BE THE STRONGEST PERSON AT YOUR FATHER'S FUNERAL - Jordan Peterson - Motivational Speech, Emotional

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Motivation Maculation

Motivation Maculation

4 жыл бұрын

Jordan Bernt Peterson is a Canadian author, clinical psychologist, and scholar. He is a professor of psychology at the University of Toronto. JBP is one of my favorite people ever so this one is special to me guys!!

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@yonnalej
@yonnalej 3 жыл бұрын
My dad's funeral was two days ago. I'm the oldest of his four children, we all carried his coffin and lowered him to his grave where he now rests with his own father, mother and sister. It was the most difficult but most beautiful thing I will ever experience. Jordan Peterson's words echoed in my mind, I had to be strong for my siblings, my mother, my wife and my son. Like my dad I'm not an emotional man, but over the past 2 days I've cried like never before. I like to think that Jordan Peterson articulates the things my dad taught me throughout my childhood... to be truthful when it would be easier to lie, to forgive when it would be easier to hold a grudge. My aim is to become the man that my father was, to be worthy of carrying his name, and to raise my son to do the same.
@no-quema-cuh
@no-quema-cuh 2 жыл бұрын
I also lost my father 2 days ago and im 17 years old he was 56 years old and im dealing the most difficult moment in my life
@joshuapillay2512
@joshuapillay2512 2 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to you, brothers. I also lost my dad just over a month ago. We will get through it
@jakenorris3800
@jakenorris3800 2 жыл бұрын
Today is Christmas day. It's been 10 years to the day my maternal grandmother passed away, December 23rd is the day my paternal grandmother passed away, it's also my paternal grandfather's birthday (who passed away 11 years ago). My Father just passed away two weeks ago today. I listen to this video often, as others have said it's a personification of the lessons my dad taught me growing up. These comments have really helped me out with this process. Be strong, brothers, the sun will shine on us again.
@no-quema-cuh
@no-quema-cuh 2 жыл бұрын
@@jakenorris3800 My brother i lost my father 3 and a half weeks ago i can toteally understand you.(think that i was in your position just one week ago) be strong brother we have to keep pushing
@orlandomunoz8959
@orlandomunoz8959 2 жыл бұрын
I lost my dad on june 15 2021 after he continuously was trying to get in contact with me. I am in my early 20’s. He was battling addiction but taught me lots of things growing up and was the best man he could be. God bless your fathers soul wherever he is. I know your pain brother
@keithmccarty9145
@keithmccarty9145 3 жыл бұрын
Today is my Dad's funeral. I'm alone in my room, getting ready. I've been looking at this video over and over again since he died... I don't know if I'm ready. I don't know if I'm the strongest person today. God, I need help and I'm not sure where it's gonna come from, but I trust it will come.
@TheBoomshine
@TheBoomshine 3 жыл бұрын
Hope it went as best as it could have gone, my friend.
@leetlargo
@leetlargo 3 жыл бұрын
My condolences. My GF's uncle is being moved into hospice care (no kidney or liver function). Her father called her in tears Monday to inform her of what was happening. I'm about to show her this video in order to help her prepare for the inevitable and overwhelming pain and sadness that is about to come. We're all going to face multiple tragedies in our lives. I believe videos such as this can go a long way in helping us get past them. I often recall this letter a pastor received after his wife passed and it said "you may have to pass through the valley of weeping but you don't have to stay there."
@jenniferperez1637
@jenniferperez1637 3 жыл бұрын
I was in your shoes on 12/18/20....The second most difficult and painful day of my life. The first being when I received the hospital call 💔. I hope you are doing okay.....god bless 😔
@ISILENTNINJAI
@ISILENTNINJAI 3 жыл бұрын
@Buhle I'm really sorry man, I also lost my dad yesterday and it hurts so much. Its hard to stop crying. Im trying my hardest for my siblings. I hope you are doing well, you are not alone right now.
@harrietnelly2007
@harrietnelly2007 3 жыл бұрын
Me too except it’s my grandmas funeral in a couple of mins. Me and my grandma were super close and it’s sickening and horrible to think I lost her she was and still is my life and I don’t know what to do with out her. I’m very sorry for your loss I hope your ok
@MarkoNBA
@MarkoNBA 2 жыл бұрын
Im going to my dads funeral today, i cant stop crying, man im 13... Love You Dad ♥
@brettweidner4305
@brettweidner4305 Жыл бұрын
Hope you're doing well!
@Satoshi_Glockamoto
@Satoshi_Glockamoto Жыл бұрын
Stay strong 💪🏽 Make him proud!
