Ask Steve: Find Me A Man!

Elaine will meet a guy and the same thing happens every time. They ask her out and have what she thinks is a great time, they ask her out for a second date...and then they never call, no explanation, they just disappear after the first date. They'll magically reappear weeks or months later, acting like nothing happened.
What should Elaine say to these guys when they randomly pop back up into her life?