3 Lies The Narcissist ALWAYS Tells You BE AWARE

[@Imnotyourdoormat]

They'll tell a lie where the truth would fit better...

[@NMTDelightfulMusic]

They get high when they lie, they think they outsmarted you. They ARE crazy...

[@FrankandBaggioTheCavalier]

The 3 lies that I found out, and the hard way too: 1. I love you 2. I’m telling the truth 3. Don’t change for anyone

[@StephenRides696]

They save photos of them that they resend to all their new relationships to get them hooked. It’s like a pre programmed system that’s on repeat 🔁

[@valarielewis64]

SO TRUE EXACTLY 💗😳 MY EX jumped across the table to tell her, waitress, that she was the most beautiful gorgeous woman he'd ever seen WTFFFFFFF😮

[@kimgordon3695]

😑 it's so nauseating

[@BJBlaskovichGaming]

I wouldn’t be shocked. My ex has a catalog of love/relationship memes that she probably reuses.

[@rudycamposjr4147]

Oh yeah I saw a picture she said was only for my eyes lol sent two other guys during discard but told them the same lol only for their eyes lol

[@justme_brentg]

I still don't know how to move on. I'm in therapy. It's been 2.5 years. It all feels like a nightmare.

[@jackparrow2954]

One day at a time you got this❤

[@devintompkins9626]

I'm "moving on" it's been 5 yrs of struggling but what I did was turn my love for my significant other onto myself and I have been healing and doing better for it.

[@drlarrymitchell]

I'm two weeks shy of three years, and yes, it still hurts. I think this is just all a part of the new collective Normal.

[@kimMorgan4813]

I agree

[@carolehouston3959]

I left 2.4 years ago after he decided that we should have a break! We have been married over 48 years which were hard years, Andre have known each other for 50 years! I was thinking about him for ages after the breakup and then when he got another supply, I decided to block him and this has helped me heal. I know it’s hard to go solo after a long time with someone,but if you have outside support it helps. I still wish him to find what he has been looking for but I know he will probably never find it. They are sad lonely souls and you are better out and away from this type of relationship. I feel happier, healthier and more content than I’ve felt since being a teenager. I do hope you will get there too, but it’s heartbreaking and you need to stay strong to become yourself again. ❣️

[@darren8272]

the hardest thing is no one believe's you that this person is like this because its all done behind closed doors

[@marvinjohnson5771]

Firts lie is telling you i love you. Second is telling you they would never do something. If they tell you that they are doing it. Third is any story they tell you about someone els it's them doing it. They tell on themselves.

[@celiamurray]

If I trusted my 1st impression like I was suppose too, I would not have been with the narc. I really thought he was a horrible person the first time we met. And he is not the kind of person that I would normally fancy. 🙈

[@iamwabisabi3711]

The future faking was the glue that held me there.

[@kimgordon3695]

Your fantasy of what might be was.

[@nuhuirigo1028]

I even endup thinking may be she was not human being.

[@thelifeofLJ2011]

I met the “love of my life”, spent 5 nights together and some long distance conversing after. Red flags abound exactly like this video. It was hard to put my finger on what her interaction was missing because she was so attractive and charismatic. Any real feelings was what was missing. Saddest that it was like my dream future slipped through my fingers yet again. Very accurate video of what happened to me.

[@Edwinita]

Absolutely right! After the love bombing he became the most boring person ever, a triviality, an ugly baloon loosing farted air. The sentence "I love you", soon became "I like you"... then he thought out loud about getting the number of the waitress, who was serving us. Even though he later told me that I totally misunderstood him, this was the last drop. I am so happy to have ended that realtionship.

