Tia Tells Colton "Pick Me Or Leave!" | Bachelor In Paradise

Colton needs to make a decision about what he wants. Is he in Paradise to make it work with Tia, or to see what can happen with others. Should Tia give him a rose a risk it?
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[@crystalmarks2735]

Tia! Girl you need to know when a guy is just not that into you. It was obvious he didn't want you and you were totally blind to it.

[@crystalmarks2735]

@Krisha Patel I feel like even then though he wasn't even into her. I think he felt pressured because the whole cast wanted them to be together or expected them too. None of the other girls seemed interested in him because Tia kind of claimed him on the first day by making it known she was only there for him. He knew Tia wanted him and no one else shown interest in him so of course he just gave it a shot with her because he didn't want to leave the show. Remember on the last day he was there he said his whole life he has done what others wanted him to do, he even played football to make his family happy, then right after that he said "I can't stay in a relationship just because it makes someone else happy if I'm not happy, that's not right and that's leading her on"

[@crystalmarks2735]

@Krisha Patel what I meant by Tia claiming him is how she wouldn't stop talking about Colton on the first day when she arrived..it was like saying "don't even try it ladies, he's mine" and I think Colton knew that was the case, he tried to start something with Angela but she backed off because of what other people were saying about him and the Tia situation..so I just feel that he settled for Tia because it was the only way he could stay. I don't think he dislikes Tia, I just think with everyone on the beach wanting him to be with Tia maybe got him confused about how he really felt about her.

[@crystalmarks2735]

@@57andstillkicking couldn't have said it better myself Carole! Yes I remember when Colton said he was a people pleaser right before he broke up with her.

[@mikenelson8377]

I blame him. He developed an ego of ladies wanting him and she’s not wrong for wanting a yes or no answer.

[@zeynand4039]

She had it in her head he came back for her.

[@anncynajac4181]

Sis, he obviously was not here for you. He came to get over Becca and you just happened to be there.

[@fmanissocool]

So basically she kissed another guy to make colton jealous and get a rise out of him? What is this highschool?

[@SweetAsCandy456042]

It was Before he came on bachelor in paradise she had a date the day beforem

[@taytayqueen7024]

‘I don’t want to be a second choice’ Girl, you’re not a choice at all to him. 😂😂😂

[@Lcb1123]

I think she made up a big scenario in her head. I think her relationship with him wasn’t as big as she always thought.

[@OneEandA_TwoEandA]

He doesn’t want her and is not interested. He’s being brutally honest and not leading her on lol. Idk why she can’t understand that.

[@delilahrainelle7158]

Tia,”I’m not forcing you to do anything... but you either pick me or leave!” Leave Colton, leave.

[@nicolehouse4875]

colton stay with her

[@ninacal06]

@@nicolehouse4875 No Colton don’t listen to Nicole ...runnnn

[@thechosenone1533]

She didn't exactly tell him to leave. She was right about no one wanting to give him a rose. Bibiana gave him a rose only because the producers bribed or forced her to do so.

[@fatimaolumee4517]

Honestly, Colton never promised Tia anything. She basically forced him off of Becca’s season and now she’s trying to make sure she’s Colton’s first and only choice. Such a possessive witch. I don’t think he was ready for dating after Becca. He should have taken time to figure out what he wanted. Or dating off the show without Tia looming over him like the vulture she is. He never committed to her, how is he being a “cop out”?! Tia’s awful.

[@mabelw7]

Tia is like entitle to her opinions as well... so they both r entitle to state their opinions

[@sapulene]

Omg your vocab is everything (witch, looming, culture, forced him off)🤣🤣🤣❤️

[@xiamariansupreme72]

@@mabelw7 Her "opinion" is bullshxt. She was legit trying to corner Colton, like a dog.

[@alyssab4538]

Tia is soo immature it makes me sick Edit:WOW thanks I’ve never had more than 5 likes😂

[@DiaN-do3jm]

when someone has to put in so much effort/energy into something that feels like it's not working, it's likely not working. we've all been there once.

[@TheGalihsavitri]

9

[@magreth7981]

Terrible feeling !

[@elizabethcreated9263]

Diane N or twice....

[@misslaptop8505]

That lightning that happened behind Tia was such a perfect timing 😂

[@SparklyGirl9911]

I am me Yes I was thinking the same thing - an Omen. Lol Just like the Church Gonging when she was trying to have a serious talk with him and get him to ask her to be his girlfriend. ☺️

[@sapulene]

That wicked witch or Sesame Street countess vibe ⚡️⚡️😆🤣🤣🤣

[@chelseylin6724]

She literally blackmailing him into dating her!!! And then has to nerve to insult him like “no one wants to give you a rose” Like really?! She clearly can’t handle rejection!!!

