Being A Backup or 2nd Option

[@Bionistar]

"The strongest negotiating position is being able to walk away and mean it." - Coach Corey Wayne

[@Mr.Yang823]

That's EXACTLY what I'm having to do right now. I just walked. 🙌🏼

[@Poison_Ivy22]

That's EXACTLY what I had to do when a guy was only using me for free 'validation & attention' while he was looking at his other options while leaving me on the back burner thinking that I'll always just be a 'text' away no matter how long he stayed away. I moved on after 5 months waiting for him to make up his mind. I was over him and his games. He tried a few times to come back into my life throughout the next 5 years bc he thinks I'm 'the one that got away'. I had to kindly stop him and told him to move on bc I did. I remained nice to him but never gave him anymore chances. He hasn't reached out to me since. Walking away was the only way I was ever gonna get him to respect me in any degree.

[@croatiancroissant28776]

And that came from his Navy Seal buddy. Trust a Seal to say “screw you, I’m out of this shi* show.”

[@4lugan]

I did it 2 months ago. It was tough, but I am glad I did it. She hasn’t reach out to me. If she does I might go out with her and have fun. If she doesn’t , then she doesn’t and I am ok with that. Anyway, I am not the B, H option. I am the option. I have my sh#t together, 36 years old, physician and businessman, fluent in three languages. I practice fencing and play tennis on a regular basis, I am in good shape. Moreover every time I travel trough Germany girls ask me out and sometimes they even pay for the meal, very different to the place where I live. Jajja

[@Larry-qz3es]

I refuse to be some woman's back-up, 2nd option, and her friend. I have a life to live as a man, not a simp or a beta orbiter.

[@kartell6650]

Larry Lacy it’s rough for me cause I’m fukked up bout her🙄💔

[@ELdASenSei]

@@kartell6650 keep your own dignity

[@Larry-qz3es]

@@kartell6650 Eventually you will wake up and walk away. She does not care about you and the more you spend your time and energy, you are just playing yourself. Live, learn, and learn to walk away, that is how you will find happiness.

[@jaiminluke879]

some dudes literally are just losers that wouldnt have an opportunity to have a girlfriend any other way. they go along with it, not to hurt you, but to feel better about who they are 😂 sad world

[@mitchpol1432]

Sorry what’s a simp? Lol

[@lovemecom3832]

Anyone that treats their partner as a backup doesn't deserve to keep that person because that is disrespectful and demeaning. Valued yourself and dont let anyone made you just only for option or back up.

[@marcusmelton2295]

For me its like this...even if we haven't established a relationship yet. But at the same time, I want to know if your 100% all the way in. And not wanting to pursue other people while we have something between us because I'm not interested in being in a love triangle and waiting for you to decide who you want at all. Either your 100% in or out. And if you want to pursue other people, I'll respect that but don't expect me to wait for you because I'll be moving on with my life and no longer being interested anymore.

[@ryanturner9979]

Yes we deserve better

[@fargeeks]

What she treats you as a backup option while she is with her boyfriend??

[@MADBROW]

@@fargeeks walk away and stop communicating with her. Don’t get yourself involved in a love triangle buddy. Trust me.

[@fargeeks]

@@MADBROW oh I did Of course her last words was of course "LEAVE ME ALONE"

[@strictlycopy1858]

This guy is an absolute f**king legend. Top class advice, not about any of that creepy NLP trick-women-into-bed stuff, but about how to remain centered and true to yourself and not get d**ked around by people. Much respect from the UK. Peace.

[@Ravenex2]

Being an option is not an option! That is the answer to the title of this video lol. It begins with attitude and perception, self-worth.

[@waynetaylor3353]

Anyone that treats their partner as a backup doesn't deserve to keep that person. This is disrespectful and demeaning. Unfortunately, many today do not practice the "Golden Rule"

[@fargeeks]

It sucks when a woman wants you yet has a boyfriend

[@raheemcamal998]

👏👏

[@fargeeks]

@Nana Kwame hehe because that girl who knocks your socks off starts pursuing you?

[@DuckDuckGo99]

@Nana Kwame preach!!

[@jasonstella2277]

No Thanks. Too many other quality woman that deserve this awesome guy (me) to have fun, hang out, hook up with....Thanks for all the great content.

