Autism and Haircuts: Can Gabe, a Nonverbal Autistic Teen, Overcome His Fear? Ping Makes a House Call

Gabe is an autistic and nonspeaking teen. He has been getting his haircut for years, but he can still be unpredictable. The last two times we tried to bring him to the hair salon, he refused to go inside. This time I asked if his hairdresser could make a house call! We did what we could to prepare Gabe, but he was nervous even being at home. We had spa music playing for him and his favorite drink. It wasn't until Ping arrived that he realized it was safe. He sat in our kitchen and allowed her to give him a major haircut! He even allowed her to use the clippers to completion. He never moved or needed a break which was so unlike him. Practice makes progress, however even with a lot of practice we still cross our fingers that it will go well or even happen.
I couldn't believe how well he did even though he was scared.
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[@davidcopperfield-notthemag397]

Gabe is very very good looking. He could be a model. The calm thoughtful looks he makes are stunning.

[@PersianDiamond]

Yes Gabes face is quite exquisite, he truly could model easily. Sending love to Gabe and his mommies from IL.

[@Amfortas]

He's an angel

[@glorisol3805]

Exactly what I thought when I first saw him, he could definitely be a model.

[@BsTheLadynred]

TOTALLY! I've been saying that. He reminds me so much of the model Leon Dame. Seriously look him up. They look very similar.

[@DE-vs2xy]

For sure.

[@bettybert9819]

Gabe has the face of an angel.❤

[@BookNerd1102]

He's a doll! Such a sweet, thoughtful face.

[@adorablespore]

Ping has such a lovely, calm energy during this cut. I especially liked how she demonstrated the clippers to Gabe.

[@mimiebeyer4695]

Not to short, I love Gabes hair. ❤ what a beautiful boy ❤

[@lindapearson3340]

Wow Gabe did really well during his haircut this time. He has beautiful hair. He looks great with his new haircut. Your family is awesome ❤

[@fortheloveofgabe]

Thank you so much!

[@s.r.8173]

Gabe Is wonderful!!! A kiss from Sicily ❤

[@michellethemotherofboys9950]

As a mom of a special boy with a rare genetic disorder, and who is also a hairstylist who travels to my clients homes, I cant love this video enough💙 Great job Gabe, you did amazing buddy!

[@Kimmie_F]

Either way, long or short, everyone needs a trim every now and again. The hairdresser was awesome with Gabe! Such an asset 😁👍🫶🙌 love her chill aura! 🥰

[@tracyweekley5577]

I love how you set him up for success. You believe he can and encourage him to believe it too. 👏 to Gabe!

[@fortheloveofgabe]

Thank you!

[@Jenna-Roo]

It's so true. He's a lucky fella! 🩵✌🏻

[@Hopscotch_24]

⁠You two wonderful moms set the bar so high for all parents and everybody else like me, who has no children, (dog lover, though!) on simply how to be great humans. I deeply admire and respect both of you. Your respective levels of commitment and devotion are obviously deep for Gabe, but also for each other. I could write for hours on your beautiful family and what makes it so. You represent every community you’re a part of very well. I love it! Thank you. Side note: I saw Stevie just a few years ago. I love her and got close to loving the concert as much as your family did. You did have Gabe with you-I can’t compete with him! ☺️😍 Every minute gave the best vibes from her and showered the audience. I felt it. I believe Gabe felt every song I saw him loving it all but on a deeper level than most are even capable. Have a great week, ladies and handsome Gabe. Much love. ❤

[@marylove909]

Everyone did so great! Mom's for helping him have a comfortable and supportive environment, the hair dresser for communicating and being understanding, and Gabe for tackling fears and being willing. He's doing great!

[@janetlafrance3325]

As a former Master Barber, I found that these clients while unpredictable at times, knew who they could trust to keep them safe. And we're very loyal. Willing to wait their turn to sit in my chair. Loved them

[@PokhrajRoy.]

A huge thanks to making a safe and understanding environment at home.

[@sunshinerainbows3759]

This is great for Gabe!!! He is improving his confidence every time he sees that he can make it through new and sometimes uncomfortable experiences!!! He’s so handsome!!!

[@MaskedViolinist07]

A very smart look for Gabe with that fresh cut! Always enjoy seeing the environment you create for him when he’s tackling something new. Most relaxing haircut I’ve seen. 😌

[@BsTheLadynred]

Wow, he's doing a great job!!!! Gabe always looks so handsome with a fresh haircut. He already looks like a model!! Does Gabe know how handsome he is?

