WINE SPILL 🍷ྀིྀི || egg freezing, situationships, marriage, relationship status 🫢

[@vanillashake3544]

4 years!!!! I'm literally kicking my feet and giggling. Damn.

[@ashleybchoi]

😂 bahahaha

[@samanthajungkim8653]

IKR!!!!!!

[@samanthajungkim8653]

i DID NOT SEE THIS COMING

[@TygerBlueEyes]

ya surprising but good for you -- I hope it stays enjoyable now

[@MariaSokolArt]

How we didn’t even notice 😂😂😂

[@fdoctor79]

4 years tho, Ashley?!? 😮 Girl, you can keep a secret! 😅 It so good to see you and Joan together, again. Tfs

[@eleasah]

I know I can't speak for everyone, but tbh I can't think of a single fan who wouldn't be happy for you being in a relationship 🥺 It actually makes me very happy, and I have complete respect and understanding if you want to keep the relationship private ❤️

[@ashleybchoi]

EEEEK my heart is beating so fast 😂

[@ahomili]

Not going to lie. I lookey wish is with Peniel. I love you two together. I'm happy for you anyway, you deserve it! 🤎

[@farah_k]

Can you give us a hint on who it is?? Also loved this amazing video 😁💖

[@tiggerisheeyore9350]

Love will do that to you, Ash. 4 years is a long time to avoid a subject when asked too. Wishing you all the best, always

[@NoraRez]

@@ahomililmaoooo def not peniel

[@eline_01]

I'm so happy for you!! I hope no one will be negative about it, because every idol should be able to date whoever they want! And omg what a big step moving in together!! I hope you guys are gonna have a great time together :)) thank you for sharing this information with us

[@shannonstearn4749]

i had my suspicions 🤭 i'm so happy for you!!! true fans will always support you and only want to see you happy and loved ‼️💗

[@keilambis2145]

Same! I noticed it on her Busan vlog!

[@ashleybchoi]

hahah yeah i think some people caught on 😝 but THANK YOU FOR YOUR KIND WORDS

[@PrinceFluffy801]

Knew it from that vlog too 😅 So happy for you, Ash!!! 🤍🤍🤍

[@Sarahalfal]

@@PrinceFluffy801which vlog

[@JMAQ153]

@@PrinceFluffy801 which vlog is it

[@telur_dadar]

i really appreciate Joan for being honest.. like I see myself in her way of thinking sometimes

[@EvianaMisty]

Congratulation Ashley!!! You're so deserve to be loved❤ I'm so happy for you :) As a fan, I wish you nothing but the best✨

[@ashleybchoi]

tysm 😭♥︎

[@militaaaa]

4 YEARS???? girl!!!! im soooo happy for you 🫶 you deserve this, so don’t worry about what people might think ❤ (ps: you should keep doing the adulting series but like 2.0??)

[@elmerz7075]

please keep posting adulting series! but i’m so happy for you ashley, nothing more i want in this world than for people that bring me comfort and happiness to feel the same especially in relationships, romantic and platonic❤️

[@superlyobsessed]

Suddenly im thinking back to that Get Real clip of Ashley's checklist for a partner 👀 I guess she was just describing her current partner, that's why it was so specific 😂

[@bubbles8270]

Which ep was that i wanna see that part again 😂

[@Liza-r3i7z]

@@bubbles8270 its an episode with soobinie if it helps 7 months later 😅

[@rachcat4]

You all spilling the real tea and im here for it. But honestl will always support you and what ever you choose to do.

[@ashleybchoi]

thank you so much!!! ☺

[@gindokki]

4 years!!! Congratulations Ashley, and I'm so happy for you to have found your special someone - you are the loveliest human so it's not surprising at all. Also Joan popping off in this Q&A is the best thing - I still remember the last wine spill in 2021, and have eargerly looked forward to it. Thank you for sharing, and genuinely just so much love to you both!

[@aakritibagchi2663]

7:31 the shriek i let out when you paused was too much 🙈 im genuinely so happy for you ashley, feels like a big sister getting a boyfriend and im so excited for you ❤️

[@olga.ongggg]

im not even surprise , because Ashley such a gorgeous inside and out , wont believe her even she said that she's single. congrats Ashley , i am so happy for you ❤

[@zasoon]

Awww they’re moving in together 😭 Ik it’s impossible but if it’s someone we know. So happy for you, ash. Also Joan Is such a mood when you spilled the tea.

