terrible information, to stop people from speculating about things in their lives. As a Marine that has seen enough loss to last me two lifetimes and that has experienced suicide in this manner from good people who thought there was no other answer, I just ask that you give this family time to process what has happened and deal with the feelings they still have to find a way to deal with. This is NOT short term. It's one thing to lose a family member naturally, but, suicide is a whole nother bucket of worms. I wouldn't wish this kind of loss on anyone. As a young woman who has lost a parent (very recently) that was also a fan of the Judds, I send my heartfelt sympathies.
@deev29552 жыл бұрын
There are many people out there that live in such a depressed state that they cannot climb out of despite the loving and caring of friends and family. This sharing is so helpful to those survivors that grieve and have guilt that they could have done more. "If only" oftentimes doesn't matter. God Bless her surviving family.
@Thatgirl19652 жыл бұрын
Much respect for Ashley for stepping up and owning the truth. We're seriously all in this life together. What happens to one of us effects us all in some way, though we may not know it. May Naomi find peace in the spirit that she couldn't find on earth. Much love to the Judds and ANY FAMILY that has dealt with the suicide of a loved one.
@austinhowland300gmail.2 жыл бұрын
Hello Rebecca how are you doing
@tracysturgill35872 жыл бұрын
I'm very proud of them for coming forward with this information and sharing it with the world on their own terms.. I send my love and prayers to them their friends and family in this very difficult trying time
@Rosannasfriend2 жыл бұрын
Is absolutely heartbreaking. I had an actually read their statement so I didn’t know or have any hint that she committed suicide. If I did, it would’ve been obvious to me by the way they said “we lost our mother to mental illness“. I’m so sorry that she was suffering like that. I know how it feels to have peoples love and approval of you not really penetrate, and only people to focus on your shortcomings. I’m fighting back tears even writing this down. But I’m doing a lot better anyway, and I wish that she was able to do better, after all the years that she had lived in all the successful stuff it goes to show you that no matter how much family , how much success, and how much time somebody has had, not everyone’s going to be successful at beating mental illness.
@oneofakind97842 жыл бұрын
Not everyone is successful beating mental illness was the key point! Beautifully written. I have fought with Anxiety issues from the time my parents divorced at age 5 . I ended up getting married to a psychiatrist, MD. Boy … do we get the medical journals coming to our house. There is a spectrum. One size doesn’t fit all . Medications don’t work for everyone . It’s sometimes more then one physical problem going on . I hope Ashley fights on because she also deals with Depression. Jesus hear our prayers
@katiescarlett52492 жыл бұрын
The daughters are very brave to appear at the awards and speak about their mother's death with such great dignity. This type of grief is so very complicated. We are praying for you, and ask God to comfort you both. I think this also represents the failure of the medical profession to treat this condition. Doctors think they know so much. This is the ultimate failure of their part; it is the realization that nothing they attempted to do provided any lasting relief, the patients' suffered and eventually took her life.
@islandgirl33302 жыл бұрын
Please don't blame the doctors. They can counsel you all they want but you too have to try to find out what is bothering you the most and get therapy to help you. It is a mind disease and although you are on constant medication and therapy, it sometimes takes years to overcome. If you have never suffered from chronic depression, you would not know what people experience. Doctors cannot get into to your mind to stop and control it. It takes therapy, medication and understanding from both parties. Unfortunately, some people never get over it and one of the symptoms of chronic depression is suicidal feelings.
@nicoledaniels54752 жыл бұрын
100% correct, islandgirl! I am a medical professional that deals with this disease myself. Luckily after one medication stopped working, my provider was able to find another one that has been doing a much better job than the first. I have been in counseling with 2 providers at the same time in the past and it personally helped me. I am blessed to have that support. I know not everyone does and pray for all that are afflicted with this disease. I am so deeply sorry for the Judd family and pray God's peace and comfort upon them. Naomi, I am deeply saddened that you were unable to find a treatment to help you. You will be greatly missed. RIP, my dear lady.
@maddiredfern2 жыл бұрын
I lost my best friend to suicide this way and the family hid it from their friends. It was devastating to find out what really happened later. I really appreciate the Judd's honesty. I found comfort in hearing Naomi talk about depression before this happened. I cant imagine what it must have been like to find your mother that way. My thoughts are with their family and have been since I heard about Naomi's passing.
@MISNM02 жыл бұрын
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@janetgeller72722 жыл бұрын
How truly remarkable that Naomi was able to go on as long as she did. I am so sorry and dismayed she suffered as she did. My admiration and caring for her isn’t altered at all by the challenges of her life and the way she died. She hurts no more now and at least, it seems possible to me, that there were many moments of great joy in her life too and I am grateful for that.
