Behind Closed Doors 2 | Official Film (2021) Holly Prentice, Vasile Marin

[@rhondawalker2020]

Be aware of the red flags very early on. Most of us grew up in very unstable homes, and environments where we were not validated or encouraged. So, this behavior is "normal" and loving. The narcissist love bombs us and seems like a wonderful person at first. The red flags are, the first time he/she insults you or belittles you; that's the deal breaker. I never saw it coming, I got ensnared. Once I understood what I was dealing with, I divorced him! Yes, at the age of 69, I divorced that monster! It's never too late! Get out, stay out! I still have panic attacks and PTSD and I'm free! These short movies are really very good! Thank you for bringing awareness about domestic violence!

[@amelkatrin3464]

Very nice film. When she was leaving (min.20) my heart started pounding so much,afraid her husband would come just that moment!

[@lindaeverett9836]

Its not just men that can be abusive so can women, but if a woman hits a man its either laughed at or ignored. A man should never attack a woman and a woman should never attack a man, it's wrong.

[@kathyharrington546]

Yes that is true But you don't have to be hit man or woman. Stand up.. be strong. For your self and your children.. 💪

[@Saleigh]

Agree

[@ashwiniupasani2120]

So sorry you had to go through this. Is there any public information available where people have been booked for domestic violence

[@katrinahindley2242]

💯 agree with this

[@erinalyward8418]

A person doesn’t need to be hit for it to be an abusive relationship. Verbal, mental and emotional abuse is just as bad. Words do hurt just as much as sticks and stones. Women abusers are really good at this type of abuse

[@sandismith5349]

So many years of abuse from a narsacist manipulator. I took my two daughters and left. Drove 12 hrs. To another state,thats the best thing I ever did. The small things you leave behind,is just stuff. Starting over is well worth it. I say this with all my heart,to the men and women that live through this kind of abuse

[@tttcloud7285]

I hope and wish that you are now living the life you deserve…. Happy future to you ☺️

[@faithoye-akinpelu127]

Thanks so much. I was there too.

[@MC-mk6gs]

I l had to give my daughter up because of my ex narc and they are NARCS as well

[@rutheniafain5264]

You should have left years ago!

[@rutheniafain5264]

Also, Learn how to spell! 😮

[@anitakoorn3448]

Ive been away from my monster for just over 5 years now. I finally have my power back. The leftovers from the assault that almost ended me, are balance and memory issues. I beat Vertigo, though. He got one year on ankle bracelet and got to keep his job. I am aware that he could appear at anytime, but I'll be ready for him. Be strong sisters. If we stand together, we can heal and grow ✨ 🙏 💖❤

[@dianajames4717]

dam sorry you sent through that. You deserve better. What made you date such an idiot?

[@suzeelewis718]

And brothers!!

[@celestecarrion7190]

YOU GO GIRL!!❤

[@darlenedeluca7850]

God Bless u !

[@theadance7282]

Brave lady, good luck to you!

[@sueridgard9068]

Sending love and caring to all the people out there who have sustained domestic violence. Glad that it is being talked about more. It's not the victim's fault at all. I can understand that it's extremely difficult to get out of the situation.

[@watchme6848]

Yeah it is.

[@BetriceMWold]

It is but I often ask myself why do we keep going back? Can't find answer for this question..

[@freedomgrrrl3263]

Yes and the fact that it is difficult for people to get out make some look complicit in the act

[@lorrainerane2158]

@@BetriceMWold it's because we are afraid of being alone, afraid of not finding love again, afraid of the finances, and usually it is that things will change

[@BetriceMWold]

@@lorrainerane2158 I know you are talking real facts .and this is why we stay in uncomfortable situations. 💯👌🖐👍👊👊

[@jaymierae9890]

I weep for abuse victims who have not broken free. It took me 14 long years to finally leave after many attempts. After years of therapy, I see with much clearer eyes and will never allow anyone to abuse me again.

[@daniellewolff2902]

To all of the women and men who are being treated like this, there's always hope for a new and better beautiful life! I hope you can go find out you're better than you think!

[@lizziandlewy8803]

Lovely comment! 🤗✌️

[@maxinemoore6077]

Danielle Wolf, absolutely, I put up with it for 6 years and left him when my daughter (to him) was 2 years old, I knew I had to get away for my daughter, I couldn’t let her be witness to him hitting me, PLEASE , GET OUT if you are this situation, if not for your own sake then do it for your kids

[@pamelahamrick4230]

Thank you been there it's the kids that are hurt emotionally

[@magicmoonart]

Even if you leave an abusive relationship you can still be in a lot of emotional pain that can continue to ruin your life so I'd suggest resetting your body and mind with dianetics. It's an interesting book. It explains how you don't have to put up with emotional scars

[@mickiroberts3804]

Even when you leave they try and ruin everything you've moved onto. When you have kids with them you never get rid of them. Especially when he brainwashed the kids. I ended up with not only him but my 2 kids also joining in.

