This Happened On Our WEDDING NIGHT!! Virginity, Intimacy, Dating & More | Muslim Couple | The X's

In this video, we speak about our wedding night expectations, building intimacy for the first time, losing virginity and dating as Muslims.
TIMESTAMPS
00:00 - Introduction
1:17 - Differences between Muslim and Non-Muslim marriage process
1:35 - Halal dating rules. No such thing as boyfriend and girlfriend in Islam
2:42 - Meeting the parents early
3:24 - No sex before marriage
4:25 - Engagements are short in Islam
5:28 - The dowry or mahr
7:53 - How we met
8:23 - I wanted to choose my own wife
10:55 - How I knew he was the one
12:57 - Our halal dating process. How we met up and got to know each other before marriage
14:48 - Muslim vs Non-Muslim expectations of dating. Living together and going on trips and holidays before marriage
16:09 - Muslim romance before marriage. How I showed my romantic side.
20:23 - Our Muslim engagement and proposal problems
22:27 - The wedding day. Being intimate in public for the first time
23:21 - The wedding night and newlywed experience
25:48 - Honeymoon and losing my virginity
28:34 - Muslim rules about losing virginity and wedding night expectations
30:14 - Sexual compatibility advice. How to know what to expect
Be sure to share any thoughts in the comment section. Let us know about your experiences, thoughts, and any advice for those watching.
Really hope you enjoy the video.
Salaam, peace and love.
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#WeddingNight #Virginity #FirstTime #Intimacy #MuslimMarriage #MuslimCouple #TheXs
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[@TheXs.Official]

Hey everyone! Hope you enjoyed this discussion and that we were able to shed some light on how we approached our marriage. Make sure you leave us your thoughts and comments on this topic and anything it brought up for you. We would love to hear your opinions, stories, and how you approached or intend to approach marriage when it’s time!! Let us know any other topics you’d be interested in hearing us discuss. Also, remember that we all make mistakes. We are human and Allah (swt) is the most forgiving. May he forgive us for all our sins. Look forward because you are who are you today and every new second is an opportunity to start again. ❤️

[@j.n.8153]

Hey, can you guys share some wedding pictures in a Shorts clip? I'd love that! That quote you said will need to go on a shirt but I want to add to it. LOL "If you're not married, you are single or common law not by choice." LOL

[@TheXs.Official]

@@j.n.8153 Yessss! We will be sharing wedding pictures soon. ☺️❤️

[@sarahomari1831]

Hey guys, am glad to join. Am from Kenya. I'm a Christian but our church upholds the same values like yours. I would love it if you guys talked more about the honeymoon. Thanks so much .

[@coach_school]

kzbin.infor4NcoUe8b0k?feature=share I do not know why i feel like this men look like you

[@olaitan2018]

@@TheXs.Official Thanks

[@LaetisBeauty]

As a Christian, I truly loved this video. My partner and I also have boundaries and are waiting for marriage to please God🥰. May God bless you🤍

[@TheXs.Official]

That's amazing!! May it be made easy and full of blessings for you both 💖 may God bless you too 🥰😘

[@misbahailia3345]

Amen guys.

[@arianayoung7537]

Thank u So u from 🇯🇲 R u Muslim too

[@diemysene6033]

Good job sister

[@BronsonAlive]

Lessons to learn here, especially for non Muslims. Im a non religious person from a Christian background, I compare this style of courtship to my own and hands down 1000% this Islamic way is superior, less wasted time, less heart ache and less unwanted pregnancy 🤯.

[@TheXs.Official]

Definitely less heart ache ❤️ I think the rules in Islam protect emotions and relationships so beautifully Xx

[@daughteroftheking3220]

This is why I love Muslim and Christian culture. We have the same foundation. It makes my heart so happy. Love how your relationship honors God and stands on the principle he wants us to have in a relationship. It is simply pure, beautiful, and righteous. Keep glorifying God in all you do!

[@TheXs.Official]

We do have the same foundation! 💖 Thank you for your beautiful comment. It's made my heart so happy! 🥰🤗❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@misbahailia3345]

Muslim and Christian culture, doesn't follow their books. Islamic and Christian lifestyle does. ☺

[@sulesaada407]

I am happy u understand the both religion

[@nawalofficialchannel8023]

May Allah bless you and your family amen ❤️💐🙏

[@Azzystar83]

You both have a beautiful understanding of each other its clear to see the love. Don't ever change that.

[@TheXs.Official]

💖💖💖

[@madenod5145]

This has to be the most heart warming, educational, halal, raw, 'this is how it is' video I have ever seen. I just wish more Muslim couples spoke out about this to raise awareness for others who are marrying in Islam. May Allah keep blessing both of you, and all the couples who have experienced pre & post marriage blues.

[@TheXs.Official]

This feedback is so lovely! 🙏❤️ Thank you. I love raw (but respectful) conversation too so I'm really glad that's how these videos come across. There's so much I wish I could have heard before & during marriage. I'm glad we can have these conversations all together for anyone interested to hear. 🥰 may Allah SWT protect and bless us all. 🤲💖

[@madenod5145]

@@TheXs.Official Ameen.

