Hey Steve: Her Man Isn’t Making an Effort || STEVE HARVEY

She’s dating a man with a daughter, but noticed he’s not prioritizing her. Should she stay with him?
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[@ashishnaik2310]

"I'm like a blossoming flower and he's like a fermenting fruit ....." Sheesh then why TF you dating him blabbermouth?

[@riobetancourt8825]

INSECURE

[@wtroupe64wt]

Facts

[@antonioallen9504]

Exactly. And she says she really likes him more than the other guys but why is she talking about him like that?

[@ashishnaik2310]

@@antonioallen9504 damn straight

[@deficator750]

Yeah but if the genders were reversed guess what steve would say? ‘The guy can’t get any better he should be patient the womens right blah blah’

[@JohnnySensei7]

You can’t talk bad about someone’s age if you didn’t mind it when you were with them

[@SnowFoxParty]

Yup

[@christylouis2611]

Just like someone's weight too

[@izonlimi662]

Indeed. That was intended to put him in a negative light but it showed her up as distasteful instead.

[@etf42]

shes trying to lower his value in her eyes so she can justify leaving him or not being attracted to him, and steve is helping her

[@ysmithriley]

So, this behavior would be OK if he was a younger man? His age isn't the problem. He's an @$$Hole, plain and simple that's playing her! She needs to leave and stop wasting her time. The feelings shared between them aren't mutual.

[@maudriehicks7089]

Two major things I got STOP collecting red flags, and don't allow a man to SHOW you twice that he doesn't want you.

[@converseboyy1303]

It's tell not show but but ur right with the two major points

[@iannoana6881]

👌🏻

[@Starscream_313]

She's lying !!

[@Jay-jb2vr]

@@converseboyy1303 actions speak louder than words

[@converseboyy1303]

@@Jay-jb2vr I agree, but I dont get why your saying this

[@yushikasubedi4275]

"Don't let a man tell you twice he doesn't want you."... How sad yet true it is ❤️

[@youknow95]

Just leave and move on

[@VishalSingh-pz6mm]

@@youknow95 actually this woman was just crazy and a real man can actually see that easily and if i were in place of that man, i would have prolly did the same

[@ashishranjan887]

True.... Men are not emotional like women. So once we say we don't want a girl.... We truly mean it. If a man thinks that a girl is precious for him... He will never let her go and will do whatever he can to keep her happy but if he thinks that the girl is not worth his time and effort then nothing can make him love that girl.

[@mayssa148]

Yeah so sad actually

[@FernandoGonzalez-ub9iw]

And vice-versa...

[@brokerabbit94]

The way she keeps interrupting Steve is a Red Flag itself..

[@olisbecky]

This lady need to acquire listening ability...I think she is more of a talker and no one like a too all the way talker.... She keep interrupting Steve all through the conversation... I wonder how she will behave in the relationship not judging but a subtle observation I noticed

[@corneilmadison9436]

That's probably why he hasn't responded back to her, it's Valentine's day and I didn't get nothing, y'all only been dating for six months geez, she seems like she do wine a lot, no man wants to deal with that

[@patrilla101]

I felt the same way.... too talkative.

[@kamvaallan2653]

True, Mr Harvey handled it well too., I was expecting him to say, 'lady keep quiet & listen'. She was too much.

[@stephaniemwadime3329]

Did you just say not judging then right a whole 2 paragraphs of judgement😂😂😂 okay Becky

[@maxlisk80]

She is from New York. This is normal

[@TheBryanmauro]

8 months and she is receiving gifts from other men? Ummm, I'd like to hear his side of the story....

[@geremymason5936]

No need. He knows shes entertaining other men and is treating her accordingly.

[@tarysunshine3878]

She’s a singer. Men sometimes give gifts regardless

[@howardcroft3748]

This girl is young and keeping her options open... my thoughts were she got caught out by a man who has been here before. So she directs the blame to him and does not listen to the message she was just sent "Sweetheart, choose me or the other men" But like most women... nothing is ever their fault...

[@bhimsenluchooman4046]

@Tary Sunshine. Boys also give gifts. To their grandmother's, mothers, sisters, girlfriends, daughters....... ... If I was in the USA, I would give you a gift. 👗

[@coreymartin3218]

@@tarysunshine3878 When men send gifts to women, it's mainly towards family members or people who are no way a romance option. Also, 99% of the time when men send gifts to women who are a possible romance option, like the the lady in the video, they are hoping for something in return. I have little doubt that there weren't phone numbers and other contact information included in these gifts. The boyfriend is old enough that he likely isn't a fool and is aware of that possibility as well. If she honored her relationship she would not showcase these "gifts" in her home. You can refuse them. It's called........listen closely.......Standing up for your relationship. Secondly, she talks about what she gets from other guys and what she wants to receive from her boyfriend, but what is she giving towards the relationship?

[@lee48lee68]

He’s not interested. She should move on.

[@Andi91]

The aggressive way she talks would drive any man nuts in little to no time!

[@badddd]

She got other gifts and flowers from other men she entertaining...she tryna play both sides....he should just focus on his child....remember he's older, so he knows what she up to

[@webb555]

And I don’t blame him at all

[@americusdeville865]

Why should he be? She looks like a train wreck.