[@Rina-oj5bs]

Boyfriend Tag Series hahaha Joan knows what we want !!

[@farah_k]

So glad Wine Spill is back, and I love your amazing friendship 💕🍷

[@ashleybchoi]

Thanks for enjoying wine spill ☺️🩵

[@willowthomas9459]

Wine glasses ❌ Plastic cup ✅ LMAO

[@ashleybchoi]

LOL i brought wine glasses but I broke one right before we started filming.... so we had to resort to plastic cups...

[@joan_kim]

Omggg!!!!!!! 🙈🖤

[@Ching2bu]

Do we know him?? Haha love u guys!! ❤❤❤

[@farah_k]

Can you give us a hint? Great video, love you girls 😆💕

[@ashleybchoi]

thanks for being next to me for this vulnerable, nerve-racking moment !! 🥰

[@leah0928]

relating to joan on a new level. Too single for my own good😭😭😭😭

[@liz5310]

Joan is such a supportive friend.i hope this friendship never breaks and Ashley call joan more often girl.im glad despite you having a boyfriend, you still make time for joan and your friends.

[@niiara2634]

Ashleyyy i’ve been watching and following you for nearly 5 years and nothing could make me more happy than knowing that you’re in a healthy relationship and being loved❣️❣️❣️ you like no one else motivated and inspired me for so many years, i’m extremely proud of you for finally sharing your happiness with your fans and viewers 🤍 we will always support you no matter what!! 💗💗💗

[@leahrox12]

ASHLEY MY JAW DROPPED !!! I love thisssssss❤

[@ernestsayshi]

WE BEEN KNEW ASH!!! we're so happy for you and thankful you chose to share this part of your life with us! Wishing good health and positivity to you and Joan for 2024 ❤

[@17khbin]

oh i could relate to joan's talk about friendships and the cutting off friends that doesn't deserve my energy anymore. 😭 i find it odd and good (i think) that i, now, know how to classify my list of friends in different class (i meant, bestie > close friend > friend > acquaintance/ex friend)

[@gimmefunny]

Ashley, when you moved into your new places and shared what that was like, it inspired me to do the same (I moved last year). I'm now super excited to hear you're in a happy relationship because I'm now in a relationship and we're thinking of moving in together later this year too! Relationships are in fact apart of adulting. It'd be cute to see the lessons of living with a significant other. Maybe your tastes in furniture isn't the same, compromises need to happen. Just like other parts of life, relationships will go through ups & downs. Show whatever is comfortable for you two. Cheering you on in this new chapter :)

[@janeyanna]

omg ash 🥺 i'm so so so happy for you ahhhhh you deserve all the happiness in the world💜 and thank you so much for another wine spill!!

[@ashleybchoi]

Hingggg 🥺 thank you so muchhh 🫶🏻

[@AvecitaRamirez]

Can I just say. I’m not surprised by the relationship status? 😅 cause since the first wine spill one of you say EVERYONE in this industry is dating somebody even if they say are single, and I catched it 😂😂 in addition to some stories that give the sensation that your look or smile had a spark 😏😏😏 So in conclusion, I am beyond HAPPY for you Ashley and that you finally feel free to talk about it🥳🙌🏼 hope we can meet him soon 💫

[@17khbin]

relatable on the part... joan mentioned about "friends" who go MIA when they are on a relationship! 😹 i have friends like that too AND one thing that we could take note that they're SINGLE in status is when they are back in social media!!! HAHAHAHA TAKEN means not active in socmed! SINGLE means active in socmed!

[@farah_k]

OMG Ashley I'm so happy for you! Us true fans want you to be happy, loved and wish you all the best 🥰💖

[@nevernotblessed]

I’ve always found a lot of comfort in Joan. I’m an eldest daughter myself and bro the way everything Joan says resonates is actually crazy !! Anyways can’t wait to watch u both for the next five years and see it all unravel 🤪💖 Also - keen for a new series 🙈 congrats Ashley !!!!

[@gr_2111]

One of the best thing is that your relationship survived throughout the hurdles & your journey as an Idol. I'm happy, I'm more than happy for you ❤❤❤

[@miraksrbv]

omg GIRL congrats!!!

