The Capacity to be ALONE is the Capacity to LOVE

[@urbansetter1]

Painful stuff. Takes years to learn self love when you come from trauma. I am getting there.

[@susanvandenbergh7276]

Indeed, but keep up the good work and thank, congratulate and bless yourself 100 times per day and also look at yourself in a mirror and say: I deeply, profoundly love, accept, appreciate and trust myself. And never beat yourself up for anything ! Love, courage and blessings, Susan

[@urbansetter1]

@@susanvandenbergh7276 Thank you for your kind words. I needed the encouragement. I hope you love yourself. Best in your life.

[@drew-shourd]

...especially when your parents parents parents had no clue, so naturally your parents parents and your parents knew nothing of this insight (I speak about my own family btw).....I am sooooooooo blessed to hear these things and MORE importantly share these videos with friends and family....this gentleman takes pieces of Buddhism, Taoism, Hinduism, Shamanism and more and calmly lays them out. in a peaceful format....so brilliant this cat is....

[@thirumalkumartv1461]

God bless🙏

[@oneness1119]

Im going through it too with abusive family. You're not alone

[@pointless8675]

7:57 _Your happiness is no one else's responsibility, and as long as you put that responsibility on someone else, not only is that selfish and unfair, but it's going to lead to disappointment every time._

[@Memegirl716]

So true. This is why I’m single until I learn to fully accept all of this. We are taught by movies, society, family toxic traits. It’s easier said then done sooo I think I will just marry myself. Because I’m fine with myself lol

[@patriciaking7892]

Goddess, you're very wise👍.

[@susanmoran5226]

I think I will marry myself too. Lol.

[@Memegirl716]

@@em6855 love is love. So I feel if they have good character go for it.

[@Memegirl716]

@@patriciaking7892 thank you love

[@nigelfoley6200]

I think you've made a very wise decision Goddess, I've been happily married to myself for 5 years now lol.

[@pollyholly1000]

People are removed from your life when you're ready to find out who you really are. True happiness is found in acceptance of what is. ♥️

[@lumb.2565]

It took so much heart break and pain to realize this 😔 I got married because I was pressured by my family, I was unhappy and afraid to leave. Now 24 years later I have realised that it's ok to leave, to be alone, to be free of judgement. Started divorce procedure and I am happy to finally be Me.

[@patriciaking7892]

Lum b, you're not alone👍.

[@aagyapalsingh3575]

Stay strong ❤️

[@kimkilgore148]

#staystrong

[@MegaJae]

You are not alone dear

[@Borinquena1973]

It gets easier and better. You are reborn.

[@gracesanity6314]

Yes. We are so programmed by family, society, movies, songs, to be miserable. Tough stuff truth. Tough to live the truth of what you say, but its sanity. Thank you.

[@drew-shourd]

The most beautiful of blossoms, grows threw the worst of environments" - d.s. ...which is why the lotus blossom has been so highly regarded to many ancient civilizations....ancient Egyptian and much more....

[@DOLFINOWOLF]

Grace.... great name btw;) PROGRAMED.... our ego our fears our unconscious hopes dreams ideas & Beliefs get TANGLED up with THEIR ego THEIR fears THEIR Unconscious HOPES DREAMS IDEAS & BELIEFS..... " i " find at 63 that the REASON a Sage is Wise 🦉 is due to LACK of OTHERS and in doing so one Avoids " THEIRs " so that You Can POLISH YOURself;) & noTangleMENTs;) I've never been More-HERE & in-Touch with my Deep Inner Self..... The Silence after 45 years of sharing space / being married is UNBELIEVABLY PHENOMENAL..... I can actually FEEL MySELF be more-connected to ME and it's Awesome... Now I did have to cut my moms sister brother daughter & son off BUT the SHANGRI-LA I've now Discovered is LIMITLESS......👍👍👍👍🦉

[@betterapproachtolife.motiv3265]

Truth is the hardest thing to live .. but brings the most joy

[@marciahenriquez4605]

Spiritual people love to be alone! It is needed for keeping a good balance in their lives, people that love themselves don't beg love, they give love because they are happy to share what they have.

