Ask for PERMISSION in a marriage?!!

[@jeffkangar]

“To go fast, go alone. To go far, go with others.” “Team work makes the dream work”

[@williammcdaniel595]

Simple but truth

[@ieshiav7003]

💓

[@rubelzaffar235]

Bet all of you love your white friends

[@moddybest]

Very simple and easy though.

[@nellieiortyer4580]

Mad ooooo

[@75kwbsrdds]

Ling, you are right on the money. I've been married for 30 years. My wife has been a stay at home wife and mother for the majority of that time. I am a Healthcare provider and earn a very good living. With that said, I don't spend a cent, make any informed decisions or changes that affects my family without discussion with my wife. I do this because I respect, honor, equally partner with, and unconditionally love my wife and family. Do I have to. No. Do I need to. No. Do I want to. Yes. Marriage is the daily dying to your own self. Stay in love with dignity and respect. 30 years and counting.

[@LingandLamb]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@JMAK2024]

Wooow

[@adaokonkwo1237]

This is also why she has been able to sacrifice her dreams for the good of her family.

[@okeaduloju584]

👏👏👏👏👏👏 well said!!!

[@thelonesoul968]

Woow! Congratulations 🎉 Perfect example!

[@shareniquesheay]

“Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?” ‭‭Amos‬ ‭3:3‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

[@done5060]

God bless you!

[@hephzibahmakhetha4371]

Preach!

[@mcnstein646]

Wonderful biblical reference. I never saw this coming. This is the perfect answer for this situation. Even the Bible recognizes the part of mutual agreement. I pray they don't listen to people like that lady that made such comment.

[@shareniquesheay]

@@mcnstein646 you will be surprised what the Word of God have to say about everything in our lives, even about this.

[@kimlee8768]

Amen sis

[@lonen3rd]

It's "respect", not "permission". Asking for the other person's opinion or informing them shows that you care about them and that you value their opinion. It's nothing to do with permission.

[@aquilono]

Respect or permission, that's just semantics. What's the difference? Ultimately, within a marriage you simply cannot just do what you want because now you're in a partnership, you are in a permanent state of compromise. Changing the wording doesn't change the meaning. Today we elevate our own individuality so much so that somehow asking permission from someone you love is considered a form of oppression, especially if it's a woman doing the asking from a man. Out of respect for It's just co-operation.

[@lonen3rd]

@@aquilono It's not just in marriage. Even with your friends, when you know what you are about to do will affect your friend in some way, will you go ahead and do it because you're just friends? I assume No. If it's going to affect me, I deserve to know or give my opinion. Also, I'm talking about me. I'm sure there are others who would want to do things differently. To me, this is respecting the other person's feelings/emotions or valuing their opinion. For example, when you call your "partner" and tell them you'll be late for home, you aren't actually seeking permission to be late. You are letting them know because you don't wanna worry them. This is pure communication, nothing to do with permissions.

[@aquilono]

@@lonen3rd I completely agree with everything except the last sentence where you seem to disagree with yourself! 😊

[@lonen3rd]

@@aquilono 😃😃 That last part is just okay. Just Google the difference between respect and permission and read the explanations with an open mind ☺️

[@officialmko_]

You've said it all sis

[@samsonoluwafemiojiti9438]

Ignore her, such individuals can barely maintain relationships... The fact that she thinks it's sad to discuss decisions with your spouse before taking them is pathetic, lonely and sad. Y'all are doing great, you inspire me...

[@Relax_meditate35]

I don't make decisions without discussing it with my husband and he doesn't take decision with discussing with me. It's called respect. We both respect each other and we know once we are married, whatever decision we take as individuals will affect the other either positively or negatively. As couples, never make decisions without your spouse in the picture

[@marshabenjamin-hawaaboo5778]

AMEN!🙏

[@marionoliviera60]

Well said!!

