How to Be Happy Every Day: It Will Change the World | Jacqueline Way | TEDxStanleyPark

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7 жыл бұрын

The World Happiness Report states “Over 1 billion adults suffer from anxiety and depression.” How do we get to happy? Jacqueline Way, Founder of www.365give.ca shares a secret to happiness so simple a 3 - year old can do it. Jacqueline is a mother of three boys and social good activist dedicated to changing the world 1 give, 1 day at a time. You will learn through her powerful story how your body is hard-wired for giving. Researchers from all over the world have been studying the science and physiological of giving for decades. They’ve discovered giving makes you happy, makes you high, is our bodies natural “Fountain of Youth” and reduces stress. Her inspirational journey with her son and thousands of children will inspire you start a daily giving habit that will make you happy and change the world.
Jacqueline Way is the founder of www.356give.ca a charitable organization dedicated to educating, empowering, and inspiring children to change the world "one give, one day at a time." You can reach Jacqueline at jacquelineway365give@gmail.com
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@johncassell2128
@johncassell2128 4 жыл бұрын
I want to give respect to everyone who watched this who knows they’re not happy and wants to make a change in themselves.
@nunyabidnazz2311
@nunyabidnazz2311 4 жыл бұрын
John Cassell how nice of you!! I also want to tell you that one simple, caring, comment like yours...can change someone’s whole day! Thank you for being so thoughtful and genuinely sweet! You have a great day John!
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 4 жыл бұрын
Me too John! Most people that find us are searching for happiness. SOme easy road that will suddenly change everything for them but happiness takes time to build inside yourself. It has to be a daily practice and make it a priority in your life every day. We send everyone love who is looking. Thank you so much for taking the time and wish you a beautiful day.
@jessabelle2153
@jessabelle2153 4 жыл бұрын
thank you. This shows one simple comment can change a persons perspective and mood.
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 4 жыл бұрын
@@nunyabidnazz2311 Agree!
@ReLLaKaT316
@ReLLaKaT316 4 жыл бұрын
Respect my friend
@ellaallen5065
@ellaallen5065 4 жыл бұрын
It breaks my heart that almost everyone who watched this video needed to search up how to be happy. 🥺💕
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 4 жыл бұрын
I actually see it as good news Ella. People are realizing they aren't happy and want to move towards things that resonate with them on how to increase their happiness. It worries me more that people aren't even aware of it and aren't looking for ways to increase their personal happiness. If the 1 billion people that are suffering so much in our world all worked towards inner happiness what a shift in the world we would see. This is only a very small percentage that has found this talk. We so appreciate the time you took and I hope this conversation resonated with you how you can add happiness to your life every day. Have a beautiful day.
@christina6770
@christina6770 4 жыл бұрын
This was just on the recommended list because I've watched other tedx talks. Watched it all and I'm glad I did. I am going to do the 365 give challenge with my family!!
@maryjoybolivar4900
@maryjoybolivar4900 4 жыл бұрын
Inspiring speech yet being misunderstood by some commenters in here. We shouldnt take it in literal way, however, this could be an icing on the cake in terms of inspiration. Just saying though☺️
@jamesneary7561
@jamesneary7561 4 жыл бұрын
I was 30 seconds away from shoving a knife in my throat I’m not kidding idk I just idk how it got like this
@jamescrisvivas5554
@jamescrisvivas5554 4 жыл бұрын
😭
@phalakstrangerstory
@phalakstrangerstory 2 жыл бұрын
List of things that we can give/offer - A smile to a stranger - Seat to an oldie - Hug to someone sad - Good wishes to a patient - Food to needy - positive vibes to a negative person Please share more.
@ety3144
@ety3144 2 жыл бұрын
-mentor struggling youth -teach your trade to those struggling for free -lend an ear to those that need it -become an accountability partner for those improving their lives -spend time with elderly
@binay413963
@binay413963 2 жыл бұрын
Help people realise that sadness is what we create not what exists A similar version of what the guy abive said
@user-es9kf8wy3e
@user-es9kf8wy3e Жыл бұрын
Kind words
@alexandraozomma1449
@alexandraozomma1449 Жыл бұрын
Positive vibes to a negative person...that's 👍
@dipaksinhjadav3033
@dipaksinhjadav3033 Жыл бұрын
Give our time. Listen to him/her. Sympathise with people. Send silent gratitudes everyday before you sleep, who have helped you, made you smile etc...
@brandonlouis1839
@brandonlouis1839 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like I’m at an all time low right now. And anyone who’s watching this and sees this and feels the same just know if I can stay strong so can you. I love you♥️
@jitteryj7565
@jitteryj7565 Жыл бұрын
Same here man. I hope you are better tho ❤️
@kron277
@kron277 Жыл бұрын
Same here hope you guys are better
@astrogyal2334
@astrogyal2334 Жыл бұрын
I love you too. 💚
@yuichicowles7915
@yuichicowles7915 Жыл бұрын
hey broski, hope you've been doing well!
@YOUSEF-gl7zd
@YOUSEF-gl7zd 5 жыл бұрын
Can't believe I am so desperate that I searched how to be happy
@ITSLIZZ111
@ITSLIZZ111 4 жыл бұрын
Same oof
@ella.Madisonnn
@ella.Madisonnn 4 жыл бұрын
Me too:( like actually
@chisalachewe
@chisalachewe 4 жыл бұрын
YOUSSEF MAMDOUH me too😔
@rajendrakumar2801
@rajendrakumar2801 4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@sarasantana1395
@sarasantana1395 4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@brodyszone157
@brodyszone157 4 жыл бұрын
I just want to feel happy again. Like when I was a kid I woke up happy now I roll out of bed looking for an excuse to keep living. Wish I cld just be.
@lucka_0709
@lucka_0709 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, exactly.
@babyshakesofficial2740
@babyshakesofficial2740 4 жыл бұрын
You are an awesome person!!! It will get better, start with a positive mindset while their are many negative things in the world, you should try to focus on the positive 🤟
@talhasabir541
@talhasabir541 4 жыл бұрын
Spoke my words
@dp110597
@dp110597 4 жыл бұрын
You got this! ❤❤❤
@sevenswords8781
@sevenswords8781 4 жыл бұрын
If your not living for your purpose you'll not be happy, serving the self dwelling on the self over thinking about the self is all recipes for anxiety. God created to Love and serve.... that;s the key to life. I hope you find this truth and wake up knowing your loved and are just a little lost in the world because the world teaches us to be selfless and unhappy.
@Bitchdlight
@Bitchdlight 2 жыл бұрын
Hey you, who is going through a tough time, you’re not alone. It’s okay, breathe and take it slow. It’ll get better. ❤️
@ITCONTENTS
@ITCONTENTS Жыл бұрын
Very greatful 💕😭
@historybuffs171
@historybuffs171 Жыл бұрын
I believe you
@millymoon6025
@millymoon6025 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. It helped me
@florenceasmr2442
@florenceasmr2442 10 ай бұрын
💖
@Kinsugi
@Kinsugi 2 ай бұрын
This made me cry
@jordo6900
@jordo6900 2 жыл бұрын
It’s going to get better to everybody reading this! Whatever your going through you got it! I pray you find your happiness and I wish the best for you
@i2harry
@i2harry 3 жыл бұрын
For anyone who sees this message, I can’t change your past, but I wish you a happy day :)
@xxgames3605
@xxgames3605 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you i needed this sm💕😭
@tommythedog3009
@tommythedog3009 3 жыл бұрын
Love you ❤
@shneber6735
@shneber6735 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks i needed that
@javi7602
@javi7602 3 жыл бұрын
blessings to you and yours
@someonesomeone25
@someonesomeone25 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I seem incapable of having a happy life.
@iliarishere1223
@iliarishere1223 3 жыл бұрын
The reason why we are sad is because we always worry about the negative things and how to fix them rather than thinking about the positive things in life.
@sjane9199
@sjane9199 3 жыл бұрын
You know me
@sali9821
@sali9821 3 жыл бұрын
That's a great idea.
@Tiago13337
@Tiago13337 3 жыл бұрын
Wow so true. Ty
@uvwuvw-ol3fg
@uvwuvw-ol3fg 3 жыл бұрын
Seems like inherent optimism bias and terror management theory will always help regardless of ideologies such as antinatalism based on consent.
@colonelfrogs
@colonelfrogs 2 жыл бұрын
thats a catch all that doesn't apply to as many people as you think
@jugrajbahia1069
@jugrajbahia1069 3 жыл бұрын
5.5M people watched this video to know how to be happy. An undeniable reality of this era.
@pramodkannada3713
@pramodkannada3713 3 жыл бұрын
searching for happy means you are not happy at the moment. Searching something is a neverending process. be happy at present.
