Autism and Friends

[@shuyunsy9]

I'm tearing when these 2 little guys hugs and cry to say goodbye.. Thank u so much for sharing.

[@ComingHometoAutism]

Shu Yun Liu thank you so much for your lovely comment x

[@MademoisellePoupette]

I’m a mum of 2 boys with autism living in Northern Ireland and I loved your videos ! Thank you so much for shedding light on autism in such a positive way while keeping it real !

[@ComingHometoAutism]

Thank you so much for your comment, and I am so delighted that you like the videos. If there is any subject or videos that you would like to see please do let me know xox

[@bettyam9917]

Yes you both are very fortunate to have each other as well as your sons to have each other. The life of a mom with autism becomes very lonely. Im just so happy to have found your KZbin channel.

[@ComingHometoAutism]

Bettys Eyeson we are so lucky and thank you for finding our channel x

[@blackbeauty8006]

It very lonely but I have to be strong

[@Tepig099]

True it’s lonely and sometimes it really makes me feel disconnected to others.

[@mahletlemma9704]

wow, praying that my 4-year-old boy will have a best friend like yours

[@lameesez]

This is beautiful. I cannot wait until my 6 year old little boy can make just one friend and I myself can connect with other parents that can relate 💙😍

[@lameesez]

My son is ASD level 3, speech impairment

[@lindybeard1]

I just started watching your videos and I’m already in love with your family. I’m babysitting 2 beautiful girls with autism and I love them so much. Watching Dylan it’s amazing and beautiful job you are doing to help others. Riya and Dylan have a beautiful friendship so you and his mother. Beautiful and blessed mothers.

[@ComingHometoAutism]

thank you thank you thank you .. big love to you x

[@billywong7775]

I just introduced the parents of one my patients to your channel. This is very insightful. I always tell them that their children are special and they are honest and will never hide things from them. Thank you. It is always eye-opening when I get to understand these beautiful kids from the parents' perspective and catering to their needs.

[@ComingHometoAutism]

Thank you so much xox

[@gk5063]

I have been obsessed with your videos lately. I have never commented on a video on youtube before but i just wanted to tell you that you are doing an amazing work. I love their friendship. Well done mum and take care of your beautiful family.

[@ComingHometoAutism]

Ginette Pamela hey there thank you so much for taking the time to comment ❤️ love hearing from you x

[@brendanjoko]

Thank you for this. My son is 5 years old, and just got a diagnosis in May 2023. There is just so much reading, so much to learn. So many frustrations, mostly on my part. I just need massive guidance, and so glad I found your channel, because all those 1 hour presentations on autism are overwhelming :(

[@jecksamson7223]

i am crying while watching your videos, especially when you mentioned about your concern before for your son having friends. that's the same concern that i have. We still dont have a formal diagnosis yet but I think we are almost there. I am lost on how to help my son in this journey but watching your video gives me hope and strength

[@kaylamaccaba944]

ABSOLUTELY Love this episode! My son and I watched it together 💗

[@ComingHometoAutism]

Kayla Smith oh thank you that makes me so happy xox

[@wilsoneaster8]

Awe this was so precious. Thank you for sharing. Peace and love to you all.

[@ComingHometoAutism]

❤️

[@iicyyh0tt]

I have 6years old semi verbal he had ADHD too u give me hope to b honest I m in Ireland my son is in asd unit too u gave me great hope that one day my son will be able to speak and take care of himself ......I m crying rite now .....u r v lucky that ur child can speak and express himself...

[@ComingHometoAutism]

usman Jehangir thank you for your sweet comment. Keep the faith your boy is still young. Dylan words only really started coming 6,7 and 8 xox

[@haleemakhan9576]

I am crying with you. But my lovely be strong ur son need u the most. Prayers for uou and ur son

[@marisolmerino4759]

That was the sweetest most encouraging video. Thank you for sharing.

[@gracedelprado1153]

This video really got me emotional. My son has autism as well and lately he's really been trying to make friends.

[@GenX6887]

Everybody needs friends! Especially people with autism. And neurotypicals need friends too. You're son pairing things together reminds us all that we need friends.

[@bezawitmamo1267]

This is really heart warming!! Thanks

[@nancyunderwood6953]

You are such an amazing and strong parents I admire you and ur husband a lot .I just open KZbin just to learn from you .My son is diagnosed ASD at 18 months old Now he is two years old .

[@ragavankumar8380]

Would you mind sharing how he is doing now?

[@wdaou4214]

Im just hoping for my sweet 3yr old boy to start school and make a close friend. It has just been me n his older brother but mostly me in this lockdown and its so hard. So happy for dylan and riyaz

[@jeanguerrero8305]

Thank you for sharing. Yes my concern too is for children with autism will not have friends. Isolated and excluded. I have a son with signs of Autism but not diagnose yet. We have appointment already and he will be evaluated soon.

[@eljonazajmi663]

Quite amazing! Preety cool and supportive!

[@bhela2619]

Nayabstill waves at the end😥😥😥😥 super immortional video. I cannot wait till I have my so a friend. How old were riaz and dylan here?

