Sadly Many times this type of EVIL behavior tends to run in families !!!
@Elisabeth190319784 ай бұрын
Narcissists set their boundaries too, as if you are the bad person!
@leannenagle10604 ай бұрын
If you've ever heard the: "How DARE You!" speech, you know. They are so full of themselves.
@patriciaclark544 ай бұрын
Yes I have learned that just recently my husband has a bad habit in gaslighting me, but now I know what it means
@StoicQuotes3652 ай бұрын
This video is a powerful reminder that not everyone has our best interests at heart. Recognizing these behaviors early can save us from a lot of pain. It's incredible how Stoic philosophy can guide us through such challenging situations! How do you protect your peace when faced with manipulative people?
@LaoSoftwareАй бұрын
I want to be happy again. I won't allow anyone to manipulate me again.
@penkapetkova4284 ай бұрын
Very good and important video about toxic dangerous people. They are born to destroy - wgat makes them happy - it is their drug. The drug of good people is to build and fo good things. Do not ever become friends or marry with a toxic person - they will try to ruin you or erase you, or you pet, your life, your good mood, etc etc everything - true !
@joey58164 ай бұрын
So true. I was always attacked and my Lil dog got treated terrible. Thank God I. Learned that I wasn't the crazy one.
@ralphengbloom96654 ай бұрын
So true all you can do is rise above them and ignore people like that, I have people like the ones I know will never change.
@SD-rm5ty4 ай бұрын
Yes the best revenge is not to be like your enemy.
@BrotherTrav10434 ай бұрын
. Yes, asking forgiveness is a question.Not a statement.That's why it's so powerful.Will you forgive me?Means a question.
@StoicInYourLife4 ай бұрын
'The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.' This video reminds us that being aware and proactive can save us from a lot of heartache.
Beautifully said , this has been my life success. I was blessed to be adopted and grow up in a low vibrational community. I have always been grateful to not be like others.
@hibbertsh4 ай бұрын
I have experienced a narcissist up close. I recognized a lot of these traits. I walked away from this abuse.
@listener-s4l4 ай бұрын
My husband has NPD talk about up close, I thank the lord for these videos is teaching me to cope.
@Lisacoker8404 ай бұрын
I've learned to look at their eyes. When dead eyes are staring back at you, be alert. The same goes for fake smiles. Great video. Thank you!
@thelightstillshines24764 ай бұрын
This is wise wisdom beyond measure.
@unityforall-md4fl4 ай бұрын
@@Lisacoker840 eyes is one of the gateway for lights to enter and it does give out one of the most informations because we cannot consciously control its dilation and constriction; same with facial muscles to show the subconcious control;therefore gives us a more complete picture. This is why humans come from authoritarian regimes aren't allowed to look at leaders in their eyes, so they can get away with their lies, as truth are shown in the eyes and facial expressions.
@melbamartinez21834 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing
@sandraJohnston-dp4tj4 ай бұрын
I’m so stuck with family members and my own children who are like this. I’m surrounded by
@uncleruckusnorelation67054 ай бұрын
☹☹
@GarmentofPraiseSewing4 ай бұрын
Not only is this teaching me about others yet it’s teaching me about myself as well.
@vnstoic4 ай бұрын
😊
@hwlovell4 ай бұрын
Unforutnely our society rewards this behavior. People that lie about others to make themselves look better get promoted in the workplace. When they get subordinates they lack empathy and don't care about the consequeces of their actions. However they kiss the butts of those above them, so they keep their position. Anyone that calls them out gets fired. If hard work and honesty were the way to get ahead more people would follow that path. But people see these behaviors and immiate them so they too can get a bigger piece of the pie. So the situation perpetuates itself.
@jehan_75504 ай бұрын
True 💯
@lzcollins5674 ай бұрын
Agree.
@lilianetamby14234 ай бұрын
The truth is we often don’t put enough thought into things before we act. We often don’t realistically weigh the consequences of our decisions.
@StoicQuotes3652 ай бұрын
This video is a powerful reminder that not everyone has our best interests at heart. Recognizing these behaviors early can save us from a lot of pain. It's incredible how Stoic philosophy can guide us through such challenging situations! How do you protect your peace when faced with manipulative people?
