divorce q&a

[@kaytiemyers2698]

I LOVE that you acknowledged being out of touch with the financial reality of others. That's respectful and validating.

[@annapainter2763]

I watched you before you got married and during the first few years of your marriage. I can't pinpoint when exactly and man I wish I could remember, there was a point where I noticed at the light left your eyes. The fact that nobody in your life discouraged you from getting a divorce is very telling. I am so sorry, I know this is so hard. I can see the light in confidence back in your face, I think the best is yet to come.

[@Jcbby6440]

I’m the financially stuck woman you’re referring too and I’ll tell you, you’re lucky af to be able to leave on your own terms. I’d be such a better mom if I could leave this devil

[@courtwoodyard]

My mom & dad got divorced whenever I was 6 or 7. Whenever I got in my 20's my mom gave me her engagement ring from my dad. I love having it, but I was always the biggest daddy's girl and he passed away whenever I was 17. So I would definitely hold on to it for your girls just in case.

[@trieuhoangphuongquynh9723]

when you said you don't have a relationship with your ex-inlaw anymore, i immediately knew that they would choose to defend their son. I'm so sorry this happened to you. It must be really hard.

[@KimNothdurft]

I really admire your commitment to your daughters and how you talk about their individuality even at just 8 months old. You’re a good mom (I’m sure you know that but incase you needed a reminder)

[@ayla8345]

Having parents that don’t like each other is one of THE WORST feelings and situations one can be in. Even as an adult. I hope your kids will be ok.

[@genevalevy1690]

“Now it’s my whole personality” lmao like the internet gave you a choice

[@SabrlIna]

<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="202">3:22</a> it absolutely was not always a choice to get divorced. “No fault divorce” which means you want a divorce for personal reasons not bc of cheating or something wasn’t legal until 1969 (in California). Women couldn’t even petition a divorce AT ALL until 1937. (All of this is for USA)

[@jessicamarie27]

I’m proud on how far you’ve come🩷

[@kaytiemyers2698]

In Wisconsin you can get divorced basically for free. It takes alot of work. And you can do all your own paperwork. My side hustle is helping people rep themselves. I'm NOT an attorney but I can help people and I do it for extremely cheap. Most of the time it's women with special needs children.

[@alwaysazriel]

We oooobviouslyyyy want part 2. Hahah but also I just love hearing whatever part of your experience you want to share! 🙌🏽💖

[@Susieslife55]

I just stopped what I was doing just to watch your videos. Love you!

[@Jvideowatcher]

If you’re in a financial position where you can’t afford an attorney, research legal aid clinics in your state! I helped many people file for divorce as a law student.

[@mirandahenkel550]

Ritual won the lottery with sponsoring this video 😂

[@kaytiemyers2698]

Before my divorce we had the same fight every week. Almost every Sunday. Like you said. It's hell. Nothings right but it's not always all bad too. Very tough and you want to be okay for the kids sake etc.

[@gracecy23]

I relate so much to being the person who has to carry the weight of fixing things, as I’m sure many women understand. It’s been the hardest year emotionally, financially, and mentally and my marriage has definitely taken a hit because of it. I can’t even believe it’s Christmas because we can’t do it this year. This time of year is supposed to be the happiest but it’s just sad. It’s so hard to explain but it’s like sometimes I can watch myself from third person POV and just see how hard I’m struggling and it’s just…sad. Cheering you on Aspyn ❤

[@HealthyEmmie]

whiplash from how fast I clicked 😅

[@anonymouse0123]

thank you for sharing this. i got divorced this year as well. cheers and congrats! it is sooooo freeing.

[@NayaHilliard]

The way you talk about your daughters is just so beautiful and admiring. <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="607">10:07</a> and <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="957">15:57</a> are two moments specifically. You can just tell by your words and tone how much you love your girls and how nothing else in the world matters other than their happiness. It is so inspiring to see 🩷 Also just the way you stand up for not only them, but yourself.

[@Jlb2233]

hi aspyn!! Just wanted to let you know if you’re on SSRIs like Zoloft that you’re not supposed to take things with ashwaganda or l-theanine. I only know bc I’ve been taking it awhile and learned what I’m not supposed to mix & wanted to tell in case you didn’t realize!💕

[@Nimisha-nq7de]

the part to get never married again because you ll be trapped and tied down is so relatable l, i am going through the process of divorce it's so draining and annoying !!!just want to feel normal again 😔

[@mariahxpapaya]

this better be juicy ms Aspyn !!!!

[@Emmajenta95]

Omg I was waiting for this

[@paularodriguez726]

Fifteen THOUSAND dollares to get divorced???? Dear god

[@pacco831]

Never been this early, I’m glad you were able to make the decisions you made, proud of you❤

[@kaileystubblefield]

I just got on lunch from work so I’m excited to watch this!

[@trieuhoangphuongquynh9723]

this is the video we've all been waiting for!!!

[@HaydenBlakeYT]

i got divorced at 20 from a serial cheater, thank god

[@mollyreid4844]

I got married young. It didn't last long. Everyone always asks if I will again and my answer is always "facebook doesn't even need to know my relationship status. The government damn sure doesn't." My current relationship, we have kids, the one I can see spending the rest of my life with, we both went into it knowing neither ever wanted to actually marry again and it works for us. I did just tell him though I want a ring minus the wedding.🤣

[@Mia-fv3ij]

been waiting for this one

[@kaileystubblefield]

Omg I’m excited to watch!!!!!

