IS INDIA THE EXAMPLE? - Why Parenting in India Is So Unique Reaction

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[@KuldeepSingh-ch7mg]

I am 18 now and an engineering student still i never received anything like pocket money from my parents but i have received everything i required. So, giving directly money to the child's is not common in my family atleast.

[@unknownmystery9028]

Sameee

[@Harshanandita]

Same

[@kimjongkook5426]

Same

[@cgxapurba8450]

NO POCKET MONEY, JAB CHAHIYE TAB LE LETA HUN.

[@adarshgopalakrishnan9766]

Same dude

[@sun_am_i]

I'm 23 I still sleep besides my mom ,when I was in home it doesn't mean I need medications, its just I lover her

[@lovettmaryann]

Same here I am 22 and I still sleep with my mom

[@aartipundir4405]

Absolutely

[@siddhayyakapale7455]

Bro If you don't have younger brother or sister than U should need Medicine..... Because it's not about love to your mother.

[@jamta69]

@@siddhayyakapale7455 i sleep between mom and dad when im pleasent.i do sleep alone but we must appreciate parents and their presence in ur life,just because im 21 and im an adult. we shouldnt just shake hand and greet them.

[@anushamishra2938]

Me too!!!☺️ Not only because I love her but also because I am scared of darkness😂😂😂😢

[@anushkap.3683]

I still remember my parents always scolding me when I watch cartoons. They always told me to watch "Discovery channel".

[@arindomsarma5688]

But i watched the best cartoons in my childhood which today's generation children won't understand

[@bullempire6612]

Is that u watch man vs wild ... Lol 😂 just fun

[@RkSaha-gh5jv]

@@bullempire6612 you cant watch discovery now because of naked and afraid episode or advertisement

[@bullempire6612]

@@RkSaha-gh5jv u dump I said before 10 years

[@Zeo_saiyan]

@@arindomsarma5688 yes I also watch cartoons. There is no childhood without cartoons.

[@virajghadge6916]

I'm 19 and I still sleeps besides my mom...I don't think its weird, I just feel more comfortable ❤️

[@malinaresh91]

I'm 28 and I sleep besides my mom

[@mridupabandas7248]

yeah same ..i m 23...dont know how thats weird

[@filmsbyanshuman]

I have considered my parents beating as physical abuse😂😂 I realise it now, that if I wouldn't have recieved that beating I would have ended up ending myself.

[@ranjeetgautam5698]

I am 23 and i sleep with my mom and sometimes i also sleep with my dad, in india we don't mind this, and we believe in joint family because we never want to leave our roots, we can't raise our voice in front of our elders and we can't even look into eyes of our elders if they are angry on us for some reasons. Family is everything.

[@satyasrinivasarajukurapati9619]

Only Indians can clearly understand this

[@siddhayyakapale7455]

Bro If you don't have younger brother or sister than U should need Medicine..... Because it's not about love to your mother.

[@Shreyas_3011]

You can sleep beside your mother but your sister can't sleep beside your father, isn't that fucked up? You said you can't raise your voice infront of them, then how would you take stand for yourself? Are you sure they always know what's best for you, also more than you? You don't want freedom? You don't like the sense of individuality? You like living with them even after growing up and tell me can you start a live in relationship there? Would they be okay? And let's talk about patriarchy. What stand does your mother hold in your family? Doesn't your father only make all decisions? For their lives and for yours. Love your family but don't be blind. Why we are so fucked up if we really are great people? Because discrimination is in the roots. Men oppresses women, elders oppresses younger beings in family and so goes caste hierachy. You know what I am talking about. And of course beating your children and beating your wife or beating anyone in general is physical abuse.

[@samviratian4308]

@@Shreyas_3011 i want to stay in my own room but my parents always want me to come and sleep with them ffs leave me alone already I'm 23 now

[@randhawa153]

Im 24 i do the same

[@skyforall9408]

If a child is 20 and still sleeps with his/her parent(s), they don't need counselling. It is perfectly normal

[@amitkumaryadav6001]

Exactly,agree buddy

[@eternal1967]

Yeah now my parents are not allowing me and they say, u r a big man now... So sleep in a separate bed😅😅

[@nehagiri1338]

Absolutely.. here in India..this is perfectly fine..

