Balancing a 9-5 job and *hectic* personal life living in New York City. A Vlog.

This is my attempt at balancing my work and personal lives living in new york city.... but I fail miserably. But hey, that's okay! Hopefully this inspires you to take time to actively rest because life is exhausting wherever you live. Take care of yourselves!
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[@lauren000005]

Tiny PSA for chafing sufferers! Monistat has a gel to powder thing and it’s amazing. There’s no residue and lasts a long time!

[@ChelseaCallahan]

You’re amazing I must try this 🥲

[@theharshtruthoutthere]

@@ChelseaCallahan 9 - 5 working industry was created, because masons wants slaves. Schools systems prepared us for our future slavery. Wise ones reject this and seek GOD and start relying on HIM fully. it is unwise to count on the governments of this world. Didn´t they proved in 2020 how badly far are they from reality? slavery turn no soul rich, the price for such slavery is opposite: you lost: time (1st 20 years = childhood, then comes 40 years for slavery = your 20s, your 30s, your 40s, your 50s, then comes 50 years of being elderly = 60 - 100) health = all these vaccines, which slowly turns you a cripple + man made fake food ( we are dust and should consume which comes directly from dust) life = no time and no health = early grave Each of us shall lose 3 times, gain nothing more then illusions. When reading THE BIBLE (KJV) and complaining abut the slavery in the past, know then this, that 9 - 5 working industry = slavery of our day.

[@dividsky]

if you find that 30 something is old, wait until your 50+... and you'll be like me laughing at those 30+ whining about getting old lol. Your not old, not at all you just starting living your adult life! don't stop, your doing great! 😉

[@ChelseaCallahan]

Hahaha you know what? We’re not old till we’re 99 how about that?

[@dividsky]

@@ChelseaCallahan 99 is safer, but we may never get old! Lol

[@chuzzthefuzz1908]

50+ is nothing! Try 70+. And I’m happy and contented (moreorless).

[@henryparka3718]

Wow. I can relate to the struggle of letting someone into your 'organised' life. Not organised in the sense that I've figured everything out. Just that I know for example what I need to keep all my plates spinning. My routine to help me adress problems in job, apartment, physical & mental health, family, friends, hobbies, bills, etc. The hundred litte things that I need to do in a certain way, at a certain time, in a certain mood for me to keep my sanity without having to worry about the needs and wants of another person. And the necessity of shuffling a second persons's life into that is destined to tip me into a slow spiral. So yeah, I can relate to that. haha

[@ChelseaCallahan]

Yes 100%!!! Keeping the plates spinning is such a challenge. You got this Henry ✨

[@ANDRSNS]

Yup. This is so familiar. You get up, you go to work with no real intention of getting back into the dwelling, then you kick yourself out of bed and go to work again. Very well fimed, Chelsea!

[@Tina-fj4xo]

Your comments about routines, pushing people away, breaking and unable to rebuild...wow, it brought a tear to my eye. Thank you for putting into simple words so many complex feelings. Sending you so much love ❤

[@cristaB92]

I love your channel! I am a 30 something, moving up to NYC in June/July. I appreciate your realistic and honest perspective so much. I feel like I’m on FaceTime with my friends when I watch you.

[@alexanderduff6018]

I’m in my mid 30s too and my lease in Orlando fl ends in June/july also, that’s when I want to see if I can get a job transfer from Orlando to Manhattan within my company. Loews hotels. I can’t even start finding a place until I’m confirmed for a transfer and I’m considering selling my car since I technically wouldn’t need one, I’ll just drive up in a uhaul van with a small % of my stuff

[@cristaB92]

@@alexanderduff6018 that is what I'm doing as well. I'm taking my SUV and a small pull behind uhaul. Whatever doesn't fit, doesn't go. Will sell my car once I'm there. Been looking at sublets, think that will be my best bet for now. Or even a long term air bnb, they have monthly options.

[@alexanderduff6018]

@@cristaB92 that’s a good idea actually. But I drive a stick shift car. Not sure if my car can handle pulling a small uhaul trailer. But I can try to save money from here to then and sell my car when I get there. Out of state tags though but they can always get a title transfer

[@alexanderduff6018]

@@cristaB92 also do you use gypsy on Facebook? They are always posting short and long term sublets, rents

[@cristaB92]

@@alexanderduff6018 No, but I will have to go look them up. Thanks for the tip!

