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00:01 Intro
03:37 How others will react and how you will feel
18:01 Dating, Women and relationships
25:40 Self development
Dating as a Bald guy in your 20's
How family will react to you being bald in your 20's
Online dating as a Bald guy in your 20's
How women will look at you as a Bald guy in your 20's
How your friends will act to you being bald in your 20's
How you will feel about yourself as a bald guy in your 20's
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In this video I talk in depth about a reddit posted to r/bald that claims to be the honest truth about going bald in your 20's. In the video I elaborate on points brought out about many topics like dating as a young bald guy, facial hair and how others will perceive you as a young bald guy in your 20's. Thank you to the original poster for allowing me to use his post for this video.
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[@AnestraTrend]

I am 16 and balding and I shaved my head and everyone I have talked says I look good. I have lost all insecurity and its amazing

[@Ganymede3310]

Same but stil thinking about shave

[@Baldcafe]

A powerful move

[@wl1495]

I started balding when I was 16. Ladies likes it, I was often compared to Jude Law at the time. But you know what man, they fucking love my bald head now. They love it. Own that shit bro!

[@Gord1973]

I was about 16 when my hair started falling out. I’m 47 now and shaved my hair for the first time when I was about 22. Should have done it sooner but have never looked back. Honestly just do it, you won’t regret it.

[@slaythedevils5102]

Don't worry, you will face troubles woth girls watch the nald guy who was refusrd by the girls in a dating show. It was hilarious

[@hubert_o]

I met my girlfriend after I shaved my head and we've been together for over 2 years now and we're both 21, shaving your head doesn't mean it will be difficult to find someone of a similar age as you if you shave at a young age, it just makes it easier to find the right person who likes you for who you are, not for any superficial reasons such as hair.

[@YLS8763]

Very inspiring and very true

[@slaythedevils5102]

Baldness is disgusting

[@hubert_o]

@@slaythedevils5102 your attitude is disgusting mate

[@slaythedevils5102]

@@hubert_o I'm telling you the truth.

[@johncrow2852]

@@slaythedevils5102 why are you so mad lol

[@Kyle-no4nb]

This channel literally gave me the confidence to shave my head. I’m 26 and I battled with it for years and after watching a few of these videos I finally did it. Thank you for the confidence man!

[@Baldcafe]

That is awesome! Congratulation on putting it all past you man. On to better things 👍

[@smcr-ry9jq]

Alright lads! I’m the author of that list and I knew when I was writing it that the dating points would be controversial... since writing this I’ve actually been dating an absolute smoke show for six months who I met on tinder of all places... so goes to show I was partly wrong in some of my statements. The dating point will always be a major topic of discussion for us, but if you focus on who you are instead of those strands of keratin in your head you’ll attract who you want to, even through online dating which is crazy superficial. EDIT: I had to break things off with the girl above due to us wanting different things, was i concerned about me not being able to find a girl as good as her again as I was doing it? No, you need to comfy in your own skin and confident in yourself... the energy you put out into the world is the energy you'll receive Keep those heads shiny! S

[@chillix118]

Back then i wasn’t balding and I used to already rock the proper head shave .. I got more pussies than ever.

[@danpaul4975]

Does she love her nickname "smoke show"?

[@sirp.zohani511]

YES 🙌🏻 👑

[@senseofwonder0]

I am a girl, I don't know how I got here, but here's a random thought for you boys. My objectively speaking hottest female friend was deeply disappointed by the fact that she couldn't find herself a hot bald guy on Tinder. Admittedly, she is mid 20s and openly superficial - loves abs, but she always ended up showing me pics and saying something like "I don't like the hair, but I already have a plan how to convince him to shave it" 🤣🤣🤣 It always made me laugh, but men, you wouldn't believe how different and crazy taste in men can be. Dress half decent, keep yourself clean and stay relatively fit and you should be fine. Women are weird and there's barely even any consensus amongst us about who looks good 😂😂 There's more than plenty of chicks that would be into you if you have good personality, so yeah, focus on that.

[@nochance3914]

Most guys want to attract girls as it is. This self improvement in personality and all that is nonsense. If you are not into bald men,I will rather do hair transplant and attract girl like you instead of wasting my energy in self improvement and attract girls who are in to bald men,have high expectations. Life is to progress in career. Dating should always be simple.

[@nochance3914]

@@omarthecupoftea7224 Just ask any of your decent looking friend/cousin about dating first and then speak with me. Any guy who has decent look,height,education and income will easily attract girl which can be easily gf/marriage *material.( *commonly used saying.) Do you know why average looking men marry average looking girl? Because no one wants to get rejected going for girl who will not like you. My cousin brother is now marrying girl who is younger than 5 years to him. While I am searching girl with only 1 or 2 year difference. Average age gap of my friends and relatives in my country is about 2 to 5 years. If you think Dating is hard and you have to try,you are going to make your life hell.

[@nochance3914]

@@omarthecupoftea7224 Wow,you are attacking me just because my point of view is different than you? Seems like you want to waste your life living as a loser talking on Internet and arguing. To clear confusion,speaking uncomfortable truth is million times better than fake behaviour like what you do with COPE in mind. I currently have 4 girls who are okay with my baldness. Sure they are not as good looking but I know I am bald and I have to do some compromise. My dream was to select someone who was from my education field and this is where I am failing super bad. Calling me an ugly personality for my point of view about Baldness shows how close minded you must be. Seems like you want to suffer in life. As you are living like a loner with no dating life,why are you even talking to me who is more interested in finding girl despite being bald. Are you jobless?

