Asking My Husband Awkward JUICY Questions.. *He PANICKED* | Marriage Q&A | Muslim Couple | The X's

In this video, I asked my husband some really uncomfortable and awkward JUICY questions about our relationship and life after marriage. All of the questions were sent in by you guys, so thank you!! We both answered as best as we can and things got a little sticky!!
We really hope you enjoy this video. Our love and blessings to you all.
And Eid Mubarak in advance!! ✨
TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 - Intro
1:51 - Why we don’t wear our wedding rings
5:13 - Do we keep friends of the opposite sex? Platonic relationships and cheating
9:52 - Would you be okay with your wife taking off her hijab?
13:19 - Do you still find other people attractive after marriage? Do you think about the other sex? Do you have crushes on other people?
19:06 - Marrying multiple wives. Would you marry another wife? Would you be okay with your husband marrying another woman?
21:29 - Who said “I love you” first? Falling in love before marriage vs after marriage.
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[@ceciliamareri2070]

I admire how Sufyan answers questions,, with so much wisdom and reasoning

[@TheXs.Official]

That is very kind of you, Miss Cecilia ☺️

[@namujjuzeinab3045]

I agree sooo much about not keeping friends of the opposite gender when married or even generally,there’s always a fitnah involved and people don’t seem to get this 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@troygreen6548]

I love your love. You give a new perspective to being Muslim. You break down the stereotypes. Even though this is from YOUR perspective, the content you put out helps (in my opinion) dispel myths with regards to Islam. I've said this before, not being Muslim, I so enjoy your channel. It's fun, interesting, entertaining and I learn something new every time. Keep doing what you do. Ms Troy Green Allentown PA

[@beentwolong11]

I love how he taps her arm to get his points across and she use to it.That shows that they getting to understand each other even more.Love your content Eid Mubarak.

[@farhanabegum7516]

Hahaha you guys never fail to make me crack up. I think your channel is the only one I never skip parts. Also definitely agree about having friends of the opposite sex

[@TheXs.Official]

That's genuinely one of the nicest compliments ever when you make videos 😂 thank you for the love, Farhana! & Glad you agree 😏 x

[@brittanykimber]

My faves are back!!!! Sufyan, the way you talk and look at Amara almost brought me to tears ( big surprise there). LOL. I literally felt your devotion to your wife. Also, she is gorgeous. Like drop the phone wowza! I agree with with so many things you guys said. I don't mind Jeff being friends with my friends they just have to be friends with him bc of my association. Their friendship can't trump my friendship. Also, Amara how many convo's have we had about polygamy and how it is presented in the Koran and Bible!?! It ain't happening 🤣🤣🤣 I think it's minute 18 and a few seconds. Sufyan's face had me dying over here.🤣🤣 Communication is key to any healthy relationship. I love hearing opinions from other married couples on how they approach certain situations. You two are a gem! I would love to see more videos like this! Sufyan when you were thinking of nice faces, Jeff better have came to mind 🤣🤣🤣 🥰

[@TheXs.Official]

It AINT happening 🤣❤️ thanks Britt, we love you so much! & I think Jeff's face definitely came to mind when he was thinking of good faces... neck and neck with the guy from The Last Kingdom probs. 😂 Thanks for always sending us the love ❤️ xxx

[@maxinehall5382]

I love this couple❤️. You guys are hilarious, loving and beautiful inside and outside

[@TheXs.Official]

We love you, Maxine! 💖🤗

[@muntahamalik3174]

I agree that hijab is so personal! I struggled with hijab last year and remember not pursuing a prospect because they said they’d divorce me if I removed my hijab 😫 I believe encouragement is and support is so crucial for someone struggling. One year later i’m the most firm on my hijab journey than ever and it is through people who hold space for me alhamdulillah and let me come to it at my own time ♥️

[@TheXs.Official]