[@feliciasjourney1437]

Well said. Truth. Some people just like to throw respect away and wonder why their relationship or marriage is not working. Respect is universal. Thank you for sharing. Keep up the good work.

[@vonne6549]

So true Ling and lamb, tnx guys,

[@motorcityb8551]

Perfectly said

[@FireflyTM247]

My husband and I operate with CARE( Communication, Accountability, Respect, Encouragement) in our marriage and I love to see that you both do the same as well. I pray the person that made the “permission” comment is able to experience that type of care one day.

[@OgoNwadi]

You're on point

[@chidinmaeke1417]

CARE- copied !!!!!

[@jesussaves6625]

I love that! Very nice. :)

[@keahharrison4765]

I’m not married yet but I love that

[@FireflyTM247]

@@keahharrison4765 you don’t have to be married it’s the basic foundation for any type of relationship. Thank you 😊

[@David_Jr]

There have been many times where I had an idea, but my wife had a better idea. If I would not have talked it through, I would have missed out on her input. It is not permission, but collaboration.

[@LingandLamb]

Amazing!!!

[@freshdesign2026]

💯💯💯💯

[@gr8tone332]

David Wallace, Jr you are absolutely right. When you discuss with your wife, you are setting yourself up for more and better options. Two heads are better than one

[@ministergshavonnegarvey]

#Collaboration! I like that term in this context.

[@ezathmoras1004]

i think ling and lamb makes relationship looks like more of friendship and partnership than a romantic fairytale thingy...and i think this is so refreshing for married couple and that is something nice...

[@musasuso]

And thats really how its supposed to be. Romance doesn't keep a marriage.

[@officialmko_]

I like how you two clarified this issue. The problem is, we live in such a selfish period, people now operate on a wavelength of liberalism and selfishness. There's something called communication, respect, and understanding.

[@frankservant5754]

Well said

[@janellcrews6108]

Yes we don't ask if we can get a tattoo or our another hole in our ear. Something like a dog, cat, or something expensive affect everyone in the family.

[@gij122]

Well said. It's about respecting one another. I am so sick of some people and their selfish thought processes. It takes two people to make a marriage work. You don't do what you want regardless of your partners feelings. People like that need to stay single. It's not about permission, it's respecting one another as two adults working together and moving as one, Gheez. I love you guys and your content, so worth watching. Respect 🇭🇹 proud.

[@yvonneboaten8289]

@@janellcrews6108 even the two I still would because some partners don't like it. If you feel so strongly about it, then you need to engage on it.

[@cariciaangela3052]

the girl/ woman that made that comment was never in a relationship, or has an entirely different view on marriage. To her, good luck finding a partner!

[@Wha_SAAB]

This is why she is either divorced or perpetually single.

[@RBing]

Good luck to whomever she ends up with. Poor him

[@TJL2010]

Exactly...lol

[@kbmomyluv4]

@Caricia Angela RIGHT!

[@williammcdaniel595]

Facts she probably is still looking for a good man acting that way she never will have one..

[@lozzylols]

I love how being on camera isn't stopping Lamb from eating his dinner..... You both always make me smile and brighten my day!

[@didelidonch5987]

@Some Fire Stuff if you don't know! you don't know.

[@CreateYourOwnEconomy]

What are you eating?

[@belletiblaq123]

Hy lolly, you look great 😍❤

[@brookfrabrook1165]

Lamb love his food so much you know that innit lol.

[@Thewignurseco]

When Lamb says “you know I’ve realized something” you know he’s about to drop some wisdom 🥰 I love you guys !

[@esjaysmith486]

Lamb speaks so highly of Ling and he absolutely adores her so this comment really bothered him. You can tell by how much he spoke in this video. When he said “I love my wife and I respect her” ♥️😭 The way you two consider each other in these aspects of your life is just proof of a healthy marriage. I love your videos and this one just made me love you guys more ♥️

[@TchillaOla]

they are my dream couple

[@nhills505]

Right they seem so supportive, compassionate and loving towards one another 👌🏽💛💛💛

[@hildahchiriga805]

I am 47 and taking notes. I guess it's never too late. Wisdom at it's best. Love you guys.