@therese23674 ай бұрын
I just divorced my 64yrs. Old son who is married to a narcissist where l learned that word. For 25 years rampant insult humiliated and so on I had no iota of understanding the reason. CAME the moment of truth I am a good mother as l was told by people and the result. I'm 86 I LEAVE peacefully now but still more work phase to be done. I'm now at your programs mercy. THANK you love your show👍👍✌❤🇨🇦🇨🇦😁
@americajanson88484 ай бұрын
To let him go like that proves that you are a great mother ,your son,,NEEDS HELP!
@therese23674 ай бұрын
Thank you Janson a word of encouragement means a lot to me!✌❤🇨🇦
@taraalan11314 ай бұрын
Never underestimate the bond between mother and son. He will always have you in his heart and this distance may be just what he needs to realise that. I feel jealousy is at the bottom of this. x
@therese23674 ай бұрын
August 17 was my son's birthday I slept with broken heart. didn't anticipate ✌✌❤❤🇨🇦
@alexanderpanday4 ай бұрын
At this old age you had to devorce i feel terrible for you. You should have worked out relationship than finding excuses to get separated.
@shanneuts49714 ай бұрын
“My Flowers aren’t for stepping on”! 🤗👀👍
@gracebautista65594 ай бұрын
I just got out of a relationship from hell. I definitely need to learn boundaries and to stand my ground. Everything mentioned, my ex displayed it all!!! Empathy really kept me sane and now I realized how insane I was to stay for 2 years.
@yvettedurand424 ай бұрын
As a small child, literally 3 or 4 years old, I felt uncomfortable with my own mother. This was not learned or a cognitive thing. It was pure instinct. Something about her was just not right. Growing up under her over-reaching control was a battle against constant gaslighting and guilt. Instead of an apology she would say "I am sorry YOU FEEL that I mistreated you or did this or that." As an adult after several years of professional therapy I had to go no contact with my mother. She finally ended up in a nursing home where she continued her campaign of gaslighting and manipulation. She upset and alienated the other residents and the staff dreaded having to deal with her. They finally had a psychiatrist evaluate her and see her a couple of times a month. Diagnosis: Narcissistic personality disorder with some sociopathic tendencies. My "animal instinct" as a child was right. I learned early to trust my instincts. It has served me well.
@joey58164 ай бұрын
I went through this too
@yvettedurand424 ай бұрын
@@joey5816 Sorry to know this happened to you too. Growing up with that changed the whole course of my life.
@IndigoChick684 ай бұрын
My issue is that I am a truly nice, empathetic person so I'm constantly being taken advantage of in friendships, and even w family members . I give way more than I receive emotionally and I attract the broken people who want me to fix them. These people are the ones who have most of the issues talked about in the video. I am working on setting healthier boundaries bc I KNOW what is happening...it's just harder than I thought it would be to put a stop to it. Great video BTW... Love and light! 🕊️
@lauraquigley93324 ай бұрын
And whats so sad for me is I do take responsibility for my actions and i apologize if Im wrong.
@debrarobey37494 ай бұрын
They. Don't. Run
@MarkusAudio4 ай бұрын
I unexpectedly came across this video just when I finally awoke to my good good friend and business partner being my worst enemy. Better late than never finding it out. Blessings!
@tamekashelton3544 ай бұрын
Narcissist People Always Reap What They Sow Down The Line..
@JudeNance4 ай бұрын
SO LET IT BE
@catedi36794 ай бұрын
Yes, the world is round, and we needn't be there to see it either. And not only last 35 yr ppl not have empathy. they're not even curtious or gracious. And with an atitude of expectation. Some Parents raise their kids like that. NO basic mannerisms,raised like an animal. What an ugly society we live in today.
@ElizzzaB4 ай бұрын
@@JudeNance Let it be so?
@StillYHWHs4 ай бұрын
I'm yet to see it from any of them.
@peanut1001x4 ай бұрын
@@catedi3679 not their fault
@brendasabala41784 ай бұрын
Thank you you just confirmed what I pretty much knew it's not easy to eliminate you own Son.He will never admit anything that's wrong with him I'll keep watching eyes wide open
@janehenderson55894 ай бұрын
This is a brilliant podcast ❤ & I have someone in my life with these traits 😮
@lzcollins5674 ай бұрын
I can't help but feel that my coworker is going around smearing my good name. One day people will be friendly toward me, the next they act like I'm not worth talking too. Ive never felt that anywhere else. Just can't shake that feeling thats he's saying bad things about me whenever possible.