@user-sr2yu8om5d
@user-sr2yu8om5d 3 жыл бұрын
but lets be honest... we've all been sad and searched for ''how to happy''
@10ON10
@10ON10 Жыл бұрын
*Thank you for helping make the world a better place to live in*
@vaibhavphuloria4059
@vaibhavphuloria4059 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, we live in a society where we have to seach how to be happy. Congrats, we made it.
@brodyszone157
@brodyszone157 4 жыл бұрын
Yep I'm here too trying to remember what it is to b happy just happy. I'm 38 and forgot
@vaibhavphuloria4059
@vaibhavphuloria4059 4 жыл бұрын
@@brodyszone157 we think that we could really be happy when we were kids right now, I'm 18, and this is what we all think probably you too, even when we would be 80 years old we would think we should've enjoyed in our 30's and 20's, but now i think we either enjoy our whole life or live our life miserably. We should cherish every moment. And ik to know that we came here finding this video, but personally i think we have to find it ourself.
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 4 жыл бұрын
Good news Vaibhav - you nailed it in your last comment. You can search for happy videos all you want but it comes from you. The great news is you are recognizing you aren't happy and you want something different. This is the great thing about our bodies and brains. If you need to get to that feeling go and give, be grateful. When you get a taste of how it feels you will want more. The more moments you get the more you want and the more you will know from the inside this is exactly what life is meant to be. You get to choose every single day you wake up. Choose happy. Say it to yourself in the mirror every morning. Happiness is a choice and if you need some help getting there go out and give. Then you have happy and meaning. COngrats you did make it and you are on your way. Every day we are all on our way.
@poha9514
@poha9514 4 жыл бұрын
I am searching for happiness in my pain wow 🙂
@kalboff1482
@kalboff1482 3 жыл бұрын
@@vaibhavphuloria4059 one of my fears, ending up, not enyoying life. Then why do I life. You are 18 as well? How do you handle life? I am about your age and now have to choose what to study on university, whitout knowing who I am and what I want to be. So afraid of ending up in a job or a life, I don't like.
@susankaren5500
@susankaren5500 4 жыл бұрын
Gratefulness is the secret to happiness. Once we all realize how incredibly lucky we are to even be alive on this planet and stop comparing ourselves to others, true happiness will find us
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 4 жыл бұрын
So agree "I love Pewds" It's part of giving - , gratitude, compassion, kindness. When we fill ourselves with gratitude it is the time we can fill others. Your happy and you bring others happiness. Thank you so much for the time with us and your wisdom. Have a beautiful day.
@johnjames6717
@johnjames6717 4 жыл бұрын
This. 100% agree
@charlee11127
@charlee11127 4 жыл бұрын
Couldn't of said it better myself, spot on 😊
@user-ui7tn1fq2b
@user-ui7tn1fq2b 4 жыл бұрын
I’m not lucky to be on this planet, I’m unlucky. I wish I could give up my place to someone else
@susankaren5500
@susankaren5500 4 жыл бұрын
KpopTea But you need to ask yourself why. Maybe you DO know why you are unhappy but ask yourself what are you doing not to be?What are you doing to heal yourself? And most importantly remember that there’s a reason why you were born on a specific time at a specific place and not someone else. You have a purpose and you are important. There’s a reason you were put in this earth and not another person in your place. I know for me my purpose is to help. I love philanthropy, etc. What’s worse? Decide why are you important to this world
@florahe6785
@florahe6785 3 жыл бұрын
Im a full time college student with a full time job, I feel so tired and exhausted all the time, but I know no one can’t resonate with my feeling and probably no one cares enough to. It’s hard to be happy and positive sometimes when I have to work everyday. Sometimes, I wonder where and when the end is.
@Giovanni-vn8ew
@Giovanni-vn8ew 3 жыл бұрын
learn to embrace the grind and focus on what you're fighting for instead of how hard the fight is, the grind is forever
@snoozyq9576
@snoozyq9576 3 жыл бұрын
@@Giovanni-vn8ew that's so depressing 😅
@gm2161
@gm2161 2 жыл бұрын
Don’t do what you won’t make you happy
@tiyanablake2534
@tiyanablake2534 2 жыл бұрын
I know what you mean. I have been in your shoes. I graduate in November and I feel so proud because I had to do it and now I am finish. I know how you feel but when you have accomplished the goal at the end you will be so happy. Exercise and eat properly. It give you more energy and positivity. I also live on dorm and was very active involve in activities. Those activities have me joy because I would connect with friends and dorm mate. It does get better keep pushing forward 💪. You can do it.
@florahe6785
@florahe6785 2 жыл бұрын
@@tiyanablake2534 thank you ☺️
@davib.6343
@davib.6343 2 жыл бұрын
I almost cried watching this, but I don't like to cry, so i hold my tears lol. I totally agree with what she said! One day I was coming back from school to my home, and It started raining softly, but a few seconds later, it started to get heavier. I had an umbrella so I wasn't worried about getting wet. But in my front, there were an old woman. I'm shy, so I was having some trouble asking her if she wanted to walk with me so she wouldn't get wet. Then, after thinking a lot, I just walked faster to get close to her, and I asked her. She just looked at me and gave me a smile and she said she didn't need it 'cause we were already in front of her house. I just helped her open her house and I said goodbye. Even though not helping much, her smile made my day and I felt useful. It made me realize even though I'm young I can help people and make them, and make me, happy simultaneously.
@woodspriteful
@woodspriteful Жыл бұрын
Yes! & now you have a memory. Memories build.
@fc4660
@fc4660 9 ай бұрын
Bravo that’s lovely
@ashleyshabez7054
@ashleyshabez7054 Ай бұрын
i feel like you should be an author, I'd want to read your book!
@dogski2822
@dogski2822 3 жыл бұрын
I miss the days when we didn’t need a reason to be happy. We just were. When every morning we would jump out of bed, ready to seize the day. Now we can barely muster the motivation to roll onto the floor. I know it’s cliché, but I wish we would know we were in the good old days when we were in the good old days.
@Angel-tl9bo
@Angel-tl9bo 3 жыл бұрын
Me too bro now I want to have never existed
@flowerssmile
@flowerssmile 3 жыл бұрын
I feel the same as you !! Do you guys also think that this whole new time with social media( Instagram, Twitter etc.) kind of destroyed our society? because I do I wish everything would be like 10-20 years ago!😕
@urbanbaba6216
@urbanbaba6216 3 жыл бұрын
Every time you exhale, the trees inhale. You are giving CO2 to them at every moment. So think about it and be happy at every moment 🤗🤗.
@pereiraplaza222
@pereiraplaza222 3 жыл бұрын
@@flowerssmile 10 years ago it was already the same... Social media social media social media. It started in 2005 with MySpace and some others. In 2011 Twitter and Facebook were booming and people were already complaining about social media.
@Niecy1001
@Niecy1001 3 жыл бұрын
@@pereiraplaza222 I saw a show from the mid 60's with a panel of comedians, writers, producers. Norman Lear made a sadly negative comment about how fast the world was changing (for the worst.) ...'what is it going to look like in 20 years.' I'm so grateful I was born in the early '50's and can still remember those 'good old days'....no, those GREAT old days!
@michellerotairo206
@michellerotairo206 4 жыл бұрын
I cant believe I ended up searching how to be happy. So tired of always being left behind.
@lckypckt3856
@lckypckt3856 3 жыл бұрын
Searching for answers is the first step to having a happier and better life. Don’t beat yourself up too much. I know you still have it in you to keep fighting! ❤️
@javi7602
@javi7602 3 жыл бұрын
The silver lining is that suffering invites us to explore an alternative. Suffering is often a gateway to the spiritual path and ultimately a sense of inner peace.
@allisonbarrett6171
@allisonbarrett6171 3 жыл бұрын
Me too :(
@Melly16yr10
@Melly16yr10 3 жыл бұрын
Same here
@alinaseri7050
@alinaseri7050 2 жыл бұрын
And how are you today?
@jennitr9177
@jennitr9177 3 жыл бұрын
One day I walked passed a homeless men and I bought him something to eat and a hot coffee. I placed it next to him while he slept and left… I still hoped he ate and drank it and felt great that day. ❤️
@joeruda6586
@joeruda6586 2 жыл бұрын
This is wonderful only in America
@raphaeldouglas9361
@raphaeldouglas9361 2 жыл бұрын
Successful people don't become that way overnight. What most people see at a glance-wealth, a great career, purpose-is the result of hard work and hustle over time.
@tianalucas8147
@tianalucas8147 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah! I agree with you sir.If you want to be successful have the mindset of the rich, spend less and invest More. Don't give up your dreams.
@tianalucas8147
@tianalucas8147 2 жыл бұрын
People come here with the aim of chasing money more than knowledge and that will damage your progress, trust me. Chase knowledge first and I promise! The money will follow you just like it's following some of us now.
