Avoid These TOXIC Women (They'll Ruin Your Life)

In this video, I react to some TikToks (mainly about dating) and try to give a healthier, more balanced perspective. My advice: Avoid toxic and manipulative people like this at all cost.
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[@PRdude]

There have been a lot of women who I thought were pretty, and then I got to know them.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Yep 💀

[@prionzgaming5996]

Truueeee... Sometimes the most beautiful isnt really beautiful in the inside... And thats really sad... 😭

[@sirro4362]

Nature is a proof the most beautiful creatures are the most poisonous, dangerous and vicious ones.

[@ryanbarker3978]

Yes, that would be the majority unfortunately...

[@Armando316]

THIS… More than once. There’s just certain things that once you see where their values are you completely see them in a different light and you’re no longer attracted to them.

[@t.j.5574]

The modern dating struggle is that women like Courtney, who are soft-spoken and classy get taken pretty fast then these crazy, narcissistic, machiavellian women are all that’s left on the dating market lol.

[@lilxtraxs9046]

@@abella11 knock knock

[@t.j.5574]

@@abella11 maybe you’ll meet your next boyfriend down in the KZbin comments 😝🤣

[@Fallen-Saint]

@@abella11 same, but I got discord and it's girlfriend for me hehah

[@DFENSFL]

so true bro, so true

[@thecybranchild1768]

@@abella11 na he will come around, if you are what I guy wants it wont be a problem. Dont be like the girls in the video because guys walk away from them

[@j.d.1506]

In other words……ladies, act like a real adult. Don’t be childish and vicious! Thank you for another great video.

[@CourtneyRyan]

🙌🏼❤️

[@AJ........]

I have another request for many women out there, but of course not all women. It would be great if the women who behave so narcissistic could try to curb that trait at least a little.

[@wayneisname4544]

"When you don't take time to heal, you'll bleed on those that didn't cut you" So when trauma that these people have experienced isn't addressed, this is where this childish and obsessive behavior comes from.

[@ninjaartist1235]

I'm only vicious if someone tries to physically hurt my loved ones.

[@Jackthetraveller]

The problem today is that feminists use the lower vibrations of masculine energy and think they are feminine, men get destroyed and use the lower vibrations of feminine energy. And life for most men are all about competition you have to be the strongest all the time anyone who doesent can be strong all the time get destroyed by other men and society. If u can’t controll yourself you end up in jail or get destroyed by porn or drugs. And porn allso is made to make men feminine. Being healthy masculine is one of the hardest thing a man can do today and that Come with time and when you can overcome all challanges life throw at you. Today when i woke up it was 7pm on a saturday and went to work out right away. I work out every day, it is all about self discipline wich most men lack today like 80% lack it, i can controll my mind and my emotions, i have been free from drug and porn for a long time now and life is really awsome i get my dopamine healthy today i have been trough both back and arm,elbow and hand surgery the doctors told me i would never be able to walk normal or lift anything again my elbow is made out of screws and plates, don’t ever let anyone tell u what u can and can’t do. Today i can run and do pushups and pullups 1year after surgery💪 anything is possible you just gotta belive👍 the mind is so much more powerfull then we can imagine. Now im going for a run and do pushups and pullups in the park early a saturday morning, after that a cold shower. Porn destroy men it makes u have wrong tought som both women and sex while u support rape and humantradfiking. I know life can be lonely sometimes you don’t got 1 living human to even talk to and no one have ever listened to you your whole life while Nobody gives a fuc about u or what u feel while feminists are out there to destroy you. There is no other way then use discipline and become hard you can’t be soft if you want to survive when you get discipline life Will get better that is the only way for men to find healthy masculinity. If you have issues hit me up i Will do everything in my power to help you. Real men protect the weak and women and family❤ Peace n love✌️❤️

[@Kickback-dm7zt]

Woman : " I cheated on you because you didn't give me enough attention"... An hour later same woman : "why are you giving me attention, you are coming across as needy, insecure and clingy"... Just proves women DONT know what they want.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Sadly this is true a lot of the time. There are women (and men) who feed off of constant chaos. No thanks! 😎

[@Kickback-dm7zt]

@@CourtneyRyan exactly. 👍

[@Kickback-dm7zt]

@@CourtneyRyan either you want the attention or you don't.. So which is it?...also what exactly is "too much" and what is "not enough"... What's too much to 1 woman's not enough to another and what is not to 1 woman is too much to another so you ladies need to GROW UP, Quit the bs childish games and STOP having hissy fits.

[@andrewcoffey6072]

The "you didn't give me enough attention" is a lie just to smooth it over

[@Kickback-dm7zt]

@@andrewcoffey6072 exactly, well said.

[@Uvray]

Those girls on TikTok are just unbelievably obnoxious. They would be an absolute nightmare.