@m.c7169
@m.c7169 Жыл бұрын
I hope you’re doing well. You’re going into his role at such a young age. I’m glad that you’re listening to Dr. Jordan Peterson because he’s a great role model to listen to. God bless you young man. I will say a prayer of strength for you young man. You got this 💙🥲
@timharper4246
@timharper4246 Жыл бұрын
You're in my prayers, young man. I pray that you and your family are doing as best as can
@Shawnmalonecomedy
@Shawnmalonecomedy Жыл бұрын
I went to my dads funeral and was the only one of 3 kids that didn’t cry once it gets better man
@TXMesican
@TXMesican 2 жыл бұрын
I was 20 when my old man passed, he lived a hard life and was not perfect with us, but somehow I still love him as he was Superman. At his funeral I stood strong 💪🏼 he would’ve been proud 🥲. Miss you Pa!
@reubenmcclendon9857
@reubenmcclendon9857 4 жыл бұрын
You can hear the pain in his voice. I hope for a speedy recovery for Dr. Peterson and his family. He has been an instrumental force in my life. He’s changed my life!
@takingthelibertywithsam4470
@takingthelibertywithsam4470 4 жыл бұрын
That’s beautiful man. I felt the same thing listening to this and it brought a tear to my eye. Currently going back and forth with my mother about her going into an assisted living or taking care of her myself and she says she doesn’t want me to have to take care of her, ‘I refuse to make you take care of me’ she says, ‘that’s not how it works and that’s not what I want for you.’ It breaks my heart. The last minute of this hit me hard as it related to my situation so similarly. I need Peterson to get better because he has seriously helped me get better in life. Praying for him. He will be back.
@YTRoss44
@YTRoss44 3 жыл бұрын
Dr Peterson Shirley is helping me today as I'm on my way to my father's funeral I'm the oldest as well if I never needed to hear anything else I needed to hear this this morning due to the confusion and the brokenness of this family all I want to do today is remember the love that my best friend my Valentine gave me a 52 years of my life
@ramsesf.7956
@ramsesf.7956 3 жыл бұрын
@@YTRoss44 I'm sorry for your lost. I really wish you to be very strong, don't let your life falls apart. If your father is seeing you, he needs to be proud of you.
@YTRoss44
@YTRoss44 3 жыл бұрын
@@ramsesf.7956 Good morning King; thank you for your comment...You are correct. The lost is just so hard as I talk to him for 3 hours a day before he passed. We talked about life, death, family, politics...you name it we talked about it. I am taking each day one day at a time.
@zd999
@zd999 3 жыл бұрын
Hardest time so far at 24 yrs old was being there for my dad, our family, and friends at his funeral. I was strong and proud of my dad at his funeral. Learned stories hurt inside from great memories and smiled from the happiness I felt. He never fully told me how much he devoted his life to family and his future. Reminisced his triumphs and moments of success. I pray and dream to only hope to be better than him one day . Love you Dad ♿ wish to see you again sometime. Ps: thanks for the book
@cujimmi
@cujimmi 2 жыл бұрын
It was my father's funeral yesterday I was strong.. I carried his coffin with my brothers and spoke about him at the service... It wasn't easy, but nobody said life was gonna be easy.... Thank you Jordan Peterson 👍
@sneakyquick
@sneakyquick 3 жыл бұрын
I watched this video a year after my father died. I was the strongest person now in my family and I spoke at my father's funeral. My mother told me other people spoke but what you said told the story of your father's life. I was the strongest person at my father's funeral and I was able to be the strength my mother and sister both needed to deal with the loss of my father.
@lilboiandbigboithethird830
@lilboiandbigboithethird830 3 жыл бұрын
That’s awesome bro
@AnthonyKress239
@AnthonyKress239 9 ай бұрын
My father passed away this morning. Thanks Jordan for the inspiration. I am getting ready to plan the funeral. This is just what I needed to hear.
@juanitabadenhorst6003
@juanitabadenhorst6003 2 жыл бұрын
My dad passed away yesterday morning. I never expected to ever get that phone call. I dropped off my girl at school and rushed to my dad's house. I walked into a house that was once filled with laughter but as I walked Closer to the bedroom I only heard tears and a unexplained pain. He was just on the floor laying there so quiet. I gave him a hug as always and just cried. It's so hard to accept what happened and that he is not coming back. My mom just sat on the bed, she is wheelchair bound and couldn't even touch him one last time. My daughter is the only grandchild and they did everything together so that broke her little heart. My heart is so raw and I had so many things that I wanted to ask him and do with him. He is my favorite person and my pillar and I thank God that he was borrowed to me for a little time. And that time was awesome. I love you Daddy.