[@sueog7641]

Am 56 and married but still taking notes from this beautiful couple 😂

[@yoyo23456]

You guys are great don’t listen to negative people like her .You did the right. Thing it’s about mutual love a respect

[@ajeurai8331]

Yes well said

[@Emeldalala]

100% agree with you.

[@juliesantana251]

True

[@shereserobertson7394]

So true

[@realtalkwithphil]

⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

[@exoticnature5414]

“I love my wife and I respect her”. Oh my God! Guy you are good!!

[@mikewilkins2030]

“ let her get thee office. Let her run thee office” 😂 y’all are amazing. But an African accent will always make us Americans laugh! 😂😂😂 love the mother land

[@chidiebere]

I read in king james version. I had to read again to understand 😸

[@lynnetopara]

@@chidiebere 😭

[@xazzybwoii8853]

@@chidiebere he say king James 😂 I don die😭😂

[@chidiebere]

@@lynnetopara lol 😆

[@BoUnCeYblonde1]

This lady who said that needs a reality check. Clearly she’s never been in a working relationship. It’s called having a discussion not asking for permission

[@bissongnaomibest5532]

Well thanks to her I get to learn another lesson from these adorable two

[@karlmax6031]

I'm sorry, its the 4th Wave feminist mentality.

[@malandz]

I am am 19 year old Zimbabwean. I thank you for teaching me . Every day about life and how to keep happy

[@sheilas9659]

My husband & I discuss things all the time and come to decisions together. It’s not sad it’s respect .

[@keopens1827]

That's why lots of relationships fail! I love and respect my husband. That's why I ask! PERIOD!

[@LilAngel87]

I haven't seen two people in love like this for a long time. May God bless and keep your family.

[@maranatha6730]

AMEN.

[@sweetiepie4983]

AMEN💝💝💝

[@Darcsymphonie]

Some men would never be that honest. God bless your marriage.

[@tiyamika.yawawa1205]

Very true

[@realtalkwithphil]

Yeah, some. I respect my woman and she does respect me too even when we aren't married yet. We're already creating the standard of how we want our marriage to be even before we tie the nut.

[@defrankmedia7520]

Remember that it was a woman that asked the question.

[@thetruthdirectory]

This couple have a lovely way of giving good advice while making us laugh.

[@chantayeskitchen9610]

You know why i love this family so much? Just so real…no overload of edits omg they’re so refreshing 🥰

[@ql2ku]

It's not like "ask for permission," it's more you both live together and share the space, why wouldn't you talk about something, and come to an agreement together, about something that effects both of your lives.

[@chidiebere]

Love your input

[@boluadebayoable]

sometimes you just understand their emotion even without knowing their answer already

[@Birdbike719]

With anyone you live with, married or not.

[@EDINTOWN]

When I was living in a shared flat, I had to speak to my flat mate and get their permission whenever I want to make changes in the house. We were not in a relationship or anything like that but i enjoyed living in a peaceful home with people I love so I had to ask them.

[@LingandLamb]

Great thing to do! Thanks for watching!

[@avrilskeete3761]

My daughter did the exact same thing, she brought a newborn puppy home without her husband's permission. I told her that she was wrong and she should discuss it with her husband and so she did. The husband said no I don't want a dog in my house. She disregarded his opinion and the dog was living with them the very next day. The husband of course was very upset to say the least, he argued with her to no avail, to make a long story short, he now grew the love the dog and he even take the dog for walks. The dog loves him and even though he loves the dog he would not admit it to this day. Husbands and wives should always come to the same agreement and not make rash decisions without consenting with each other. My daughter was lucky that her husband didn't toss her and the dog out. Thank you for sharing this topic Ling and Lamb.