[@ItsMoleboheng]

Christians can learn a lot from Islam... Love this!! God bless your marriage

[@TheXs.Official]

🤗💖💖💖

[@giftyakowuah2628]

Christianity has the same values. A devout christian goes through all the guidelines on marriage. AFRICAN traditional religion also frowns on sex before marriage and every act that will lead you into fornication. All religions believe in chasticity before marriage. The marriage bed is to be kept pure

[@jennifersanyaoluTV]

It’s the same rules

[@dekev7503]

@PrimeVids it's the same rules, in fact Christian rules on marriage and divorce are even stricter. Its just that in the west, due to atheism and liberalisation, these laws are not followed as strictly as the Islamic laws are followed in the east.

[@nicolegordon129]

You two are hilarious. As Christians, my husband and I set some of these same boundaries. It’s just smart If you want to honor God and one another and keep those boundaries. Having someone that compliments you in terms of strengths and weaknesses and having similar values, morals, etc. Having a list is good too. It’s wise to try not to be alone in a room/place with your betrothed if you’re trying to keep boundaries as well. Fortunately my husband and I were both virgins when we got married. We were able to figure it out together. Your husband was so sweet. I’m glad for you that he was so understanding.

[@TheXs.Official]

I love this advice 🙌✨ thanks so much for sharing! & Sufyan's very sweet, I got lucky. ❤️

[@hindaadam]

This is entertaining and educational... I admire how open you both were.... waiting for the next video 🥳

[@TheXs.Official]

Aww, we’re so happy you enjoyed the video, sis! ☺️🥰🌸

[@alice1472]

Oh wow! I thought I was the only one! I literally mourned for my virginity too hahah after our wedding night! I knew I had held onto it and it meant a lot but I didn’t know how much it not being part of me anymore was going to be a big deal. My husband was awesome, loving and kind about everything too.

[@sirtrevionxv4513]

Enjoyed hearing the principles that you both stand on in this video. I truly believe that holding on to Godly morals will guide us in righteousness. I’m a Christian and it’s difficult to find men and women that live their life’s together in faith in any relational context. We’ve adopted self proclaimed ideologies from culture especially in the West lol. I pray for a women that puts God first in all things and stands on moral absolutes. The wait is worth it! Thanks for your story family!

[@TheXs.Official]

I completely agree with everything you've said. 🙌❤️❤️❤️

[@abhinavinsearchofthelost]

Respect to you guys for following your faith seriously. Although we did date before getting married it was serious from the beginning. We met each others families and talked about getting married right from the start.

[@TheXs.Official]

We watched your story and loved it! So beautiful. Wishing you both all the blessings and happiness! 💖

[@moya-gayehamilton1132]

I'm a Christian who is very secure in my beliefs and I just love your videos! I even watch the ads just so that I can further support u. Thnx for sharing these videos and may God continue to bless your union 🙏. This is my 2nd request for Halal dating tips. Thank you! 🙏

[@celialyna808]

May god bless you

[@mooreflava]

Thanks for sharing your wonderful story I really enjoyed it. I'm not a Muslim but I am Jamaican 🇯🇲 I really appreciate learning your culture. I really wish I was a virgin when I got married but tragedy at a young age took that from me. I appreciate Safeon advice to men about being understanding and delicate with their wives. I will add even if she isn't a virgin we women deal with so much it helps to have a husband that is caring. Blessings to you two..please continue to share stories like these. ❤️

[@TheXs.Official]

I'm so sorry to hear that something tragic happened to you.❤️ I pray for your healing and peace 🤲. You're right, of course. Regardless of past experience, women deserve good men who are gentle and kind. Thank you for watching and for sharing part of your story with us ❤️ lots of love to you 😘 xxxxx

[@andrewfletcher4854]

You two are too cute. You have a healthy outlook and approach to marriage. It's easy to see you are more than husband and wife you seem like really good friends as well. May Allah continue to bless you both!

[@TheXs.Official]

Thanks 🥰✨ we are the best of friends alhamdulilah 💖 (so far 👀😂) may Allah SWT bless you in abundance. Thank you for sending us some love!

[@Smiiile356]

This is literally one of the best couple video I’ve watched... not cringe at all lol. It was really interesting listening to your personal marriage journey. You both come across as very wise and sensible! May Allah bless your marriage ameen ❤️

[@yolandagrant8414]

I'm glad this was talked about. Sex is sacred and a beautiful thing when its with the right person! Especially in marriage. It's an emotional and spiritual bond. Living in the West, there is a lot of pressure to sleep around with multiple people. I like the Islamic way of setting boundaries and keeping things private.