[@sigrid3553]

Beautiful comment! ❤Thanks, I so much agree!

[@dianethomas7149]

It took me until the age of 50 that I understood this! Self worth is an inside job! Thank you!

[@Apanthertrappedinadogsworld]

I just came across your channel yesterday and I am finding a lot of comfort in your words. Thank you so much

[@ashleyswain276]

I feel the same.

[@SlumDawgSaint]

Ya good stuff

[@MakeDemocracyMagnificientAgain]

Yea, his words are like opium ;)

[@longstoryshort8657]

I am so thankful for his channel It's been helping me immensely

[@darinjames3313]

YES......Owner of a lonely Heart......Much better than a owner of a broken ❤.......WE came here alone.....WE leave that way too......Im learning more about being alone, year after year now. I ve learned I cant trust or depend on anyONE but me......and the stuff that gave me life.....The Universe shows me daily that Im really never alone. I truly want for nothing anymore but to have peace until I go back to where I came from...Materialism no longer matters....and superficial relationships are meaningless. So for now.....I look to my Body-Mind & Spirit to get me through this thing WE call life on 🌎.......Thank you Brother for creating these videos.....in the hopes of peace within......and then on 🌎....

[@carolmoore1038]

He's not at all saying you have to live without love or that you shouldn't Trust or shouldn't be in love. He's talking about how the fear of being alone prevents that. You will know you've reached a place of emotional maturity when you can give love and not be afraid how it's going to turn out, not be hurt if it doesn't work out the way that you want. And then what you need to do is find someone else who has emotional maturity that wants to give you love. That it's beautiful. Take it from someone who lived through many years of hurt and is now had 17 years of joy

[@darinjames3313]

@@numberone6266 its ok to feel alone. Its part of the process. Its where we find the depths of who we are....For some, its just temporary, until we find our place. For others, alone is their place. Im slowly entering again...I ve had several questions answered!!!.....ALL ALONE.........with Spirit.....You will too Sweetheart.....Take good care of your Body-Mind & Spirit......Adios

[@elisabethn7962]

Took me 50 years. I got it now and am much happier. Been alone for three years and love it and have more peace.

[@thabangnukeri6622]

I found this at a time I needed to hear it.

[@rosamorales-sanchez6801]

I decided today to start a new path forward in life to be alone and learn to love life unconditionally. Time to heal. Good luck to everyone who is taking this journey in life. We will find the inner peace in ourselves. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

[@sigrid3553]

❤

[@samantha5600]

Add to this being in abusive relationships. Its so important to become self actualized and feel whole, alone. I can now see all the ways I have contributed to codependency but I no longer NEED someone to validate my existence. All the love to those of you working on this. ❤

[@sigrid3553]

Thank you, I send you love ❤

[@mmgibson1]

I now feel reassured that it is quite okay for me to live alone and not be "in a relationship" with the big holidays about to descend upon us. I did already know that I was in the crowd of those that are authentic spiritually, but there are times when I am under such bombardment wherever I go about the whole Norman Rockwell fireplace scene with your loved ones during Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year's eve that I have to be reminded that I am doing all right by myself.

[@susanmoran5226]

You are doing right. The family around the tree thing for many is overrated. Normally , around this time of year I go on a retreat to a Buddhist monastery. It's great being with all those other single people. Happy to be single. Norman Rockwell, painted idealist paintings, some are very nice. But they are too perfect sometimes. Enjoy your freedom . Fly free little bird.

[@paulahensley5164]

I’m a traveling nurse - spending a lot of time alone. I think of it more as solitude. Thank you. ❤️

[@Bobapenguine]

Hope you're warm and safe ✨🌸

[@sunshinecompany1]

I hear you...🙂have been living like a hermit for almost 3 yrs now...overcoming fear of being alone. I have used relationships along with many other things to distract myself from unhealed pain.🙄 tired of running...and facing it was horrible... But not as bad as I thought it would be! I did NOT get permanently swallowed up by a big back abyss!😉

[@jkphsgme8b]

I’m so glad to hear this Susan. I am beginning to embark on this alone journey as well. There are still days where I feel utter terror at the thought.