[@banjilubobya284]

"If you're so independent, marry yourself."🤣 "Don't mistake being independent for not being a team player." 🔥 Love you guys🇿🇲

[@realtalkwithphil]

Best marriage quote ever

[@banjilubobya284]

@@realtalkwithphil Absolutely!

[@Bumblebee-macan]

@@banjilubobya284 💯 my fellow Zambian

[@roganforever7755]

🇿🇲 🇿🇲

[@DBMuk1]

Yep! Love it!

[@me4getz]

YES!! You are correct Ling. The word permission is not the issue here. It is a partnership, collaboration - a team!

[@macosbyanthony896]

Exactly. You are not asking permission, you are asking the opinion of the other person you desire to share your all with. It is called respect. I sought my wife's consent before marrying her. I said I needed a team player and I got one. Love and unity is that simple when there is respect and disclosure. But damn, they just made me hungry...

[@alvacadle-ajisafe7778]

Listen that explanation with the fingers eating that soup was perfectoo; I do not care what anybody says , my hubby and I will always seek each others opinion before moving on things in life. You guys just keep it up!

[@LingandLamb]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@kaylaspangle9148]

I'm 27 and have been married for 3 yrs. Regardless of what the situation is I feel like 100% both parties should discuss things and ask/talk it over. It's team effort, exactly! Bless you guys. ❤️❤️

[@ldenisedavis]

Whoever said that is definitely single. I agree that it’s not about permission, but consultation, especially when the decision impacts the other person in any way. Transparency is truly key. There’s nothing that the other person shouldn’t know about unless it’s a good surprise.

[@Crystalhurb]

This us why i love you guys. I'm 36 years old and have been married for 17 years already. We've been thru it all but when your in a marriage its not asking permission its what is mutually right and respect for your spouse. This generation has lots all murals and respect for eachother. Their to opinionated and selfish. I have so much respect for you both cuz you live the way i do and honestly we need more influencers like you both. Your both such amazing role models for our younger generation. I only pray my 3 kids would look up to you both like they to to me and my husbands. Honestly the things my kids tell me that their friends do is crazy. This social media i hate cuz all it does is cause key bord warrior's and cause massive cyber bullying and is so toxic. That's why i hate commenting but i had to to honestly say thank you for being an amazing example of what a couple/ family unit is. Mad Respect and love for you both. Blessing to you all and i pray god will continue blessing you immeasurably and your KZbin channel's growth. Blessing's

[@Blackmachismoo]

Facts

[@mimit-h2418]

💯 🙌🏾

[@TruthTroubadour-xi9cc]

Social media does cause SOME people to be keyboard warriors and do cyber-bullying, but most of us do not engage in that bad behavior. It's not ALL that social media does: it helps friends and family stay connected and there are so many instructional videos. One can learn to bake bread, how to put on a continuous glucose monitor or install a mini SD card in a cell phone.

[@ticksokay9330]

Well said 👍

[@Tokenya]

You both honor the marriage and respect each other! My husband and I operate our marriage the same way! It’s not “permission” it’s RESPECT. Love you both ❤️

[@toyazara]

This was an amazing video. A lot of people of the world have completely neglected the beauty of teamwork in a marriage. The bible says “And the two will become ONE”.

[@mattylisasappleton796]

Found this channel yesterday and I’m sooooooo in love with how you guys love each other it’s so magical….been binged watching since I found you guys ❤️

[@LingandLamb]

Awwww. We’re so happy you found us. Welcome to the Ling and Lamb fam! ❤️

[@Thing1DadaThing2Kiki]

Welcome to tha Fam!

[@shapopiheelu9474]

Welcome to the team

[@lifeiseverything9]

@@LingandLamb I Even hear my grandad discussing his thoughts with others to check if he is making the decision right. My parents are always making decisions together.

[@adhekeoghenekome9834]

I'm new too. My boyfriend actually introduced you guys to me and I've been loving you guys ever since. We really hope to be like you guys too. God bless you both real good.