[@Ashbash-kf5xd]

When someone flips the switch and immediately gets nasty, it’s usually the last act of a desperate person.

[@rebeccalogan2938]

He doesn’t like you tia omg😂

[@mikenelson8377]

Rebecca Logan then he should just say it and save themselves the grief. She DOES have a point. If he doesn’t like her then tell her so she could watch out for herself.

[@longislandartist]

Mike Nelson ...news flash. He told her a dozen times in that conversation. He just wasn't BRUTAL. She really wasn't HEARING what he was saying!

[@hollyw2203]

Just like Cassie did not like him. 😂

[@nicolehouse4875]

he likes tia

[@navjitpannu7572]

then why did Colton asked Tia to be his Girlfriend it doesn't make sense

[@RONALDB62]

Tia was shocked when the last girl gave him the rose. I loved the expression on her face!😂

[@coelhinha10100]

Tia... you sounds VERY desperate 😱

[@amandaspellman7536]

That is exactly how I viewed it myself....she says she isn't pressuring him well obviously she was doing just that. She sounds like a winnie desperate high schooler not getting her damn way.

[@LKid246]

Amanda Spellman “her *darn way”

[@ninacal06]

Tia is pathetic and desperate.

[@Tedtopdawg]

He is so not interested lmao

[@hopebullard460]

What she is doing is so UNATTRACTIVE!! Nobody should say Take me or Leave!

[@z.m7483]

She's too pushy, and that is not atractive. The more you push the more they pull away. You cant force love, it needs to come naturally. If it's not working then it's not, there is no need to be so defensive. He has the right to feel whatever he feels.

[@amandaspellman7536]

Well said....my thought exactly.

[@kallie1963]

😂😂 colton should’ve taken this advice and remembered when tia tried forcing him to love her instead of thinking it was ok when he tried to force cassie into loving him when she left him bc she was just not into the guy 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@The4thofKinder]

Colton should have picked Hanna G

[@jenniferanngarcia2496]

Girl! He's Not That In To You. Read the book. It will save you a lot of heartache...Move on.

[@Hannah-rs6vk]

This comment! Yes this book saved me from wasting my time on guys who weren’t that into me

[@aurelia4297]

what book?

[@jenniferanngarcia2496]

@@aurelia4297 The book is called He's Not That Into You.

[@jenniferanngarcia2496]

@@Hannah-rs6vk I wish this book was around when I was younger.

[@aurelia4297]

@@jenniferanngarcia2496 oo cool thanks

[@brickinterviewertv]

she sounds like a control freak oh my goodness run

[@brady4280]

Wow this girl is high school af

[@lennisncolonrivera2715]

Tia ruined what Becca and Colton could have had. That was selfish waiting till almost the end to say she was discused and all of this is like WAOW. She is like obsessed.

[@michaelgarcia7990]

Tia why are you lecturing Colton on what kind of man you deserve and want went he clearly told you he's happy for you to go find a man to make you happy. Lol girl you being silly. Stop. Where's my chicken?

[@sydmadventure]

“Nobody else is going to give you a rose” tf

[@binhn.c.7003]

Sydney Lenart Ikr??? She’s cornering him and giving herself the role of the hero saving him.

[@mathscichic]

How does she know what everyone else wants??? What a manipulative crazy b!

[@shajuandacampbell1008]

Why does Tia want Colton to "feel some type of way" about her being with another person.

[@Janedoe-bm5cd]

Take a shot everytime she says “like”

[@BachelorNation]

🤣🤣🤣

[@DreamerLuna1995]

She’s so manipulative...

[@swetavyas]

He is not that into her. What part of that she doesnt understand. I am not sure why she is forcing him to commit when he is clearly not ready

[@OneEandA_TwoEandA]

Sweta Vyas agreed 100%

[@willowoblin677]

Tia is so manipulative

[@sanaasayedd]

I did not know she was this desperate and forceful? She never came off that way

[@Jaynay009]

She is manipulative and has been since the Bachelor with Arie. She would second guess date cards, Arie's actions and try and make the others insecure. I was surprised she reached the final 4 , which was down to her strategy. More obvious in BIP.

[@Nikkicheethor]

Why is it so hard to just read or understand him that he isn’t interested.

[@civilianarc9624]

Tia:Pick me or leave. Colton: 'Ight imma head out

[@takeitorleaveit.6333]

I don't get her logic. She wants Colton to be all about her, but she's out kissing? Okay....