[@peacemaker4062]

And what should I do if would like to have a cup of coffee with you while listening to some deephouse and 🌞bathing on my favorite beach?

[@OutcastPyros]

Wow, that man dodged a bullet there. Steve actually saving that old man from that Karen 🤣🤣

[@brocsmith3917]

Dang I wish Steve would’ve told her what’s up like everyone else in the comment section. She’s the red flag. You don’t receive V day gifts from others while in a relationship unless you’re too flirty.

[@judith018]

I bet he was thinking, “woman shut the hell up.” I agree with others here that if she left her man, she’d be doing him a favor.

[@aubreevalantine9402]

I think so

[@marcycat]

She's too out there with herself. The 42 year old man wants a woman that's settled and doesn't need every man's attention. Other guys give her V-day junk because she flirts with them. Then she waves it in the man's face to try to make him jealous. Men don't Ike that.

[@dance4life1208]

She lost me with all the v day gifts from other men.. she probably talks and brags about other men to him

[@RaKenobi]

She seems like a lot to handle. I'm 42 and I like some peace.

[@arieslove6144]

thank you im so glad to hear that come out of a females mouth

[@voiceofreason4u147]

U DON'T know that stop assuming

[@badddd]

She entertaining other men.....if she was truly invested in him, she wouldn't want no other guys....if a woman is really about one dude, she's not gonna accept gifts from other men, the fact that she did tells everything.....this dude is older and he knows what she up to, he has experience...he focusing on his daughter which he should be

[@Guivaxs]

"I'm like a blossoming flower and he's like a fermenting fruit ....." Let me guess, this guy has some money, she wants to build a life with him because of that, immediately after she will jump to the other guys that she truly wants, she is angry because she must be loyal to him to accomplishes her plan.

[@benj1236]

*The man is older and wiser. He saw his red flag and started exiting when other men started sending her gifts. The fact is that she's playing a game and she's mad he doesn't want to play.*

[@tonyingram8627]

Dam that was a good response

[@ghorn1217]

Ares Lictor Why? He’s enjoying her, just not taking her seriously.

[@kris-wj3wj]

If she's getting a constant flow of flowers and stuff, she's hiding something. This guy smelled a cheater and ran lol.

[@SSGTA440]

Agreed....for sure, what I DO NOT understand as a 63 year old guy, is this incredible sense of entitlement and the desire for control so many of these women today seem to possess .....what is this? Are they mad?? Seems like so many go into this extravagant realm of panic... due to incredibly high levels of self loathing, triggered by certain events.....wow....this is nasty, and it is rampant in society. I should have been a clinical psychologist rather than a shop teacher....

[@antoniolima1068]

he wants integrity and she as none, case closed.

[@Lennakanci999]

She’s not collecting red flags. She IS a red flag.

[@apex_e3e070]

Was just about to comment this looool. I just see someone that really needs help. It's a shame

[@elisemartina9832]

What do you mean by this? Not trying to be rude, just curious :)

[@Lennakanci999]

Elise Martina red flag is something u wanna keep away from. And that’s what her man does. Thats what I mean.

[@PLAKINA]

Lmfao, she needs to find a new old man lol.

[@PLAKINA]

@Benjamin Mathew only way to go

[@dheerendrapant237]

At 40 , a man has his princess, his daughter. Don't even try to compete. Plus, I think he made the correct choice. 😂😂👌

[@codingiscreativity]

I can't say about whether it was right choice for the man but surely she did has some leftover feelings for him yet, she has her own life and multiple men as options. It would be hard for that man to replace her with equal valued woman who is desirable and have feelings for him too.

[@samboriboun2213]

A man has to have sex

[@smashmasternl3849]

@@samboriboun2213 nahh your right hand is enough

[@tigerish7tiger12]

Steve was trying to be considerate , by being polite, if he was not a nice polite person he would have blasted her off the roof and she would be ashamed of going viral on internet, steve considers other person feeling.

[@alexanderberyl402]

@@codingiscreativity HUH???? I know you don’t believe the crap you wrote 🤣😂

[@eetthgvrfhhfxf2272]

They way she talks and expresses herself...eewwww🤢 I don’t think you’re “boyfriend ” is the problem.

[@govindagawade8309]

your**

[@MissBlueBeauty]

I’m not saying that I agree with the man’s actions here, but dang girl! Don’t ever consider yourself a “trophy” just because you are pretty or young. It’s a full package deal and you still have some things to learn!

[@arieslove6144]

thank you christina

[@terenceholt49]

This girl needs to lose about 100lbs and the “ thinking she’s all that attitude “ my guess is he has enough drama via his ex and don’t need another princess he got his daughter, this girl says she loves his daughter “she seen her a couple of times “ and only been together for 8 months . She probably just wanted to go on tv and big up herself

[@terenceholt49]

@SARA wether this woman is fat or not is a subjective issue i would say by most mens and womens standards in the western world she is overweight maybe not quite obese but certainly borderline , she certainly never had the salad options unless it came with dressing . You also ignored the rest of my post which i think had valid points too.