[@sunshinecompany1]

@@jkphsgme8b sometimes I can only sit with it a few seconds before I have to distract myself...other times longer...and that's ok 🙂 learning new skills takes practice...it gets easier and easier!!🦋 be a kind and nurturing friend to yourself 💘

[@SantaCruzHappy1]

I am 61 and been single for three years. The first time in my life I am not looking for a partner. I am so happy and feel so FREE. I love who I am. I am still learning a lot about myself and am cleaning my own house.

[@semayildirimesquire3213]

Your wisdom is gold. Your voice so soothing💜 You calmed my spirit this morning. Thank you for being a blessing to all of us.

[@heidiholmes1549]

I suffer from abandonment issues. One of other things. 14 years ago I had cancer and went through treatment. Which led to my awakening. I had so many toxic people in my life. A lot of people that I loved me hurt me in very traumatic ways. I realized that I was giving so much to people with expectations. It came from a place of low self esteem and trauma from my childhood. Right now I'm trying to live on my own. It hasn't been easy. Especially with Covid. I seperated from my husband because I realized that I married him for the wrong reasons. There are some toxic things between us. I'm in serious trauma recovery program. Everything you said is so true. I'm trying to get through this lesson as best as I can. Thank you for your much needed wisdom. 🙏

[@RR-qu2oz]

Love and blessings ⭐

[@Lynne-28]

☀️🍀Love & Light🍀☀️

[@akhileshmagal]

This topic is a very tricky one. You rightly say love is all about giving without expecting anything in return. But what if our partner doesn't share the same ethic. What if you see that the partner is a constant taker, without any consideration for you and your well being? One may continue to 'love' the partner, but choose to separate because a relationship entails a shared agreement to 'be there for the other'. Think of it this way: Most parents love their children unconditionally - yes - but they expect the children to behave themselves - contribute around the house - study well and so on. Love is unconditional only when there is no 'other person'. Example: I love Beethoven's 9th Symphony. Love is conditional in the world (people, relationships, events). Example: I love my parents, but I expect to be treated right. Be careful of this 'unconditional love' business - it might do more harm than good to you. It might mislead you to believe that one has to constantly give, accept and be emotionally abused. Standing up for yourself and saying no is also self love.

[@rajashreechadha6]

Nobody other than God can truly love you unconditionally. Those who have a sense of God--spiritually from within--not organised religion pushed from the outside--such people have an easier time and are indeed blessed. But all of us seek His love, we are just looking for it in the wrong place. At some time in life, we are guided to the right direction. All those people who are watching this video are being guided by a higher power, whether the know it or not.

[@thepowerofyourtrueself4794]

Yes, I understand your issue here, as I used to give unconditionally to other people with my acts of kindness and majority were taken for granted not giving anything back, only thinking of their own selfish interests and when I needed their help with something they would turn their back on me - I had to learn to set some boundaries around myself and expect equal energy exchange, meaning you just don't give and give and give without actually thinking of your own needs, otherwise it becomes abuse, but, I understand what the author of the videos was trying to say and its overall message and its value. Best wishes for the future 🙏❤

[@wanderingneone]

spot on I rather be completely alone, then being in a lonely relationship :-)

[@MC-dz8be]

I love you so much for making sense of the confusion i feel for getting and giving in relationships. I need to fully love myself without conditions before i expect to be with someone else, thank you for instilling that in me with more clarity and understanding

[@carolmoore1038]

This is true totally, but also we can't continue to attempt to have relationships with people who are not at that point ready able willing to give love we often get involved with people not deserving. And I'm not saying it's not okay to love those people we should love everyone, but if you give everything of yourself to someone who's going to give you nothing that is not a healthy relationship. It sounds like you're already in the place where you're ready to give love, what you need to do is find a partner who is emotionally mature town and we'll give love returns your romantic love and can give the way that you do. Then you're in a healthy relationship.

