BE THE CHANGE. (Anti-Bullying Video)

[@dcsbears1]

All bullying needs to stop. What will they do about work place bullies and bullying? I was also the only one he treated like this..All he needed to do was be kind, show kindness. I want to bring more awareness to work place bullying in 2016 to help others not have to deal with bullies for bosses. The laws need to change!!! What will they do about work place bullies and bullying, it needs to stop...I was fired 12 days before Christmas...I use to like people but a bully shot me down! Bosses should lead employees not Bully...Yes not from bullies! What about work place bullies?! Remember bullies come in all shapes and sizes....I was bullied by an adult named Jeff Ursino , my manager at Citibank in Carmel, Ca...after he successfully made me sick with nerves and caused my blood pressure to go up he fired me via UPS 12 days before Christmas while I was out on a workers comp pending case...my family will never forget the pain he caused us....and I haven't worked since due to all of this.Jeff Ursino once told me that I couldn't wear the hats I'd been wearing to work for almost four years with no problem. He said it was company policy yet there was nothing in writing. I called HR and they said there was nothing in the codes about hats. About six weeks later Jeff Ursino decided to tell me that I could wear hats again but only a couple days a week. I asked him what about the policy and he replied " I'm in control" , it was his way of throwing his weight around, what a bully! He also threatened to fire me for job abandonment if I didn't show up to work on a day I couldn't work, my daughter was ill and he was already fully staffed. He put me on the schedule at the last minute to pressure me into working...a Bully at his finest. He also stated that I hadn't worked on days that I had and I still have a copy of the schedules.Bullying needs to end and companies need to properly train manages to be leaders not bullies! What will politicians do about it? Nothing! We need to unite and do something about adult bullying and in the work place!I have two boxes of proof and I did document everything. When I realized that there is actually an Awareness month for anti bullying I decided to tell my story again in hopes of finding an organization that I can help bring light to this also very ugly issue! What I have mentioned is just a bit of all he did. No one cared or did anything about it. I wrote my leaders, congressmen , senators , mayors, city leaders, the president , attorney general, etc...everyone past the buck. Since then, bullying has come to the forefront and I want to tell my story. He is a father of 3 sons, still a " manager" , on the board of trustees for a school district and I can't help but wonder who he is bullying now.He had choices and he chose to be unkind, uncaring, not understanding, treated me like crap, ignored what others where doing, focused on me until he ruined me! ALL BULLIES NEED TO BE STOPPED!!!!! All companies need Bullying training and the manager isn't always right! Only cowards bully other people! He didn't care what I was wearing he simply wanted to show who was in control and bully me. The hats didn't prevent me from doing my job nor did anyone ever complain about them, in fact I got lots of compliments from customers and a couple of his bosses and someone from HR, it's was great until he showed up as a temporary manager. He just wanted me gone and set out to wrongfully terminate me. He couldn't even write me up correctly and I have the proof. He couldn't even fire me correctly as he broke California Labor codes in the process of firing me. He was simply unkind and heartless to me.Please grow up to be a kind, caring person. Never purposely make someone fear their going to loose their job for putting their daughter first, that's what he did to me...and yet he is a father.Time to open their eyes and our leaders and change the laws. Speak the truth state the facts and have your evidence ready! One of the reasons I am doing this is because I have proof, my journal, the forms he used to write me up incorrectly. He was in such a hurry to write me up that the first time he wrote me up he used the wrong form, he used the second warning form. He threatened me with job abandonment yet didn't know how that law worked. For some reason the universe, my God or what ever you want to believe, had me keep all the evidence. In my journal I wrote daily of what occurred at work, he singled me out. In four and a half years I loved my job 98 percent of the days then he came and ruined not only me but the spirit of that bank branch. He took away causal Friday and tried to take away cookies on Fridays for our customers. He said we all had to only eat in the break room but yet would eat at his desk and not say anything to the pretty blonde when she ate at her station. He took all my family photos down and claimed it was best for my family but allowed others to have their family photos out! A BULLY!!!!please share my story to bring awareness to work place bullying.The more I read the more I realize he was threatened by me. My reviews didn't justify what he did. Several times I was asked if I was the manager as he stood next to me. The hat issue was just him being a bully, he ignored what others did and wouldn't give me credit when it was due to me, he played it down. He snapped his fingers twice, said my name , pointed to the back room and said Damari in the back the very first time he ever addressed me. In the back room he said my reputation precedes me, that upper management had nothing but glowing reports about me. He asked why I thought I do so well and I told him because I love my job. He was a temporary manager, the branch was looking for a full time manager. Jeff Ursino was managing two branches during this process, I was trying to hang in there until we got a new one but he couldn't wait to fire me. I'm understanding more about bullies these days, it doesn't make it right but we need to pray for the bully.