[@tosinakin2508]

@@terenceholt49 Starting off with that absurd weight measurement didn't exactly help your point. From the looks of it, you either knew it was a crazy estimate when you said it, or you came at this situation with a biased negative viewpoint. Neither of those sound good for you. Using his daughter as an excuse is also terrible. Not only should that baby not be involved, but she also doesn't apply. The meeting her mother scenario could be excused with that, but the Valentine's Day scenario cannot. Period. He has no excuse for his actions. He knew what type of girl she was when he started dating her, and he chose Valentine's Day of all days to stop his romantic habits. As for her reason for coming to the show, she clarified that she needed validation and assurance that she was doing the right thing.

[@terenceholt49]

Tosin Akin from your name I am not sure English is your first language either way you don’t seem to understand the various nuances of language such as sarcasm or irony . As for your opinion that I came from a biased viewpoint, we all come from a biased viewpoint that’s why they are opinions. Facts are she is overweight by any standards and the fact she knew he was older than dirt when she first got him buying her food fact she brought up daughter not me and also brought up she was eating chocolate and probably the flowers she received from others . They were the facts my opinion is she didn’t need to mention any of this but she did go on to try to belittle the guy and big up herself . She realised she was the side chick as others put it and just tried to embarrass him where in reality she just made herself look a skank. End of day the fact is fat girls are like scooters a fun ride but you don’t wanna be seen out with one . Hopefully this clears up facts and opinions for you or at least finds your sense of humour.

[@girukwishyaka]

She seems like a girl I would not settle with. She talks too much with some kind of attitude 😏

[@jesussson3467]

most western women are that way

[@achienglilian6395]

Yea

[@wtroupe64wt]

Facts!!!!

[@siennamillerbroadcast]

You seem like someone she'd not be interested in.

[@MsYoanLetsoin]

I see it differently. Yes, she might act like a girl when she talked back like that. But if you try to understand more, she's trying to be brave to talk and get to her defensive mode because she needs it. Let's face it, it's kinda embarrassing telling people on television that your man didn't want you. Some girl could be on defensive mode, some might have their voice shaking up a bit and some might probably cry. It's nice she accepted the advise / get the confirmation she needed to cut off the guy from steve.

[@arthurgumbochuma9730]

Haha will she stop talking and listen to the advice

[@Christeenia]

Thank you!!! Too annoying! 😏

[@MsRae-ev9hs]

Yes heaven forbid a woman should speak...the nerve of her #teamsarcasm

[@davidgobrain497]

You 27!!? But you look 37!!

[@neekie8079]

Arthur Gumbochuma 🤣

[@wonderwoman66dp]

Sounds like she has it all figured out, so why she need to ask Steve???

[@Azuosph]

She barely had me but she completely lost me at the “I’m a blossoming flower and he’s fermenting fruit” like chick, you drunk on that wine and you’re mad you wasn’t the rose

[@BlackHawkTejas]

Exactly! Damn she says is 27 but looks like 37! She won't always remain a blossoming for flower. I don't know why people flaunt thier age as something of an, achievement or trophy. Damn girl it's a natural process for some you are the fermenting fruit! She is the RED FLAG. No wonder the guy us ignoring her.

[@dillanversai6717]

U can just tell that she annoys the hell out of any guy she's with,,,if she talks like that🤣🤣🤣

[@liveeventsafrica5674]

SHE IS THE RED FLAG 😂 😂

[@d_3767]

I love how the crowd always voice their opinions when someone asks steve something 😂😂 I never see that on any other show 😂😂

[@cp2342]

I know right love it the audience is always saying yeahhh or noooo otherwise they clap after Steve gives his advice. 😂

[@kamvaallan2653]

Damn she talks. Maybe he just wants some quiet time.

[@kamvaallan2653]

@Marylee Macpherson we don't know his side of the story, U will be surprised. For all I know drawing conclusions based on one side of the story is not wise.

[@kamvaallan2653]

@Marylee Macpherson there's also a lot of 'Red' flags from the way she presents herself & wat she's saying. Receives Valentine's gifts from multiple men. Tell me sincerely Marylee, would u be ok with Ur bf receiving gifts on Valentine's day from multiple women?

[@tianamiller6820]

@@kamvaallan2653 they're not in a relationship they're just seeing one another

[@kamvaallan2653]

@@tianamiller6820 that would infact explain a lot & provide some level of clarity.

[@AbdulHameed-bw4cg]

kamva Allan Yes yes yes

[@pmbarro]

I can see why he's not around that often. Nagging will push guys away.

[@nofybn7794]

Wow. Nagging cuz he don't do his job!!

[@authoranulal]

true

[@wadestanion4617]

You can totally see that this woman likes conflict. She is very easy to upset. Not good.

[@jsmum196]

"Don't collect red flags." You only need ONE to move on. "Don't let a man tell you twice he don't want you."

[@memyself4376]

Yep I've learned both of these from Steve

[@sabrinasheriff3751]

Cut the loss

[@gouthamvarma381]

Save him, leave him alone

[@As-qz5lr]

Maybe he was looking after his daughter on V day if he’s separated from the mother. And men should be prioritising their daughter over their girlfriends

[@jobacurini9744]

@@memyself4376 keep believing that and you will end up single.

[@justinopinion1455]

Steve kind of low key saved this man 🤣🤣

[@mattslupek7988]

Yep.

[@mattslupek7988]

@Miles Doyle 😴

[@ayesha3024]

🤣👏🏽

[@Mousymusic]

Nah steve is being a women man with wrong judgement.