[@Ann-qh3kb]

Never ceases to amaze me how they are surprised when they leave

[@freedomgrrrl3263]

Thank you so much for this beautiful encouraging message as I'm about to embark in a whole new beginning

[@samkringle3456]

This is not love just a demon in human form. Sending prayers for all thoes women and men that didn't make it out. Sending hugs to all the Survivors🙏

[@juliecobbina2024]

Demon 🙄

[@Laila-ss8qy]

Soo true😢

[@gracefuller1722]

Survivor il have a hug Thankyou .And sending 💕🙏🏽

[@JulieRushworth-k4w]

Definitely demonically possessed

[@cathyvanzyl6306]

My ex-husband also abused me too much, until I had enough one day, and left. It was hell. I'm very grateful for God's help. Today I sit with the scares, but I'm free.😢

[@lindapatrick2296]

I stayed 18 long yrs, everyday of those scared to death when the next big beating will be. I thought when I was pregnant it would no be as bad, but he actually aimed for the baby within me. He threw me to the ground and tried to kick my 8 month pregnant stomach, I wrapped my arms around my knees to protect my unborn son. My neighbor called my aunt (our renter) to ask if she should call the police, she told her no. I finally saved enough money to pay cash for my divorce. Worked 4.5 yrs as an domestic violence advocate. The reason women don't leave is: you must find them a job, daycare, home for her children, food etc, its easy to say " she stays cause she must like it" which my dad would say.

[@cafe80sarigachu]

Now that i read the BIBLE and read the verse saying Days Are Evil…I believe so..lThats Why We Have To Know The TRUTH…so we will not be naive to know evil people.

[@BetriceMWold]

No woman likes to be beat it's insecurities

[@BetriceMWold]

@@cafe80sarigachu I truly like your remark

[@BetriceMWold]

Thank you I would not turn my bk on my babies especially if a man is hurting them I'm eide or die with minds

[@leannemicheliene904]

So resonate, it was 18 years for me too, had nowhere to go, was told by mom, "you made your bed now you sleep in it" on her doorstep with 2 children, battered bd broken knuckles from been slammed into a,wall over an over....written book to be published, been free since 2012 And been a counselor to those in this dark pit of hell. Nobody understands why and what we go thru , we are survivors xxxx

[@elizabethcampbell1182]

Once you have witnessed violence against women you are never a child again - my sister died aged 52 the first victim of violence I ever saw. Rest in peace Hetty.

[@deannahudson6873]

So sorry for your loss...

[@irenecostilla462]

My heart goes out to you .an angel gone to soon.she is with the angels .my condolences for the list of an amazing angel sister Hetty .love and care from San Antonio Texas

[@deannahudson6873]

Thank you...kinda sad when you morn for people you love while they are still alive...

[@lisalisashellman7640]

I'm So Sorry R.I.P HETTY🌹🌹🌹🌹

[@NYCBIGAPPLE]

Sorry for your loss. May she rest in everlasting peace.

[@sherriewilsey8613]

I couldn't watch this. My ex-husband was very narcissistic, verbally abusive even in front of our children. He always had to be right, had to win. I had always told him if he ever hit me I would have him arrested. I want people to know rape happens in marriage too. Eventually I did get hit, in the face in front of my two older children. And I had his ass arrested. A lot of good that did, the judge sent us to counseling for the sake of the children. As far as I was concerned, I was done. The divorce was bad, financially devastating for me. He paid child support only because the district judge had his wages garnished. That was back in 1996. Here it is 2021 and I'm still single. It can lonely sure but I'm contented and I will fight for peace.

[@carolegray1598]

Yessss girl I've been single since 2010 & I'm loving it & i love my peace & will protect it by any means necessary good for you sweetie good job ❤️

[@jennyvigar752]

Sounds like my story. It does get lonely but I'm content with my own company and my girl (my dog) I just want peace and a happy life

[@marinaountoekpo]

It's not lonely it's a blessing being single

[@magicmoonart]

Yea it's better than being stuck in abuse

[@NYCBIGAPPLE]

Glad u (& I) survived. "Angels" were sent to protect us. We have a greater purpose in life & it is not to be a human punching bag for those who are filled with hate & evil. (Wished I had the knowledge, courage & resources to have taken action sooner but I'm still standing ... and the "red flags" go up quicker now).

[@Anna-or9pu]

Even if you do leave, having to share custody with a monster is the worst feeling. I left over a year ago, but soon we will have to go to court for custody and I have the terrifying reality that he may well get unsupervised contact with our children. How do mothers leave innocent children alone with an abuser? The system is so flawed. There is still the belief that even if a man is abusive, he can still be a good father and his parental rights are more important than the children’s rights.

[@utrnagel9441]

Watch Dr. Ramani on youtube!