[@admirbarucija2018]

Not entertaining/giving effort to toxic people has made such a difference in my life. I don’t talk to many people, but the ones I do have I make sure are high quality individuals

[@CourtneyRyan]

🙌🏼

[@admirbarucija2018]

@@CourtneyRyan 🙌🏻

[@carlosverde-datingtips7001]

It’s amazing how some of these women think. Yeah, money is important, but it can’t be the deciding factor for dating anyone. Because at the end of the day, money can’t bring you happiness - if you really think that, you’re sadly mistaken, and you’re fooling yourself. What really matters is how you feel about yourself, with or without money - because in the end, you can’t take it with you. What really matters is what you were able to accomplish while you were here on this planet, your legacy! If all you did was looking out for yourself the entire time you were here - you will not go peacefully when it’s time, you’re going to have lots of regrets, I promise you that! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

[@johnsmith-kt7ef]

ya im 34 now and just cut them out immediately, but i will say i went through a phase in my 20s where if someone was toxic, I would play the game and flip it on them. Yes petty, but I knew what i was doing, and I hope it changed some of their behaviors for the future.

[@OrangePony75]

Same here. Therapy was key. 46 and never been better.

[@shamimbakhshi7217]

"Close your heart to their desperation. Close your heart to their suffering. Do not allow yourself to feel for them, they will not feel for you." - Kratos, the God of War (2018)

[@Thedrickx]

@@ConanTheCimmerian The 2018 game was about Norse mythology, not Greek mythology. All the previous games were Greek mythology though.

[@shamimbakhshi7217]

@@ConanTheCimmerian Nice projection, and also, your shaming technique is not going to work on me. "Did I ever tell you the definition of insanity?" - Vaas

[@dantemoriarty4059]

Nice, I didn't emember that quote

[@SeemsLogical]

Thats a good logic for when you encounter a woman/man exhibiting toxic behavior but at some point you do need to open up and feel compassion for someone else if you hope to find love in dating. Its a crucial part to a healthy relationship is compassion for your partner.

[@maxwillson]

The paradox in all of this toxic behavior is that men who are busy all the time don't pay attention to this stuff. I truly feel bad for these women wasting time with mind games that don't work on me.

[@loosearrow5150]

These females are not women yet!! They're little girls that need to grow up!!

[@scottp2462]

Speaking to the woman who advised others to be inconsistent and keep the guy guessing. Huge red flag as several personality disorder’s and people with commitment issues display this behavior. Play stupid games win stupid prizes.

[@sathvik221]

Yes on personality disorder!!! These are cluster b!!!!! Narcissists and bpd women do this!!! Never date or marry a cluster b!!!!!!

[@latt.qcd9221]

"We're not going to get revenge. We're not going to try to get back at someone. We're going to be graceful and move on, and know that we deserve better." That's the thing, though; toxic women like that *_don't_* deserve better.

[@ashley-tu9oj]

Faxx

[@saturninofonseca5017]

I love how Courtney is always about being your most confident and better self while everyone else is teaching more aggressive and toxic habits of being a “better person”. It really shows how maturity and a healthy lifestyle can really go a long way.

[@russ9921]

@surprisedpikachu not at all. Courtney’s content is positive and helps many people. Take your snide little remarks elsewhere, killjoy.

[@sgs8747]

Worst part: Even if it “works” you will only create and attract destructive relationships since their very foundation of was deceit, abuse and lies. Furthermore, we as men need to be held accountable here too as “consumers”. One of the reasons this behavior is promoted as “effective” is because many of us at one point or another bit the bait vs. merely walking away.

[@carlosverde-datingtips7001]

It’s amazing how some of these women think. Yeah, money is important, but it can’t be the deciding factor for dating anyone. Because at the end of the day, money can’t bring you happiness - if you really think that, you’re sadly mistaken, and you’re fooling yourself. What really matters is how you feel about yourself, with or without money - because in the end, you can’t take it with you. What really matters is what you were able to accomplish while you were here on this planet, your legacy! If all you did was looking out for yourself the entire time you were here - you will not go peacefully when it’s time, you’re going to have lots of regrets, I promise you that! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

[@lloydkline1518]

My cousin is a toxic woman

[@crzyruskie86]

If I meet a girl who says she uses snapchat, I immediately know its a short term entanglement when I am bored type thing. She does not have mental maturity to take up too much of my time in a meaningful way.

[@AB-yr2eo]

The same people complaining about so called toxic masculinity are the same ones telling you that you need to be this toxic to men

[@aren8798]

Courtney, fighting the good fight. Thank you for being the voice of reason!

[@DA2THFA1RY]

The reason why I'm single and have been for a while now, is because I don't do this toxic stuff and won't take it either. Most modern people can't deal with someone real, they actually hate it

[@RockGuitarist1]

It's insane the complex that these women have developed being on social media over the past 5 years. Idk what happened to cause this anti-male/toxic superiority that some of these women have obtained over these years but now recently single after 5 years, any woman who is an influence or avidly posts pictures of themselves on social media is an instant disqualification from me.

