Bad Wolves on the Harrowing Story of ‘Remember When’

Tommy Vext tells the harrowing story behind Bad Wolves’ ‘Remember When,’ a song inspired by his twin brother, who broke into Tommy’s apartment in 2010 and sent him to the hospital. Vext discusses his process of healing and notes that that incident inspired him to help others by becoming a sober companion. “This song is really like an open letter to him,” Vext tells us.
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[@daniellebaker7778]

Tommy I'm so proud of you! I struggled with drugs for 10 years currently 17 months sober longest I've even been sober. This is the first time my family seen me actually doing it and not just skating by. Proud of u dude

[@shandapatalon5108]

Danielle Baker I’m proud of you

[@ninjadrew1033]

I know this may seem odd, but How are you holdin up?

[@gabrielunderhill]

Update??

[@kathyragsdale5518]

my heart breaks for him....and his mom....but knowing his band hears his sadness...amazing....this is a strong man.....63 yrs old here...his momma should be so proud

[@GypsyRock]

Just met Tommy at a restaurant in Seattle. He was so freaking humble and cool. Much respect. I’ll cherish the photo an autograph always

[@jakecorynthian3516]

I commend him for his openness, bravery, kindness, honesty and articulation. I wish more modern artists had this level of depth, instead of producing and acting like garbage.

[@lofilivewire5693]

Tommy Vex is metal as fuck. Got killed, came back, improved his life, and then wrote a song about it. Mad respect, dude

[@adrienpiette6746]

That was deeper than expected. Thanks Loudwire for sharing this.

[@tacticaltackle]

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[@luluwild13]

Wow. Mad respect to them

[@jeffzahn1139]

This message is harsh but tragellly needed

[@luluwild13]

jeff Zahn one hundred percent agree with you there.

[@Inconvenient_NPC]

No, respect to him. His brother is in jail where he belongs.

[@feenixdewitt5574]

Wow. Mad respect to them bad wolves from Feenix.

[@beanfiend5118]

"I died, it was pretty crazy." i hear this song on the radio every day around 10am this shit is crazy

[@sabrinablack1138]

Wow, im a twin so it's crazy to imagine that from family, let alone a sibling and twin. We never know the life someone else has lived! So proud of you for everything you've accomplished and overcome!

[@DavidS-kz7ik]

Sabrina Black : I'm also a twin. I couldn't imagine doing that to my brother. That's crazy what Tommy went through. Seriously.

[@BrownsFanInCincy]

You are hot

[@ScarMunster]

Wow. Thank you for sharing, brother. Respect! You guys rock, so just keep rocking.

[@chrisyeary9874]

Being an addict and alcoholic in recovery, man I just want to say hell yeah on being clean and sober. To open up about something so personal, could not have been easy, by any means. Keep your head up, God has your back always.

[@BeastlieWolve]

Tommy has amazing voice i love how he sings with so much emotions

[@carabowman2144]

I can't believe everything you've been through.. You are such an amazing person, and so incredibly strong. and to be able share this speaks volumes. You have touched so many hearts through your music and i can't thank you enough. You truly are a hero ❤

[@jasonbillich6718]

Tommy's such a inspiration!!

[@cfl-king8303]

Tommy you were brought back to life because from the very beginning man I bet your soul knew you were going to have this amazing gift as a musician not everyone can say that they can scream while sing and sing with such smoothness you are doing wonderful with your music bro keep it up 👊💪💯

[@Rwnyyyyy]

Tommy you're amazing! Sending BIG hugs xx

[@mindyfeilbach8111]

My heart! It’s amazing what life can throw at you. I’m so glad you lived and you turned your life around. You are absolutely amazing! Thank you for being there for those who need it as well. You will always have my respect.

[@davidcurtis4478]

So great to hear the turnaround - fantastic! Keep Rockin' and share the great story. 🎶👊🏻👊🏻

[@danielgozdan5365]

Holy shit! Omg I can't imagine, but just so you know your songs have gotten me through some dark times, but I can't imagine going through what you did.... but thank you for your music!!!!

[@wendywimberly9012]

Bad Wolves, you guys are the finest new music in years. Years!! Thank you. And thank you, Delores, for bringing these guys to us 😘🤘. What a gift!

[@tommyboy1845]

Very soft spoken man. Props to Tommy for being who he is today.

[@catiecat010]

Thanks for sharing your story. I can't imagine how hard all that must have been. It's been awhile since I've found music that really spoke to me. Remember When is what I've had on repeat for days.