[@Welovehorrormovies]

I can definitely relate to not letting people in, especially living in a city. It's easy to feel like you've been socializing because of all the different people around you. And my anxiety has gotten worse since the pandemic. Also, I'm sorry for your loss

[@charlottekurz6086]

I’ve been following since early 2021 when I found you for studio apartment inspo before my move into the city from Brooklyn. It was also my first time living alone and have found your content so helpful and just comforting as I’ve stuck around since. I really appreciate your authenticity putting this all out there that so many of us feel - it’s so valuable! I’m so sorry about your coworker, my boss got really sick and eventually had to retire last year and dealing with that kind of grief in a work setting is especially tough. Sending love and hope you’re being kind to yourself! 💜

[@ChelseaCallahan]

Thanks so much Charlotte!!

[@micahsnow346]

Relating so much to what you said about routine and letting ppl in…I’ve gotten so used to living alone and dictating my own schedule that being vulnerable and available with my time is…difficult and scary. I actually decided that I need to delete my dating apps for a while as I figure this out. Like, where am I able and willing to make the sacrifices necessary for real connection? Where is that healthy and where do I need to establish the real boundaries that I need for myself?

[@ChelseaCallahan]

Beautifully said. Nothin wrong with dating breaks from the apps!! They can be so draining. Sending you all the good vibes! ✨

[@melissalo3549]

You are able to verbalize all my day to day struggles just trying to get through life balancing work and responsibilities- not much room left for anything else

[@Gabrielle499]

Omg your 70’s outfit was bang on! 🧡 love your sense of humour & your sense of realism!! 👍 xo from Canada 🇨🇦

[@ChelseaCallahan]

thank you!!! 🧡

[@Spatatafff]

Greetings from Berlin! I have never been in the States, but I guess big city life is just about the same everywhere in this Western world 😅 I can relate to so much of what you tell us in your videos. I also think that letting anyone in is a painful process, and more people should see it that way. But eventually one can manage to go through the motions. And it is never effortless. Anyway 😊 I am just dropping a line to say that I love your content!

[@loujon191]

This is the content I’m here for. Someone that gets up in the morning other than a pretend morning routine

[@HeatherMaldonado_]

the slo-mo section killed me haha! Hang in there :) We love the vulnerability. Faking perfection is overrated!

[@ChelseaCallahan]

thanks Heather! 💓

[@theudopantograph]

Ugh, balancing work and personal life these days has been difficult. I've noticed a huge gap in this space compared to pre covid. There's more tension at work, so that trickles down to personal live. I'm sorry to hear about your co worker, a co worker of mine told me she has breast cancer last week, and she's at the stage where she has to choose treatment options. Things are heavy, and I can't help but think about her because our company is also going though a series of layoffs, just like everyone else. Anyway, be safe out there.

[@ChelseaCallahan]

I’m so sorry :( that is not easy to manage. Sending you all the good vibes I possibly can 🤍🤍🤍

[@gadson100]

you are so brave for going to a party that starts at 10 30 pm lol. i would decline for that reason alone. im a night person too but my morning job seems to be killing that vibe. im not a normal person unless im in bed by 10. im 43. have fun in your 30s lol. xoxo

[@kleopatrakhleo9668]

I just subscribed, this is the first video Im watching it came up as recommended and I can't wait to watch your older videos now. I feel the same way, I live alone, I have a routine, I have anxiety when things are not fully in my control or im not at my comfort or if something throws me off etc, its so nice to hear you talk about it and know im not the only one

[@donnaw1306]

Here are a couple of tips that helped me work towards a better daily routine and not feeling so overwhelmed with "adulting" responsibilities. First thing, make your bed everyday as soon as you climb out of it. This sounds crazy, but one it will make your apartment feel so much better if you have it tidy. Second, don't let your dishes pile up. As soon as you finish eating or drinking, wash that dish or put it straight into the dishwasher. As soon as you finish cooking, rinse that pan and do the same. You will feel so much better not having so many things to do at one time. Smaller tasks make it easier and you will be amazed at how much less stress you will feel when you get home. I know it sounds crazy, but trust me when I tell you it will lead to other small tasks and before you know it, you will be like "what am I going to do with myself because I have so much extra time on my hands". LOL I hope you have a wonderful day and upcoming weekend.

[@boon123]

You’re video is vary relatable about routine and grief and playing catch up. And I love that you’re a runner, as I feel the same way about it taking a mental weight off. I enjoy your videos a lot, and you are a cool person!

[@taylormccoy6145]

10000% agree, its so hard to balance it all once you figure out what works best for you. holding yourself to whats good is so important but so are other things 😩

[@ChelseaCallahan]

exaaactly!! 😩

[@MonicaAdrianna]

Oh no- I'm so sorry to hear about your colleague 😟I had something similar happen last year, when a colleague was in a bad accident and had to leave. It's an odd feeling- almost like a sense of grieving that has no where to go (that can't be expressed outside of yourself)- since the only other people who knew them also work with me, and we don't talk about those things at work. To veer off to another topic- have you thought about getting a small washing machine kind of appliance for your apartment? My fiance and I went down a rabbit whole the other night looking at them (he needs to get one for work) and there are a ton available now catered to people who live in big apartment buildings or people who go camping lots. It might help you a bit!