[@4lugan]

23:00 agree with you, but in an another video I said the same I you Replied - Disney love doesn’t exist. Totally agree. My point is - If a girl is healthy and loves you, she will support you when you are facing a disease or down. That’s what my grandfather taught me to “play” on every girlfriend : tell The girl you are broke, you business is going into bankruptcy and see how she behaves. That’s the true proof of love.

[@levitrent4459]

Blood, sweat , tears, hardship suffering.. anything worth being proud of requires these things to be given. Remember don't compromise your wants and desires. You see ppl who work at Walmart who are fat and hate their life don't have girls they want trips they want cause they settled to pay the bills I made the decision I would die for my desires my body language emits that. My energy emits that. Blood sweat tears I mean that. I'm a king of my domain

[@porky6xx]

never play back up or left out, coach knows his shit

[@fargeeks]

You Know something This coach Darius seems to point out a thing or two which Corey says to do but Darius says NOT too Darius is more of a "go straight into what you want or nothing" while Corey is more of a "take it or leave it"

[@jewpsyaltprager4947]

“Red Wings” - watching Detroit play the NHL will never be the same 😂

[@bigeyes3486]

🤭🤭🤣🤣

[@Moniquevandenberg007]

Emotional tampon, I LOVE your work :) Well done, you crack me up !

[@charlesvictoria6800]

Never be second best. Don’t be a robin when you have the potential to be a Batman from another woman.

[@blankearth5840]

Thank you for posting this comment.

[@Doug5614]

The whole "red wings" thing as you put it is a hard no for me. I don't like to rush that at all. I also don't like to rush to eat a cake in the oven before it's fully baked.

[@atbeautyshouse5733]

coach corey.....you are rough :)...straight to the point....women love the alpha male...love your channel.

[@AARONH85]

There is not a woman on earth other than my mom I’d jump through hoops for. A woman wants you or she doesn’t there is NO gray area. I’ve learned women are so disposable but needed they’re part of your life not your life

[@siulong1394]

This happened to me this Saturday. She invited me to join a group of friends for a dinner in a restaurant. Once I was there she asked me to sit right next to her. On the other side there was another dude I knew she had a crash for and she pursued him in the past. She basically spent the whole evening flirting with him right in front of me! And he was reciprocating which made me realise that most probably she was dating him, as well, while she was dating me. I felt humiliated. I'm walking away and not planning to talk to her ever again. What was she trying to prove by humiliating me in this way?

[@iamfrankcaceres]

Thank for this video because I'm going through this situation that I no longer want. I'm not a 2nd choice for any women who wants to keep me around and not take any action with me.

[@deathbybettie]

It's the same with men though. Being the 2nd option. I'm a female and have been an option. Argh so lame. I don't bother anymore. Just keep myself busy. This quote is really good.

[@carriezhao3097]

dreaminNdigital drop him ASAP

[@antoniorobinson268]

This man is the truth. His talks can be proven if done. I like him over other people that give advice because he doesn't come off as a mucho guy that does the opposite behind camera. He walks the walk... test his advice.

[@Jevonnie]

I need her I cant be without her... Im crying ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.....Men who say that get a life stop being so damn weak. Next as simple as that!!!!!!

[@kartell6650]

chuito chuito brooooo shut up🙄😭😭😭

[@MsLotusBlooms]

Gosh, I would love to have a guy like you. You seem so sensitive, confident, and understanding.

[@kaseychannler1799]

Take 'confident' out and you wouldn't want anything to do with him.

[@MsLotusBlooms]

Oh yes I would. He would be an awesome partner.

[@marcusmelton2295]

Kasey Channler in general most girls are attracted to guys that are confident in themselves and who they are and know what they want and have a purpose and aren't afraid to go after it. trust me her saying she would still be interested in him without confidence is complete bullshit. what's 1 of the most important trait girls look for in a guy? its confidence

[@jollywong1118]

I was laughing so hard when Corey stuck his tongue out like a puppy hahaha!!!

[@cozyslug8105]

i was looking for this comment xD lmao

[@MTCoblivsicas12345]

being a backup or 2nd best is never an option.