[@MC-dz8be]

@@carolmoore1038 oh for sure, I feel like true love starts with yourself first. It's not always there so I do all that I can to find a balance of changing what I can and accepting what I can't. But no matter what I will always care for myself as if I were an adult looking after a child and I think being in a relationship is no different. I just have to be honest with them and hopefully they are willing to give and work with me as much as I do for them. All and all relationships are meant to help me understand myself more like starting a business you take the risk because you think you have something to offer which could really benefit others and yourself. Otherwise keep trying to refine it until you know how much your worth and know that you won't settle or sell for less than it's worth to make it.

[@rajashreechadha6]

So so true. After finding my spiritual path after 25 years of being in an abusive marriage I just love being alone. That's because God has always been with me, my internal conversations are with Him. And His love is absolutely beautiful and unconditional. Thankyou for your wisdom and each of us comes to this point of inner peace sometime on their journey through life. Or in another lifetime...

[@SKRithvik]

This is probably the best video on KZbin man !

[@Borinquena1973]

Want to love this video a million times!

[@mayurgarde1511]

Listening you is very peaceful, all worries & fears go way while watching the video...

[@michaelshelden6597]

This is extremely vital in parenthood when cultivating holistically healthy and happy children. I suffered greatly due to the fact that someone such as my mother who was rarely shown love from family due to losing her parents at t years old and being raised by her siblings and was considered a burden. So it is a cycle that we keep passing down from generation to generation. It has affected every level of my life experience and still processing and transmuting in order to be a healthy self reliable person that is capable of becoming my true self and not allowing it to carry over into future generations. That what a lot of us our doing during our path to awakening. No one's to blame but best believe that you're responsible for healing and ending the cycle especially if it's effecting your life as well as the lives of others negatively! I can see a book in the making brother. Thanks for your light!

[@danny-li6io]

That makes a lot of sense to me. I have had a similar experience with my father since early childhood. I have always harbored feelings of inadequacy and that I am a nuisance, or as he might say, “ a liability, not an asset”. It takes a long time to confront and overcome these feelings. I don’t have children, but I applaud you for trying to heal and overcome AND break that cycle in your lineage!

[@michaelshelden6597]

@@danny-li6io yeah its a very challenging responsibility but we are not what we were told and almost everything we are subject to was created to keep us distracted and powerless. Such as alcohol nicotine and the worst one sugar. Because we feed it to our kids and it affects them in their early years of growth. Sugar is one molecule away from mimicking cocaine. That a idea of why its addictive and no surprise of why it's in 98% of food and beverage products. We live in a world that id like to label so people can get an better understanding but I know how powerful words are and my intentions aren't to add any more fear into the collective. Hope you over and thanks for sharing your story. God bless you that his son is here to assist the warriors of the light. 🙏

[@cliffnielsen5380]

I love you Brother ❤ 🙏 Thank you! I so needed to hear your healing wisdom and guidance this morning. Peace

[@thepowerofyourtrueself4794]

So valuable the message of "self love and acceptance of self company and finding inner strength from it" - I would only add, that based on my own painful experiences, "giving unconditionally" in a relationship or to other people in general needs to be balanced, otherwise it becomes an abuse. I used to give and give and give unconditionally, which was often taken for granted by self interest and when I needed their help, majority would turn their backs on me - I realised that you do need to think of your own needs, you cannot just putting others above yourself and neglecting yourself in the process whether its emotional or physical. That does not mean you are insecure and needy, but you love yourself fully and from that space you deserve equall energy exchange, you give unconditional love, but you also deserve to receive that unconditional love from another, you don’t want to become someone who "people pleasing" having no regards for its own needs.

[@Moonlight_blue3]

Thank you sincerely. 🙏✨🔆

[@martins8761]

You are describing attachment theory. Namely the anxious-avoidant trap. I suggest everyone resonating with this learn attachment theory. It is easy to understand and fascinating.

[@Diana-gt1rv]

This is so true! You have to embrace and enjoy being alone with yourself and accept yourself as you are before being able to love somebody else. Love is about giving without seeking something in return. This authentic or unconditional love is the best basis for a happy and long lasting relationship. I myself was lucky to have found unconditional love which is such a wonderful thing. 🥰

[@sandybeebe9149]

I LOVE MY ALONE ..I am grateful for my space and my privacy. Its peaceful and quiet . No arguments, no expectations , no demands. Alone I can be my self. impress myself ...