[@TheXs.Official]

Definitely! & The Western culture have it topsy turvy. That kind of pressure just leads to a lot of pain being carried into each new relationship. I like the Islamic way too, I think it really works to protect your heart (not only your soul). ❤️

[@dantoinettetaylor1663]

There are conservative Christians in the West that actually practise no contact before marriage and having chaperones when couples go on dates. For the majority of couples who practise this, their first real date is after they get married and they share the same strange experience when it comes to intimacy after marriage as long courtships and engagements are not encouraged to lessen the temptation to fornicate. For example my parents got married after only 5 or 6 months of knowing each other. One year tend to be the average though after which there will be talk about how improper it looks LOL

[@LaetisBeauty]

I am Christian and this is the same for us too.

[@cyrilsneer5957]

The west is disgusting.

[@DidYouknow.2023.]

Such a precious couple, I really enjoyed watching this. may Allah continue to preserve and bless your marriage🤲🏼..

[@TheXs.Official]

💖 Ameeeeen! May Allah SWT bless you ❤️

[@iqra1297]

I’m so so glad you’ve openly talked about this honestly and realistically, while keeping it respectful. Just recommended this to my friends as well. Honestly it helps so much watching and understanding from videos like these, much appreciated❤️

[@TheXs.Official]

Awww Iqra! That's so nice to hear that you shared the video with your friends. ❤️ I'm so happy you liked it and found it useful to you. Alhamdulilah. 💕🥰

[@ileniepowell]

You are such a great guy. You both take your religion seriously. I like how respectful you both are. His understanding, patience and love for his wife is beautiful. God bless you.

[@TheXs.Official]

I agree, he's the best. 💖 Love & blessings to you, Eileen. 😘

[@catarinaoliveira5641]

Me and my husband were stupid enough to think that things would happen on our first night together 😅 We were in love when we got married, but I was SUPER nervous about doing it and felt a lot of pain on my first time. For all the first times in fact. It took me time to relax and to be able to enjoy intimacy with my husband. And that's totally normal. Husbands need to be understanding and take things slow because if you don't, you'll hurt and traumatise your wife and make intimacy much more difficult.

[@mizb5055]

I was so glad watching this. Happy to see there are still young Muslim couples in the western world who live their lives within the Islamic tenets. May Allah fill your home with His mawaddah and rahma and make you partners throughout this life and the next.

[@TheXs.Official]

Ameeeeeeen ❤️❤️❤️

[@bwyingyang786]

Love, love, love it! There is so much I know now that I wish I had been told in my teens. I believe that would helped me train my thoughts and brain into being prepared and knowing what I want when the time came. Generations are changing all the time and the older generation shy away and find this type of convo as embarrassing and unpermissable. I still raise issues and still get told harshly, "we weren't told anything and just had to figure it out". It's tough and only getting tougher these days, I believe. Please, please be there for each other and don't fall back on culture and roles and responsibilities, muck in and do everything together. It will not onlu make you grow closer, but stronger. When children come, make sure you get some me time, that goes for both parties. I felt so isolated and alone. It's overwhelming unless you have a rock. Mashallah I wish you all the best in everything. Ameen sum ameen. ❤ you guys.

[@TheXs.Official]

Salaam! (Amara here) I completely agree sis ❤️ too many important topics are glazed over or not seen as acceptable to speak on when they could be done respectfully and help people feel less alone in their journey. I have younger sisters and there's so much I wish I knew at their ages. Your future baby advice is heeded 💕 & so far so good alhamdulilah in terms of mucking in together 😂💪 xx may Allah SWT grant you the best in everything too 🤲❤️

[@simplyzahra9012]

I am 23 and currently talking to a guy that I really like. I am going into my third year in Uni and we want to get married ASAP!!! Make dua for me please...

[@TheXs.Official]

Yes my dear sister ❤️❤️ all the duas that it goes well for you and that it's best for you. 🤲 X

[@klaw1425]

Masha Allah

[@kasimshaikh3750]

May Allah guide you to the best path

[@simplyzahra9012]

@@kasimshaikh3750 Update...It didn't workout Alhamdulilah. I found out he had another girl that he was also serious with. Imagine if we had gotten married and he was like that in our marriage. Anyways, I graduated on the 13th of March Alhamdulilah.

[@kasimshaikh3750]

@@simplyzahra9012 Alhamdulillah better in the long run. Just stay strong, make dua inshallah you'll find someone good.

[@TheLadytruth101]

Randomly found you guys and I’ve always been intrigued about Muslim religion I’m Puerto Rican catholic so I find this very informative! Plus I like you guys style! Subscribed👍🏼🤗

[@yumnasejal1433]

❤

[@TheXs.Official]

So happy you enjoyed it and found it useful! ✨☺️❤️

[@Naturewumit]

So glad I came across your video randomly. I am a Christian and I definitely agree to everything you have said. Holding on to one's faith is very important and in the world we live in today, alot of things, morals, believes have actually gone wrong. When I got married, it took me one month to loose my virginity and my husband was so tender and understanding.

[@TheXs.Official]

I love this ❤️

[@nadiadansani2139]

I think Islam definitely does it the right way, I think we have integrated a lot of culture into it which is fine to a degree, but some people make their cultural things obligatory and blur the lines of where Islam ends and culture starts. I also think some younger people overlook things and aren’t asking important questions during the courting phase.