[@CelestialBuzz]

🤣🤣🤣it looks like this video was made back in with 90s information.

[@airiswindy1622]

Parents teach patience and kindness but 95% of Indian people don't learn and follow 😭

[@sapkumar2649]

We learnt buddy Bad times make people angry so don't worry indians hv emotions and all human beings hv

[@umerfarooq9742]

so original reaction video on pakistani muslim in india kamal. must watch kzbin.info/www/bejne/r5fHoZqoedeIiLc

[@santoshkashyap2946]

Its not true eventually one day you will try to teach the same it's because you have been taught...

[@Pankaj13pkj]

They do because very less divorce cases here and living in joint family need patience and kindness too

[@ank7652]

Nobody talks about what they don't teach....sex ed

[@josephveerendrakumar4084]

we share one bed with parents it has no age limit it is pure love in india which u cannot understand

[@sadiqahmed4143]

Nah india is way too communal that's a bit too much

[@barcazee8798]

@@sadiqahmed4143 are you an indian ? if you are not then you better dont talk

[@mrz_gaming_ninja6415]

Im 21 and i sleep besides my mom, we tells stories about our neighborhood and also talk about my parents childhood stories, i need my parents everytime with me♥️

[@RobertZemeckis2025]

indian parenting so much different from LA,NY and CA because indian parents are most conservative people ..

[@pravinjadgeri3307]

Dorry they are not conservative. Teaching our children to respect all the elderly people. And see other parents as our oen parents like. Is not conservative mentality. Its one example. There are many more example. Our parents teaches us to respect other gods. But abhramic follower. Think they are only religious and pure. And others are sinner. So do you think these is consertvative.

[@rehafrancis3249]

Lol they know how to create good human being In West parents doesn't give fuck about kids

[@ranumandal9121]

Our parents help us to grow into a good human being. Not like other countries they leave their children alone

[@sadiqahmed4143]

@@ranumandal9121 probably because India is communal culture

[@akhileshuikay2228]

I'm 23 and a medical student, and i still sleep beside my mom, and some time beside my dad, and it's perfectly normal for us indians, as we love that we are with our parents and they love that they are with their kids that's what we call a family. Respect your parents coz you can earn billions, you can have anything you want, but you can't make parents who first think of their children's happiness then after if sometime left they think for themselves and even that time they think to how to make our future... Even if get old i can't even think of living in any house where my parents doesn't live, bcoz i want to take good care of them, and let them if anything happens I'm there for you till my last breath, and i think every true indian feels the same... JAI HIND 🙏❤️🇮🇳

[@somachakraborty6367]

Lots of love from India 🇮🇳 😊 🙏 Ram Ram 🚩

[@SurajYadav-bm9ce]

Happy new year dillion family

[@sonamonimondal4112]

Free fire noob Ka game hay

[@umerfarooq9742]

so original reaction video on pakistani muslim in india kamal. must watch kzbin.info/www/bejne/r5fHoZqoedeIiLc

[@adityatare259]

Wolfarah 😭

[@xamtra]

8:15 She exactly said playing with food. Kids usually play with foods unknowingly but if a big kid play with food and throw food around instead of eating properly they'll get scolding or in extreme cases beating.

[@abhishekmazumder6490]

M 22 n i still sleep with my maa

[@yashpalchouhan7140]

Wtf Tom and Jerry and looney were big here i used to watch them when I was a kid 😒

[@challengefail3655]

I watch Doremon science lol

[@boobindarpussiya7464]

@@challengefail3655 same Doraemon was the one most famous in india

[@anujith5474]

Yes i watch pokemon when i was 10 😂

[@charliecharliee6416]

Such culture & nurturing u'll find in most asian countries.. Nevertheless, its a good practice to stay grounded to ur culture as well to be progressive minded at the same time..

[@potato5175]

The cartoon thing is fake

[@gabriellejerikieanoche7586]

It's not fake, you can say mom allow you to watch but dad is strick about it. 90s 80s kids know more about it if you ask them. Not saying you are wrong but it's like, they are fine if we play cricket or other things outside more than sitting home and watch TV.