[@emilykathleenn]

Pure evil 😈

[@kimgordon3695]

triangulation, gaslighting & discard all in one place 😑

[@Octobersky066]

Thank you! They are flat and boring. Cheating is the only exciting thing they do. Never seen anything like this. Absolutely 💯 boring

[@tonypiggot4877]

I thought it would be to the end of time and that one day we would have our last goodbye and that truly upset me ! I l gave my heart to her ! What an idiot I feel now , I’m rebuilding! Thanks for your videos x

[@emilykathleenn]

Yep we give everything to them and they see it as nothing still

[@EvaArt-ud6gwari]

Anoushka, so true! At first I really could not believe it, I had to pinch myself again and again. How is this behavior, words possible. Then one day I stumbled on the description of the covert narcissist, and BAM, it was all there! Thank you so much as you have helped me enormously get over the trauma this person has caused me. The thing is that because you know they have experienced trauma you stay and you still remain kind to them when what one should do is totally disconnect. They really are hard to fathom, they are not fully formed humans! Finally I did it, but any amount of time with them is wasted time, except perhaps the huge lesson one learns to watch for these "creatures", fake, nasty, scary, absolutely surreal. Thank you so much for your compassion and knowledge.

[@Miester7]

This was the best description of their love i have heard. Its hard to fathom because they dont feel or think like us. They are unwell. But when we have some idea of how they operate it helps us to move on. Thanks Anoushka!

[@kimgordon3695]

10:45

[@marvinjohnson5771]

They love what you do for them and how you make them feel not you.

[@kimgordon3695]

Supply

[@Sheila-ud6fx]

Another lie is I'll never hurt you.😢

[@СофияБижева]

Narcissism is in false friendship too.The same lies as in false marriage.

[@vickipattelena7363]

The biggest problem I have encountered with narcissists is that they think everyone except them is a narcissist!!! My advice, just get out of the relationship if you can!!

[@billya3628]

My incredibly toxic ex, was the ultimate projector, I finally dropped her like a rock! Thanks for the vids.

[@angelahart1479]

I thought I was so lucky to meet and fall in love with my ex narc.I got the lot. Love bombing devalue discard future faking. It's been almost a year since she broke it off and silent for 6 months. I did nothing wrong at all...still hurts like hell😢😢😢

[@NMTDelightfulMusic]

Listen to Sam Vaknin, soon you will 🤮🤢🤮 of them :)))

[@mauricioprimus2610]

That sounds the same like my ex did to me. Mate, you are not alone.

[@pamwatkins4855]

I won't believe in false hope and keep stuck on it thank you

[@marcelazimna1022]

That’s exactly what it happend to me.And i was repaced in one moment.

[@TheAmazingRandy]

You are absolutely 100% correct. Great video

[@dawnrobbins5877]

Their biggest lie, they seldom say. They WILL destroy you. That's your purpose as far as they're concerned. Their vengeance is unsurpassed.

[@marjoryrekna3779]

Everything spot on! I never thought I was dating a covert narcist. But after repeatedly disrespecting me I started to search for answers and I stumble on your video's. This video is so true. Yes it helped me jn my journey of healing. ❤

[@sanjavadla7909]

Narc always lies ..... constantly.....run away quickly, run....

[@BugammaMomma]

You are so Awesome Anoushka - keep sharing your gift to us - so appreciated and so helpful - 💖💖💖

[@richardlenz2655]

I have a narcissistic wife. You are 100% right 🥰

[@shirleychandler2780]

Sounds like someone I know !

[@Truth-matters-v2z]

I used to joke that my Gemini (twins) narcissist was at least two people. No idea he was a narcissist. I didn’t even think this was legit bc it is overused. But 100% my partner, he has all the characteristics.

[@tathe3786]

I Joked on This too and Often asked him where the Other guy, the Good one is… the one that understand what i say…. In the Beginning He said He is there but Not to reach in the Moment… and After Time He said i am just one What are you Talking about… are you Crazy, or trying to Tell me Things i should think to confuse me?

[@janninedonnelly3597]

Oh my goodness, I have been saying this to the narcissist for so long. I findl myself saying, "what personality are you now"? It's insane. You are so spot on Anoushka.