[@faz130]

Very educational for people who are looking to get married. N it soooo nice to know im not the only one who reacted that way and cried after lol

[@TheXs.Official]

Thank you, Faiza. ❤️ & So nice for me to know too! 😂 Glad it's not just me and Jane... 🙈🤣

[@sheena3873]

Just randomly found your video and I really love how open you are about the ups and downs of losing your virginity and beginning a relationship in general. I think it isn't spoken about enough which makes some of us feel as if our relationship isn't perfect than there must be something wrong...but this video shows with some understanding you can grow together :)

[@TheXs.Official]

💖💖💖💖

[@dham629]

Alhamdullah I found this video of you two. It has brought me great joy and comfort because I'm an African American Muslim currently getting to know a Desi Muslimah with intentions to get married. I'm 49 and she's 39.

[@blususpect]

Young Muslim here. InshAllah I can get married when I’m ready 🙏🏽. Thx for the advice 💯.

[@TheXs.Official]

In shaa Allah! 🤲 May Allah make your search successful and make you both perfect for one another. Never compromise you character my bro! ✊🏽❤️

[@muslimdenkandaslebennachde2947]

may Allah give ur the best wife brother

[@ribenariri7764]

I absolutely LOVED this!!! the rawness is soo reall but yet extremely respectful. I feel like it so refreshing to hear the reality of how things are right after the wedding. The lead up to the day is drum-rolling madness and then after its like... what now? can only imagine that it can be discombobulating. So real, so raw, and 30 mins well spent. You guys are amazing mashaaAllah. May Allah shower barakah and good in your lives in dunya and akhirah, Ameen!! Looking forward to more content!!

[@TheXs.Official]

YES! Absolute madness in the lead up...so much going on! Then after it's like 👀 😂 alhamdulilah you enjoyed the video ❤️ may Allah SWT bless you in abundance too, ameen 🤲 thanks for watching & commenting! Xx

[@preciousshabalala3501]

Firstly you guys are always a pleasure to watch. This was such a candid and detailed video. I never knew there are some similarities between Christianity and Islamic. I grew up in a church where dating wasn't a thing ( in South Africa ). no bf or gf as all that leads you to sin. Purity all the way until marriage . This is beautiful thank you for sharing .

[@TheXs.Official]

There are SO many similarities between Christianity and Islam! They all stem from the same thing. We share a lot of practices with each other, especially if you go further back. ☺️ Thank you for commenting about your experience ❤️ I'm so glad you liked the video. 💖

[@EAUGUSTA1]

Just stumbled on your page and I'm very impressed that decency still exists! You guys look like such a beautiful couple 💑 may God bless your union 🙏🏼 ❤

[@TheXs.Official]

Awww, what a sweet comment to receive ❤️ we're so happy you enjoy our channel. Thank you so much for your kind words 🤗 may God bless you too xxx

[@D_A_Marv]

I have no idea how I ended up on this channel, but this was very educational on the do’s and don’t in the Muslim faith when it comes to relationship The both of you compliment each other, and I love how they allow each other to talk and listen attentively . Thanks for sharing!

[@TheXs.Official]

Thanks so much for watching and giving us such lovely feedback ❤️ we're super happy you happened to stumble upon us! ☺️ love and blessings to you 🌸

[@insidetoriashead8989]

Wow! I'm a Christian and this video helped to strengthen my resolves. Most of these things are really just principles...not just for Christians or muslims. I totally enjoyed your video plus your edits are one of a kind!

[@cindybusingye6455]

I love you guy's relationship! You guys just gel and are sooo funny I didn't want the video to end!! Thank you for sharing your story with us 🙏🏽

[@TheXs.Official]

Awww so nice that you didn't want it to end! (Even after 30 minutes 😂). Thanks so much for the love ❤️💖

[@shirleybanks6582]

Great content as always 👏👏 I’m not Muslim , but would have wished my first time in a relationship was that sacred! Talk about the dowry, yes I’d want that too💖💖 There’s so much love and respect between you both that I’m so glued to watching your vlogs! Thanks for sharing your story!

[@TheXs.Official]

Hey Shirley! So happy you liked the video ☺️ & the dowry 👀😂😂😍. It's sweet that our dynamic together keeps you watching. 🤗💕 Love & blessings to you 🌸

[@luphelele]

I really enjoyed watching this. Lovely to see the understanding and gentleness from Sufyan. We all need people we can feel safe enough to be honest with

[@reyyy8882]

In my community we do it very differently. We usually don't throw a wedding when couples become religiously married. We throw what's called an engagement party. So the couple are religiously married and halal but they don't start living togther right away. They can travel, be alone togther and do all sorts of romantic activities. This period is used so the couple get comfortable with one another romantically and physically. After about 4 months to even a year or two, we throw a wedding and send the couple to live together. That way the intimacy part doesn't strike as shocking and as all of a sudden. People usually keep their first night for after marriage culturally and use the period of engagement to break the ice.

