the dads response is like the last thing to say to your son telling you he's an addict 😭😭
@Anonymous07192 Жыл бұрын
His last words are good tho. He's saying that after some introspection the son can lose his childish addiction and go back to the state he was in before taking drugs. Sort of "jumping back on the horse" so to speak by going to college and finding a good job after.
@uncanari11 ай бұрын
as a recovering addict, this is pretty typical of parents who don't have experience with this sort of thing, it's actually pretty realistic if frustrating as hell lmao
@onlyarno11 ай бұрын
@@uncanariyes.
@WockyXSlush3 ай бұрын
@@uncanarioh boohoo
@WockyXSlush3 ай бұрын
At least he’s there. Unlike some parents, y’all are so ungrateful.
@o.m95146 ай бұрын
He's still telling him that he is disappointing.
@judithl52712 жыл бұрын
. He’s telling facts but it doesn’t change the feeling of emptiness it leaves 🍃.
@dwllers7 ай бұрын
makes me feel better than i ever have” is really it
@roshanjay72 жыл бұрын
I think the comments about Loving abused women also apply to drug addicts and vice versa for these following comments. You have to *intelligently* figure out how to Love them without destroying yourself. That means Loving them *with* the flaws *and* for the flawless perfection they can be. The problem is parents have so many hopes and dreams for their kids that when it all comes crashing down they may lose their cool. So this is an exercise in developing self-control, and being driven by Faith, Virtue, and sheer frontal lobe Wisdom. Both you and they would need to understand that their *self-perfection* (rather than “getting clean” or becoming “pure” - which are terms that *can* make them feel bad) is a long-term process. You should be the source of Wisdom that continuously tells them the allure, the danger, and the escape from drug addiction. The escape being that internal happiness *is* achievable if you Love yourself, your parents, everyone, and everything really, through developing Faith in the source of good Principles. You should also be the primary source of *Loving support* they can turn to in times of need. But you have to be solid as a rock and remain unperturbed by whatever it is they do to try and destroy themselves, which is probably *the most* difficult thing as a parent. On the one hand you should not *enable* them by giving them money etc to *destroy themselves* (rather than “buy drugs” - so they know the *True* reason and don’t resent you). On the other hand you should not *judge and condemn* them for whatever they’ve lost and will lose if they continue on this path. Especially in terms of their spiritual wellbeing because that will *only* turn them away from the Righteous Path. Instead, I think you just have to *be there* for them as best as you can, and *give* them the Love they need to be *able* to Love *themselves.* That really is the only thing that can break these strongest bonds of sensual desire that is drug addiction. Along with instilling within them the right view that you should not be subject to these addictive external forces. That you should not attribute blame upon yourself, others, or both, and instead just focus on *freeing yourself.* That you can *find yourself* as mentioned here and forge your own pathway that leads to a state of peace and happiness.
@ttt69420 Жыл бұрын
Yeah I have enough problems. I don't want to deal with someone elses. Nor should they with mine.
@lsjt8924 Жыл бұрын
@@ttt69420 What a ridiculous comment. This is first and foremost about parents and children - parents have a duty to deal with their children's issues. Secondly: all relationships - especially the closest ones - ARE about dealing with other people's flaws. You sound like a person incapable of deep bonds if your mentality in intimate relationships is 'I don't want to deal with other people's problems'
@ellievampmtf Жыл бұрын
The way the father responds is so selfish and reveals how little his character (at that time) knows about addicts/depression. I absolutely get where he’s coming from, but it’s ignorant af to not consider how much shit comes with 3 years of addiction. It’s not about “having a close relationship” or having a good childhood, he is severely wounded by the shame of his addiction only to open up and be lashed out at
@mathiasflorea1126 Жыл бұрын
Its human to react like that and absolutely relatable. Not a single person in this comment section wouldve reacted differently because the disappointment and frustration are overwhelming and thats why this film is so good.
@palladi71079 ай бұрын
It's not selfish. He's worried and scared and shocked. It's certainly not the best reply, but that's okay. Like the other guy that replied to your comment, we are not made to say perfect stuff we are human and we just have to like with mediocre responses our part is to understand and feel the other person
@matth2274 ай бұрын
@@mathiasflorea1126brother you’re seriously telling me not a single person would act differently? I know plenty of people and even seen people act way more maturely than this so I don’t know what you’re on about.
@theodoregoodreau8252 Жыл бұрын
Son, you gotta remember, the rehab center is like a big cookie!
@nathanielwilson56048 ай бұрын
Bruce Almighty reference?
@theodoregoodreau82528 ай бұрын
Yeah
@alice-ow6jh Жыл бұрын
0:33 for those of you who are looking for the popular line off of tiktok.