[@kiadent357]

This has got to be my favorite vlog from you all. Your husband is not only hilarious, kind, talented and can cook. He’s deep with his philosophy! Much love to you both❤️

[@jedidiahigwe2509]

When Lamb did that finger teamwork skit...my respect for him flew through the roof🤝😂. I really do love watching these two

[@theycallmeshug]

The response to her comment was handled with grace and it was truly a teachable moment not only for the person who left the comment but for those who may be in relationships and considering marriage. It was a classy clap back without it being an actual clap back. That my friends is how you do it

[@anneanabui9440]

Yes, Ling is right. Using the word permission is like between a child and a parent. The thing is that marriage is like sharing an apartment with your friend. You must understand that you are not the only one living in that apartment. You are sharing it with someone. So, you must discuss and share ideas that will benefit both you and your flatmate (significant other) because you both are different based on personality and behaviour. The Bible says, "come, let us reason together". So, it's not permission, it's having a reasonable conversation that will benefit both parties. Love you, ling and lamb. ❤

[@cityofjerusalem8824]

Can I like thiß more than once

[@onuohavalentine2180]

Nice one

[@HaahmayanShaalManasseh]

Not necessarily because it explains and clearly points out in 1 Corinthians the role of your husband and you the wife being in subjection ain’t nowhere in the Bible mentioning men and women being friends 😂🤣 you dey crazy 😜 repent for the kingdom of heaven is at hand 🤚🏽

[@HaahmayanShaalManasseh]

Gen 3:16 KJV ladies 😊 we’re help meets to our husband ✊🏽👊🏽

[@frankservant5754]

amen

[@pheynx7573]

My wife and I actually went through this exact same thing a few months ago, we adopted a kitten from a shelter and it turned out to be a great decision. That being said it took me a long time to warm up to the idea of adopting a kitten because I knew how much work was involved and I wasn't ready. My wife and I talked about it for months and one day I was like hey why not, we went to the shelter and the rest is history. Talking about adopting a cat and taking our time with the decision insured that we were both completely invested.

[@batk0427]

Lamb is balanced. He's funny as hell. And seriously rational.

[@worship568]

This is so good. In marriage, Maturity is defined by interdependence not by independence

[@mokayode8189]

I was here first.. love you guys🤗 I'm not married, but I think for marriage to work there must be a pilot- Co- pilot relationship. That is both partners are working effectively to make the marriage work. Asking for permission to get a 🐕 is needed, it's a responsibility that needs joint effort to work...

[@willowbe4747]

A dog is a big deal, it's like having a child. My 16 year old got a dog without asking me.I was furious! Animals changes the smell of your home, that's the least of a list of issues. But most of all I'm allergic! I can't imagine being married and my husband just go out and get a dog. What I most complained about is she took away my choice in the matter. It's about being kind and considerate to the people that you live with. The young lady needs to grow up. Much love to you guys!

[@jujujo2203]

You guys are speaking facts.

[@thelma8398]

That person has no concept of respect and clarity of what commitment means. No understanding of mutual respect. I’ve been married 34 years and that’s due to respect and concern for each other. Live your lives as God ordained. Many people are learning from you. Lamb made me try egusi and fufu yesterday. Love it!

[@franklindamasus8819]

"don't waste that soup o, put it here" 😂 You can take the man out of Nigeria but never Nigeria out of the man 😂. These guys are so nice together and funny 😂

[@temmyn1943]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@thokoziletapambwa509]

The person who made that comment doesnt know the definition of marriage

[@charminetaylor9247]

Is that Soup? I am puzzled. In Jamaica, Soup is more Liquid than solid Food and we can't use our Hands.I need me some African lessons.

[@evadiva2522]

@@charminetaylor9247 if you are ready,I can teach you loads Nigerian foods.sending you loads of love

[@Angela_Muwang]

Hahahahah ikr.... he is truely a nigerian... and he doesnt fake it at all i mean he stays in the US and still he remembered his roots and still follows it.... Besides, i wonder that when they'll have their Children then whose accent they'll follow...