@DashofDrama
@DashofDrama 2 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry man. From what I heard things get better with time.. Today is my fathers funeral and I don't know how I would pull through. My life is ruined and I'm only 18
@netterz3411
@netterz3411 2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry. I lost my mom 2 weeks ago also, it's really hard.
@duanedaisy7731
@duanedaisy7731 3 жыл бұрын
@Keith McCarty Today is my dad's funeral as well and I'm in my room listening as well. Jordan Peterson has prepared me for this day.
@thgentleman9210
@thgentleman9210 2 жыл бұрын
I lost my father in August this year I saw him pass from a heart attack with covid complications it was fast but.. the worst moment of my life I feel so dam lost I'm not gonna lie about it. I'm not weak I'm processing my best friend passing. My blood and heart my hero.
@Cognitoman
@Cognitoman 2 жыл бұрын
How did he die ? At the hospital ? I think my dad may have died from covid he was found in the kitchen floor
@ketchr4295
@ketchr4295 Жыл бұрын
My father died three weeks ago unexpectedly from a heart attack. My father would not want me feeling sorry for myself and not moving on, so move on I must.
@seethroughlife1481
@seethroughlife1481 Жыл бұрын
My father also died of what I suspect was a heart attack, nearly 2 weeks ago (still no coroner report). It’s his funeral next week and I’m battling with whether to speak or not.. I don’t think I know what to say
@arbolrosa
@arbolrosa 2 жыл бұрын
My father died yesterday. This Jordan helped me to go from broken to strong. It's impossible not to cry sometimes. But you have to move forward. I want to be like my father.
@Legitzimo.
@Legitzimo. 9 ай бұрын
Call your dads before you get the final call. I should have listen to JP sooner. Love you Don.
@onlyforthebravelive7313
@onlyforthebravelive7313 3 жыл бұрын
Today I go say goodbye to my dad with his 2 daughters and my mum his wife. With Jordans help and guidance through the last 5 years (a man my dad really liked) I will be strong and we will come together. Hold the center people we are stronger then we know x
@shraddhaghadigaonkar1015
@shraddhaghadigaonkar1015 3 жыл бұрын
I haven't spoken about this to anyone. I lost my dad to covid-19 during lockdown in Mumbai. I got the news around 2 AM and somehow when I received that call, I knew in my heart what it's about and something died in my stomach before even picking up the call. I was alone with just my mother. He was not old and it was unexpected to receive such teribble news. It was just me and my mother with noone else. I still remember how I broke the news to mom. How cruel that moment wasI didn't cry. I didnt cry until next day till cremation. I held all my tears and pain inside for hours. It was just with my mother. I had to be strong.
@aboundinggrace7029
@aboundinggrace7029 3 жыл бұрын
Jesus Loves you, don''t give up. He makes all things new. I believe it was so hard for you, I hope you are doing good now.
@MishkinClashofClans
@MishkinClashofClans 3 жыл бұрын
take care brother, you are stronger than you think..
@shraddhaghadigaonkar1015
@shraddhaghadigaonkar1015 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@ISILENTNINJAI
@ISILENTNINJAI 3 жыл бұрын
Take care dude. I also lost my pops to covid this year on January 4th 2021. Ny father was sick and not feeling well. We all knew he had the covid. On Monday morning I woke up and went in to knock on his door to ask how he was feeling. I got no reply and so I assumed he was finally sleeping. He was coughing all night the previous night before I fell asleep. It wasn't until 20 minutes later when I finished eating that I decided to go in into his room to wake him up. The moment I tried to gently shake him I felt a terrible coldness in my hands and my heart skipped a beat. Upon touching him I knew that he was already gone for atleast a few hours. First thing I did was call 911 to report my fathers death than call the family. I am not emotional person so I really don't cry often. I tear up but never let my emotions overcome my judgment. Right than at that moment my thought process was what do I do now. My mother had passed away years prior and so now it was me and my 2 younger siblings. My instingct was to formulate a plan on how we would survive without our dad and mother. How I would make sure they had a roof over their head. It wasn't until that night that I felt my heart break. Only when I was alone was I able to feel the pain I suppressed during the day. Today was my dads funeral and while everyone was breaking apart I was just there staring into my dads casket and thinking. Why am I here morning a dead body. This is not my dad. The dad I loved and knew was always smiling and upbeat. He isn't in that casket. He's here in my heart. Everything he taught me will stay with me for ever. I made the purpose of my eulogy not to say how much I missed him but instead how greatful I was for having him around all these years and how proud I was of him and the way he lived his life. It was hard to do because I hate public speaking but I did it anyways.