@user-di5kl2nt4bАй бұрын
Its 💔 for all parents !! It was for mine !! I had to overcome the drugs to find out who I really was !! I feel fortunate that I am a success story after finally getting it right after decades of help!! Its hard work but it can be done !!❤
@bennybooper7717 Жыл бұрын
steve carrell spitting facts
@nancyhood1335Ай бұрын
Why did this make me tear upppp
@wvvdsy.7274 Жыл бұрын
Struggle is real.
@judithl52712 жыл бұрын
good job!!
@bennybooper7717 Жыл бұрын
someone get timotee shalamay a snickers or sumn he aint him when he hungry
@kaifenrir4695 Жыл бұрын
☠️ 😂
@miss-astronomikal-mcmxcvii5 ай бұрын
THIS IS NOT FUNNY YOU ASSHOLE. THIS IS NOT FUNNY!!! *THIS IS SOOOOO NOTTT FUNNY!!!!!* THIS IS ABOUT A SERIOUS TOPIC HERE, AND Y’ALL BE PLAYING SOME MOTHERF(_)CKING GAMES AND SH!T HERE.
@ndhickson35995 ай бұрын
Get him some spice 🏜️
@cg-rezi75977 ай бұрын
help me
@rsusen934 ай бұрын
Reminds me of my mother
@clovrmay3104 Жыл бұрын
Raging alcoholic here... Shits so rough zero stars but I believe I know I was born an alcoholic just like this scene no one everyone yelling at me like I'm sorry?!? I am what I am. I had 6 years sober in AA hopefully I can get back there one day.
@Eva-J Жыл бұрын
I love you, man. Turn to Jesus, He loves you so so much and He saves. He already took it all away from you on that cross, just believe and be free. Sending you big hugs❤️❤️ You’re so not alone
@clovrmay3104 Жыл бұрын
@@Eva-J Edgar Cayce
@miss-astronomikal-mcmxcvii5 ай бұрын
@@Eva-J Thank you, and I hope you recover, too, @clovrmay3104.
@joshe35922 жыл бұрын
How come there’s no comments
@miss-astronomikal-mcmxcvii5 ай бұрын
Oh, but there are, but it’s just some people who want to play the jokes-and-memes game, instead of considering the seriousness of the topic!
@bennybooper7717 Жыл бұрын
asking the hard hitting questions
@wificracker41 Жыл бұрын
Lmao
@miss-astronomikal-mcmxcvii5 ай бұрын
NOT FUNNY YOU ASSHOLES
@henrietteglsel6115 Жыл бұрын
GoodMovie About the addiction desease👍
@SammyxSweetheart.025 ай бұрын
0:01
@Sunshine-do3yv5 ай бұрын
Cause it kills the EMOTIONAL. PAIN.....for a while... The big black hole...... ANXIETY, Depression, abandoned......not fitting in..... fitting in.....❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹🥀🥀🥀🥀 Starting at around 14 yrs. .....for me...going to 17 ....my train was off and running.... everything under the sun... I am 66 now......🫶🫶🫶🫶 Good thoughts to all🌹🌹💐💐💐🕉️🕉️🩰🩰
@bennybooper7717 Жыл бұрын
he lost his water polo
@MikeNapoli1989 Жыл бұрын
Yes.
@bennybooper7717 Жыл бұрын
mr dad needs to mellow out
@miss-astronomikal-mcmxcvii5 ай бұрын
NOT FUNNY
@pod9363 Жыл бұрын
The sympathetic angle this movies takes on the dad pisses me off to no end. Just blame the kid for the dysfunction.
@captainbrexit673011 ай бұрын
This is based off of the dads book. Ther were two; Tweak, which was written by the son and Beautiful Boy, which was written from the fathers perspective. They chose the fathers perspective to show just how much more emotionally destroying it can be, the son has been 8 years sober now I think
@trikk9964 Жыл бұрын
... he did every drug on the planet... and every bumm under the bridge...
@miss-astronomikal-mcmxcvii5 ай бұрын
YOU GONNA FOLLOW ALONG WITH THAT BULLSH!T AND PLAY MOTHERF(_)CKING GAMES AND JOKE AND MEME ABOUT THIS?!?
@bennybooper7717 Жыл бұрын
remember kids, nothing will ever make you feel as good as meth does
@miss-astronomikal-mcmxcvii5 ай бұрын
NOT FUNNY. KIDS, DON’T DO METH!!! IT’S BAD FOR YOU! AND DON’T LISTEN TO THIS DUDE, HE WANTS TO JOKE AND MEME ABOUT THIS SERIOUS TOPIC.
@user-uc4vb8zl4g2 ай бұрын
That's also why no one should ever try it. That first time trying meth has a very high chance of leading you down a very dark path. This is coming from someone who used to be hooked on meth