You made the right call in shaa Allah. Definitely a personal decision and support is key. There is no compulsion or force in our religion ❤️ we can help guide each other but there's definitely a line and threatening divorce is way past it 😂. So so SO happy you're feeling good in your hijab journey now! 😃💖 Xxx

[@muntahamalik3174]

@@TheXs.Official Yes so well said! Thank you so much 🥺♥️

[@wa4731]

Al salam aleykum, The verse:There is no compulsion in religion. Verily, the Right Path has become distinct from the wrong path” [al-Baqrah 2:256] This verse refers to kuffar/ disbelievers and it means that you cannot force someone to become a Muslim. However, once you have become a muslim or already is there are laws, boundaries and regulations set for us Muslims to follow which are labelled 'fardh' which is compulsory. E.g. Praying, fasting, zakat, etc. Hijab has been enjoined on both for the female and male Muslim in different ways, and it is compulsory. Therefore, it is wrong to say there is no compulsion in religion to a muslim as we have decided to fully submit to Allah(swt) and follow his commands. As a result, if you do transgress beyond these rules and regulations one would be sinning. Also, if '' there is no compulsion in religion'' was applied to muslims we could technically never sin as nothing is compulsory or fardh upon us. We cannot pick and choose what to follow or not in Islam. Hope this is helpful. Jzk Allah khair

[@TheXs.Official]

Yes, there are compulsory requirements in Islam, but no one can be forced to practice them. We are all responsible for ourselves and we cannot force one another to do things, it's not part of Islam to be that way. Allah SWT has given us freewill and choice, we are taught to make our own decisions. There is a perfect guidance for us in the Qur'an and sunnah, but again, we must decide to follow these things. There are rewards for doing some things and punishments for not doing some things, but no one can 'force' us. We must make the choices ourselves. :)

[@wa4731]

@@TheXs.Official It is true that we have free will, however one needs to take into consideration what that can lead to as it can lead you out of the fold of Islam and make you an apostate. For example, not praying while knowing it's obligatory can lead you out of the fold of Islam, denying Allah(swt) and his prophet Muhammad(saw) can make you an apostate, shirk etc. What I am trying to say is some things are obligatory upon you as Muslim in Islam for you to remain muslim. So the statement about there is '' no compulsion in religion'' can cause confusion because there are certain obligations and beliefs one needs to have to remain a muslim. We can sin out of ignorance and ask for forgivness. Thanks for replying 👍🙂

[@blususpect]

Y’all are alive! Thx for making such a great channel! It’s hilarious fr 😭, May Allah bless y’all! Eid Mubarak!

[@TheXs.Official]

We're alive and thriving alhamdulilah! & AWWWW thank you so much for always sending us the love 🤗 Eid Mubarak to you! 🎉✨

[@sybilbailey5503]

You guy's are so honest, I could listen to you all the time. Thanks for education. 🇬🇧🇯🇲

[@khadijahmustapha005]

Dyk how long I've been waiting on y'all to drooopp😭😭I've missed y'all KZbin's been dead😂

[@TheXs.Official]

Hahahaha AWWWW khadijah :') ❤️🤗 we took a break last weekend but posting every week in shaa Allah! 😃 Xxx

[@claudettegill8400]

Eid Mubarak to both of you firstly. Sufyan a man wearing his wedding band makes me look twice at him. I find it so honorable. I do stare at him with respect. So many men feel not wearing a ring will attract other women, but not all times. This video was light hearted and I loved it.👏🏽❤️🙋🏼‍♀️

[@niqueybingham3489]

😂😂sun is shining indeed! Jamaica is hot!!! I missed you guys and I share the same views with these questions too even thou I'm single 😂 Thank you guys for always showing up, authentically! I love how the inner child in you guys always pops up, I smile through the entire video everytime because uou guys bring so much joy and light! P.s I'm gonna need an album from you guys.. beautiful voices. New moon blessings and abundance guys!!😊💕

[@TheXs.Official]