[@wartanabadanooh7157]

Having such a emotional reaction afterwards isn't something I've heard about before so glad you mentioned it. I suppose it makes sense. Hope to be blessed with such a supportive and understanding partner Ameen and may Allah bless you in your marriage ameen

[@TheXs.Official]

❤️

[@uswaha]

Love this girl! She’s so similar to me. Really gives me hope. Allah bless your marriage and keep up the awesome videos ! X

[@TheXs.Official]

Hi Uswah! ☺️ Ameen to your dua & thanks for the love 🙈❤️ I'm glad you can relate to me and that our video eased you alhamdulilah. May Allah SWT bless you x

[@alo2a1019]

This was so cute! May Allah bless your marriage endlessly!

[@TheXs.Official]

🤗❤️ ameeeeen, thank you! May Allah SWT bless you in abundance. ✨🤲

[@claudettegill8400]

Thanks for sharing. I enjoyed this open conversation. May your marriage be blessed…..sorry I am not Islam but I want to send you blessings. I love your videos very much., it helps me to understand your religion. You both are a beautiful couple.👏🏽🙏🏽❤️

[@TheXs.Official]

Thank you for sending us blessings! Doesn't matter if you're not Muslim, we're very grateful 🤗. So nice to hear that you love our videos, it means a lot. ❤️ May Allah SWT shower you with blessings xxxx

[@katiero6259]

First timer here! Such a sweet couple and great messages for the general society❤️

[@TheXs.Official]

Awww thank you, Katie! Super sweet comment 🥰🤗

[@victoriaandrew4719]

Thanks for sharing Am a christian and I like the way you explained purity before marriage.. Love you both💓💖

[@TheXs.Official]

Thanks so much, Victoria 🥰 sending lots of love your way 💕💕💕💕

[@gillianbromfield3759]

This was fun to watch, you two are so cute. I honestly didn’t know much about the Islamic culture and ways, but it demonstrates how universal love is and how marriage and the desire to be with someone is. It is part of being human, regardless of religion or where you were raised. Wishing you both a long and happy marriage.

[@namujjuzeinab3045]

Love yous always,love the openness and most of all love that sufyan was understanding in this whole situation,so many men need to understand this,wish you both lots of love and barakah in your marriage

[@TheXs.Official]

💖💖💖

[@ukashakawthar4634]

Jazakumllahu khairan for sharing your experience it feels great to see people who believe and support halal relationship🙂. May Allah bless your marriage and bless you with children that will be the coolness of your eyes.🤲🏽🇳🇬.

[@TheXs.Official]

Awwww ameen to your sweet duas! 🤲💖 Ameen wa iyyaki, sis! Thank you so much for watching and letting us know your lovely feedback. Really happy you enjoyed the video. 🤗❤️

[@robinbalaochieng5303]

I really appreciate understanding customs and experiences probably know less about...love the content

[@TheXs.Official]

☺️💖

[@hussainaumar7676]

This is very interesting conversation I enjoyed it, May Allah blessed your marriage with happiness.

[@TheXs.Official]

Thanks, so glad you enjoyed it. Ameen ❤️❤️

[@teyannadean4915]

Thanks so much for this honest look at how intentionality works and the rewards of faith personified because surely we've seen folks that say they are believers and live contrarily to those beliefs. You guys are the example of the rules. I like the way that Amara is always doing research only to find out that experience is the best teacher. I would suggest that she talk to women that she knows that will be honest about child birth and how she may feel afterwards long before that endeavor because that can be shocking too. Not just the shockingly painful part but how if feels when the baby is no longer in the womb and what a transition that is. Another great video and many blessings to your relationship and union. Blessings always.

[@TheXs.Official]

May God guide us all to be our best ❤️ nobody's perfect but the guidance is really clear and can save you from a lot of pain and trouble. Yes! I am constantly finding that life is the best teacher 😂 especially since being married. What you've said about child birth has really fascinated me as much as I've excitedly thought of that time, I've never ever considered that I might feel something during the transition of the baby no longer being in the womb. I will definitely start asking about this x very interesting. Love & blessings to you 😘 thank you for commenting ❤️❤️

[@balogunramon9936]

Very educational and enlighten. I really learnt a lot about how people should act in this kind of situation, not just as a Muslim but as a gentleman. Women goes through a lot and need to be treated with care, understanding and affection. May God continue to bless your marriage👍👍

[@vtee549]

Yeah

[@TheXs.Official]

Beautiful comment! 💖💖💖 Ameen 🥰

[@naanahsa]

Just came across this video, and I LOVE THIS! I really like how honest you are

[@TheXs.Official]

Thank you! ☺️❤️

[@ahmeded4321]

As-salamu alaikum, My name s actually, Aicha. Thank you so much for your open and respectful approach to this topic, especially explaining your experience of being a virgin and moving into the intimate role of a wife. I am a convert and was not raised in a culture that understands, encourages, or practices virginity. I have often doubted my ability to raise my daughters to be virgins when they marry. This video has really helped me understand the emotional and spiritual processes involved which will enable me to guide them to Allah (swt). Barakahufikunna. Mya Allah (SWT) protect your marriage. Amin

[@rashidahambali3227]

Masha'Allah I'm glad you are on the right path alhamdullilah. May Allah make it easy for you to achieve that and more aameen

[@Dsomler]

Loved this conversation. Im not Muslim, but I know of people that had similiar experiences. A friend of mine has a daughter & she was a virgin before marriage. A few months before her wedding, She gave her daughter a "care package" to prepare her for the Honey moon. She discussed in detail the many things she should concern herself with as a wife. That was so beautiful to me.

