HIJABI TALKS EP. 3 | The Double Standard & Hiding Shady Past From Partner?! | Aysha Abdul

HEY FAM! HIJABI TALKS EPISODE 3 IS FINALLY HERE!! Sorry for making y'all wait so long, but we hope you enjoy! The topic today is The Double Standard between men & women...is there one?! Be sure to SUBSCRIBE to my channel & LIKE this video if you want another episode!
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[@jaivrse]

We need more hijabi talks this is my favorite thing to watch. I’ve been a hijabi for 2 months and watch your discussions open up my eyes to things I️ would never pay attention to as a non hijabi. Can you guys talk about hijabi shamming?

[@peppamynt]

i'm not a Hijabi..i'm not even Muslim but i love this series

[@NancyAsabea]

I love the girl with the beige hijab! She gives me so much life! 😂👏🏾

[@nomusanormluthuli5677]

I struggle wearing Hijab, I'm a revert and I'm the only Muslim in my family and it's kinda difficult to practice Islam especially Hijab... Seeing such talks makes me feel more empowered

[@sarahkargbo]

Nomusa Ateefah Luthuli aww masha’Allah may Allah reward you for your struggle ameen , you just need to surround yourself yourself with some strong hijabi sisters insha’Allah x

[@sousounad]

Nomusa Ateefah Luthuli aww! Stay strong girl! It’ll all be worth it in the end in sha Allah. May Allah make it easy for you, ameen 💕

[@hanaban29]

Love this!! Stay patient and insha Allah, you're being rewarded. God is the Most Merciful. Glad we could be of motivation

[@Frates1]

I love the Hijab on a woman, It says to me you are are a strong proud Muslim. I secretly admire Islam and if I had the strength at the moment I’d revert in a heartbeat!

[@drawingit9836]

Allah is there for you. Stay strong.

[@saba.sabina]

Can y’all please bring these episodes back?!? 🥰🥰🥰

[@ryuruker2]

"That's why you get a snowblower" hahahahahhaha. Girls, I love all of you but Sara sure is my favourite!

[@sousounad]

lmaooo

[@ryuruker2]

Sara A. Love you!

[@nasteehatkd1412]

YASSSSS new hijabi talks video! Your all so beautiful ma shaa Allah 😻🌹

[@musicfordreamers]

Thank you thank you thank you for this series !! It's what we need now a days. Double standard is a huge topic that should be talked about in the community. This video made me feel like i'm hanging out with you girls. Keep doing what you're doing

[@awatif4051]

Half an hour?? YESSS Finna grab a cuppa and come back wooooo

[@nadiahakossiwa]

Can you do a Hijabi Talks KZbinr Edition with other hijabi KZbinrs?

[@mariamxo4678]

Nadiah Unlocked yesss i like that idea!

[@aleenahaidari5075]

I love your contents especially the talks with your cousins. Please keep making similar contents. Bless you all

[@fu1612]

I love this series, I've been excited since the last upload! You girls are awesome at discussing serious topics in such an entertaining way! You should consider doing it as a livestream to get viewer interactions as you speak 👍🏽😊

[@Timaj1234]

I didn't realize how long the video was till it ended...I wish it was longer it was so GOOD!! Great discussions, and wallah,literally laughed every 10sec😂. Ya'lls makeup games are forever inspiration to step up mine.💞 I be seeing @ay_emann's highlight from a mile away😆. Hanan's bold lip complimented her features so well, Nabat's eyeshadow game tho!! As for Sara, I love her dark makeup looks it reminds me a lot of myself XD. and awh, wish Liza Koshy could've came through, inshAllah next time.And Aysha, I can't get over how your foundation games are always so flawless like YESSS GURL! I see black excellence in your guys's squad! #squadgoals💖

[@romz11khan]

I've seen Hanan at York so many times lol! Great video, its always nice to see a different perspective on these types of topics that are rarely discussed!

[@eelam87]

Ahhhh! Been waiting for this!!! You’re all amazing. Love your chemistry and everyone should have fam support n love like this! 🙌🏾

[@MakeupVixen]

I just love these episodes! Thank you for sharing these with us.

[@soniaben7074]

finally i've been waiting FOR this sooo loooong :)

[@MsEricao]

haha @ he has to be making money... I won't look at him the same way. You women are the best!!!!! I love the way you all kept it real :) -much love from Toronto !!!!

