I'm a 17 year old boy and I have high functioning autism and had many of these symptoms as a little kid. I can tell you she's an amazing kiddo and you two are great parents! Some of the misconceptions of autism are just stupid! Keep up the great work parents!
@lucydejesus19634 жыл бұрын
She just seems like a genius to me.
@nobullshitcoach4 жыл бұрын
Ya most of the time autistic kid get real good in one particular thing. Like an obsessions :)
@littlebabyclover4 жыл бұрын
This brings back so much memories of my little girl. She did all of these things to the extreme but also didn't walk until she was 3 and is still classed as non verbal. She's now 5 and is doing amazing, she's super smart and her personality and sense of humour is just the best! She didn't look at us for a good 3 years and now her eye contact is great! She's made amazing progress in the last couple of years. It seemed so slow at first and then all of a sudden it took off and she's not stopped wanting to learn since. So if ever you're worried about what the future might hold, don't be, it's completely unpredictable and full of surprises. xx
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
Emma this past month seems like she is starting to make more eye contact and is saying and repeating a lot 🙏
@littlebabyclover4 жыл бұрын
@@raisingautism8214 That's great! I wish you all the best! She's beautiful xx
@CarolinaSilva-kx8ro4 жыл бұрын
She is a beautiful lucky girl, she has wonderful parents.
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@marijanetarot98434 жыл бұрын
She does have tendencies. I was raised along side a brother on the spectrum. He was just like this as a baby. Now a full functioning adult. ❤️
@LePooke4 жыл бұрын
its great that she has loving and caring parents who paid attention to these behaviors so she could be diagnosed early. she's adorable!
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much your too sweet
@mahetalat55894 жыл бұрын
It's a shame that people insist that she's a typical kid. Parents know when something's off esp in parents with older typical kids. They observe the kids 24x7 so they know better.
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
I agree I get so many comments like I am just making it up 🥴
@GMR.244 жыл бұрын
I agree. I don't know this child the way her parents do. Nobody does. So for people to say things like they think they know better is so insulting. These two people are clearly smart and connected to their child. I trust that they will figure this all out with the help of medical professionals. I think sometimes people forget that what they are seeing is a teeny tiny piece of the whole picture. It's important to remember that the people who do have that whole picture are more equipped than we are. Emma is such a sweetie!! I hope her parents find the answers they're looking for, and that other parents who come across this video do as well.
@ribbitquack4 жыл бұрын
@@raisingautism8214 You know best! :-)
@justalilbitt36814 жыл бұрын
My 4 yr old son has Autism. He walks on his toes, not saying any words, he makes eye contact when he wants so it's occasionally. He play alone, runs back and forth all day, but is very smart. He know what things are and does, he jus not talking. His behavior changes ALOT. But I heard children with autism become super smart as they get older and I really do believe it. My son made a dramatic progress this year than the last 2 years so I'm proud of that.
@savannahjbarr4 жыл бұрын
I have high functioning autism and ADHD and anxiety and depression and learning disabilities and asthma and I am 19 and I graduated from high school in June 8th 2019 and I understand your daughter because I have high functioning autism
@cassiesmyth50854 жыл бұрын
She seems so smart, feel like you've got a scientist/mathematician on your hands!
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
Probably do she is so Smart
@iluvMCRsupercool4 жыл бұрын
I wish people would be more understanding. Autism is such a massive spectrum and there are so many different “symptoms” But by people saying “my kid lined things up and didn’t have autism” “my child never looked at me and they didn’t have autism” makes it so much more difficult to VALIDATE what atypical kids have to go through which may postpone a much needed diagnosis!!! There is nothing wrong with pointing these things out!! A video like this might help someone to notice little things that might prompt a doctors visit. And in the end if it turns out your child doesn’t have autism fine. But if they did it still doesn’t matter there’s nothing wrong with it anyway :) It’s so much harder especially for girls because they don’t fit into the stereotypes. So thank you for posting this!! This will help so many people!
@jillfranklin73774 жыл бұрын
Totally agree! I am a mother of 5 and was a childcare provider for years. Yes, most of these symptoms can be totally normal behaviour. However, when a child exhibits more than one these, it warrents investigation. Common illnesses are a great analogy, every sore throat doesn't mean strep, but a sore throat and fever looks suspicious and you certainly wouldn't discourage a trip to the Pediatrician to check it out. You are right, ppl don't seem to understand the large spectrum associated with these disorders. Every autistic child isn't the poster child that is so commonly associated with autism. There are many children undiagnosed because they fall very low on the spectrum. These children often struggle on some level, and the parents are usually made to believe they just have "difficult" children. They are misdiagnosed with other disorders quite frequently, such as ADHD, and put on unessasary medications. This doesn't mean that no child truly has ADHD, that all children with any of there behaviour patterns are autistic, or that some children aren't truly just difficult children. But, the picture associated with autismn needs to change and parents need to stop being discouraged from having their children checked out if they feel they need to.