[@johnnylego807]

The Establishment is doing this. All by design. this is all intentional AF. All of it.

[@josephstevens9888]

I'm not anti-marriage, but seeing some of these girls presented, I'm glad I'm single. ; )

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂 I get it lol

[@wolfmaster6362]

Same here bro💯

[@diablocls55]

I have zero plans on EVER getting married

[@themultimagic1347]

In the wake of my divorce, I found myself falling down a the bitter red pill rabbit hole. It was a very depressing time. You're so pleasant and down to earth. Hearing what you have to say about behaviors like this gives me hope that maybe the world isn't the black, miserable place I was starting to believe it is. Thank you. Please keep up the good work.

[@nateb.3816]

Hey Courtney. Love your content. Good to know that there are still people out there who know what healthy dating and relationships look like. I have an idea for a topic for a future video. Comes from my own experience. I've been in a long term relationship for about 10 years, which ended earlier this year. I have decided to get back into dating only about 2 months ago. However, as you can probably imagine, after 10 years of not dating, I am experiencing some issues with self doubt / confidence, especially that the dating scene has changed so much during that time. So my suggestion is something like this: How to re-enter the dating scene, specifically after a break up of a long term relationship? Maybe with emphasis on how to overcome feelings of self-doubt and/or overthinking. Or maybe another angle would be a kind of exposition/break-down of how the dating scene has changed during the past 5-10 years as a kind of heads-up to those who have been 'far and away' during that time 😅. Would love to hear your views on that. All the best.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Oooh that would be a great video! I can do something like that. Thank you for the comment and for being here! ❤️

[@nateb.3816]

@@CourtneyRyan wonderful, glad you think so. I am always happy to see a notification re.your uploads popping up 😊 all the best.

[@tarekdbouk3464]

1) make sure you are happy on your own. Independent . Hobbies , friends , exercise , work etc . Look good and feel good . On your own first . 2) know what were your mistakes in your 10 year relationship and what you did not like in the person you ended up leaving . Right down 3 main things you are looking for in the new person , priorities . 3) most importantly where to go ? You need dating sites I recommend bumble or hinge . Use a nice pic and make a profile that would attract the person who is truly similar to you . Be yourself on your profile and honest . 4) Nate . The most important point would be ….. how to overcome the things you mentioned . The answer is : trial and error . Accept that you will fail , accept that you will meet people who aren’t truly what they portray , accept that you will have insecurities and do things wrong perhaps again ….. practice makes Perfect . Just get in and try to enjoy the process . Be positive and look for the good in people , be genuinely interested in people . Slowly you will find yourself getting really good at it , and always remember …. You only need one successful encounter ! If you have to fail several times to find that one person , it is definitely worth it . And trust me , and the most important point is , this will be the most enriching and learning experience of building yourself , forever , as a human and in relationships .

[@jamesburton9708]

My theory - if you're always dating your girlfriend/wife, you'll never get rusty. That's where we mess up - the old wisdom about stopping what we did to get them in the first place. This is what i do with *my* girlfriend. And she *loves* it!

[@nateb.3816]

@@tarekdbouk3464 Blimey… that is some really good advice. I am sure that a lot of what Courtney will have to say will coincide with your points. Either way, I really like the things you’ve written. Especially that final part. I really tend to get stuck in my head, which makes taking a genuine interest in others somewhat harder… It’s amazing how much the head tends to get in the way and how getting stuck up there can foster egoistical tendencies, even if that is not your intention. Your advice really was a great reminder of some of these things. Thank you…

[@latt.qcd9221]

"Stop being so available for people who would not do crap for you." If men did that, romantic relationships and marriage would essentially be a thing of the past. Lol

[@keeroe2020]

Pretty much that's where we're at now.

[@Matthew0171]

@@keeroe2020 beat me to it

[@ricardoevans1531]

Courtney...I am actually glad you're exposing this stuff because people actually believe this toxic stuff and do them and it is messing up the dating world. So sad 😔

[@Firesword534]

More reasons to avoid TikTok and more reasons to pay attention to Courtney. Calling for real honest and mature relationships without drama, great stuff.

[@diegotavel5872]

The only thing I really love of social media is how women have used them to show their true self

[@oliverpetroski4205]

Following and praising toxic advices is like kissing someone who has a plague. Me, as a single man, I would not like to be even at the same room with these crazy toxic tokers.

[@snakesocks]

If the 3rd girl spent half the effort on improving herself as she does on emotional manipulation, she might actually be desirable to a man one day.

[@cskvision]

There’s plenty of pretty girls who are very attractive …until they open their mouth. Thank you Courtney for being better than that.

[@mann8098]

I applaud 👏 this video exposing the toxicity so pervasive today.