[@Abhijeettyagi900]

@@gabriellejerikieanoche7586 but thhis does not show accurate things about indian

[@umerfarooq9742]

so original reaction video on pakistani muslim in india kamal. must watch kzbin.info/www/bejne/r5fHoZqoedeIiLc

[@DoYourOwnResearch127]

Not fake for me, I use to get a chance to watch Ramayan and Mahabharata though, but I really thankful for that because I have very good knowledge of our ancient history due to that and those were my first spiritual lessons and I learned many more after that by my own. Its like initial ignition of the spiritual path, once you your spirituality got lit then you will start exploring it yourself.

[@mastercreative7647]

Addicted of your intro 😂😂😂💘

[@shunyamark9800]

80 percent of what she told was exaggerated

[@ganarajgauns4282]

Don't worry guys ignore the negative comments ... Be positive ❤️❤️

[@ZT_ZEET]

Now I know why my parents always scolded me when I watched cartoons 😂😂

[@veneec2311]

Most parents in india need not only to be. Doctor or engineer they need to be successful in there life they are strict cuz they know what happens if they don't give bright future to them then they will live in poor.in fact 35 percent of nasa scientists are indians

[@hrishikeshsonar]

Thankyou to commented people.. i thought i was the only 23 and sleeping with my mom and dad. Coz. It feels good to be be together and space is managed. When i saw comments section i was soo happy. M not alone ❤️❤️🔥🔥

[@jitendradhiman8723]

I am 35 years old having 2 kids. I respect my family whenever I wish I used to keep my head on my mother lap sleep for hours. We have very strong bond. My parents are living with me and we will be together until our last breath. It is our culture

[@chesongrongphardev__cr7302]

Im 18th nd still sleep with my parents🧡

[@Shreyas_3011]

Don't do that man. They need to have sex sometimes.

[@chesongrongphardev__cr7302]

@@Shreyas_3011 arey bhai this is too much... don't you dare say this types of words about parents,they are god 🙏 for evry children.... throw all that Negative thought, and be sorry for that...😠

[@Shreyas_3011]

Hahahaha 😂😂 So Gods don't have sex? You find it embarrassing that your parents have sex?

[@Shreyas_3011]

I am just suggesting you to not clinge over them. Let them have their own personal space. You're making it toxic.

[@chesongrongphardev__cr7302]

@@Shreyas_3011 you are not sleeping besides your parents doesn mean everyone doesn't ...so better you keep your mouth shut...

[@t.rbalugiri9383]

Happy New Year 2021 - Greetings & Best Wishes To You, Your Family

[@avis7061]

Yea I see most kids seeing oggy and the cockroaches.....in which a cat chases cockroaches....and kids also watches chotta Bheem.....where Bheem fights with villains.....and they say they make them watch informative stuff 😂😂

[@ashwinsinghrautela7457]

my condition for my younger brother is that he can only watch shows with the story progressing towards something.

[@sadiqahmed4143]

@@ashwinsinghrautela7457 Anime?

[@meemaratha5733]

MY PARENTS EMPHASIZED THE MOST ON EDUCATION AND SPIRITUALITY 🙏❤️🙏❤️💐💐

[@vikramvicki]

We were reached thounds of year ago in tamil...maatha..pitha..guru n theivam. This is like respect ur mother, father ur teacher n god.

[@robinhood9578]

I am 23 year old I sleep with my parents in hall we have a bedroom but our family sleep in hall

[@directioner3904]

I think we don't work from an early age, it's mostly after college, but yes, our parents do try their best to make us independent in day to day situations. Also we can watch cartoons (not shinchan tho😂)... I remember watching both cartoons and discovery/nat geo etc.. Love your video!❤

[@pujakumari-mu2sy]

At the age of 30 or above live with parents is our culture because at child phase they support us ... when they getting older it is our responsibility to take care of them

[@snehasahoo1718]

I am 17 and I sleep with my mom and sister and it's not at all wrong to live with parents when we get old. Because when our parents become old they also need care just like we needed when we were kids and we have to be with them at time. Toddler and senior citizen are similar . They need attention. And who knows how much time we have with them.

[@princejoseph7141]

Bro in my family we are 12 members. But you can't imagine more of the family is bigger than my family . Love is a bonding as well our family is our love and bonding.