@donaldjason195
@donaldjason195 2 жыл бұрын
@@tianalucas8147 That's very correct And that is why most of them end up losing they moneyDon't be in a haste to invest. Know what and who you are investing to and be sure that the person will deliver before investing. Learn and get the knowledge first before investing..
@slimejohn808
@slimejohn808 2 жыл бұрын
@@donaldjason195 People wants to do what the 99% does but wants to get results that are fit for the 1%, but it doesn't work that way
@henrycarl8097
@henrycarl8097 2 жыл бұрын
@@slimejohn808 Investment is the quickest path to financial freedom, the rich stays rich by spending like the poor yet investing! While the poor stays poor by spending like the rich yet not investing.
@iFerg
@iFerg 4 жыл бұрын
It's tough out here
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 4 жыл бұрын
We don't disagree iFerg but it is also the lens you choose to see the world right now. SO much good going on and so much good you can contribute to right now. It was time for the world to get quiet for a while. We hope you enjoy the peace and the beauty in the day today.
@Araka80
@Araka80 3 жыл бұрын
Over 1 million subs and only a few know that you commented here on this video, Crazy!
@ethantedov6513
@ethantedov6513 3 жыл бұрын
What are you doing here ferg lmao
@PleaseViewMyChannel
@PleaseViewMyChannel 3 жыл бұрын
It is, indeed. It's been 6months, hope you're all good and perfectly happy right now. 🤍
@hshshshhsh1671
@hshshshhsh1671 3 жыл бұрын
Wtf iferg ya life is great btw love the codm content
@beeanki5153
@beeanki5153 3 жыл бұрын
A man once told Buddha " I want happiness ." Buddha replied , " First , remove ' I ' ; that's ego. Then remove ' want ' ; that's desire. And now all you're left with is HAPPINESS. Saw this on the internet so gonna drop this here ✌
@joepronhaar5682
@joepronhaar5682 3 жыл бұрын
But must I therefore become a Tibetan meditating monk?🤔 How do I realize this practicly?
@javi7602
@javi7602 3 жыл бұрын
Free will and happiness is not necessarily controlling your mind , its being the witnessing presence behind understanding how your mind works. Observing your own mind if you will
@07sushy
@07sushy 3 жыл бұрын
@@joepronhaar5682 understanding is easy, applying it is the real challenge... Life throws various situations at you everyday where you get to witness your ego and desires through actions, thoughts and words (yours as well as others). How you react to others' words and actions is your ego, and how well you control your reactions and actions shows how well you have subdued your ego. Ego creates desires for gratification of mind and senses, through enjoyment of worldly pleasures. Realize that all pleasures are evanescent and a temporary illusion, and you will gradually rid yourself of attachments to worldly things and pleasures.
@jhonnandersonbravoasenjo874
@jhonnandersonbravoasenjo874 3 жыл бұрын
Buddha is a gangsta 🤙
@joepronhaar5682
@joepronhaar5682 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your answers!
@akinam1353
@akinam1353 Жыл бұрын
shoutout to everyone whos still trying to push through. dont ever give up on reaching your true happiness. you deserve it more than you would ever know.
@Jaypiasco
@Jaypiasco Жыл бұрын
thank you
@LinhTran-xt6gu
@LinhTran-xt6gu 2 жыл бұрын
Today morning I have to search “How to be happy when you are surrounded by your family”. Listening to the talk while reading the comments make me burst into tears.
@CoffeeWithC
@CoffeeWithC 5 жыл бұрын
If you are reading this, whatever you are going through, you will be okay. You are alive, and it matters. But first, let's have coffee together at Coffee with C.
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 5 жыл бұрын
I agree Coffee with C. We all matter. We just need to remember this and give easily from our heart. Have a beautiful day and thank you for watching and taking the time to comment.
@CoffeeWithC
@CoffeeWithC 5 жыл бұрын
Jacqueline Way My pleasure Jacqueline. Keep doing what you are doing. We need more people like you in this world, and it starts from influence and impact. Wherever you are in this world, I am supporting you in spirit.
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 5 жыл бұрын
@@CoffeeWithC That was beautiful thank you. I love I have your spirit and energy with me. Your 365give today! I'm in Canada and feel blessed to have so much love coming from all over the world. Have a beautiful day.
@darshanmakwana5151
@darshanmakwana5151 4 жыл бұрын
@CoffeeWithC
@CoffeeWithC 4 жыл бұрын
@@darshanmakwana5151 Hello!!!
@pyureh
@pyureh 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been going through it all. Surrounded by people who don’t even notice that I’m struggling emotionally. Decided to take a step and take care of me. I’m glad I found this. I pray things will change for each one of you including me. Whatever we’re going through, I believe things will get better. We will be happy. Hugs to all
@LizBrousseau
@LizBrousseau 3 жыл бұрын
SO HAPPY you decided to take that step and take care of YOU!!! this will be the beginning of changing everything!
@pyureh
@pyureh 3 жыл бұрын
Liz Brousseau thankyou so much. I wish you the very best too 🤗
@oliviateller9087
@oliviateller9087 3 жыл бұрын
❤️🦋
@Jananokari
@Jananokari 2 жыл бұрын
I wish you are fine now ❤️
@pyureh
@pyureh 2 жыл бұрын
@@Jananokari I’m in a better place now, thankyou for asking. Hope all is well with you
@avblack98
@avblack98 2 жыл бұрын
It literally breaks my heart that I’m here having to watch this and relearning life completely. I’ve been depressed the last half of this year. I don’t wish this on anybody. I don’t remember what being happy feels like. I miss the old me! What sucks is no one even notices my energy isn’t the same. I don’t go anywhere anymore I just work and go home. I’m ok at work but my job is stressful and it’s no help really for a real escape. But when I’m home I’m alone so I’m always in my head and it’s the worst place to be!
@myotheraccount17
@myotheraccount17 2 жыл бұрын
You are beautiful - in and out. I hope you can push thru and achieve everything you set out to achieve. And show depression who's the boss. 😤😤😤
@avblack98
@avblack98 2 жыл бұрын
@@myotheraccount17 thank you so much for the words❤️
@myotheraccount17
@myotheraccount17 2 жыл бұрын
@@avblack98 you are very welcome. Hope you are having a better day than when you first posted your comment. ✨
@jasminecorallista8616
@jasminecorallista8616 Жыл бұрын
I hope you're a lot better now ❤
@olgatim65
@olgatim65 3 ай бұрын
The best show i've ever seen!❤ Giving makes your every day happier! That's it. As for me, i help stray animals, cats and dogs. I love them. I love doing it. When you look at the grateful dog's eyes - nothing can be better.❤
@kenzie3338
@kenzie3338 5 жыл бұрын
Don’t get me wrong but sometimes giving too much can dig you into a deeper hole. I suffer from depression & anxiety. I find happiness in giving to everyone around me, seeing smiles on their faces. Sometimes I give too much, more than I should actually. I found myself getting taken advantage of by my closest friend & family which drained me emotionally but for some reason I still find every reason to give to everyone around me. I want to find happiness within myself rather than constantly giving to keep myself happy.
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 5 жыл бұрын
That we understand. Soometimes when we give of ourselves to much it takes away from giving to ourselves. I have this problem all the time. Don't take the happiness out of giving by not keeping clear boundries as well. Giving isn't the only "pillar" of happiness. Taking caare of yourself, our bodies, getting out in nature and gratitide are also so impoartant. Why not take some time to give to yourself. Finding the happiness from inside will give so much to the world around you and others. Sometimes the best way to give back to the world. Thank you for watching Mekenzie and the really thoughful comment. We wish you a day filled with happiness and giving for you.
@catl2223
@catl2223 5 жыл бұрын
It's important to find a balance, as with everything in life. We can not live with out water, however too much water can kill us. I often encourage people to give only what they can afford to. It can even be the smallest things/ little moments. Holding the door for someone, compliments, a hug, telling a joke, even a smile. When I'm having a bad day or week sometimes I just count the smiles exchanged, appreciating that me and someone else brightened each other's day. Costs nothing but a moment and can be very effective!
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 5 жыл бұрын
@@catl2223 So agree Cat. The reason we say 1 give, 1 day at a time - so simple a 3-year old can do it. Just creates the balance and flow of positive energy and feelings of both the giver and receiver. Thank you so much for such a great comment and for watching. It means so much to Nic and I. Have a beautiful day.
@crowderwork
@crowderwork 5 жыл бұрын
Well said.
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 5 жыл бұрын
@@crowderwork thank you! Nic and I so appreciate you watching. Have a lovely day.
@thandiedawnfabila5424
@thandiedawnfabila5424 3 жыл бұрын
Am i the only one who literally searched for this at 3AM while on quarantine.. Edit 1 week later: hey brave one.. someday, you'll meet the happiest version of you.. and it will be worth it. don't give up, okay?