[@ChelseaCallahan]

thanks Monica 💓 I'm so sorry something similar happened to you too. The small washing machine is a good idea!! I think my lease has something in there prohibiting them but maybe it's just a certain kind, will definitely check it out ✨thanks!

[@laurynmorganthomas4445]

Just found your channel and have been binging your videos! I moved to New York from Philly in September and while I LOVE IT and know that I could never go back, I feel you so hard on all the challenges it brings. And I especially relate to needing to have routine and feeling anxiety about breaking the routine. Thanks for being so real!

[@ryanmaneo]

I relate to this sooo much and struggle to make time for friends because I really love to focus on myself and what I know is right for me and the thought of something disrupting my routines makes me so anxious. Something I am still working on to this day.

[@celiatiabmusiccc]

Ok so the slow motion section had me in tears laughing! That was so cute and funny. Love your channel so much! Sending love from France 💜

[@AlekkPotter]

I love how relatable you and your content are.

[@snugglebug5274]

Hey Chelsea. I just wanted to tell you some of the unintended benefits of your channel, since you might not be aware of them. I love watching your channel because it gives me courage to live on my own in the midwest. I never intend to move to new york, but when I think about leaving my spouse, and my big house (at 40), and moving into a tiny apartment that's twice the price of my mortgage, and maybe doesn't have good plumbing, or whatever...and struggling with a shitty job and no support or guarantees...that's some new yorker shit. Anyway, I just thought I'd tell ya that in case it motivates you. ❤

[@ChelseaCallahan]

Yes!! You’ve got the New York mindset 💪🏻 that sounds like such a tough situation, i know you got this✨ Thanks for taking the time to share your story, and for watching!

[@missraredoesstuff]

The rent clips gave me so much serotonin

[@SaLiDeLune]

I am sorry for your loss. People often apologize for being sad when someone passes away, like they don't have the same "right" to feel sad as someone who knew the person better. But I think it is beautiful when people are sad when someone dies. If I was the person who died, I would want people te be sad (for a little while), and it's not as if there is only a limited amount of sadness to be divided 😉 It looks like Phoebe is settling in nicely! KZbin is now showing me several bunny videos (I did not know that they could learn so much!) 😄 I am very impressed with your strength to keep going, even on your lesser, or even, bad days. It's so nice to have a real, honest vlog. Thank you for sharing. I also liked the saying when you only have 40%, that you gave 100% of what you had (I am paraphrasing). It reminds me of something I read the other day, that when you try/do something and it doesn't work out, you didn't fail, but you learned something. This person said: 'Either I succeed, or I learn something, either way, it's a win!' And that just struck a chord with me! I had never even thought of looking at it that way.. I have a tendency to get stuck in my head and (especially when I am feeling low) then I don't do anything, which is such a shame.. Anyway, hope your week improves! I think you are doing amazing!!

[@mollzz]

I live in western NY, about 5 hours from the city. I have no desire to move to the city but I just love you and your videos! ❤❤❤

[@careohleenah]

a colleague of mine had also passed away from cancer. she was the most healthy, lively vibrant person who I never would have imagined getting sick so suddenly. life really is very fragile

[@victoriarotondi1256]

Phoebe is so so so so cute. That wiggly nose! That plush coat! I love her.

[@ChelseaCallahan]

She’s a dream 😍😍😍

[@GGS849]

Wow - I loved seeing that this video is only two months old and you're stoked on hitting almost 5k subscribers, pausing the video to check what you're at now and seeing almost 25k subscribers!! Woohoo!! Amazing job!

[@twinmom5138]

Always look forward to your vlogs, and I also have those moments of not feeling 100% and lack of motivation, but then eventually those feelings pass. Also, my deepest sympathies on the passing of your coworker.