[@TheXs.Official]

Thanks so much for watching! ☺️ I love this 'care package' idea. The kind of thing I'd love to do for my children. ❤️ Super beautiful! ✨

[@yusrxn]

Omggg I enjoyed this so much !!! You guys are pure vibes ❤️❤️❤️ Mashallah you’re so real & genuine. May Allah bless your marriage x10000 !!!

[@TheXs.Official]

YAY! So happy you enjoyed it! & 🥺❤️❤️ thank youuuu 🤲 may Allah SWT bless you 😘😘😘

[@dorcasomoso7508]

Am not a Muslim but I really enjoyed this. You just gained a new subscriber.

[@TheXs.Official]

💖💖💖 So glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for subscribing 🤗

[@shabanakhauser1530]

It's so refreshing and hopeful to see a couple like yourself. Stay true, happy and blessed!

[@TheXs.Official]

Awww thank you! 😄💖 Love & blessings to you sis xxx

[@mathildap.7705]

Thanks for sharing this personal side of your relationship. I'm from a different culture, but I learnt so much from this video. May God continue to bless you both and your marriage.🙏🏾PS: Will certainly continue to follow you to learn more of your Muslim culture.🙏🏾

[@TheXs.Official]

Thank you so much for watching! 🤗💕 May God bless you in abundance x

[@euniceolawoyin1041]

I admire this woman for maintaining chastity till wedding night,and you have a great man who love God to support your determination, God bless you two 🙏

[@TheXs.Official]

❤️❤️❤️

[@bushidokuro9667]

2 of my favorite people on the planet. Hope all is well with you and yours

[@TheXs.Official]

We are so touched by this! 🥺🥰Praying for all the blessings for you! 🤲☺️

[@queenwashington3114]

I just love seeing you two and I cannot wait to see the babies you will bring into the world Remember babies choose the parents they will be born from so be prepared to have a house full because you two are the best!! One love!!

[@TheXs.Official]

❤️❤️❤️

[@lidiateshome2214]

Really? They get to choose who their parents will be?

[@noooo8999]

@@lidiateshome2214 fake . Every kid is fortunate yo born certain parents not the kids chose.

[@yvonnecummings9572]

Very interesting and educational. You two are really compatible we each other. Very nice. Very interesting and I can imagine it was a strange experience for the both of you. Wow. He’s a very supportive husband. Beautiful explanation. All the best to the both of you.

[@TheXs.Official]

Thanks so much, Yvonne. 🌸 Really glad you liked our video. ☺️ It was a strange, interesting experience but has probably led to our bond being all the more beautiful for it. 🙏 He is an incredibly supportive husband (mA). I feel so blessed to have him as my partner through all the experiences yet to come! ❤️

[@sm2293]

Love that ‘if you ain’t married your single’

[@TheXs.Official]

It's the cheeky face he always said with it 😂😂

[@zoesummer3646]

Although I am Christian. I love this video. Husband is so loving and caring.

[@EmilAnton5]

Huge respect and thanks from a Catholic

[@Sisterella_Ram]

I’m a Christian but I found this video very informative and interesting. Great way to go guys

[@TheXs.Official]

Thank you 🥰❤️

[@sybilbailey5503]

I love this I have learnt a lot. There is nothing wrong with getting to know the person first. Am not a Muslim I totally understand where it has be like that. This generation is to quick to jump into sex. Always enjoy you video. May Allah continue to bless you both, don't change you are educating us. 💓💓

[@TheXs.Official]

Thanks so much, Sybil. So happy you enjoyed the video and found it useful! May Allah SWT bless you in abundance 🤲🥰

[@Fitmodestgirl]

This is so crazy every Muslim couple has their own story great story. Alhamdullilah may Allah bless you all beautiful

[@TheXs.Official]

💖

[@shakiejanat3673]

They're just the cutest. May Allah keep them happy and together

[@TheXs.Official]

Ameen ❤️ that's so sweet 🙈 thank you xx

[@Chiffon-36]

MashaAllah! SubhanAllah! to the both of you. Stay blessed forever inshaAllah Ameen 🤲 So refreshing to see that couples like you who are upon the siratul mustaqeem still exist in this day and age 🙂

[@TheXs.Official]

❤️❤️❤️

[@Al7amdulilah]

The edits on this are hilarious😂 Bro that shirt is hard Allahuma barik

[@user-ds9hv9hv3t]

U respect Islam I'm so proud that u show the people our beautiful religion

[@TheXs.Official]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@chinablue1280]

Wow! The both of you compliment each other so well. I see why he fell for her, and why she fell for him. Both are a perfect match for each other with fantastic vibes. Her mannerisms also reminds me of Barbara Streisand.