[@fargeeks]

I was pursued by a lady who has a boyfriend

[@DuckDuckGo99]

@@fargeeks what happened

[@fargeeks]

@@DuckDuckGo99 i had this cute lady who has a boyfriend and a child with him who wanted me to do all these things. She started texting me asking all kinds of personal questions about me and such. She would text me EVERYDAY and it would go on for hours. One time she told me she had stds and was diabetic (though skinny figure). When we went out it was in a group setting, and she asked me if i deleted her of snapchat ( which yes i did) , and then she gets on me telling me that " you avoiding me is whats driving me away from you" apparently i was scolded for not being around all the time to see her. And she told me that she was thinking about giving us a chance but now she saw through my actions and says the trust she had with me will never be the same, and didn't want anything to do with me, and said " as friend you were one of a kind, you were always on my mind" And she did end our conversation by telling me that she had to leave because her boyfriend was coming home, then said that she couldn't message me anymore because her boyfriend is asking questions about me. So when i ignored her, she used that same line to me " Just because i cant message you doesn't mean that i dont want to see you" And then she sent me sexy pictures of herself. Well now she told me she lost all feelings for me right after telling me that she and her boyfriend were talking about marriage. Then says " no more entertaining guys, no more being constantly scared" ( of her boyfriend checking up on her phone) And then proceeds to tell me this: " If you leave , then i would like for us to end all communications whatsoever" So this lady was my coworker and she knew i was planning on leaving and so i did that Oh and she blocked me on social media And finally she told me she was done being friends with me after i messaged her about how she really felt and told me it was pissing her off. This lady was confusing as hell! But i didn't realize that i was being manipulated this entire time (3 months). But one thing she did say to me was that her boyfriend didn't want marriage so the relationship of 5 years was turning blue, so she used me for attention. Oh yeah and one thing she said to me which i think was a big lie was "Youre the only one i talk to" I actually foolishly thought i had a chance with her since her language communicated that she likes me, but yeah i was always out of the picture whenever "her boyfriend" came around. She had me lined up as the next boyfriend while talking to me alot behind her boyfriends back thus showing no integrity and threatening her boyfriend with a possible cheating on him and breaking up with him. She she actually wished that i pursued her and put in effort between us. In other words: Please be a disrespectful man and come between me and my man and take me away with you. I was NOT going to do that.

[@klevdavful]

Man in man just 1:15 mins in I can tell this is gone be golden.

[@Jay-ef2ii]

Being a backup is not the solution. Being a backup is an embarrassment. Technically she is just embarrassed of you even though you know that she knows that she really does not like you the way you want her to like you but you stay with her because she is hot and has good genes (and you imagine a future with her). She may get used to you but it is not 100 percent love coming from her to you. Do you want that? You may say, "But she is fine!" She may be fine but she will always be thinking about that Nerd, Chad, or Simp that got away and you are just her Seven-Eleven Sandwich. You really are the last dude in line. Just be prepared for her not to kiss you in public and be prepared for her to wear expensive sunglasses when she is out with you in public because she does not want to be seen with you in public (but she will tell you something else) and you will fall for it (because she is beautiful). You will never be her number one. You are just the backup guy. She may be yours physically but emotionally she is thinking of someone else but she will never tell you. You will be her beta provider and not her lover. You will be her servant. Her clown. It is best to marry a woman who is a 6 in looks and who has a great body (and who loves you) than marry a Brooke Shields clone and know that you will always be "the last inline" in her world. "You will know once the cop pulls you Over." March 14, 2022. USA.

[@alirezamodares3463]

Listen guys : Don't ever be a 2nd option. Ever !

[@alexc08]

Yo I got offended heavily when it happened. Lol I didn’t even like her personality that much I just wanted to smash and she tried stringing me along

[@lukehart7225]

@@alexc08 this happened to me at work, l got violated for doing something which was wrong, but my gut feeling tells me people at work seem to think I’m weak for not making my more.

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

I disagree. Being a second option is ok if she is your third option. 😉

[@thinzki44]

Being aggressive and dominant in bed is very important in situation like that... A woman will lose interest in you if you dont show your masculinity even youve sex before... I've been in situation like that I know I'm only her 2nd option but I'm only testing her if our relationship works if I dont act being aggressive and dominant in bed coz I know she was only cheating to her boyfriend... Thanks Coach Corey Wayne... All your talking about is totally true...

[@thaislinhares5591]

Gosh! How I just loved to hear about the english term "red wings"(I'm typing from Rio de Janeiro). LOL!

[@kessijhones123]

hahhah me too. im from Rondonia

[@TheSigmaNinja]

7:00 Most issues regarding women can be solved by just being a man. Put your foot down and let her know what's up. If you're not getting what you want then put your balls on the table and walk away.