@moderntactical486
@moderntactical486 3 жыл бұрын
No mamm, it's almost 2 am and yup here we are
@utkarshsaxena7826
@utkarshsaxena7826 3 жыл бұрын
Lol me too
@bryans99
@bryans99 3 жыл бұрын
Same 3AM 😅
@hanako4871
@hanako4871 3 жыл бұрын
Literally 3:27am rn 😭
@Hectrim
@Hectrim 3 жыл бұрын
It's exactly 3AM haha. Its the peak time of depression lmao
@badtactics5606
@badtactics5606 3 жыл бұрын
I just wanna go back to when I could laugh with my friends in the neighborhood all day
@ThoughtWellness
@ThoughtWellness 5 ай бұрын
I hope everyone who watches this video and reads this comment finds the utmost happiness they so deserve. ❤️
@asta3499
@asta3499 4 жыл бұрын
If you are suffering from depression, just know you are have a purpose on earth. Just know you are a good person
@zuzannagula6888
@zuzannagula6888 4 жыл бұрын
SPLASH H thank you so much sweetheart, it made me feel better even after a bad days ❤️
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 4 жыл бұрын
Amen Splash! We so agree. We all have a purpose here on our planet and we have to see past what's in front us and find what is within us. beautiful comment and thank you for taking the time to watch. We so appreciate your time.
@asta3499
@asta3499 4 жыл бұрын
@@jacquelineway Thank you so much! We all should know that we can be great people and do great things if we put the work in!
@dessire1803
@dessire1803 4 жыл бұрын
thanks splash h, God bless. reading ur comment made me think ❣
@hirogutz2154
@hirogutz2154 4 жыл бұрын
My purpose is to be a fertilizer for the earth and to be eaten by worms.
@johndoe5743
@johndoe5743 3 жыл бұрын
To all the young souls out there.. You will be fine ❤️
@priyankagupta8193
@priyankagupta8193 3 жыл бұрын
Ty
@javi7602
@javi7602 3 жыл бұрын
anybody reading this who is suffering, know that you are loved and there is another way to live in which you no longer mentally argue with what is
@sujeyorozco1843
@sujeyorozco1843 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you i needed it❤️
@HisisMichelineFournier
@HisisMichelineFournier 3 жыл бұрын
How about old souls????
@johndoe5743
@johndoe5743 3 жыл бұрын
@@HisisMichelineFournier ❤️🍀
@HiiImChris
@HiiImChris 2 жыл бұрын
Hey this actually cheered me up! Honestly just seeing the happiness this woman had and expressing how it made her feel was pretty freaking awesome.
@hassanarafat6430
@hassanarafat6430 Жыл бұрын
I think I know now, the reason why giving/helping others makes us happy is because giving shifts the focus from us to others, and lifts the pressure that we have been putting on ourselves. Wow Jacqueline, great Ted Talk. Kudos !
@lucyluxx3880
@lucyluxx3880 6 жыл бұрын
this women gave me a little bit of hope cause i'm so desperately desperate
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Lucy, for watching and I hope is such a wonderful way to look at the talk. It's hope for you and hope for us all. I am so sorry you are feeling desperate. I wish you receive the benefits of giving when you reach out to others. When you give you will be surprised how you will also receive. I wish you hope and happiness.
@larissaaocm
@larissaaocm 5 жыл бұрын
Hope ur feeling better, Lucy ❤️
@shubhamjeetkumar348
@shubhamjeetkumar348 5 жыл бұрын
Reach out to your loved ones! In finding the right person with whom we can share everything, we forget, we have them already! Take care! :)
@iminvisible9779
@iminvisible9779 5 жыл бұрын
Sane
@eeso8997
@eeso8997 5 жыл бұрын
My name is Lucy too. God bless us Lucy.💗
@emilymcbride4525
@emilymcbride4525 6 жыл бұрын
I've suffered from anxiety and depression since I was 8 years old, I'm now 18 nearly 19 and I still haven't figured life out. I'm still miserable, my relationship with myself and others are broken and all I seem to do is sit around and worry. I'm just waiting (rather impatiently) for the future. I'm still learning to live, not just "survive". This video is extremely inspiring to me, I want to make people happy and leave an impact on this world. I want to take the time to slow down and give. I'm always looking for my purpose, I think I just found it. Thank you so much !
@lsjax72
@lsjax72 6 жыл бұрын
Find something to be thankful for.
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 6 жыл бұрын
Agree! I start my day every day with 3 things. One of my favorite ways to give is to send someone a gratitude note out of now where. It's truly healing!
@b3dubbs72
@b3dubbs72 5 жыл бұрын
I’m 29 and I’m trying to eliminate these negative emotions from my life by the time I’m thirty. If there’s one piece of advice I can give you, it’s this: Don’t drink away your emotions.
@EK-ij9fg
@EK-ij9fg 5 жыл бұрын
Emily McBride you’re not supposed to have life figured out at 18! ❤️
@thehealingroom1111
@thehealingroom1111 5 жыл бұрын
@@avitiusrufinus6980 what happened to you that hurt you? Who hurt you?
@brennengarlick9938
@brennengarlick9938 3 жыл бұрын
This video is brilliant. I’ve been so selfish in my alcohol addiction, this is exactly what I needed to hear. Focus less on my own problems and more on helping others. I think it’s the missing puzzle piece to a win-win situation.
@shasmi93
@shasmi93 Жыл бұрын
Alex grey and Tool are my favorite. So naturally I gravitated towards you. I also am a recovering alcoholic of 15 years. I finally quit about 6 months ago. I feel so much better and I WILL never waste time again on alcohol in this lifetime. You got this! I want to see you next to me in the sober life.
@mikeholemikehole8732
@mikeholemikehole8732 7 ай бұрын
I didn't start the video, but I want to say that everyone is an awesome person no matter what. Thank you for being who you are, thank you for being here, thank you for being the person who does things that deserve recognition but don't always do it for recognition. Thank you, for being happy. Have a blessed day, Mahalo Nui, from Hawaii
@maria2k5
@maria2k5 3 жыл бұрын
as a teenager i miss the days when i wasn't insecure about my body, didn't have anxiety and stress, but instead used to live everyday without caring about anything. to anyone reading this, just so that you know we are in this together. life's too short for all the sadness, remember you only live ONCE. so make sure it's worth living :)
@rosilatrailera
@rosilatrailera 2 жыл бұрын
this too shall pass....try to make it a point of always having positive thoughts. One small positive thought can change your days! I found a lot of help writing a gratitude journal, I wrote something I was grateful for no matter how small...soon I focused on the positive and destroyed the negative thoughts. I will pray for you!
@maria2k5
@maria2k5 2 жыл бұрын
@@rosilatrailera glad to hear i'll be in your prayers. i'll pray for your betterment as well stranger. proud of you to be able to fight off those feelings. keep going forward every single day bc you're way stronger than you think :)))))
@VeganAzure
@VeganAzure 2 жыл бұрын
You only live once to build your … eternity 🕊🌷
@MichaelRusPro
@MichaelRusPro Жыл бұрын
A little correction: You live everyday and only die once.
@mayosmayo4738
@mayosmayo4738 Жыл бұрын
Ye, I also have body dysmorphia
@nathannguyen2257
@nathannguyen2257 3 жыл бұрын
Small acts of kindness really do make you feel happy. As small as buying a friend a snack or giving someone a compliment. The looks on their faces are the best thing in the world!
@adamc4972
@adamc4972 3 жыл бұрын
Very true. People who are stingy are sad most times
@airakhan7979
@airakhan7979 2 жыл бұрын
True..making others happy makes us happy. Especially when we give someone who desparately needs it.
@snehaeillish1879
@snehaeillish1879 2 жыл бұрын
True tho ❤️
@ravynrei8052
@ravynrei8052 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so inspired to create my own giving list! Jacqueline is a perfect example of what this platform is all about :)
@faustvi6186
@faustvi6186 2 жыл бұрын
I did not search “how to be happy” but I watch lots of TED talks so it was recommended. I actually am happy with the direction of where I am going, baby steps towards my master’s degree in Germany and I have a girl whom I would chop my leg off for. Nothing is more comforting than being beside her.
@ronaldreagan7772
@ronaldreagan7772 4 жыл бұрын
Most people aren't happy and have lost the joy of living.
@brodyszone157
@brodyszone157 4 жыл бұрын
I have forgotten how to be happy. I'm just a mean grumpy woman. I am trying to change this.
