How to Exit Your “Lazy” Girl Era & Change Your Life | You're Not Lazy or Unmotivated

[@aminataka2887]

Honestly you know when they say God sends people in your life for a reason, I feel like God put you on my fyp for a reason 💖 the way I sat down with my journal taking notes, all I can really say is Thank you 💝❤

[@BahjaAbdi]

My heart can't takeee it 🥹🥹🥹 I love you sooo much and I'm so grateful to god that he's lead you here. I pray we can grow together and if we don't unite in this life than the next i'a 🩷

[@aminataka2887]

Ameen 😭😭💖 ily too

[@AMIRA-ve8qk]

I literally had the same thought when I clicked on this video!

[@itsjuliam]

Exactly what I came to say

[@ranahhhh92]

felt this ❤

[@Emmyyyy5]

Who else thinks it’s time to stop gatekeeping the resources that actually help women? Girl Boss Hustle: Earn 10k From Home deserves more hype.

[@immy12-b6z]

me🖐

[@ayshaahmed9930]

to all the girls we got this babes

[@BahjaAbdi]

Yesssss we dooo 💪🏾💪🏾

[@safiyyahmussa591]

May Allah reward you immensely for helping me and the community- thank you, you are an angel. I am a law student and I really needed this

[@BahjaAbdi]

Allahumma ameen! Thank you so much for the kind words and Allahumma barikk, may Allah allow for you to succeed in all that you embark on 🤍

[@Shirl292]

There's a Rumi poem that embodies what I hear you saying about feelings at 6:26 - “This being human is a guest house. Every morning a new arrival. A joy, a depression, a meanness, some momentary awareness comes As an unexpected visitor. Welcome and entertain them all! Even if they’re a crowd of sorrows, who violently sweep your house empty of its furniture, still treat each guest honourably. He may be clearing you out for some new delight. The dark thought, the shame, the malice, meet them at the door laughing and invite them in. Be grateful for whoever comes, because each has been sent as a guide from beyond.”

[@livb310]

❤

[@brendamuhammad44]

I'm writing this at the end of my journal, InshAllah (God willing). I love it❤ thank you for sharing ✌🏽

[@TOSORIO-q8h]

Wow it’s December 17th and I’m seeing this and it resonates with me. I keep dragging my feet to get things done. I’m so close to the end and then I get lazy and tired. This video was meant for me.

[@SignedByAissatou]

This video came at the perfect time. Lately I’ve been following something called the 12 week year and it’s helped me achieve a major goal. Looking at your big goals and turning them into smaller goals definitely helps and focusing on a few things at a time. You honestly don’t need to wait until the new year to start. I think a lot of us fall victim to saying we’ll start “tomorrow.” Start today!

[@NANa-sn2rh]

Where can I find the 12 week year pls

[@Sufthegoat1]

That’s such a good concept 12 week year ! 😊

[@fitnessa4747]

I just started back reading the book. I did really good the first part of the year, but then fell off.

[@fitnessa4747]

@@NANa-sn2rhit’s a book. It’s a really great concept

[@Mayaninha]

@@fitnessa4747get back to it, now is the time 😊

[@user.dj3wiq7cnr]

I’m a woman and straight. Girl. I’m mesmerized by your beauty 😮 Wow

[@artinsoul.5067]

I keep nodding for every point she talks,,as a 17 yr old feeling like I was losing again,,I needed this, thankyou,,

[@beyouthfullyyou]

I'm just binge watching my sweet Bhaja! I am at work going through all of of this Playlist because THIS is that year that we move the needle and change the record. Thank you love for just being you!❤

[@mango7966]

I got that same feeling when starting out with the gym. Every single time before going in, so many negative thoughts tried to make me turn around and go home. However, I decided to keep going regardless and now it's part of my routine

[@MMMMD1]

I hope this becomes me 😭😅. I get so much anxiety and feel like everyone is staring at me 😅

[@basratchowdhury4945]

I honestly love it when you yap about becoming a better person, a better Muslim. You've inspired me so so much, and I love watching your videos. Thank you!!!

[@Itssimplyaisha]

You are a blessing in our life💗 what I want right now is literally just financial freedom

[@BahjaAbdi]

Aweeeeeee, you're a blessing in mine! I promise you if you get extremely clear on what you want and you think and feel positively about it, and you cultivate patience you will have it. Pray for it and take action towards it and inshallah you will see it manifest into your reality.