[@moudhafersalhi1302]

Great speeches man! i really like your explanations. No matter how much you love her, does not make her wants you".... so true! Exactly what i was living through the past 3 years... i knew this girl, and the whole time i was her backup option(i discovered that only before 2 months, if i knew it before i would have not stayed)... she left me and just disappeared without news more than 7 times, and everytime she comes back, she found an excuse 'yeah sorry i had problems' and she made a film to get my sympathy, and i forgave her everytime... i let her do what she wants, until the time came where she had no respect for me... and the problem i was "Ok" with that, i thought that the most important is love, and all of this does not count... but i was 100% mistaken!! What i regret now is my lost dignity on the name of "love". Tahnks again

[@sj8801]

Our laws ensure that Divorce is great for woman and a lose/lose for men.

[@zen699]

Hey Coach, I'm a total newb when it comes to relationships and I'm in my 30s. My first girlfriend ever wanted to move in with me at one point but just before doing so went back home 3000 miles across country. We never discussed anything being official but when we first met she told me about her ex boyfriend who actually tried to kill her. I never brought it up but right before she left me I tried to hold her close and she pushed me away saying it's like I had 'faith' and that she was still in a serious relationship with the guy who tried to kill her. Anyway to make a long story short, I freaked because I thought for sure she went home to see him yet right before she left she said she would move in with me when she returned. I sent her a needy email when she did not come home on time as expected and I bassically gave her an ultimatum saying I could not live with the fact that there was somebody else, especially someone so dangerous. I was genuinely concerned for her safety but at the same time I was jealous of this other guy and of where her affections truly lied. I should have just walked away and never looked back but it being my first girlfriend (and an incredibly beautiful one at that) I pined away for months over the internet obsessively. I feel like I did the right thing, but I did not follow through with my convictions because the emotional pain I put myself through was just unbearable. Thankfully we are still on speaking terms but now she is with an old ex (not the killer) with whom she is in an open relationship with. I guess I was letting her know I didn't want to be that guy, but then again they have been on and off for over 6 years now and he's the one that gets to spend the most time with her. I know I should be dating other women, but it's just so hard when you fall in love for the first time. I just feel so incredibly needy being the age I am and never being in any kind of long term or serious relationship. I guess I should just drop the label and play ball as you say.

[@johnnyfaber9955]

Thank you Coach. I've been watching your videos daily for months. Read your book 3 times since January. Your work is great. Thank you for being so generous with your information. This video has helped me more to move on from what I thought was the love of my life. Putting her actions into perspective helps me to overcome the broken heart. She never was worth what I have invested. She never gave me the courtesy to let me know she was having issues with me and all of my actions to make life better for her family and her, at my own sacrifice (physically and financially) held zero merit with her. If any of you gentlemen are giving more than you're getting, take a step back and evaluate who you are with. She's probably not worth your time.

[@juancalderon8652]

It all went down hill since the moment he made the "Period" comment

[@ResetReality]

Ive got my Red wings and also my Brown wings...

[@Hatredkopter666]

HAHAHAHAHA

[@dkeys86]

nasty

[@Eecw1188]

ResetReality 😷💩

[@robot.kareem]

:)))))))

[@nicolesabetti9104]

🤢🤢👎👎😨😱

[@Bionistar]

The scarcity mentality will always be the death of ye.

[@nemo7782]

Wow. Hard to believe that any guy could be 'booty call' when most folks thinks it is just women who fill that role. Have to absolutely agree that this position is BS. NOBODY should ever settle for that role- male or female. It's better to be single than suffer through that crap.

[@nr4756]

Hahaha Her emotional tampon haha. So so good!

[@2bjjones]

Well, that's a given. What kind of alpha male allows himself to be a 2nd option?

[@marcusmelton2295]

I wouldn't. Either your 100% in or your OUT

[@stevekostakis2983]

Spot on

[@AARONH85]

If I’m not getting sexual with a woman at some point what the hell do I have to do with her?

[@briandoile5011]

@@AARONH85 walk away.

[@YourDriverSasan]

I knew it was too good to be true. There’s always a catch 😂

[@Stylebyria]

Ok I listen to quite a few of your videos and I see that it seems like the objective is to get laid for the men. That is specifically why some woman are turned off. People don't want to get to know each other any more everything is about sex. This guy blew it when he came off like a jerk with her whole period situation. Honestly that was a point of no return and his constantly thinking about getting some is probably what she sense and made her want to go back to her ex. You are so right we women never dump men we are in love with no matter what the bs is. And women who accept to be someone fuck buddy just have no self-respect.