[@CourtneyRyan]

🙌🏼❤️

[@mcaz111]

Toxic behavior hurts the person doing it. Wish more people realized that, and just moved on when someone treats them wrong.

[@lowiecantgreen9496]

Tik tok has really ruined so many females. A lot of the girl's i talk to be doing 99 percent of these tiktok "tips"

[@germanwizbang6250]

I feel that the abundance vs scarcity mindset is one of those things that individual people can do very little to change unfortunately. The toxicity is so deeply rooted in so many people that it leads to men generally living in scarcity and women generally living in abundance (when it comes to dating anyway). If a man's version of abundance is less than 10 opportunities in a year, but a comparable woman's abundance is hundreds in a month, men pick up on that and they realize they really aren't living in abundance. And just like that, the scarcity mindset is created.

[@Connor4x4]

For me I naturally have an abundance mindset but am stuck in a small town without any options so I'm fairly discouraged. I'm just Savin up to leave and travel

[@johnsmith-kt7ef]

tbh bro if you actually love yourself and do your own thing, you will never have a scarcity mindset. You also shouldn't be living your life for a woman. I am not a guy against marriage or relationships if that is what you want, but i know i dont want marriage, so I will only casually date unless I find a woman I would consider her as a life partner. If that doesn't come, then I will just keep casually dating and doing my own thing. I have too much to lose by risking a marriage (government contract), and i don't sign contracts that dont benefit me.

[@tylerpace6517]

I'm a mature introvert guy trying to shake off a young wild woman with narcissist traits. I keep ruminating about her. This video was helpful in seeing toxicity in action.

[@praetorian1877]

We need more girls in the world like Cortney that has wisdom!!

[@loosearrow5150]

She's a woman, not a girl!! That's the difference!! You're right!!

[@praetorian1877]

@@loosearrow5150 Yes she is a woman. I’m just so use to seeing women acting like girls that I just call them that. Haha

[@loosearrow5150]

@@praetorian1877 Gotcha!! I'm use to girls also!! Women are hard to find!!

[@bdtol3142]

I don't think I have ever fallen for those toxic plays. If I am not first priority, my partner is not first priority.

[@MessageInABottle869]

”Why are we trying to make people jelaous” I don’t know Courtney but all I know it reminds me of a girl I went out with a couple of times. In one of those times she asked me if I saw myself as a jelaous person and I said no because I never had a reason to be. I thought that was a fair question to ask and I didn’t think much about it till we met each other a week later when she was flirting with this guy right in front of me. Everything was just so comical to me I had a hard time not laughing out loud. She turned to me and said ”you really are not jealous huh”, so I answered that’s what I told you but I am allergic to people who test people in such a obvious way and I don’t like playing any kind of games. Got up, paid for everything and then walked away. If you see this kind of behaviour, run as fast and as long you can and never look back. Don’t tolerate bullsh*t from anyone.

[@jameshigginbothamiii8703]

In a nutshell, I never cared for girls that "played games" whether the relationship was "friendly" or "serious." Be upfront, honest, and truthful...playing games is dishonest. Personally, I don't have time for "relationship games," they're for immature children.

[@loosearrow5150]

You're right!! Find a real woman!! Not some little girl that grew up in daddy's little world!!

[@thethesaxman23]

I think pretending to be somebody you aren’t is a big part of what is wrong with relationships nowadays. Whenever I hear “they changed, the aren’t the same person I fell in love with” I think what’s usually really happening is that person has just stopped pretending to be someone else.

[@AurorasKiss]

Im a female and i love watching your content! I hate those games and funny enough i always find the guys who are playing them. :C but now i got a little Courtney on my shoulder that whispers "play stupid games win stupid prizes!" ❤

[@CourtneyRyan]

I love it! 😂 so happy you’re here

[@RaZoR7i7]

Everyone knows women play game's men are more direct

[@AurorasKiss]

@@RaZoR7i7 not true! Guys play those stupid games as much as girls do! Im sick of it!

[@RaZoR7i7]

@@AurorasKiss I'm sick of it as well

[@levithorstone2876]

@@AurorasKiss can't find 6 foot Chad huh?

[@wayneisname4544]

"When you don't take time to heal, you'll bleed on others that didn't cut you."

[@13elad49]

I ended a friendship with a woman I had a "crush" on. She was single, I was single. When brought up that I wanted to bring the friendship to the next level including intimacy. Her retort was why ruin the friendship. My attitude is a woman has the choice to not engage in an intimate relationship, well it is my choice to walk away from the friendship. Then somehow I become a jerk!!

[@tungilgynch6044]

You cant go from friendship to love relationship it doesn't work

[@merlebrown7664]

As someone speaking from experience , there are powerful manifestation techniques that anyone can use to attract intimate relationships / make partners commit. Super helpful!🥰

[@mochi4miles]

did she say that in a mean way? i'm friends with plenty of guys whom I would never consider dating. You don't have to walk out on a friendship because one person didnt want to take it to the next level. thats just me though and I don't know your circumstance.