[@chellecopley67]

wow, sometimes family can be the one that hurts you the most. I understand, somewhat. Glad you got out of that lifestyle Tommy and got clean. Hope you are feeling better too.

[@cesarolvera2983]

He writes and talk about his relationship with his brother and did not get famous and a guy who mumble gets famous like wtf

[@gamewiz1079]

It's the audience. Dumb people are attracted to dumb things. Why would a dumb person want to think while listening to a song

[@escapingdarkness6534]

Cesar Olvera what do you mean dude died and wrote a song about it that takes guts

[@t2factor18]

@@escapingdarkness6534 ok? He didnt say it didnt

[@bignasty344]

You male it seem like its big mystery of how the music industry is about keeping the hood mentality alive.

[@timothyhawkins5756]

Hey I believe they are the future of rock I mean that first album is just amazing and the new single sounds amazing

[@KINGLOCZMR208]

Nothin but love for the truth stay on the road of heal and always keep ur head held high on ur success

[@Uscgthumper]

WOW! Tommy you have come such a long way and it is a beautiful and raw song! Thank you for sharing your story with us!!!

[@jdm132]

Holy shit man. The respect I got for this man is through the roof now.

[@wesley6442]

I am so glad that he survived, he seems like such a wonderful person and gift for humanity. Truly a gentle, kind soul in my eyes

[@MrMeatBullet]

Wow man. The fact that he was able to write that song, going through all the torment and pain in the process.

[@nelsonhousos7878]

Keep holding high man... stay strong

[@grainneminihane625]

Thank you. Love from Ireland 💜🇮🇪x

[@andretavares6827]

Tommy mad respect for you my brother your giving strength my singing yours songs nothing but the best for you and your awesome band hope you come to Portugal one day stay safe

[@darkphoenix669]

I remember being in middleschool and listening to his old band divine heresy, fast forward almost 10 years later and i find out he quit divine heresy and joined this band. And im loving it so far

[@hannahcruz22]

I can relate to tommy in this way cause my sister was on the same path as tommy brother. Sadly she passed away in 2020.

[@Big_Ben1988]

Tommy is an amazing singer! We love you Tommy! Keep on keeping on!

[@kevinprice9542]

Major respect to you Tommy Vext. Your honest an open. So glad you made it through to give us such great music, keep bring it brother. Peace an love your way big man. 🤘🤘🤘

[@ooyoututchmytralala]

Well said this is a beautiful strong song

[@maximilianwentz3668]

Great band, great musicians, very meaningful songs.

[@laurenashley2916]

This song reminds me of me and my brother who is in prison. I love and miss him so much. He was either there to bring me up when no one else gave a f*** or there to bring me down when I was doing great. I can never thank him enough yet I resent him so much. Ughhhhhhhh

[@MsContessa1974]

What a good man. Thanks for being you. Be proud of yourself.

[@CountessaJay]

Thank you for all you have done, When I Heard this song it reminded me of me and my sister, she tried ending my life and i survived it. Keep Strong

[@lindsayledbetter14]

This hits home. Very hard to listen too without waterworks ! My brother never was violent to me but I can relate to being close to him, me straightening up n me trying to help him. Our parents were fuck ups. He died in 2010

[@bigmallly7863]

Wow, I can't put into words what I'm feeling after listening to you. One day you may meet your brother again & how you will handle that I just don't know. Good luck Fella......Wow!

[@embrywhite8267]

Twins take separate paths where one matures and the other is destructive and you just have to cut them off. I feel you so hard on this with my twin bro. 💔

[@joshuasuddethjs]

Nothing but respect for this guy!

[@HELWINTER333]

Will always be a fan of Tommy vext...no matter what the flakes say

[@yvesheinrich5013]

Amazing dude! Making I Bring the Darkness (which is Baron Corbin's theme from WWE) is just one sick song!

[@joshuabrandt6534]

Much love. I only just recently started listening to bad wolves. Love the band

[@tylerbonser7686]

It takes a strong person to overcome what he did. It shows in his music

[@asalanglois3850]

His singing voice is amazing 💯💓

[@grainneminihane625]

LOVE TOMMY 😘💞

[@anthonymontgomery4701]

Thank you so much for sharing. I find it really difficult and it makes me cry when I hear your song and know what you went through. I wanna say I've been through the same. But iui ts not abud again thank you

[@dreamsicle3113]

I can't imagine the emotional pain and mental beating he took along with what happened. Damn. Now, I'm even more invested in this band!