[@prabh5207]

As an Indian I can say that my parents didn't restrict me from watching Tom and Jerry, and also my Mother favourite cartoon growing up was Tom and Jerry

[@jeenajohn2030]

Indian culture is beautiful 💕 We give more importantance to family rather than any other relation❤️ Proud to be an Indian 💕

[@MrTrichy]

In other countries children's are give freedom to learn through their mistakes But here in India parents don't like their Children to fail because they think that Relatives and society will think wrong about family childrens passion is not important, families dignity is important And not all the parents now it's slowly changing.

[@akshatgupta4990]

It was saying that eating with hands also have manners , eating from hand also provide the flow of energy through hand to boys and also good for digesting beacuse you can easily make a bite for yourself according to your body

[@ranjeetgautam5698]

This video is about how Hindu's raise their children not the whole India.

[@anuronguha0898]

you mean how 80% of Indians raise their children

[@Truthfully12312]

In India sleeping or lying with parents is not a strange thing…it’s actually a way to seek and show love …One typical thing in India is son normally listening more to his parents than his wife …and it can create tension in families…but still somehow the rule is staying together and finding the delicate balance..it is tough but is great when judged at time of difficult circumstances….however this is changing fast…for good or worst …cannot say

[@punjabidecenthulk784]

Indian parents don't let us go even we got married, 😂 reason behind our govt system is corrupt 🙄 govt is not their for help us, thats y we r still living in joint familys, bcz we need each other for help,

[@DevendraMahendraSingh]

Regardless of the country or culture, no guy truly knows who he is married to.

[@JS-vv3mo]

ohh...i still remember myself seeking help of mamma and pappa to do my homework.....papa at that time...was doing my hard drawing tasks...n mamma in dictating me answers from book.... n at tests n annual exams...they strictly were making me get up at 5 am...in morning...😑😑n asking n making me prepare for the exam day....🙄😅....n after exam....we all get nervous .....🙈 hmmm......now i m like....those were the days....🙃

[@ARATI_KUMARI]

Parents are protectors for the entire life of children in India. That's the difference between you and india

[@srishtishah1504]

I am an Indian and 18yrs i think even after turning 30 or 40 we should stay with our parents not because we need financial help or their protection from the world but because its our time to stay with then help them in their old age. Moreover when you think parents should let them go as free butterfly its the moral responsible of the children to stay with their parents and give them the pleasure to live in a joint family

[@ishikasati6488]

I'm 17 and I still sleep beside mom

[@andybesmith6425]

I think all of this was true in the 90s but if we talk about today then the thing is that children are more influenced by their friends than the parents

[@sapkumar2649]

If someone respect you respect them back If someone disrespect you respect them back this behaviour will change them behaviour once Taught in Indian Parenting also Taught by Mahatma Gandhi Jai Hind🇮🇳

[@Peizooooooo]

I think literally every Indian child watches Tom and Jerry

[@suryasantosh]

I'm 30 years old and I still sleep with my parents until I get married. Then my wife and myself will also sleep with both the parents. It's a common thing. We may be older, but in the vision of parents we are still kids. Also, being independent doesn't mean living individually in India. We stay with our parents till their last day and our children will follow the same with us. Parents take care of us till we settle and we do the same taking care of them till the end. It's a cycle of life.

[@django1502]

Lol, as many of the things mentioned are relatable but they took it in a whole ideal level. Not exactly what she mentioned actually happens. I did watch cartoon, my parents did not told me what should I become but they just made sure I get good marks in school And specially what they told about school are really ideal, most of the school culture here is very different. They care about money and nothing else. I dont want to say the video was completely unrelated to a indian life but they just took it as people in India are too ideal. This is just not the case.

[@rounakpool5778]

The cartoon thing is actually for 90s kids now kids watch literally everything

[@devilgaming2186]

We live according to our parents whole life bro because we believe that our parents never take any wrong decision for us

[@angelgrace1431]

Indian parents will take care of there children even if the child is 60years..child will always have there freedom but for that we should not move out of home... And we take care of our parents and in-laws even they are 100 years.. It's a privilege.