Hey Niquey!! Thank YOU for always coming with the love 🤗💖 & hahahaha I feel like some of the answers are a bit controversial so I'm glad you agree at least 🤣 to each their own but good to not feel alone 👀🙈. Our inner children are probably more present day-to-day than our adult selves 😂 I think it's what keeps us joyful! I pray you are happy and well. You give us too much love 😏😏😏💖💖💖💖 xxx

[@estherelson9473]

Same here

[@pameladavisgod]

Lol 😂 you guys makes me happy. It’s the bonding for me ❤️

[@TheLadytruth101]

I love you guys soooo much you guys are hilarious!!! 🤣🤣🤣 also I’m not in the Muslim faith but I do respect and value you all beliefs soo much I believe in all those things just because that was how my parents raised me. I want my person to look at me and describe me the way you do her… it’s beautiful I loved your answer when you said do you find other women attractive… perfectly said

[@margretchildofGod3]

Wearing a wedding ring is a choice👌🏽....Sufyan are you a lawyer🤔 because the way you ANSWER those questions ,ain't nobody can trap you🤣🤣🤣 you guys are awesome 🙂👍🏼👏🏽

[@TheXs.Official]

I think I narrowly escaped!! 😂😂 I’m going to start wearing a suit when Amara tries to throw these questions at me so she knows what time it is 👀👀😂

[@mooreflava]

Thanks for this video you too are really an inspiration. Please do the video on why you do not qualify to have a second wife. It would be interesting to learn more about your faith

[@Hope-bn9xz]

Thumbs up ! 👍😊 You both are a breath of fresh air and so funny 😄

[@TheXs.Official]

Thank you! 🙈❤️😃

[@allisonhinds8384]

Checking in with each other is absolutely great for a marriage.

[@allisonhinds8384]

Would A ever come on without her hijab?

[@allisonhinds8384]

R u guys gonna make some music one day? You're both very talented.

[@angellove4557]

You guys are just beautiful. Thanks for answering my question. I knew it would be Amara. All the very best on your journey.💕

[@TheXs.Official]

Awww 🙈❤️ that's very kind. & Thank you for sending it in, you guessed correctly! 😏💖

[@semiramuhammed8189]

Mashaallah I really appreciate the way you understand islam and apply to you're life is amazing

[@muntahamalik3174]

😭♥️♥️ I’ve been waiting for this video for days, i checked everyday hehe. Eid Mubarak! may Allah swt bless y’all 🥺🥺🥺🥺

[@TheXs.Official]

Awwww Muntaha 😂❤️❤️❤️ glad we finally popped up for you. Every Sunday in shaa Allah! Eid Mubarak and blessings to you sis 😘💕

[@alhassanhamida4376]

Eid Mubarak. I love you guys so much you make marriage beautiful.

[@TheXs.Official]

Eid Mubarak to you too! Thank you 🤗❤️

[@ribenariri7764]

That jlo movie yall were talking about is the wedding planner, absolute classic rom com❤️❤️❤️ btw Eid Mubarak to the Xs and everybody!!!!! 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

[@TheXs.Official]

Yessss, you are correct! 😃 Loved all her romcoms so got them confused in my mind 🙈 & Eid mubarakkkkkkkkkk 💃

[@ukhti.khadeejah]

I agree with you Amara about the attractive thing. Feel crazy sometimes haha 🤣🤷🏻‍♀️ May Allah continue to bless you both in this life & the next 🤍🤍

[@TheXs.Official]

Yesssssss! Someone who agrees with me 😃❤️🤣 Ameen wa iyyaki sis xxxx

[@marianvotor5085]

Love you guys keep the love and fire burning in your life and marriage much love keep it up

[@TheXs.Official]

🤗❤️ We love you too, Marian. & Yes, yes, yes! 🔥💕

[@lisagab]

I understand what u mean Sufhan, a man can be attractive to me but i am not attracted to him cause that part of my feeling is for my husband.