[@judymurray191]

Kudos for the hairdresser. It is very hard to cut hair with someone sitting in that kind of position. She did a good job.

[@dreamthedream8929]

Could learn to sit more still though. I always hated going to hairdressers but I do respect them and tried to keep the position to make it easier for them. Usually try to keep the eyes closed for the majority or a great part of the session. It's just a nice thing to do. He moves too much

[@BsTheLadynred]

She's not cutting his hair any different than she would anyone else. I'm not sure what you mean? I've done hair for 37 years and this isn't a big deal. He's actually doing fine. Little kids are much harder to be honest.

[@BsTheLadynred]

@@dreamthedream8929 He's doing fine. I've done hair for 37 years and this is nothing.

[@dreamthedream8929]

@@BsTheLadynred perhaps for you. People are different and other hairdressers could be very annoyed by these kinds of movements and it could be disrespectful. I've had some strict ones that put my head in place and so it should stay there until they move it again. During that time it's at their disposal to make their work easier and faster. I wanna make it faster, I hate being in such places. Have not been in a long time. My girlfriend now does for me at home and I still try to sit as still as possible for her. I do hum and make sounds though with her during that time which helps to relax. In public hairdressing places I don't feel comfortable humming and but lately I have started doing it more in public, some people find it weird but it's relaxing and good for the voice

[@BsTheLadynred]

@@dreamthedream8929 Why would they take him to someone easily annoyed? I have no idea what you're post has to do with Gabe getting his hair cut. You made this about yourself for some reason. I don't understand what this has to do with my comment.

[@shirleygiordano7627]

Now I'm crying. Again. Mom went over and supported her son. 😢 Gabe is blessed.

[@annayoder4332]

He was sooooo calm.

[@gailnix5462]

I also thought he expressed that he chooses long hair. It’s really beautiful long. I also understand that it could be causing him problems with communication. The only thing that matters is that Gabe is happy 🎉❤

[@jenharrington6346]

Oh my goodness - Gabe! So proud of him, and thankful that his hairdresser could make a house call. What a wonderful job she did!That haircut has him looking so grown up, too. He’s got such an ethereal, angelic quality about him.

[@JoshLooperMusic]

Good ol Gabe and his moms achieve another hurdle. I get blessed every video 🙏🏻♥️

[@diamondheart9268]

Gabe shows so many emotions from ticklish, to concerned, to relaxed and to contentment. I like the way Ping allowed him to feel the clippers before using it on Gabe and how his momma held his hand too. So loving! I’m so proud of you Gabey Baby! You did so well and looks so handsome!

[@denisern55]

Gabe has a stunning thoughtful face. There’s much going on. Gabe is constantly teaching compassion. He’s the yardstick used for us to measure how to treat people. When we reach Gabe’s level and beyond, we are generally decent people ❤

[@sisterblissuk9253]

Such a sweet angel! And the lady hairdresser is understanding ❤

[@teresaferrer4748]

It's okay Gabe,I get scared of a lot of things. Slowly it will pass.❤❤

[@juliacain2100]

What a captivating young soul😊 the hairdresser was so attentive and gentle with him. ❤

[@marisolmendez1755]

I love when she use the machine and he laughs, it's like he's being tickled and I love seeing him laugh😍

[@suzannekaster4462]

Gabe sat and seemed content with getting his hair cut. He looks very handsome.

[@jett1901]

You are a beautiful family. Gabe has such great support from you both. I wish you continued success, Gabe! Great job!

[@alyse3379]

My son is 6 year old an he has autism. I couldn't of asked for a more perfect human being tho. Gabe reminds me alot of him. The innocence just melts you. I hope Gabe has a very awesome day :) an his hair cut looks great :)

[@patg.7192]

Very skilled hairdresser, not only for cutting his hair, but being mindful of walking behind him so as not to upset him. 😊

[@JUPITER11119]

For some reason, I burst into tears watching this. I think it was the music that did it. I bet you anything that calming music in the background really helped keep him calm. It was taking him to a different place, and then it took me to a different place... --late diagnosed autistic

[@tcwd3760]

With that adult haircut, what a handsome young man was hiding there!

[@dianag9066]

Oh my goodness…Great job Gabe! You look so handsome. 🥰 Great job hairdresser too! 👏👏👏

[@joyjones8782]

He is a beautiful child! Absolutely gorgeous!

[@brunom72]

Wow!! She is a professional's professional!! I can tell the care & thought she's putting into each step takes so she doesn't make any unfamiliar noises AS WELL AS the way she "soft-clicks" the scissor so the noise doesn't suddenly freak him out (bcz it's so close to his ears). She is wonderful at her job as well as putting alot of care & thought into every step. If she's not already, I'd DEFINITELY make her a part of the family.