[@Hayautiiiiiii]

Me too

[@medzahra9405]

I am a young muslim ambitious so it is really a blessing to discover you and your teaching meant alot thank you keep going the good work love you

[@peanut1238]

Thank you for this video and piece of advice. Tbh this is exactly how I’ve been feeling and I’ve been stuck in a constant cycle and it’s driving me insane. I have been deeply craving change but I could never carry it out completely and this video really taught me a lot. To whoever else who reads this, you are not alone❤️.

[@BahjaAbdi]

I'm so happy you found this video helpful. Im proud of you and I'm rooting for your success 🩷

[@xxxx____]

This video came at the perfect time for me! Today I got really tired of constantly breaking my own promise, so I got up early and did everything I told myself I would do. Thank u so much for ur wise words Bahja, they truly inspire me to always keep going and work towards my dreams

[@hanaeazougagh5719]

I literally set this video at speed 1.75. I have a test week in 3 days and I really have to work hard now. This video is literally all the information I learned last school year and this school year with the guidance I receive through school. I really appreciate this video, especially when I am at home and my supervisor cannot remind me to do my best (after years of working too hard i got into a burnout and lost most of my dicipline so i am trying to gain that back now. Also, i am in my last year of school before going to college so this is litterally my last chance of getting my diploma because this is my third last schoolyear (first last year i was burned out so i stopped certain subjects, second last year I tried working hard again but still failed exam because of procrastination as usual and now this is my last year and i am in my first period ). thank you a lot🌸🌸🌸

[@BahjaAbdi]

Awe your around the same age as my little sister 🥺 I'm so glad you found this helpful! I pray for your success in school and everything you peruse afterwards. Be kind to yourself, be patient and stay hopeful! Rooting for you 🥹🩷

[@Radianty_Ella]

You got this

[@Star_shine7777]

I am also having the same problem burnt out to the extent I can't study and keep on procrastinating, even if i wanted to do those things I am glad you made this comment that i could see I am not alone Let's work together and to our best! Thank you so much

[@mariamsaadeh1734]

This video got me to finally get up and clean my room. For me that’s a big step on moving forward and taking accountability!

[@BahjaAbdi]

Proud of you 💕💕

[@Itssimplyaisha]

Awwwn your vulnerability here is powerful❤ I hope we’ll all be able to be consistent

[@BahjaAbdi]

You absolutely can be angel! And every time you fall get your butt back up 😭🩷

[@skywalker4155]

SubhanAllah sister, I was literally feeling as if I was in a constant rut and have been asking Allah to help me with my terrible procrastination. Through His Mercy He guided me to this video, you're such a star, thank you for sharing your wisdom I'm definitely going to subscribe ❤️ may Allah reward you for your beautiful efforts!

[@ohkay680]

I love self help kind of content and it’ll be so amazing and refreshing seeing it from a fellow Muslim can’t wait to binge watch all your videos and achieve all my goals along with you!!

[@BahjaAbdi]

May Allah allow us to reach our full potential, Allahumma ameen. 🥹🩷

[@ca_prep_diaries6801]

Oh my god I love you and your modesty. I am in a struggle phase girl, I am stuck, I am in phase the enter in depression, I plan so many things but at the same time I doesn't do any thing

[@Itssimplyaisha]

You’re makeup is on point every.single.Time😍🔥🔥

[@BahjaAbdi]

Thank you sooo much 😩 might have to do a updated tutorial 🩷

[@Ash-10fj]

You literally put into words all my problems, i thought it was only me

[@Sihaamofficial-zc2kw]

Watching this on 28th APril done nothing this month I'm feeling defeated but i don wanna give up this . As a candidate i need to hear this . I believe this is my year . Wish luck

[@Urfavspanish07]

Heyy, how is it going

[@Username27071]

I needed this, especially before the new year. Thank you for being so motivational, May Allah bless you.

[@BahjaAbdi]

Allahumma ameennn !! I'm so glad 🫶🏾

[@librasun1096]

What's so crazy is I've literally been in such a rut....so depressed. And this was posted on my birthday, I needed to see this.