[@joeblogs-vx4ep]

​@@nochance3914 work on your inner self it's best to be a real person on the inside that's the only way you will be at peace with yourself ..

[@l.jeremiah8930]

Takes honesty to start with such a harsh statement. But many times over you showed us that bald is always better than balding. Only 5 minutes in, already feels like a beast of a video. All the love mate.

[@Baldcafe]

Thanks brother 🤝 These were some good points brought up by someone else and I thought it was definitely worth elaborating. Comes with some solid motivation towards the end. Thanks for watching 🤝

[@matthieudelarte3914]

It's not true , i was better balding because of my head shape. I have bad head shape

[@nb94bz]

@@matthieudelarte3914 Bro give it a rest. You come under every Baldcafe video being negative.

[@dragonhaki6286]

I got a terrible accident where the pain level was so high that my hair started falling off. Grabbing clumps of hair made me feel terrible, I felt so insecure and to top it off I felt life was going no where and it took 4 years to heal and finally able to walk this year. Having to decide to shave my head was the best choice of my life though. Not only I felt weak and just unattractive because my body got so messed up. Losing my hair too was painful, but I shaved it and love my suits and ties and fancy clothing that just goes so well with being bald. Now I have a goal to get the body that matches my hair to rock that style and make it my own. It’s nice to know others felt the same way. Just knowing a lot of people just embraces it and went through the same thought process gives me more confidence. Thank you all.

[@AJ-ct8om]

Honestly, I was the most self conscious I'd ever been in my life once I noticed I was balding. I used to be so confident in the clubs etc. It all fell away when my hair fell out at 23. I used to wear hats to accessorise, not even cover it up. But it became something I realised I relied on... To cover it up. I shaved my hair off on boxing day. Because being in lockdown meant no haircuts and my balding hair being on show more. I finally did it. I haven't worn a hat since. And it's freezing. You know why? Because I'm so excited to show it off. Trust me guys. If you knew me you'd know I was the most self conscious person.. I hated my hair... So it was a massive plunge and I can relate to you. Now I have no hair I can't wait until I can get out more often in the summer, at a bar or something and embrace it. I'm buzzing. Trust me guys the buzz you get is sensational when you tackle it!!! Love the videos Harry, you inspired me and I hope I can inspire others too

[@benparsons99]

I’m not quite at the stage of shaving it all off yet, but i can feel it is around the corner. This definitely eases my worries about taking the plunge. Thanks Harry.

[@slaythedevils5102]

You will drop some points. Save for a hair transplant or just watch the hair loss show yesterdays episode. Look for the cell therapy

[@benparsons99]

@@slaythedevils5102 I’m good thanks mate, I don’t want a transplant as i know i’ll have to be on finasteride which i’ve tried already and had bad side effects. It’s a no from me 👍

[@mikeyyothamainevent7046]

you're already there my friend

[@benparsons99]

@@mikeyyothamainevent7046 2 years later and hair loss hasn’t progressed as much as i thought tbf.

[@jannik-jl1zy]

@@benparsons99how old ar you and how is it now?

[@john-peters]

i’ve been losing hair since 15 and now i’m almost 19 and it’s so fucking hard right now, i’m being robbed of my youth it pains me so much i feel like shit everyday

[@Americannationalmovers]

Finasteride hair transplant save money don’t give up

[@stew_stervich]

Part of being a man is not letting society judge you on how you look. It's hard these days I get it. Exercise male privilege to the fullest and learn not to give a fuck how you look and try get confidence that way.. Your identity is not how you look but who you are as a person deep deep down. Remind yourself that when things get hard. Much love and big hug 🤗

[@northlondonforever1411]

You aren't alone bro. It sucks, but as Harry says, it's character building

[@ericktwelve11]

Go get a hair transplant in turkey, i know your pain bro, my youth got robbed as well and trust me it's affordable and you'll thank me, hair transplant is what you need

[@slaythedevils5102]

Hair transplant otherwise no puss will let you breed my man.

[@mousey225]

big ups on the channel bro, need more people like this in todays overly superficial world

[@Baldcafe]

🤝 appreciate ya

[@srimessiah5596]

@@Baldcafe hey dude I want to do a video with you about my hairline receding or balding. I’m at my 26 and I have lost a lot of my hair at my crown and front.

[@indetok5524]

We need more channels like this but not only hair but people with one eye, or one leg or one arm or fatties or dwarfs. I mean world needs to accept itself and other, and respect everyone by who and how they are.

[@felipehamm6522]

I went bald at my 18's and honestly, this channel saved my self-esteem. I'm 21 now and i learned how to love the bald look.

[@matteobaldelli5504]

Did the girls change the opinion on you?

[@slaythedevils5102]

@@matteobaldelli5504 ofc happened, every bald young guy is a loser

[@grimrae4703]

@@slaythedevils5102Bruh you're mad insecure aren't you LOL

[@slaythedevils5102]

@@grimrae4703 Hair adjusts your face and head dimentions, when you lose it you damn lose your proportionality plus that unicolor is 🤮

[@grimrae4703]

@@slaythedevils5102 The irony in this is women would much rather date a bald dude than a guy who dedicates his time on KZbin projecting his insecuries and simply trying to make people feel bad. Its kinda cringe bro, I hope you can be happy with yourself one day ;) Take care habibi

[@kayhopkins1262]

Bought some rogaine, then the next day saw a video on Bald Cafe. Shaved my head and Loved the look and feel. Now never going back.