[@juliakruzan4452]

You are such a good mom

[@shelbyseever887]

You have come so far through all of this!

[@gypsyjane6352]

Part two girlie!!

[@TheCassandraFreeman]

I have never been so early! But I love the new confidence I feel you have

[@gabriellahajjar3497]

been waiting for this

[@keshamcinnes]

oh i have been WAITING for this

[@anaiabellee]

love you aspyn

[@msjchristine16]

PART 2!!!!!

[@Katherine-hn1qz]

So tasteful with what you choose to share, you’re such a good mom

[@azucenavarin4504]

The timing for this video was very strategic 💵💰🎅🏼 lol go girl!

[@Em.marie.30]

The last comment about your littlest baby ugh i’m crying i love you and your kids.

[@trieuhoangphuongquynh9723]

Please I HAVE NEVER CLICKED SO FAST

[@wildpony9]

Love you so much!!❤

[@thehouseofmy3516]

PART 2!! 💖💖💞💗

[@watchinthesunset002]

Part 2 pleaseeeeee

[@kholley1955]

Have the rings redone into other jewelry like a necklace you or your kids would wear! Or earrings!

[@crystalsky1029]

I filed for divorce in Utah after years of abuse. we had one child together. Because I was a stay at home mom/part time CNA, I was able to get a financial waiver and they covered all of the divorce costs. For anyone who may be in the same position see if that’s an option. However, I also did not get a lawyer I did it straight through the court. So that may be an option in other states as well. I’m so sorry for this happening. But it sounds like it was the best thing for you to do. Since my divorce I found an amazing man. We’ve been together 12 years, we have 4 children together, we had 2 boys (together) and a little girl, who we lost at 6 days old to SIDS in 2020, then we had our rainbow baby, another boy, in September of 2022. Also his son from another relationship and my son from that horrible marriage. So we lost our only little girl.. all of this to say, we have been through hell and back more times than one, and we are still going strong. As strong as we can. You’ll find that one, you’re still so young and I appreciate the way you are about your daughter’s privacy and what you say.

[@danib882]

Love you aspyn

[@Jade-lv5eu]

YES part 2

[@PeytonBourree]

Part 2!

[@MamaMiahhh]

I haven’t seen you in years but glad I came 😭

[@angelavanpelt2228]

You should do a part 2 q and a

[@raquelmicellipedroso9044]

Love your videos ❤❤❤

[@lenam2114]

Love youu ❤

[@Jcbby6440]

My man always tries to get me pregnant every time I get to my breaking point of leaving 👀

[@jessnbradshaw]

hi aspyn ily

[@lexibush]

I’ve never been so early

[@kaytiemyers2698]

Yeah I would have a ceremony and celebrate our love but I'd never legally marry again

[@Kimberandhannah]

Of course we want part two and three and four and five

[@NujoodJamal]

Part 2 please 🤍

[@cassieee1934]

Never clicked on a video so fast

[@mrowell1435]

Did he cheat..? Or just differences ?

[@TatianaVelasco-t7s]

First time watching the divorce q & a video.

[@Alissaaaaaaaa]

too early? neverrr

[@hallebrown2065]

EARLY HI QUEEN

[@giuliagpacheco]

I never clicked so fast on a video

[@valeriaandrade2083]

Never clicked this fast

[@beenavitale8563]

I’ve never been so fast to click ❤

[@brendadiazpisano7070]

What happened to the house you guys had in your hometown?

[@nicolems]

What happened to the house close to your mom? ❤

[@lindseygelmore]

wait yes ❤

[@siennakay3922]

part 2, i love chatty videos

[@taylorrfaith]

❤❤❤

[@haley.on.cornelia.street]

I’M SATTTT 😵

[@NOURAHVLOGS]

Hello

[@queeninthestars]

i operare similarly to aspyb bc we are both fire signs. 🔥

[@OfficialSaedes]

♥️

[@sarahpridemore4978]

Clicked so fast

[@katieslear]

IM SAT

[@taylorsams6444]

Oh I’m earlyyyyy

[@beccagens1867]

Icon 🩷

[@katiesamuelson1250]

Omgggg

[@addisonreyna1788]

oh shit

[@angiev1182]

Ok hiii

[@seven.ivy.13]

i hope you know how proud we are of you and how far you’ve come🤍🤍

[@kelseyashby3776]

😯

[@dwarta10562]

omg. 👀

[@xobellasdavis]

this is my fav version of you - sincerely an og hautebrilliance fanatic 🥰

[@VictoriaLopez-ru2ys]

OOP

[@alyssanelson6943]

First ❤

[@michelletharrington5775]

one of the first! ilysm❤️

[@hallebrown2065]

EARLY

[@AbbySoto98]

first 😳

[@nehaparwani4000]

Ur so strong girl best mom, friend and family member wishing u the best of the best success in life💜💜

[@aditimungale1126]

first again hahaha

[@darianbobbi9197]

FIRST

[@jesslynberg2242]

I’m SO early. Love you Aspy💐🧚🏼‍♀️✨🫶🏼

[@Bethany_dirkx]

First