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 4 жыл бұрын
I so agree Ronald. the reason I took the time to get beyond my fear of speaking to the world and try to help people understand how they can get back to the reason we are here on this planet. We are meant to feel happy and we have gotten lost somewhere along the way. Happiness is just a feeling. What makes life worth truly living is purpose and meaning. We are here to have a meaningful life filled with experiences that create feelings of happiness. Giving is just one of those ways to create both. The feelings of happiness and meaningful life. The fun is the journey. When you give it makes the journey remarkable. The people you meet, the way you connect to nature, our planet and animals. It opens your eyes to this amazing gift we have been given. Start by giving to yourself - start the day with gratitude for another day to find your path to happiness. You are looking for it the reason you are here. Start giving yourself grace, and love. When you find it in you - it will overflow to everyone around you. Have a beautiful day.
@mr.bruhmoment4732
@mr.bruhmoment4732 4 жыл бұрын
I am happy
@kalboff1482
@kalboff1482 3 жыл бұрын
@@brodyszone157 how do you try to change?
@kalboff1482
@kalboff1482 3 жыл бұрын
@@jacquelineway thanks for your beautiful and wise words. Do you have any tips on how to make money or find a fulfilling job?
@lewisgilfillan9237
@lewisgilfillan9237 6 жыл бұрын
Quit social media that one way to be happy.
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching Gillybloggs. It can drive you a little crazy! It's all about balance. If you take a look a few comments ago a gentleman made a great comment - "This is how the internet and social media can make the world a better place" We just have to use social for the good. If give - then we share it on social - it will continue the ripple that can make the world happier. It's been remarkable for sharing this message and the change we are already seeing. Thank you for taking the time to watch and great comment. Great thought! Maybe share some of your good on social today and it will make you happy! Have a great day.
@lustfullsounds2256
@lustfullsounds2256 6 жыл бұрын
Well, it depends. I have a lot of online friends on social media and they make me happy. So like, it depends on the person.
@aminahabibmuhammad2583
@aminahabibmuhammad2583 6 жыл бұрын
😅😅😅😅very good
@naluwdw3070
@naluwdw3070 6 жыл бұрын
It’s not social media it’s reality that makes me sad
@ej2431
@ej2431 5 жыл бұрын
gillyblog
@dot4207
@dot4207 2 жыл бұрын
I read this the other day, 'You are under no obligation to remain the same person you were a year ago, a month ago, or even a day ago. You are here to create yourself, continuously.' ~ Prof. Feynman It gave me a new perspective for ahead. I also recommend reading about fixed mindset and growth mindset.
@woodspriteful
@woodspriteful Жыл бұрын
What they don't say is that when you change, relationships can change. You have to want to transform so much you are willing to sacrifice the old and build new.
@dot4207
@dot4207 Жыл бұрын
@@woodspriteful @Jennifer E. Nordstrom That's a good point! It has come to me after some introspection after posting this comment 10 months back. I sacrificed my previous interests for growth. Certainly when you change your weaknesses vanquish but your strengths change as well.
@Monub_8206
@Monub_8206 2 жыл бұрын
To everyone watching this video i wanna say that better days are always coming for you If you worry about the negative things you will stay unhappy, try to think about the happier times coming for you and i wish you guys best luck for your tough times :)
@ToysandFun
@ToysandFun 4 жыл бұрын
So sad that kids suffer too
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 4 жыл бұрын
So agree but they don't have to. We have just taught them well. Kids are resilient and when we teach them skills that make them happy they run with it. They want to feel good we just have to teach them how. Thank you for taking the time to watch. Nic and I so appreciate your time. Have a beautiful day.
@kawaiibear5661
@kawaiibear5661 3 жыл бұрын
I'm frickin 13 and currently trying to find how to be happy, and make it stay.
@panedole
@panedole 3 жыл бұрын
Winner of a video, I been tryin to find out about "how do you find happiness in a book?" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Soyailey Simplex Sovereignty - (do a search on google ) ? It is a smashing one of a kind guide for discovering how to become successful and happy minus the headache. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my m8 got great success with it.
@juniorsr197
@juniorsr197 3 жыл бұрын
@Eternal Serenity Well, if nobody suffered, then we wouldn't cherish happiness as much But I feel the same
@juniorsr197
@juniorsr197 3 жыл бұрын
@Gpooky You need to keep waiting, especially since you're 15. There are things to come that you'll definitely want to see and experience that will come when you are older.
@emnabenahmed7523
@emnabenahmed7523 3 жыл бұрын
I want to thank everyone who took the time and wrote something good to encourage someone they don't know to continue, it's so sad that all those who watched this video just like me, felt so vulnerable, lonely, anxious though they're still fighting
@dtschuor459
@dtschuor459 2 жыл бұрын
Every time I am struggling, even with the worst sorts of things, after acknowledging that whatever it is that sucks is a difficulty, j have been taught to make a gratitude list. It may sound silly, but it helps refocus your thinking . You can have gratitude just for breathing, if need be. Gratitude for love, now, past, or future. Gratitude for the opportunity to help another. It can be infinitesimally small, the thing for which you have gratitude. Build from there. I wish you health, happiness, and peace.
@emnabenahmed7523
@emnabenahmed7523 2 жыл бұрын
@@dtschuor459 I'll try to make it and I don't think it's silly at all 🌸 thank you so much for your kindness wish you all the beautiful things that the world can give 💞
@methinks5310
@methinks5310 2 жыл бұрын
@@emnabenahmed7523 how are you doing these days?
@emnabenahmed7523
@emnabenahmed7523 2 жыл бұрын
@@methinks5310 hey i'm way better , life is not always roses and butterflies, but we learn , it's not easy to cope with everything at once but that's life i guess thank you so much for asking hope u're healthy mentally and physically
@mohanvj9614
@mohanvj9614 2 жыл бұрын
Everyday morning startup my life is bad than how to change an how my life
@agaming534
@agaming534 2 жыл бұрын
I had a few fights with my friends recently, and it has given me so much anxiety and depression. I always worry if I'm the wrong one, if I should've never stood up for myself, never spoken about my feelings. But now, I am making so much effort and progress in making myself happy. Everyone said I am in no rights to give if I couldn't even love myself. But if my happiness comes from giving, isn't that self-love as well? My dream is to help everyone who comes across me to smile, I want those who talks with me to leave with a smile. Giving is not only helping each other, but also helping ourselves. I will show my friends how strong I have become.
@jijujohn3679
@jijujohn3679 2 жыл бұрын
All the best!
@oliviaacosta6239
@oliviaacosta6239 2 жыл бұрын
I love giving compliments, advice, and doing a kind thing towards others. As a nurse, I try to put a smile on my patience. For Christmas I give my coworkers something I made. This year they are getting a scarf. It really feels good
@masterlights7089
@masterlights7089 4 жыл бұрын
"The nourishment of the body is food, while the nourishment of the soul is feeding others" Imam Ali ibn Abitalib alayhissalam
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 4 жыл бұрын
Love that!!!! You just touched my heart Master Lights. Thank you for taking the time to watch and that stunning comment! It will be my new personal mantra. Have a beautiful day!
@rimckd825
@rimckd825 3 жыл бұрын
that is beautiful.... TYVM
@alizafazalbhoy3295
@alizafazalbhoy3295 3 жыл бұрын
Wise words like none other. Imam Ali (as) 🙌
@zaidi684
@zaidi684 3 жыл бұрын
Indeed
@koreaindahou
@koreaindahou 6 жыл бұрын
I'm glad good people like her exist in this world
@365give
@365give 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Wedookie I so appreciate such a wonderful comment. There are lots of people like me and everyone can do exactly what we have done and still do. It's inside all of us we just have to make it a priority in our life - a daily habit just like brushing our teeth. Give it a try you may just surprise yourself. That comment was your first 365give! You made my day and made me happy. Thank you.
@lisasommerlad1337
@lisasommerlad1337 4 жыл бұрын
The point is that we can all be like this. Earth could be heaven... Its meant to be. And we can all do our little bit. Its how we save the world.
@Silvestre-xb6ev
@Silvestre-xb6ev Жыл бұрын
Thank you! I already knew but I always need refreshing about how to be happy, because when you’re feeling down it’s like you forget everything about how you felt when you were not good, giving it’s easy and it really makes a difference.. ❤ Everything is already inside us, we should just have the strength or better the habit to always do that because it will come back to us with pure good mood and that it’s worth more than anything!
@marry_pickuplife
@marry_pickuplife 10 ай бұрын
All those reading this, I wish you and myself a good and happy day today and everyday! ❤️
@365give
@365give 10 ай бұрын
Right back at you @mariyam2021 thank you so much for stopping by. Have a beautiful day. 💙💙🙏🙏
@MillerJohn-mc6du
@MillerJohn-mc6du 10 ай бұрын
Hello mariyam how are you doing?
@mvaxc7700
@mvaxc7700 3 жыл бұрын
Cant believe im a 14 years old teenager searching on HOW to be happy.. and there r many younger kids out there searching for this..
@sunnyy...