[@Baldcafe]

On to better things 👏

[@aaronknowles628]

I’m bald in my mid 30s, I’ve never been insecure about it, I’ve taken it as it’s life. Things happen rock it, kick and let’s own it.

[@JoshuaCodes]

Been losing my hair since I was 16, was diagnosed with MPB at age 18 by a Trichologist. Shaved my head at 19 and have been doing it ever since (I will be 23 this Feb). Honestly feels more freeing and is a lot less hassle.

[@callmesuraj4257]

This channel is full of positively & emotions.❤️🙂

[@Baldcafe]

Always 👍

[@slaythedevils5102]

This channel is a cope channel that raises losers who are trynna accept their inferior genetics, it's a factory of bluebills

[@paulofernandesroberto9336]

I never utilized any dating apps myself but the way I think is if you are showing pictures with you bald head then maybe you'll get less hits but the ones you get are more valuable because the girls already know you are bald and they still are into your looks. So that's a confidence boost right there!

[@Chrismiller7777]

I’m 25 and started losing hair at 21. I had thick hair until that time. I was extremely insecure about it and thought I would never find a woman who would accept me. I shaved it in 2017 and it was so freeing. I met my fiancée in 2019 and she absolutely loves it! I grew my hair back out trying to see what it would look like, and she accepted me then even with the bald spot. However, I feel much better with a shaved head, so it came back off in November 2020 which she helped me shave it all off! I love having my head shaved and I’m looking forward to my shiny head making an appearance at our wedding in December. Don’t be insecure about losing your hair, someone will accept you! Plus, if you think it looks good, rock it!

[@paveyshreds705]

It took me a long time to get used to being bald, but I'd take bald over rocking a combover any day haha

[@Baldcafe]

💯

[@abrhmvlya]

Amen to that brother 🙌

[@atrio1136]

Only real men rock a combover

[@TheBeastlyFollower]

Been watching your stuff for a while bro, really appreciate these videos! I had a widow's peak by junior year of high school, started buzzing my head at 20, and now go full blown bald with a razor at 22. Keep up the good work pal, you're helping a lot of us young fellas! :)

[@Baldcafe]

Congratulations on grabbing it but the horns man 👏 Great to have you here 👍

[@evilchubchub]

Thinking about shaving my head now, but scared i'm pulling the trigger too early. Anyone else feel this?

[@silverkeystoalchemicalgold3358]

I would say a massive fraction of his viewership is in this stage. I have some signs of hair loss but it’s clearly not at the time where it’s unmanageable so I keep this channel in my mind.

[@blommeeee]

If you’re feeling insecure about it, it’s time

[@the_baldy_scotsman6210]

Mate I've had a receeding hairline for years but I didn't actually notice it was properly thinning until 10 days ago. I shaved it 3 or 4 days later (about a week ago) and I feel amazing, I was essentially dancing down the street the next day). So yeah, its your call but I'm glad I jumped the gun early, I feel more confident now than I ever had (if you want pekples opinion then post a pic on social media, r/bald on reddit etc). Basically, if you're gonna go bald in future then you won't regret giving it a go now, it'll save you a lot of time, energy and stress down the line - of course that's my opinion

[@evilchubchub]

@@the_baldy_scotsman6210 update, pulled the trigger like a week after writing this comment. Do not regret it at all! Amazing how easily a head will burn though..😬

[@jundialhaqiqa9907]

I used to love my hair, I would always have it oiled or greased. I loved the shiny slick look. At 27 I started to lose my hair, and it bothered me alot at first. I held onto my hair until age 29 when ir just looked so bad my best option was to shave. When I shaved my head all the responses were positive. Now at 30 I am proud of my bald head and nobody can make me feel bad about it.

[@tyroneperez-palmacavero9098]

I'm bald too, and the truth is that whoever is should accept it and work on their body to compensate by destroying themselves in the gym. Being bald and looking proud is having an unshakable self-esteem.

[@JBzzzl]

10:25 I'm 21 and I shaved my head when I was about 18. The reason being because I started thinning at 16, and even though I've had the shaved head for almost 4 years now I'm still struggling to get comfortable with it. Part of me doesn't want to be referred to as "the bald guy" because most people associate being bald with being old, but it's something I'll have to accept.

[@ealarcon5]

Man couldn’t agree more! Rather be bald than balding.... own it!! Self confidence!!

[@willbladon9089]

This channel has helped me loads on my journey. I love the community Harry’s created. Shaved my head back at the start of lockdown 1 (March), starting growing it back in lockdown 2 (Nov) and still growing with recession on the temples. Knowing the option is now there and people have seen me bald before gives me huge confidence. Probably end up shaving it off when it gets warm again! Thank you Harry.

[@roogeasmr7359]

I'm not balding however I do suffer from vitiligo on my face, arms, hands, feet. I know exactly how insecurities feel when someone is always keeping an eye on you. I had to live with the pressure but I overcame it. Accepting it was the biggest relief I had and embracing it.

[@gawdenz128]

I buzzed my hair about 3 weeks ago and decided completely shave about a week after. I absolutely love the look now. I didn't know this channel existed before now and more men need to know about this channel. Well done and thanks Harry for the enthusiasm and the courage. For me I feel like you change the idea of balding.