[@junidelouissaint5131]

She wanted him to feel Jealous

[@dolorescritandi3426]

what a bully its all about her her her her

[@milwaukeemotor5995]

i understand where colton is coming from, he hasn't made a decision to be exclusive or in a committed relationship with Tia, but he wants to keep his options open, but yet he hasn;t completely ruled out Tia (his feelings may change or using her as a backup), so Tia, if his intentions don't align with what you're looking for, then move on

[@binhn.c.7003]

“So you’re just gonna wait around for the next best thing instead of pursuing what’s in front of you?” Excuse me, WHAT?

[@Ih3artkarma]

Tia really walks around thinking she’s the cat’s meow lol

[@yuriysautomotivetube8053]

The lighting strike came at the perfect moment

[@karinaparada6619]

He couldn't have been more cleared! HE DIDN'T WANT YOU!!!!!

[@ashleyluna4290]

To be fair, he didn't really want anyone that wasn't a man. 🤷 he just hadn't came out of the closet yet...

[@biggslim100]

Lol

[@blueshoes915]

He should’ve gave his first date card to Angela. He doesn’t like you Tia, give up!

[@coelhinha10100]

Hey Tia, HE IS JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU. Move on girl.

[@mythoughts6229]

Did this desperate Tia agreed with Colton that they should take the opportunity to take a chance or to try and see how things work???? She kept on pushing him for answer she is totally desperate!

[@jessicajohnson5859]

I can't wait for the bachelor Colton is going to find the one he wants Tia he obviously doesn't want you he didn't want you then he doesn't want you now,

[@miafranco7821]

She is so manipulative. Glad he is with Cassie

[@patrocialett2100]

@mia i second that emotion

[@LisaGallegos]

Not anymore lol

[@tocatchapredatorshows8575]

He’s with David Cassidy now

[@stacythaaoo]

He don’t need to choose you girl omggg💀

[@ceradaddygibson]

Colton “I feel like I’m being pressured to make this decision Tia “you’re not” Also Tia “No one else wants to give you a rose” Bitch >.>

[@adfilms1235]

Isn’t it funny how that thunder hit at the perfect time😂

[@kotulillo7930]

How does Colton even like Tia

[@Jaynay009]

Same thing I asked about Arie. I think she has them spellbound, literally. She's average looking but doesn't even have a great personality

[@ninacal06]

He doesn’t. Duh.

[@Judy7329]

Definitely a true Stalker. She needs help, urgently. So sick.

[@tocatchapredatorshows8575]

Looks like a witch 🧙‍♀️ too

[@Mary-kl2kj]

Lmao, all these girls coming at him not knowing he is trying to figure out his sexuality.

[@SthaMavundla]

If he didn't try make things work out in the real world, why the hell would you expect the guy to come at you in Paradise? No guys. Sit down.

[@tognyd2349]

How many ways does he need to tell you that: He's. Not. THAT. Into. You!!!

[@ren1724]

Girl bye. He doesn’t owe you anything, I wouldn’t have even listened to Tia with that condescending tone.

[@Darthfugface]

He doesnt want you

[@funchik93]

He's literally telling her "Go, I don't want you". Than GO! God their "relationship" was toxic.

[@maralee2429]

Anyone on Paradise who says they "came to explore other options" is simply trying to say they're not into that person. If they were, they wouldn't have eyes for anyone else.

[@nomadichomebody4230]

It’s not you, it’s him

[@deborahyoung1717]

Tia sucks... She ain't good person.. You cant force someone to fall for you. You are forcing him damnit... Colton, you deserve better!

[@aax6799]

Lmao the music & the flash of lightning behind her 😂😂

[@gloriaa0214]

This was so hilarious to watch I'm deaddd

[@Laura-ef3kw]

He almost let slip, "I came on this beach to figure-" himself out?? Also Tia is annoying.

[@Dreamllama17]

Tia. HE. DOESNT. LIKE. YOU.

[@class6s167]

He know what he doesn't whant thoe

[@skyebaby4374]

hes littrly telling her to go for someone else and shes like be jealous ultimatum this tht and he didt care at all. so odd this was an odd conversation to hear xD

[@brittnipeters1719]

That doesn't bother you?.. Nope! 😂😂😂

[@JamieMcgee518]

If there was a fence on the beach, he would jump it . 🤪

[@alexbarnes9364]

Colton is Peter from Neverland who never grew up speaking in circles and crying.

[@zohayazdani00]

If you ain't his choice he doesn't care! Why the heck are you waiting?