[@isabella-og7wn]

Damari Stratford holy fuck this comment is long. Try and summarize it up and then I may read it

[@ricksaulle]

Such a heartfelt & honest comment. You are 100% right. I was very badly bullied throughout my childhood. I kept things bottled up for years which kept me filled with sadness & anger. In November, I finally told my story to a 400+ freshman students and it was life changing. Maybe it will help you or your friends get through some tough times. Here's the link. kzbin.info/www/bejne/iHe2pGusiN6jn5Y&

[@alex_fortnite2095]

HOLY FUGE HOW LONG IS UR COMMENT!!!!??!

[@gamergurl142tm5]

Damari Stratford why didn’t You sue? Aren’t u an adult

[@mareadegroote8797]

thats not the point here

[@boiledtoast3772]

I feel this on a different level I get bullied a lot mainly because I'm different and I have a bit of trouble tolerating others. School does nothing useful for bullying! One thing that I am learning is to keep my head down and don't react.Another is that is it's really annoying stand up for your self. Racism ,sexism,and all the others have no place in this world. Let's end it once and for all.

[@animegameing1243]

If someone hits you and you hit them back that's not being a bully it's sticking up for yourself

[@toxicated9839]

Anime Gameing agreed

[@danisolomon603]

I got hurt much more

[@turoawalker3507]

I would rather hurt myself than hurt others cause that's just way I am😔

[@s.s.6135]

Because bullying os doing it every time

[@lasyakunduru8969]

I understand what your saying but violence isn't always the best way and should only be resorted to if it's the only way

[@ashlast4253]

STOP BULLYING STOP BULLYING, STOP BULLYING, STOP BULLYING, STOP BULLYING STOP BULLYING, STOP BULLYONG, STOP BULLYING, STOP BULLYING, STOP BULLYING, STOP BULLYING, I'M SICK OF BULLYING stop bullies please and others I'm sorry if u gotten bullied but u are beautiful and worth living don't do suicide stay living U have made it through 1 day you will make through another. Peace

[@plssubscribetoadifishman134]

hey, you yes, you take a moment breathe relax it’s gonna be okay I don’t know what’s going on in your life right now, but trust me when I say things will get better. they will. never lose hope. stay strong. you are beautiful. you are worth it. you are amazing. and don’t you ever, ever let anyone tell you different. amazing things will happen, you just have to believe it. if the only thing you did today was hang in there, I’m proud of you. keep fighting. you are strong. you will make it out of this. never stop following your dreams. and let this be a sign to keep going, If no one else believes in you, Just know, I do. You can do this. You are here for a reason. And you better let the whole world know that reason. Make the world proud. It will get better. I promise. It just takes time.

[@bio5567]

Jesus christ that was long how long did it take you. Also Thank you

[@Seriousgaymer]

I just scrolled 20 minutes down this Comme

[@johnthebaptist1012]

fuck off u werido

[@nerdpocalypse]

thank you so much for making me read the whole thing

[@boiledtoast3772]

Thank you for this I really needed it. I just broke down into tears reading this.

[@chuuya_simp152]

Keep being the good person u r. People always copy u. Good and bad. I always try to be good. As my classmates always copy whatever I do.

[@albertchin1050]

I can relate to this. As a kid, I must confess, I was both bully and bullied. So, I know...