@shraddhaghadigaonkar1015
@shraddhaghadigaonkar1015 3 жыл бұрын
@@ISILENTNINJAI I don't even know you but I can actually feel all of the emotions you went through and how strong and courageous you were. When dad pass away, I immediately got this sense of responsibility which was much bigger than the whole pain. I think that sense of responsibility makes us a better person.
@El_Lobo_Solitario
@El_Lobo_Solitario 2 жыл бұрын
I lost my father on this August 22. We where always together! Unstoppable together! I love him and miss him so much! What hurts me so much was not being able to be with him because of these stupid COVID rules! A men who was there for me my whole life! Had to be alone on his last days. I was stripped from being able to give him a hug for the last time and tell him i love him. If your father and mother are alive. Please! Tell them you love them before you leave your home. Call them! Text them! You never know when the day comes
@Bach_Treebane
@Bach_Treebane 2 жыл бұрын
I watched this video 4 months ago, during the worst breakup of my life, I lost my son, I'll never see him again. This got me thru it. My dad died today, I'll be there for my family in a way I never could of before. I'll be the man I was meant to be.
@kevinsayes
@kevinsayes Ай бұрын
Planning my mom’s funeral today. Literally on the way. Lost her 2 days ago, I’m 37. The best way to put it is it feels surreal; and there’s a strange sensation that a lifeline on the raft we call life has been cut, and you can feel it somewhere deep deep down instinctually that something fundamental has changed about your situation. Watching this to try to be prepared for what’s next.
@chaisandars1691
@chaisandars1691 8 ай бұрын
My dad passed away on 10/27 and today will be the first time I see him in person at his funeral… we lived in different states.. I have no idea how I will get through this 😞🕊️🙏🏼
@Ganesh13Kumar
@Ganesh13Kumar 3 жыл бұрын
Its been a year now since my father passed away, I was strong at that time , now that the time has passed, i started getting the flashbacks of his sufferings in the hospital, its starting to get to me , its really hard , grief hits you at unexpected moments . I don’t know how to get over it ,
@k99yle
@k99yle 3 жыл бұрын
Hey bro., I’m sorry to hear that you are still suffering. It will ease over time and there will be good and bad days. Think about what your Dad would want for you? I’m sure he would want you to be happy and not waste too much of your short life being sad about something that you change. Embrace this amazing gift of life and do something every day that will make him proud. Then his life won’t be in vain x
@Ganesh13Kumar
@Ganesh13Kumar 3 жыл бұрын
@@k99yle Thank you for your kind words , that was really helpful
@mattymitch9953
@mattymitch9953 2 жыл бұрын
My father just got carried out by hospice, dead on a stretcher. To be honest I don’t know how to feel. But I’ll be damned if I don’t help my mother and brothers through this. I will be the strongest at my fathers funeral.
@Buckeye2043
@Buckeye2043 2 жыл бұрын
I lost my mother 23 days ago. I never understood the life long grief she experienced from losing her mother. Now I do. One thing she was great at was enjoying the small things. I'm trying mom.
@nickpearce2968
@nickpearce2968 Жыл бұрын
My father's funeral was 2 days ago on August 31st, 2022. Despite being fully drained by grief, I was able to volunteer to write and deliver his eulogy. It was by far the most challenging task I've ever had to accomplish. I don't wish this task on anyone but in a way it was an honour to be able to do this on my family's behalf in front of our closest firends, extended family, and coworkers - the most important people in our lives. While my Dad is now gone and this big part of my life has come to a close, in some way I feel something inside that is growing and moving me into the next stage of my potential. Thank you Dr. Peterson for giving additional meaning to those going through the same.
@orbitx5838
@orbitx5838 Жыл бұрын
Be the Strongest person at your Dad’s Funeral. Thank you Dr. Peterson, your timing is impectible
@turc1656
@turc1656 2 жыл бұрын
Came back to listen to these words today as the hospital just informed us that my father has taken a turn for the worse and he won't make it. I'm in the airport terminal waiting to board, hoping they can keep him alive long enough for me to get there and say goodbye. I'm so grateful for JBP and his words. I definitely needed to listen to this again today because soon I'll have to summon that strength, put forth a proper example, and make myself as useful as possible during this trying time.