[@silvifl2520]

Basically Tia doesn’t believe in the friendship rose

[@dollyhooks7389]

Give it up lady! He's better off with someone else.

[@prettyblue000]

When I saw this airing, I was always on Tia's side, now rewatching this, she sounds so desperate and obsessive, ugh.

[@litalising9265]

to be completely fair, rewatching these clips kinda makes me think it wasn’t tia just being crazy. i mean obviously she had strong feelings for him but i feel like the producers manipulated her into thinking her and colton could be the next big paradise couple (like jade/tanner or ashley/jared), maybe that’s why she keeps pushing this? idk just a theory? i still don’t like her but i’m trying to understand why she acted the way she did. also to mention colton definitely wasn’t perfect but he clearly wasn’t interested! anyways yeah

[@victoriagee1059]

Tia sounds kind of crazy

[@ninacal06]

kind of?

[@MrDro1128]

Colton looks like the brother from 50 first dates

[@jeango-oco7970]

Sean Astin (aka Samwise Gamgee)?

[@chcocat]

when did she say it

[@lydias2928]

She’s so desperate. I feel bad for her but if he doesn’t want you, it’s as simple as that. You can’t force people to love you. Let go and move on!

[@amandaspellman7536]

My thought exactly.

[@SB-qf9yt]

This did not age well 🤣

[@Kayleelovesy]

OMG THANK GOD SHE WAS NOT THE BACHELORETTE

[@DCGuava]

Its easy to bash on her but weve all had moments in our life where we had rose colored glasses on about someone. Have some compassion yall.

[@elizabethunger9190]

Did Colton have a lisp here and didn’t for his season on the Bachelor?

[@plumsmom8043]

Its called alcohol

[@jjjellyfish4198]

Does anyone notice that he has a lisp on the second half of the video (Colton)

[@judybygrave330]

This is silly. Colton and Tia were never really an item, they dated for a couple of weeks and that was all. He finished it before he went Aire's season of The Bachelor. Tia is a 'stalker' - just sad. Surely she realises he is not interested but she keeps pushing herself on him. she even mentioned she wants to marry him. She needs help

[@horepahm3539]

Girl, I feel sorry for you, first of all, "Know your worth & Second, don't chase after guys that they 100% never spend any 5seconds thinking or care for you. OMG Tia, move on girl, that the real answer from Colton, move on.👀

[@alannashaw]

"No one else wants to give you a rose" so... does he want her to lie to her so he can get her rose or?

[@rebecacruz2712]

I’m just giving you this free pass gosh she’s crazy

[@kalilane8929]

Omg Tia 👀 Relax girl

[@user-sm9tg4rc1n]

He's just not that into her

[@GrizzlyUrsusArctos]

This had to be so hard for Colton to put on this charade for tv bucks. Glad he’s out.

[@mabelw7]

Colton should date around n figure what type of girl he likes... but maybe just convos n not kissing n dates cuz its weird having girls u like knowing that

[@iamlegend68]

Colton should forget about this show and take time to come to terms with his feelings for Becca and to move on from that before he can give his heart to someone new. In a nutshell, Tia wanted Colton bad but Colton didn't feel the same way. Seems like he was pressured by everyone to give things a go with Tia but deep down he just didn't feel anything with her (probably more of a good friend than a potential partner). You can't force someone to like you. Tia is a beautiful woman. I'm sure she'll find a man who can give her a 100% every day.

[@irenedezwaan8203]

Honey, I think you missed a few things lolololol

[@jenniferhansen3622]

@@irenedezwaan8203 😄

[@SK-ck9qu]

I like her southern accent

[@ritanayo8500]

She keeps saying she’s holding herself back by waiting for him , THEN DONT LIKE SHUT UP

[@KAYSWORLD365]

No guys like you Tia you are clingy and dont let the guy like you before you tell them you’re in love with them lol you scare everyone off

[@Trish0871]

I didn’t watch her on the Bachelor or even watch BIP, but in the clips that I have seen, she annoys me.

[@class6s167]

He knows what he doesn't want thoe

[@tih4085]

This is actually so pathetic

[@bedbugs6399]

This is Colton don’t be a colton

[@tgs4653]

He's just not that into you

[@HarryJohnson69]

Damn, this is a female full on admitting she wants a guy to fight for him. What makes her think she’s worth that?

[@bringsnsdback1645]

I love it. Tia was a tough one and honestly couldn't care less about Colton

[@Julietavolcano]

I think it’s the other way around bud 😂 you’re reading this wrong hahahahah

[@tinahuttner7280]

Oh gawd this show is just for ratings🤨