[@Shubham_472]

Whenever I go back to my home I sleep by the side of my mom. I am 27 still. Mom is❤️

[@piyamvas]

This is more reflective of an older generation.. I related to this growing up but now it's very different, looking at most kids and how they behave these days.. ugh. Totally off on the education system tho 😂 my class had 60 students, there was no question of getting personalized attention. Teachers absofreakinlutely have favourites, so much so that others never got an opportunity to shine because the favourites always got picked for extracurriculars etc. Also parents never missed an opportunity to compare you with other kids. Everything I did in school was compared to whoever was the current topper in the class 😂

[@swatichauhan7912]

Love your reacting .. you looked it unbiased mindset ...so love you both for that ... You also shared your life instances it felt sweet ..

[@businessswot1003]

Now school's are ONLINE student CAN LEARN anytime THEY want

[@headhunter3744]

There is nothing wrong with showing ur love to ur mother... Any one who mock you are overcompesating for their own fault.

[@jeenajohn2030]

Beating kids in India by a parent is not considered as Cruel but it's a part of correction or creating discipline. And I got lot of beating 😁😛, if that was not given i couldn't be a good daughter for my parents, they nurtured me..💕

[@nitinkulkarni5542]

@8:12 she is talking about playing with food on the table. In India, we consider food as a divine part. we should always show respect for food and wasting food is considered as irresponsible behavior. We have a special female sacred diety in the house which takes care of food - "Annapurna".We have a ritual in our family, after completing our meals we always say a Sanskrit verse " Ana daata sukhi bhava" which means- 'God give all the happiness who has given me this food" showing gratitude to food and food giver

[@nishantkumargupt]

I myself sleep with between my parents since 10 to 12 years after that we sleep seperate , After that me and my younger brother sleep together till now and we fight a lot.

[@ivanrojosky4929]

Very very happy new year Dillon family and we wish you a very successful new year and I personally believe that many achievements are waiting for you in this year , my best wishes are with you and your family , please keep doing the reaction videos WE LOVE IT ! specially the discussion that you guys make while watching the video , In face it's like exchange of knowledge , because we also know about your culture from you 100% APPRECIATED

[@kalyan4678]

I am so proud to be bone and raised in Indian society and in Indian family system ... Indian Women leave with self respect and their whole life be like irrational yagna .. thay will born pure , thay live pure with self respect untill thay die... Indian familys die or kill for respect in society .. every family trys be perfect and earn good name .... And to maintain good name which was passed through their forefathers from ganarations .... Indians are soo sentimental thay love their children soo much Indian familys are so connected Indian parents beat children for their child future good ..other wise children will be spoiled like some foreign countries Fully exposeing women ....three four affairs for each women , drinking alcohol ... Now a days Indian culture is spoiling because of western culture... Mostly

[@Sudip_Sarkar_Charles_Edwards]

This video has generalised the subject. I grew up watching tom n jerry, dexter's lab, swat cats, power puff girls, scooby doo, dragon ball z, spiderman.. And old phantom comics...

[@adarshgopalakrishnan9766]

Well during the time when I grew up, Tom and Jerry was pretty famous

[@Shorties88]

Haha I'm a lawyer, I have a separate room, but I still love to sleep with my parents sometimes, you know why, cuz I feel safe and protected, I love chatting with them before sleeping and hug them and sleep. Parents are God's gift, you must love them before it gets too late.

[@pranjalgupta2575]

the video is partially true. no parents stop you from watching tom and jerry in india.

[@ashudalal1020]

Fact every boy sleep near her mother 💕💕💕 infinity love and bond on earth

[@avanishshukla2429]

I am 30 I still sleep with my parents .. one day with my father and one day with mother

[@adrijamukherje9340]

Guys sleeping with our parents is normal here,it doesn't mean they need counseling am 17 and I still do,I am yoo much ttached to my mom's youvh and smell,so yeah,lol

[@ankurmondal3220]

I might need conselling LOL , I still sleep with my mom even tho I am 19, Welp cant sleep alone lol , I still fear the dark

[@sadiqahmed4143]

That's acceptable since fear of darkness is natural

[@randhawa153]

Now i know why my parents scold me when i use my phone and watch tv 😂😂

[@realmoonknight]

I watched that cannibal before i could speak english bruh 😭

[@bhupalichoudhurymusical_2228]

*A joyous new year is wished to you and your family ..I hope this year turns to be a the best year of yours life* 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌷🌷🌷🌷🙏🙏🙏🍫🍫🍫🍫😊😊😊🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰🙋

[@t.rbalugiri9383]

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[@prabadev397]

Instead of giving money to the child, better we can offer what they want.. That's really appreciatable... And certain things u can enjoy at that respective age... We always think that our child should not miss anything that what they want...