[@intermilan9731]

At school we always had those few girls none of the guys would ever imagine being with romantically. Not every individual of the opposite gender is your type.

[@RK-nx8vg]

You weren't actually her friend, you just wanted to date her dude. Once you realized that you couldn't date her you walked away without hesitation. It sounds like you did it out of spite too, as if you were entitled to dating her and how dare she say no. Being "friends" with someone means genuinely caring about their welfare and wanting to look out for them like family. As soon as you realized you couldn't have your way you cut her off. Now how is that the behavior of a friend exactly? You're seen as a jerk because of your blatantly self serving and entitled behavior.

[@fleetingfootnotes9133]

"We can hope she was kidding..." explains why it is exhausting. You actively have to bring up and put in the hope and that does require some energy that comes from somewhere.

[@SeemsLogical]

Hello Courtney, I only recently found your channel and I like a lot of your advice. Most of it boils down to "taking the high road" which is a philosophy I can naturally get behind. Thank you for advocating self-improvement over self-sabotage, we need to grow this philosophy you have so more people can avoid heartache and find a meaningful relationship they can truly enjoy.

[@envisionvlog8843]

When Courtney went “Looord, help us all”. 🤣🤣🤣

[@carlosbalazs2492]

"All is fair in love and war" Um, I don't think its supposed to be warfare to begin with?

[@CourtneyRyan]

🙌🏼😂

[@jamesburton9708]

1:29 - 1:33 = The way Courtney's pitch changes during "here and here, too", and the face that she makes on "long life". 🤣🤣🤣 She meant that.

[@michaelm001]

Good advice! There are so many manipulative techniques being used today in the dating world it’s just crazy out there. I always appreciate your take on these things.

[@imperialwarhawk123abc5]

I have taken the approach of not interacting online to obtain a date. I still will go out and encounter people and just hang out as friends with no initial expectation for romance. the dating scene (online especially) is just so insanely toxic and unhealthy with so many narcissistic women. I find it just nicer to go out to a bar or someplace and strike up a conversation and see where it goes. Plus there isn't this weird pressure of people trying to hookup.

[@Panduh206]

"Why? You could just not." That's me everyday driving in traffic.

[@cisium1184]

Anger, jealousy, and vengefulness do not give you power. It's not real power if you have to feel bad to get it.

[@prashanthb6521]

I swear to God, I have not seen men play mind games this toxic. Women are way too ahead in this matter. Even ordinary women play these games at a smaller scale almost mandatorily. It is naive guys who still havent opened their eyes who get hurt so much because of these women !!!

[@jacegallagher8589]

@Courtney Ryan Toxic women are exactly what makes dating so scary for me. Your videos show me that good women still exist. Thank you

[@MikeB071]

11:22 Inconsistency never works with me. If a girl starts sending me mixed signals, I just walk away from her...

[@francismarion1786]

You give me so much hope and confidence that there is a woman out there in the world for me who will value me, thank you for being so genuine and authentic!

[@cherubin7th]

I understood the first girl to say he should be rich and nice. I think she is right, as a guy I know: no guy needs to be permanently poor in a first world country. They have toxic behavior that sabotage them. There are enough good looking and very good women out there, so I too wouldn't date a girl that doesn't look good.

[@josealvarado8842]

That first Woman is tripping and NO Courtney, she wasn’t kidding 😂🤦‍♂️ I always say simps are nice guys who don’t have a back bone and get walked over, a Gentleman is a Man who is Kind but doesn’t let anyone push him over like he is nothing 👍 These toxic females are not real Women 💯 Thanks for the share Courtney 🙏🏽

[@pravstar1]

Good grief, the points you have put in between 3:20 to 4:45 exactly described the scenario I'm in. I really appreciate what your input, it reaffirms the fact that I need to get myself as far away from this person as possible so I genuinely wanted to thank you for the tip you have put there. I have been stuck in that friend zone position for 9 months which is so unhealthy. I have at least been working out and I am close to my goal there. The worst thing about this all, I had the perfect woman in every aspect in front of me all along, and I'm grateful now of having a chance to right a wrong. Your video has really helped, I don't want to sound patronising either so thankyou for taking the time to make this video.

[@smasherjosh5000]

As a man I am tired of seeing womanchild, people go on about manchild, but seriously stay away from women like that, you deserve better than a toxic woman who acts like a spoilt child, like you said walk away from them

[@psychwolf7590]

Hey Courtney! I think your channel has the best dating advice from a female perspective. You and Based Zeus got me a long way 😁. Anyway, I find myself being pretty confident these days and it's easy for me to talk to people, including girls. I went to quite some parties recently, which used to be not so common for me but I met some girls I really liked and we had a good time talking to each other. However, I find it pretty hard to flirt/escalate things and eventually I will feel like I missed the opportunity to do something. So in that sense, I still lack some confidence because I simply do not yet know how to approach something like that. Maybe a video idea?