[@amandabarnett6286]

Bless him he is precious, he mastered this one, my daughters would not sit like this. He is an angel honestly ❤

[@MissingScaffolding]

Ping is awesome! Good job, Gabe. 😊

[@wwilliams4743]

This is the first video I've ever seen of Gabe, so I don't know how far he has come to be able to sit for this haircut. But I loved watching his face as he processed the different stages of the cut. This stylist was also amazing.

[@joanncrawford8563]

He is a beautiful boy! He has such inquisitive facial expressions! So sweet!

[@andriana.canning53]

Very sweet and smiling handsome boy! Thanks to his wonderful blessed mom❤ Thanks to his patient hairdresser ❤

[@hendrikeinde6856]

Thank you dear parents and dear Ping for taking care in such a lovely way!

[@a.scotth.9955]

The hair dresser is a star!! You're blessed to have her!!! He did really well!

[@seeleygirl6178]

He is very patient and she did a great job. Can’t help but to love him. ❤

[@ellenh9381]

I’ve only seen a few of your videos, but what you do for Gabe is so heartwarming and wonderful. What a gift your family is. ❤️👍🏻🙏🏻

[@claire6568]

I love the amount of care and support gave gets ❤

[@candishauk8661]

Thank you for sharing with us. Gabe gives a positive insight into the daiy challenges of life. He is a very special teen. Thank you Gabe for letting us see a small glimpse of your life. It's amazing. You are amazing.

[@marymurphy9457]

The hairdresser is so kind & comforting ❤

[@inth3flow]

Just stumbled upon your channel. What a beautiful boy you have raised. I'm sure you've grown alongside your son and continue to. He is the light at the end of the tunnel as you are his and you should be so proud of yourself mom, because he is so proud of you, as he shows in his gestures when you move. What a beautiful hair stylist, and a beautiful family you are. Blessed💖

[@jejun328]

He looks soooo grown up!!!! Amazing Gabe!!!! You always make my day with your strength to overcome ( with great support from mamas) beautiful family ❤

[@nickcostello2829]

I try to stay out of comments but hell I love your son and everything you guys post Its amazing to see this kid thrive and the loving support he has Bless his heart

[@MaloriePixley-ce4qh]

Cant wait to see him in his 20's...have a feeling he has quite the career ahead of him. Super photogenic... and good parents to protect him and guide him through whatever he wants to do.

[@donnacheney8084]

Such a beautiful young man. Mom, you are amazing, Gabe is so lucky to be blessed with you, as you are with him.

[@cynthiatait7708]

What a GORGEOUS ANGEL!!! Peaceful and still...the hair dresser is a gift to our world, gentle and amazing with the scissors!! Thank you for sharing this video.❤

[@kkcme]

Gabe, you are a portrait of serenity in this video. Congrats on a great cut, you look amazing! 👏🏾 👏🏾

[@Queen_of_Hearts-Sharnell]

Gabe is being very patient! He is for sure getting a sensory experience from getting his hair cut. I find myself just smiling from ear to ear when he makes eye contact with the camera. I can only imagine that you must be smiling, too. I super super enjoyed watching the bowling and arcade trip. He did so great!!

[@factoryreject8438]

Aaw Gabe looks so grown up now & I just realized soon he'll be getting the beginnings of a beard! 🧔🏼☺️ Gabe you handled your haircut like a champ! Proud of you! 🤩🙌

[@burjuddubowy347]

That was a long time for Gabe to sit doing something that is not a favorite! Good job! You look extra handsome now

[@isabelm.ortizo.5557]

He is beautiful ❤, love the way he moves his hands and his smile is so sweet! Thanks to his family for helping and loving him so much, he looks so happy!!! ❤

[@aliceb.8444]

So handsome boy!! God bless your family!!❤

[@janetp5956]

What a beautiful boy!!

[@3madememumsy]

Such a beautiful son you have. Thank you for sharing the beauty with others ❤

[@rimapetrutis9628]

What a patient and skilled lady she is!

[@trishayoung6373]

What a calm young man and a good job by the lady xx

[@carolmandeville16]

So well done Gabe you are really a very handsome young man, you are growing up so fast Gabe and it's a joy for us to watch you grow into such a beautiful person, love to your mums toooooo.😊

[@FAS582]

Thank you for sharing. I am mother of an autistic boy just like your son. Thank you for showing the world what a blessing we have in our lives.