[@KJ-pu8dw]

Self love just isn’t a realistic prospect for me. Instead I focus on self acceptance. Also I have found that being lonely doesn’t mean you are alone. For 5 years I have been single and not lonely, unlike the last 4 years of my marriage. I reflect on how my childhood traumas and onwards have afflicted my relationships and I focus on fixing myself into a better man.

[@marklawson2871]

Your mini satsangs are so lovely. 🙏

[@1980kebab]

It's as though you speak from personal experience. You have just described my life. I'm now 40. It took losing my 'soul mate' for me to finally see the truth. A year spent alone, reflecting, exploring, being up and then being down, has finally lead me to a place of inner peace and an abundance of deep and meaningful connections. Everything you said is absolutely spot on. The fear of being alone caused me to bounce from one destructive relationship to another- not anymore. Yes, I'm still single, but that's ok. It's an opportunity, a gift, to be able to understand myself better with the knowledge that he will arrive in my life exactly when he's meant to. I won't have to beg, chase, convince or buy the true love of another. It'll be the most natural and equal connection with an unconditional love, understanding and respect for one another. 🙏 Thank you. 🙌

[@kr9664]

Thank you for these great insights. Much appreciated :)

[@AliClaire72]

This is me.. 🙁working on my self, learning to love myself

[@shortycareface9678]

You perfectly described the conditions of the time before my relationship ended. Only now I can see this. I never believed I would fall into the trap of a co-dependent relationship, but I did. Maybe partially because it is idealized in general society, but I think we both moved too much into fear in the end. Now I am glad to have the opportunity to work on myself independently of a partner.

[@noloyisomaningi516]

There's so much comfortability in being alone. So much peace. I'm loving this solo ride🙏😍🙌

[@deborahbarry9421]

Your words are so true. I know many people I have come across on my path are terribly afraid of being alone for any length of time. They asked me why I am not lonely while being alone, I simply tell them I enjoy my own company, she is wise, she is funny, she is creative, always trying to fill her time productively. And this is what I love about myself. So I tell them what the old monk once said, make a friend of yourself and you will never be alone...These words are true namaste

[@brendangolledge8312]

I was in a relationship once with a woman who was insecure like this. She was incredibly nice most of the time, but on a fairly regular basis would do totally crazy things that stressed me out. She was also very accusing when I failed to meet one of her unspoken expectations. I felt forced to break up with her eventually. If she had just been chill, I would have been totally happy with her. Edit: I tried to teach her some stuff about humility which I found personally useful, but I think she could not understand the difference between humility and insecurity, and it made her even crazier.

[@directedby100]

This dude is sooo laid back. His insights are great, and very true. Desperation, attachment, are toxic to a healthy relationship. The solution? Learn to be comfortable in your own skin, alone, communing with the great silence. Love comes, strangely, when we've reached such a state of completeness. Pushing for a relationship before that stage is reached is an act of will. D. H. Lawrence describes this very well, that willfulness is anathema to love. Yes, embrace being alone, get very relaxed and accepting of that state, and almost prefer it, then love almost magically arrives.

[@planetmchanic6299]

You don't have to look for love when it's where your coming from.

[@jonjones9789]

Very good video.... well done.... god bless you

[@alanamartin7]

Very helpful. I agree completely. Thanks for sharing!

[@AwakenInsight]

You are most welcome. I'm glad you found it helpful and I'm happy to be of service.

[@MFMc2]

I think what keeps us stuck in unhealthy relationships is our fear of the unknown..we put others before our own happiness even knowing this we are still frozen to begin the journey to freedom..these videos are balm to those who need a jolt in the right direction..so thanks a million for helping us see we do matter and it's our job to make the first move which I do feel is the most difficult

[@gardenbun]

This should be taught in families and in school when we're young. I didn't get this concept until I was well into my 30s and wasn't able to fully practice and live in this truth in my day-to-day life until my 40s. It was a two-way street: my parents had high expectations to earn their love and in turn, I created expectations for all my friendships and romantic relationships and 'burned' through people who disappointed me and failed to live up to them. I would also jump through hoops for certain relationships in order to acquire their 'love.'

