Being a 26 year old virgin who's never masturbated!

[@leopardsong8577]

fellow asexual here, love that you exist

[@div-swatchit.319]

You are an example for all those men who tell women that men can't be asexual just to make women believe that they have to be sexual in order to find happiness or that asexual women are not normal..it's so messed up!! So grateful you opened up about this..keep spreading the words...💜 Men too are asexuals!! 💜💜💜✌️

[@louisastone3510]

Mate, thank you for existing and for talking about this! This made me smile so much because this is literally the first time I hear of someone who feels the same way I do! Even within the ace-community I've never come across anyone who agrees in so many points. I'm just so happy I'm not all alone out there 😍🙌🏼 I literally kept phantasizing about a man who straight up just feels the same and alas, they exist!!

[@Majorie614]

I am so sorry that you have to listen to some stupid comments around lying about not masturbating. So immature and ignorant!! You are absolutely brave and a real inspiration for being so confidently open about your asexuality and educating people about how it can be expressed/manifested. I hope more asexual people will follow your example and speak up about their expressions! Thank you for sharing yourself! :)

[@div-swatchit.319]

Another ace here..glad to know that men too are asexuals!!!💜💜

[@T_AdityaSharma]

You must be having an incredible stamina

[@louisastone3510]

?

[@vargvikernes4859]

So do asexuak have low testosterone ? What causes asexaulity

[@human7740]

People are so rude and ignorant. I used to be called horrible things like gay when I was younger. That coipve been because I was different, or because I'd never had a girlfriend. I didnt really know what Asexual was back then, but I do now. Its helped me to become more confident, and to beleive in myself. I felt pressured to do things like watch porn and have sex, but now I no longer do. I am also 26 and am a virgin, and I couldnt be more proud of myself for being true. Ive even come up with a slogan. "Im Asexual, so I dont give a f***!"

[@MikeV8652]

Those guys who begin sex or masturbation only because of the "fear of missing out" (FOMO) on what others are doing are FOMO-sexuals. 🤣 I'm not asexual by any means, but I'm a virgin for moral reasons (being single), and I never masturbate anymore because I prefer semen retention, so I believe you 100 percent.

[@JulieMJ]

As asexual woman,30+YEARS old , I can relate ,which we could be understood and find our life partner for companionship.

[@elizabethlynch6544]

It's ok to not worry about the two things. As long as you are keeping your hands busy, it shouldn't be a big deal

[@markgoodwin7809]

Hi @cook-e, just found your coming out video. It was interesting and educative. Hopefully you’ve grown in your self confidence now :-). I am asexual in the process of coming out - right now trying to understand who I am. I discovered my asexuality only recently and am still coming to terms with it. I’m in a long-term allo relationship. I’m closer to greysexual so the “deed” is still on the table, I just don’t want it (on my own). It’s very important to me to preserve my relationship. I love her to pieces.

[@CookeeMonsterr]

Thanks for the kind words about my video. Wishing you all the best with your relationship.

[@markgoodwin7809]

@@CookeeMonsterr thanks man!

[@leanlleva1201]

I've always believed that MEN can actually not like masturbation and sex at all! And as much as I'm into intimacy. I just adore men who can CONTROL. Just actually control. Because to be honest, it might not apply to everyone, but MEN who don't watch porn, don't jerk off, or just are not into much sex, tend to be MORE LOYAL. They will look more of the INTERNAL qualities when looking for a partner. I feel like if I marry a virgin, don't watch porn, don't jerk off, I'd be more assured that he's gonna be faithful and loyal. If many men are just like you. Women will be more assured and less stressed with their men cheating. The more men are exposed to the sexual things, the more they seek for explorations, leads to cheating and bullsh. I'm so glad you exist! ♥️

[@shykat9188]

Thank you for sharing your story. I'm aspec as well. I happen to be sex favorable but I certainly respect you being true to yourself as well. That's awesome! Take care. 🌻

[@johnframe4701]

Hello Alex! I was wondering if you are still gaming - we used to talk quite often back in the day. John

[@Grudgebearer47]

I’m 27, just beat you by one year 😛

[@iusandthefoods]

Do you still had Wet Dream regularly?

[@lyndaleona4819]

Have you ever had an erection and had anything touch it? Maybe you have neuropathy... the feeling is annoying to you? Maybe you are too sensitive like with neuropathy... or maybe you hate it for some reason like hating drugs.. maybe your just really good.... do you think it's bad?

[@lyndaleona4819]

Maybe you think your hurting a woman

[@lyndaleona4819]

Maybe you think your body belongs to God completely

[@lyndaleona4819]

Maybe there are too many mixed messages in your brain or you can't concentrate ... 🤔 Everyone's different

[@lyndaleona4819]

Do you think it has to do with submission

[@lyndaleona4819]

You should stop putting lotion on lol... masturbation is very comforting... are you comforted by female friends sounds like u have tension..... ....... ......

[@creationstation2431]

I have not ever actually left a comment on a video before. I live in the USA. I happened upon your video by chance and felt compelled to tell you that I believe you. I'm not sure why people find it so fascinating (to the point of calling you a liar) to not want to engage in those types of activities in your free time, but I can tell you as someone in a VERY similar situation to what you described, as a woman, that you're not alone in those feelings. It's actually quite validating to listen to you talk about these things, especially because I don't hear this talked about so openly from those who identify as men (correct me if I'm wrong). I identify more closely with the Demi community, but the experience you described seems to be quite similar. I will definitely be following you on Snapchat in hopes of you posting some beautiful pics of your travels. Thank you for making these videos even though people are quick to judge without seeking to fully understand. I'm sure your "person" is still out there - If you're still looking for that sort of companionship.☺💜🖤🤍

[@CookeeMonsterr]

Thank you so much for the kind words about my videos in general. You're right, there are definitely less men than woman on this platform speaking about asexuality it seems like. I'm just pleased to be spreading some form of awareness and understanding for those that either want to try and understand asexuality or think they identify with asexuality in some way.