@CK-vs5mh4 ай бұрын
That’s not a fun situation, I’ve experienced similar situations before. Try and keep a professional, approachable, and confident attitude at work…most likely that person may feel intimidated, threatened, or jealous of you…hang in there, try not to let the situation get to you….
@leeshep11564 ай бұрын
Stoicism literally just changed my life... Acceptance of what you cant control and Embrace Accountabilty for What We CAN CONTROL... Every Brother, Nephew, Cousin, Uncle, and Grandpa could benefit from it. To EMPEROR Marcus Arielus, We Salute You... We Salute You!!!
@ramlaBhartwaj4 ай бұрын
there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
@unityforall-md4fl4 ай бұрын
How to do the whispering technique The whisper method is easy. Here are the 5 steps to make it work for you: Choose your desire and think of things you can request from a person to make it come true. Imagine yourself walking up to the person and whispering the command in their ear. Imagine their positive reaction to your request. (Them nodding their head, or cheerfully saying “yes”.) Imagine yourself completely and totally happy and satisfied with your request. Feel the connection you have with the universe and know that your desire will be fulfilled.
@unityforall-md4fl4 ай бұрын
Biggest requirement before using such whisper is we can't have "desire" which kind of contradicts the intentions if one were to use it for selfish reason vs universal reasons. The power of whisper is greatest when it is trying to fulfill the universal desire.
@unityforall-md4fl4 ай бұрын
In order to apply the whispers, it's about the "intentipn", not desires. What is intention? Intention is not a tangible product or material possession. It's a mental state or attitude. It's a way of being, a way of thinking, and a way of approaching life. Here's a more detailed explanation: * A Focused State of Mind: Intention is about directing your thoughts and energy towards a specific goal or outcome. It's a conscious decision to focus on what you want to achieve. * Alignment with Values: Intention is often aligned with your personal values and beliefs. It's about pursuing goals that are meaningful and fulfilling to you. * A Neutral Energy: Intention is typically associated with a calm, neutral state of mind. It's free from negative emotions like fear, doubt, or greed. * A Guiding Force: Intention can serve as a guiding force in your life, helping you make decisions and take actions that align with your goals. In essence, intention is a powerful tool that can help one manifest ones true desires and live a more fulfilling life, but it's a process all habe to journey through, therefore a public none tainted system is needed to sustain such intentions. A public system community we all heard from history to sustain such intentions: some examples 1. Christianity: - Heaven - Kingdom of God - New Jerusalem 2. Islam: - Jannah (Paradise) - Firdaus (Garden of Paradise) 3. Judaism: - Gan Eden (Garden of Eden) - Olam Ha-Ba (World to Come) 4. Buddhism: - Sukhavati (Western Paradise) - Pure Land 5. Hinduism: - Svarga (Heaven) - Vaikuntha (Vishnu's abode) 6. Sikhism: - Sach Khand (True Realm) 7. Taoism: - Western Paradise - Isles of the Blessed 8. Baha'i Faith: - Abha Kingdom - Heavenly Realm 9. Zoroastrianism: - Paradise (Vahishta) - Garodemana (House of Song)
@listener-s4l4 ай бұрын
Thanks I will check it out.
@MG-ot2yr4 ай бұрын
I would also add that pay attention to the questions they ask, they're usually ones that strike you as odd for someone to be curious about, but its to probe for your weaknesses and vulnerabilities....so be careful what you divulge. The other is mixed messages, which might go something like this, them telling you they love spending time with you, while they are peppering you with all their plans that don't include you at the same time. Best line of defense is always trust your gut instincts and don't react.
@Theotherjennm4 ай бұрын
I found this at random. Glad i did 😊😊😊
@jilllogan12884 ай бұрын
We don't have control over others behavior, only how we respond to it.
@farnaker4 ай бұрын
Stoic mindset changed my perspectives to the meaning of life thoroughly. Owed to your philosophical advices and directions to the right path. Thank you forever.❤❤❤ Not to forget the articulated and brilliant language.