[@rachel33329]

I'm toxic and literally don't wanna be anymore,I need to work on myself and start picking different men when I'm ready. Thanks for posting this

[@SolarPunk80]

I couldn’t help but chuckle when she said “be inconsistent!” AS IF!! Omg, sadly I happen to be, and it’s a serious problem in any context, but to hear it dished out AS ADVICE, was like a silver platter of hotdogs covered in Mayo and and onions of hilarity!!

[@worldlywoman9136]

So wild! Why on earth would someone WANT to be toxic?! Sad and gross. Love your videos Courtney xx

[@EMichaelBall]

They must have learned it from Trump.

[@chillndie]

if you want to be in a relationship just look up for all the qualities that courtney possess, she's so mature and proper lady to be precise. no cap 🧢

[@bobarvianto5550]

@surprisedpikachu and that is wrong? Why?

[@loosearrow5150]

@surprisedpikachu You know her BF?? You're assuming youngster and making stereotypes. that doesn't make you look smart at all. It just shows your immaturity. You're not fooling anyone. You speak to get attention just like these immature bimbo's that were on these vids. Kill joy, go find another site to troll. I'm surprised I'm even feeding the troll.

[@hitroy1054]

@@loosearrow5150 he’s hurt leave him be

[@louieg7676]

Whew. That last one was a piece of work. The worst part is someone or a few people will have their lives destroyed by that maniac.

[@nickt166]

Guys don’t get fixated on these type of actions. Just go on with your life, get healthier, focus on your passion and career and you can filter the women who have these toxic qualities. These type of women come on droves when you have everything together and often have depressive and bipolar characteristics, speaking from experience.

[@CourtneyRyan]

🙌🏼

[@tgoodfella]

thats why i like her channel, courtney brings, rational, sensible and honest commentating that calls out the b.s. that people are pushing out there and showing how difficult the dating world is and to be honest it kind of sucks

[@prestonrios2778]

Hey Courtney I totally agree 100% with everything you say and we’re totally on the same page. Why are young people (say ages 18-30) being duped so easily and falling for con artists on social media? You’d think we live in a smarter world where more people are aware of scams. But why can’t they see through superficiality that’s right front of their own eyes? Curious to hear what you think. Keep up the good content!

[@carlosverde-datingtips7001]

It’s amazing how some of these women think. Yeah, money is important, but it can’t be the deciding factor for dating anyone. Because at the end of the day, money can’t bring you happiness - if you really think that, you’re sadly mistaken, and you’re fooling yourself. What really matters is how you feel about yourself, with or without money - because in the end, you can’t take it with you. What really matters is what you were able to accomplish while you were here on this planet, your legacy! If all you did was looking out for yourself the entire time you were here - you will not go peacefully when it’s time, you’re going to have lots of regrets, I promise you that! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

[@johnsmith-kt7ef]

bc people have no lives, live through fake personas online instead of living their own life in the real world.

[@stonecold7113]

I don’t even think that they’re “falling for” anything. The way I see it personally I’m not into all the toxicity that these people encourage BUT……..that’s not to say they don’t know what they’re talking about. I’ve seen this shit happen right in front of me. Dating is a game and although advice given can be toxic the reality is that for whatever reason it works🤷🏾‍♂️

[@EMichaelBall]

It’s linked to the inability to think critically. This skill has been intentionally removed from school curricula so as to make people more pliable to corporations looking to profit off advertising. Read “The Deliberate Dumbing Down of America”. The logical conclusion of such policy is the mass dissemination of narratives in the public space, and the canceling of people who question said narrative (it’s “misinformation”).

[@buddhagunz]

Who raised you? They need to teach a masterclass on raising young women with class and confidence! Teddy has-been blessed! You're an amazing human being with old school values and style. Keep up the great work

[@marlonmoncrieffe0728]

She was raised by a single mother. It is amazing how she not only survived but thrived.

[@jordankirkham1657]

Good on you for calling people out on their bs. Feelings aren't a game to be played and it's embarrassing to see what society is becoming

[@crayfish7542]

Though making and " Displaying a List " " would cover more ground," and " be easier to watch and listen to," it was good to see a Glimpse of the Wild Animals ! Forewarned is forearmed !

[@bryangonzales4198]

My girl just broke up with me, she never even fully told me why. She gave a vague explanation to my sister. The weirdest part is that she was the one who had a crush on me first and I gave her a chance. Idk why I’m here, I feel so broken. 😔😢

[@EMichaelBall]

Her loss. What was the vague explanation given to your sister? Was your ex immaturely terrified of true love and split?