[@ChelseaCallahan]

thank you 💓

[@yanie4674]

That routine talk i totally relate to ! I "fall" off then I'm so hard on myself for having three days out of routine but still getting things done

[@sarahgutierrez5628]

It’s the rabbit crunching for me 😂😂🫶

[@gretagalla3007]

Thank you for your nice and honest sound and for your excellent sense of humor. Warm greetings from Budapest

[@jasminesemujju3016]

Hey Chelsea! Loved this vlog, it was so relatable what you said, about tragedy in life and routine and everything! Just recently subscribed discovered your video on living in New York as it’s my dream to move there one day ! ✨

[@ChelseaCallahan]

so glad it resonated with you!! ✨ I’m glad you found my channel, excited for you to be here one day! 🗽

[@angiet4005]

Oh your videos and narration feel so, so familiar. love ❤. I just left city (Chicago) living at age 49, and lived alone until age 41. We finally have our own laundry inside our place. Enduring suburbia is almost worth it for that😂

[@mushuarts6195]

9 days since you’ve uploaded and you’re over 5k🥰 Channel is growing super fast🙌🏾 Great content! Keep it up!

[@ChelseaCallahan]

thank you for the support 🤍 I think I’ll be back uploading on the 19th, hope to see you then :)

[@Rareisbeautiful]

I loved the slow motion and ugh, thank you for being honest and I’m so sorry about your colleague

[@williamtinley9222]

Hey! Love your channel!! You might want to invest in a portable washer. You can hook it up to your sink and then do laundry anytime that you want. You can air dry the clothes or use the dryer. Having my own washer is a game changer. I have also used a manual washer and those are really cheap.

[@ChelseaCallahan]

great suggestion!

[@DavidRodriguez-ou9fy]

Very down to earth and humble! Most realistic way of life for a New Yorker that I've seen! Keep ot up! Best of luck on your training....especially in the cold weather! 🥶

[@ChelseaCallahan]

thank you!!

[@rumaruelberta]

Watching your life give me peace. I thank God for all I have.

[@emilydellaria8360]

Sending good vibes your way, and congratulations on your sober streak🫶🏼🫶🏼

[@vibingvegan]

I’m so sorry to hear about your coworker :(

[@ChelseaCallahan]

Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

[@IvanSergio1984]

I look forward to your new vlogs! Good vibes!

[@ChelseaCallahan]

❤️❤️❤️ have a good week!

[@mariamrys]

I really love your vlogs

[@ChelseaCallahan]

❤️❤️❤️

[@kaycerush]

Hi! I've been following you for a few months now and I always look forward to your vlogs. I'm glad to see Phoebe is doing well and terribly sorry to hear about your coworker. Can't wait for your next video 😊

[@ChelseaCallahan]

Thanks for being here!!

[@johannacoreas3968]

Lmao I love the slo mo ending! ❤

[@magnify_coffee]

Your videos make me feel better 🥺🫶🏻☕️

[@janhaydon1505]

Sorry for the loss of your co-worker life can be cruel at times x

[@ChelseaCallahan]

Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

[@keeshabracamonte3495]

I love your realness and always look forward to seeing what you have to share ❤

[@ChelseaCallahan]

thanks keesha ❤️

[@jumanah7246]

Let’s make Chelsea youtube famous so she doesn’t have to work a corporate job anymore!!

[@ChelseaCallahan]

hahahhaha ❤️

[@catara.]

It's possible, she's better than some I've been watching and they make their living from it. All of them have links to Amazon or something, for stuff they are used in video, from vacuum to clothing. It will be a good idea to do that too. Your bunny is too cute, as a kid I had a bunny named Phoebe😊 (after the Friends character)

[@timeddie3134]

I first saw your homebody apartment vlogs a while ago and loved them and I was like hey I wanna see whats she's been up to! lol im subbing

[@susiesusie8612]

Totally relatable. Keep checking in with yourself and making the best decisions you can. Miss P looks like she has overtaken the apartment….lol. ❤

[@ChelseaCallahan]

it is her apartment now hah

[@mbuck5044]

I can relate the laundry room nonsense, so hate when ppl leave untended laundry 😤 Sorry for your loss.

[@ChelseaCallahan]

honestly leaving laundry in the public machines is such bad karma 🤣

[@andrea_tv_]

I had a bunny a long time ago. It's favorite veggies were cilantro and celery. He also liked the little corn silks/ hairs (hopefully you know what Im talking about). As for fruits, apples and oranges were a favorite but can't give too much because its too sweet for them apparently. Aside from that, I think you're doing great :)

[@lynsey.alexandra]

The Rent reference makes me love this channel even more.

[@ChelseaCallahan]

hahahhaha so glad someone got it 🥹🥹🥹

[@marcie553]

Bunny!! They are awesome- binkys! I had one for 7 years- they are better than cats!

[@HeatherB81]

The slow motion shots are hilarious and I love it

[@hannahmerchant7268]

Absolutely love the slow mo 😂 best ever

[@minimallyleah7208]

Dang, your channel skyrocketed from almost 5,000 up to 34,000+ subs within THREE MONTHS!!! Congratulations 👏🏾🎉 What's your trick? First time I'm seeing your channel by the way.😊

[@1024specialkay]

i can really relate to you!! Love that I found your channel!