[@abhishekrai2373]

She wants to build with someone already built 😂😂

[@luisortega5313]

This guy knows what he's doing. Honestly as long as he keeps treating her like crap and destroying her ego I guarantee she's not going anywhere.

[@andremotivation6561]

EXACTLY

[@tonytoxic5360]

She does have alot of ego....😂 And i feel like she been hiding something and not exactly honest with herself

[@51beak39]

😂 yep

[@ah.l]

thats inside story

[@didred2174]

That’s what she want so she can continue to be the victim

[@MMGJ10]

Sounds like he woke up and didn't want her. She's a bit obnoxious. Or he never really did, but just wanted some younger poontang.

[@flowergirlpower1991]

He has someone else. Maybe made back with his child's mother. The man wants you to be the one to break up with him. So he is treating you bad so you would be the to break it off and wont look bad. Forget that old man.

[@diduknowfacts101]

Flowergirl Power you have a point.

[@flowergirlpower1991]

Thank you

[@eightsandnines]

Or he was looking after his kid because his kids mother was out with her valentine

[@jessidawkins5245]

This is what it seems my bf is doing.is it okay for ur bf shud be asking when last u saw ur ex and what u guys talked abouy

[@Zelielz1]

No. You are thinking as a woman, who generally ends up cheating, we are not like you. Probably that guy just gives ger for granted, thats it...

[@Nleezie33]

I wanna know more about the "random" dudes that just "happen" to send her Valentine's gifts 🤔😒🤔

[@etf42]

shes not attracted to them because they have already pedestalized her. she attracted to the man who doesnt treat her special.

[@jesussson3467]

@@etf42 bingo.....

[@rolorobbins2933]

Women who can see through the fluff are so far n few between. 💙💍. You will be well in life if u keep looking at things the way u do

[@riobetancourt8825]

Jesus's son i'm a daughter of JESUS YES

[@torisefford989]

That is what i am saying.how did they get her address to have flowers send. She sounds sketchy

[@Rocket9944]

She's like a spoiled child! A total narcissist mess. I feel sorry for her future kid.

[@lexmarr5172]

I'm 43 young and Steve is a smart man what he really did is he heard the tone in her voice, her body language , her expressions towards the man and at the end he was really saving this man with his daughter from her...😳

[@AlienRider123]

Steve is here saying stop dating him after the first red flag which this girl has shown about 10 red flags in under 5 minutes

[@francoiswilliams815]

AlienRider 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@johnlanier3616]

Lol. So true

[@mahdiislam9517]

Steve only gives suggestion according to women for views

[@euginity1]

Lol...u nailed it😁😁

[@faay8912]

How could she say hes a fermenting fruit when she looks freaking 40 herself, damn 27 is a lie and a lie and a lie

[@jaredjames1989]

Right lol I'm 26 thinking this is a 38 year old lol 🤣

[@frances-salt7382]

She is obnoxious, you call someone a fermented fruit because of age?

[@ShaunHensley]

She 'blossomed' over ten years ago, her petals are falling off

[@ahz6907]

at least she is 35yrs old

[@sensimania]

I was thinking the same. I thought that in this day n age people generally tend to look younger than they are (unlike 20-something year olds in the 70s/80s when they looked like they were in their 50s)

[@chisuwochabu250]

She's overwhelming, any man would run, hell am a female but I would still run from her company.😑😤🤧🤦🤦🤦🤦

[@jackfavvv0280]

Degrading someones age is a no no.

[@Jane-vw5om]

Lol very true

[@francoiswilliams815]

chisuwo chabu 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣so damn tru girl...she’s over fueled this girl is weird

[@farouqkhalil1743]

That's some real $h**. You have my respect. Not alot of people, let alone REAL WOMEN, see that.

[@locoitzylove140]

Idkkkk. I feel like its not right to judge her from this clip. Let her have a strong personality. Who knows it could be her culture or something that make her outspoken and bold.

[@S7EVE_P]

Fermenting fruit told me all I need to know. I'd have stayed away too🤣

[@BlackHawkTejas]

Exactly! My GF saw this video & she said as a girl, she will too stay away from this apparently 'blossoming foower'!

[@ajh6319]

He probably realized there were other men in the picture and chose to put his daughter first.

[@brittaniharold1880]

His daughter shouldn't be 2nd to anyone.

[@ajaxjohnson7999]

@@brittaniharold1880 That lady needs to realize she'll NEVER be number 1 next to his daughter! Daddy's little girl will always come first!

[@brittaniharold1880]

@@ajaxjohnson7999 exactly.

[@thabompala6524]

She called him fermenting fruit...says it all

[@jpmartinez7853]

Exactly, she thinks he's a gift to him. With an attitude like that I would've left too without saying a word. Shows she had.no respect for him.

[@hyacinthdibley2420]

thabo mpala she's ridiculous

[@dreday77764]

He probably traded her in for someone more respectful.. who wouldn’t??

[@peridozq9390]

She did?

[@stevec3526]

Sounds like he has money but she does not respect him. I am sure the guy is aware of this.

[@brandonwilliams1851]

She got multiple gifts from other guys. Remember men a woman is not yours, it's just your turn.