@seanstott61684 ай бұрын
Wow I realise now how many bad people I know and how few real people I know and recognise some of bad signs in myself from being around the wrong people, and I now know why suffer from deep deppression
@MrGadfly7724 ай бұрын
I agree with much that is said. We need a more detailed discussion however as I have found that living with a toxic person can create a sort of automatic defensiveness which can mimic some of these behaviors. When it is unsafe to tell the truth people have a tendency to try avoiding discussions dealing with the truth. Evasion is a survival tool in such situations. These are overall a great set of guides for how to live life, but it must be remembered that bad habits can result from constantly living with a toxic person.
@sherrysimpher5024 ай бұрын
Sometimes the liars make themselves believe their own lies so that non of the typical signs work. They will look u straight in the eye and tell u the same lie over and over because they also have good memories so they remember everything they have ever said but what's worse is they remember every weakness or problem u have ever told them or showed them and they use that against u to make u feel bad about urself and they bash everything u love so that u doubt urself. I recognize all the things that were done and all the mistakes I made but I do not know how to stop it from happening to me again. I feel like I am on a stage in the spotlight and everyone has a weapon ready to destroy me from the inside out
@Ridhii-y3r4 ай бұрын
True. They r like this. I also suffer a lot due to these people. Try learning from this video. I have even written the important points from this video. U too can. God bless u.
@TinaBornemannn4 ай бұрын
Whoever you are, thank you.
@katrinanicole927804 ай бұрын
Ron Hiller, fits every one of the warning signs😢. Love is truly blind and you don't realize it until you have found you completely have lost yourself.
@rachiettetoliver25844 ай бұрын
Facts 🎉❤
@A.J.Canfield-ym2fe4 ай бұрын
I have always tried to build relationships with a solid brick of honesty rather than a balloon of lies. The best thing to remember is that big mistakes leading to suffering is only tragic if you fail to LEARN from it to make your life better with the knowledge emerging from hard won personal experience.
@BM-fb1rl4 ай бұрын
I’m so confounded now. I thought my husband hit the mark on all or most of these but, it won’t matter how he gets the information. He won’t change and he’ll forever think that you are describing me. We are broken and have been for 25 of the last 28 years. We can’t stand to be alone together. He notices nothing good. He never apologizes. He is never wrong. 😢
@kathlenesherry99464 ай бұрын
The point would be to recognize it and protect yourself emotionally 💌 Difficult but not impossible. Sending peaceful loving vibes your way. Take care
@JudeNance4 ай бұрын
I had a husband like that once. I have been divorced since 1975. I've never missed him. 😅
@cdeweijer124 ай бұрын
Total recognition here 😢
@kandihoarding73954 ай бұрын
Know that you are a beautiful person.
@sebastianc47874 ай бұрын
Indeed the constant conflics with non sense excuses is my warning sign. Sometimes i doubt of myself if im doing something bad , but i cant find it.
@thomaspwalsh-vq4de4 ай бұрын
I have met many of those you describe! Thank you!
@michaelsilvaoperations93044 ай бұрын
Mind over Body Listening from Johannesburg South Africa 🇿🇦
@eileenjames99294 ай бұрын
this is amazing. you have described my half sister who had all these traits i suffered over 70 years of this behaviour till she died 5 years ago i stood up to her only a couple of times and she brought alll hell down on me everyone liked her. she was a master of manipulation
@psychedelicartistry4 ай бұрын
This is how manipulators are. And you will notice a lot of ppl will like them, or they'll appear very charismatic to the people outside the house or the family. Society often rewards these types of people b/c it is built in a way to do so. Your sister will have to feel all of the pain she caused others, though, b/c that's how the karma is balanced after death.
@eileenjames99294 ай бұрын
@@psychedelicartistry thankyou for your reply I'll just add. I did ask her to forgive me if any time in life I had offender or hurt her she accepted and said she would I waited for her to do the same but she tuned away saying she has never done anything wrong to anyone I was and still am amazed but on her death bed I told her I had forgiven her but she never answered and a little while later she died
@jamesrutter41004 ай бұрын
Once you are a target. JUST LEAVE. Or you will be a scapegoat forever. But if you leave and stay gone. They will sooner or later show thier true colors.