@kaytor_tot
@kaytor_tot Жыл бұрын
This is me right now... literally right now 💔😭😭😭😭
@turc1656
@turc1656 Жыл бұрын
@@kaytor_tot Very sorry to hear this. May God be with you and your family.
@johnnyjackson6879
@johnnyjackson6879 Жыл бұрын
At my father's funeral they allowed us to shovel the dirt into his grave. There were 2 shovels. One was passed around, the other was mine, and I shoveled until the grave was full. That was the last thing I was able to do for my father. I did it fully.
@theresakarr4302
@theresakarr4302 3 жыл бұрын
This is so true. You are naturally drawn n to the most together person at the funeral. Somehow we instinctively know who that is.
@dude157
@dude157 2 жыл бұрын
Today is my father's funeral. Thank you for this message Dr Peterson.
@michaelortiz3619
@michaelortiz3619 2 жыл бұрын
My father passed away January 28th, 2022. His birthday is February 27, 1962. He would’ve been 60 this year. It is currently March 3rd. I love my father. He was and is a great man. He always had a plan. He was a survivor. He made me a strong man. I didn’t shed a single tear at his wake. A few at the mass and a few at the burial. The only person who was able to evoke some tears from me was my cousin. He too lost his father (my uncle) at a young age. I’m 23 this year…turning 24. I will be touring Europe with Freddie Gibbs this year and wanted to tell my father all about it. He’ll have to see it through my eyes I suppose. I’ll make you proud. Rest In Peace Pa. I love you
@seancrawford6026
@seancrawford6026 2 жыл бұрын
I too lost my father going on 6 years. Lots of haze in that time. I hope everyone here is doing okay and striving to keep going.
@nicholasmatthew9687
@nicholasmatthew9687 2 жыл бұрын
It’s been years since I first heard variations of those speech. Last night I had a long open heart talk with my father whom I love immensely, and he never fails to let me know I am the pride of his life despite me being such good forsaken work in progress, but there was a long period of life growing up where we just didn’t have the sacred relationship we both deserve so much. The ideas spoken of here have guided me for the better part of decade now, and for the first time I spoke these words into the world with my own voice. He mentioned being amazed by how much I’ve taught myself in life, and it all started with being introduced to Peterson’s work and hearing these words, that’s where it started. I’m the eldest child of three in a very large family whom my father works tirelessly to hold together these days. I overall told him the internal guide in me that’s behind everything is that I have complete conviction towards being the person who picks up his torch and helps everyone move forward the day he leaves our world. It was the most genuine moment I’ve ever had, especially with dad. That moment when we both had tears in our eyes I realized that without any doubt this is the greatest path a man can pursue in life. There is no cause that will benefit yourself and the people around you more than to build the necessary character to be that person. I have a two year old son, and I mean to teach every bit of what I learn about this funny little life we all have been given the opportunity for. I truly believe humanity is at the cusp of something incredible that can’t be described, we are living through it right now and we are all charged with the role of changing the existence of every soul for the better for the rest of time. We are all awful beings when we aren’t aware of it, but with a little encouragement and character building we have the capacity to bring forth something that measures to the brilliance of gods, we just all have to take these steps together, boldly and without falter. The daemon of Socrates lives in us all, I believe that is god. A spark of divinity that gives birth to consciousness that lives within all of us. May the universe bless the messenger Jordan Peterson and his family for willingly taking on a world of abuse so more individuals can hear these messages.
@PapaRabii
@PapaRabii Жыл бұрын
My father died last night in his sleep, he’s been fighting cancer for a couple years now but he lost his mind a couple days before I came to Texas to visit him, and now I’m on FMLA for a few weeks to help comfort my people. Thanks for this video, Dr. Petersons advice is what’s been helping me throughout these years.
@gouravleekha
@gouravleekha Жыл бұрын
Jordan Peterson is a gift to the world
@handsom3
@handsom3 Жыл бұрын
Keep the faith! The lose of father was/is the worst experience I've ever eendured. One thing that I think is noteworthy here, is the deep down we always know what to do. We may doubt it, but deep down you know what your father would do, which all in all is what is right. Until further notice, go with that.... Mr. Peterson's words here are absolutely perfect. They should be issued to every man on planet earth. Please do your part and share this with someone who needs to hear it or even someone who doesn't, because what do you know? Just do it. I'm going to do my part and share it right now. May God bless you all
@bigmanoutdoors1583
@bigmanoutdoors1583 2 жыл бұрын
Neither my brother or I never got the chance to be the strongest person at our Father's funeral because I was only 14 at the time and my brother 11. I try every day to live up to the moral character that my Father was, but I struggle because it feels like I don't have all the pieces. My dad never really got the chance to really teach me what it meant to be a man. So I have been trying to model myself after what I remember about him, but I always come up short of that vision that I have of him. I struggle so much but I just don't know what else to do.