[@americusdeville865]

MGTOW

[@Uyiiouuoiuiiuyi]

Lol what are u on about

[@dewdropper1348]

Brandon Williams is that what they tell you?

[@ronganske6089]

MGTOW truth

[@youngwolf1574]

@Royal Abstraction red pilled i see😎

[@NASAKOKoKMOmo]

Girl , if you walk away from him you going to make him the happiest man ever.

[@the_w189]

yeah, he can always tell everyone he hit that and does not have to pay her way as a consequence

[@memyself523]

😂😂😂

[@niveditabhattacharjee7362]

Not really...that is a 'sour grapes' response!!

[@bigphil5665]

Take a bow, Zac, that comment was hilarious! 👍🏽

[@faras5426]

Now that is the best comment I am hoping for that myself for myself!

[@poojagupta6682]

Loved it - "Cut the loss and move on" - Brilliant - keep shining Steve, sending love and gratitude ✨

[@feliperodriguez6885]

It's funny how single moms prioritize their children and tell men my children come first but when a man does the same thing and tells a woman my children come first women get pissed Instead of understanding that Valentine's day belongs to the love if their lives their children. This reveals to this man that she is not marriage or mother material if she's threatened by the daughter or believes she is more important than flesh and blood.

[@jackieruso6493]

I'll agree with this first part but this is not a men vs women thing that people always turn it in to. People who believe their kids come before their marriage actually end up divorced. Having a bible based marriage where the marriage is first is where children benefit the most. Putting your children first all the time raised narcissists like the way you're describing this lady.

[@Livhappy25]

Valentine’s Day is not for your kids plus is one day of the year. He was just not interested or spent it with someone else

[@Rtz89]

@@Livhappy25 It's not for your parents either. He doesn't have to meet her mom on valentine's day especially if that means sacrificing time from his own daughter. She's also obnoxious and is playing games. She is just mad he doesn't wanna part of her stupid games. He needs to dump her

[@brittaniharold1880]

His priority is his daughter, not some 35 year old broad pretending to be 27 who peaked in high school

[@curiosityredpill7030]

@@brittaniharold1880 lol aging like milk

[@hyacinthdibley2420]

*"I'm like a blossoming flower and he's like a fermenting fruit"* Obviously, she has not reached the fruiting stage and needs to shut up and listen. I was on her side...till she would not stop talking, and then made the comment above. Maybe the guy is the one dodging bullet here. We don't know what happened before Valentines Day.

[@DragoMusivini]

More like cannon ball dodging.

[@Benjamin-David]

Whatever he’s doing is working perfectly. He’s got a woman 15 years younger. He doesn’t have to invest much and she still wants him.

[@jadehalliday6636]

You do have a valid point! 😱

[@bushrabusra6123]

You think being an a relationship with older man isn’t good anyway??

[@peteromeizaadabara9727]

He most likely listen to coach Corey Wayne 🤣😂😂

[@samboriboun2213]

Stuff men

[@rohitpandey3300]

Yes sir

[@nicolewhalen6760]

Man dodged a bullet

[@itriggerpeople4433]

Fr, you can tell she had this argument with herself so many times, otherwise why would she bring this topic up on TV? The whole "I DID NOTHIN' WRONG" attitude is absolutely disgusting. I wanna be a father one day and I'm sorry but my kids will always come first, ain't nobody got time for you when you over here braggin about a ton of dudes sending you flowers just because they broke or ugly. Bye girl

[@BlackHawkTejas]

Nope a WMD!!

[@Anonymous-ze2mu]

She's so mouthy lawwddd! I got a migraine listening to her. She is insecure, needs validating from several men and falsely confident. Poor guy. Bless him 😂😂😂

[@bumblebee7982]

Steve --- a lot of ways you could counsel people. You give such kind advice & sprinkled with humor to help the medicine go down. 💜❤️💙

[@brett8460]

He has a kid. Of course he's not prioritizing you.

[@lakiiamccall3051]

His daughter is his good excuse. Daughter or not, if he were truly interested, she wouldn't be questioning it.

[@yomioj4754]

@Allen Reynolds Feminism is a virus.

[@lakiiamccall3051]

@Allen Reynolds No it is not. I am a single mother. And have dated men with children. Yes, things can come up with your kids. But everytime there's something significant? And he doesn't try to make it up to her. Valentine's Day and meeting parents are really big deals. They are signs of commitment. He just doesn't want to commit to/be serious with HER. He could have had flowers and candy delivered to her in his absence. Instead of being honest, he's stringing her along.

[@arieslove6144]

duh brett f.she's attractive however she's seems way too much of a hassle for him.

[@brett8460]

duh Aries love, that's what I just said.

[@AEvans36963]

He was afraid that for Valentine's Day, she was expecting him to make a commitment he did not want to make. The fact that he was avoiding meeting her mom was probably for the same reason. Two major red flags. Move on.

[@tinychamberz]

It's only 8 months tho, everybody needs their time. It doesn't mean it's a red flag!

[@nofybn7794]

@@tinychamberz No, it is a red flag. They had time. I guess your a guy who strings women along for 5-6 years.