[@cindiheaton1048]

I'm a fuck buddy and a woman and I have self-respect! We hang out, have fun, watching Game of Thrones, I might add! and we hook-up! Like Coach Corey Wayne teaches. Better than being in a loveless, sexless marriage, imo.

[@RebelSyntax]

There is some truth to this. At the same time the objective is not to get laid. That is a side effect of being a man(and women) in an awesome relationship. Instead of using sex as a fucking weapon and excuse, women should learn how to live with honor, integrity, grace, respect, loyalty, truth, and above all else a fucking sense of what she wants. Women who would see a man acting Ike cw teaches as just wanting sex are totally lost and need to check their values.

[@LarchiDuchesse]

🤣🤣 emotional tampon 😂🤣😂 Love your work Corey

[@cmejias44]

We use to call sex on period “pulling a Moses” (parting the Red Sea)

[@mauricedrew3150]

Be her backup option. And somebody else will be yours!!

[@rachel183321]

I’ve been the back woman and I’ve had back men before it’s just not worth it now I’m single and I intend to stay with way for the rest of my life

[@rja2208]

How sad

[@firstchushingura]

This video is pure gold!

[@danielboucher9819]

Great advice I have been listening to this vidéo every day, loving are selves first is a priority and every this else will follow long life to the stoic advice

[@harryhavana]

I cant wait until i finished the book 15 times. Read it 13 times now and still have no clue of what its about?

[@CharlesFerraro]

How has it been going with putting everything into practice?

[@phatmanlovescake]

I live at home with family ... so what am I suppose to do? I can't invite my ex to come over cuz I will get no privacy and coach says not to take her out

[@unodostres2009]

Man..i agree with you 94.9 percent . You know 100 percent not exist so.... Anyway i really apreciate your work on all domains..relationship, affairs, life and work, affairs. Youre right and i am sure of that. It s not that i get the right way.. still problems etc but i just realise that you are right of almost everything of what you say so i can blame me because i know i was wrong and put me on right way. If every person will think like that we will definattely live in a far more batter world than we live right now. 💗 and have trust in you that everything you say is right. I wish you all the best and more persons know and apply what you say.

[@spiritual_empath2168]

Sorry but if im a second option then she is NO option 👋 bye! If she's still talking about or bringing up her ex or other guys cut her! 👋 bye! Furthermore if she keeps you around as a second option & dumps her ex to start seeing you right away what makes you think she would'nt do the same shit to you..? Think Mcfly! Think!

[@albertoverissimo2790]

There is something that I don't understand. He always says that it is better to walk away and don't look back when a woman gives you the "Let's be friends" speech which I agree but he sometimes says in his videos and in his book that he still communicates and hangs out with his exes. How is that? Aren't we supposed to cut all communication unless they change their mind? I don't understand that part very well. Can anybody give me an explanation? Thanks. So far his relationship advises have been great. Those little things everybody screws up, me included, make the real difference when it comes to dating and relationships.

[@joesmith3650]

I guess it means it was an agreed upon breakup, not being dumped or friend zoned.logical right?.

[@AARONH85]

I’ve had sex with many of my exes. Men can end relationships too. I’ve dumped girls, I don’t fuck them all, but a lot of girls I’ve dumped I’ve fuck after shit was over

[@matts6287]

It’s because of this awesome quality advice that I listen to CW everyday.

[@nathancomtois6178]

😂That puppy act though!! Corey your fucking hilarious man.

[@blankearth5840]

What does it mean when a girl says she doesn’t know the differences between a platonic relationship and a romantic relationship?

[@cheesyid1000000]

in recent years, i've always been a back up thing, and more like 3rd or 4th option, the problem is, its always the attractive players who are more receptive to you, or make the moves on you, i tend to get easy guys and thats the problem here, they go with me, and they go with anyone else too. I always land myself with compulsive sex addicts, and its really not what i'm looking for, its a committed ugly guy, who thinks i'm great is what i really want

[@TheOfficialLuke1]

Hearing the 2nd dude pained me so bad... willing to go against his values as man. Pathetic with no honor. He sounds like he doesn't believe he could do better. Total lack of confidence and self-esteem. I hope he's able to reflect and realize this.

[@supernerd7093]

a back up is what every man is if a better option is viable to a woman. and even if you are married(but you are an assistant manager at a hardware store) and a surgeon at the hospital your wife works at comes on to her ..she will cheat on you and if she thinks he will take her as her primary woman she will divorce you in a heart beat!