@letsfire79294 жыл бұрын
My oldest when he was about her age use to line up things too and even sometimes by the size of the object so you're right but now my second son , he isn't doing that but also isn't making no eye contact but does play with other children so its always hard to not to suspect they have autism 😬
@ZsuzsiNo14 жыл бұрын
Your daughter is so blessed to have you two as her parents. You are observant, mindful and so loving&gentle towards her. ❤️
@lovelee87724 жыл бұрын
Autism is becoming so common. I have a baby with autism and the first one in our family and husbands. Now with special classes and all therapies... I realized that in my baby's generation is very very common. So many little kids out there with autism. Scares me what the future is going to be for them without us. The parents!!! We gotta stay 💪... Im eating healthier and working out now. Gotta live long enough to be there for my baby❤❤❤
@deborahcoe59414 жыл бұрын
I have a severely non-verbal autistic son now 22. When you've met a person with autism, you've met one person, they are very individual, one size does not fit all! This is what I've learnt on my very long journey with my dear son who I absolutely love and adore . Helpful video though with loving parents x
@maemendoza10774 жыл бұрын
I also have a son with autism... they're blessing.. im proud to have him..
@youngnikisha4 жыл бұрын
As a former ABA therapist this video brings me joy. Y'all are awesome parents. Such a beautiful mind.
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
Awww thank you so much 🙏
@mzuribeauty42874 жыл бұрын
Your daughter is so cute. My 6 year old is high functioning autistic. Thanks to his delayed speech we read to him for 60 minutes daily. He now can read my books, eye contact improved a lot, can remain seated for half an hour. Thanks for advanced research we have therapy that can improve autism a lot
@atefreaciouz65084 жыл бұрын
Your daughter is lovely 💖 thank u for sharing your experience with your daughter 😘 my son is autistic and I don't know how to handle him before specially when he was hurting himself, but when I saw your KZbin channel I gain a lot of ideas, now I know that I have to take care of my son. At first it was really hard to accept that my son is autistic but with the help of the Lord and this video ❤️ I realized how lucky and blessed I am to have a son like him Mei Colon From: Philippines ❤️❤️
@shaybug03304 жыл бұрын
She seems like a really smart child
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
She is so smart 💕thank you
@TS-hz4me4 жыл бұрын
Hi! I am a pediatric occupational therapist who works with children on the autism spectrum. This was a great video! The “stims” you mention are actually her seeking vestibular input. The sensory nerves in our inner ears are EXTREMELY sensitive. Our kids with autism seek that input to help calm their sensory system :) it’s GREAT that you guys got her a swing. But I will mention that linear swinging (back and forth) is calming and rotary (spinning) is alerting. So if she is already in a heightened state of arousal, you’d want to do linear swinging :) your little girl is precious and soooooo smart!!
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
She has recently stopped with the spinning now it’s more of the walking back and forth and verbal Stims Thank you so much this really does help me to understand more of her stims
@elainabarnett5324 жыл бұрын
I commend you so much for catching on to those first signs of autism. That early intervention is key!
@daisybarrera29314 жыл бұрын
I have no children but to me your daughter seems very smart!
@SnowBunni784 жыл бұрын
This is incredibly helpful! Thank you for making this video. My son was just diagnosed ASD and also does the repetitive walking around stuff, rocking back and forth, spinning, and doing his own thing(exactly like she’s doing with wood chips! 😂) at parks. I hear her expressing a lot so that’s awesome! My son is 22 months and non verbal so I’m hoping his language will come soon!
@geometricheaddress94574 жыл бұрын
My son is a lot like Emma. He's hyperlexic. Obsessed with letters and numbers. His first verbal language was singing ABC'S and he still sings them when he's tired or to soothe himself. He's 4 and reading and writing. It's very impressive! He used to play with the wood chips at the park and liked the swings and that was about it. Still loves to line things up and organize. It makes him feel calm. Emma is such a cutie💓 thanks so much for sharing. Channels like yours helped me so much when my son was first diagnosed.
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
I just saw this msg I am so behind on msg on this video I love that your son is like Emma with her abcs it’s the cutest isn’t it ?
@guhrizzlybaire4 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh my daughter is almost two and is obsessed with counting. When she wakes up at night to nurse she counts immediately when she is half asleep. My daughter does the spinning/running back and forth when she’s excited. #he likes to cover her eyes, hide, then jump out and look at the thing. I love reading all these comments about these sweet children.she has stacking number blocks she is obsessed with, loves to dump stuff and put it back methodically. Doesn’t respond to her name at all still, but I’m having the time of my life with her.
@bucketlistmom21044 жыл бұрын
I'm not familiar with autism, but I feel like people with autism are just a geniuses! She is just so beautiful 💜
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
I feel that way also 💕
@lorrainehinchliffe53714 жыл бұрын
Autistic people come in all levels of intelligence from challenged to brilliant.