[@Rtz89]

@@nofybn7794 she was stringing other dudes too but somehow doesn't like when it's done to her. She wanted him to meet her mother.. Valentine's isn't for your kids but it isn't for your parents either. She is an obnoxious loudmouth who already insulted him by calling him a fermented fruit. The amount of respect she has is zero.

[@Caleb_Marlena]

@@Rtz89 exactly! As a 32 year old single mom I also get him, he's looking for a future step mom for his daughter but this girl is showing her true colors right there. She has zero respect and she is full of herself. Double 🚩

[@blkimble]

The problem is she talks too much. She doesn't listen. It's exhausting

[@JessicaM1111]

1-don’t get in the habit of collecting red flags 2- don’t let a man tell you twice “he don’t want you”

[@umarorick6763]

Steve just lowkey saved his show and also the man 🤣👍❤ plus steve saying about red flags was actually referring to that woman 🤣 nice play steve nice play

[@dumfriesspearhead7398]

"When someone shows you who they are believe them the first time" Maya Angelou.

[@tanafoster4072]

Amen

[@juliem1930]

😂😂😂 OMG Steve was so quick to say. Oh no it’s hey Steve. 😂😂

[@Mothana808]

She is 27 !! Damn girl you look atleast 40

[@nofybn7794]

SEXIST AND WRONG. I wanna see what you look like!

[@terenceholt49]

nofy bn just wondering why sexist you could argue in your opinion she doesn’t look 40 but I can’t see the sexist part, in my opinion she looks about 40 kilo overweight but that ain’t sexist it be same if she was he.

[@CS-sv8fg]

@@nofybn7794 insure fat pig!

[@Mr.Eminem]

@@nofybn7794 lol swine spotted

[@petestreet7535]

She's gorgeous. Wtf is wrong with you?

[@thevanman4498]

Masculine energy is strong with this one. She also said something very red flag, “ I don’t want to build with someone” she only want to be at the finish line with a winner.

[@juanam.3024]

I agree, the man lost interest bc of her masculine energy.

[@atlantic7949]

I salute that man with courage. He’s a smart guy!

[@AM-jr9lg]

He kept calm and automatically , she’s deleted

[@ryanlordjanie]

She seems like abit much.

[@hyacinthdibley2420]

"SEEMS"? That's putting it lightly.

[@Aritul]

She can't keep quiet long enough to listen to advice.

[@chuckbarieka1843]

Mad she got flowers from a bunch of men but that's OK right mad she didn't get her pot of gold ha ha

[@ysmithriley]

Hahaha, KINDNESS at its best!

[@shewearsmanyhats377]

If he ghost you on Valentine's Day. He's going to do it on special days like Christmas and on your birthday,especially if you let him get away with it.

[@Ace8845678]

I hate when girls who have the entitlement about holidays, why can't you surprise your man on valentine's day or Christmas day. Isn't there gender equality?

[@shewearsmanyhats377]

@@Ace8845678 Yes a girl can surprise her man,make plans for the holiday or special event etc, but in this case their relationship is only 8 months old. When the relationship is this young we weigh everything, and how we are treated in the first 6 months to a year in a relationship is very important to us.

[@Ace8845678]

@@shewearsmanyhats377 so do men, we weigh the relationship as well. We value how we are treated in the beginning of the relationship as well. Your explanation doesn't really make sense

[@shewearsmanyhats377]

@@Ace8845678 Whatever makes you happy sir. Have a good evening.

[@Ace8845678]

@@shewearsmanyhats377 please keep that entitlement you have towards every man you meet, you ll find your perfect mate

[@johnarawlings]

That reflects why I am so HAPPILY single. :)

[@Peakprospr420]

You just cant get a girl. Kmt

[@sabirahmalika3335]

Everyone isn't like her.

[@johnarawlings]

@@Peakprospr420 Thank god!!

[@mbalmerx]

I use to be happily single. Then I met him, and I fell in love with red flags lmfaooooooo

[@johnarawlings]

@@mbalmerx You should have stayed happily single then. Both emotional and economic HARMONY!!

[@happygolucky9004]

I feel for her because it hurts to have the guy you like act in ways that make you doubt he cares for you. It's an awful feeling of rejection. However, I notice she cuts people off when they are talking and brags a bit. She might want to work on herself for a while including listening skills so she can get and keep a better man 😊

[@jamelbrunson9615]

I mean , she obviously playing her own games . How are you still getting gifts from other men after dating this guy for 8 months .... I don't care if it's valentine's day . She disrespectful.

[@Moiselle555]

Right, she keeps on cutting people and brags about herself. No guy is going to stay with such a woman

[@davidford3968]

Man I can see why he took off. It's not an excuse when you have your child. As a single father, I understand why this guy took off on here. She has an attitude problem and shame on Steve for pumping up her ego, especially as a father he should know that KIDS COME FIRST!!!

[@coolmoe3289]

She's Playing Him .. He's Playing Her... It's Fair Game.. 🤨🤔

[@axestill7284]

Wait.....she's feelin some type of way about this man but its ok for her to accept gifts from other men??? Very typical of women to act innocent 😂😂😂

[@francoiswilliams815]

Axe Still she’s a weird woman

[@cslcojoco]

Accept gifts? Flower delivery shows up at the door. You have the option to refuse the flowers, throw them out, or put them in a vase. But neither of the first two options affects the person who sent them. What’s she supposed to do? She makes a good point that it’s not her fault if other guys send flowers. She has no control over their behaviour. Why is the comment section determined to think the worst of her without knowing anything about her?