[@michellekountz4226]

Nothing but respect coming from the child of an addict... the struggle is real on all sides.

[@Shingypoo]

Crazy how evil your twin brother can be ..

[@tucko11]

Wow man....😢 such a sad story but I love the song bro such a powerful song

[@bethklein2263]

Much love and respect for you Tommy

[@kieran420]

I'm so glad he didn't die I feel empty If I can't listen to your music

[@ceciliarivera2108]

Wow man.

[@anonymous-yd4le]

Wow 😮 this is amazing testimony !

[@wendywimberly9012]

This is a great song, guys. Tommy, I appreciate you sharing such a sensative story. I think this going to show others that we can heal from even the worst tragedies. You are solid proof of that, young man. Thank you 😜🤘

[@erdftzgh]

Lord have mercy ! 😢😢😢

[@joey__4759]

Wait so his brother temporarily killed him?

[@lmaxwell2751]

No. Nearly killed him.

[@DavidS-kz7ik]

Almost killed him.

[@Uscgthumper]

He died in the hospital and they were able to revive him.

[@joey__4759]

Kathy Bagwell You saw the music video for Remember When too?😂

[@Uscgthumper]

I did!!! It is amazing!

[@chelenides9574]

Wow. Just wow.

[@caioatila669]

Great song, thanks.

[@thedredofxi]

Love the song love what you guys do and trust me we've all been in bad situations like that.

[@shifty1558]

Wow I had no idea. I came here after watching the music vid and I just recently heard about these guy. I have a twin brother too and we are so close. I just can’t imagine something so terrible.

[@MariSundell]

Wow... I already had much respect for this dude but it just stepped up

[@chriscros5682]

Much love tommy vext

[@anthonymontgomery4701]

How are there dislikes.? And that song is amazing

[@GeminiVergil]

It's really sad what drugs do to people. And some question why I have very little faith and desire to 'help' those addicted. It's because of things like this. My best friend died due to drugs, no matter what I did to try and steer him towards a better path. I have an actual family member who's life has been riddled with stealing and using the rest of us for their own selfish desires. And no matter what we did to try and 'help' them, it never changed. You can only try and help for so long before the inevitable truth comes out. You can't help those who refuse to help themselves.

[@theriffnotebook8412]

I for sure this was gonna be an Alan Jackson cover. 😂😂

[@ItalyHastaLaPasta]

The Riff Notebook I honestly thought the same lmao but I wasnt disappointed

[@CallOfRock96]

Tommy Vext is the fucking man

[@samiroth9247]

Wow major respect to him

[@jessicaowens8792]

Omg he is the sexiest man eva!!!! And has such a meaningful story to tell.

[@jordanf4402]

They literally cannot BETTER not perform this song ever. This is TV’s Song.

[@jgoodrich06]

Much luv Tommy boiiiiii!

[@АндрейМоргунов-з2ь]

My fists for Tommy - god bless him. And great to see Doc still rocking. Fun to think that this is probably my first time seeing Doc being that serious. On God Forbid's DVDs he along with his boys is constantly hillarious, even on Killswitch Engage's 'Set this world ablaze' dvd Doc has the funniest moments among everyone

[@deleted3337]

Just wow never really know what goes through an artists head unless they reveal it I felt a deep connection before I knew what it was about not it just makes sense

[@Maoilios]

my left ear is enyojing this story

[@jennawilkins7292]

Very talented

[@jonthornton8758]

I am 40 years old and I have a older brother only by a year but that turned him into the bigger brother. He was the foundation that kept most of our family together. And I don't say that metaphorically I mean he literally single-handedly as we grew up took me and my sister protect us. He also would hide us during drug induced Violence by our parents and a very young age she was just a protector. At an age where kids should be playing hide and seek and video games he is trying to feed us hide us from our mother that was very badly addicted to drugs but my point is with this happening to mr. Vet I could imagine it because I literally would not be here if it wasn't for my brother. Sorry for the long boo who story

[@mynameisill8384]

Nothing boo hoo about it. Just expressing your emotions and story. Idk why people think it's a crime to say what's on your mind. I'm hoping not to run down a life full of failure. And everyone worries about me cause I have an addicted personality and intend to follow people on some things. Just hoping it never gets to the exceeded level.

[@destinyjennings2538]

What if they let his brother listen to this song while his in prison i want to see how he would react Mad respect to him

[@whatthetes3303]

This song is going to hit you in the chest like a Bag of bricks.. especially if you can relate to the story in anyway

[@armindobaio871]

This dude is fucking awesome!!