[@paula.2422]

I agree with you 100%! This is the difference between living and being married in the Word vs the world. I consider my wife in all things that I do...because I love and respect her. Likewise, she does the same with me. This is marriage.

[@JoeawesomeandBerlin]

The example of finger teamwork is priceless! Just sums it all up very nicely! Thank you guys for letting us interrupt your supper to seek some insight! I pray that the Lord will continue to bless you, give you wisdom, and let his light shine upon you!

[@stephenakpobome2426]

This video is 100% SENSE. If you truly want to live in PEACE and make your union a SUCCESS, please listen to these guys

[@realtalkwithphil]

Highly recommend marriage channel👌🏾💯💯💯💯💯

[@ifeanyisimon8204]

You have the most understanding wife ever I'm from Nigeria Igbo

[@jacquelineoduselu9928]

To be married is to be considerate of your life partner in the small to great things alike.

[@apiscesthang4608]

I'm not even married and I ask my bf of 4yrs everything b4 I make decisions....not because I have to but out of respect to keep us on the same page!!

[@humpheryemo6695]

Your matter legit.. Make I find one when go be like you nah

[@humbleflex9038]

Hi Pisces👋

[@ireneirene4866]

Of course

[@apiscesthang4608]

@@humbleflex9038 👋

[@paulinenyajohn8474]

True

[@alasrae]

When you’re married it’s called communication and consideration.

[@msviemaxwell9235]

Teamwork is what makes things work like a well oiled machine. Working against each other never works. Love you guys ❤😊✌🏾✌🏾

[@allisonlaroche626]

That's how ppl does destroy marriages, its not permission its considering your partner and having respect and love for each other. Live your life always do wat works for you and communication is awesome in any marriage or healthy relationship.

[@naomithompson9716]

Marriage is sweet if God is the center of it. Keep loving and respecting each other

[@Mekuzee_Khen]

Lamb my guy!!! Omoh I dey extremely proud of you and wetin you stand for. Weh done sah! Much love to you two. Your ideals are very reasonable and your approach very commendable. Keep being your authentic selves I'm learning a lot. I love you, Ling and Lamb.

[@pappyt8901]

Confesion time guys:I couldn't complete seeing your post at work so I paused, got home,informed my wife,make some soft Amala(lamb understands)with Okro to enjoy with my better half to see it completely. Bottom line,2 has become 1 so both has to be involved. Love you guys to the bone.

[@Mekuzee_Khen]

@@pappyt8901 I'm not married yet. So I paused the video, went out and got eba with oha soup and continued watching. 😂😂😂😂

[@mistysalters5246]

I have been married twice. Both deceased. But miss being married. Marriage is so precious and sweet. Enjoy it guys!

[@jaykaizen5648]

Sorry to hear that ☹

[@chinenyeosuji4864]

So sorry for your loss

[@mistysalters5246]

Thank you guys.

[@sijabulisonkomo9445]

Marriage is a two way Street . Please leave this Sad people alone NOW. Continue loving and respecting each other. ❤❤❤

[@jabulanitheron9268]

It's always these sad people who are the loudest.

[@mcnstein646]

Haha. There are a lot of home-breakers out there, truly sad people. Don't mind them.

[@jaisweet525]

Lamb was stating straight facts!! Analogy and all! Love it!

[@jaecepeda7752]

Of course he used his food to make us understand more clearly what team work is😂🤣😂 , thank you for always being so genuine, marriage is beautiful as long as there’s love, communication and understanding.

[@jenniferharris482]

I love what you guys are saying. Talking to one another about decisions or ideas you have shows #1 that your friends first and that you have honor and respect for one another. # 2 it shows that you trust one another and value each other's opinion. These truths that you have laid out here are foundational for every relationship. Communication is KEY!