@sunnyy... 3 жыл бұрын
I have been living with the same problems since I was 15 so I am very jealous of you right now. If I could be 14 again, I would NEVER spend my days fearing I couldn't achieve or learn something and then not even trying I would give myself as much time as I need to accomplish anything I want and never procrastinate again. I'd never develop my bad relationship with food, i wouldn't avoid my problems I would face them as soon as they occurred and by now, i would've accomplished everything that I've been trying to do since I was 14.
@sahithyavika9686
@sahithyavika9686 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 14 nd I searched up for this too 💛 Ur not alone
@bubbabubba6427
@bubbabubba6427 3 жыл бұрын
Ik whos fault is it why we're not happy it's called social media
@bubbabubba6427
@bubbabubba6427 3 жыл бұрын
It's not fair
@fizasohail9637
@fizasohail9637 3 жыл бұрын
@@bubbabubba6427 by saying social media I mean apps like Instagram twitter, facebook ,snapchat etc... I don't use any of them (it's almost been a year since I stopped using them) I only watch KZbin which I use for only like 30 to 40 minutes per day 💁‍♀ bro it really helps when u stop using those time wasting apps... Ive started focusing on things which are more important for me and I feel alot better and happy now 😀
@HillAHawk
@HillAHawk 6 жыл бұрын
"Help a neighbor, be kind to a stranger."
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching Hilary. And it is all the simple. Show the world kindness - help your neighbours. WIth all that we have going on in our world who knew it could be this simple. But we all need to do it. Not just me and Nic but the other 7 billion people on our planet. We really appreciate your time watching and commenting Hilary. Have a great day!
@HillAHawk
@HillAHawk 6 жыл бұрын
My pleasure. Thank YOU! :+) Hope you have a great day too. :)
@geegeebabe1
@geegeebabe1 Жыл бұрын
It took me 63 years to truly be happy. It is amazing to feel this way. I wish everyone happiness their entire lives.
@porschea950
@porschea950 Жыл бұрын
What changed? Mindset I assume but how did you do it? :)
@kettleronald6375
@kettleronald6375 Жыл бұрын
Hello I am so sorry if this sounds weirds but you wrote such a nice and wonderful comment on here and I like your comment. I can tell you're a very positive person. If it's okay with you I'd love to be friends.
@hayleeedwards3072
@hayleeedwards3072 Жыл бұрын
When I was a teen my entire extended family (about 20 of us at that time) showed up on Christmas Eve at a church members door with presents in our hands bc she could not afford Christmas for her kids. I can’t begin to describe the pure joy & overwhelming emotions that brought ME to be there to do that. It blessed me more than it blessed them. I’m sure of it. I have noticed throughout my life that I am most fulfilled when I am in a role of giving or helping others. There is nothing like it. This lady is my hero. ❤
@stratisdio7499
@stratisdio7499 7 жыл бұрын
wish all humans were like this! i am a giver and always say that giving is a selfish act for me because i do it to feel better.
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 7 жыл бұрын
It's just digging in to find our "humanity" and letting it shine. Thank you for being a giver I'm glad you have learned the secret to "happy". Have a lovely day and thank you for watching. It means the world to me.
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 7 жыл бұрын
Stratis, I am so sorry for some reason my reply did not get posted. Thank you so much for your lovely comment and taking the time to watch. Obviously, you are one of "those humans" you talk of. I am so thrilled you understand how good giving makes you feel! It is a little selfish, isn't it! This little happiness secret we have tapped into! Thank you again and have a really happy day!
@actsrv9
@actsrv9 6 жыл бұрын
Love and respect from India.
@jacquelinewayjmsmediagroup2855
@jacquelinewayjmsmediagroup2855 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you actsrv9. Nic and I so appreciate you taking the time to watch and comment. We hope you will be inspired to find a way to give today. Have a happy day!
@sumitbaba15
@sumitbaba15 6 жыл бұрын
Stratis Dio
@lamyasaad3840
@lamyasaad3840 4 жыл бұрын
Donate, volunteer, help a neighbour, be kind to a stranger. ✌️💙
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 4 жыл бұрын
It's that easy Lamya. Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and the lovely comment. Nic and I hope it has inspired you to give today. Have a beautiful day.
@javi7602
@javi7602 3 жыл бұрын
I wish i would have wrote this comment. THANK YOU
@danghoai5865
@danghoai5865 2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree. whenever I give, I feel proud of myself and happier. Thanks for your speech! I will try more to give and moreover spread your lesson.
@tibaalhuraishi1807
@tibaalhuraishi1807 3 жыл бұрын
I just wanna wake up some day out of this nightmare, I don’t want to die but I don’t want to live, I just want to be happy but I can’t, the hardest part about wanting to be happy is pretending to be happy. I just want to wake up some day to the cold breeze and in no where but grass and sun shine where no one could bother me. I. Just. Want. To. Be . Happy
@staystudious7641
@staystudious7641 2 жыл бұрын
Hey everything will be fine Take care
@hamstersdailylife4938
@hamstersdailylife4938 4 жыл бұрын
I was depressed as I scrolled through KZbin to find a video that will “Make me happy” Instead I found this ted talk, and learned how to make others happy. And I’m happy now. I thank this kind woman so much for sharing this with us.
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 4 жыл бұрын
I am honoured thank you so much. So many as you heard are suffering from depression. You re not alone. take some time to truly learn and understand about your body chemistry. That balance I spoke about between cortisol and your happy hormones. We all have the ability to shift these physically and the mental you need to work on. It takes time but we can retrain our brains to look at the world differently. Giving will get you out. Create social connections. Make relationships with others that feel the same way. This is what you need. Surround yourself with positive people that want to work towards a better happier world and it will help to create the physical and mental shift you need. Thank you for taking the time and most of all this was your 365give today. A positive comment goes a long way t omake another happy. You just did that for Nic and I. Have a beautiful day.
@lucymankonko4860
@lucymankonko4860 4 жыл бұрын
ゆめぽんた I really hope you’re doing better
@midhupraveen3491
@midhupraveen3491 3 жыл бұрын
@@jacquelineway 🙏🙏🙏 thank you
@365give
@365give 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you MN I am honoured. When you are depressed you are just stuck in your head. The best way to get out of your head is to live from your heart. When we give to others this is the shift that happens. But you have to practice this every day. Our brains are like a computer that just goes back to playing the same program over and over again. You have to retrain your brain to look and act differently in our world. I am so glad I gave you some happiness and by you watching you gave e happiness. That easy. Have a beautiful day.
@Vampiretrust.
@Vampiretrust. 3 жыл бұрын
@@jacquelineway do you have an email
@martafabic4057
@martafabic4057 5 жыл бұрын
watching this while crying lol
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 5 жыл бұрын
I am hoping this is a good thing! If our talk touched your heart than we are truly humbled Marta. Thank you for watching and we hope it will inspire you to take a look around your world today and find one small way to give. 🙏🌎💙
@death.for.breakfast
@death.for.breakfast 4 жыл бұрын
@@jacquelineway Your a great person. Respect what you do!!
@sarahcyrus9576
@sarahcyrus9576 4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry
@rosalizramos8982
@rosalizramos8982 3 жыл бұрын
Same we’re gonna be ok tho
@editingaddison9327
@editingaddison9327 3 жыл бұрын
Marta Fabic Same, hope your okay.
@manavisharma944
@manavisharma944 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing. It takes a life time to realize that true happiness comes from giving.
@Thehumansmilyface
@Thehumansmilyface 3 жыл бұрын
This made me cry , I’m gonna share her project with the world & help to enlighten this world 🏆
@ReLLaKaT316
@ReLLaKaT316 4 жыл бұрын
Just wanna say I love you all. We're all people here just trying to find our happiness, find ourselves. Have a great day TODAY
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 4 жыл бұрын
Thant was your 365give today and AMEN ReLLakaT. If we all came from that place, those words of love, happiness and connection - what a world it would be! Thank you so much for taking the time. That comment just made me so happy.
@ReLLaKaT316
@ReLLaKaT316 4 жыл бұрын
@@jacquelineway hey you're so welcome. I just wanted to help. Been happier since this video. Been making dinners for my girlfriend and 2 year old daughter, being more present and helpful at home
@ReLLaKaT316
@ReLLaKaT316 4 жыл бұрын
@@jacquelineway is this the actual Jacqueline from the video?
@Yllohyllod
@Yllohyllod 5 жыл бұрын
One of the greatest gifts my parents gave me and my siblings was teaching us to be empathetic, kind humans. The second was to constantly remind us to not just be siblings, be friends because's we're going to need each other for the rest of our lives. I'm 53 and my brothers and sisters are still my best friends. Thanks for the great video.
@365give
@365give 5 жыл бұрын
Holly, I continue to say the same thing to my kids. I am one of 6 kids and I cherish my siblings to this day. I couldn't do life without them. They were my biggest fans while I worked on this talk. My kids are all adopted and I tell them all the time what a gift it is we were all brought together and one day - when they stop fighting over the smallest toy lol - that they will be each other's biggest fans. I hope one day they will look back the same way we both do and appreciate what they have learned and how much they mean to each other. Thank you for watching and taking the time to leave us a message. It means so much to us to hear from so many around the world. Have a wonderful day!