@paullehmann6264 жыл бұрын
Actually, autism is a severe developmental disorder which is often accompanied by speech and language comprehension difficulties as well as IQ below average. two little remarks to the parents: the rapid picture change of TV can be really overwhelming for sich a young brain. also children that young seem to have problems interpreting 2d videos. Early TV consumption is discussed to cause attentional problems in children. and second remark. Also children have the right of privacy. You should not share pictures and videos of your child with the whole intermet!
@maritzarodriguez62564 жыл бұрын
I agree!
@gabbygonzalez57774 жыл бұрын
I hace a son with autism..it was so hard in the beginning because we didnt knkw what autism was..the simptoms were there we just didnt recocgnise it...it was so frustrated..until I finally told his doctor that I wanted my baby diagnosed ...and there it was ..autism..from then on I researched so much..and learned how to be part of my childs world..and its been the most amazing learning and growing experience ...he is now 11 years old..and is an amzing boy..very curious of the world..very articulate...i couldnt be happier that god gave me a son like him.
@tummyfungus4 жыл бұрын
may the future treat you well, bless you and your family ❤️
@brittneyhughes88834 жыл бұрын
I love this video and Emma!!! My nephew is 4, and was diagnosed a year ago with autism. He is absolutely obsessed with his ABC’s and Shapes. Also, he likes to line things up. He also covers his ears a lot (I saw Emma do that earlier in the video.) We sing happy birthday to him in a whisper. It’s challenging at times, but I like to think we are truly blessed to have kids like this! ❤️❤️
@elewysoffinchingefeld30664 жыл бұрын
Several of these things were evident in my son when he was little (he's 16 now). He loved the ABCs and became very attached to a piece of quilt fabric that he found at the store--so I bought it and put it on the back of a small quilt that he slept with for years. He also lined things up or had quirky rituals, especially for putting away his shoes--back in the box, with the lid, then covered with a silk scarf, and a nylon strap with a buckle (I think it came from the changing table); wrapped up like a present. He had lots of verbal delays, echolalia, and confused all his pronouns, but with speech therapy and some physical therapy, most people don't realize he's on the spectrum. He's funny, creative, and super smart.
@IdahoCrimeGal4 жыл бұрын
So great that you are both such attentive and perceptive parents. Early intervention is key. I am so happy to see that your daughter has strong parents who advocate for her. She is beautiful and perfect.
@Michelle-qi5zf4 жыл бұрын
You have a beautiful family. The amount of understanding you have about autism will help her in so many ways. God bless all of you.
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
God bless you and thank you so much 😊
@cocoanbella4 жыл бұрын
Obviously some commenters on here are more concerned with trying to shame parents for thinking their child has something wrong. The earlier autism is diagnosed, the sooner you can start finding alternative ways to teach your child and overcome challenges of autism. Its not just a diagnosis where you blame all their problems on the condition and say well that's how it is. If you find out how to engage them early on they have the best chance of leading a normal life and attending school, having a job,etc. If left to develop without special treatment they may never develop certain skills needed. Also some peope grow out of autism so to speak. If later on a person doesnt have so many typical autism features then the diagnosis can be revoked. Theres really no harm in pursuing a diagnosis and extra learning resources and support groups for parents. I know it's not very apparent in this video, but for most autistic kids their quirks can really become hard to deal with. for example, a child may obsessively tear up pages out of books or crush food into tiny pieces. Many have no sense of danger and will climb onto things, run away from parents or run into the street well past the age when kids normally stop those things. Some hit themself in the head with things, tantrums can be many times worse than a normal toddler's. I wish I could remove all the comments that say 'well MY child did one of those things and they arent autistic, so you must be wrong'. Any person can have some traits without being diagnosed with autism. Only when many issues are present at once does it become a concern.
@nj82154 жыл бұрын
Are you serious? You people are out of your minds. Money money and more money. Most of the things you mentioned are things parents need to correct at home and teach children right from wrong. Where was all this nonsense back 10 years ago calling kids autistic just because they misbehave. thats what they do.
@divahc14 жыл бұрын
@@nj8215 and where did you earn your degree from? No, it wasn't diagnosed a much years all because it wasn't understood.
@simplyces014 жыл бұрын
This popped up in my recommendations and I’m glad I clicked on it! I’m an ABA therapist and I take care of a little girl named Emma too. To see this is where my Emma started from makes me so proud of where she is today!!! Never give up! There are always rough days, but the good ones always outweigh the bad! I commend you guys for being devoted parents❤️
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much I really appreciate it so much
@angelcabrera30154 жыл бұрын
She’s a beautiful little girl with an equally beautiful mind. You guys are great parents thank you for sharing this
@lauracastillo31044 жыл бұрын
She’s precious :) My son got diagnosed a little over 2 years old, all the traits you explained he had. He’s 4 now, he’s still does a lot of things, but also stopped other. Like when we go to the park he actually plays in the swings or slides... is a different experience but still beautiful!!!