[@JamToSix]

Brought me to tears that’s all I can say my son has mild autism and coming back from a small Caribbean country where been diagnosed is not something you can get without having a big pay check it was very difficult and most just now learning or haven’t heard of the word as yet. It puzzle them they would say my son is too rude why you allow that child to throw himself no the ground and bang his head or it’s my fault I didn’t talk enough to him that’s why he wasn’t talking at 4yrs old he is now 6yrs old and talks not a lot but he has come along way he stop banging his head but bang things instead. My daughter is 12years old but she is doing some things I am wondering if she has the same problem. She is laughing and spinning in her room at night she has been doing this for awhile now. Also she walks on tiptoe When she was 4she did it she use to say she is Dora but does Dora walks on tiptoes. We live in Canada now maybe I should get her tested. What do you think is this a cause for concerned. I do cry most times because I am now starting to feel it’s my fault my kids seems to be having these problems

[@ComingHometoAutism]

Sandrine Sparkes Connell hi there I’m so sorry it’s been so hard for you to get a diagnosis. I’m not a doctor but they way you describe your daughter I would say she is ok the spectrum. Autism manifest itself in different ways in girls. So they are better at masking it. I hope this helps sending lots of love x

[@Mamaofchaos2]

Hi I know this is an old comment but I absolutely had to reply my daughter does allot of the same things you say your daughter does and her school forwarded her for diagnosis she’s still going through the diagnostic process but the physiologist is absolutely convinced she is on the spectrum (we live in the uk) Please get your daughter assessed fight for it if you have to to many girls go undiagnosed as it is not as obvious in girl and it can take a tremendous toll on your mental health if you live with it undiagnosed there is a generic element to.

[@JamToSix]

Belly Mama oh really thank you. We never thought about her getting testing but it was when my mom said she felt scared because my daughter would get up in the night and be spinning spinning for like half and hour and be laughing wouldnt that made you concerned she is still doing it at night time and she will be 13 yrs old in a few weeks. Is that normal😳

[@JamToSix]

Coming Home to Autism I never got her diagnosed at all she wasn't a concern just my son he had mild autism they got him tested because of his grandmother she is specialist nurse and she knows a lot of people so he got tested now my daughter is the one. Was just saying if his grandmother was not involved with my son and him getting tested in Jamaica then I would have be carrying a big paycheck for him to even get a simple test. As for my daughter she is my concern now her spinning none stop at night time for like 15-30mins per nights she get up from her sleep and does that and I thought it would disappear but it has gotten worst she gets up at night time and does this spinning spinning until she falls and bump into something. I can change her room up because she want her stuff like that and the spinning gotten worst since I moved to 🇨🇦Canada. She wake up and spins spins even spraining her hand because she falls a few times broke stuff in her room because she spin and fall on stuff Hello that's scary 😬 I only know she is spinning when I hear a bang or she says cry out in paid when I ask if she was spinning again she don't answer. She keeps denying it one day I ask her she said its the world is moving too slow so I have to speed it up and then she laugh😳and went back to bed

[@wemuk5170]

Love your honesty 💕💖 and so glad I stumbled on your channel!👍🙏😊

[@fern1416]

Jeez thats so sad when you sayd he paired everything so everything had a friend. Man 😭 and the two of them at the end

[@ComingHometoAutism]

Fern thank you for your comment. I know these two break my heart! I’m getting married tomorrow and Riyaz will be with Dylan at the wedding ❤️

[@fern1416]

Aww, thats lovely. Hope the day goes grsat for you and so pleased the boys will be there. Have fun

[@nimcojama1410]

Aw you are amazing i have 3 years old nonverbal tou give me hope ❤

[@ComingHometoAutism]

Nimco Jama sending you the biggest hug 🥰❤️

[@rekadavison1569]

Woow amazing to watch how much they connect !!! 🥰 very cute !!!

[@ComingHometoAutism]

Thank you 🤗

[@iqbalsacid1729]

Thank you so much i really liked your videos I've watching them lately' please if you can tell me how did your help your child to speak. I have son whose on the spectrum he is 3 and half yrs old who can't communicate.

[@zeynomer8236]

am somali, and i have almost 4years old who can not speak/understaning well. but he started talking 6 months ago. He know alot words but not too much as a 4years. he have the aye contact, he is sosial with others, he smiling. but sometimes he does not give up easily, he just wanna get it that he wants, do that he wants to do. it is difficult. sometimes we are in the road he is like i dont want go anywhere, i am standing here! we contacted with doctors and they said he seems good nothing wrong with him, but for me as a mother with a two children i feel worry about him, coz i had and older brother who is 8 know and he was not like him when he was 3/4 years old. i also read alot autism symptoms and even i mentioned to the doctor that they must check him if he autistic or not, and they always like nah he is ok he is just two linguistic child. sorry my English, we live in Norway. give me tips if u have pls thank you 😊

[@abbystephens9766]

I have high functioning Asperger’s and I have a hard time making friends but it is true that I do want friends.