[@ashleybchoi]

AHHH thank you TuT 🩵

[@ananas6163]

Thank you for talking sincerely about real stuff - it's great to get different povs on what matters to oneself. I relate sooo much to Joan saying she treats every friendship like relationship! I input quite the energy into it and get really frustrated when not receiving it back in equal amount... my bestie started dating lately and she's never home and only thing we talk about when she rarely comes back is her boyfriend ㅠㅠ I feel so deprioritized for nothing and considered distancing from her because it hurts :)

[@qoreantea]

I’ve been watching you since your adulting series and I am so happy for you, Ash! I literally grew up with you and Joan. ♥️ now i’m in my late 20s, I literally needed this! You gave me comfort during my early 20s ❤

[@christinenicolasx]

i knew it!!! but lol idk you officially confirming it makes me so happy and omg 4 years!!! 🥹 eeek so excited for this new era of you!! congratulations ash! can’t wait to see you both together. im literally screaming, giggling, and kicking my feet. 😅🤭 im so happy for you. you deserve all the love and happiness in the world. ily!!! 🥰🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

[@moonie7437]

how did you know?

[@jasmooji]

When she told Joan to move over 😭🤣🤣🤣 “I know you like me but…” lol

[@MrShedinjametagross]

25:32 "It's cuz you're excited" LOL

[@camilafuentes1565]

i love joan at the end whispering: boyfriend tag

[@joannel1548]

Omg I love Joan as a friend for you. She has your back all the time 🫶

[@sofiya320]

I am watching this at 12am and literally prepared my own wine glass too before starting the vid and OMG THE WAY I SQUEALED AND KICKED MY FEET WHEN YOU SHARED ABOUT YOUR REL STATUS omg!! CONGRATULATIONSSS ASHLEYYY so so happyyy for u!! i can’t stop smiling all throughout huhu thank u for sharing this with us 🥹💗 AAAAAA wishing u guys all the best!

[@andreamendana6173]

OMG congratulations!!!! Im so happy for you!!! You deserve all the happiness in the world❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@ashleybchoi]

aww THANK YOUUU

[@jo.e8]

Joan, I just wanna give you a big hug, you are not too single for your own good just keep livin your best life girl! Hope your stresses will be alleviated 🤗

[@TNNJT]

Whahaha that was soo cute, i think you can both figure the long distance friendship out seeing as how you are now, you guys are great, thanks for this content 🩶

[@ashleybchoi]

yesss i KNOW we can do long distance friendship!!! :) thank you

[@halsti99]

it sucks that fans of the idol industry are... idk how to say it nicely... controlling (?), maybe extreme, to the point that you seem pretty nervous, or even a little scared of mentioning a relationship. its one of the most normal things in the world and we should be here celebrating it, not having you worry that people might react to it badly. its good to hear you got someone that makes you happy, bestie! hoping that y'all stay happy and mad cute

[@ems5454]

Omg!!!! Im so happy for youuuuu, 4 years wow ❤❤❤ you deserve all the happiness in the world

[@ro2974]

im so happy for you 💓 thank you for feeling like you could share this part of your life both romantic and platonic ❤ yall are v inspiring when it comes to your relationship! would love to hear more about how you balance relationships among other aspects!

[@rizzamelnenaigh]

Joannnn!!! You deserve all the happiness in the world!! Don't be pressured by others, you do you, honey. I love you.

[@anditoldsunsetaboutyou]

so fun to see you and joan together and congrats on your announcement!! also, yeahh to keeping it to adulting series since it's also part of adulting! and naw to any external societal norms/pressures. life's too short for that!

[@soobeanie]

Omg its finally here! 👀🤍

[@ashleybchoi]

girl i was so nervous i almost threw upp

[@soobeanie]

@@ashleybchoi girl my airpits are sweating! LOL eeeeek! Im still excited and nervous and happy and its funny HAHAAHA

[@farah_k]

Hi Soobeanie you're amazing, love watching your incredible videos too 🥰💕

[@livinglatiffa]

omg ashley !!!!! i’m so happy for you ! thank you for sharing this with us and i completely understand wanting it to be your own little secret given your background everything. i’m like grinning from ear to ear ahhhh! i wish you and your partner nothing but the best 🫶🫶

[@cjseeee___]

Situationships, i really love ashley’s comment about it. You need to be straight to the point. ❤

[@ele-nah]

Thank you for feeling comfortable enough to share the news with us!! You're like a friend to us Ashley so of course we're going to support you. Seeing you happy is something that makes us happy too 💓

[@bethanyreads3982]