[@warrenbeer2737]

This length of beard suits you mate, looks good.

[@markaurelius3119]

It's a stubble 😁

[@austingriffin9883]

I just shaved my head with #1 guard. I’ll be 21 in august. Part of life. I probably could have gone 1-2 more years without cutting it all off, but I caught myself checking my hairline constantly. Decided it’s time to take the leap. I don’t look as bad as I thought I would. No more stress. I wake up tomorrow knowing I don’t have to fix my hair perfectly. I’m glad I did it.

[@Baldcafe]

Congratulations Austin, this is a textbook case 👍 on to enjoying yourself as you should without all of that worry dragging you down.

[@austingriffin9883]

@@Baldcafe thanks so much with what you’re doing with your channel!

[@damienoptc7222]

Just because you shave your head doesn't mean your insecurites are gone. At some point you'll miss giving your hair away, you'll see and you'll let it grow again.

[@damianstewart9106]

I'm 25, I've been toying with the idea of shaving and embracing it for a while, shaving it off today

[@DBSoundz225]

Update?

[@squashedsquirell]

Damn dude, I've been going back between bald and a mop for 4 years now. I wish I had your channel earlier in my life. Would have saved me a lot of hardship. I tried propecia, I considered transplants and now I'm just focused on my beard. In a world of KZbinrs accepting keeps sponsorships you deserve way more love

[@squashedsquirell]

Also thank you so much for acknowledging that most people look better with hair. That's what most bald acceptance people tend to dance around the most

[@las_lucas]

This was the video that helped me the most to shave my hair, I'm 24 years old and have been struggling with it since the 21. For me the biggest issue was people saying I still look good with the little amount of hair I still had but I was just feeling so bad and didn't feel myself, after shaving it instantly I felt like this is me, this is who I am from now on and don't need to keep overstressing about it again. Thanks for the help Harry, keep doing the good work and encouraging people.

[@damienoptc7222]

Just because you shave your head doesn't mean your insecurities are gone. At some point you'll miss giving your hair away, you'll see and you'll let it grow again.

[@madams989]

Just think when you meet someone else for the first time who is bald. You don’t think anything of it. They actually look weird to you then if you see an old photo of them with hair! Just remember this when you’re talking to a girl for the first time, you look better than you think, especially if it’s all she knows you as.

[@kakacech]

Definitely

[@artvandelay3840]

Exactly. One important thing I've come to realize is that none of us are special. Unless you have some particularly outrageous hairstyle, no one is going to notice or care about your hair but you.

[@scuxxy25]

100% correct.

[@Quantumkingg-k6i]

Hey for anyone reading this I'm 23 I went completely bald at 20 and it's true for at least 2 months I was panicking thinking I wasn't gonna get laid and all sorts of things I'm 23 never been happier more confident manly and I think even more women now than I've done before! Biggest advice is just be confident! You got this lads

[@buklau.3641]

Can back this up, I'm 22 going onto 23 and I've been bald since 18. I lost my virginity when I was bald. (at 20). I've had relationships with girls around my age and some a little older. It's only a problem if you make it a problem.

[@Quantumkingg-k6i]

@@buklau.3641 legend ❤

[@Quantumkingg-k6i]

@WINDOWS MINUS honestly with hair I had about 5 in total now I'm bald over 15 in total mate

[@Quantumkingg-k6i]

@WINDOWS MINUS fantastic dude your killing with the women

[@colinmartin3416]

I am about a week into being bald and came across your channel looking for the best equipment as I wasn't happy with mainstream shavers. I must say i have really appreciated your videos and have an idea of what i want to do. What I will say is to anyone who is nervous about doing it. ! just get it done! havent had a bad comment yet and i feel so much more confident in myself. Also feel i have the knock on the effect of looking after myself much better in a whole. !! 100% 10/10 best decision i have made.

[@jimturner7222]

I didn't have hair loss in my twenties. I started going bald in my early forties. What helped me was my husband had very little hair. He would have almost a military haircut. So when I started losing my hair my biggest fear was ending up like my father. He Rarely went to a barber he just did the comb over. I decided that when I started losing my hair I would shave it of. That has been almost forty years ago. Approaching seventy and love rocking my bald head. Just found your channel. Wished I had this kind of conversation when I started going bald. Keep up the good work.

[@andygraham5094]

My dad went bald at 25. I always feared it would not me but at 45 I've still got hair and it's grey. Just shaved it off! Feels free, cheers harry, legend !

[@Baldcafe]

Nice one Andy 👍

[@slaythedevils5102]

Maybe he isn't your dad ?

[@NGrant-qk7pn]

Mate your channel has helped me accept my hair loss a hell of a lot, appreciate it geeze

[@Baldcafe]

Happy to hear it Sir Grant 👍 You got this.

[@benholmes5691]

I recently shaved my head. Just about to turn 22 so felt really insecure about it, but I couldn't stand my receding hairline anymore... Your videos really helped me to get the confidence to go along with shaving it, feel much better now. Thank you :D

[@Baldcafe]

Thanks for sharing man. Very happy to hear the stories and content here on the channel helped you and I wish you nothing but the best 🤝 Give yourself the credit you deserve.