@gelynAlva4 жыл бұрын
My daughter has same behaviors like her, the first sign, the stacking and lining things, not paying attention to others rather than us, but I saw it in different perspective, they are seriously on focused geniuses! They right there learning and learning new things, observing whats new, they dont want to be disturb with nonsense. 😊😊♥️
@StarFairychic4 жыл бұрын
she’s gorgeous. i’m an aba therapist and i work w kiddies who r on the spectrum!! i’m so happy i found your channel! I LOVE seeing people who are willing to put themselves out there for the bigger difference!! 🦄💗💕✨🌈
@Thats-It4 жыл бұрын
My son's 2 1/2 and he has autism. We had the same issue with him not responding to his name so we used mini M&M's. We would give him two or three at a time and make him a call off the colors one of the time and make sure that he has made eye contact before he received anything. We would take the M&M and put it up to our eyes make his eyes follow the M&M to our eyes eventually he became a pro at that and we started incorporating sign language which he has made amazing progress in signs like "all done", "for me" and let's not forget "more" that's his favorite sign. My wife's brother has autism and her mother is a pro she directed us to early intervention which helped us out more than ever.
@monicabaybay4 жыл бұрын
My 2 1/2 year old son has some of the same signs, we are currently working on getting him diagnosed as I’m sure as his mom that he has Autism. But let me just say, he is a special little guy and the sweetest boy💙
@nj82154 жыл бұрын
Everything i saw in.your beautiful daughter seems normal to me. All kids are different and develop at a different rate and do different things to amuse themselves. She seems like a very smart little girl.
@julieanna22284 жыл бұрын
They do but there is a range. Early diagnosis leads to better success in every aspect of life. Autism specifically often comes with a ton of knowledge in a specific area and a learning delay in others. Many symptoms do seem normal which is why it's important to pay close attention. Depending on severity, late diagnosis can lead to them being in special ed classes, away from their typically developing peers.
@unnatithakkar17834 жыл бұрын
I'm a special Educator and this gives me so much perspective ! Thanks for sharing these !
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@SelasKuma4 жыл бұрын
Emma is so sweet 🥺. I’m currently being screened for Aspergers and ADHD because my parents missed many of the signs growing up, because a lot of them just seem like cute quirks. Of course Autism is a spectrum condition and no two people are the same, and I am talking as if I already have my diagnosis. However I am studying this for my university dissertation, and there is so much information out there these days! I’m unsure if you have looked at videos from people who are actually on the spectrum, as well as parents of autistic people, however you might find it very encouraging and rewarding to find experiences from actual autistic people, because with age and time we often do learn how to express ourselves and interact better! I’m not very good at reading expressions but I could see that talking about your daughters differences to other toddlers seems to upset you (which it is okay and normal to feel that way) so I thought that maybe my comment might be helpful, as messy and unorganised as it is. Autistic people may struggle to communicate with you in the ways that neurotypical people do, especially as children, however the hidden thought processes are still very much okay usually. For example, it might seem that she cannot express her affection or empathy and seem inattentive, but often we are experiencing it and are just not expressing it. She will be aware of the presence of other people but doesn’t realise instinctively that she is suppose to turn and acknowledge them. I’m trying to sound polite and give you info that might make you feel encouraged but I don’t want you guys to think you’ve not done your research! I think you’re doing a fantastic job, you’ve got her checked and into therapy at the prime time for learning and cognitive development - the younger the brain, the more It can be taught. Emma can lead a wonderful, normal life, especially when the right tools and patience are there for her (like you seem to being doing a good job at from what we have seen). Keep going! She’s going to be okay 💖
@SelasKuma4 жыл бұрын
She will make friends growing up, but often when we are young we just prefer our own company because we have full control over how we want to play. We might do things in odd or different ways, but it’s just that different things make us happy! Autistic people are often musical, creative, or scientific (but it’s not limited to this stuff). I even have a professor at my university with autism, and autistic children. Emma has all the potential to be successful! And she’s got your support, which is the most important thing!
@othersbyuri4 жыл бұрын
I value your input and by how you were able to explain something that can be so foreign, I have no doubt you'll do great in your dissertation👍
@shripradacr4 жыл бұрын
That's exactly how my daughter was .... she's almost 15 now and has come a long way. Your beautiful, smart lil girl is going to be just fine ... best wishes
@ln34764 жыл бұрын
Autism is a gift. My daughter has it and I'm amazed by her ♥️
@veenav74434 жыл бұрын
My daughter stacks everything... wood pieces she can find from outside, blocks, cups, toys.
@fhcreates4 жыл бұрын
These are some very stereotypical signs of autism. Autism in girls is often very hard to diagnose as few girls have these stereotypical traits
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
Than you so much.
@aliyafauset16314 жыл бұрын
This video perfectly describes my daughter! She was diagnosed a year ago. Great video for people looking for autism indicators in their children!
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching how old is she ?