[@salmankh100]

Me too

[@bogdananedavnya2528]

Great film! Decent people do not behave in such physically and mentally cruel way. Learn yo have fun and increease your self esteem and get feeling of power without being cruel. TYou do not know what problems a person may come trough. Violence make someone's life very sad and depressing. If you are abused, go to the teacher, school councelor. Try to learn run fast and self defence, do not give up and do not consider yourself worthless. And people please try to tell the teacher, councelor of you can't protect abused people. Everyone can be in difficult position, so it is worth helping peoople in need and grief.And please remember: any day if you are strong, talented, fashionable, popular and rich, you can lose everything due to accident or illness and become sick, helpless, poor and @t stop encouraging philosophy like "natural selection" "the weaker are meant to be replaced and submitted by the stronger"

[@elijahjackson1665]

This show reminded me of myself from beginning to end that what I hated but I like how you did the flash back and everything changed, so thank you for that

[@rhysproductions]

This is amazing thank you for making this 😣

[@zuni0219]

Even if this is made, it can't stop mental pain that occurs in with our private lives.

[@ImAnubisDude]

I like this video because it shows what can happen when you gain too much vengeance against a guy

[@NKC_DRAWING]

Hello you so So Amazing greatest video ever seriously it's so amazing 👋

[@JonathanSteadman2003]

One thing i hate is bullies. I was bullied and it hurts still. :(

[@blaireandsabrina4126]

I'm very sad for that boy because they made him drop books. if I were him I would say " please stop I don't like that" or just ignore them

[@croz1og621]

fight back, if you say "i dont like that". sadly thell just keep doing it. But, i know this because i tried what you said, but then they made fun of me so i physically fought back and won. no more bully for me

[@NicotineDolls]

I was bulled. heavily for years and it messed me. up. If you have been bullied watch "The Madness" by Nicotine Dolls

[@Charly-Zamudio]

Don't bully Be the change!

[@baristamojito]

agree

[@julyiantovar114]

CC- Vlogs well if they dont stop beat the shit out of them

[@pamelabibby8642]

people should help people when they are bullied

[@pamelabibby8642]

that's right be the change

[@plssubscribetoadifishman134]

hey, you yes, you take a moment breathe relax it’s gonna be okay I don’t know what’s going on in your life right now, but trust me when I say things will get better. they will. never lose hope. stay strong. you are beautiful. you are worth it. you are amazing. and don’t you ever, ever let anyone tell you different. amazing things will happen, you just have to believe it. if the only thing you did today was hang in there, I’m proud of you. keep fighting. you are strong. you will make it out of this. never stop following your dreams. and let this be a sign to keep going, If no one else believes in you, Just know, I do. You can do this. You are here for a reason. And you better let the whole world know that reason. Make the world proud. It will get better. I promise. It just takes time.

[@RosasUtopia]

Such an important message for all ages! I was bullied on You Tube so I know the importance of protecting yourself from these people. 💚💛💚 #BeTheChange

[@finnur7503]

i got a tip for u real quick ok ready. ok do this 1 tip and its fixed. TURN OFF THE SCREEN 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

[@thefighter5182]

I wouldn't care if anyone bullying me. Because I have never been bullied and that's why.

[@editzbyjordon4708]

Am i the only one whos binge watching anti bullying films to bring back memories😃

[@franborple]

no lol

[@kaleroiid1123]

If you are gonna change, change for the good

[@ashlast4253]

Why do we have to go through this pain? And the bully don't get caught I... hate this needs to stop people are being bullied accurately, 1.3million people are getting bullied. And cyberbullying is even worse idk why innocent people get bullied I'm sorry for everyone whom is going through this. I wish the best for u girls/guys/and trans and gays/everyone is beautiful and special in there own ways so if your a bully stop this. I know how it fells to get bullied and yes I have gotten bullied by people at my Neighborhood. And it hurts why do we have to go through this pain. THIS IS WRONG BULLY'S I'M SORRY THAT U ARE SO SICK TO DO THIS BUT I WOULD STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BULLYING NEEDS TO STOP NOW

[@naughtyvideos6569]

And dude don't shake hands with someone in toilet

[@JonathanSteadman2003]

Dont be a bully, be a friend. ❤❤❤

[@shelbyjensen2910]

I have been bullied before I kown how it feels. And I feel bad for you

[@XaiythGaming]

I know this will probably never be answered, but anyone know the name of that piano tune?