@Yllohyllod
@Yllohyllod 5 жыл бұрын
I'm one of seven kids. I couldn't imagine life without even one of them.
@365give
@365give 5 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@user-ln8ml1mp6u
@user-ln8ml1mp6u 4 жыл бұрын
good
@bekindist
@bekindist 4 жыл бұрын
This is so true.
@shellyandfamily9378
@shellyandfamily9378 2 жыл бұрын
This is the lesson which my mom taught me ,when i was a kid .she had no idea at that time ,that this was a huge concept .But thanks to my mom , i am a happy adult,i love to give ,actually it became my main thing in my life,.
@biancadaphnepunzal9916
@biancadaphnepunzal9916 3 жыл бұрын
when you are affected by all things that happen to your life and you choose to be silent even it torn your heart into pieces. Can't imagine that I will be here at the point in my life where I will search for how to be happy.
@harinathreddysagili4995
@harinathreddysagili4995 3 жыл бұрын
Don't take everything personally then u get happiness at right moment 😜
@triangleofnature
@triangleofnature 7 ай бұрын
Girl you got this! You are here for a reason. And I know you are smart and strong enough to pull through! How is life going for you right now?
@raeko2667
@raeko2667 4 жыл бұрын
Seeing this has made me realise that there is still a chance to be happy, im forever grateful!
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 4 жыл бұрын
Raeko you have a chance to be happy every single day you wake up. We all do it's just a matter of focusing and understanding how you can create it in your life. We all look to the outside world for happiness and you will never get it there. Happiness is a feeling you can get any time - the beautiful part of being human. You get to choose every day. Giving is just a way to hack your brain to feel any time you choose. Just think of giving as the life Hack to Happy every day. Once you get the feeling hold on to it and run with it. Thank you so much for watching. Nic and I so appreciate it. Have a beautiful day!
@cmthoughts4803
@cmthoughts4803 4 жыл бұрын
Raeko watch the videos on my channel they will help you regain your happiness.
@raeko2667
@raeko2667 3 жыл бұрын
Jacqueline Way Thank you so much!! im rlly sry i didnt see your reply! Ive been better lately and you have really helped:)
@arxsaur
@arxsaur 5 жыл бұрын
Respect this woman. I respect her.
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Shoto. I so appreciate your kind words. Your 365give for today. We all do our best. Not perfect - just our best. Showing respect for others work is such a beautiful way to give. You truly made my day and I am so grateful. Have a lovely day.
@arxsaur
@arxsaur 5 жыл бұрын
Jacqueline Way Your welcome.
@ivanajakubikova2779
@ivanajakubikova2779 2 жыл бұрын
just going thru these comments made me happy and thankful. imma say just one word: GRATITUDE
@user-sy5ws7pr3o
@user-sy5ws7pr3o Жыл бұрын
Pray for everyone who watched this video. Hope you all have a happy life.
@madonsport9214
@madonsport9214 6 жыл бұрын
brilliant.fake it to make it. We can't allow the darkness win. what an inspirational human being. I am delighted to have found her.
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mad on Sport. Good news no faking it on this one. Giving will really make you happy. I so appreciate you watching and hope you will join our community on our website. We would be delighted to have you and hear your stories of giving. Have a great day!
@madonsport9214
@madonsport9214 6 жыл бұрын
Jacqueline Way it actually works
@skaterh00dy
@skaterh00dy 4 жыл бұрын
4:27 that voice change was crazy
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 4 жыл бұрын
Agree Yung it was crazy. The joy of live recordings. We lost a sound bite and had to re-record it after the talk. It never works well but we didn't want people to miss that little piece about how your brain and body are positively affected. I hope you were able to get the message pass this. Thanks for taking the time. Have a beautiful day.
@Jtarrach75
@Jtarrach75 4 жыл бұрын
Yung Zoink OMG HOW DID I NOT NOTICE THAT
@asmrshortbreadsshorts357
@asmrshortbreadsshorts357 3 жыл бұрын
@@jacquelineway I actually thought it was intentional considering the content of your speech, haha! Excellent speech, thank you.
@kunle5303
@kunle5303 2 жыл бұрын
Frrr
@kristeng.4241
@kristeng.4241 2 жыл бұрын
This is the BEST TEDTalk I've ever watched! Thank you so much! Let's change the world!
@marcomerzek6244
@marcomerzek6244 3 жыл бұрын
What you explained in this video is fantastic and it's right the core of Buddhist practice. We're connected with the environment, at a large, and the good we make to the others and to the world is returned back to us and genereates a ripple effect. Thank you very much!!!!!
@Hunter-xy7sc
@Hunter-xy7sc 3 жыл бұрын
It's better we search how to be happy instead of our family searching funeral homes. We'll get through this peeps, stay strong, stay humble, stay grateful.... Or atleast try🤙❤️
@javi7602
@javi7602 3 жыл бұрын
We have to support each other. There is no shame in being vulnerable.
@caramelboo1
@caramelboo1 2 жыл бұрын
So true ❤️
@reenspace1301
@reenspace1301 6 жыл бұрын
My mom taught me to offer a snack, tea or atleast water to whoever knocked our door. Its Indian culture like God has come disguised as guest ! A postman, help at home, laundry guy, plumber, friend etc. Yes 365 is possible for as many in lifetime..Thanks for spreading this
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 6 жыл бұрын
I love that Reen. Your Mother is a good woman to pass on such a wonderful message. I have not had the privilege to travel to India but my Mother was born there and she has told me how kind and welcoming you all are. Yes 365give is possible for everyone for a lifetime. Imagine if we all treated people that came to our door with such kindness. The ripple effect of giving would open so many doors for so many. Thank you for sharing your giving with us. We will share it! Have a wonderful day!
@keshettisaikrishna4032
@keshettisaikrishna4032 5 жыл бұрын
Well said
@BlackLabelSlushie
@BlackLabelSlushie 5 жыл бұрын
reen my mom taught me to never open the door 😂
@vai559
@vai559 5 жыл бұрын
Oh that’s so cool! There’s something similar to this in Hawaii with Hawaiian gods
@Whatifishowedyoumyscars
@Whatifishowedyoumyscars 4 жыл бұрын
And get robbed or worse murdered? No. Its not safe especially where we live.
@fafi19374
@fafi19374 2 ай бұрын
I believe that giving and helping others is the meaning of the life .💖💕💖
@zuzuzpetels
@zuzuzpetels 3 жыл бұрын
Service to others is the key to happiness. I tend to turn within and forget this. Thank you for reminding me and all listening, that happiness is indeed the magic that comes when we are kind, empathetic and give of ourselves to others with no expectations. ❤️
@studywithsoumya6081
@studywithsoumya6081 6 жыл бұрын
this is wht I actually wanna do in my lyf.. i m an Indian n live in india.. my country is growing like nvr before.. but at the same time there are so ooo many people under poverty line.. when I see some of them begging specially the older ones I feel like crying.. i m in my final year of engineering and all these pictures always hit my mind. so I decided finally to not to go and get placed in a software company and now I m studying to be in the civil administrative service to be in the system.. to be in a higher position so dat actually I could do smthing for all these poor people.. this is my dream and passion to change the face of poverty.. people call me mad coz i think too much.. bt i don't. . n your video makes me happy nw and more determined
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 6 жыл бұрын
Hi Soumya. Thank you for sharing your story with me. I didn't say this in my talk but when I started 365give I had a really big dream. I wanted to change the world. Not just one part but the whole world. I wanted it to be a happier more peaceful place for my children and generations to come. It broke my heart every day all the challenges from poverty, climate change, animal abuse that was going on. I didn't know how I was going to change the world but I knew I had to try. I had to do my part even if it made a little dent, made the world a little better. 365give hasn't been easy. We don't have a lot of funding, I have been told again and again I'm crazy. But I kept getting this message that I had to keep going. Then I got a chance to do this TED Talk and the world has opened their arms to us. I see and feel the hope from all over the world. People want to make a change. People want our world to be a better happier place. No one every said it would be easy but it's people like you that are willing to commit that will make a difference. Don't every give up. Always remember if you can change even 1 persons world it will ripple and ripple. You bring me hope that there are people all over the world willing to take the chance and make the commitment to make our world a better place. Thank you. Thank you for watching and sharing. You made me so happy today and determined to continue our work. Have a lovely day.