[@TheXs.Official]

That's so sweetly put ☺️❤️ thank you, China. So happy you watched and enjoyed it! & I've gotten that Barbara Streisand resemblance comment a few times 😱 I don't know her enough to see it properly myself but it's probably true. 😂 X

[@chinablue1280]

@@TheXs.Official LOL Wow! Its nice to know others also see Ms. Streisand in you. Well, she is a fabulous, gorgeous, and humorous woman like you are. + She's a great singer, and all of her movie are such a great watch. You will really enjoy watching her clean, no foul, language movies, all of them are a great watch, especially Yentl, Funny Girl, Hello Dolly, The Way We Were, What's Up Doc, The Owl and the Pussycat, The Guilt Trip, and hers, not Gaga's A Star is Born, - these my absolute favorites. Well mainly all of them + her music😄!

[@chinablue1280]

@@TheXs.Official Search for her, and enjoy a relaxing entire day off binge watching in bed with your lovely husband. 😊He will see the striking mannerism, and resemblance you both have, + the beauty in her younger pix, especially the way you both move your head, laugh along with the sense of humor. As they say, "everyone has a doppelganger". Search for her to see, and have fun searching out all her list of films on IMDB to watch. Enjoy😊! (Forget not allowed to paste the site.)

[@TheXs.Official]

@@chinablue1280 I think I will love her films, I'll definitely check her out. I loooooove 60's movies so I don't know why I missed hers out! Thank you for this list ❤️

[@chinablue1280]

@@TheXs.Official 😊

[@hirronfernando7058]

Ma sha Allah, very good video, may Allah SWT bless your marriage and shower Baraka on it

[@kkdiazz]

dowry is very common espcially in west african countries we call it bride price its not just money its land gifts gold

[@TheXs.Official]

I thought it must be a thing in other cultures tooooo! Just wasn't sure which ones. Thank you for sharing this! ❤️ xx

[@amazedgirl3689]

I'm getting married around after a month and my head and heart is going crazy I can't feel calm I'm scared and excited and super happy at the same time seeing your bond with each other made me feel really happy and calm may God protect you both and bless you with abundance of happiness together

[@imraanpeerbhay7855]

May Allah bless your marriage

[@TheXs.Official]

'Scared', 'excited' and 'super happy'... sounds about right 🤣💖 may Allah SWT bless you and your marriage in abundance ✨🤲 marriage with the right person is so beautiful. In shaa Allah it will be amazing 🥰

[@Oub2000]

I met a Muslim man. He hit me with that comment: "we don't date we get married." I know he met me just to see if he would even really liked me. He was very respectful and clean cut. It felt kind of weird when I hugged him because he didn't seem comfortable but he hugged me anyway. I did not try that a second time after understanding why. I haven't finished speaking to him yet but I've definitely lived a different lifestyle. Thank you for your input on this because I was wondering. I still don't know if it's for me though.

[@Oub2000]

We never spoke again

[@Twst3628]

@@Oub2000 hm ok If you are not prepared for these drastic changes in customs and religions better not get into it unless if the other side is also willing to *compromise*

[@Oub2000]

@@Twst3628 I don't think I am. I won't get involved.

[@Cynthajames131]

You are so pretty✨❤️...am only 16 buh I learned a lot today...you got yourself a new subscriber ❤️

[@TheXs.Official]

That's so sweet of you to say sis 🙈❤️ thank you. I love that you're watching our videos! 🥰 Xxx

[@Cynthajames131]

@@TheXs.Official me too🥺❤️

[@nadso28]

Wow..!! Absolutely loved this video. Have been following you both from the start and can honestly you’re both the most realist couple on here! I think many Muslim and non Muslim females and males will benefit and relate to this video and it’s brilliant your touched on the topics you did..!! We need more men like Sufyan, so sweet and understanding. You can see the love in both of your eyes - may Allah swt always shower his blessings upon you and keep you in his protection ameen summa ameen

[@TheXs.Official]

🥺❤️❤️❤️ Ameeeen wa iyyaki!!!

[@rabiakhan9108]

I’m very much impressed you know your religion so well and followed the rules so sincerely.love you

[@maryamahmadi3935]

Respect ✊ May Allah keep your marriage strong and blessed. The young ppl of today can learn so much from you two and that it is possibilities to approach marriage the right way. Keep up with the videos we do need your presence. I hope the attention of social media won’t change you two like it has so many others. Thank you

[@TheXs.Official]

Ameen 🤲 thank you sis! & Don't worry ❤️ we don't crave to immerse in the social media world/ values. It's just a useful tool for our work. 👍 Xx

[@jessicaking5298]

Love it!! Thank you so much for sharing. You two are amazing!