[@derekstinson9003]

I’m really glad I stumbled upon your channel. Very informative.

[@carolinephillips-burk6569]

i love the rent references 😭

[@Malpakot]

I Miss judged your channel initially, actually been watching your videos recently and really enjoying the content. Subbed! Also have a bunny in a small apartment yes it’s hard

[@ChelseaCallahan]

❤️

[@nikkilynn18]

i cried actual tears as a teenager when mj died i didnt even know him, wasnt even that big of a fan of his, so yeah greif is weird although i suspect it kinda hit a nerve as it had only been a few years that my mother had passed and i was adopted by another family.

[@meganpaliwoda]

obsessed w phoebe ❤ so cute

[@thatgirlhannah97]

Thank you for your authenticity.

[@sarahgutierrez5628]

Been enjoying your vids

[@taracat7723]

Marathons are a chafing nightmare...fyi..been there..ps love your apartment.

[@macky1847]

Absolutely love your channel 🥰

[@Donnetta81]

Epic slow motion! lol

[@ChelseaCallahan]

😂❤️

[@stephaniecody8031]

Not gonna lie. The “getting lunch” scene looked like Animal Farm. City life looks so hard, emotionally.

[@samanthabatt2758]

Yay you hit 5k!!!! 🎉❤🎉

[@ChelseaCallahan]

Ahhhh!!! so excited haha

[@reymondbernal]

@@ChelseaCallahan subscribed 😊 ❤️

[@Welovehorrormovies]

"If all you do this week is get through it, that's okay too."

[@JustinaErcole]

LOL the rent jumps were A+

[@ChelseaCallahan]

😂🤍

[@aek12]

I wonder why we are living

[@lawrencelawsen6824]

Aww the pet is soo cute

[@betsywilliams3666]

I struggle with chaffing. Prefer wearing longer skirts and dresses and wear bike shorts under.

[@hollisvlogs]

love the vlog!!

[@Tamar-sz8ox]

New to your channel just subscribed ❤

[@oldphotos2644]

Congrats on 5,000!

[@ChelseaCallahan]

Ahhh thank you!!

[@justg1226]

I have been watching a bbc show on fat pets and found out that a small carrot is the same as a mars bar. Apparently carrots should be given out very infrequently. The tops of carrots are the good stuff for bunnies. As soon as I learned this I thought of Pheobe and new I had to tell you.

[@ChelseaCallahan]

You are so sweet thank you 🤍

[@donnadrane4977]

Yes it really is. I have to break the habit of giving my Guinea pig a baby carrot every morning. He is overweight.

[@KISSESFROMAFRIEND]

Love the slow mo 😂

[@divinekharidzha759]

Now it's 26k.. Wow🎊🎉.. I am from south Africa, l will be in corporate south Africa next year and l am looking forward to it

[@johysegovia]

I`m sorry about your coworker, something similar happened in our officce and I could barely function that day.

[@ChelseaCallahan]

awe i'm sorry something similar happened to you too. it can be very difficult. sending you all the good vibes!!

[@Goddesslovely35]

Wait your apartment only has one washer and dryer?!

[@ChelseaCallahan]

Yes 🥲

[@realtimecartravel]

5:29 - munchy-crunchy bunny replay

[@ChelseaCallahan]

so satisfying

[@Arhiva_Snimaka]

Nice videos. Best wishes from Serbia/Europe.

[@julewinchester5140]

I'm so glad I have found your channel

[@alexanderduff6018]

I’ve never tried deodorant on my thighs. I just use long boxer tights underwear. And is that a steamer? To steam clothes. I’ve been ironing my work clothes lately. I’m hoping one day I can transfer from my Loews hotel in Orlando to the Loews hotel on park street and 62 ave

[@katherinestrotman1162]

Literally...you and I would be best friends. That is all.

[@ChelseaCallahan]

🥹🥰

[@GeorgiaAdams18]

♥️

[@daviddaviedavidson]

NIIIICE, new video. Thank you.

[@dizzyk54]

🤗

[@cnlish]

After having worked in the corporate world for the past 5 years, coming from healthcare, I can attest to the corporate world being absolutely nasty. 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@broookehunter]

You’re gorgeous, Chelsea!

[@ChelseaCallahan]

awe thanks Brooke!

[@will3710]

I share some of the same worries as you -- but I'm about 10 yrs older. Just letting u know so u have something to look forward to :D

[@Zizzentauro]

I habe the same chairs in my apartment ahah

[@ChelseaCallahan]

Ahaha!! They’re great chairs