[@mikeb7221]

So based on your advice, my odds are slim to none. I am a man that has expectations on how he should be treated, and I went 2.5 YEARS without a right swipe. Seems to me like I am wasting my time...

[@chitownbob9714]

The difference in maturity between these two women is simple remarkable.

[@timotahowhitehawk3756]

I love this woman's wisdom and spirit! Such a good & refreshing woman! Very encouraging for those interested in female insight. Yes, most of this Tik Tok stuff is absolute garbage!

[@loosearrow5150]

Me too!! I'm an older guy and this woman is spot on!! We all wish we could find a Courtney in this world of toxic women and females(girls)!!!

[@glencochrane901]

Courtney you're a kind and decent person and for your age show a lot of wisdom. Bravo!!

[@ozzycortes]

Tiktok's show how rare Women like Courtney Ryan are out there.

[@alexanderzurba7680]

Courtney knows what she's talking about, she seems like a down to earth person, very nice, pretty too, and yes I understand the message in this video never go after girls just for their looks cause you know what they say, looks can be deceiving, and with beautiful people, they may seem beautiful on the outside, but ugly and toxic on the inside.

[@Jackthetraveller]

The problem today is that feminists use the lower vibrations of masculine energy and think they are feminine, men get destroyed and use the lower vibrations of feminine energy. And life for most men are all about competition you have to be the strongest all the time anyone who doesent can be strong all the time get destroyed by other men and society. If u can’t controll yourself you end up in jail or get destroyed by porn or drugs. And porn allso is made to make men feminine. Being healthy masculine is one of the hardest thing a man can do today and that Come with time and when you can overcome all challanges life throw at you. Today when i woke up it was 7pm on a saturday and went to work out right away. I work out every day, it is all about self discipline wich most men lack today like 80% lack it, i can controll my mind and my emotions, i have been free from drug and porn for a long time now and life is really awsome i get my dopamine healthy today i have been trough both back and arm,elbow and hand surgery the doctors told me i would never be able to walk normal or lift anything again my elbow is made out of screws and plates, don’t ever let anyone tell u what u can and can’t do. Today i can run and do pushups and pullups 1year after surgery💪 anything is possible you just gotta belive👍 the mind is so much more powerfull then we can imagine. Now im going for a run and do pushups and pullups in the park early a saturday morning, after that a cold shower. Porn destroy men it makes u have wrong tought som both women and sex while u support rape and humantradfiking. I know life can be lonely sometimes you don’t got 1 living human to even talk to and no one have ever listened to you your whole life while Nobody gives a fuc about u or what u feel while feminists are out there to destroy you. There is no other way then use discipline and become hard you can’t be soft if you want to survive when you get discipline life Will get better that is the only way for men to find healthy masculinity. If you have issues hit me up i Will do everything in my power to help you.

[@badmojjo]

Just a small correction. There are very few guys that are friends with women. It's the hormones that oppose a static friendship relationship and push things to escalate further. I only have one female friend, but I see her as a little sister now, but at one point I taken her into consideration for a relationship.

[@CitizenofDystopia]

As a guy one of the things I learned with time was just to be nice and not overthink things. Just be the way I totally am. I notice when girls just start playing games or act stupid. As soon as they do, I cut it off. I don't need this toxic crap. My length of dating someone is shorter but I've dated much nicer girls. Overall, it's less drama and more happy

[@chrialivest]

All of the negative feedback you provided about these videos, I completely agree. The biggest take away for me is what to look for to identify toxicity. I think the biggest key point you made was how toxic someone has to be to come up with these ideas or strategies. A lot of good takeaways. Thank you 🙏

[@benogidan]

New Subscriber here: Thank you so much for your content, it is a genuine source of fresh air for me. I turn it on your video when i want to relax. Even though i don't always agree with all points in all your videos I like the clarity in your arguments. In regards to this video, I really have no time for ladies playing games it turns me. right off. Once i recognise the fact a lady is playing games, i normally just go very cold and sometimes ghost, Some ladies need to realise that not all men should be treated with a broad brush.

[@juanpAAA2059]

Geez thank you so much for your videos. It really does help me to be aware.

[@CourtneyRyan]

So happy to help!

[@rickraw100]

Courtney I love your personality, very rare and hard to find these days.

[@markpetti2810]

Courtney your so compassionate and wise. I love it! More power to you and this channel!

[@RavenNest23]

I do like the way you break things down and your sense of empathy. Enjoyed the video.

[@jjhh320]

When I'm getting to know someone and they do things like call themselves toxic or petty, talk about their love of gossiping or using other people...I just casually nod and start talking about how every friendship/relationship I've seen based on those things, ended because of those things. Then I stop trying to get to know them

[@colmpullen4702]

I am grinning. The moment a woman brings in manipulative energy, I sense it and say goodbye to her. When with a woman I am there to learn about who she chooses to be and if that resonates with me (is enjoyable for me). If she is being dishonest and/or manipulative that cannot happen and there is no reason to spend any more time around her.