[@davidlugun5355]

You're points are so much correct ❤️ Luv your Video Always be happy & Wish you a Happy New Year🎉

[@jagveer9073]

Indian moms r great. M 55 n my mom still cares me

[@vaishnavisingh3888]

Yes in India we can not usually believe how moms leaves their babies in cradle at night alone.

[@rk071s5]

I don't understand why they only show typical images of villages when it comes to India??

[@pro-hv2hf]

Worst thing is when your dad teaches you maths 😂

[@------aryan._.roy-------]

10:28 when i try to speak advance english

[@wanderer8243]

So I'm an Indian and grew up watching a lot of cartoons... Including Tom and Jerry, loony toons, Alfred, courage the cowardly dog, Powerpuff girls and many more... So

[@govindasawme]

The first rule of most is to give a better start to next generation by saving the most. It's like they should get what I can't.

[@businessswot1003]

Most of parents take careoff homework and child take rest

[@EreoFitnessHub]

Indian parenting all depends on "Nothing related to obscene scenes" . Just pure love and pure hard work . And Bhudape ka Saharaa

[@aavishkarpathak8806]

My mom would beat the sh*t out of me. I never had behavior issues😌😄

[@webglobesolutions]

Some wrong information.. I am 40 and still watch Tom & Jerry... during childhood neither me nor my friends used to watch arts & culture on TV. We mainly used to watch cartoon & Cricket matches.

[@amarnadhgunakala2901]

You people doing good, keep going

[@rusty4824]

Not Indians* just the Hindus, Buddhists and Jains, not the terrorists.

[@shyam9271]

The main reason for forcing the children's occupation or profession by the parents in India is because until a few decades back to the professions ar based on family legacy if your father was a shoe repairman you were destined to become a shoe repairman so that's the reason for the parents wishing for their kids profession that they were not able to acheive or not allowed to

[@khushisuri4954]

I love your guys reaction ignore the haters you have nice and unique content and i lovee taniaa she is so cutee and really smartt too❤❤❤ I dont know how reliable this video is its looks like its make by a foriegner some things are very cliche we watched tom and jerry , we dont work at a young age little chores maybe

[@saubhagyaranjan8168]

this video remind me one thing i got not a good result in Btech,i thought papa Will not help me for further study.seriously i got afraid after result.after 1/2 month papa told me now whats your plan ,study further or wait for me to give you a solution.. he told me how much money you want for next career.. don't afraid..go on..i am alws with you.. one fact-even after 23 year 90% son/daughter of indians are afraif of their parents.. including me..but that's good ..my parents loved me alot...

[@g-page645]

There are different etiquette to be followed while eating with ur hands

[@mirajvyas3666]

@Aussidillon....Yeah...but when the children are 30-40ys old...the parent are in their old age...and they need the same warmth as they gave you when you were young.....and it's our duty to provide them with it

[@vishaltanwar30]

Its kids duty when their parent to grow old. Their sacrifice their entire life for kids. When kids get independent they still live with parents. Girls get married and goes with her husband. Sons marries and bring bride in home, and have to fulfill his duty of taking care of his parents. So Son and His wife, grandchildren live together and younger one always respect elders. Its joint family concept. I have 7 uncle my father brother which live together, along with their kids, daughter in laws, grand kids. Like whole colony of relatives. Sometimes even 4 generation living together. 3 is normal. I am 50 and i have 40 first cousin brothers and sisters. 14 cousin brother cousins and rest cousin sisters. Now think their kids and their kid's kids. I have become grandpa. We usually don't have concept of 1st cousin, 2nd cousin (maternal, paternal). We just call brothers and sisters. But in hierarchy each relation have a unique name also. Like my any elder brother's real or cousin's wife is my Bhabhi (you call sister in law). I have to be very respectful for her like my mother or elder sister. She takes care of me like her younger brother or if age difference is more like a mother. Here we say elder brother is like a father, and her wife is like a mother to us. In case my parents dies, they will take care for me, my education, my marriage and my character. Each relation and it's sanity crystal clear. Simple rule Elders have to take care of younger ones. And then when you stand at your own feet you have take care of elders in most respectful way.