[@amandamackenzie7233]

I'm 34 and Ive been transformed by the philosophical concepts have caused an deeply spiritual awakening a journey I feel like I've been on this path my whole life and I'm at the edge of the unknown abyss again for the millionth time looking back at all that's happened in my life im haunted by some old truths and I never thought I would be able to let go of the trauma and looking back I can see clearly defined lessons that I learnt the hardest way and I guess I want to express my gratitude that even tho I didn't have the ability to do this growing up I find deep solice in the fact I have words of life wisdom here to comfort me in hard times

[@VeryStupid4547]

It's unbelievably refreshing to see an american man so in touch with things on this level. #namaste

[@whyareyoulikethis557]

I cried while I listened to you. You made me realize how many problems I have.😔

[@mayfernig5094]

don't worry be happy me too. Your not in this alone.

[@Borinquena1973]

Realizing it is amazing! Denying it is a problem. At least we can work on improving.

[@whyareyoulikethis557]

@@Borinquena1973 Aman 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@Borinquena1973]

Just what I needed today. Coming out of an emotionally abusive narcissistic relationship can damage your view and acceptance of real love and a good relationship. The self sabotage is real and you are so used to feeling pain w love that its hard to accept a good guy. But healing is so important so you don’t need another person to feel complete. This is a process for sure. This is a video I put in my “play daily” playlist. Thank you!!!!!

[@johnbolter4369]

I needed to hear this . Thank you 🙏

[@wendyboeree7873]

Truth bombs here! Thank you for this video

[@lynzara]

Tell it like it is, "Own it" It's what I needed to hear.

[@fireeconomicswithjt6521]

The paradox of thought. The mind creating the very problem we seek a solution to. When the mind is the matter of who I really am (the soul) I will always suffer. Release suffering, release excessive and obsessive thinking. Much love, Namaste

[@betterapproachtolife.motiv3265]

Wow .. i love the statement regarding being needy “it is all about you” .. how true

[@maysaraali5772]

so grateful to come across this channel! thanks god!

[@anabracika3822]

Really get, what you are saying. Thank you

[@Aseser-8]

You have the gift of speech. Your words resonate with me and I’m glad I could listen

[@esotericsolitaire]

So many people cannot be alone with their own thoughts. It is too painful for them.

[@sunshinecompany1]

I have forced myself to be alone for almost 3 yrs...terrifying 🙄 but relationships are just more distractions from myself and unhealed baggage 😉

[@esotericsolitaire]

@@sunshinecompany1 yes, we have to have unencumbered time to self reflect and heal.

[@carolmoore1038]

Yes what were really talking about here can be called emotional maturity. And you can't have emotional maturity until you have faced yourself your life your past your own demons and dealt with them. Because if you don't you're just going to act on repressed emotions. You may not even know why you behave the way you do sometimes. Once you do that you're in a place where you're capable of being in a relationship, but then it's also key and he did mention this, to choose a partner who is also emotionally mature. If you are both emotionally mature, and you both have loved you're going to be so busy trying to give to one another and that you don't worry about taking and you don't have to worry about it because you're going to be giving to each other. if one or more of you has not reached that point your focus is on what you need because you are not filling your own needs. You are perfect putting the burden of them on someone else which is unfair.

[@esotericsolitaire]

@@carolmoore1038 we must all eventually do our shadow work to attain new levels. Unfortunately, most people long for justification of their dark sides.

[@vxidwvlkxr]

As a recovering codependent and SLD, I think I will probably never have a healthy, loving and happy relationship. I'm sharply anti-social and yet I absolutely despise being alone, regardless of the fact that I spend the vast majority of my time alone anyway. I definitely don't "love" myself, I simply don't know how. The way I generally don't love the human species as a whole probably plays a sizable factor in that. I simply can't imagine loving someone like myself and quite honestly I don't think I will ever reach that point where I'll be able to look in the mirror and say, honestly, "I love YOU, man in the mirror.", it all just sounds like wishful thinking. Without someone, I feel empty. Even with someone, that much doesn't change by very much if at all. I am simply existentially miserable, with no light at the end in sight. But as cold as the nights are in my bed by my self, I would rather be alone than be with someone who plays with my heart and my head, someone who wants to play with me and then discard me. And, going further than that, I would above all probably just rather to euthanize myself so I don't have to fuckin' ruminate and worry about any of it anymore. I'm so fucking tired.