@HearturMind2 жыл бұрын
Much love to their family, so strong in the face of unimaginable grief. They are clearly doing their best making these details public to make sure they can save some future lives and for this they deserve credit. And it is totally understandable for Winona to speak through a letter for her own mental health. It must be so hard to deal with this in the public eye. Rest In Peace Naomi.
@d.carter2 жыл бұрын
I think it was beautiful and heartbreaking the way Ashley talked about her mother's suicide. RIP Naomi ❤
@austinhowland300gmail.2 жыл бұрын
Hello D. Carter how are you doing
@ellencostello65052 жыл бұрын
Thank you and your family for sharing your sad news to shed a light on depression and how it can be devastating for all. I have a candle lighting for your mother and your family in Ireland. R.I.P.
@TheMarie69522 жыл бұрын
Thank You for your honesty and understanding, of fans love and support 🕊
@cyndykated3582 жыл бұрын
Thank you for giving us this info in a clear respectful way. I believe the family did the right thing...I’d rather hear the hard truth from them than disrespectful speculation or gossip. Heartbreaking. 😔
@iamnotgoldenhar86452 жыл бұрын
This whole situation breaks my heart on so many levels. I'm a master in SW and lost my mom quickly however, it was not her choice. Also, my family has a history of mental health issues both with my maternal grandfather's family and my maternal grandmother's family with herself included. I am not saying I know how they feel because everyone processes differently. When I heard this news the Sunday before Mother's away (the 7th one without her) I cried and started watching all of their videos concerts and so on. The Judd family will forever be in my thoughts and prayers. "Love Can Buld a Bridge" and "River of Time" has a new meaning for myself now! If you or someone needs help, please do not be afraid to call for help whatever that looks like!
@terrikolis54482 жыл бұрын
Very brave of Ashley. She will have to live with the picture of her discovery forever. My heart goes out to her and the whole family,
@felisasepulveda87532 жыл бұрын
As I will.My daughter did same 4 mo ago.only 23.I seen her face till her last breath.😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@ariellesoullighting43092 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this so sensitively and humanely
@denisedouglas65222 жыл бұрын
These women are awesome. I applaud their strength to share this publicly. God Bless them.
@allthingswavy64202 жыл бұрын
I have enormous respect for their decision to disclose this detail and to at least try to control the public narrative. While they had very little control over their mother's passing, at least this disclosure might offer some sense of control for their family.
@dorothydove6122 жыл бұрын
I greatly admire all of the Judd family members for their courage and bravery for being so open about the repercussions and suffering caused by mental illness. Shining the light on the issues, and encouraging us worldwide to seek solutions and more knowledge of this disease will/can change the world for the better, thanks to Naomi and all of y'all! Maybe we can all ask our relatives, friends, and even strangers on the street, "Hey, how are you REALLY doin', physically AND mentally?" and mean it! And throw in a warm hug, too! Here's hoping all of our broken hearts will start mending soon, in honor of your talented, very intelligent, funny, tenacious, gorgeous, and loving Naomi. The Maker broke the mold when she was created 76 years ago!
@patriciaperkins45042 жыл бұрын
It was a good decision for them to expose the nature of suicide because I'm sure many already speculated, as I did but it brings us more closure on this. Such a sad sad thing what happened .....my heart hurts for the family as it also hurts knowing Naomi was so depressed and sad....may God hold her tightly in His arms and give her the comfort she has needed all her life. I am praying for the family.
@kimberlyb11802 жыл бұрын
Absolutely, they handled that very well. The attention should not be on the means by which someone ends their life due to mental illness. Attention should be given to understanding how debilitating mental illness can be. Love and Light to all the family members. Be at peace knowing she is better now.
@mainenanabear97462 жыл бұрын
How brave to face it full on like that! Good for them. To often the stigma of mental illness prevents us from doing the right things and I am sad for their loss but think that they are amazing for sharing the truth at the worst time of their lives. My deepest condolences to the family and friends.
@kjarneson6552 жыл бұрын
Oh, my heart breaks for you. Ashley you were so courageous to share with us all…I know you are in a fog right now and traumatized. Praying over you and over your family for continued strength, peace and hope as you grieve your wonderful mom 😢💔
@Fiawordweaver2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for your grief to your mom’s passing. I support your mother’s decision because I battle with demons in my brain and have empathy for your mother. I believe we should have the right to end pain that is intolerable. I support Robin William’s decision. The pain is no different than excruciating physical pain. My heart and positive loving thoughts goes out to all of your family.