[@dancer22273]

She said she's a singer/songwriter. I know men and women who are performers, like her, that have admirers who send gifts. She isn't necessarily dating the men sending her flowers. They could just be fans

[@shamibrown2287]

Typical females love playing victim too

[@chrisrobinsonii95]

@@cslcojoco Where they get the address from?

[@_audioheaven4278]

It's obvious she's been planned to leave him. I wish her the best. She's young, no kids & can sing? Girl LIVE YO BEST LIFE. :)

[@etf42]

no, she is trying to convince herself to leave him

[@Qvotes]

Yup. Sometimes we can all make up our mind but don't take a step only until someone validated our decision. Like a nudge of sorts to the direction we want to take.

[@whiteheart5811]

she says she can sing...there is a difference

[@ichimokutrader1845]

Thanks to this show I know where women get their nonsense rules and convictions from. Steve helps women dig a deeper hole.

[@brittaniharold1880]

1. No one wants to be referred to as "fermented fruit" so that's a sign. 2. I don't think he ever said they were in a relationship especially since she keeps mentioning that other men buy her things.That's a sign. 3. He didn't want to meet her mother because he's not into her.Another sign. 4. Many men with children tend to put their kids 1st and she can't handle being 2nd to his daughter.That's a red flag. 5. She claims to be 27 and blossoming but she looks like a 35 year old divorced mother who talks like her teenage daughter and niece.

[@bestmedever]

This chick got some testosterone going on

[@Eimoon70]

😂😂 damn true

[@americusdeville865]

No feminine traits.

[@southpole380]

She has a deep voice

[@sammie23breezy13]

🤣

[@fallonrappaport5270]

Yep

[@Jane-vw5om]

She’s the type of person any guy, girl or dog would run from

[@everythinggirly2557]

Lmao

[@jaredjames1989]

As a native new Yorker she'd be fun for the night, she's very masculine. Can take her to the football game as a friend lol 🤣 but she has zero chances of relationship the way she acts lol.

[@zminc.8496]

@@jaredjames1989 hahahaah

[@slatkislatkic3393]

xD

[@nai7876]

Dog 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Codlegend4life00]

I don’t get some people? They get mad if a father is a dead beat but they’re upset if he’s there for his child?

[@wtroupe64wt]

Joshua Pierre 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 facts

[@nofybn7794]

VERY DIFFERENT. VERY DIFFERENT, BUDDY.

[@ysmithriley]

He doesn't want her! He is using "HIS CHILD" as an excuse. Plenty of men have children but also find time to have a relationship with someone other than the mother of their child IF THEY REALLY WANT TO.

[@stevec3526]

Typical, she wants the relationship only on her terms.

[@rn2811]

I applaud this man for realizing she’s low hanging fruit and his daughter comes first.

[@rubanour820]

3:08 that women's reaction 😂

[@mangohaeppchen3447]

🤣 Didn't notice that. It was an appropriate reaction.

[@salomekabinga3282]

He prolly ran for his life 😆😆😆 Needed some quiet time 😢

[@rebeccabamford5505]

Damn this woman can talk! I couldn’t stand five minutes in a room listening to her. And She’s too busy listening to herself talk to hear anybody else.

[@BlackHawkTejas]

5 minutes?? I respect your patience level! 🙏🏼 Mine will expire within 50 secs! This woman is the red flag!

[@MindDeMancilla]

Wow! “Don’t let a man tell you twice he don’t want you” Preach! I needed to hear this

[@andreagrazianodibenedetto1464]

"Cut the loss and move on." - Truer words have never been spoken.

[@pandemonium5557]

She’s 27 and look at the way she carries herself- very telling.

[@nicolealexzander]

So true, yes Uncle Steve with all the words. Time to pack them bags n move on. ♥️ this segment

[@saquoiag]

“I’m like a blossoming flower and he’s like fermented fruit”😂

[@mastersfan04]

Flower is ready to wilt

[@JTDyer21]

This is not a matter of age, it's a matter of maturity and common courtesy. Regardless of age, people want to be with you or they don't.

[@d05wtt]

Ladies, if y’all are reading this, take what Steve says with a grain of salt. He’s telling you what you WANT to hear, not what you NEED to hear.

[@yvettemarshallTWN]

The Valentine’s thing is true! If your love interest blows you off on that most lovely day for women besides Mother’s Day, it’s dead. In 5th grade a kid named Victor Salcedo threw a pack of SweetTarts at me square in the chest-at my heart (!) and I HAVE NEVER FORGOTTEN the gesture. He was only 8 and even then he understood a girl’s romantic feelings. 💕

[@blancam.becerra9393]

She sounds like she’s offended that the guy just isn’t interested in her. The other dudes that sent her flowers are around her age just trying or are getting laid by her and the older guy knows what he wants and it clearly isn’t her.

[@amerj5243]

She's a fermenting flower ! 🥀

[@paradis3ra]

🤣

[@faataatiatupuolajr8799]

She has a Big Mouth 😎

[@corneilmadison9436]

Basically, that's probably why he hasn't called her back

[@Christeenia]

And talks TOO DAMN MUCH! GEEZ!