[@teresa5007]

@@utrnagel9441 Dr Ramani is amazing, isn't she? She has been of immense help to me in opening my eyes to what is narcissistic abuse. You should also watch Dr Gabor Mate, he's an expert in trauma and the connection between stress and disease. ♥

[@samspearson3637]

Yes, I'm just going through the courts now. My youngest lives with me but my eldest with him. It's my hearts desire to gain custody of my eldest as well x

[@bfd670]

This whole story is so known to my life! It is amazing how spot on it really is! Thanks for sharing the much needed awareness!

[@halbertbrandydechaume8430]

No one deserves this fight back

[@jamiegould689]

I’m so sorry !! This was my mom too.

[@tarantulamum4322]

same as hun, sending u hugs and kisses from the UK xx

[@Ladylibra736]

Hope everything changes for the Better for you❣️

[@tarawehry7105]

Never judge a woman being battered by a boyfriend or husband

[@MarquishaFreeman6043]

So you condone it pretty much??????

[@suzeelewis718]

And don’t judge a man being battered too!!

[@sweettexaslatina55yrsyoung]

Trigger when Boss says: "Let her go." "It is her life." "She chose that life." As a true survivor of DV/Abuse myself , we don't just wake up one day and say "Oh I choose to be abused today !" We survivors of DV/Abuse are not at fault at all for the abuse our abusers do!! 🤗💜🦋✨✨✨

[@KaitlynLorraineBoxall]

I completely agree, Tina. Behind Closed Doors is a very controversial production and I am glad it raises these debates and helps victims speak out openly about what they have been through.

[@daisybenton7784]

Right very well said

[@daisybenton7784]

I too am a survivor.

[@mariasartzis-pellicier1723]

@@daisybenton7784 I am a DV survivor also. Glad you made it out. ♥️♥️♥️

[@mariasartzis-pellicier1723]

TINA- 💯. I am a DV survivor too. Glad you made it out❣️❣️

[@zinhlenosipho952]

The story it was very touched say no to abuse women .my boyfriend he abused me i lost everything in my self esteem and my proud it was jot easy to walk away but i did it i was very proud of my self thank you for sharing

[@lueezec358]

Well done for moving on. Yours is a sad story but I hope things are still getting better now.

[@irenecostilla462]

I'm happy to hear you ended it .that's not love. You are strong worrier woman .truelly proud of you. Never look back .you deserve a wonderful happy life . congrats.

[@sammy5453]

After 5 years , by the Grace of God, I got Lucky & He died...It was getting worse by the minute. I would have have died if he didn't...all the years I tried to leave but couldn't...he always found me.

[@taracollins5597]

I'm surprised her ex-husband was so accepting of her leaving him, she didn't even have to hide from him very long. He sees the kids too, wow. Many abusive spouses don't 'let go' as easily. She was lucky.

[@carolynmirra5634]

I was lucky too!

[@SunayanaSB1998]

Actually. They stalk and harass their victims

[@taracollins5597]

@@SunayanaSB1998 Not always.

[@utrnagel9441]

@@SunayanaSB1998 yep, so true!

[@TripleG69]

Spousal abuse will never ever be ok.

[@neddyconstant5816]

Sad film thank God she & her Daughters left that Abusive JACKASS. Time 3:03AM Fri 8/27/21

[@ButterfliesAreNinjas]

As a survivor of not only sex trafficking by my own mother and with the help of extended family throughout the southern states, with my two younger brothers as well where we would find ourselves in the ghetto's of Atlanta, GA(me age 4, brothers 3,2) thank god this man was amazing and protected us and did not harm us for whatever reason! I can remember he bought us a set of matching white German shepherds, but the main abuse of SA, DV and verbal were all directed onto me up to 6th grade. We moved around all over and were left with family or strange men or I was. The breaking point was when I was 11 my mother hit me for breaking up a fight between my brothers and I punched her back and told her if she ever touched me again that would be it for her. She admitted to abusing me, selling me all because she wished I had died instead of the son she lost before me. I have CPTSD and PTSD from childhood trauma but also being in four armed robberies with the latest being in September 2020...For the record I tried to get her chance after chance so my kids could have a grandmother even though I hated her but she picked one of my four and blatantly favored him and I put a stop to that immediately.' Also I have severe anger issues I am well aware of and I have blocked out most of my childhood before 6th grade and scents, music, sounds, lights, etc will trigger emotions. I know a main trigger is someone touching me especially if we are in a heated discussion not even in a fighting way and I know I see red literally. Why this is I have no idea but it has happened three times and I literally loose my sight, sound, hearing, and all I see is red and I feel rage. I don't even remember doing anything until the event is over and people have intervened. I have no memory from the time I'm touched until I'm removed. It's like a blank slate. Yes I know my trigger and I do tell my friends not to touch me without asking me same with doctors, etc. If I feel triggered I remove myself asap I'm also in therapy and I know what to avoid for the most part but when you compartmentalize you can't always guarantee you know all your triggers... It breaks my heart to see women in this situation as I was in it as a child and I can still be put back there without the physical abuse but by certain actions and words of others. I always tell everyone never ever lay a hand on me or it will be the last thing you do. Mine is more of a mental prison but it can then trigger a physical reaction. I also from a young age was able to tell men that were not good people like I knew my real dad was a pedo(I'm not sure if he started hurting me and that caused their divorce or what as they both are liars and he was a alcoholic) and I can still tell ones that like the kiddies...women as well.