[@adamapplegarth3585]

I’m a proud bald man and I shave my head everyday 2 days. Anyway, I dream’t I had hair last night... it was the most bizarre thing I’ve ever experienced, It was hair like an anime character; When I woke up I touched my head and did a sigh of relief. I know this is weird, but I like being bald

[@allforclout2040]

The banter thing is real, I was pretty much bullied because of my hairloss. Because I was the one getting the women out of my mates and I think my friends were resentful of that for many years and when my hair loss started they hounded me, got out of hand. Like kicking someone when they’re down relentlessly and extremely disrespectful, to the point i got a hair transplant because of the way they made me feel, to go from super confident and getting the girls to not dating slowing down and having mates taking joy from your misery is a real turning point. Should’ve just gotten new friends and not bothered with the transplant. We live and learn

[@Baldcafe]

We live and learn indeed. Take pride in the fact that your strength previously made them feel insecure to the point they had to drag you down. That’s not me kissing your ass that’s just facts brother

[@allforclout2040]

@@Baldcafe 👍👍👍👍

[@Jay-kw4dw]

My bald spots started becoming clear to see around mid last year was really down about it especially when it was getting pointed out this deffs gave me the courage and motivation to take a leap and just shave it all off 👌🏻

[@aaronuaconaill5688]

Great video Harry. I don’t know how anyone could argue with anything you’ve said here.

[@h3fan725]

It’s not a guys soul purpose to look good for a women ( and vice versa) is an important quote, be bald it’s not your job and only purpose to fit the society idea of the perfect looking guy for a women, if your happy and more comfortable within ur self that’s ur purpose

[@maxwelldavies6256]

This video was invaluable, I made the decision to shave my head 2 years ago (27) and have felt incredibly self conscious since. I wear a hat at any given opportunity and avoid being in photos if I can. This video can be best described as an ‘exhale’ for me, like I can finally embrace being bald and ultimately get on with my life!

[@Baldcafe]

Glad to hear it man. Onwards and upwards. You absolutely can and I wish you nothing but the best 🤝

[@liamwright3287]

You’re blasting the stigma out of the water. I love this channel

[@Baldcafe]

Thank you 🤝 it’s about time

[@zackadesina]

Awesome video, thanks. I agree with everything except for the attractiveness issue. I first shaved my head a few months back and I am getting more attention from women and men, on a par to a few years ago when I had a full head of curly, raven locks. The secret is to work with your baldness, perceive it as a style and you will unwittingly exude confidence. It's an indisputable fact of sexual attraction, brazen, brave, bald is always better than balding.

[@dimitrisp90]

Man I'm so moved by this. I wish more guys would see this.

[@jamesenrees8856]

Hey man messaged you on insta but not sure if you saw it. You’re videos have a been a true life-changer for me. I tried the pills, and I can attest to the not only physical but mental toll they take on you. Acceptance is a beautiful thing, and you are helping me realize that. Thanks Harry! Keep up the GOOD work.

[@Baldcafe]

Hi Jamesen, really appreciate you making time to reach out again here. Sorry I didn’t get back to you on insta the DM’s are overflowing and a lot of messages get buried. Happy for you brother wish you nothing but the best 🤝

[@jamesenrees8856]

@@Baldcafe thanks man and no worries!

[@robbenstein]

With or without hair this video is very inspirational! Thanks Harry !

[@WButterTBWButter]

Dating is a waste of time anyways nowadays, bald or not. Tinder has degenerated into a place where girls only seek attention and validation, very few are interested in actually dating. The chances of actually finding someone are very small, but the chances of frustration on the other hand are very high. I wouldn't measure myself on that on that. Plus I only had a single woman turn me down because of my lack of hair in the 3.5 years since I shaved. You're fine in the long run, believe me. I really liked that video!

[@WButterTBWButter]

@@yamimarik My point was that the online dating scene nowadays sucks regardless if bald or not. Nothing but attention whoring and validation seeking. Hair or lack thereof has nothing to do with it, at least not for me.

[@pastamaster51]

just discovered your channel dude. i’m not lying when i say that i’ve never loved myself like i do after watching a couple of your vids. i feel like i’ve taken a confidence shot😂 fastest sub ever.

[@Baldcafe]

Welcome aboard, great to have you hear and I'm even happier to hear you are loving yourself just as you bloody well should lad 👍

[@mukuljangid7205]

Same here buddy !!!😂😂

[@insuber79]

12:43 really made my day, Harry! That's the attitude! 🤣

[@Baldcafe]

The best way I had to convey the message 😂

[@wojitechintros]

I must say out of all your videos this one speaks to me the most. The benefit of shaving is not about the superficial layer. It's not about convincing yourself that it'll look better than when you had hair (although it definitely can since looks are more than just hair). It's about how by challenging the notion that looks are the most important thing you gain so much value as an individual, which in turn can trickle down and attract more quality people into your life. Gives a lot to think about, cheers.

[@dimitrie17]

Amazing video. I'm 26, been shaving since 21 or 22. I have used Minoxidil to improve my beard, not to cope with the hair loss, but because I genuinely and deeply love myself with a beard. I love the way I look bald & bearded. I am honestly, sincerely and authentically fully confident in myself, I have 0 worries or insecurities about my looks, not because of autosuggestion or something, but because I LOVE the way I look. My look screams manliness and I enjoy every single bit of it. The bald situation particularly, for me, I see it is just like a hairstyle. This is my hairstyle. It is very, very short, so what's the matter? I am so natural in my daily life, so comfortable in my own skin, no one treats me or views me differently from the guys with hair. I guess I am so lucky I enjoy it so much. Every time I look in the mirror I am pleased by what I see and feel blessed. I also have a lot of other great things about myself, I have passions, projects I am working on, a great body, great fashion style, at least good career and all the future ahead of me. The fact that I don't have hair makes me feel like a more mature and experienced man, who has been through some battles in his life, who overcame them and owns now the advantage that came with the victory. For this battle in particular, I wear proudly the victory badge everyday. I have won other battles as well, but benefits of those wins are more visible in my attitude towards life, the confidence I have and so on.