[@exofnarccop]

It's as if I wrote your comment myself. Wow. They all share one brain. That's explains alot. Lol

[@gregmoverley7525]

Thank You So Much Anoushka !

[@rickross7796]

People with cluster b personality disorders don't bond with people to bond with someone who can't bond is a losing proposition

[@simplyemily8251]

im in a professional line of work and yet the person im hiring to help me says they love me. lol sure it felt good but never took it further apart from being overly nice and them and them screwing their face up when i was which confused me lets be real lol. but major red flag and then low and behold the end up sabotaging what I hired them for. its like they follow a text book on narcissism. it freaked me to my core so weird and dare i say evil. never felt so much hate from someone that said they love me lol ...and yet they still want to keep in touch......they are absolutely bonkers

[@jasont2105]

Great video, thanks. They wear different masks as well not just one, their are several facades usually being utilized…. I.e the damsel facade, the virginal facade, the marital facade, they even wear different masks with their siblings!

[@lalani888ARTblue]

As well as your children...it truly is so damaging. They have a mask for every person they meet.

[@kimgordon3695]

@@lalani888ARTblue 😥🙋 yes

[@paulhyland3645]

U r a lovely person that has been hurt too, Iam going through it now never new how people could be this way thank u for your advice 😊🤗

[@Poppyrich77]

I absolutely appreciate your knowledge, and you convey it masterfully… lol Great job on the background of the set! ☮️❤️

[@pamwatkins4855]

Thank you that if you wouldn't explain these things to me that I need to see that I am stumped over and don't realize what's going on I just thank you so much that your conviction is to tell others so that they aren't in the dark and not know what's going on and feel so and something's wrong

[@jackbonanno8186]

I can't count the times I stood there and begged for a reason for this monumental change. I told her it's as if an entity came down from above and flipped a switch to completely change you. I knew she was narssisitic but I had no idea of how cruel and sadistic they could be. No one teaches that. You have to find it on your own. 16 years of marriage down the toilet from the pathological lying, the cheating, the stealing. Then walking away for good leaving me owing over 60k in debts I didn't know I had, she hid it so well.

[@bobbyfox3013]

Thank you, you're videos are very helpful which enables me to heal better and faster!!💯

[@adrianoc1456]

Best background I've seen from you, fits you beautifully God bless

[@bobbyz3714]

Well said Anoushka! Thank you! ❤

[@heathermcalpine802]

It's funny I had a narc tell me they loved me on a few different occasions, but what's funny is when he got on the subject of love one time talking, I asked if he'd ever been in love and he said no. We had been together 2 1/2 yrs.. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 so yeah I totally agree these people are so disconnected from themselves. How could anyone connect with another without having a connection with self! Basically from what I've experienced is they put you in the position of being their parent in ways hence one sided relationship!

[@flyingsaucer1268]

I go live every day (taking a walk in the park)

[@kimMorgan4813]

I was married for 20 years. Was he faking it that long? It was also a no sex relationship and since I was bonded to him, I didn't leave .

[@NMTDelightfulMusic]

He was cheating, it was the only way they can have sex :(((

[@lalani888ARTblue]

They use sex as a weapon. Total emotional abuse. But meanwhile...there they are literally waving other women in your face.

[@peterkruger5115]

Very good

[@Elizabeth-pn4ug]

It took me 5min to feel something wasn't right 😢

[@mauricioprimus2610]

First month of relationship: 1. I love you 2. I want to have kids with you 3. Can't wait to meet your family. 2 months later... She left me because i work at the factory and she need someone who is smart for business that she can "admire" and "learn" from him.

[@evelindadewispelaere4426]

it takes a long time i am in same position

[@veronicaknight5068]

youre talking about one on one relationships,,any advice on daughter mother relationships please

[@exofnarccop]

If we knew then what we know now. I told the narcissist the biggest insult he has given me was telling me he loved me. Love is a verb . Its a noun to them . Just a meaningless word. Just like their apologies. Its a verb not a noun. Promies are also verbs. They the narcissist are all a few letters short of the alphabet.