[@ARS-kr3yc]

Thank you so much for this video, Bahja! May Allah bless you, jazakillahu khairan 🥰🤗

[@Michelleadeniola]

Those emotions that come with unfamiliar things you want to step into, will either move you back or push you forward

[@amirala7983]

You know what ( wish you read this ) Just yesterday i opened my planner note book to planning i found that the last time i did a to do list is on 2 October , I felt frustrated and said to myself that I am an undisciplined person and will never be like that. Today I found your video and that was just like a light in the dark , Thank you bahja so much ❤

[@giorgiagiorgia1556]

This is the first time I’ve seen you on my home page and I instantly decided to follow you because even just this video was so inspiring

[@BahjaAbdi]

Aweeee I'm so happy you found it inspiring and it's an honor to have you be apart of our little community 🥹🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@Seen_not_heard]

1:28 Wow, you came into my FYP just in time. Because I'm so frustrated with myself right now.

[@rpoli1936]

I needed to hear this so bad 😭may Allah swt bless you part2 pls!❤️

[@justicehorne9827]

You just blessed me in so many ways. As a Virgo, I just love how you organized this. Everything feels so clear now.

[@zain9896]

her aesthetics: 💅disney princess vibes 💅

[@crystal25798]

i wanna say '' you are gorgeous'' bahja😍

[@Adailyy_]

Omg everything you said is exactly what I've been going through for so long😭 I can't believe you have only 10k subs. Wtf? You are golden.

[@ilikeramyeon]

12k today!

[@Radianty_Ella]

18.9k subscribers today!

[@Muslimaaahhhh]

20 k✨

[@Roro__ruun]

26.7k 🎉❤

[@kazkilos]

Watching this in the middle of November but I have to make a change and STICK to it. I’m so tired of stoping and starting

[@Ka-gq3li]

I was feeling so unmotivated and was so disappointed in myself this past month because i just finished hs and uni classes in our country hasn’t started and I’m always lying in bed and watching tiktoks everyday which i lost interests too because i knew this wasn’t me and this days i was trying to motivate my self and work on myself and get closer to my religion too but i lose motivation easily and today i was so tired of going from apps to apps so i opened youtube and I found your video and for some reason i never take videos like this seriously but when i was your video I literally just brought my journal and started writing what you saying and I’m one pf this people who don’t have vision or don’t know what to do in life and what there purpose is but i feel like this vid helped me alot and I wanted to thank you🩷 i hope you live long beautiful and happy life🫶🏼

[@Ka-gq3li]

Excuse my spelling🤭

[@zizi-d8c]

@@Ka-gq3liwhat anice come back my allah make easy your journey u have to be disciplined and be kind to ur self🎉

[@lolitasworlddd7204]

Congrats on finishing high school. Rest is also important. You got this!

[@anvvmx]

Absolutely adored this video, thank you so much for sharing your light and wisdom with us. I am so excited for this month!

[@BahjaAbdi]

Yayyy I'm excited as well! I love you more than life 🩷

[@MOTHER-NATURE-]

Thank you bahja, I think God sent you to me in the right timing, I'm going to throw a hard time not knowing what to do with my life and then you popped up in my youtube page, it's meant to be for me to hear your words. God bless you

[@skyslofi]

first of all, you are absolutely Gorgeous (just had to say it) & thank you so much for your advice. The timing of me running into this video couldn't have been more perfect. I will be trying the scripting method.

[@BahjaAbdi]

Thank you so much 🥹💕

[@zii1350]

Your are honestly one of the best people i love to watch when i need that lil push!!

[@nura_dagan]

i feel it's not enough to listened without taking note i need to take note 😩 thanks ❤

[@BahjaAbdi]

Period! You so welcome angel 🤍

[@jessbreathenails3747]

When you mentioned speak as your highest self got to me emotionally. I need to do it more often. New subby. Thank you🩵

[@Star_shine7777]

Thank you sooo muchhhhh I have never been understood by anyone as much as by you and it's my sign, i believe to get working and reach where i have always desired!!