[@jamaicangirl3000]

I completely agree with you both. Communication is the key to any relationship

[@EAUGUSTA1]

I love this reasoning and I strongly believe so as well. Respect for one another is so important to have a successful marriage!🙏❤️☺️

[@inspirationmomentswithugo3364]

Love grows with respect! Lamb and Ling finish work

[@constancesuri9265]

Marriage is a team work together is not all about money, love you guys watching from Australia.

[@kimberlygathings2936]

I'm very blessed that my husband is my very best friend for 31 yrs, I'm just very thankful.

[@wessdidthat]

I am single. For good reason lol. This conversation has always been my outlook on what I want my relationship to represent (truly, not just look like it for the public and disrespectful behind closed doors) I’ve always stressed how the respect and communication, honest communication at that, needs to go both ways. One person cannot pour honesty and respect into the relationship and not get that back. It won’t work. Also I agree with if you do think that (selfish within the partnership or out for self) them that’s ok just be honest about that and not misleading and stay single. So simple but so complicated. Thanks for the conversation. Love you guys 🥰

[@backinX]

I love how they're being more and more one.

[@aniquecalambert137]

She’s probably not even married 🙄 anyway I’ve been married for 28 years and I’m 47 so imagine all the things we had to learn. The things that has stayed consistent in our marriage is mutual respect, communication and consideration. Please! Thank you! May you! I appreciate you! Common courtesy goes a long damn way.

[@itzsnake4761]

@@aniquecalambert137 she is married 😂

[@lynnetopara]

@@itzsnake4761 i think she’s talking about the person that commented “it’s sad to ask for permission in a marriage”

[@eka-eteololade710]

Very soon, Lamb n Ling will start looking alike❤💙💚💛

[@eni7807]

Lamb’s finger illustration is everything.

[@cheryllinton6425]

Love the fingers explanations you are so right permission is not for marriage it’s for children ty

[@herculeezherculeez5368]

You guys have an beautiful relationship I love it. Sad people don't like to see people happy. I would love to take a trip with you guys to Jamaica 🇯🇲 yah mon

[@brendawheeler6690]

3,

[@ezinneagada2891]

I love the way lamb is sooo comfortable with his Nigerian accent!!! Other Nigerians would work at throwing it away immediately they are out of the country. Keep being confident and original. And yeah, my husband is "my precious" (S Miguel's voice). We discuss all sorts of stuff;seeking "permission" all the time. It makes us so close.

[@tamsuli]

Team work makes the dream work. You guys have a lovely partnership and so true, marriage or any relationship where you are building a life together requires communicating for the love and respect of it all. Most definitely makes for a happier union. It's not about permission as much as it is checking in with each other and talking about what impacts or may possibly impact the two of you ❤️

[@adamstayo]

You are right lamb, there is a difference between permission and discussion. In marriage.

[@carlap4119]

What you and Lamb have is what you call LOVE. Real true love. Every couple who say their in love should know and understand that.

[@deltadawn9276]

Talking to your soul, your conscience, align with your spirit...love that !

[@traceyholmes8022]

Right on L&L! To disregard or disrespect someone's presence in your life when making decisions that effect both people is wrong. If one goes out and decides to eat like a Hotdog... that's an individual decision but bringing in a live animal will effect all who live there. It is respectful and shows thoughtfulness for all involved in the living situation! It's not permission Ling seeks....it's that she loves and respects Lamb and how he feels about it. ♥️✝️♥️

[@debrasalter3338]

It's called having mutual respect for your partners wants, needs and opinions. It's not that you have to ask permission. If it effects both people it needs to be discussed. I don't understand why people don't understand that. I love you guys. ♥️🙏🕊️🕯️🌈

[@jillianarnold441]

Its not permission, its respect!!

[@carlalayne3942]

It's the word permission that takes the discussion to the next level.. marriage is not a one man army.. whatever choices you gonna make that will impact the home needs to b discussed first with your partner.