@TheTriunp
@TheTriunp 3 жыл бұрын
02:54 'There's an aim' 03:06 'That's something aim for'
@a.m.c.3181
@a.m.c.3181 2 жыл бұрын
My Uncle is Passing and the Family is suffering. Thank you for Sharing. God Bless
@filipdemeyer5659
@filipdemeyer5659 3 жыл бұрын
been listening so often to jordan’s wise words. I know my character is strong, but challenged by a very malevolent person( though he is a prof.dr. med.) who was my boss. stood my ground for many years, but the knife 2 years ago came from my so called confidence person, even a masonic brother. took me two years but getting on top of it. right now i am spending the night next to my morphined father 86, who will leave this world this week. yes, it makes stronger ( did so when i burried my mother 3 years ago. ) . Jordan states what most of us already now deep inside and it really helps. thanks.
@samwebb6939
@samwebb6939 2 жыл бұрын
Im sorry for your loss Filip, I hope you are doing okay and keeping strong.
@raja0591
@raja0591 2 жыл бұрын
My father is not dead but he tells me that he wants to die every single day. He is paralyzed and he wants to give up. This kills me from inside every day. I was super close to my dad growing up and now that we are in this phase of life just kills me. I don’t even know how to look back my childhood and smile anymore. I miss my happy dad version so much! I have given my all to cure him, took him to the best doctors, best therapist, put my life on hold and yet I am failing badly! I am running out of options. To all of the folks who lost their dad, I am so sorry for your loss. My situation is a bit different but I need that help that got you guys though the hard times. These videos definitely do help.
@friedmac7146
@friedmac7146 2 жыл бұрын
Three things i would personally recommend ...Aside from religion, Be Trust Worthy, Reliable, and Dependible. ...Be that kind of Individual...First. 🛡️✨✨✨ 🌱. 🌱. 🌱. 🌳.
@4realChad
@4realChad 2 жыл бұрын
I LOVE YOU DAD
@ayala7282
@ayala7282 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for creating and sharing this profound speech. It's very helpful for my partner and I.
@FranciscoFerreira-yw2tk
@FranciscoFerreira-yw2tk Жыл бұрын
At 7 years of age my dad left my country in search of a better life to us, he came visit us from time to time and sent money to my help my mother, me and my sister, has the time moved on he stopped coming he stopped sending money and stoped reaching to us, I never missed out on his birthday, fathers day always wished him well, he moved on without telling us anything, he build a new family and forgot us completly, I remember being a kid and wishing to reach the end of my studies so my dad came back as im the youngest, so i did the minium wishing him to come, he never did. We "moved on" one year ago I moved to other country and started making good progress in my profession, I got a house and a life there, 6 months in, my sister call's me, "dad died", i picked up a plane instantly to come help my mother with her grief, I wanted to bring him back to portugal so my grandads could say goodbye, we didnt had the money, luckly he was a good professional and all the people who he worked for payed to bring him to his land, I never shed a fucking tear, I talked with everyone who I needed to organize everything without giving trouble to my mom or my sister, i had 25 years. I standed strong huged my family and told him that everything would be fine and carried the coffin and burried him with a pack of cigarrets that's what i Recall that best of him, It's hard but be strong guys take care of your's and never leave no one behind. I had to come back to portugal due to some troubles my dad had with the law and to help my mother who still loves him alllot! my only regret was not to catch a plane to him before he died, and simply asked him why?! Live life by the fullest you never know, stay strong and keep that head high never give up. this is just to help get things out of my chest has this touched me allot!
@AkosuahstastyRecipe
@AkosuahstastyRecipe 2 жыл бұрын
Loosing a dad is unbearable 😭😭😭😭
@mickeyzinabu2925
@mickeyzinabu2925 4 жыл бұрын
nice video
@dustinfausett2374
@dustinfausett2374 3 жыл бұрын
I lost my brother to Covid this morning. Thanks Jordan. 🙏
@themudpit621
@themudpit621 3 жыл бұрын
sorry for your loss
@anandadaquino3604
@anandadaquino3604 2 ай бұрын
Well, I tried. I'm the only child, and a woman, so I got emotional and cried a little, but I think, overall, I did a good job. I conforted the people, I walked by myself behind the coffin, my uncle - my father's brother - stayed with the body the ENTIRE time and arranged the service, the documents, everything. That day I didn't see only my uncle, I saw a strong man who was trying to protect my mom and me.