[@estherelson9473]

Both of you should do a karaoke ... you have beautiful voices. Love to hear you sing

[@TheXs.Official]

We karaoke all day long and have very thin walls so I feel bad for the neighbours 😂 thank you ❤️

[@safinayousaf1462]

Mashallah such a sweet couple may Allah bless you Ameen

[@TheXs.Official]

Ameen wa iyyaki 🤲❤️ thank you x

[@tomandjerry2069]

Almost at 30k. Man your videos keep getting better!

[@TheXs.Official]

We have missed you ❤️

[@tomandjerry2069]

@@TheXs.Official I've missed you guys too. I was busy at Uni but now I'm back haha

[@foshizzle2550]

Amaara you are soo pretty and you’re both so good together Mashallah 🧡🧡☺️

[@TheXs.Official]

🙈❤️ You're so kind, thank you sis 💕😘

[@sabahfirdous1742]

"As a man, her hijab is none of my business" 🎤🎤🎤 micdrop

[@maryamm899]

The FEAR. In Sufyan’s face😂😂😂

[@OfficialMNIB]

- Careful Suf - Crackin' knuckles on the mic could have an ASMR request for it to come in - 😅 🤣 😂 😹

[@TheXs.Official]

😂😂👀 I can crack my toes too. Give me money 😂😩

[@OfficialMNIB]

- Took me back to my baby days in the mosque when the imam would crack his neck left to right durin'' salāt -@@TheXs.Official- I can't unhear that sound especially when he wore the mic so close to his clavicle when he got to snappin' - 😅 🤣 😂 😹

[@TheXs.Official]

This sounds like trauma. Thank you for sharing 😂😂 Neck cracks are too much for me. I rebuke them!! 😩😅

[@OfficialMNIB]

- Glad to know there's somewhere in the sand where you draw the line -@@TheXs.Official- 😅 😂 🤣 😹

[@Sho-M3-Hear]

I love your sit down videos. - I was thinking of you both and when you will next upload, you guys keep me smiling and I pray you guys keep joyful & may Allah swt just bless you both immensely, together and individually, Ameen. 🤲🏽💜✨

[@TheXs.Official]

Ameen wa iyyaki sis! ❤️❤️❤️🤗 Thank you so much for warming our hearts with these words. Really made us smile 😃💖 in shaa Allah we'll be posting tomorrow at 6pm. Xxx

[@ghurabaa114xx]

Sometimes I feel sufyan purposely says certain comments to see Amara's jealous side lolllll

[@TheXs.Official]

I think so too! 🧐😒😂😂

[@varnettiekohres5760]

Ho my gosh! You guys can sing really sing!!!

[@allisonhinds8384]

Go Sufy .... u bigging up your woman. I love it.

[@TheXs.Official]

❤️❤️❤️

[@elariamiranda4334]

When you like before watching the videooo because ya'll never disappoint! I just knew Amara said I love you first 🤗 I think we can really really really like a person that we confuse it with love sometimes? I think you begin to see whether you love a person in that marriage space, where you get tested? I think that's where the growing to love someone comes in (I am guessing here) Anywhooooo love the vocals!💙

[@conniealphonso7158]

You both are so cute, I just love you both so much🙏🏾❤️😘

[@terizachary1736]

Yall are cute together. 💖 why does people make Islam so negative? We all worship the God. Theres just names for him on how she's worshiped. Thats how I understand it. Have a good day!!

[@TheXs.Official]

Awww thank you, Teri. 🤗 That's so kind. It is just one God! You have a lovely day too x

[@vickyejiofor9070]

Beautiful couple

[@TheXs.Official]

🤗❤️

[@lisagab]

Yes, samething with me and my hubby. No friends of the opposite sex you may not have any interest in them but they might be thinking otherwise and cause problems in the marriage.

[@TheXs.Official]

Yessss! I agree 🤓

[@BronsonAlive]

Spot on about the opposite sex friends, aint no such thing as plutonic. Someone is trying to get in the others pants, its human nature.