[@sisharrington]

Absolutely correct! Two become One, under God! That means that communication and asking about the other spouses thoughts and boundaries becomes necessary out of respect and love for one another 💜💜 I love y’all, you two are a beautiful, loving couple and are showing other’s what a healthy marriage consists of, which includes communicating about anything and everything! Be well and be blessed Ling&Lamb 🙏🏼💜🙏🏼

[@obanijude2258]

I do not make decisions without first having conversation with my wife and we both agree on it. I am a system administrator/Azure Devops engineer but I have huge passion for music. My wife told me she do not think it's time for that yet backing it up with facts. I had to listen to her regardless of the pressure coming from friends and colleagues. This is because we are a team and it shows I respect her. In marriage it is ideal to seek permission from your partner before taking a major decision because directly or indirectly, there are lots of dependencies tied to your decision and if it goes wrong you won't be the only one to feel the impact.

[@jerryscottscott1585]

Yeah

[@jennifergardner3073]

Ypu guys have the foundation to a successful relationship down to a T. I can see you both growing old together. You're an inspiration . Like the eye contact between you 2. Says a lot

[@lindahall7465]

Ling and Lamb, I need the video on making the Farina ball. The scenarios on the importance of communicating about permission, EXCELLENT!!! The only way you're going to have a happy marriage, a workable marriage, togetherness in the marriage. All right? Love you guys. Love💕

[@michellepaz875]

Exactly. It's the way the commenter worded it.. she clearly has her own trauma that needs to be worked out. It's not "permission" to have a discussion over something with the person you're doing life with... The way it would be with a parent and child. It's just being considerate and wanting that person's input so you're on the same page. And honestly yes if we're living in the same house, yes you have to ask and consult with me about changes made in a space we both inhabit because the responsibility will lie on both of our shoulders.

[@omowunmikalejaiye4986]

This lady, is so classy with God given wisdom. God bless this home

[@damonh.1945]

Hello Ling and Lamb, I recently started watching you guys and found you two to be awesome. Thank you for having such great content and allowing us to be a part of your lives. On the subject of the woman, my first thought was if she was married the relationship is probably toxic and one sided. She seemed selfish in her comment. I totally agree with her " marrying herself" because with an attitude like that she is definitely bound to loneliness until it dawns on her to change her ways.

[@thomasduncanjr5809]

I so love this! This is exactly how my marriage is with my wife and I. Glad you all dropped these Gems to educate people on having a good relationship and respect for one another. My wife and I have been asked the same question as in regards to “PERMISSION”! These are our exact views and i am glad to see that there are other couples that live by these values as RESPECTING one another! Love and prosperity my beautiful people! ✊🏽

[@magneticmoneymore]

Ling & Lamb, I am 60 years and believe or not you guys are teaching me some things. You both have great wisdom. I'm not sure how old you are but God is definitely working in your life!

[@HGM01247]

One of the main reasons why I love watching you both is the ton of wisdom you have! God bless you 💝

[@my-eshakeyon7916]

I totally agree, it’s all about Respect, PERIOD! Not permission

[@kayg26]

Making fufu seems to be a whole workout from the KZbin videos I’ve watched but I’m about to do it! I’m hungry watching y’all chow down!! I want some Efo Riro and Fufu. Pray for my arms .

[@camillaaddison9770]

These two crack me up so much! Lamb, you remind me of home every time I watch you😂🤣. I’m from Ghana 🇬🇭 but have been living in the US for a very long time. You make me miss back home with your comments, mannerisms, African sounds, eating with your hands, etc. you two are hilarious 😂. Keep it up. Much love 💕

[@danycehill]

Its not permission:when they married they became one in all thing's. You are AWESOME and full of Godly wisdom and maturity. #loveyoumuch ❤️ 💕 💯

[@naturalgirly43]

I totally agree, it’s not permission it’s respect and communication. The person is probably single that commented or never had a relationship with that level of understanding.