[@diannh2894]

I feel you ❤

[@codzy3532]

keep u in prayers sweetie you need comfort love peace contentment only through God he will give u these things God heals what satan scumbag damages satan has moved through these ppl to destroy you God will defend you give him a chance God bless u sweetie u an your bros keeping u in prayers always xox 🙏❤💐🌹🥀

[@marcellemccalla6325]

Yeah any of us that got abused as children seem to have the " spider sense" about pedophiles. And it's not just the ones who were sexually abused, even the ones where it was strictly mental or physical seem to have it.

[@teresa5007]

Please look up Dr Gabor Mate, an expert in childhood trauma, addiction and a myriad of other subjects. He can guide you in how to heal from the trauma that was inflicted on you as an innocent child by the very people who were supposed to love and protect you. I wish you well and hope that you can heal and find happiness in this short and fleeting life! ❤🍀

[@loricopus3293]

This video sure hit home ( NO pun intended ) I was beat for 3 years straight I can't even to begin to say a the abuse I went through it was pure hell trying to get away but finally one day my dad rescued me but I now have trust issues with men and suffer from PTSD and I get nightmares all the time thinking he is comming for me and I'm going to die 😢

[@phyllis5332]

Warning, spoilers ahead! These two short films are well done and obviously well intentioned. They are both problematic. The martial situation is clearly abusive and the film does a good job portraying how hard it can be to leave an abusive relationship and how help from friends and professionals is sometimes not welcome. The therapist displays several red flags for future abuse. He blocks access to a door to prevent the client from leaving his office, he grabs her arm, he crosses ethical lines, and he puts her in danger by seeing her outside his office and without her prior consent. He’s also angry and verbally aggressive with the woman answering phones. This may be an attempt to show that the counselor is passionate about protecting women and he is stymied by uncaring coworkers. This is evident when, in part one, the woman answering the phones is seen as bored and indifferent. It contrasts with a later scene, in part two, of the wife on the phone. She is friendly, enthusiastic, and helpful. The pregnancy test in the ending scene does not bode well. It was especially disturbing when the therapist caressed a photo of the wife’s bruised face. His tactics are not the way to help people experiencing domestic abuse. He doesn’t really listen or offer steps or a real plan. The film does show how abuse in the home harms children. How about a film where a mother puts up with abuse for years because of her children. Then her daughter comes home from a date with a cut lip or bruises on her arm. The daughter dismisses it because she learned that’s acceptable in a relationship. Closing scene pans out to a car in front of the house. Inside the car the same woman’s son is telling his girlfriend “You would if you really loved me.” Yes, it’s hard to leave. Get out anyway. Document the abuse, have a backup plan, leave a getaway kit with a trusted friend. Take time to heal. Watch out for people who invalidate your experience.

[@phyllis5332]

Getting out may not mean you’re safe. But you’re not safe at home and your children aren’t safe in an abusive home. Get real help and support to get away and stay away. It’s difficult but worth it.

[@kalipono1]

I was noticing these things as well with the therapist however you're overreaching on an abusive therapist. they didn't know how to portray a passionate therapist because he lived through the sake abuse and lost his mother to his father. that was my immediate thought, not abusive. it's what the writers tried to convey. I see this more clearly because I, myself, am a writer. they should have done a better job portraying a passionate therapist. I got the point, though. I think I'm going to write a screenplay about an abused husband but make it look like he is the abuser....give it thatvtwust jn the end. I think this is more important to portray because of its lack of representation in any film or script. this is something that should be talked about. I had a dear friend who was almost killed by his wife. she was physically, emotionally, verbally abusive and he said nothing and she tried to kill him by poisoning him. this kind of abuse goes unreported and happens even more than people could imagine. to this film. it was well done. so tough to watch knowing this happen daily.

[@NeverendingTori]

@@kalipono1 Like you, I'm not totally convinced the therapist was showing signs of future abuse, but he was still a terrible therapist. Sure, he was passionate about helping her because her story hit close to home for him, but there was no need to insert the romance between them. That was the most problematic aspect for me, and it was completely unnecessary. He was her therapist, and he hit on her at the first sign of vulnerability from her. That is NOT OKAY, and any therapist in the real world would have lost their license for that shit. It was downright uncomfortable to watch. If they cut all of the creepy romantic shit from the therapist out of both parts, and his character was just a supportive, empathetic, PLATONIC therapist who was passionate about helping her because he related to her, and occasionally crossed some professional boundaries to make sure she was safe, it would have changed NOTHING about the story, and it would have been much more effective.

[@TripleG69]

No matter what they will never change!