[@myrenaissance]

She is a gentle and talented hairdresser. Congratulations to the both of you

[@awildaseda4005]

Great looking kid… how great so calm. Looking good Gabe … many blessings 😊❤️

[@johoho2006]

I’m so relaxed after watching this! Gabe did great!

[@glorisol3805]

Looking handsome, Gabe! The truth is... you are handsome with both long or short hair. I love your sweet angel face ❤

[@djtemptress36]

Absolutely fantastic Gabe you did amazing ! Well done 😊 really lovely stylist showing Gabe the clippers to not scare him just think this is lovely to see! Your mums is wonderful and your hairs looking fabulous ❤☺️

[@rhondalane8011]

Thank you for sharing this sweet young man ❤

[@gilbertbrisebois185]

I love the way shes so gentle and patient with Gabe. You know Bud you look good. Your a Real super model. (Brigitte from Canada)

[@Appelcat222]

Gabe, I love the way you sat patiently throughout your haircut. And you look so good! ❤

[@user87456]

Gabe is a pure angel❤

[@lindawatmore3321]

A beautiful soul who has a beautiful heart that radiates peace and love to you can feel peace in his aura of angelic love to his soul radiates light to the world

[@trudy5482]

Gabe is so sweet and handsome. Any parent would be proud to have him as a son. Love you Gabe 💜

[@kennapearman529]

This gives me so much hope for my grandson, Oliver. He will be 5 in a few days, is nonverbal and his actions and mannerisms greatly resemble Gabe's. He is such a lovely, sweet soul and I hope he gains the tools to be truly happy. Thank you for sharing your family's journey. Gabe is an inspiration and gives me and so many others hope for the future.

[@azi2941]

Such a handsome young man so gentle I could just give him big hugs! Much love to Gave and family ❤ from Arkansas

[@canonymous8035]

AMAZING job all around!

[@loysturdevant8610]

Gabe is such a precious child. He has touched me in a way I could never explain. He is such a handsome young man.

[@TheChadXperience909]

I enjoyed seeing him self-advocate for keeping his hair long. However, he always looks so attractive with it shorter. Glad you managed to convince him. She did a great job, too.

[@fortheloveofgabe]

I totally agree!

[@angelwebster2138]

Gabe we know you have more to offer than good looks. I have a feeling your going to change the world in brilliant ways.

[@alanafromoc]

Wow, he did so good, and it looks awesome!

[@ayrenbethancourt9379]

He did AMAZING!. So proud of him. ❤

[@shellieobrien4493]

Such a beautiful boy. ❤

[@carolwaite4343]

Such a handsome young man. He did a good job of sitting so long. God bless.❤

[@sBabysKid-nk8eh]

He looks so relaxed ❤ patients is a virtue

[@seeleygirl6178]

He has such a kind face and eyes. ❤

[@LorrieLogan]

Ping was only EXCEPTIONAL ! A relief he can trust some people. Best 🇨🇦

[@debbiehamrick4488]

What transformation!!! A handsome young man!!! And the hairdresser did an awesome job!!!!

[@mgcasey9528]

He’s such a good looking kid! He naturally appears to be in poses that would make amazing photos! Sending Gabe and family hugs from our family in San Antonio ❤

[@ralcst-1977]

In this video, Gabe has a very thoughtful, inquisitive look.....you always wonder what he's thinking!! He is such a wonderful young man. I hope he has a wonderful future, ahead!! Always thinking of Gabe!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰🙂🙂🙂🙂👍👍👍👍

[@thomasherndon-io2gl]

Big step lad! Well done! You look sharp. Compliments.

[@beaschnipke7929]

Everyone did wonderful, great hair and great stylist.

[@elli5232]

Great job Gabe! You are so brave for sitting so still even though you have a fear of haircutting! Gabe you are an amazing and inspiring person who me and many others are looking up to! And to your moms; I love that you help him grow and develop to his full potential! Does he like to have his pictures taken because he sure has that model look over him! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

[@patricialaing1479]

Well done Gabe. I love the smile when the clippers tickle...😊

[@angelamcinnis894]

Excellent hair cutting, Ping. Gabe! What a tremendous look for you.

[@Flightwithoutwings]

Gabe is wonderful his smile is gorgeous. ❤

[@jlucas1004]

I think Gabe is an angel on Earth. He brightens my day. He looks a lot like my one grandson. How old is Gabe❤ I'm so proud of him for sitting there all that time being patient

[@deborahq4102]

He’s so precious

[@MissPixel22]

He handled it excellently ❤