[@ExtraLayer]

The above case is similar to mine but the problem is How can i walk away as she sits just next to me in office, ignoring completely sets up a very negative environment and i am fun loving guy. So i talked her once, what should I do?

[@flexkitten]

I know you make your videos for a male audience but I really enjoy your messages. It’s good advice and I really enjoy your occasional candid remarks.

[@joey_-__-_88t90]

well i want some opinions im dating a girl for 8 mths already she invited me to her apartment and told me if i can stay over soo i did now a week later shes saying that were moving to fast and she wants to slow down im like what we have already been doing soo much and now you think that ??? soo she communicating less we hangout less so idk whats going on

[@vita-zmixsouthafrica6755]

Still true message in 2020 as it was 2-3 years ago. Bravo Corey Wayne

[@kewl800i]

What if the girl reaches out and ask questions concerning her work? Should I answer her questions then ask her out? Sometimes, when I answer her questions she doesnt answer my invitations anymore

[@lukehart7225]

There’s this coworker who has a boyfriend, if you were into her would you tell her that you’re interested then walk away?

[@kewl800i]

@@lukehart7225 is this question for me, or is this your answer to my question? Hehe

[@lukehart7225]

@@kewl800i sorry it’s a question for me, was wondering if you could answer it, I’ll help you out too if you need help.

[@kewl800i]

@@lukehart7225 Personally I will not pursue a woman who has a boyfriend. But I think in one of Coach's videos, he said to ask the girl you are interested with, then if she said "she has a boyfriend", you just answer,"ok great! Let me know if it doesnt work, I'd love to take you out for dinner". Then leave it at that and wait for her to reach out again. At the same time, move on with another woman.

[@lukehart7225]

@@kewl800i cheers bro, really appreciate it! she’s told me in the past she has a boyfriend so when I get my next opportunity I’ll tell her that I’m interested but let me know if it doesn’t work out with the bf” like what you said. What about your situation?

[@urssssu]

I've had a girlfriend like that for 6.5 years and when i manage to buy a house together,i got caught in work and decorating ,living the dream,happy with my hobbies,she cheated on me with an uneducated cooworker,dirty toothless rat,not exagerating.During 8 months i tried to get back as i was unsure she lyed and cheat,but the truth came up at the end.Never said i'm sorry ,not feelings whatever,i was shocked after those years we had good times,she discard me this way.I've suffered a lot ,but recovering now ,watching Correy's videos and reading his book which gave me courage and hope.Still living with her,as awaiting to sell house ,is a nightmare knowing she's sleeping with the other dude,i have no more feelings,makes me sick,our time is over ,when i'm out i never look back and run.Sometimes when you're to kind ,people understand wrong,they treat you as stupid.Good luck to everyone and success in your relationships.

[@ofertasimplepanama9875]

Adrian Mihaluta you need to bring a girl to the same house to have sex whiles your ex is around. Be smart

[@KaranBali108]

Can people even live with themselves or look at themselves in the mirror when being dicked around like this? Like its a no brainer the moment I see some shit like this happen im walking away and cutting contact even if they come back. Red flags are ridiculous. Persons character is already soured in my eyes at this point.

[@teddychodon2626]

Thank u for the wisdom !

[@jorgemartinbg]

What’s wrong with being a backup? Lol you get all the fun.

[@kevinrally7119]

I like the way he talk and figure out things

[@legendary4137]

29:02 :D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D you are soooo fucking so awesome, your presentation so awesome bud. I really enjoy your videos and learning so many fucking golden realities :D Good Job.

[@AlexDortschy]

😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@777sinister777able]

sex is wonderful and beautiful even if it looks like a murder scene afterword lmao bahahhahahahahahahaha!!!

[@lindseyhebert5568]

I feel like I’m treated like second banana they treated me like #1 for 2 years until last night because I missed out on my Groups show now I feel like I lost everything I had that they used to say I was sweet and #1 to them I feel like I deserve it back

[@chrissymarsha2282]

I know this may be weird, but you're giving me a vibe of a handsome football bully back in the days loll

[@Ma-yb9zt]

I was never an option

[@mattabath3429]

I love watching your videos. Your best

[@jermainemcintosh9351]

You out here running red lights? nah can’t agree with that one! shaky move

[@dedissimo]

The bit at 7:00 had me laughing all the way to the floor

[@newcosmicgirl]

Move on bro....lmao 😂😂😂😂

[@fargeeks]

Hi mysterious

[@notairmac6319]

My girlfriend broke up with me over a miss understanding(maybe a excuse) and after I explained myself she said that she was wrong, I text her a few days later about being back in a relationship after some silence and she says that she just wants to be happy and that she’ll text me tomorrow, it’s been a week now and she hasn’t contacted me at all, does it mean no, or am I going to far into it and should just wait??