@aliyafauset16314 жыл бұрын
@@raisingautism8214 she'll be 3 in January
@davidluna52802 жыл бұрын
Wow. Just saw this video and my daughter has many of the same characteristics that your daughter showed in this video. Rarely acknowledges us when we call her name, spins around, plays with the wood chips , is obsessed with numbers, her speech is delayed (she os 2 and a half and doesn’t say momma or dadda yet. We are going to get her evaluated soon. It’s been hard to admit that my daughter may have this diagnosis. In my mind, my daughter has always been perfect so when my wife tried to say that there is something just not right, I have convinced myself that Kids just develop at different times and that my daughter is just fine. We will be sure to watch more of your videos. Thank you for sharing. You have a beautiful daughter by the way .
@aazablue4 жыл бұрын
One thing for sure, this little cutie is going to thrive because she has incredible parents! Good job mom and dad.🤗
@carolcanny47784 жыл бұрын
Hello, My goddaughter is now 34 years old and has Autism she is fairly independent. She has a driver's license. Shops, pays certain bills on her own. Has her own bank account. Share a home and responsibilities. No boyfriends. Is still immature in ways. She has a good heart and love's animals. I hope this give you some encouragement. Your daughter is so cute, sweet and has a kind nature. You both are also wonderful parents. You seem so proactive in your daughters care and well-being. Take care. Prayers and Blessings. 🙏💖 I Enjoy your KZbin channel.
@shaunalea8234 жыл бұрын
Your comment gives me so much hope. My son is also on the spectrum and we have high hopes for him, he is so kind any one who is blessed to have him in their life i know will see how wonderful he is. My cousin who is in his early 20s is also on the spectrum he works full time, in engaged, and drives it blows my mind that people assume our autistic loved ones cant do bc they can even if its in a different way.
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
Both of you ladies are giving me hope for the future with Emma thank you so much 😊 it really means a lot 🥰
@samiog56954 жыл бұрын
That's all we can hope for💗💗 living with a purpose thankyou for sharing
@jessicasevigny12064 жыл бұрын
@@raisingautism8214 a teenage daughter named Abby who has autism and has a daughter named Braylee who is elementary age. Both of these families have KZbin channels and openly share about autism. I know Asa has mentioned he talk to families through if email they mention a autistic person in their home.
@makeupluver264 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing 😊, my daughter is also on the spectrum and your comment has given me hope. She is currently 6 years old and is not potty trained and has a speech impairment so it is honestly so hard.
@rajaelamlalih76434 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing I have a boy 4 years doing almost the same thing .but I’m trying to work with him very hard . God blush them🙏🙏 Beautiful girl😘😘😘
@puchiebrown15654 жыл бұрын
You two are wonderful parents. So attentive you both are to your little lady. Thank you for sharing her and your lives to so many people. You have no idea the many people you've helped. She is adorable possibly our next little Einstein. Thanks again family
@eilenjimenez67404 жыл бұрын
she is so smart, God bless her, pray and pray, everything is easy for GOD, you have a beautiful baby
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much we definitely pray every day for our kids 🙏
@angelaabrigo-villarreal44022 жыл бұрын
My 2 year old grandson is showing early signs of autism and was supposed to have been seeing a speech pathologist since January of this year but the pathologist never showed up to her sessions because she found another job and when her position was filled the woman was pregnant and never showed up because she left on maternity leave so today he had an appointment with his pediatrician who informed my daughter and son in law that my grandson was showing definite signs of autism. Thank you for sharing this video because we need all the support in learning how to cope with this in terms of being able to continue to help him in progressing. He is super smart and has come a long way. He doesn’t really point instead he will take our hands and place it on what he wants. He gets overly excited and flaps his hands and will also squint his little eyes shut when the camera is on him. He will also roll his little eyes when he seems annoyed with something. He is my blessing from God considering he was born on my daddy’s 6 month date of his passing. He has helped my heart heal as it was shattered into a million pieces and he is just so loved by many even if he pushes others away when they try to get close to him. I know God will take care of him as will we 💙🙏🏼
@Kallenxo4 жыл бұрын
honestly.. im getting Einstein vibes.. shes a genius in the making
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
I know she really is
@kaykrucial77544 жыл бұрын
Great parents for being so observant and supportive ❤️
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@tioz014 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video! I'm sure a lot of parents wonder about this when their kids are toddlers, I for one did, and now understand a little bit better what to look for.
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 🙏
@donnab76664 жыл бұрын
I just wanted say thank you. Thank you for sharing your strength & hope. So many need to hear the message. Blessings always.🙏
@AlejandraaMG4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣 " I mean by you" haha ypu guys are such a good and fun couple. I have take care of a kid with autism before and she was great. After learning more about autism it genuinely make mes happy tp see how much love and effort you guys put to help not only your baby but other who may not even know their kids has autism. Emma is very lucky to have you guys 😊
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much I really appreciate your comment 💕
@lisolo8394 жыл бұрын
I love that you allow her to do her thing in the store, i have a 7 year old boy, also on the spectrum and he also has his thing he does in the store, like he would take stuff off the shelf, turn it around and its like his reading the back labels of the stuff, to us his just collecting data for that super smart brain of his, cause prepare yourself, they are super smart kids. The key to them being happy, dont try to change them, love, understanding and guidance is all they need to flourish.