[@MarquishaFreeman6043]

Not True

[@eileenkelly4760]

@@MarquishaFreeman6043 it's 100 per cent true

[@LightworkBeacon]

For any woman, child, or vulnerable person that is in this position, know that you are prayed for. I think of those I may not know yet who need to feel there are people in the world who care. May you find strength and be delivered. We must talk about this. We must be aware of the support and ongoing resources needed. To start: unplug and be a good neighbor. You never know who needs you to pay attention. 🙏❤️🕊

[@tiffanylee6475]

From my experience. I was broken when I met my abuser. I was neglected and abandoned by my parents and my grandmother mistreated me. The perfect setup for a narcissist. We split over 10 years ago and I’m still hurt but continuously healing. I was working him for 13 years. My 20’s were taken from me.

[@ifykykcookie]

This counselor is just as disturbing as the husband. He is throwing out alot of red flags himself.

[@jennawalden8547]

and now it looks like she’s pregnant by him. he’s a controlling narcissist imo

[@gyrlgeorge]

This sends the wrong message. She jumped from one man to another, her therapist at that - who’s shown he too has a temper! (in part one when he fires his receptionist, quite unfairly I may add) Wtf? She needs to get on her OWN two feet.. I repeat, WTF?

[@LifewithSerena0323]

I agree, I did get out of a 15 year abusive relationship and in another one luckily my new partner has never been abusive but his family has been to me and I never learned to be on my own or take care of myself and I think it’s important to learn who you are before jumping into another relationship and as her therapist he should have known better.

[@marieantoinette1360]

Completely agree! He took advantage of her in the first one and made me not want to continue with it tbh

[@buslady3705]

He got too friendly too quick and gave me the creeps. Then he kisses her? Unprofessional, and in the US, illegal. He would lose his license.

[@magicmoonart]

@@buslady3705 he must be American as he said mom

[@liviavallendenez]

The receptionist deserved to be fired

[@cafe80sarigachu]

The moment he slap your face, run and never look back.

[@sherriewilsey8613]

ABSOLUTELY! Never believe for one moment, if you stay you can change him? Ain't going to happen.

[@jewels7282]

or hand

[@kathyharrington546]

Fight back ladies. Don't think you can't whip a man Cause you are stronger than you know. I did fight back. And this shit never happened ever. Again. Believe in you. 🙏💜

[@anneeddrief6055]

I DO AGREE PLEASE JUST RUN !!!!!!!

[@lynncoop4022]

A shove or a push will be a fair warning

[@annawright4545]

Oh, I understand perfectly - the bird knows that evil is infinite but at least it knows the one within the cage, not the outer one....It choses the one it knows.

[@thebestcoolest5276]

Heartbreaking😥

[@kerrymetcalfe2737]

To all the victims of domestic violence ❤ keep strong 😊

[@cynthiamornago7328]

They never change

[@MarquishaFreeman6043]

Not True

[@tindrabeam5922]

@@MarquishaFreeman6043 They might change with somebody else.

[@clairewilloughby7750]

If that was my daughter I would help her what a horrible woman her mum is

[@SunayanaSB1998]

Ya..an atrocious woman

[@carolyndaly9368]

All my bruises were on the inside. Gradually grabbing, pushing, throwing stuff. Empty promises to change. After 11years i fled from Florida to Virginia where family lived. He go deep deliverance and inner healing from horrid childhood and adulthood. He changed! Very very rare

[@theadance7282]

It is possible!

[@noraphillips461]

To all women, it is not ok to get beaten . No excuse, no one deserve to get beaten. Break the silent, it's another step for you to get away from da danger ur facing. Don't let you down, step up & be strong to fight it.

[@priscilladavies2270]

This video made me cry. I went through abuse as well. I was told by a counselor and the minister from the church,that I was ungrateful. You are a stay at home mum, with a house, what more do you want? I was beaten so badly I lost my vision for two years due to the blows on my head. I was pregnant at the time baby was stillborn. I wasn’t allowed to go to the funeral. This was in the sixties. I stayed until he died. Things were so different in those days. I tried to get help. It still hurts to think I couldn’t get help from anyone. I had thoughts of killing my kids and myself. If I knew how to kill them without pain, I would have. That’s how bad it was. I’m okay now. I have my family, grandkids and great grandkids. God bless

[@noraphillips461]

@@priscilladavies2270 awe I'm sad to hear you went through with domestic. May you be happy with your love ones & God bless to you!

[@dianajames4717]

i just dont understand why women would date and marry idiots like that to begin with? i would never date any abuser.

[@Embrace-BB]

This is why you have to obey God and pray for a good husband or wife . Only with God in your marriage it will be blessed.

[@joysynmonds9082]

On my own ! That's profound. Exactly how I have been in my life. But no-one, NO-ONE can abuse a loner.

[@carlaciunci3385]

I went through years of Abuse....for 10 years from some of my kids father's and some guy's that weren't im so so lucky to be Alive!!!! To this day I'm very thankful to the life that I now have almost 4 months clean off of drugs I love being Sober❤and I ❤life!!!×

[@Carly-pr2xw]

You're right. We had the perfect life until you walked through the door. Peace of mind is so much more. There's sometimes it's sad. The mental and physical abuse it so much deeper.