[@marcvortexthe9386]

how can these creatures live with themselves…🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

[@mmm091000]

@@Byebye10111so true ! that’s why Anoushka is brilliant at explaining this probably the best.

[@tathe3786]

They Love it to be as They are…. They enjoy it!!!

[@NMTDelightfulMusic]

They do not have themselves ( self or ego). They have no clue what they are or what emotions they have. They are not even people :)))

[@kimgordon3695]

@@tathe3786 yep it's a power Trip for them

[@emilykathleenn]

This was all spot on 🎉 your videos are great and you say it in a positive way which is refreshing. Are you russian ?

[@kimgordon3695]

English

[@kimsanders8262]

Wow

[@mickymorton7148]

Being in a relationship with narcissistic women to them you are nothing I would like to call them washing machines rinse 🚿 dry spin cycle that is there lives 24/7

[@marcvortexthe9386]

🙏🙏🙏

[@tonypugel6324]

People need to hear what she's saying. Are you dealing with someone who has NPD or just your run of the mill people pleaser.

[@BJBlaskovichGaming]

Could be BPD too. BPD and NPD can coexist in the same person.

[@kimgordon3695]

People pleaser is usually their target

[@Will_rock_you]

I think i was narcissistic with my baby mum but it changed me losing her she was playing me somewhat but i know its my fault why she became such a dick to me shame i had to fall out with her and ruin something so special to realise it! I moved on and end up with what i think is a narcissist recently and it has been an absolute rollercoaster of heartache and confusion the word karma springs to mind but im kind of thankfull because altho it hurts ive learned alot about myself and how to be an even better person then i ever was

[@exofnarccop]

They all share one brain. Explains a lot. 😂

[@Sunflower-i4r]

Ok just say it,

[@dosmatrix4470]

She sex bombed me like nothing ive ever experienced and loved bombed. Then about 7 months in I would say "I love you" and she would say " Thankyou". She discarded because of problems with being "Intimate" because of her past and didn't want to be under pressure in a relationship. For real WTF what total B.S. 2 months after she dumped me she is with someone else such a deceitful, disgusting excuse for a person.

[@ras9875]

I asked my ex which one am I talking to? I only like the one.

[@vibehutcoach.wellbeingandf5772]

My ex narc got engaged to me to only go home and end the relationship and engagement four weeks later I was in bits then she just went from bad to worse ,after 6 weeks she hoovered me back in and I actually fell for it then ten weeks later she was going to move to my country to live with me but to only do it all again ,then I just new gradually she had a personality disorder so I started to stand up to her confront her behaviour which only made her worse and believe me I have had the worst verbal abuse any human can have ,she tells me she doesn't trust me and I'm a lier yet hand on my heart I don't even know what she's on about and I've asked her to tell me or put proof forward of what I've lied about but she can't because she knows and I know it's all made up to try to distract her awful behaviour on to me by making me feel like I'm in the wrong ,they are evil twisted people and should be in hospitals getting help

[@zedzawalski3105]

What does it mean when a narcissist tells you they have “special powers”?

[@timothyabraham13]

Yep, mine said she was a White witch and could see things I couldn't...she was right in a way, I couldn't see her fucking many other men at the time. I guess her super powers must have wained because I can see it all now. 😂

[@TYLER-jz6uv]

😂😂😂😂

[@TYLER-jz6uv]

They do But it's not like superman or Spiderman! More like Venom or Jason From Friday The 13 th 😅

[@TheAmazingRandy]

Run!

[@NMTDelightfulMusic]

Delusion...

[@barishankhonglah4690]

what is the difference between making love and sex are or mean to them? How do they see the two?

[@kat-75]

Could the have disassociative disorder? It present as more than 2 or 3 people. No.offense.

[@Dazz3881]

🙏