[@PowerGurhl]

Woah Sufjan 😅 I think you have a voice for impersonating Bob Marley! Y’all are an awesome couple love watching your videos.

[@khalifafilms3664]

Sufyan can you make a tutorial for your haircut so we could learn :)

[@TheXs.Official]

Brother, this comment is more upsetting than you know. I shaved my hair and beard off the other day and I regret it deeply. The only tutorial I can give is how to look like a child .. 😩😭

[@sweetnaz5563]

Ma’Sha’Allah ur bond is so cute🥰 May Allah bless u both ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@TheXs.Official]

Ameen wa iyyaki! Thank you 🤗❤️

[@sweetnaz5563]

@@TheXs.Official 🥰♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@marianvotor5085]

Love 💘 love 💘 love you guys keep it up

[@TheXs.Official]

😃❤️❤️❤️

[@marianvotor5085]

@@TheXs.Official what happen to you guys i have not seen no video am worried .would like to know everything is ok with both of you stay bless with Allah

[@TheXs.Official]

Hi sweet Marian ❤️ we took a little break due to health and family but everything is well & we are great. 🤗💖 We've filmed another video that will be up next week & will update you on everything that's been happening. I pray you are well too! ❤️❤️❤️ Back to our weekly uploads from next week. 😃

[@marianvotor5085]

@@TheXs.Official Thank you very much for the up date was worried but glad to know everyone is doing great 👍 much love stay strong .Much love to both of you❣💘💝 keep Allah in your lives stay bless

[@robertwill1694]

Love u guy amazing content

[@TheXs.Official]

🤗

[@mandandi]

The moon is attractive, but I am not attracted to it. LOL

[@namujjuzeinab3045]

Sorry not sorry 😂Amaarah you’re so funny but also yessss to men who think like this, you don’t need friends of the opposite gender as a Muslim,there’s always something underneath and yeah it’s wildly inappropriate

[@uthaimeenuthman6537]

Really enjoyed the video.

[@TheXs.Official]

Yay! 😃

[@lisagab]

Blessed Sunday sand storm and tall building 😍🤗

[@lisagab]

🤔🤔🤔 i can't remember who said i love u first...its been 31 yrs, the brain is mushy now🤣🤣🤣

[@TheXs.Official]

Oh no, I’ve been calling you by your first name this whole time.. 😩 It’s Mrs Lisa from now on!! I look forward to not remembering things 😂😂

[@lisagab]

@@TheXs.Official 🤣🤣

[@user-ws1qf4kz1k]

I love them so much 💓

[@TheXs.Official]

Love and cuddles to you 🤗❤️ (Amara)

[@Keyee1]

Maybe you could just wear one wedding band. I never had an engagement ring, only ember wore one band. But you could have worn one band, each.

[@mixedandplural4859]

Pakistani Al Green. Classic. And Natural. Y'all do OK with that. Lightweight Impressed, but not surprised. From a refugee camp in Danmark... As Salaam Alaikum. Eid Mubarak.

[@TheXs.Official]

Eid Mubarak! Making dua for you tonight. Pakistani Al Green 😂😂 We’ve got a lot more where that came from! Hope you’ll enjoy it.

[@mixedandplural4859]

@@TheXs.Official Shukran. I just see the video with your Macy Gray reference. Y'all got range! Salaam.

[@Unknownperson-ob7fu]

5:16 being friends with opposite sex totally haram, but yes you can talk or ask for help if you need to or have to

[@shirleybanks6582]

One if my favorite couple 🥰🥰

[@TheXs.Official]

🤗💖💖💖

[@A14BYT]

It was Wedding Planner - not Maid in Manhattan 💕💕

[@TheXs.Official]

Oh yesssss!

[@tonym5269]

you guys...❤❤❤

[@TheXs.Official]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@richardmuntawbira3212]

No you cant be speaking to her sisters to find comfort - that's not halal. you can speak to your own sisters.