[@TheXs.Official]

Thanks, Jessica!! 🙈💖 How sweet of you! 🥰

[@patriciomens3478]

Hello X's I love your videos very very much I like the fact that you're talking about this now cos I'm trying to navigate my relationship problems rightnow. Mind you: I'm not a Muslim tho ... 🙈🙈🙈 But I still love you both 👍🏾🔥🥲 Keep the videos coming🔥👍🏾🤗

[@TheXs.Official]

Hi Patricio! May you find ease in all of your problems. 🤲❤️ Always choose righteousness and trust that God will guide and protect you. We love you too regardless of your faith! ☺️🥰

[@ummuhuma]

Same thing here for me so i had to fix our wedding when on my period so that i can atleast get days to know my husband and learn to accept a mans torch and caddle ...we are now on our 8th year Alhamdulillah....He was so gentle..🇰🇪

[@TheXs.Official]

😂😂😂😂 'Torch and caddle' had me giggling! 🙈 8 years alhamdulilah ❤️ may you have many many more amazing years ahead iA sis 🤲 xx

[@ummuhuma]

Oooh touching😄.....Ameeen and you too

[@angelazulu7665]

Thanks for sharing your story.Am not Muslim but value religious teachings .May you be blessed with many children

[@TheXs.Official]

Ameen 💖 I love that our videos are interesting to people that aren't Muslim too ☺️🤗 thank so much for watching and commenting. May God bless you in abundance ❤️

[@dianaz9682]

Dear brother and sister, the mahr is a gift not a dowry like you said it is for the wife and it is not something she can have it is her right so she actually should ask for something. Thats what I learned, please correct if it is wrong. But allah knows best. ❤

[@TheXs.Official]

Salaam sister ❤️ Yes, you are right. We mentioned that it is the right of the woman and cut some out because we plan on diving a little deeper into the topic at some point. The dowry is the closest concept linguistically and these are sometimes used interchangeably, although there are noticeable differences. Mahr is not optional. It is a condition of marriage. Hope this clears it up and thank you for your comment! ☺️💖

[@sunya8199]

I’ve been waiting for you guys to upload for so longgg💕

[@TheXs.Official]

Awww, that’s so sweeeet!! 🥰🌸❤️💖

[@1eV]

The key takeaway from this video is no amount of reading or advice can prepare you for this married life. It's gonna be unique.

[@hawagueye666]

Ahh, I love this so much. Such a beautiful couple!!❤️❤️

[@TheXs.Official]

❤️❤️❤️

[@fajrdelane8528]

Masha’Allah this was really great! Thanks for sharing!

[@TheXs.Official]

Thank you! ❤️🥰

[@rebelwithahaloxx1002]

This was such a candid and relatable way to hear this topic and I really appreciate the way you both presented it. There's barely anywhere that you can get an honest view and experience like this. Honestly I love you both and the impact you make ❤ تَبَارَكَ اللّهُ I learnt a lot from this and can't wait to see a video about the honeymoon. May Allah always bless you. امين ❤

[@TheXs.Official]

This means so much to us 🥰 so happy you enjoyed the discussion and found it beneficial. You send us so much love and we appreciate it every single time. ❤️ Honeymoon video coming soon iA! 🤣🙈 May Allah SWT always bless you too. 💕 Xxxx

[@rebelwithahaloxx1002]

@@TheXs.Official امين ❤ You guys are too sweet not to love 🥺

[@nakiryahanif1733]

Me too and hope to get married soon

[@adamdio4274]

So educative ! Thank you ❤️ from 🇸🇳

[@TheXs.Official]

Thank you, Adam! ❤️

[@taliahaamatulhaqq8352]

As Salaamu Alaikum X’s, May Allah Ta’ala bless you, your family and all that you do to educate your viewers about Islam, Ameen.

[@Funnvideos.591]

Her smile is so pure

[@TheXs.Official]

Aww 🙈 thank you

[@senasezer422]

I appreciate the Islamic info you guys share a lot. There is a lot of misconceptions going around on the internet. And I love that you guys kept it halal before the wedding, you are setting a great example for the Muslim youth here may Allah be pleased with you. Everytime you guys give a new information about your relationship I just love you more and more. You went to Morocco for honeymoon? Not Maldives? Not Italy? Not Paris? Morocco?? Man. Seems like Im gonna spend the next week binging your videos lol

[@Ayomide_Adewusi]

İm not even a muslim....But this was a beautiful and educative video to watch,God bless you both.❤

[@TheXs.Official]

That's so lovely to hear! 🙈 Thank you so much for watching and commenting. God bless you too! ❤️

[@maryamm899]

U guys r so precious I’m so glad I came across this channel❤️❤️❤️

[@TheXs.Official]

Yaayyyy! We're glad you found us too 😄💖

[@twahtwah2479]

We have dowry too in our Zimbabwean culture. We call it roora. Here the bride's family requests for the roora from the incoming son in law. This comes in form of cash and cattle. The larger sum of this roora is given to the bride's dad, the mom gets part of it and 1 cattle. The bride is given her share too. A bit of cash is given to her sisters, brothers and aunts. I love our culture🇿🇼🇿🇼🇿🇼