[@Spiritual-Libra]

I just got out of a narcissistic abusive relationship 4 days ago. Seeing this made me realize it could have gotten to this point.

[@valeriegarcia6081]

I thank God! I got out alive!!!

[@irenecostilla462]

To all worrier women out thier .you deserve happiness respect most of all true love . Believe in yourself .keep your positive mind your strength on moving on .it's never to late to start a new begining n leave the old behind .don't wait on one to change if he / she hasn't don't it yet .learn to cut your losses n move on to better magical life .cus it awaits you .time to change the page to your life .make a new chapter .it's time to shine..Let the Journey Begin.💕💯🙏 .you can do it !!!

[@kathyharrington546]

Yes you can. 👍

[@chezza2116]

I got out of absolute hell... .. you can too!!!!

[@ritapaepen6728]

I wish you a lot of courage ❤️

[@lesleymcshanemitchell9651]

This is a Band Aid Treatment film. It goes much deeper than this. And spans acroos eath education and Class. So glad there shelters now and a Female Policewomen is attached to All buse Cases

[@NA-tf8dj]

This is so hard to watch. But needed. 💔💔💔💔

[@mustangsally5051]

Ive lived this....I know what it does..😢

[@ritapaepen6728]

I too

[@anjelynn7314]

I hope you are in a better place 😢

[@pollytheparrot8929]

❤❤❤🙏

[@kimbrown6307]

This makes me so glad I'm single .No man will ever get the chance to do this to me again and yes I've felt the punch if a man and thank God I didn't marry any of them

[@halbertbrandydechaume8430]

No one deserves this fight back .. once they do it it will happen again again they say I never do it again bs they always do it again

[@joyfullypacinglife8847]

I can relate. This happened to me. The only way out is to leave quietly without telling anyone, not even your own mother, father, siblings.

[@marys7206]

@@joyfullypacinglife8847 ami mi mald... esposo todavía me golpea, des pues de 30 y tantos años., nadamos que cambio la táctica , ahora el maldito me golpea, "dormido"

[@joyfullypacinglife8847]

@@marys7206 If I were in your situation, I will not be able to sleep at night knowing that my enemy is next to me.

[@monicaandolina4295]

This happening to me before I was in middle school my ex boyfriend throw me into the poles I rushed to hospital because of him. He wouldn't letting me eat anything

[@marys7206]

@@joyfullypacinglife8847 a veces no puedo dormir. :(

[@sleehahbobbi]

Any counsellor who would disclose his past to a woman living in a violent home should be struck off, because that's a clear breach of professional ethics. In fact, it's inappropriate to disclose his personal life in any way to someone with whom he's in a counselling relationship. If I thought I had sent a woman to see a counsellor who behaved this way, I'd feel ashamed and angry. His behaviour is also very controlling - it's just that in your films, he's being a nice guy.

[@orchidlilly7518]

Sending love to All who have suffered physical, sexual, mental & spiritual abuse.

[@zanaib4923]

People who loved had children in lockdown. The people who weren't really in love they became divorced or beaten.

[@supernova7848]

Marital r*pe still happens. Women can still get pregnant from an ab*sive partner. Just because women have babies doesn’t mean the relationship is good.

[@justinjacobson5076]

Very true

[@justinjacobson5076]

Fact

[@NYCBIGAPPLE]

Praying for the victims. (And to think this wasnt even considered a crime before 1970's. It was considered a "family problem" & police did not respond)

[@lisatorres2377]

Haven't seen this movie, but I will tonight. Miss my mom and dad..they never showed me fighting, only love to each other..but I did respearince abused from my husband and don't know why I lived that

[@valdirmertchaikovsky2290]

Good for you. You got the courage to leave that violent situation . I was brought up I that situation farther violent to me my brother beating we took. He beat my mother too

[@ginaalexander167]

I grew up in this kinda home. Watched my dad beat up my mom for years.

[@samkringle3456]

I am sorry you had to witness that ... Sending prayers for you and your mom healing

[@ginaalexander167]

@@samkringle3456 my mom died when I was 16. I am now 41.

[@ginaalexander167]

Thank you for your prayers

[@samkringle3456]

@@ginaalexander167 I am so sorry for your loss. I pray your mom is finally at peace now ... I am a survivor I know I only made it out. Cause God had a purpose to tell your story and others before. Studying to be a DV advocate.... I belong in that field. That's all I've known my whole life. I finally live in a stable home in 3 years. Just me and my kids. The guilt I carry still is want drives me to help anyway I can .... I am so very sorry I pray you find some comfort your mom is a Hero... I am 36

[@uniquepurpose03]

Me too Gina Alexander, they're divorced now

[@chrystalwilliams1216]

Thank God she got out🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@winsomefoster]

Lisa mother is a witch. Instead of helping her daughter, she criticized her and pushed her to the curve 😢😢

[@JamesSmith-ei5xf]

Question?? If you marry someone and love them why why do men beat there wife's. It make me very very sad and hearts me very bad for a man to do this to his wife. He needs to be beat on show him what it is like. 😭😭

[@MarquishaFreeman6043]

Good question

[@SahanaChakrabarty-i9z]

I think her finding Aaron was the best thing for her. He gave her the love and support that she needed, though he might not have behaved appropriately at first. I'm glad she got the job and turned her life around, but how did she die?