@jeanpotter21632 жыл бұрын
Please don’t ever allow those demons to take control of you. Read the other comments and you will see the unending pain that this cause’s the people you love and who love you. I had a cousin who did this as the result of an accident at work. He was hit on the head and knocked out but they did not take him to the hospital they just sent him home to rest. Apparently because of the pain he did the same thing, and the pain that his family went through was immense, and it is still painful and this happened more than 50 years ago. Please get some help before you get to this point because this is not the correct solution! Just remember that others love you and need you.
@Fiawordweaver2 жыл бұрын
@@jeanpotter2163 I have been in counseling over 25 years and still going. Thank you so much for reaching out. At 69 years of age I reach out for help when the darkness rolls in. I wrote the above because I have lived through abuse and trauma and wanted to offer support because suicide is judged so harshly. Your kind words are so appreciated. I don’t want to make this story of Naomi about me. Thank you.
@jorriewimmer43632 жыл бұрын
My deepest condolences to the family. I suffer from mental illness Mine is also medicine resistant. There are literally times my brain hurts. The feelings of not being good enough, of not being loved. of not being understood. The feelings of not being. It's a never ending cycle. Unless you live it you never fully grasp the pain and agony a person goes through. I personally thank the family for their strength and courage of coming forth with the awful details surrounding their mama's death. Thank you for not letting it be a dirty little Secret. The elephant in the room no one wants to talk about. Believe me, no one wants to talk about it. I can not begin to Count how many people who do not want to talk about it. Who do not understand how someone could feel that way. How many think it's just a matter of mind over matter. I wish it were that simple. RIP Naomi Judd. May your sweet voice sing with the other angels. Your beauty and courage along with your loving heart shall never be forgotten.
@soulfireonfire64232 жыл бұрын
I believe you when you say countless people just don't understand. I learned that from my friend. Her husband who I also knew my entire life as we come from a small town, took his life. She has put out many post on FB about what you are talking about. She did write a book. I will provide the link. She wrote it 7 years later or that is when it got published. But when I was on FB I heard nothing but good things about it. Its not a book like normal books are written. But you need to know that many people are aware that its a very difficult journey for those who suffer. WE may not no exactly how you feel but we believe you when you say it. She would talk on FB letting people know that the stigma of of when people say they are depressed needs to be recognized as a serious mental imbalance that needs to be studied and researched more. For people to stop blowing it off like its just this depressed state people can just snap in and out of. She would say its very very misunderstood. And she is a nurse but is now learning for herself after what happened to her husband. I am here to always talk if you need to. Just reply and we will exchange info somehow in private and if not right on here. Here is the link to her book www.amazon.com/Was-No-Accident-Familys-Interrupted/dp/1491267755/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_pl_foot_top?ie=UTF8
@ccurrywright2 жыл бұрын
I completely understand what you say. I am sorry yours is medicine resistant. It took me a LONG time to find the medication I use now. So often, I would use something a while, it would work, then I would have trouble again. I've been on this medication since January 2016. I know it's completely the grace of God that keeps this medication working for me and worry there may come a day it no longer does. Don't give up looking for a cure. My diagnosis was initially depression but in 2016, I ended up in the mental ward at the hospital and they started treating me for bipolar for the first time. I've read since that depression medication does not work for bipolar. My symptoms exhibited mostly as depression and not mania.
@2puffs7702 жыл бұрын
"The lie the disease told her"...........YES!! You just opened so many eyes that did not see, and opened so many ears that could not hear! God bless you, the entire family, all the fans!
@stroop36662 жыл бұрын
So VERY SORRY for your loss. Your mother would be so PROUD of how you GUYS are handling this MOST tragic situation. Keep your heads UP!!!
@debrasnyder76952 жыл бұрын
If we continue to shine the light on depression and mental illness, I know and believe the darkness there of will flee away from it and healing will come in. In my own personal experience, I've learned first-hand, the more we understand about this disease of the mind, the faster we can cure, help and prevent it. My Love and condolences to the family, especially Ashley who found her. Ptsd is no joke. I pray she and those in the family affected, continue to talk to loved ones openly and as much as possible. Some won't understand and will want to bury talking about it but nothing stays buried forever, it just builds til you explode. It will surface and can be very dangerous to those around that person when it does. Please talk, cry, hug, let it out any way you can, until peace flows in and it will flow in like a flood. The Fruits and Gifts of the Spirit need to flow to people who suffer with depression/mental illness. I pray anyone who is going through this reach out to Our Heavenly Father. I pray they tell pride to get bent and ask for help. He tells us in, Isaiah 26:3.. "Thou wilt keep him(you)in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee; bc he(you)trusted in thee." I personally know if you keep your mind trained on Him and His Living Word, by speaking it out loud and hearing it, peace will flow endlessly to you. HOLD ON, YOU ARE NOT ALONE, YOU ARE WORTH IT and MOST OF ALL, YOU ARE LOVED!! ❤❤❤