@mutisiab4 ай бұрын
Perfect description! My intuition at the top. Today I suffered an action of manipulation, but I don't stop my goal and go ahead 🌿
@vnstoic4 ай бұрын
Very good!
@wendystrong38274 ай бұрын
Have a sister that does all this. Our whole family has walked on egg shells for years. Mom and dad are gone now...2 of us are left putting up with this monster..
@annelie8374 ай бұрын
Like your channel!!Love from Anne ,Oslo Norway❤️❤️❤️
@ConcettaLynch4 ай бұрын
I am 77 years young, but lissening ti your teaching is making me anderstand my self and others more.
@marshascott34984 ай бұрын
AWESOME.....My husband has taught me how to spot a lier and trust my inner spirit....AS THEY SAY....THE PIT NEVER LIES.😅😅😅😅
@Kleiner834 ай бұрын
I think if we focus less on how other people are and more on ourselves and getting to know our selves then it really doesn't matter how other people are.
@MykeHawke-r9r4 ай бұрын
I gave you the like and the subscribe because you're brave enough to make this video
@helenacaldwell26444 ай бұрын
Love this Taught me alot Education like this is needed
@gailbird1004 ай бұрын
What I have noticed is when I stopped people from going over my Boundaries they will become the pushy bully and you have to fight back
@BrokeSolid4 ай бұрын
Over 50 years of this B.S. Exhausted!
@galaxyflower33834 ай бұрын
I do have some of these behaviours and god I am so wiling to change myself I am not gonna stay still I need to develop myself more I can't be the same old person again thanks so much for this video it helped point out my weaknesses and strengthsess it made me know my hidden fears and insecurities and I hope that god gives me the power to change myself to a better person so I can spread positivity everywhere ❤
@Garfin124 ай бұрын
Wtf, who you writing to? God..😂 what crazy shyte is that related to.
@therese23674 ай бұрын
@galaxyflow Youre the greatest. Good luck in you're changing. I wish my son and her realise THEIR lethal behaviour 👍✌❤🇨🇦
@galaxyflower33834 ай бұрын
@@therese2367 oh thank you so much it is just you know you can't be in the wrong side when you know it it will make things worse so why to be so stubborn when you can be so good and peaceful I mean well all have negative traits we just don't see it so once we know or even it we must change it I hope your son decide to change too and thanks again so much ❤❤
@vogboguv4 ай бұрын
It's good to see yourself and what to improve. It takes a lot for a person to look inside and want to create changes. That's a wonderful thing. With strength from God, all things are possible.
@galaxyflower33834 ай бұрын
@@vogboguv thanks
@lorenzorecio1654 ай бұрын
I recognize people from my past with these descriptions. Fortunately most of them are out of my life... and I will be careful
@readidusseau73434 ай бұрын
This was fantastic ! Thank you . I love this it is very educational and I live with one .
@JamesPardee-pr4ny4 ай бұрын
Never stop wanting to be better. Thanks for this. Our compassion is our strength. It's the best thing to live for.
@jamesrussell19794 ай бұрын
Very interesting 👌 👍 🤔 and very informative 👌 👍 🤔 👏..mind over body 👌
@nadinegomez79883 ай бұрын
So helpful, Surrounded by old conflict the key is to find calm and peace again.
@jehan_75504 ай бұрын
Yes there are people who doesn't apologize.. they don't apologize .
@onestoicusa2 ай бұрын
I appreciate how the video encourages self-reflection. Recognizing these behaviors in ourselves, even if unintentionally, is a crucial step toward personal growth. It's a reminder that we all have the potential to improve!
@peterneale4 ай бұрын
It's an excellent topic. Much needed. Great work
@lauraquigley93324 ай бұрын
I have set boundaries with my daughter and thats why she left me and this man and I will also be no more.
@SarahSansevieri-b6l3 ай бұрын
I have just finally walked away from a 2 year relationship with exactly this person and I have done what you have suggested. I would love to send this to my X boyfriend. This video is excellent 🙌
@adamserrecchia37844 ай бұрын
Great video..lotsa info 🎨
@dipakkakad96143 ай бұрын
Each and every word... Is... Gold dust for us ❣️👍❣️🙂
@e.a.jeanson27723 ай бұрын
To the content creator..... thanks a lot. And to each commenter, continue remaining positive and strong 💪 folks. Bad people are in the world. Unfortunately, we have to contend with them on occasion. I grew up with a bad person. Unfortunately, due to my religious upbringing, I felt compelled to continue ignoring their bad behavior, until I realized what was going on with religion. Bad people want to continue being given the benefit of the doubt. Bad people make sport out of deeply religious people, like I used to be. Whoever you are.....DO NOT GIVE UP. ALL bad people ARE in the process of being exposed. Stay strong folks.