[@niko-oneshot-gaming]

0:15 being autistic my self you are right we’re fine with friends we just don’t know how

[@sbsman4998]

Lovely sweet video, understanding patient parents indeed. My recommendation, let the boys hang out with goats other grazing animals that characteristically communicate like human autistics, thus telepathically learning to bond/love wordlessly.

[@ComingHometoAutism]

so true thank you x

[@JamToSix]

On report day her teacher said she is fast learner but she doesn't work with anyone in a group she will help but she likes to lead when she cent she shuts down He said he has to let her do less group work and let her work with certain quiet students that's allow her to lead because he don't want her to fall back he said she is ahead of them all any topic she gets it right away but she needs to learn to work with others

[@razazeltom9742]

I love your videos! You give me courage when things gets hard♥️. Have you heard of Nemechek protocol? How many hours of therapy your son was getting a week?

[@abbystephens5516]

I find it’s hard to make friends because people don’t understand autism and certain things about me I have high functioning Aspergers and I have gotten a lot better with social skills but it is still difficult to make friends

[@imancadeychannel4457]

Awww so cute am happy he has new friend

[@ComingHometoAutism]

thank you x

[@dneil8867]

Oh ❤️

[@Nikkimorox1]

What age did your son use his words to communicate, my 3 year old son talks but doeant use his words to connect...... he talks a lot, lol, which is amazing as he didnt talk to over 2 and a half years and all of a sudden it was like a switch came on but he only recites groups of things and by that I mean shapes, colours, animals and the noises they make. He does a lot from memory and things he watches on you tube. Which is amazing to see as he always does them in perfect order

[@ComingHometoAutism]

dylan started talking around 5/6 words anyway his speach has progressed since then hope this helps .. your boys still young . please watch my video on the speech therapy she gives great tips x

[@lameesez]

Omg!! Where is the 3 wheel bike from? We love bike riding as a family but my autistic little boy finds it difficult to pedal and his too heavt to be in a seat so we've stopped bike riding 😔

[@ComingHometoAutism]

we got it made but there are lots of companies making them now x

[@anikasara1485]

Hello, really love all the videos u keep posting! I've a 3yr old with autism and these videos make me prepared ahead of time. One thing that comes to my mind is how did you tell/make Dylan understand he has autism? Referring to your chat with the kids about being an autistic president... I do want my son to understand his condition but don't know how to explain!

[@cd4536]

I read somewhere that there is a difference between how autistic people and neurotypical communicate but autistic people can communicate with each other. I remember being in pre school and being so confused by the other kids. I remember sitting there and thinking what am I supposed to do with this.

[@2cutiemarks]

Please when you have a chance make a video of how your sweet boy began his conversation skills and/or spontaneity to respond any comment. My son is 7 and is functionally verbal meaning He can ask for what he needs and say yes or no but does not mention what He feels and thinks.

[@DavidHalverson]

Spontaneous comments regarding how the child is feeling is rare in even Aspergers which my youngest boy was diagnosed with. Usually I get from him one word "ok" or "fine" nothing further on his thoughts about his day at school or playing with his friends. This comes out when we are in bed gong to sleep and just chatting or I have him in the bath, relaxing time, is when I'll get more out of him verbally, he "opens" up to me more.

[@ladyb9520]

See u someday Riazzz😢😢😢

[@AyeshaSiddiqua-tt6mb]

❤

[@sashkirby6770]

This video is amazing, 😭😭😭

[@ComingHometoAutism]

thank you

[@susuilu]

Great advis3

[@gorgeouswales9635]

Thanks!

[@ComingHometoAutism]

xx

[@joshuaashmore5686]

He is my little friend with Autism

[@djf1857]

That’s me Dylan

[@shabnamarizad2311]

Hi When your son start talking?

[@ComingHometoAutism]

He started talking around 4/5 but around 7/8 others could really understand him x

[@savannahjbarr]

I am happy to have autism

[@bhogpatibaboo4072]

Is it possible for Autistic kids to have neurotypical friends?coz not everyone is lucky to have Another family with autism and about same age and about same needs levels. U r sooo lucky

[@ComingHometoAutism]

Bhogpati Baboo of course. We do structured play dates with neurotypical kids from school. So movie dates , or ROBLOX games. Dylan has some lovely friends from school. Riyaz lives 2 hours away from us so we just make a big effort to see each other x

[@anbe6874]

How old does hé was?

[@homebodycassidyofficial]

So did he get two sleepovers?

[@alexkirchhoff9603]

Hello lady. What kind pf therapy is dylan doing?

[@ComingHometoAutism]

Jesus Alexandre Guillen Esspinoza hello there dylan has done Aba , speech therapy, and occupational therapy! ❤️

[@somalinimokitchen3939]

Is your friend Somali?

[@ComingHometoAutism]

Yes she is 🥰

[@somalinimokitchen3939]

Coming Home to Autism aww! I knew by their names! Glad you have a friend like her!

[@ComingHometoAutism]

I’m so blessed to have her and Riyaz in my life. Xox