@clairemack27504 жыл бұрын
Emma Rose and my son could easily be twins.
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
And thank you so much
@reneetree4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful example of involved and loving parents!
@lilly81jam2 жыл бұрын
She is just the cutest. I am glad you guys are giving examples. It helps a lot for those like myself looking for answers. My stepson is 8 and high functioning and his 4 yr old sister is whom I am questioning. They came into my life full time about a year ago
@goyitousaf60214 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your willingness to share such a personal and private experience. Im sure this will help many parents with their children. Know she's a cute little girl and she has a bright future. God bless.
@bigashland4 жыл бұрын
Your baby is BEAUTIFUL,... Find her " thing" ... and help her blossom and grow... Def subbing,.. Little Emma is going to change the world.!
@bpshow4174 жыл бұрын
My son was just like Emma, but I intervened a lot. When my son would put anything in a line , I would come in and remove one object from the line. My son would be so mad at me, but I did not give up. After , a few weeks he finally stopped putting things in a line. To get my sons attention , I would say his name a lot and randomly and get him to look at me. Again , after few weeks and not giving up he started to pay attention to his name. So, basically I made my son get out of that bubble he was in and get him out of his comfort zone. He will be turning 6 years old soon and the only thing he has is a speech delay, but he is picking up the speech quickly. Intervening early is always best . Good luck ! .
@cdixon2011ify4 жыл бұрын
You are a wonderful and loving parent.
@atefreaciouz65084 жыл бұрын
Thank u for sharing your experience... I really appreciate it 💝, my son is autistic too and I thought that it's okay to put anything in a line and I thought it's just the way he played as a child
@courtneys94294 жыл бұрын
I think you've gone about it wrong. As an adult suspected to be on the spectrum, interfering with these kinds of things creates huge anxiety and mistrust. How would you like for someone bigger than you to come into your bedroom every time you put away your clothes or shoes and they unfold everything and lay them on your bed or every time you wash dishes someone comes and sprinkles dirt all over them? It's the same thing. Eventually you will give up on creating a happy space for yourself too if every time you did, someone messed it up.
@ane52944 жыл бұрын
My neighbors kid does similar things. Like no eye contact, you can never get her attention, repeatedly going up and down for hours, no words even though she is almost 3, no sense of stranger danger etc. I'm worried and don't know how to help because the awareness in my country is very low and I don't want to offend her parents. Her mom was mad at the first doctor because he told her she might have autism. Her mom thinks it's because she is a sinner that her daughter is like that. I've tried to ease into it because the mom is very sensitive, stressed(raising 3 kids all under the age of 6 all by herself), tired...but it has been difficult
@Mallaaaaaaaful4 жыл бұрын
Oh my God, guys I wish u all the best in your life, and to your kids!!! You are soooo positive! And strong!
@jordanhenderson17364 жыл бұрын
I am so happy I came across this video ! My daughter is doing the EXACT same things .
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
I am so glad Your here
@melissazapata93864 жыл бұрын
One of my twins had autism as well, he showed a lot of signs like her as well, but my son is so sweet! Knowing what he has has helped us work with him better to continue to progress in life!
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree definitely knowing what it is has helped so much
@haddenguineas30844 жыл бұрын
We got told our daughter wasn't on the spectrum but told she was quirky...
@carissa81004 жыл бұрын
Same! Took thousands of dollars and 3 years to get a diagnosis. Keep fighting!
@freddy46724 жыл бұрын
You two are such a caring mom and dad. Emma is fortunate to have such love. She’s a beautiful little girl.
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the kind words
@ktdo24354 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experiences. She’s beautiful and has such loving parents.
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
Thank you so. Much
@camarojai68324 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful little lady. Thank you for sharing for those of us who may not know what’s going on with our little ones
@marygoff54134 жыл бұрын
This video was really interesting. I have raised three sons, they are in their mid to late 20s now and my oldest one would do hand flapping when he got excited, but he doesn't have autism. My youngest one would go into a store like Toys R Us and put every toy back in its place that was on the ground or one that someone had tossed aside... he organized the whole store, but he doesn't have autism either. So I think there's some overlapping conditions that both non-autistic and autistic kids have?? Your daughter is a doll! 🤗
@Itsacamlife4 жыл бұрын
I'm not a doc but maybe your son had tics??. My son just got diagnosed where he's consistently clearing his throat all the time. Maybe your sons dad tics? But again I'm not doc.