@lauraquigley93324 ай бұрын
I'm not a narcissist that makes me a good person I'm at peace with myself.
@Lifted113 ай бұрын
Yes, youre a star 🌟 And theres a galaxy full of them, haha love it 😀
@fe.fe.87964 ай бұрын
Interesting! Good to remember Epiktet!
@janedoe17713 ай бұрын
This was a really good one, every word full of weight. It's an eye opener really! ❤
@cathycathy1164 ай бұрын
This was very helpful! Thank you😊🇺🇸
@mariavictoriaarmada78484 ай бұрын
the key is to be honest, peace, joy & happy.
@michaeldefrancesco38024 ай бұрын
I love your channel. So many things that you teach come to me naturally sometimes and it gives me validation that I am conducting my life correctly
@khaledakbar21254 ай бұрын
This video made people wiser how to evade poisonous people
@lauraquigley93324 ай бұрын
Mind over body.
@Draco007-i2j4 ай бұрын
Great video👍
@kahlilking8804 ай бұрын
Absolutely spot on,especially with boundary invaders .
@KAH-74 ай бұрын
This is EXCELLENT!
@gwenjarvis14724 ай бұрын
Thanks so much. I learn something from you and about myself daily.
@bernardorosario44784 ай бұрын
Great video!
@douglaswilson39784 ай бұрын
Mind over body..great video..thx you sir..❤❤
@dmr44504 ай бұрын
Mind over body! Yes, I'm here. Thank you for this post. Subscribed.
@user-fi6dc8dw9f4 ай бұрын
Mind over body. Also listened to the end. And other videos on this channel. The insights & sources are much appreciated! Thank you.
@JeromeJoy-x6y4 ай бұрын
Great lesson a million thanks
@vnstoic4 ай бұрын
My pleasure!
@JoseDiaz-lv7wg4 ай бұрын
Mine over body yes 👍🏾 very good 😊 video thank you❤
@Charles-q6z4 ай бұрын
Thank u have covered it Brilliantly
@rubenspascali773 ай бұрын
Great Content.🙏🏼
@mildredcornish98474 ай бұрын
Very encouraging and enlightening. Thank you! God Bless You! Have a Bless day!
@louiebessell47204 ай бұрын
Mind over body awesome video
@chi1axinginspace3724 ай бұрын
I love asking someone to retell a story that sounded like a lie the first time they told it….😂. It always changes, the truth is the truth. But a lie takes a new form every time it is told, trying to remember a lie gets you to use your creative imagination and the lie tends to get most exaggerated 😅
@mathiasonyango26494 ай бұрын
Love your lessons and are educative.
@marikavrolijk37914 ай бұрын
Enlightening info!❤thank you!
@amyrohleder66974 ай бұрын
Thank you, I listened to the end. Your video is a good exploration of what Narcissistic individuals do and how you can protect yourself from their contempt towards you. Thank you again!
@markdimeo70604 ай бұрын
This was a mental tune-up I needed today. Thanks
@deborahlarson26504 ай бұрын
Excellent perceptions 🤔🙄
@kellymartin60244 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. Mind over body.
@patriciahino13794 ай бұрын
Thank you very interesting. MIND OVER BODY
@karencalvert35064 ай бұрын
Excellent work
@britneyfrench78784 ай бұрын
I watched this whole video through and loved it. It really got me thinking. That was very good for my mind. Thanks for posting ❤
@ameliajenniferofodu59594 ай бұрын
Mind over body. Thank you so so much.
@kathlenesherry99464 ай бұрын
Great information. Thank you!
@FreeSpirit474 ай бұрын
Be especially wary of those that hang crosses everywhere & hide behind proclaiming themselves as Christians. They will judge anyone who sins differently than they do. Twisting words of the bible to make themselves feel superior to others.