@kckevuk
@kckevuk Жыл бұрын
I heard him say this few months ago now I have to put this in to practice as my father pass away on the 4 November
@kckevuk
@kckevuk 7 ай бұрын
It been year since I post this
@jacob5403
@jacob5403 5 ай бұрын
just found your comment when I was scrolling down, it's my turn tomorrow, hope you are ok @@kckevuk
@sykamau
@sykamau 9 ай бұрын
This right here kept me going when my house burned 4 days ago and my strength of character kept my younger brother and my father going too. In my mind I kept repeating myself "I can't be standing here crying like a pussy, I have to do something"
@ericcortez908
@ericcortez908 2 жыл бұрын
I lost my dad to alcohol. For four years i didnt talk to him or my mom because of the abuse i went through growing up. May the 5th was the last day i talked to my dad, all i remenber him telling my he loved me and to forgive him for what he did to me and that one he might die but i though he was just saying things to becaues was drinking all i told him to foucs on himself and my mom and brother and not on me because im on my own and i dont hate them for what they did to me. A few of my family members tried to blame me for his death Especially my own Mother. All i know is that i wasn't strong enough to help my dad when i was living with him and i feel like im stuck in endless desert walking with no end Site.
@newguy3588
@newguy3588 2 жыл бұрын
Bro, don't put that on you. We can't download life lessons and just understand everything like we're in the Matrix or something. We're vulnerable creatures that make mistakes, misunderstand situations, are unable to comprehend relationships until it's too late, and don't understand the scope of life. I don't know you or your relationships but the people blaming you sound like not so great or grieving people. Don't beat yourself up, keep this in the back of your mind and learn from it. Share it to those that need to hear it. Sorry for your loss Eric. Good luck to you bud. I hope you're doing good m8.
@DavayPicasso
@DavayPicasso 2 жыл бұрын
ThTs something to aim for*
@evanmyers2603
@evanmyers2603 Жыл бұрын
Baby I’m amazed
@ambassador8524
@ambassador8524 2 жыл бұрын
How could anyone not like this clip? Stop allowing main stream media to feed you lies about this person
@praz7
@praz7 3 жыл бұрын
I wonder if I'll be able to become the strongest person during the worst times. Even Peterson struggled with it and ended up damaging his health and he has more experience in life. So I'm not sure if I'll be able to do it if it happened anytime soon.
@AlanRodrigoCasillasCasillas
@AlanRodrigoCasillasCasillas 4 жыл бұрын
Where can I fin the original video?
@VinnyDamo
@VinnyDamo 3 жыл бұрын
Got to go into the hole to find it lol
@VinnyDamo
@VinnyDamo 3 жыл бұрын
sounds like the Dr oz interview
@themudpit621
@themudpit621 3 жыл бұрын
@@VinnyDamo yep, kzbin.info/www/bejne/oGSbaY2ehdJor5I
@kyouma0519
@kyouma0519 3 жыл бұрын
my grandpa died yesterday, I don't really know how to feel, it's really confusing to be honest. I was lucky to not have someone die in my family until now that I am 24 years old. my relationship with my dad is terrible to be frank, we don't agree about whether I should be alive and exist in this world or not, so that hasn't really been easy. I find myself watching a lot of Jordan Petersons content in the last few hours, and, at least, it's making me feel a bit better. A lot has been going wrong in my life especially since I left school until now. I want to start working on myself and at least try to hate myself a bit less tomorrow than I do today.
@CieraLevelsUp777
@CieraLevelsUp777 3 жыл бұрын
You should be alive and you have Purpose.
@easypeasy8535
@easypeasy8535 2 жыл бұрын
Is it bad if I went to my dad funeral and didn't cry I'm 15
@Cognitoman
@Cognitoman 2 жыл бұрын
No, people deal with death on different ways... especially kids when I was 14 my grandpa died and I didn’t cry for a weeks after it happened. I’m 35 now and my dad just died and it’s terrible, I’ve cried... but not hard... I just cry when the rest of the family asleep or in the shower. Hang in there buddy
@JuanLpianist
@JuanLpianist Жыл бұрын
I was this. And then a year later I collapsed completely
@yourfuckedd
@yourfuckedd 2 жыл бұрын
I am 22 years old waiting to get picked up from a construction site because my father has just passed, I am struggling not to break down right now, can anyone help me With how they dealt with the park.
@thebigstar1013
@thebigstar1013 2 жыл бұрын
I am 21 years old and I just lost my father 1/7/2022, it's so hard to keep living on but I promise we will pull thru my brother.