[@cem1838]

Great content, as always. Thanks for being there for us. Best.

[@YellowMouse998]

It's not the lack of hair that girls are put off but the bad genes. Hair structures the face and can hide imperfections/ weak features. A bald guy with a strong face can still pull easy.

[@imxortal]

He can, but he will pull significantly less than if he had hair. That is facts.

[@tomgarify]

@@imxortal Depends if you are one of those weird people like Jason Statham or Pep Guardiola...who look better bald :D

[@JohnAlviar]

I love this channel. It gave me the strength to buzz my balding head and the confidence to embrace it. Thank you so much @Baldcafe

[@joed160]

You are the guy, no joke. RESPECT

[@profetaisaiah5218]

FINALLY SOME TRUTH, BALD IS ALWAYS WORST THAN HAVING NICE HAIR, BUT IT CAN SOMETIMES BE BETTER SHAVED THAN BALDING HAIR, but most of the time Is Better balding hair than shaved

[@mltw9777]

Shaved head is better than dirty hair, oily hair, gay haircut, bad haircut,... I never saw bald man who look bad.

[@profetaisaiah5218]

@@mltw9777 90% of men shaved look shit, expecially under 30

[@matthieudelarte3914]

Et what can you do if you have bad head shape at 20 y old like me ?

[@MrArthurlandry]

you are correct but shaved is still a standard deviation or more less desirable that a full head according to studies i have read

[@william_mazza]

@@profetaisaiah5218 ok profeta iashia

[@timson3489]

Age 32 and finally shaved my head while watching this after A couple years of balding and all I got to say to anyone on the sidelines is... JUST DO IT! Best choice after trying to hide it under long hair. Also, there tons of dudes at my work(Amazon) who refuse to shave in their 40s and it looks ridiculous af lol thanks for the inspiration bro bro!!!

[@keatonr7592]

“Your days of dating hot 21/22 year olds are over” is so far from true. I’m 23 and bald and still go for girls my age or a year or two younger and it’s never been a problem. They’re adults. Every girl I know would prefer to date an older man and being bald is a straight away sign of that maturity

[@bradmcnuff7423]

That is because you are black

[@imxortal]

Not true. I’m 24 and saved my hair with finasteride and I really doubt the 18-21 year old women I’m fucking will want anything to do with a bald man tbh

[@keatonr7592]

@@bradmcnuff7423 Pretty sure I’m white lmao

[@brightsunshine4277]

@@imxortal You finasteride guys need to give it a rest, if i have to take drugs in order to have hair then i don't need hair. I had a women tell me straight up that she respects a guy that is bald and respects himself for not giving a damn about not having hair. Pills, rugs, hair transplants, smp is just ways to hide and cover up the fact that you are bald and women DON'T RESPECT YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE BEING FAKE. To guys worrying about women want men with hair....remember women don't want a soft man running around with a rug on his head or popping pills and they then can't get it UP in the bedroom, they want a man who says i'm am bald and that is the way it is.

[@bradmcnuff7423]

@@brightsunshine4277 I do not know what dream you had last night. However as Katy Perry hit song said I’M WIDE AWAKE. Harry likes being bald and an after thought that his life. Women want hair. Face the facts, women want to be with guys who have hair not without hair. Harry’s channel to me is a fairy tale. I want hair. It’s hair that makes the man. Bald is no life. Unless you like sleeping a lot and dreaming women want you which is never true when you are missing hair on top.

[@FortuneS00]

I’ve recently shaved my head in lockdown and these videos have been exactly what I needed the last 6 months, being a 23 year old going through these exact topics. Thank you so much, I’m sure I speak for so many others. Hero 👏

[@officialsilverbusiness613]

Honestly, the long beard look suits you.

[@leemo432]

He just wanted a change he does look younger and it looks cleaner tho

[@officialsilverbusiness613]

@@leemo432 I know, he’s told his reasons for shaving off his long beard in earlier videos and I’ve watched those. I was just expressing that, in my opinion, his face can really pull off a long beard - it looks majestic on him. Every time I watch his videos I used to get beard envy because my own beard is naturally curly and therefore looks dirtier much sooner; I often trim it, but due to the extreme curlyness of my beard people tend to perceive it as unkempt. I personally also still have hair on my head, I know that some subscribers of Baldcafe might not because they’re looking for positive inspiration and motivation, but I just like Baldcafe because I might be bald one day and I wish to be able to handle my potential hair loss as well as Harry did. I don’t suffer from any now, and in my personal case it’s a 50/50 chance since the men on my dad’s side never went bald (my father’s father died at age 87 with literally still a full head of hair) but my mother’s father is bald, so I am curious, and also a tad bit worried about which side of the coin I inherited. What I do know is that I’m currently 24 years old and do not show any signs of recession yet, unlike many of my peers who are starting to develop a Norwood 1/2 hairline.