@AjitKumar-rn8mm
@AjitKumar-rn8mm 6 жыл бұрын
soumya you can make a difference. don't give a f*ck what other ppl think of you. When u stand out of the crowd they call u mad :-)
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 6 жыл бұрын
The good news Ajit when you are doing "goog" for others they don't think you're so mad. Everyone gets it. You gain respect and honour because so many wish they could or would do something and they don't. Too busy, not enough time, money or resources. But we can all use our expertise in our life to help solve the big problems. It's never just one person but a dedicated group of individuals that want to change the world. We just can't be bystanders - we all have to participate on some level. Thank you for watching and I love your comment. I so agree you can't give a "f^%$" what people think of you or nothing ever changes. Have a great day!
@actsrv9
@actsrv9 6 жыл бұрын
@soumya I did some activism myself in the past, pretty sincere and for pretty long, and got into big trouble because I didn't "respect" some corrupt local politician or local cop. I didn't have the nerve and energy to continue. I hope you do. India is full of apes going on aggressive power-trips every day. They also hold grudges for years or decades. Social reform is *not* easy from within the system - the system designers designed it to keep it subverted. See Kejriwal for instance. He's the toughest cookie yet and even he has crumbled. That's because too many people are evil inside and apathetic outside the system. Be prepared for a lot of personal heartache and depression. OTOH, if you do well in your engineering job or maybe go abroad you can make enough money to start and fund an NGO which will not make a noticeable change to the whole system, but will be a great change for those that it affects. Please reconsider joining the system. It's not for engineering types, it is a bunch of alpha male apes conditioned by years of psychopathy. People calling you "mad" is irrelevant. The facts are that the system does not allow reform in its present form and unless you are someone like Gandhi, I doubt you can change it. Better not be a part of it and have blood on your hands. Better to work as an NGO outside the system. No blood, just small joys. Changing it all at once or even a sizeable amount, from inside, is much tougher than climbing Everest. Much much more.
@studywithsoumya6081
@studywithsoumya6081 6 жыл бұрын
well said sir.. bt i guess it doesn't matter whether I m an engineer or an arts student.. today engineering students are doing great in civil services. but what u said is exactly true. n i m also not skeptical about the multidimensional career now.. 😊 now I m into it so let me be throughly into it.. well according to Steve jobs I m just joining d dots.. imagine a bunch of corrupt ppl at one side and a bunch of engineers or any other experts who actually wanna bring a change at the other side..great fun. well m nt saying dat m going to b d prime minister within years.. but I as a normal human is finding my ways or just call it joining the dots😊
@dominiquegutierrez4595
@dominiquegutierrez4595 3 жыл бұрын
Being diagnosed with depression and anxiety at a young age and know more about it now at 27 years old has been a hard journey. Seeing others that can cope with things better and not get so down has always been a envy of mines but knowing that I am not alone or haven’t been alone on this helps me to know there is hope and help’
@lckypckt3856
@lckypckt3856 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Dominique! I can totally relate. I suffered from both for many years. You are definitely not alone! If you ever need an ear, just reach out! ❤️
@meditationhealingmusic7753
@meditationhealingmusic7753 2 жыл бұрын
Sending you lots of love and strength in your pursuit of happiness, it comes from within, practice being happy even if it feels fake for a while and it will come to you eventually. We are too used to practice being sad and negative, it isn't easy to be positive most of the times and enjoy the little things in life but it can be done with practice, I am still working on it myself. In the meantime I'd like to invite you to check my relaxation videos which I hope can also bring you some comfort and peace in an anxious moment. Peace x
@AnTo9787
@AnTo9787 2 жыл бұрын
I suffered from depression since 16 then at 17 i got cancer at 19 in still in depression its hards
@merrieromelie
@merrieromelie Жыл бұрын
Yeah and it's really hard to motivate yourself
@eliavelascolujan9869
@eliavelascolujan9869 2 жыл бұрын
Cuánta razón tiene Jacqueline Way! trabajo con niños y me encantaría transmitirles este proyecto porque los niños de hoy son los adultos del mañana y está en manos de toda la sociedad enseñarles y enseñarnos entre todos cómo se pueden cambiar las cosas. Thanks for this amazing lesson!
@astrozainab6571
@astrozainab6571 3 жыл бұрын
I really loved how she's educated her son to give one thing back to this planet and it's people for 365 days ,it's rare actually to find parents like those incredible ones ,children derive everything from their environment and their society ,all of your negative and even positive adjectives and characteristics are totally emanated from your family .unfortunately not every child is way too fortune to be encompassed by such a successful and achievers people .
@sabihasalman925
@sabihasalman925 2 жыл бұрын
Great work done by her !!!
@brendanchladek950
@brendanchladek950 3 жыл бұрын
If your reading this ✨YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL ✨
@javi7602
@javi7602 3 жыл бұрын
positives vibes only
@elgolfcartiac2568
@elgolfcartiac2568 3 жыл бұрын
Some of us don’t appreciate getting lied to
@bdileepshetty1799
@bdileepshetty1799 Жыл бұрын
Wow.. The best ted talk I watched for a happier life. Kudos to everyone who has watched this.
@DMills-un1tl
@DMills-un1tl 3 жыл бұрын
Someone I know just recently took her own life. She was young, beautiful and traveled the world but felt no sense of true purpose. I believe it is only when we get our eyes off ourselves and help someone/something else that we find true purpose and the will to survive. Many times in my life I’ve been extremely depressed and hurting but I always think of my animal rescue and all those I help and that gives me reason to go on.
@ashpaterson6450
@ashpaterson6450 3 жыл бұрын
Hey you! Yes you! I’m glad you searched this up or clicked on this video because it means you want to get better. You can get their, we need to try and on,y then will we succeed. I know I’m a stranger but I’m going through some similar stuff, talk to people, learn things and take action! ❤️
@kokopuff193
@kokopuff193 Жыл бұрын
@leanparilla9513
@leanparilla9513 3 жыл бұрын
Our pursuit of happiness is a sign that we are about to take the first step into bringing ourselves back up again. Let us always see the bright side, life is full of ups and downs so just trust the process and I'm sure we will have something to learn in every challenges that brings sadness into us. Great informative video!
@naomia472
@naomia472 Жыл бұрын
i think giving makes us happy because it makes us realize we are already happy. it shifts us from having a lack mindset to one of abundance; of happiness.
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway Жыл бұрын
Right on the nose Naomi!! Love that! Thank yo for watching!
@SAM-dm5qg
@SAM-dm5qg 2 ай бұрын
Beautiful Young Lady. Smart. Attractive. Probably Came From a Good Family. Beautiful Example Of a Loving, Kind, Giving, Caring, Human Being. God Bless Her. ❤
@brielleleong4907
@brielleleong4907 4 жыл бұрын
I hope everyone who is struggling knows how much they are loved and needed. Stay safe ❤
@akiinefaexperiencinglife
@akiinefaexperiencinglife 3 жыл бұрын
Sending u love
@xxzzz7467
@xxzzz7467 3 жыл бұрын
kinda dont feel like this but thank you
@akiinefaexperiencinglife
@akiinefaexperiencinglife 3 жыл бұрын
@@xxzzz7467 love yourself dear,that is ok
@brigitteyvonne1571
@brigitteyvonne1571 3 жыл бұрын
I just want to be happy again. I don’t know how to feel happy anymore. I hope this video works.
@matthewmacius1328
@matthewmacius1328 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Brigitte I just want you to know that there are SO many people out there that love you like myself even if I don’t know you personally your life is important to everyone
@bronjohnson4172
@bronjohnson4172 3 жыл бұрын
@bartleon
@bartleon 3 жыл бұрын
I have posted on your profile.
@thedrama-freeclub
@thedrama-freeclub 2 жыл бұрын
You don't need a lot to be happy. An attitude of gratitude will always make you happy. You may not have all that you'd hope for, but you can still be appreciative of what you have. Gratitude is a constant reminder of how fortunate you are to have all that you've been blessed with. Gratitude will always find a reason for you to be thankful. Ingratitude does the opposite. It's a constant reminder of what you don't have. This often leads to stress and depression. If you want to be happier in life, find more things that you are appreciative of, both great or small.
@richardrawski5448
@richardrawski5448 9 ай бұрын
thank you so very much 365 give, Jacqueline Way. this is beautiful.
@priyasrivastav8889
@priyasrivastav8889 7 жыл бұрын
Really inspirational.. Respect to you ma'am.. What a wonderful lady you are .
@jacquelineway
@jacquelineway 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, Priya. Thank you for the compliment. I am just a one person trying to make a little sent in the world and I am humbled by all the support. I appreciate you taking the time to watch and comment. It inspired me to stay on our mission.
@lilisharimaniants8397
@lilisharimaniants8397 6 жыл бұрын
Priya Srivastav b
@sirishreddyg
@sirishreddyg 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the life light! Respect.
@365give
@365give 5 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome. I so love you said this. "Life light" such great words Sirish. Thank you for watching and I wish you a wonderful day filled with light.
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@manin5082 5 жыл бұрын
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