[@rhondab99]

Good job ladies. Eman is so hilarious. I adore her.

[@UkhtiIfra]

Awww I missed this series the only series that really makes me feel happy and relatable also miss the other cousin who looks like liza koshy haha your all so gorgeous mashallah! Also I think for me being a pakistani my dad (parents) are overprotective because I'm the only daughter and I'm their respect in a way if you know what I mean but I appreciate them being like the way they're because it shows they care. Although it can be a bit annoying when my brothers get the benefit of the doubt with everything! XOX 💜

[@emanharun1739]

Ukhti. Ifra you're so cute!! ❤

[@UkhtiIfra]

Eman Harun haha i honestly I really missed you in this video, I hope your in the next one! I didn't think you'd see my comment but know your very appreciated in the hijabi talks 💗😂

[@emanharun1739]

Ukhti. Ifra you legit are the sweetest ❤❤ you made my day. Just for you I will be ;) in sha Allah

[@UkhtiIfra]

Eman Harun haha I look forward in seeing you, in sha Allah 💖

[@delinapinto2420]

This was so much fun watching 💕💕

[@AishaZkitchen]

I seeeeeee my Favorite 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾. Iman right with the army shirt. Love her, and you all are doing a great job 😍.

[@floatingwiththeclouds2016]

Literally all stunners mashallah i love this series😍😍💞💞💞💞💯💯💯💯🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@ayaan9985]

Yesss finally, waited for the Hijabi Talks so long! Great discussions, can't wait for the next episodes. Ps: you look all beautiful mA!

[@faridahkeana4310]

@ay_emann is backkkk💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻 love her.

[@flowersonwalls]

Yaaaaas positive vibes from Strayaaaa

[@maryanali1802]

Yaaas!! Hijabi talks video mA😍😍I have waited for this💖

[@nanaaliu5537]

Fabulous ladies.... Allah’s blessings always 👍🏾❤️

[@halimayassin6231]

I felt like this episode was way too short, and I just realised that it's actually a 30-min vid. Tbh I could watch hour long episodes of Hijabi talks!

[@AyshaHarun]

+Halima Yassin haha be careful what you wish for!

[@anonymousxalimo2286]

I'm gonna have to come back to this in a couple of hours. But thumbs up tho!

[@alinathesun9026]

I've been waiting on this for so long!! i gotta get some food so the next 29 mins are gonna be as lit as possible

[@maryamoelmi7340]

I love this, i can't wait for more episodes

[@rm5981]

Salam. I love these hijabi talks so much!!! Keep it up . Anyways the question about telling your "potential" husband or wife your past I think is unnecessary as long as it isn't known by anyone else and you've already repented for it. There's no reason to bring it back up again and be judged for it. If allah concealed your sins for you say Alhamdulillah and keep it moving. Abu Hurayrah said: I heard the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: “All of my ummah will be forgiven except those who sin openly. It is a part of sinning openly when a man does something at night, then the following morning when Allaah has concealed his sin, he says, ‘O So and so, I did such and such last night,’ when all night his Lord has concealed him and the next morning he uncovers what Allaah had concealed.” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5721; Muslim, 2990).

[@amirbadamasi4215]

love u guys💖💖💖💖nabat is soo amazing!

[@MsSofiyaa]

amir badamasi haha thank you! 😊

[@parismkj43]

Lmaoo I Love Sara "it's not her fault you're a bum" 😭😭😭

[@aliajilo2035]

YESSS I MISSED THIS SO MUCH 😭💖

[@rrrajo]

these videos b speaking to me on so many levels 😍😫

[@aida_sow]

I loooove this series you're all so beautiful and smart !!!!! mashallah

[@hanahm2374]

i loooooooveeee this series

[@kadiatousow9406]

Please do more hijabi talks please talk about marriage and expectation vs reality

[@shamd29]

been waiting for this video!!!

[@Lanathearcher]

Yesssss I love these, you guys are so beautiful Mashallah

[@ambersina159]

lol i was just abt to ask where did the squad go 😍 so excited.