[@ZaiqoHD]

No, long beards looks gross and dirty

[@officialsilverbusiness613]

@@ZaiqoHD If that's your opinion then that's fine, but I do want to mention that I find it a little weird when people talk about longer beards or beards in general as if they're super gross, but love women with a full head of scalp hair. What's the real difference other than that you see less long beards on men compared to long head hair on women? How come scalp hair is some kind of jewel one must hold onto forever, but beards are disgusting and men should pretend they don't have it for all of their lives? I really don't get it. If men truly didn't need beards for some reason or other, then they wouldn't grow them anymore. To pretend it doesn't exist is to lie to yourself. Besides, everyone has their own style. Look at how I phrased that. "Their own", which means they're not obliged to have your approval. It's not your body and not your choice, so leave it alone.

[@jonathanlewis4077]

The bald lifestyle is awesome brother

[@wingcommander2165]

im so glad you made it clear you werent on board with the FLAT earther user name!! haha

[@craigperry3479]

Love the vid. One thing I'd say is stay off those dating apps and instead focus on meeting women in person. Your odds as a bald guy trying to meet QUALITY women are next to none because it's a purely superficial game. When you meet women in person you get to convey your confidence, leadership and charisma which are at least equally if not more attractive qualities to women. It's how I met my now wife. Good luck out there!

[@Baldcafe]

Absolutely agree brother 🤝

[@metesek]

You can't know that how many people you save from our swamp of thoughts, really appreciate it and what a nice humanity you have!

[@rexlex1736]

Your channel is a God send for guys losing their hair. Balding guys need this channel to help them accept baldness. My hair thinned in my 20's and I shaved my head with no regrets.

[@zee4125]

In my opinion the best things to do in regards to aesthetics when going bald, is training your neck and growing a beard. A big neck makes a huge difference, but make sure the beard isn't too big to the point where it hides your big neck.

[@witchyvicar]

Seriously, guys, if a woman is going to get bent out of shape because you are/go bald, she's probably not worth it anyway. There's plenty of us girls out here that think bald is awesome!

[@witchyvicar]

@@xL0stKIlah Yup. Been shaving my head since my 20s.

[@witchyvicar]

@@xL0stKIlah Yup. I'm a woman. Well spotted. And I shave my head because I want to, but (before folks ask) I'm here because I want to support guys who go bald because I think bald dudes are awesome. So, I suppose I'm not an average woman. I'm actually more of a geek, really. I mean, I had a crush on Captain Picard when I was a teenager (still think Patrick Stewart is pretty dang hot even at his age). I stand by my comment: Any woman who "disdains bald heads" is not worth a bald dude's time.

[@slaythedevils5102]

Girl, listen Baldness is inferior to hair A very very very small minority of girls might accept a bald man if he has other good stuff like being very muscline. It's the reality, most bald men are incels

[@witchyvicar]

Wow, are you ever watching the wrong channel, dude.

[@slaythedevils5102]

@@witchyvicar it's a wrong channel, I'm here cos it's the first channel I came across when I looked for baldness. But tbh, it's a channel of losers

[@9zbeats99]

The best part about it is shaving your head is the ultimate discipline. You know it will be harder to get women and earn respect of peers, so you have to go that much harder at everything you do! If you want to be respected you HAVE to get jacked, work hard, and never take failure as an option. Conquer everything in life the same way you conquered your fear of loss. People will have no choice but to respect you and admire your hunger and confidence.

[@rustysack2568]

Got a haircut today. Yeah going bald pretty soon, have always been in shape and done much work in fighting inflammation. No use just gotta embrace the flesh.

[@LongWeinerPotatoSmas]

You 4 sure look the best in the photo with your dad, nothing weird at all! Love the content ♥️

[@JohnDoe-yz9cn]

is started dutasteride before I loss any hair....all men in my family are bald .....the key is being PROACTIVE !!!! don't let yourself get to the point of no return

[@quannuteal4899]

Shh don't mention treatments here, here you have to just shave it bro!

[@JohnDoe-yz9cn]

@@quannuteal4899 lmfao ...... he should encourage people to not let their hair go to shit in the first place .... I feel he wants to people just to not do anything about it

[@matthieudelarte3914]

Hi man , finasteride and dutasteride doesnt work on me . Minoxidil too . I have DUPA hair loss. I lose my hair everywhere including donor area. I can't do hair transplant. What can i do in this case?

[@JohnDoe-yz9cn]

@@matthieudelarte3914 in that’s the case, if you are religious then god doesn’t want u to have hair .... if you’re not religious then you’re just really unlucky .... try RU-58841

[@ah-rr1lk]

That's because his videos are aimed at people who are interested in shaving their heads and do not wish to use those other options. It's like trying to sell a motorcycle to someone who wants to use a peddle bike. You have the wrong audience

[@whyzen7467]

just shaved my head at 22 and i guess youtube knew cos i came across your channel. quality realistic content my guy.

[@4337GLE]

Mid 20s shaved my head grew my beard I am a bald stud ladies love it gentlemen respect it!!

[@DR-86]

Dude you look great with a short beard suits you,keep the great content.