[@kekillion764]

I'm not crying! your crying!

[@russelljames1660]

💓💓💓

[@platinumpeyton]

“And I died” Damn

[@scottmarlow9473]

You did something I don't think I could do my brother and I only talk at Christmas at mom's house we have two different out looks on life

[@johnwhitlow8220]

Just a thought, his brother is getting out in 5-7 years....will Tommy forgive his brother or return the favor?

[@macias7125]

I really hope so. He must miss him a lot

[@lizzieball3795]

My sister is a dangerous psychopath.I couldn't even address it or accept it until recently.vShes 4years older than me and I think she became a psychopath with deep hatred toward me as her 4yr olds brain reacted to not receiving the same amount of my parents attention.They were and narcissists,and as their kids,we were neglected,in that my pare ts already felt extremely put upon by the responsibility of two kids.They were resentful that they couldn't do exactly what they wanted,when they wanted without going thru the major hassle of coordinating chd care,with their activities.My mother was an only child who had been indulged and spoiled into her adulthood. So I think that me being the new family member,and by the sheer fact that babies need more attention,in that they need feedings,diaper changes,etc(whether the parents actually love their baby or not..if they don't want to end up in jail for starving a baby to death...they have to take at least a min.amt of time to take care of it)that my sister processed my arrival,as a threat to having her basic emotional needs met,and having learned boundaries of behaviour,she was fundame tally aware that it was forbidden to wipe me off the face of the Earth,in spite of her compelling desire to do so.I think that the two opposing concepts: The baby is threatening my survival...If I kill the baby then I will still threaten my survival. She developed extreme hatred for me,which was based in fear. Because maybe no one explained to her at 4years old,that the baby will only need extra attn.temporarily. All she knew was that I was the reason for her receiving insuficient attention that was required in order for her mind to remain same,.he. e,her survival was threatened. From my first memory of being alive,my sister was extremely hateful towards me.In childhood,she would explain to me how bad,strange,terrible I was ..and I believed hwr.Because I didn't know that someone could...-or would have motivation--to say something that was not true. It developed into manipulating me,gaslighting me,stealing from me and on rare occasions when I would question her motives--such as being caught red-handed stealing my allowance,..she would hatefully spew venome,as if I am responsible because I'm so terrible,and i would believe her entitlement,because subconsciously knew I deserved whatever it was,because I was bad......I never thought about...what exactly have I done to believe I'm inherently bad?. I can only guess,that,as time,decades went by,that my psyche wouldn't and couldn't acknowledge or accept,that I had allowed and assisted my sister to brutalize me,repeatedly,inflict cruelty, slander me,steal from me,destroy my relationships,and had tirelessly worked to destroy me and end my life. At some point,I decided that hating myself and joining in on creating the narrative about myself which satisfied my sister,and allowed her to create and maintain a narrative about herself;....rather than to know that I had suffered at the hands of a psychopath who held such a profound hatred toward me.

[@Therealnugg]

Homie is mixed but the homie can rock out that for sure 💯

[@barbaravance6774]

This poor dude can't catch a break. First his Mom walked out, his Dad was never there and his TWIN killed him!?!? WTF? Now, he is basically HOMELESS!!! And this isn't the first time. I saw a thing on here that, in order to tour, he had to get rid of his apt., Car etc...People think Rock Stars are all rich. Not anymore. The only way they make my net is concerts and the few people who actually buy their music! Well and maybe some merch. But, it's not like I'm the past where people waited at music stores to buy your music. It's leaked or posted and shared. So all of that money is in the wind. Anyway, Tommy is a brave, strong sou!!! For him to be e able to look at all of this as such a learning experience is truly unbelievable!!!

[@jonnylewis7076]

Ain't a fan of his music but fair play to him. Respect.

[@User-54631]

I enjoyed his work with divine heresy. Saw him fill in for Lynn straight on a snot tour. It was a lot of fun. Meant doc Coyle after a god forbid show a real class act and cool dude.

[@danielhuff6979]

WOW

[@BuenoWRLD]

Wow!!! Just wow!! I had never would of guessed tommy vext has a twin! Only if.. only if his bro didn't try to kill him I'm most certain they would have had two frontman in bad wolves. Tommy and his twin!! Just imagine how badass that would be!!!???

[@lenaaustin6692]

Doc is letting Tommy tell his story. They are brothers 😢

[@rustam6446]

Tough guy

[@claytonstrobel3458]

Anyone else notice he casually glossed the fact he said he fucking died