[@corneilmadison9436]

@@Christeenia and she wondering why he ain't called her back

[@MegaCadette55]

😂

[@dreday77764]

That’s exactly why her partner is banging some other broad

[@bossboy191919]

That's the problem with relationships. Everyone has expectations and you have obligations.

[@ryan_fsk]

She feels pain that the man she loves is slacking, emotion sucks sometimes

[@suzanpeters4709]

Steve's advice is spot on, girlfriend. Move forward with your life. It's been over with that guy from day one. Good luck to you.

[@gandomlee]

With all the other men she got in the pawm of her hand. Collecting much

[@stevec3526]

Sounds like she has several men in the friendzone she is not really interested in.

[@shottazyouth]

she accepts flowers from other men on valentines day... thats a red flag.. she is keeping her options alive and hopeful

[@geremymason5936]

Yep, and that's exactly why he doesn't take her seriously. A man with experience with women won't commit to one that's talking to other guys.

[@axelfoley1812]

@@geremymason5936 exactly

[@gandomlee]

Steve you need to stop. How you know he ain't with his daughter. Would you tell that to a single mother. Hell no so go somewhere else valentine's ain't only for one person.

[@christianhenson6924]

Him: Sorry I had my daughter. Her: I don’t wanna here these excuses. Enough said.

[@andremotivation6561]

These be the same women saying it takes a real man to deal with a single mom...😆

[@brittaniharold1880]

1. She said "seeing this older guy".That to me doesn't sound exclusive. 2. She mentioned that he's a father to a toddler.His priority has to be his kid no matter what. 3. She also described him as fermented fruit while she's a blossoming flower.That alone is grounds for backing off from her.She's 27,talks like she's 19 but looks 37. 4. She gets gifts from other men.Whether or not she entertains these men isn't the real issue.The issue is that she thinks it's ok to get gifts from other men and then brag about it to him. 5. Does she really believe she's all that?

[@gkenobi559]

So we just ignoring the other flowers from other men thing?

[@Coronaboii88]

G Kenobi Right! Smh

[@Jane-vw5om]

I know right! Steve just chose to ignore that point. Frustrating

[@michaelb.8953]

In case you haven't noticed Steve ALWAYS sides with the woman. There is a term for that, and the woman always flock to him for validation as they know this guy will side with them.

[@EruRoraitoX]

Well, she's a woman, so it's ok, it's not ok if it was a man, if it was a man we should humiliate him to the ground on TV.

[@michellerichardson3090]

Hes trying to get her to focus on the guy's action. Cause the guy doesnt care about those flowers either lol

[@KH-vv5dq]

She's been seeing him for 8 months and is still accepting gifts from other men?!? Go Tom Leykis on her and D T B

[@thecatnextdoor12]

If she was getting everything she needed from him, she wouldn’t have to be doing this.

[@rachelsclassESLEnglishvideos]

What is she going to do with the flowers the delivery guy brings? Send them back? They're perfectly good flowers. Why shouldn't see accept them when she's feeling neglected by her actual so called "boyfriend"?

[@chaitanyagupta6668]

@@rachelsclassESLEnglishvideos Yeah she should send them back. If she is in a relationship, she must know better than to accept unknown flowers as keeping them may result in some poor soul being led and given false hope. See?? All it needed was some brain usage.

[@rogergarrison4271]

@@thecatnextdoor12 if she's not getting what she needs she should be gone not accepting gifts from other men

[@dinorahhenriquez7295]

8 months are more than enough, she is young and beautiful. Great advice uncle Steve.

[@hyacinthdibley2420]

Young and beautiful and talks too much.

[@nofybn7794]

@Jeremy Honeycutt SEXIST AND WRONG. Women are already better looking then guys. You guys have to put women down to make yourselves feel better like a bully. You think you have no wall, WRONG. You do. You are not gods, you were already less attractive then her, and you guys age, get fat and bald as well. You males are the power though, you can't admit it. You have a far bigger ego then we do. Older guys are NOT attractive.

[@Midnightlibrary584]

Being young and beautiful is not enough.

[@Mr.Eminem]

@@Midnightlibrary584 it is for a woman... but she don't look young..

[@matildamaher2650]

Thank you Steve for advising these young ladies.

[@kamma44]

Forgetting a partner's birthday or an anniversary I can understand. And definitely trying to avoid meeting a partner's parents is a no-no! But unless a person is religious, a big red flag is a woman who excessively fusses about a festival such as Valentine's day?!

[@LorenzoMarch]

He’s like fermenting fruit 😂😂😂

[@emusimenta]

Hahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

[@tinychamberz]

@Jeremy Honeycutt haha, right on :)

[@badddd]

The WALL is undefeated

[@petroglyph79]

She funny😂

[@mckayfam3090]

"Don't collect red flags" I'm going to tell this one to my daughters.

[@boingbryan8123]

When someone talks very fast, then it is a red flag......

[@stevec3526]

No, its a black flag...

[@funnyanimals878]

Her voice is AMAZING i wanna hear her sing

[@setapart3452]

Just listening to her, explains why he is running. Dont blame him. He knows better, thats why he is on the run. She is the biggest red flag.

[@hopesolo6233]

Exactly my feeling.