[@freiwieinvogel]

Would you consider seeking help from a professional? Would you consider the possibility of a chemical imbalance in your brain preventing you from operating correctly, as a well tuned machine? Would you put the effort to fix what there’s to fix in order to operate correctly so you can become a beautiful man you can fall in love with? You are the only responsible for your life and to live better you shall take action. Do not seek the light at the end of the tunnel, become it. I wish you to succeed! You will if you have the will! I know because I have been there 🙏

[@storeymark]

I am only 5 minutes into the talk and so much of what he says resonates with me. Reflecting on what he is saying, I realize that I treasure the time I have with myself. However, this wasn't always the case. I sincerely believe what has helped me embrace my time by myself is my daily meditation practice. My practice has taught me how to be comfortable with my own thoughts and subsequently be comfortable alone by myself.

[@Lightknight1991]

Thank you infinitely beautiful soul! ❤️❤️❤️

[@Manbat11]

I love my own company, that's not to say I don't like being with others or that I have felt loneliness because I have. Thank you for this message it really helps in understanding love from another perspective. Gratitude 🙏

[@omnistpagan3282]

I have always struggled with being an asocial person, but deep down I am happy being on my own. I went through a brief period where I felt like I needed a relationship because of comments others made and it didn’t work because I wasn’t being my authentic self and I was not confident in my social skills. I am getting better at it but I know I have to appreciate myself if I ever want healthy friends or relationships. Your channel has helped me to better appreciate being a solitary person in a world that sees solitude as strange.

[@zirconk9994]

You're absolutely right. Sometimes in life we do make decisions out of fear to avoid loneliness. But you don't know that you're actually putting yourself in hell.

[@ChristiansPrayingTogether]

Many gratitudes for this helpful talk ❤️ I agree 100% - thank you 😊

[@RubyRedDTillyLiQuiDiamOnZ]

Who is this genius 🤔 I thought this the entire time I entered a relationship and always had that gut feeling that in today's society LOVE IS SOLELY A SELFISH ACT THAT I DON'T WANT TO BE A PART OF UNTIL I FIND AN ALIKE MIND❗Yes, keep dropping those diamonds on us!!#THANKYOU

[@Soulwander818]

I really do love and appreciate the universe for sending these beautiful angelic beings/ guru/teachers my way. You all have no idea how blessed I am to encounter you all. You all genuinely dont know how much love I have for you

[@melissamattair8189]

Wow! I watch these type videos all the time.Waiting on someone else's words, to reach me.This video made me see how defective I am.Thank you

[@lauramazoch4552]

Love your knowledge. Being alone reveals so much in ourselves. Thank you so much for sharing. I’ve sabotaged many relationships and realize it. It’s hard to deal with the fear and resolve it. I recognize I even sabotage my own healing...lol. It really is crazy but at least I’m aware.

[@Ellenweiss1]

Wow......this insight is so powerful for me. I realize the dynamic that happened at the end of my last relationship. And although....I'm sure that no matter what kind of behavior I might have displayed that he would have left. But I can more understand some of his behaviors. And also realize how unconscious my panic and insecurity were toward the end. And realizing that this was a general panic and insecurity....and not all about him. Thank you for your videos! I just found you recently and I think they are some of the most honest and insightful here on youtube....so wonderful and appreciated!!

[@alasam957]

You are amazing 💖🙏🏻

[@ms94895]

Now I understand something that I couldn't put into words before. I can't find a partner from a place of fear. I have to face this fear myself - no one is coming to save me or make it all better.