[@pyrefly7575]

I'm 17 and thinning really hard, don't know if it's just an effluvium or maybe I've been just having MPB and I didn't notice before, and that makes me very anxious . Your vids really help cope with it , thinking if someone as self proud of his hair and who cared about his looks could get over it to this point then I will too and stuff. Than ks really beacause I know you do this for altruism and ThAT says so much about you , be proud of yourself man

[@MrAtaguas]

Whenever people get depressed about how they would look better with hair when they are losing it (I think that's 99% of people), I feel like it's the set-back they need to motivate themselves to do things that they needed to do anyway, but, would have put off like getting in shape, learning to groom better, learning to build their wardrobe, etc (not to mention other aspects of their lives). Also, I think a LOT of people don't realize until they start losing hair that they might not necessarily have good-looking hair, to begin with (in terms of what's in vogue at a given moment), or that, they never knew how to groom it optimally. Ultimately, hair or not you'll lose the "youthful" look as you age anyway so what exactly are you protecting with hair-loss insecurities? I'd say think of hair loss as a wake-up call/call-to-action from nature to not be lazy and improve other aspects of your life.

[@danielarberry5018]

I'm 22 with very bad MPB but I've been growing my hair for 2.5 years. Thinking about chopping it off and donating it, this video has genuinely made me excited to go bald!

[@lamalditaverdad9243]

12:40 Made me laugh and motivated me at the same time. I'm 24 and balding. Ive told myself that as soon as I graduate university I will shave it off but I'm starting to consider doing it earlier, I'm so sick of always thinking about it.

[@Yorker1998]

I'm 23 and my hair has been thinning since 17 starting at the crown. I'm at about a Norwood 3-4. I would certainly prefer a full head of hair but if I keep the sides and back real short I can get over it, don't want to be walking around with Bozo hair. I'm also currently letting my beard grow out to change it up a bit. One thing to keep in mind is that when you see a bald or balding man out in public, do you really judge or think anything of it? No, because it's completely normal and natural. So most likely, you are you're own worst critic and nobody cares or is judging you.

[@IlhamTauf]

What i learn about Nietzsche and going bald is Ja-Sagen. I say yes to life. I can't control it and have to embrace it. Now I don't hesitate to shave my hair off anymore. Thanks man.

[@kareemkhalil6185]

My hairs thinning and I’m 20 but I just want to make sure my beard is thick enough before I shave it! Btw love your channel bro!

[@OCheemz]

I started getting bald in my mid twenties. I blamed it on the water and hot showers. When I head back to my country, my hair would stop falling but the way I had to shape it and then look back at the pictures I honestly hated it. I loved my hair so much but I understand the reality I'm in. ATM I am hiding it with a certain haircut and with a hat. I watch your videos and I ask people close to me sometimes if I should just shave. But I want to get around that. It'll take a bit time but I get motivation from you. Thank you for your videos :))))

[@mrapollo13]

Growing up as a ginger had me trained for dealing with comments about my hair, now they're just of a different variety. I'm god's greatest punchline

[@Eric-ph4yw]

I'm thinking about rocking that comb over look

[@glennstephenson184]

I beg to differ man. The photo of you with hair is a really cool photo, but I've also seen awesome photos of you rocking the bald look that are as good if not better. I think you scrub up well either way ;)

[@maliquesmith2311]

Im not even bald but love watching these video's

[@Instfitter5150]

I started losing my hair at 17. I finally shaved it off at 19 but I have worn a hat every day since then. I started wearing a hat daily at 15 so nobody in my hometown has seen my bald head yet and I’m worried about what they’ll think when they see me. I left for 3 years for work. Women definitely aren’t a problem and I’m not sure why 😅 but for some reason I still don’t have the confidence to go daily with no hat

[@thedon2005]

A clean-shaved head looks way better than most guys with hair

[@ricardo_acosta]

To those balding already, or thinking they are gonna go bald sooner than later, shave your head. I luckily still have a full head of hair, but both my brothers are bald and so was my dad, so i just know it's coming, i decided to shave just to see what i'll be looking like, that's where all the anxiety comes from, thinking your gonna look bad or people are not gonna like you anymore. Trust me all your worries will go away, most of us look even better, don't wait for it to happen naturally, just take it all off. You're a shave away from embracing life and not ever worrying about it again.

[@buklau.3641]

I've been bald since 18. I'm going to spend all my 20s bald, I'm 22 now xD

[@ahmedhussein5737]

One of your best Videos Harry, keep Up the work man, you are helping many people out there!!

[@GeorgeC-S]

Thank you for this channel , Harry, you seem like a really genuine person and have helped me in this stage of my life massively (26 yo and balding) I hope this Baldcafe can be a full time job for you eventually, as you’re very good at what you do . PEACE

[@outcast935]

I started balding at 14 and was scared about it. 10 years later barely anything has receded in my hairline after using a derma roller, biotin, and collagen. Also using good conditioner and shampoo makes a big difference.

[@MaxKnight97]

BS, you cannot change genetics

[@Gonza.ore420]

I've been loosing my hair since i was 12 years old. It was suppose to fade away by my 20's , after visiting some doctors , etc. I convinced myself that the only thing that I could do was make it last trough the years, and I never used minoxidil, I took some precautions like not combing my hair a lot, not using hot water when I shower.. and some other stuff , now i'm 26 and still have a lot of hair.. I did not reverse it, I just made my hair lost slower

[@samuelneil2691]

Awesome inspirational video, just discovered the channel and instantly subscribed. I am 29 and have been bald for a few years. I find it to be a daily struggle with insecurities sometimes. I think lifting has really helped my confidence level the past couple years though. I find growing a beard and wearing glasses can help add some style to your look too. I've been told I look sophisticated so don't be afraid to try different things.

[@Baldcafe]

Welcome aboard!