[@BahjaAbdi]

You sooo soo welcome! Believe it or not a lot of us go through similar struggles and I knew that if I shared this it would reach people who also need it so this makes me really happy 🥹🫶🏾

[@tiara891ify]

I been so depressed and unmotivated lately. I feel like this didn't come on my timeline for nothing

[@ezra3085]

I had to rewatch the video because first time i was too distracted by your beauty 😭

[@BreezyLover01]

Thank you so much for this video! I’ve been feeling so down mentally lately it was very hard not to give up. You reminded me that I moved to a foreign country all alone to chase my dreams and not mop around

[@BahjaAbdi]

wow, you already did something that would be extremely hard for a lot of us to do. Im proud of you, please be gentle with yourself and pick yourself back up every time. I'm rooting for you 🥹🤍

[@crystalinarodriguez239]

The new year 2024 is coming soon and this video came just in time! ❤ Thank-you

[@Migupostt]

I just ranted abt being lazy in my journal and this is waht pops up on my feed

[@BahjaAbdi]

God will always give you what you need 🫶🏾

[@sayneb]

Thankyou so much Bahja its Sayneb i've been quiet recently but forever wishing you success in silent , don't ever stop Ma Sha Allah.❤

[@BahjaAbdi]

I love you so muchhhh sayneb! Thank you for the endless support, it means the world to me. 🫶🏾🫶🏾 my fav girl

[@ubiquitousinfluence]

OBSESSED WITH THIS HIJAB AND IM NOT EVEN A HIJABI BUT I HAVE BEEN CONTEMPLATING WEARING IT FOR A WHILE NOW. PLEASE DO A TUTORIAL ON THIS BABEEEE

[@mishawnroberts141]

This is exactly what I needed. I appreciate you for this!

[@l8sumni]

I just started the video but girl, this scarf was made for you! ✨✨✨

[@BahjaAbdi]

Ahhh thank you! I actually stole it from my mom lol so imma tell her "it was made for meeee" 😭🩷

[@grcreations4333]

I am really tired of starting all over again after putting in so much effort. I was thinking about listening to some podcasts that would help me in this regard, and from nowhere, your video popped up in my KZbin feed. Thanks! ❤️ And you gained a new subscriber.

[@BahjaAbdi]

🫶🏾🫶🏾 I'm rooting for you

[@grcreations4333]

@@BahjaAbdi Thanks! ❤❤❤

[@lifewithkashmeere]

for me the lazy girl days come in waves lol i just got out of it had to be happy and just keep going, or rather get going. i was constantly starting over it was getting old, an the months have just been passing me by.

[@edenisabella2003]

this is the most beautiful, comprehensive approach to manifestation, introspection, goal setting, mindful living, and overall choosing a better life and greater presence i have ever seen. thank you so so much for your work, i now have a framework for moving forward after floundering for so long. thank you so so much!! 💕

[@Barnirecaps]

Imagine i need this n i saw my fyp by accident May allah bless this gurl

[@YuldashevaUm1da]

Hello from Uzbekistan❤. I just wanted you to know that you are making those, who you do not even know, motivated and eager to live with activeness. You are so perfect and energetic lady🤗.

[@Basima-y6w]

I love how in all your videos it sounds like we are talking and your sister/friend who is encourages me to do better. May allah bless you immensely💕

[@BahjaAbdi]

Allahumma ameen! Awe y'all are literal sisters and I love you so much 🫶🏾

[@wasilaxx8841]

you look so stunning sis 🫶🏾💓💓 allahuma barik

[@BahjaAbdi]

Thank you smmmm 🩷

[@KerieshiaSmith-ie7yl]

I literally needed this I been missing work Constantly n need prayers laziness leave my body

[@LightofDey]

Bahja this is the second video of yours that has helped me during my time of transition. I’m really grateful for you. Thank you for being a light and thinking of all of us ❤

[@nuna118]

This is my first time seeing your channel and girl I like thisss

[@BahjaAbdi]

She said gurl I'm feelin this 😭 this makes me so happy 🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@nuna118]

@@BahjaAbdi 😭❤️❤️

[@hayawiltd3102]

GURL!!!! Youuuu are speaking HAQQ!!! 🥰😍🥹

[@themirror3272]

I feel the bahja when I see you 🥺 keep going girl you really do inspire us ❤ all the love from Morocco to you 🇲🇦🤍

[@BahjaAbdi]

I love you so muchh!!!!

[@enoblee3152]

This was so helpful, tired of starting all over. I am definitely hoping to be more disciplined this time

[@Nurse.Ayan.06]

thank you for being such a big inspiration bahja

[@lawalronke1923]

Thanks so much,you are the big sister we never had

[@sbongilenyawo1256]

I am so demotivated. I don't even know where to start. My heart is shut down

[@Miss.K..]