[@drew-shourd]

Incredibly brilliant insights here friend....amazing intuition and two thumbs up on the production of these videos....I really dig the P.O.V. changes between breaths/thoughts and passages...it instills flow (Taoism) and a kind of interactive edge as well..keeps the watchers eyes focused (by being made to re-focus) and not as straining as watching a fixed camera position.....brilliant.

[@FancyRavenmoon]

Thank goodness someone is coming from a beautiful place! In exactly explaining how I wanted to talk about relationships!!

[@jamesjohn1850]

Thank you for sharing sch beautiful understanding. Peace to you!

[@warwickwestonwrigful]

Once I embraced detachment and acceptance my whole world changed and I had a new perception of life and a new level of awareness.

[@edwintepuendikum3527]

Thanks for sharing your words of wisdom 🙏🏿🙌🏿

[@marymadalenem2351]

Beautiful! We are really never alone.when we are with ourselves there is always love around us. When eyes are open we then see. The capacity to love is innate with in us. We can choose fear or we can choose love. Acceptance of ones self. What a beautiful experience. The capacity to love! Thank you! Many Blessings !

[@lolo-cz3yk]

One of the best so far in my journey towards spirituality

[@titussteenhuisen3822]

You are very alone but have to learn that your are worth receiving love, good analysis - find joy in yourself. Your thoughts are all there is, think loving thoughts, you are in charge.

[@PeaceDayCortez]

Thank you I really needed this!

[@martab5742]

Thank you so much. Your word comfort me...teach me how to deal my own fear.. no more fear to be alone..

[@peternall6566]

Hello :0) I am a subscriber and love surviver and a big fan of your work. I have to be honest and say that some of what you are talking about in this video isnt how everyone feels.. I'm open to anyone wanting to debate my thoughts. Lots of love Pete xxx

[@neelk18]

I truly feel you are a Sahajyogi🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 First time I feel that these are my true absolute innermost feelings in your words👌👌👌👌👌👌👌Thanks 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@officialalmina]

I started to write a book. It really really helped me with the loneliness i felt from time to time

[@mindfulkayaker7737]

Yes, I agree, The more I feel that I share my being with all creatures of the universe the more I want to be alone. Seems to be contradictory but in fact is the result of feeling the presence of God in every thing.

[@Cecebear22]

I agree. It is inner peace and a sign having found our internal inner completeness.

[@eclipseviolet5535]

Got dumped 2 days before thanksgiving and I found you last night and havent stopped listening to your words.

[@betterapproachtolife.motiv3265]

This video is really good.. in the past i have struggled with being alone .. now i find that the times of solitude give me perspective and insight .. and yes the capacity to love more fully

[@Sweet_potato402]

I would suggest to be honest with yourself and look deep within when doing so.When I done this I found myself subconsciously looking for a love interest to replace my former one whom I think manipulated me(basically what I think was my ego, trying to look as though I don't need her anymore or appearing as though I don't care at all in front of her). This left me with a lot of anxiety constantly trying so hard to look better without her. But now I will be honest with myself and realize that I still do somewhat care and that I don't need a replacement or to appear a certain way. Rather I will just focus on what I truly what put of life

[@narmeshjain4934]

Thanks dear for creating and uploading such a knowledgeable video. God bless you.

[@MissPrissy6688]

True words spoken here. Thank you.🙏

[@geoffreyjones2872]

You really nailed it.Thankyou.This was very helpful.

[@steveelam2310]

Not comparing my journey to those i see around me is key,a life partner isnt for all,it can allow me to serve and help others where a committed relationship may not

[@cheerfulsoul3055]

I have spent the last couple of years getting to the bottom of relationship drama. In just 20 min you have summarised everything I have learnt from a variety of teachings...I'm sharing this video now with the friends and fellows I've made in this journey. It's a great fastrack! Blessings to you for this insightful video.

[@lisagouldson8373]

i have come from Trauma & i have come a long way from the chains of pain i am creating a safe space 💯❤️🥰

[@ambikabhatt6402]

Along with becoming comfortable with being alone, we also need to learn the self in all its imperfection. That I feel is a big step towards really finding a fulfilling relationship. If you don't love all your parts, truly, without any judgement, we won't atttract that kind of love in our life.