So happy for you Ashley! I kinda hope it’s Ph1 and considering there is a new get real episode coming tonight with him as the guest and the topic is dating…

[@soupafleye]

hey girlies, as far as relationships go all i can advise is to always believe in and have intent on having exactly what you desire coming to fruition. when you consciously and intentionally set a desire it will come to you. just know what you want and have faith in it happening because all experiences are available to us. this is coming from a content single 24 yo so i definitely don’t feel the anxiety or pressure but i also am constantly in the process of accepting and being more comfortable in not desiring a romantic relationship despite never having one either. with or without a partner we’re still beautiful whole human beings. all i know is know exactly what you want out of life and it will come to you in time. 😗✨ i hope all is going well and amazing with your relationship ashley you have every right to keep that private.

[@livpxx]

Ahhhh I’m so happy for you Ashley! You deserve all the love and happiness. I wish you the best as you both take this next step into living together 💕

[@geekdiggy]

being able to keep a relationship a secret for 4 years is the sign of having good, loyal friends.☺

[@geekdiggy]

though, some of us kinda figured, since you couldn't have filmed ALL your vlog material by yourself.😁

[@aysed_28]

I love it that you're more active these day's on youtube, thanks ashley loved this video and the vlog !!💕

[@Mayelaaa]

Congrats Ashley!!! I'm excited for future videos! Please have more wine spills, I love the organicness of this format.💕

[@MsZhanny]

Congrats Ashley! I love how Joan is bold in this video. She feels more natural.

[@gulcinkahraman686]

so happy for you ash 🩷 you deserve all the love in the world

[@nabiladwiparamitha]

Joan unnie, don't be stress, i'm with youuu❤

[@BBoPPo88]

Im in the same boat where i dont want situationships and i keep falling into them. After a really intense 10 month situationship that borderline was a relationship I realized that situationships happen because I'm not demanding enough and drawing hard boundaries and making situationships an option to a guy. I feel like guys definitely choose no responsibility vs a relationship everytime. I have to be harder and say hey this is what I want if you're not on board there are other people out there and you can see yourself out.

[@eminebyz_]

Nooo I LOVEEEE adulting series…. We need that in our livessss hshahah as a twenty one year old you don’t know how much comfort it gives me too just read that tiny word in the title!!

[@17khbin]

i'm seething in happiness 😭 thank you for uploading another wine spill!! i have missed this yt segment so much!!! i hope you are all doing well!!! 💗

[@Eating91690]

I knew you are too cute to be single! 😂 I relate to Joan so much! She is so kind and deserves someone who treats her like a princess! ❤

[@astrog5258]

Thank you for finally trusting us with that information!! So happy for you I hope the best for you and your special someone❤️❤️

[@prunenothere]

whaou thats an insanely good news !!!! I'm so happy for you girl 🩷 sending love for you both

[@longtinapongen]

Your videos are a therapy 🌼

[@ashleybchoi]

thank you for watching

[@lilimartin2777]

I’m just a couple years younger than you both, seeing you share your life a few steps ahead of me is really comforting, thanks so much for sharing 🥹♥️

[@teleporting_god]

omg Ashley!!!! happy for you! literally spilled lol

[@daisybyun334]

Honestly Joan and Wootak have such similar energy I wish she’d be a guest star on Under The Influence podcast

[@rubymarkoski3637]

YESS I was thinking the same thing

[@reitan8720]

oh wow 4 yrs congratulations omg 😍 and so glad we have wine spill back

[@lusianawijaya4369]

I really like this new segment (?) feel fresh and its nice to see people with same age and similar background could have a really different point of view. Cant wait to see with different guest!

[@jasnmim]

as a fellow scorpio I looooved this conversation! would be amazing to have more of you both!

[@nabihahnorhisam]

OMG congratulation Ashley ❤ I agreed with everything Joan said, relationship🔁friendship, glad you guys being a great friend to each other ❤❤

[@dupnii5926]

OMG ASHLEY! BE HAPPY GURL! SO HAPPY FOR YOU! 💖

[@Cinderella20792]

Long-time viewer here 🎉 Awwww Ashley, I wish you nothing but happiness. What Joan said is exactly how I feel and how I’m living my life, I’m firstborn daughter and so hyper independent, I don’t know how to depend on anyone, even friends sometimes. Being the same age as Joan and being from a conservative Asian country, the pressure on “post-30 spinsters” is intense that it makes you feel anxious but whenever I see western movies or talk to western friends…I know that it’s ok to move at my own pace haha. Love you two!