[@tiyyas3022]

I love these conversations, they remind of the talks my siblings,friends and I have. I'm not sure, but once you hit a certain level of maturity and growth, you'll stop thinking of what the aunties/moms/dads think of your choices... just continue to irritate them with your standards (even basic things like, "he better have a decent job and not have a criminal history," will irritate some of them and they eventually give up on trying to set you up with bums :P). Simply becoming 18 or graduating college, or even having a full-time job/career won't do it for some of us, but Alhamdulilah we all have our own lives to live out. For the sister who can't/won't hit up a brother she's interested in, HUNTY you is losing out LOL. If he's a mature young MAN, he'll continually respect you for having the guts to do what others sway away from. I went through an extensive courting process with my now husband and I was the one to make that first move. Have a game plan and don't let these basic ass boys waste your time and energy with sweet talk ladies. Get down to the important ish and see if that scares em off :P.

[@jaboubaa928]

I love these types of videos and always share them with my daughter, but I don’t agree with you guys on hiding your past from a potential future husband. I think it’s best to not hide anything and put everything on the table good or bad and on both sides. Should always be honest, honestly is the best policy as they say.

[@AishaZkitchen]

Jabou baa heyyyyy but islamically it wrong to tell your husband or a potential someone but your past.

[@hebaalmurai5012]

I Love those Hijabi talks.. pls do some new Videos

[@LAILAUMUTONI20]

Wow finally the hijab talks is out thank you it’s well edited if it’s possible can you do a video about friendship goals?thank you

[@sousounad]

LAILA UMUTONI ouuu friendship goals sounds like an interesting topic!

[@LAILAUMUTONI20]

Sara A. We will be happy to hear it from you all

[@Ro-np1ed]

Ma Shaa' Allah, you are all very beautiful and intelligent. May Allah bring you closer and help each other in Imaan and good times, always, In Shaa' Allah. May Allah Bless and Protect you and your family, In Shaa' Allah

[@AyshaHarun]

+Rodeyna Ameen, InshaAllah ❤️

[@emanharun1739]

awww loved this! I laughed so much. Wish I was there to chat with y'all 💔💔

[@samiprettteyes]

Eman Harun wish you was there too

[@hanaban29]

Eman Harun Missed you liza koshy❤️

[@MsSofiyaa]

You have to be there next time! We all missed you too much ❤️

[@leilaluv7154]

Yess love talks like these 😊

[@Ablo0419]

"It's not her fault he's a bum"😂😂😂....Yo chill!!! PS I learn alot from your girl talks and I am a 25 year old grown man. Very positive👍

[@gloristeele]

Women are the real architects of society! 💪👸

[@KhoisanTalks]

I don't know how ... Well experienced y'all are to answer questions on marriages... Like I know I can't have a conversation about Muslim marriages and the dynamic because I have zero point of personal reference. So I don't like when people ask me questions on marriage in Islam as I've not personally experienced it.... Does that make sense? But still love all your answers 😘😘😘

[@somayanoor9389]

I know someone how has married a christian woman and it didn't work out but the kids are Muslims and another couple didn't work out too but the kids are Christian

[@farhiyaa4880]

Don't bring up past unless it will be effecting your marriage now----things like he got kids out of wedlock, he was previously married, any mental illness, if he got an std or went to jail.

[@AyshaHarun]

+Adila Aday 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@sousounad]

Agreeeeed!

[@tiyyas3022]

you'd be surprised how not talking about certain things like people's childhood and family dynamics actually affect you once you're married. Don't fear having a simple conversation simply because you think it won't affect you or think it's not important, be fearless and talk about everything. Eventually it all comes out anyways. Talking to someone is different than being married and having to live with all their/your baggage.

[@sousounad]

Hiking Jabi for sure, I agree with this. If you’re married to someone, you should have an open line of communication with your husband/wife. But we were referring to past (possible) sins committed...once you repent, there really is no need to bring it up (in most cases) but like the original comment said, if it’s something that’ll affect the marriage in the future then I think it should be mentioned.

[@justwatching8455]

I used to live in ny. And I had to use the public transportation to get from school back home and I would have to stay out late cuz of after school activities. And my mom would just say to make sure that I tell here where I will be and when I'll be home by. Because you know how women like to gossip. And my neighborhood is very Islamic based. So if some aunt saw me out at night. And talked my my mom about it. My mom would know why I was coming home late and she knew about it. Like where I was and when I was going to be getting home

[@Frates1]

You guys are fantastic and any man would be lucky to be with any one of you.