[@TheXs.Official]

It is definitely halal to speak with Amara’s family. Her sisters are young and live with their parents. We speak together in a family setting and both our family’s are close.

[@pennsylvaniadc6296]

Very beautiful Couple..

[@HaroonKhan-ix3xs]

24:42 i was looking at Amara nd i thought this sound is a bit weird for her stature nd there it was Sufyan 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣

[@TheXs.Official]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏻‍♀️

[@shelisshepp-nduom3803]

More!!!!!

[@TheXs.Official]

🤗❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@ej5382]

Does If you ain’t married your single refer to women who are not married yet doing wife duties for the man and living together before marriage. Men who are in serious relationships or are engaged may be calling themselves single and can go on talking and getting to know other girls.

[@TheXs.Official]

If you watch our video on the wedding night, you will understand the reference. In Islam, there is no romantic relationship other than marriage. Being engaged is a grey area. No such thing as boyfriends, girlfriends etc, it’s marriage or nothing. So in that context, if you ain’t married, you’re single. Check out the video and let us know what you think!

[@aseelmh4530]

We love you Amara 💗💗

[@TheXs.Official]

I love you too. ❤️

[@naki-shakira]

Luv u guys so much 😘😘😘manshallah 🙏

[@mariaiqbal593]

MashAllah ❤ so cute 😍

[@maxinehall5382]

Wow, talk about chemistry,Hot

[@TheXs.Official]

Ohhhh Maxine! 👀😏❤️🤗 You're so sweet to us 😂💖

[@aminabatul8809]

yaaaay I keep checking your Instagram to see if you dropped a video please upload regular I love your videos you give me good vibes ❤

[@TheXs.Official]

Awwww you should've messaged and I would have told you it was on the way 🤗 took a little break last weekend but back to our Sunday uploads iA xx

[@aminabatul8809]

Am glad you guys are back every week look forward to it I pray the channel is successful and everyone get to experience the love and laughter your content has good luck 🙂

[@Jasmine-pd4qj]

In paradise there's no marriage

[@TheXs.Official]

In Islam, there is. There are numerous quotes from the Quran which mention people being with their parents, children and spouses in Paradise. “They and their wives will be in pleasant shade, reclining on thrones.” [Yaa-Seen 36:56] “Enter Paradise, you and your wives, in happiness.” [al-Zukhruf 43:70] “‘And Paradise, which they shall enter and (also) those who acted righteously from among their fathers, and their wives, and their offspring. And angels shall enter unto them from every gate…” [al-Ra’d 13:23]

[@sulekha3771]

Not juicyyyy smulyeyy🤣🤣💀💀💀

[@TheXs.Official]

😂😂😂😩💀

[@sheena.m7802]

After marriage i dont see the need for guy friends either .

[@TheUnplannedLove]

I’m curious 🧐 does a masculine man’s love for his wife mainly develop after offspring are produced? Scientifically accurate answers only please 😉

[@XXXskilzXXX]

The cap in his answers are astonishing lmao

[@Samantha-rh1px]

I don’t agree with the male friends. They can be very cool.

[@chrbx13]

What type of school are you a headteacher at

[@TheXs.Official]

I have changed school since this video. I was the headteacher of a school that catered specifically for children from a CCE background (Child Criminal Exploitation). Now, I am the head of a school for children with more of a variety of needs, but still all vulnerable children.

[@chrbx13]

@@TheXs.Official oh ok never heard of those schools, are they primary schools?

[@TheXs.Official]

No, they’re 11-18. Basically high school and sixth form in one. Generally runs like normal high school but can go up to 18 depending on the needs on the student.

[@chrbx13]

@@TheXs.Officialoh right, so they can leave at 16 or continue up until 18? Do they do GCSEs and alevels like regular students

[@bekind3063]

❤️❤️❤️🔥

[@TheXs.Official]

❤️❤️❤️🤗