Autistics and ADHDers in media because I am and I wanted to do it.

Ciao a tuttə. Per chi non mi conoscesse sono Ili Gabriel e ho 18 anni.
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[@fairyb0ii]

Read this: I decided to do this video because I am an AuDHDer (and dyslexic/dyscalculic) myself and wanted to show some representation. Personally, I don't like the Sheldon representation (too stereotypical), but I put him in the video because he is canonically autistic. I also put some of my headcanons, but remember that they are headcanons therefore they aren't confirmed by the author. If I made some mistakes (ex. I didn't know one of my headcanons has been confirmed, tell me). This video has not medical/psychological purposes, if you think you might be on the spectrum, do some research and go for a diagnosis. The last few things: ADHD and autism are not illnesses, but they are neurodivelopment conditions. Ok, Bye💜♾️✨️

[@a.k.pedroza224]

Funny how yesterday I got diagnosed with ADHD, after aparently living with it with 20 years, and now I realize why I felt Luz was so relatable

[@fairyb0ii]

I've been diagnosed with autism, ADHD, dyslexia and dyscalculia a year ago and now I feel understood. I'm glad you finally understood your traits and characteristics. ❤️

[@SomeNuerodiverseGuy]

never heard the term ADHDer before this..... makes sense why it's already easy for me to pronounce lol!

[@fairyb0ii]

I learnt this term when I got diagnosed. When someone speaks about their disability they can do it in 2 ways: identity first or person first. Person first language: "I have a disability and it doesn't completely define me. " Ex. "I have depression", "person with ADHD", etc... Identity first language: "my disability is part of my identity." Ex. "I am autistic", "I am an ADHDer", "she is bipolar", etc... The language a person uses is their choice. When I talk about my autism, ADHD, dyslexia and dyscalculia I prefer the identity first language, because I was born with these conditions and they influence everything in my life: the way I think, the way I laugh, the way I learn, and without them I wouldn't be myself anymore. I also prefer this language because they are not illnesses but neurodevelopmental conditions. When I talk about my mental health issues I prefer the person first language, because my illness doesn't define me and I wasn't born with it. So this is why I used the term ADHDer. Hope this is helpful. Bye.❤️

[@SomeNuerodiverseGuy]

@@fairyb0ii in my case it's both, lol.... the word nuerodiverse means both? *confused screaming*

[@fairyb0ii]

@@SomeNuerodiverseGuy Neurodiverse means that every mind is different. Two autistic people are different. Even two neurotypical people are different. Neurodivergent is a political term and is referred to every mind that differ from what's considered typical. ADHD is a specific condition.

[@GnEEp_GnorpXoXo]

I freaking love shaun murphy i always related to him ironic how i found out im a Neurodivigent thanks to him

[@kk_artist5446]

Bro when I saw Lucifer I was like “THEY NOTICED!!! IM NOT THE ONLY ONE!!”

[@fairyb0ii]

@@kk_artist5446 3 days ago I made a video where I explain my headcanon 💜

[@preppygurloffical]

@@fairyb0ii Red has Headcanon ADHD and blue has Headcanon Autism

[@Multi_of_9]

I'm not autistic but I really hate loud noise it really triggers me

[@Vampiric-Princess]

You could have Misophonia.

[@preppygurloffical]

Same here

[@tearensills4874]

Sounds like you have anxiety

[@Vampiric-Princess]

@@tearensills4874 I don't think anxiety causes noise discomfort.

[@inf1n1typlus1]

Same and TEXTURES. OMG TEXTURES. I can’t eat so much food bc it has a weird texture. In fact every day for the last 10 years I’ve had the exact same lunch lol (PB+J, apple slices and pretzels…one time my dad packed my lunch and switched the apple slices’ and pretzels’ positions in my lunchbox and I got mad 😭😭😭)

[@jennysanimations4181]

I was diagnosed with ADHD/ADD when I was 13 in 2017, three weeks ago I got diagnosed with autism and I'm 20, yet I never really connect with the characters a lot. I wish there was more representation for autistics who are masking since childhood and people are surprised they're autistic

[@fairyb0ii]

@@jennysanimations4181 In "Heartbrak High" Quinni explains that she is autistic and the other person didn't know, but yeah, a few autistic people are represented well. I'm working on a project where the main character is a AuDHD boy which has been masking for a long time.

[@I_a_Dumb]

Video molto interessante!!! ❤ Anche i gli headcanon!!

[@fairyb0ii]

Grazie mille ❤️

[@I_a_Dumb]

@@fairyb0ii prego!!! ❤️ Sai io adoro video del genere!!!

[@SalamiWasHereLolz]

I don’t think this one’s canon, but I think it might be implied that Sierra (TDI) is autistic

[@fairyb0ii]

I watched Total Drama but I never thought Sierra might be autistic. I'll read something on reddit, tumblr, etc... because I'm curious

[@SalamiWasHereLolz]

@@fairyb0ii alr!

[@ROTTMNTFanGirl]

Nobody: Me: *still waiting for Rise Donnie*

[@inf1n1typlus1]

6:08 TRANS FLAG TRANS FLAG TRANS FLAG

[@fairyb0ii]

@@inf1n1typlus1 OMG I didn't notice it

[@preppygurloffical]

My headcanons! Blue - Autism (Colourblocks) Red - Adhder (Colourblocks) O - Nonverbal Autism (Alphablocks) Tig - Autism (Wooly and Tig)

[@ButteredBread201]

1:15 I'm pretty sure he's from 'Mary & Max'

[@esmerulituli8780]

I really love Sheldon Cooper, god

[@Sparkywoof299OSC]

I didn’t know fluttershy was autistic

[@fairyb0ii]

@@Sparkywoof299OSC Unfortunately It's not canon.🥹 "Headcanon" is a term that refers to something a fan of a book/film/comic/cartoon/ecc... imagines to be true with or without proofs. When I make a headcanon I always notice the characters traits, and I noticed autistic traits in her. One day I'm going to explain why I think she might be autistic, but it's just my opinion as an autistic person myself.

[@Sparkywoof299OSC]

@@fairyb0ii ohhhhhhh ok

[@darkangel9104]

Im autistic and dyslexia i feel different at normal people i don't fit in world i see world different at others loud noises or noises bother me and lights i don't like few foods or smells i love characters at are autistic and autism and adhd in movies and shows