@Klaudyacampos4 жыл бұрын
Autism is in a spectrum and basically it’s not only one or two things or characteristics it’s much more than just a couple of things... idk if I made sense lol but these children that are being diagnosed do certain things that don’t allow them to experience life or things the same way most children would. It interferes with their day to day tasks/ day to day life. And therefore things may seem to be “overlapping” but they are extremely different in the sense that these “overlapping conditions” interfere with daily living
@julieanna22284 жыл бұрын
With autism you're looking for multiple symptoms. I work at a childcare center and see many children. We are generally one of the first to mention it to parents because we tend to see it quickly. We can usually observe a child and tell if they have autism, but that's based on many things. We look at odd quirks, repetitive behavior, delay in verbal and physical cues, a delay in social behavior, self harm behaviors, obsession with specific topics/objects, a cognitive delay, etc. It tends to be a host of atypical behaviors. However, autism as minor as aspergers (what it used to be called) doesn't usually get diagnosed until they are school aged because it's so mild. I once worked with a kid who didn't make eye contact at age 5. Although, I quickly noticed that his mom didn't either. But since he didn't display any other symptoms, the thought of autism wouldn't cross my mind. It takes quite a few red flags to say hey something isn't right here.
@albagonzalez96074 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful smart little girl. The grape thing was absolutely adorable to me! What a lucky girl to have such loving and caring parents. (Good looking too! Lol) blessings 🥰
@debrasue59864 жыл бұрын
I’m not sure why this showed up on my feed. My sons are grown & I don’t have grandchildren yet. I found this very informative and I learned quite a bit. I’m commenting because I felt the need to tell you both it’s obvious that You are Both Wonderful Loving Parents! I see and hear the pure love that you have for Emma and for each other. As long as Emma has you both, she will grow and blossom into whatever The Lord has planned for her. She’s right where she is supposed to be 💞. (Side note, with her organizational tendencies... she may always have a neat and tidy bedroom 😃)
@christinastephens78044 жыл бұрын
Wow this is so interesting and helpful. I think the footage makes it easier to understand as well. I’ve seen parents with children on the spectrum say “my son was lining things up” and I wasn’t sure what that looked like (because all toddlers line things up at some point)..this helped me to understand. Thank you for being so transparent and honest about this. I know this will help other parents/nannies/babysitters. She is adorable! ❤️
@rahajune4 жыл бұрын
She just has a mathematical brain. Future engineer, count your blessings.
@katielee33204 жыл бұрын
Bless you wonderful parents and your beautiful little girl!! Thank you for making such an informative video and helping to address the stigma of autism. Bless you guys. Lots of love and light sent your way from Taiwan, Taipei.
@evelynn08204 жыл бұрын
My son is 13 months old & does the “zoning out” stare once in a while.. but ive seen no other sign of autism yet.. this video was helpful & ill definitely keep an eye out for any other repetitive behavior thank you!
@8113-n8b4 жыл бұрын
i have seen most of yore videos now and feel you.i have a 9 year old boy with autism.lots the same behavior. no contact, did not speak, didnt look at us and he did run all day long and never look back at us.lined up everything and had meltdowns every day. we never got ABA.(hard to get that in norway) but we worked with him in a similar way using his interests to get his attention. Lots of hard work , but it gives results. now he is at a regular school in a "normal" class with help from his assistent, and are functioning pretty good,he have friends, communicate good.he can tell his problems now istead of getting meltdown so after the speaking came, the stimming and meltdowns got less.hold on there , it will get better.
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
Wow this is amazing I love hearing testimony’s like this gives me so much hope thank you for sharing 💕🙏
@ElisabethOlesen4 жыл бұрын
She's gonna grow up to be enormously beautiful! Such a pretty girl.
@Claudia-ry3bt4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this excellent and thoughtful video. I work with adolescents w/autism and your video helps me to get a new perspective on the disorder.
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
I am So glad it help you that’s our main goal il🙏
@alanahdickson4 жыл бұрын
This is so wonderful that you have this channel and are helping others to be more informed and helping to support other families this way. Emma is so lucky to have you both as parents - it is so evident through your videos the love and care you have provided for her. I hope you don't mind, but I'd like to add a little sidenote: I am a child care specialist, ages zero to three specifically and I wanted to note to other parents a lot of what Emma displays *can* also be characteristic of normal toddler behaviour, much like you already suggested. Toddlers love repetition, and they have a strong sense of order and you will often find toddlers stacking things or lining them up. Toddlers note tiny details in objects and they love sensorial objects, such as wood chips or sand to explore. I think what differs - and correct me if I am wrong - is the obsession paired with the stimming behaviours that you see. I just want to put parents at ease who may see one or two of these behaviours in their young child and think that they may need to have an assessment done. Rest assured, these behaviours on their own can be normal. Always observe and keep track of what you see in your child. Remain open and in close conversation with your paediatrician should you ever have questions. You guys are helping so many families with your videos! I wish you all the best
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree that’s why at 1st we didn’t know she had autism because all these behaviors can be completely normal for kids her age it’s just she was definitely intense with what she did That’s why we wanted a second opinion 🙏 thank you so much for this msg
@kachellesoum16554 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness I came across this video because my youngest was just diagnosed BUT his sister is 15 and also autistic and watching this just brought back so many memories of HER soooo much like your daughter. Beautiful minds. My daughter is 15 and absolutely amazing despite her struggles.