[@743_jayeshpatil7]

Remember no bullying in the halls

[@pumagamer5562]

So we can bully in the classroom

[@dimitrisanastasiadis4768]

A guy who is sitting in toilet is shaking hands with his bully.amazing

[@dimitrisanastasiadis4768]

Just explain to me what really happens

[@danielpeterson6987]

My kid will only take out a bully if they take on someone else who can't defend themselves a my kiddo take out any guy or girl and she is a girl and she never loses it doesn't matter how big or small you are she will never lose.

[@قرآنينبضحياتي-م3ج]

Allah SWT says: يٰٓأَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا لَا يَسْخَرْ قَوْمٌ مِّنْ قَوْمٍ عَسٰىٓ أَنْ يَكُونُوا خَيْرًا مِّنْهُمْ وَلَا نِسَآءٌ مِّنْ نِّسَآءٍ عَسٰىٓ أَنْ يَكُنَّ خَيْرًا مِّنْهُنَّ ۖ وَلَا تَلْمِزُوٓا أَنْفُسَكُمْ وَلَا تَنَابَزُوا بِالْأَلْقٰبِ ۖ بِئْسَ الِاسْمُ الْفُسُوقُ بَعْدَ الْإِيمٰنِ ۚ وَمَنْ لَّمْ يَتُبْ فَأُولٰٓئِكَ هُمُ الظّٰلِمُونَ "O you who have believed, let not a people ridicule [another] people; perhaps they may be better than them; nor let women ridicule [other] women; perhaps they may be better than them. And do not insult one another and do not call each other by [offensive] nicknames. Wretched is the name of disobedience after [one's] faith. And whoever does not repent - then it is those who are the wrongdoers." (QS. Al-Hujuraat 49: Verse 11) * Via Qur'an English quran-en.com Allah SWT says: يٰٓأَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا اجْتَنِبُوا كَثِيرًا مِّنَ الظَّنِّ إِنَّ بَعْضَ الظَّنِّ إِثْمٌ ۖ وَلَا تَجَسَّسُوا وَلَا يَغْتَب بَّعْضُكُمْ بَعْضًا ۚ أَيُحِبُّ أَحَدُكُمْ أَنْ يَأْكُلَ لَحْمَ أَخِيهِ مَيْتًا فَكَرِهْتُمُوهُ ۚ وَاتَّقُوا اللَّهَ ۚ إِنَّ اللَّهَ تَوَّابٌ رَّحِيمٌ "O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin. And do not spy or backbite each other. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his brother when dead? You would detest it. And fear Allah; indeed, Allah is Accepting of repentance and Merciful." (QS. Al-Hujuraat 49: Verse 12) * Via Qur'an English quran-en.com

[@TV-dx9wy]

بارك الله فيك☝ ملاحضه:انا بنت مو ولد😉

[@Avapxla]

I get bullied alot at school and they wont stop and the teatchers dont do anything about it

[@naughtyvideos6569]

As they say "size doesn't matter" ;-)

[@milesnolan9188]

That's how things should be but they're not.

[@sarmadsaad1152]

Thank you for this movie changed for motivation don't change for loser

[@katsu._t.09]

wait do people just have no doors or no doors open or is that mirror see through

[@HampterHamstedam]

i know almost %30 of this comments.... they truly just acting to be good... but in reality... they are not.... so beware about those comments

[@lexipxxh]

he literally looks exactly like a mix between yung gravy and luke benward i am losing my mind

[@SpookyPurple16]

its always the "nerd" being bullied and the other kids that are "popular"

[@sharonknuth4324]

LOVE THIS

[@Nor23000]

That's... not how zero tolerance works. What would happen is a teacher would find out and punish the victim. Unfortunate but true.

[@pumagamer5562]

Remember to always hold hands in the bathroom...

[@ChsonlineOrgUkinternetschool]

Be the change

[@TheSerpentEagle]

Stand up to your bully. Then thank him

[@briannaduffney1745]

why are people so negative? Just because someone is different does not give you the right to bully them or make them feel bad about themselves

[@hermitsunite953]

It normally stems from an insecurity from the bully themselves.

[@VoidDweller86]

​@@hermitsunite953 Or in many cases it can be The verbal bully's superiority complex Which I MAJORLY had to deal with while being in public school growing up Which is exactly why I hate The public school education system altogether. I am 36 years old by the way, Black American male.