I was listening and all but I just kept thinking about how beautiful she isssss

[@monaonsare3967]

Oh my God Bahja I really needed this today thank you

[@Sanoui]

girl, you are spitting straight-up facts. loved this video

[@p1nkChanel]

WE Appreciate your help❤ thankyou so much😊

[@rxnaah494]

Love you 🤍 your video helped so much!! Thank you, thank you! May Allah bless you 🤍

[@lac3n]

Thank you so much, ive been feeling very tired because of my late sleep schedule and i always do my exercises late and it really affects me. This video really helped me thank you.

[@BahjaAbdi]

Awe I'm so happy this video was able to help you. Working out late is always difficult so you should be proud of yourself 🩷

[@isramustafa518]

I really needed this video to get off my couch

[@myraclepryor1421]

This is exactly what I needed to hear, Thank You

[@PatientStudies]

decided to watch this while I do laundry, because as you said it so well, I am exhausted from bouncing back to square 1 on my goals.

[@ciannaspage.3]

I saw this video and wasn’t going to watch it as I didn’t know if I wanted to, but I clicked on n found the first few mins interesting, picked up notebook n pen n wrote consistent notes through the whole vid. I’m very thankful I came across ur channel new sub now too

[@BahjaAbdi]

Glad you enjoyed it 🥹🩷

[@siddiquianis4745]

She's a muslim version of doja cat frr... i remember one of my friend recommended her channel ....and i love her now

[@alexiabrown1690]

Skin is flawless

[@user-wv7rh9bl5i]

Inspiring video! I came across it just at the right time, thank you girl :)

[@MayiaSinghs]

Love your channel

[@The_stranger-zy7ih]

i dont like you as a person but this was good! thank you hope you have a good life

[@BahjaAbdi]

Why is this so funnnyyyy 😭 I hope you have a good life too 🫶🏾

[@mercykasonde9403]

You hit the nail on the head. Very helpful video.❤

[@beaesthetic6536]

i love you so much because i relate to you a lot especially since i never see any hijabi “that” girls, you got a new subscriber ❤❤❤

[@BahjaAbdi]

Aweee this makes my heart so full 🥺🫶🏾

[@mayaa5169]

TYSM for this i LOVE your tiktok ac im so happy you are on youtube, ur advice is so beneficial it helps me to get started and stop procrastinating. Inshallah all the hard work will pay of ❤❤.

[@BahjaAbdi]

Ahhhhh I love you so much and it makes me the happiest in the world to know that my content has a positive impact on your life 🩷

[@AmnaZara-g8s]

You dont know how much of an impact your having on us ❤❤❤❤ as a young muslimah it is obvious to encounter challenges, one way i like to cope is by watchibg vedios of muslimahs that i cab relate to , and to this day honestly, your vedios are tge best i have come by , also this vedio is really good and informative i loveeeee it ❤

[@Haniakomi]

Subscribed in 2 seconds😍 you're GORGEOUS mashallah❤️

[@iheomaemecheta2114]

It’s discouraging almost getting to your goal but the opportunity you were looking for just slips through your fingers. Starting over constantly promotes laziness for me 😢 I hate it so much. But I’ll keep on trying

[@LaurianeAimee]

So excited to see the Cameroon vlog 🥹❤️🇨🇲🫶🏽

[@edanurbaba]

I love you and this advice helps me view my situation and dream big always

[@BahjaAbdi]

I love you and I got youuu 🩷🩷🩷

[@ኢት]

Truly amazing video! Just what I needed to hear.

[@alicag6516]

Thankyou so much for sharing all your knowledge! Love you and your videos, you make my day🩷

[@BahjaAbdi]

Aweee I love you dearly. Seeing your comments really make my day, thank you for the kind words 🥺🩷

[@Iffxyz]

Jazakallah khairan ❤ Thank you so much for this video ❤

[@Moon_Light_X3]

This is the first time I come across your Channel and I want to say thank you for this video and god bless you 🤲✨

[@BahjaAbdi]

🥹🩷

[@lifewithaishaaa]

You are trying again because you have a desire and you know you can do butter ❤

[@BahjaAbdi]

Yesss 🥹🩷

[@alliyahlecky]

Love this so much! Really helped me