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
I bet she is a beautiful your lady how old is your youngest just diagnosed?
@aprylhopkins4 жыл бұрын
I saw a lot of these in the early years with my daughter too.
@michellepitzer97744 жыл бұрын
My son doesn’t listen to me. I think he’s just a hardheaded though lol.
@maggiegoblirsch7544 жыл бұрын
You guys did great at recognizing that things were a.little different with your daughter!! Well done!
@phieq4 жыл бұрын
She's a sweetie. It's hard at that stage when the eye contact and interaction and communication is hard going. Keep at it and you will be seeing how she blossoms. Please read The Siege and Exiting Nirvana...wonderful books that will help understand the autistic mind. You are clearly fantastic parents
@maghnanisimran4 жыл бұрын
I wasn’t sure what Autism exactly is. After watching the video, I feel all kids are just so lovely, uniquely observant about the things around them and a true genius in their own way🍀♥️
@rosaespinoza-britton29654 жыл бұрын
You have a sweet daughter. She is so cute and I love her name!!
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@maritzamoffett80214 жыл бұрын
This was great. Thank you for sharing this with your viewers. And can I just mention that I think all three of you are beautiful looking people. Mom is pretty, dad is so handsome and your daughter is adorable.😊all the best.
@zairaortiz35724 жыл бұрын
My daughter is 2 and half I’m she turns 3 in February. She is been seen by the regional center here California for autism too. As a mother we know something going on.
@aolivestone60004 жыл бұрын
My nephew in law who is 27 years old and is married to my niece who’s 29 has Aspergers and he actually did an entire video on Facebook in relation to his disability and how he himself does not look directly at you at all even till this day he does not do that but he does have a large number of friends and he is a full-fledged elementary school teacher works at a prestigious school in New York so this is just to give you an example of how full grown adult has a disability such as Asperger’s and grew up to be a full-fledged young adult married and working
@courtneys94294 жыл бұрын
What is his KZbin channel?
@elysiadear75514 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Great comment. People need to hear more of this. They absolutely can go on to live full lives.
@gretafernandez28594 жыл бұрын
Check out Amy Schumer documentary on her life, pregnancy and her husband Chris that was diagnosed with having autism spectrum. The documentary on Netflix is called Growing and it's so informative about everything. Great show explaining everything, I highly recommend it 👍🏼
@aolivestone60004 жыл бұрын
He doesn’t have a KZbin unfortunately I wish he would but I think he’d be to nervous but I’ll definitely suggest it to him and see what he thinks about it
@behehdbeuejehebdudnebe47104 жыл бұрын
My son will be 2 in a couple months and he has many, many of the same behaviors. Although he will make eye contact. To me, she seems like a very normal toddler! I feel like diagnosing at such an early age is hard, but either way whatever therapies she receives can only help. There are so many overlapping things and lots of things toddlers do don’t make sense. You both seem like loving and tentative parents, she is a lucky girl! I hope you all continue to make progress! Like another subscriber stated (I know this is unsolicited advice) I would get some different opinions! Kudos to you both for putting her needs and best interest first. With great parents, she will thrive 💜
@julieanna22284 жыл бұрын
A doctor will not diagnose a child with autism if there is uncertainty. Their child definitely has autism, the behavior they described is very atypical of a typically developing toddler. Toddlers generally do not get obsessive about a specific thing, they may have a favorite, but it doesn't become obsessive. They also begin to repeat words and talk (however, if this is the only symptom it could just be a speech delay). They will respond to their name, especially if you have something intriguing. However, if they know they're doing something wrong or are intrigued by something around them, they may just be ignoring you. If your child goes to daycare you could chat to them. Teachers are usually the first to notice these symptoms, but we hate bringing it up to parents. No one wants a child to have any kind of disorder.
@Liz-rf4qu4 жыл бұрын
Emma is adorable! She's beautiful! Lots of love and hugs from South Africa
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
Wow South Africa ♥️♥️♥️
@Liz-rf4qu4 жыл бұрын
@@raisingautism8214 yes, I'm from South Africa. 😊
@aliciamackey82134 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for making these videos My son was diagnosed in August but I was in denial for a long time All the signs that you’ve shown my son was doing for a long time But I didn’t want to see it Plus my sons father would fight with me every chance because he did want to believe it He has finally come to terms with it It’s still hard I’m definitely more in tune with my sons quarks then he is My son is definitely such a loving little boy He loves to hug and kiss and cuddle and it is the best thing in the world You have a beautiful family Glad I found your channel 💙
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much alicia same here it took us a while to come to terms with it and honestly sometimes I still have a hard time dealing with it but we are strong and our kiddos are perfect just the way they are 💕
@abigailhiman63364 жыл бұрын
No matter her disabilities she is a beautiful angel
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much I agree
@andreasolis854 жыл бұрын
So beautiful you made this video, will help so many parents, you guys are amazing!!!
@raisingautism82144 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@sissiebarthelemy53384 жыл бұрын
But on another note my daughter does most of these things too and I never thought anything of it