[@gabriellaboer8949]

Woooooow #bethechange

[@elijahjackson1665]

You made me cry no joke

[@Juliafanpopstar]

Jesus Love you

[@polyxenia100]

music everyone??

[@josefrnciscomarinbalderas5618]

If you get bullied alot get revenge or gets som help or get friends

[@foshsticks2063]

The sad thing is, the fact that people will watch this and be, "Ill punch the bullies in the face, and protect the victim." or "1 like= 100 slaps for bully" But they have no consent that they are doing this at school, and think nothing is bad about t. This happens so much in my class.

[@danisolomon603]

I can't change anything

[@cyberonzain9952]

i bully other people ..............man it feels good

[@memzboi9520]

If someone punches you the only option is to beat the crap out of them

[@sophiebrown1107]

As we say, NOW PAYBACK IS A BAD B*TCH!

[@h.yh.y6298]

Okay but tell me why all his bullies were smaller than him

[@typeshi-b7k]

#Stop Bullying

[@kaylasmith2906]

I get bullied everyday by 8th graders and I never tell anyone. I don't even know what I did to them but all they do is bully me for no reason

[@erasmith2048]

Panda Gamer .they are jealous. Insecure people need others to show strength... Talk to ur parents. Talk to ur friends post on social media complain to authority of ur school.... And if u think nobody should get involved here u r wrong u r their responsibility

[@brittanyhammer399]

Jesus loves you! You can get through this! Don't let them get you down! You're a wonderful person and a child of the most high God!

[@haleybui6891]

My Son in 6th grade now . He been gets bully by a group of three girl . They sat around him in the classroom and does bully everyday . I cannot sleep and think some ways to help him . I might be see the principal tomorrow.

[@rustyghost3141]

To the point of eating doritos in the toilet. that's when you know the bullying went way too far.

[@majorcrobox2950]

I'll be surprised if this works on kids I really will

[@757simmer7]

Wut no i am a bully and i love it

[@normalamerican9047]

The people who make these are the people who weren't bullied.

[@greyhoundman8389]

#BeTheChange

[@pamelabibby8642]

my friend tina was abused and bullied by her brothers when she was six years old her horrible mum did nothing and put my friend tina in a childrens home she should get her comeuponce for not helping she ended up having strokes

[@jeromelagrio5461]

What is the background music anyone

[@Chabad770Moshiach]

I go to kenowa I see no bullying I'm in ms

[@pamelabibby8642]

any one who doesnt help anyone who gets bullied should be bullied ten times more people are so ignorant when people get bullied and bullies are trouble causers not the victim

[@901Hbreezy]

3 people getting suspended

[@jeromelagrio5461]

Title of the music background

[@LokiDarling-ld2fb]

You know y mass shootings in school happens??? Ans: bullying

[@honeymvvnn8626]

Me too...

[@endlessgames7428]

I go to this school district

[@uzielrivera-malagon]

Bro one of my friends became a murder because of bullying

[@the_space_cowboy]

Needs more respect for gamers.

[@lovie1097]

Yeah okay

[@Gus_Chiggins]

Do kids really eat their lunch on the shitter?

[@isabellaoccasionally3479]

Hi

[@aiyshaali7553]

He became the bully that's not right in fact NONE of it is

[@night-men-2141]

Ez kick

[@theREALtruth20292]

POV: ur in English class

[@nicolekvinlaug4260]

#nanananananbatman

[@rukiyazeu9488]

😢😭

[@MrOwendu]

yo my school has a bullying video search Knox dosx

[@gundir7504]

why is he going to highschool in a school bus tho

[@pamelabibby8642]

bullys will get there comeuponce

[@khalifa2x21]

Payback

[@galaxysimmer7392]

i am the bully. lmaoo jk

[@Aangimo]

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[@CarlosDaniel-wb7dw]

(BR) 💝 ?

[@nicolekvinlaug4260]

#turdnugget

[@SCORPION-uk6rs]

Just make columbine) (Joke)

[@Ge0man]

This isnt gonna change shit

[@jadesboringlife1416]

Why is everyone so skinny??