[@tammycavazos1606]

I was and a victim so every body in this situation is different never give up keep the faith in you and your family and mainly in your self you are the shield

[@democraticsovereignty1637]

Like a mule I stuck to my marriage vow until coming home from work to find huge blood blisters on my 5 year old's inner thighs. After being locked in the bathroom for 3 days to stop us leaving him, we managed to escape and flee to a refuge. Our new life is Rural. Horses, dogs, cats, chickens. Very grateful for the peacefulness.

[@karen1974robinson]

My daughter was too scared to leave 😢

[@annamariachristopoulos4263]

I'm a pretty tough chick...I don't understand how the HELL women take this...I would make sure the first time would be the LAST.

[@Zihannya]

annamaria, this may be true for you, but it is not the case for millions of women living this right now. Please do read up on how this does happen.

[@irenecostilla462]

Stay strong we are worrier women

[@kathyharrington546]

Yay. We all need to be strong. Man or woman. Stand up.. nobody has to live like that 🙏🙏

[@eileenkelly4760]

Your ignorance is showing. You know nothing about abuse clearly

[@nichole9943]

I tend to think that way too and although I think men who abuse seek out woman who are more passive and mild mannered it can happen to anyone. You have to think too that abusivers are manipulative and guilt trip you and make you feel crazy. So that's probably why they stay longer than they should.

[@tarantulamum4322]

wth nice to know lisa can turn to her mum for help, omg I'm shocked. my daughter came to me this exact time lady year 4 help her ex bf beat her up, I took my daughter in as a mum would x

[@petrarivera7724]

This is a lesson movie. I have left a buses boyfriend, never hit me around my kids, but when they went to bed I knew it was my time, I got sick and tried and I shaping a stew drive, and got to my door he opened it try to hit me and that's when I decided to fight back

[@monicaandolina4295]

I been in so many abusive relationships with my ex's boyfriend's I expected from them.

[@kathyharrington546]

👍 you go girl.

[@ojoalaba1382]

It's so sad.. sometimes too much trauma can end to madness isn't it better to leave an abuse husband and save your children of lifetime traumas than to stay with an abused husband all in the name of not wanting to hurt your children. If you die your children will be more hurts save yourself and save your children your children needs you to be strong for them

[@oliverking1019]

It's better for me to leave in the street and have my peace. Than to leave with a beast in a home?

[@magicmoonart]

I have always said this but I guess some people are too scared to face uncertainty like living on the street. It can be rough. Not just because you don't know where your next meal is coming from but also because of homeless politics. You can very well be abused by other homeless people if you unknowingly invade their turf

[@megansland8920]

men can be assault and domestic survivors too. Sending light and love to all out there who have survived and fought this.

[@RoseDawsonworld]

There's one little detail people need to truly understand: you can not help someone who doesn't want to be helped.she just kept going to therapy because she started to like the guy. I know people will go wild in the reply section but I believe these women don't have a backbone. This is a simple matter: your significant other starts disrespecting you, you call him out and put boundaries. He crossess them you walk away. Violence needs to start somewhere and these women accepted disrespect until it turned into violence. I honestly have no sympathy for these women

[@monikaknudsen2496]

This older doughter should already understand what is going on and help her mother

[@sherrywilemon5011]

I am a survivor of domestic abuse myself but it wasn't my Son's Dad, he's actually a good man that still helps me to this day. My Son did see one of my abusers hit me, but he saw me fight back and beat the living hell out of him then call the law on him. Both my Son and I played it smart and let him leave marks on us, my Son was like 12. I beat my my ex unconscious and tied him up with a jump rope to the railing on the front porch, the police came and got him and later called twice once to say he was peeing blood, the 2nd time he was misbehaving so I told them if I could beat his ass so they to get busy lol 😂

[@amydavies7222]

Very emotional

[@TYE2020]

Face everything and run or face everything and rise u got a new subscriber

[@joycewright5386]

If I live to be a 100 I will never understand the relationship of domestic violence. I don’t criticize the victims, I just struggle to understand. That’s why I keep watching videos like this.