[@1994jct]

Omg Ashley! Talk about quiet dating! Goalsssss! Good for you!!

[@aryy7]

you HAVE to continue the adultung series ash....loved this wine spill and Joan as always ❤❤

[@abit.ofk2vinpark]

happy to see you open about your relationship! you deserve to live your life regardless of others thoughts. congrats!

[@rez9126]

Omg congratulations Ashley! I’m so happy for you❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@tiggerisheeyore9350]

Congratulations on your long relationship, Ash. Don't let anyone tell you that you aren't allowed to happy. Don't let anyone tell you what you are "supposed" to focus on. It's your life, you are the driver. I have always wished you the best for future, i have always said i would be there to support you. Nothing has changed, you have a right to a private life too. What you chose to share, i am here to celebrate or offer condolences for. Love ya Ash, wishing you all the best for the future

[@MrsDeniz27]

The fact that beanie got a bf and now it’s ash! Omzeeeee!!! Can’t wait for Joan :D

[@keanismyname]

OMG I ONLY FOUND OUT NOW!!! SO HAPPY FOR YOU UNNIE. We totally did not see this coming but i had an inkling watching your vlogs before hehe

[@gnuoyawh]

i’m so happy for you ashley!!! i can’t wait until u decide to introduce him to us (if u ever decide to)! also i totally agree with joan, i think once you start moving in with him, it would make sense to start a new vlog series/segment instead of adding it to the adulting series. it’s just a new chapter in ur life and another step forward adulting! and even though we’re all still learning and growing, i feel like when u started the series, adulting meant something different. and now u have learned so much and grew so much!! but again, this is just my opinion, take it with a grain of salt and do whatever feels right!! i love watching ur videos and just love u as a person! u inspire me so much, u really don’t understand 🥹🥹 sending u lots of love and a warm hug from cali

[@johnhays155]

Wow, four years!! It's cool that you finally felt able to let us know, it's got to be a difficult balance to try and live a fulfilling life while having to hide a large aspect of it. I remember in one of the videos a lot of comments were joking about Ash's boyfriend being the camera man, looking back now that was probably correct! Honestly I've wasted about 15 minutes sitting here trying to guess who it could be which basically consists of anyone I've seen on Sound K or in any vlog situations. 😂😂

[@denisemesana7401]

4 years!!!!! So happy for you Ashely 🥰

[@deekshasharma8859]

SO HAPPY FOR YOU ASHH! I hope you're happy and feeling extremely loved ❤

[@miszpazao]

Yes! I love that my relationship with my best friends is so low maintenance. Like we don’t talk everyday or even see eachother that much but when we’re together, it’s like nothing has changed. Obviously when we need eachother, we summon a three way FaceTime call. Lol.

[@calidriscanutus]

awww I missed you guys!!! and I'm so happy for you Ashley!!! so cute!!!!

[@SaySayG]

YESSSS!!! We’ve been waiting for the news!!!! I’m so happy for you Ash! Omg this makes me so happy!!!!!! If anything we love you even more

[@ascene76]

Omg, so relatable. not dating in my almost 30, hyper independence and all this stuff… but also I wanna have children in future. So many worries 😑 and I’m this single friend surrounded with couples

[@that_sam_94]

I'm so happy for you Ashley!!! 4 years!!! Congratulations!! Feel free to take things as slow as you want in introducing him! It's your relationship!

[@LSYJ_.l]

I love this💖 and girl we are rooting and happy for you. If he makes you happy we love him, if he does anything to hurt you you know why gonna happend. Love u 🦋

[@Teanaleaf]

This felt so unhinged and I am here for it!😂🎉

[@karenkatequilat9881]

O M G!! 4 YEARS!!! must feel really good to spill it out and date freely!! So happy for you ashlili!! ❤❤❤

[@annac858]

gahhhh 4 years?!?! I was not expecting this!!! I am sooo happy for you Ashley!

[@geekdiggy]

take a sip every time joan drops the F bomb. it's so cute☺

[@kharen9532]

awww.. finally the best wine spill ever.. 🍷🍾 i think I knew it since SoundK 🙊🙈 thank u for sharing and confirming these important infos about your life now u only deserve the best and feel loved.. don't worry nothing will change, will always support u and wishing u all the best in your future.. 💖💗