[@unkown34x33]

tik tok is actually super tiring... I never had it on my phone, and I never will but damn... the toxicity on that platform is bigger than anything I have ever seen. that first woman...she gotta be the worst one. I don't think she's lying :( bad parenting

[@MrCanadiansingh]

Read on for tips on how to respond to this type of behavior. According to me add some bonus points to apply on your life Avoid playing into their reality. ... Don't get drawn in. ... Pay attention to how they make you feel. ... Talk to them about their behavior. ... Put yourself first. ... Offer compassion, but don't try to fix them. ... Say no (and walk away) ... Remember, you aren't at fault. • mirror them and treat them same way and enjoy the drama

[@CourtneyRyan]

🙌🏼 except maybe not the last one 😂

[@guitarplayer1902]

I really enjoy your videos Courtney. I have gotten some help from the tips you provide in them. 👍.

[@airtrafficcontrol779]

I enjoy your honesty Courtney.... a breath of fresh air

[@sandrahind6855]

Everyone wants what our grandparents had- BUT everyone wants to be self-centred and toxic and not learn how to love the way love is truly intended.

[@Jackthetraveller]

The problem today is that feminists use the lower vibrations of masculine energy and think they are feminine, men get destroyed and use the lower vibrations of feminine energy. And life for most men are all about competition you have to be the strongest all the time anyone who doesent can be strong all the time get destroyed by other men and society. If u can’t controll yourself you end up in jail or get destroyed by porn or drugs. And porn allso is made to make men feminine. Being healthy masculine is one of the hardest thing a man can do today and that Come with time and when you can overcome all challanges life throw at you. Today when i woke up it was 7pm on a saturday and went to work out right away. I work out every day, it is all about self discipline wich most men lack today like 80% lack it, i can controll my mind and my emotions, i have been free from drug and porn for a long time now and life is really awsome i get my dopamine healthy today i have been trough both back and arm,elbow and hand surgery the doctors told me i would never be able to walk normal or lift anything again my elbow is made out of screws and plates, don’t ever let anyone tell u what u can and can’t do. Today i can run and do pushups and pullups 1year after surgery💪 anything is possible you just gotta belive👍 the mind is so much more powerfull then we can imagine. Now im going for a run and do pushups and pullups in the park early a saturday morning, after that a cold shower. Porn destroy men it makes u have wrong tought som both women and sex while u support rape and humantradfiking. I know life can be lonely sometimes you don’t got 1 living human to even talk to and no one have ever listened to you your whole life while Nobody gives a fuc about u or what u feel while feminists are out there to destroy you. There is no other way then use discipline and become hard you can’t be soft if you want to survive when you get discipline life Will get better that is the only way for men to find healthy masculinity. If you have issues hit me up i Will do everything in my power to help you.

[@carlosverde-datingtips7001]

It’s amazing how some of these women think. Yeah, money is important, but it can’t be the deciding factor for dating anyone. Because at the end of the day, money can’t bring you happiness - if you really think that, you’re sadly mistaken, and you’re fooling yourself. What really matters is how you feel about yourself, with or without money - because in the end, you can’t take it with you. What really matters is what you were able to accomplish while you were here on this planet, your legacy! If all you did was looking out for yourself the entire time you were here - you will not go peacefully when it’s time, you’re going to have lots of regrets, I promise you that! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

[@justanotheraccount8422]

It was really good to get an analysis about how they think. Do you have a TikTok too Courtney? I feel like you could reach a whole new audience that way.

[@aneki3070]

Woke up and can enjoy my cup of coffee in the morning with a great video from Courtney! Also quick question for anyone reading, it amazes me how many people I've talked to and my friend's girlfriends that say "yeah I'm friend's with my exes still" like hanging out and all while dating someone. General thoughts on this?

[@Didi-fr5ic]

It's wrong 😕 I am a female and I am not friends with my exes there is no need and if a woman is still friends with her ex, she will have no problem having sex with him and keep you around. It's a red flag run

[@BrittPearceWatches]

Courtney Ryan! The queen! 👑 always telling it how it is! 👏🏻❤️

[@trevor828nc]

Keep doing your thing Kourtney! Your mindset is awesome!

[@drip369]

Another great video I'm sure. Worked 6 days last week, helping a friend move today. Will watch later!

[@jaco7675]

I can’t watch many of these TicTok videos without feeling like I’ve got to take a shower to clean off some of the … toxic crap

[@ZUGTFO]

I watched this all the way through only because, as you stated, you went thought this HELLSCAPE so we need to join in the pain. LOL WOW . .I have no clue that young women did this in this day and age, but explains a lot of the behavior of the women I dated when I was in my 20's ;)

[@thirddimension9749]

Why women always think they are the ones who are giving chances ? Maybe he's the one who's giving u a chance ...