[@lynncoop4022]

My sister didn't stand a chance,,,The Authirities found her decapitated in the back seat of her car,,,She was disemboweled 😢 Our Family will live with that for the rest of our lives!!!!💔

[@uniquepurpose03]

😔🙁😟🥺

[@stephaniehall6309]

I’m so sorry 😢

[@deborahmcgee7970]

When they get to the stage that they don’t even care run run run and never look back if it’s not to late. God help everyone in this predicament I was there I know what it’s like. But I was lucky I had a great mother who reared my children with me. I’m a grandmother now and thank God my sons have great respect for all women My daughter would take no crap from any man But you have to get out they don’t change

[@rodneybass8353]

A friend of mine hit me my shoulder and back with his hands he did not say he was sorry he lives 5 miles from me. Afraced to be around him. Thank you

[@AngelaRenteria-v9b]

First 3 minutes on point 😢 USED2be the story of my life !! ONLY time he would take my kids out was after being beat up.. smh

[@smnvo1129]

The husband is a monster.

[@anastaiber952]

Blessings to ALL 🙏❤️🙏

[@MsClemmons]

People always say just leave not that easy my husband saved me n i thank god 4 him he should me the real meaning of love he dont call me out my name and if we have a argument he will walk away until we are both able n clam down to talk

[@DanielCarrier-oo5zh]

One of the reasons why we go from one abusive relationship to another is because we don't give ourselves time to heal from the other relationship we don't go to church we don't get in the Bible we don't talk to Jesus we don't talk to the Holy Spirit we don't ask God for his advice or after the relationship we just dive right into the next one and it gets worse and worse give yourself time love yourself more than you love others never more than Jesus he's always first❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@juliamncube7551]

So heartbreaking 💔😢...

[@neeruahuja2014]

These wounds, people can see, how about the wounds on brain ,soul and mind?

[@sidrakhan-b8w]

If it doesnt give you that sense of security and that immense happiness being with that one person, its not meant to be! Leave!

[@kimbrown6307]

If you say you love someone ,why hurt them like this ??? Makes me wonder.

[@utrnagel9441]

They are Narcisst! Some are Psychopath! And even more worce! The not able to have emphatie! Watch raw motivation and mental healness on youtube and also Dr. Ramani on youtube!

[@greentree730]

If you tell your partner to stop a certain thing that is upsetting for you and they do not stop, you have a problem. Anyone that truly loves you would stop a minor things like smoking in the house, flushing the toilet, not making fun of you in public, etc. If they will not change more minor issues, then what happens if it is verbal or physical abuse? The first time any controlling behavior begins or actual abuse of any kind, pack up and leave. If you have said, don't swear at me three times and he doesnt stop, he is not going to stop. You cant say, dont ever hitme again, he is going to hit you again. Dont stay, make a leaving plan and leave even if it means going to a shelter. Never leave when he's home like in dumb movies, no way. Get out.

[@joannsester7968]

This. Is. Good

[@BetriceMWold]

Why did she do her daughter like that this is so messed up what are mothers for.

[@MsClemmons]

Do them how ???

[@NYCBIGAPPLE]

Alot of parents do not want to get involved. (Can they really be called "parents"? I'd lay my life down for my child). Healing for us all who are survivors.

[@ursulasmith6402]

It happened to her, too.

[@taracollins5597]

Sadly, not all mothers are good mothers. My mom divorced my dad after many years of marriage, claiming he was boring but had been abusive to her (he was a hardcore alcoholic & I know he was verbally abusive not sure about physical)...but when she left my dad she was already in A MUCH WORSE relationship with a disgusting demon in human form. And she subjected her kids & everyone who entered that house to his abuse...she never stopped it. He abused her too. So not all moms are good moms.

[@NYCBIGAPPLE]

@@taracollins5597 some do not know how to get out of the abuse; others suffer with PTSD (& to them, the narrative in the head says, this is all you're worth). Fear paralyzes alot of us from doing things (fear of the unknown holds us back). I pray for safety & more resources for anyone in an abusive relationship (no one should live in fear or terror). I pray for healing for all victims.

[@beverlylewiskokoue2452]

Once trust has been violated in such a manner, healing is never complete. It is a constant battle to keep going if you have experienced long-termed abuse. It is not easy--Nor is it meant to be, if healing means forgetting the lesson. From this point onward, be mindful of how you allow people in your life to treat you. There is no excuse for the abuser. Never feel badly or take the responsibility onto yourself for someone, who hurts you. Know that you are enough. You don't have to be in a bad relationship to feel complete. You deserve to feel safe, and you deserve happiness. You are enough.

[@carissablankenship6538]

Love how coldplay song was n the end of other

[@ren9143]

What's the song's name?

[@jerilemons5281]

I Saw Part 1 This Morning

[@lennisefuller5075]

This man/ any man could never close his eyes in front of me...not even for an instant!🤬🔥

[@28478cw]

I would be making a pot of HOT Grits for him

[@mariasartzis-pellicier1723]

Hot oil is much BETTER

[@sarahstauffer4874]

Lol

[@MarquishaFreeman6043]

You watch too much Madea movies....

[@uniquepurpose03]

@@MarquishaFreeman6043 lol

[@jewels7282]

you know why dont you ? the first time or times you call the cops the cops let them go to do it again and again and wont do a thing to stop them.

[@babyparinas4341]

It's a good movie.

[@briannathomas8460]

Well done Lisa