[@adriennedonson4362]

Iman I like your style, you keep it real

[@numberone22459]

Loved this

[@sumayasworks3456]

Lovin' this

[@bellam.nightshadow3563]

Hi!! Will you guys be continuing hijabi talks?? I'd love to know all your thoughts on non-muslims wearing hijab in support of our Muslim friends and sisters and wearing hijab respectfully, not mockingly.

[@RAMONAEYES]

Great video💖💖💖💖

[@Kawkaw27]

MashAllah ladies, where are all the hijabs from?

[@naimafaki6407]

When u hit the like button even before watching

[@imanmohammed4220]

Yess girlls

[@lilylily5057]

Great video.

[@rehanaahmed9854]

Am not going to waste time reading the 8 comments. Am just going to comment and say that I am the 134th person watching. It's an improvement

[@anonymousxalimo2286]

Im number 171 :)

[@rgadwagialla6649]

The girl with the light green hijab is beautiful

[@ceoofsunflower9432]

Yaaayyy I'm the first 🤑

[@aichadoukoure7281]

Beautiful ladies

[@hadeelkhalidxx]

Beautiful women

[@myagrey1348]

Ayyyye I’m from Edmonton 😂

[@ha.3733]

I actually think its best to tell them about your past, and if he is the type to judge you because of that then you shouldnt marry him. To not tell him is kind of like hiding it, and besides I would want him to tell me if he did something in the past. I think that in some ways our past shapes who we are today, wether it is for the good or for the bad

[@tiyyas3022]

Exactly! Trust, those things will eventually come out and affect your relationship; if you were open from the beginning, then your foundation is stronger and things popping up won't put a damper on your marriage inshaaAllah!.

[@hanaban29]

That's why we said it depends on what this "past" is you know? Like if my husband asked me of course I'd be more willing to share. But if I made a mistake in the past and repented, my husband should expect me to expose sins I repented from. If God told us to hide our sins, who is he to expect me to uncover them you know?

[@ha.3733]

hanaban29 but why does it depend on what you did though? Why should a person that you love and intend to stay with for the rest of your life make you feel uncomfortable or insecure bout something that you did in your past, if that isn't who you are anymore? Me personally, if I wanted to talk about some shit that I did in my past I would just say it, I wouldnt wait until I was asked. And I would expect for him to listen and not judge, and if he does judge me or reacts in a certain type of way, im out ✌🏾

[@hanaban29]

the way I see it, the person I was before my partner doesn't concern him (and I say this lightly because i'm not talking about the serious stuff lol). My business is my business. I'll share what I feel is relevant to my relationship and anything else that I left behind in my past he should love and respect me enough to trust the person that I am today. And I'd hope the same on his end. If my partner is pressuring me to tell him "secrets" then ima rethink making him my man in the first place. lol. My whole point is I share what I want to share because I WANT to not because I'm expected to or "should". Much love sis

[@ha.3733]

hanaban29 i get were your coming from

[@Xafsa]

Mashallah 💞

[@fakihaabdi]

At 7:22 ( I live in edmonton) and I am Hariri and I think I know her???

[@smooth2477]

5 beautiful halimos

[@jawhar1476]

Yaaasss

[@jawhar1476]

All of u look beautiful mashaallah

[@annmarielatimer7889]

I thought you only have to ask Allah for forgiveness and you are performing a sin if you tell your partner what you already told Allah? I know I did not word this right but I watched another blog where this was discussed and a woman is not to tell her past because it is against Allah's wishes

[@salahudinrahim1367]

This is good talk, it opens closed minds BUT the group leader swears and curses to much. Remember what Rasoolilaahi saaws said about the toung on judgement day.

[@MultiSkysthelimit]

A women always has to have a way of making money separate from the man.Sometimes ,a lot a times a man is going to make less then a very ambitious women.

[@KhoisanTalks]

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[@bellapaige6151]

First

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[@MultiSkysthelimit]

Bleep non Muslim women have to hide a shady past too lol.

[@maryamthebest]

I disagree, when you said , if someone converts to islam for their partner they are likely to be stronger in the deen.In the short term probably.But as soon as the relationship turns south they'll go part to their old ways.However, if the person converts because of the teachings of the religion, they are more likely to be stronger in the deen.

[@AyshaHarun]

+Maryam Ali sorry yea I meant what you said here, I didn’t mean literally concert just for a relationship 💕

[@salmahelrufai6202]

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