@yourfuckedd
@yourfuckedd 2 жыл бұрын
@@thebigstar1013 appreciate that bro
@Cognitoman
@Cognitoman 2 жыл бұрын
Lost my dad 3 days ago... unexpectedly... it’s absolutely terrible... he was found in the morning laying against the dish washer on the floor by my mom and uncle, he had been there for 3-5 hours before anyone found him and have no idea what killed him... makes me sad that no one was there to comfort him or help him.
@yourfuckedd
@yourfuckedd 2 жыл бұрын
@@Cognitoman Im sorry to hear my friend. I recently listened to a interview with Ed Mylet and Jason Wilson about how important it is for us as men even women, to understand how to deal with emotional trauma in a healthy way, this resonated with me alot, I recommend it brother
@Cognitoman
@Cognitoman 2 жыл бұрын
@@yourfuckedd thank you I’ll watch it.
@Kackogeta
@Kackogeta 3 жыл бұрын
3:08
@Zipperneck.
@Zipperneck. 3 жыл бұрын
The subtitles need some tightening up. Motivation Maculation should contact me directly if they would like my assistance with this task.
@NotARussianDisinfoBot
@NotARussianDisinfoBot Жыл бұрын
Great message, but these subtitles are pretty bad.
@peterh222
@peterh222 Жыл бұрын
When Jordan says "loss" but the AI translate bot turns it into "law" and even shows a video graphic of "law" ... but he sure as heck said "loss'
@Sylverblood
@Sylverblood 2 жыл бұрын
I could do a better job at transcibing the audio, contact me if interested.
@johnmounadi6041
@johnmounadi6041 3 ай бұрын
This was informative, but way too all over the place for what I seeked to watch this video for. Leading My Father\s funeral. It seemed to veer off onto so many different topics that it never provided a solid and consistent focus on leadinga funeral.
@neilmaguinness6528
@neilmaguinness6528 3 жыл бұрын
The subtitles for this video are hideous, so many mistakes 😂😂😂
@deyan5463
@deyan5463 3 жыл бұрын
Most of these motivation channels rush to make as many videos as possible. It's a sort of community of these people and they all share the same structure where they get some motivation speech, subtitle it and get free stock footage. They make as many as possible to catch the youtube money stream and maximize profit.
@daphianna9911
@daphianna9911 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my god no. It's OK to cry at your dad's funeral.
@akw8769
@akw8769 2 жыл бұрын
Jordan Peterson is not saying don’t cry at your dad’s funeral. He is speaking of being ready for this grand catastrophic moment by being able to step up for the family. It’s easy for people to metaphorically “die” in their situation during a crisis. He is saying to keep it together enough to be able to lead the family and pull them together. My dad passed last month and all I could remember is this message I heard from Jordan Peterson earlier in the year. His message really helped me keep perspective and find strength during the hardest time of my and family’s life.
@user-pp5jb3qx5c
@user-pp5jb3qx5c 4 ай бұрын
6 years clean off drugs, married and divorce, daughter and baby mama unnecessary foolishness and still serving God and thinking of a master plan only if it's the Lord will
@Jennifer-mz8ih
@Jennifer-mz8ih 2 жыл бұрын
Anyone who buys into the fact that happiness just happens, this guy stumbles over his words. He sounds like even HE doesn’t believe it. Happiness is MADE
@ElectricLadyland87
@ElectricLadyland87 Жыл бұрын
Has anyone noticed how absurdly hypicritical it is that Peterson says shit like this, be the strong one at your father's funeral and don't cry etc. while at the same time he can't talk about what he had for bloody dinner or plumbers without having a breakdown? He's like the picture of repression and rage boiling under the surface.
@lord23_80
@lord23_80 Жыл бұрын
And this gets considered nazi, bruh. We are doomed.
@Chase-wu9wk
@Chase-wu9wk Жыл бұрын
My father beat me growing up. Drunk and abusive. I graduated HS and enlisted. I fought to find my own path as a man. I taught myself everything as a boy becoming a man. I haven't spoke to my father in a long time. Probably +11 years. He has never tried to reach out and neither have I. He broke up my family with other women and created separation within my family. I am sorry for this rant but I wanted to give an understanding of my question. What will it take to feel proud of myself? I'm now almost 30yrs old, a veteran and busting my ass at my job. Married also. I feel my emotions effect my marriage and I can't control my own destiny because of this bullshit. If anyone cared to read this, I would like some kind of pep talk. I'm sorry for this story.
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