[@bennythedennis]

So I’d go no contact here. When she reaches out to you next you invite her to your house and have a date (hangout, have fun, hook-up). If she is resistant to going to your house and against a romantic relationship with you, then tell her to get in touch when she’s ready for a romantic relationship again, or when she’s ready to hang out in a romantic capacity.

[@JCRockfeider]

Corey teaches to kiss the girl on the mouth on the 1st date to test her level of attraction. But what if the girl is already asking u to come over her house and/or when is she going to see you next (right at the end of the 1st date) but she gives you the cheek when you attempt to kiss her on the mouth, do you flush her number or do you go on a 2nd date?

[@Blodia1990]

ROCKFEIDER go out with her only if she asks you out and go for the kiss...of rejected again then you never hit her up and if she asks you out tell her you guys aren't a good fit

[@jeffreyjourdonais298]

Do you call her on this or just move on?

[@rja2208]

Too many fatherless men running around with low self esteem

[@mmoran0614]

3:36 Haha!! damn! :) love it. Best feeling in the world when you go in, all expenses paid.

[@youngrozay3576]

No matter how in love with a girl I am or have been, I have never and will never be able to do the red wings shit. Hell nah I just can’t 😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭✌🏼

[@Orgizo08]

Same here lol

[@2tooful]

I love your videos and everything but why are there contradictory videos? Like here don’t be anyone’s second option but in other videos always leave the door open don’t burn bridges etc?

[@CharlesFerraro]

Great question. Not being a second option just means apply ‘no contact’. You don’t have to block their number or social media or anything. That way you get to leave the door open but also not pursue them. If they hit you up then just ask to hang out the first two times they text you. Make sure to call when asking them out. If they say no the first two times they’ll probably never reach out again. If they do just act busy and don’t talk long... they’ll get the message. And if they miraculously ask you to hang out after all that then game on! As for me, my ex hurt me about as bad as she could. Basically took the apartment, took the dog, my savings, got an abortion AND started fucking another guy immediately. I STILL haven’t blocked her. And you want to know why? Because I want her to see me win. I want her to see me get better and better while her looks hit the wall in six or seven years. I’ll undergo continuous self-improvement. She’ll get to take a sideline to MY life. And in the meantime I’ll date a hotter/younger women to build a future with while she’s miserable with her shitty life decisions. All she is to me at this point is a reminder to stay motivated.

[@RebelSyntax]

He's talking about making the ex earn you back. Other videos he talks about if you apply these principles even if the ex does come back you realize they aren't gonna be girlfriend material. So ultimately you flip the script and that ex becomes optional for you. Thus, a sex playmate. Options are for relationship options. Keep the door open is just to hang out have fun and hook up, if you haven't found someone better.

[@tanaramafam8858]

A high quality woman won’t be dating/cheating on their ex/boyfriend while they date someone else behind the ex/boyfriends back because they don’t like how things are going. Instead the woman will communicate or express what she wants or what the issue is. If those needs aren’t met then she will break up and wait a couple months to heal before she meets someone new. If you are a possible replacement or backup while she has boyfriend or dates ex, then she would do the same to you if you were in a relationship with her.

[@jennifer-roselemon6459]

@@RebelSyntax so it’s okay for a man to make a woman a sexual option, but women do it and she’s unworthy? Lol hypocritical.

[@RebelSyntax]

@@jennifer-roselemon6459 are you projecting? Lol. You are welcome to reconsider calling me a hypocrite. Just replace 'girlfriend' with 'boyfriend' and grab your panties from the kitchen on your way out ;)

[@randysosa9914]

question to anybody who reads this, how do you communicate to an ex gf that it isnt okay to keep coming and going as she pleases? because if i ask her to come over to my house when she reaches out isnt that communicating that is okay to do that or how does it work?

[@randysosa9914]

also are exs ever abel to move up from just being friends with benefits after they done wrong or is it not possible? and if they are what are the signs to look at if you can take them back?

[@sirmodd6199]

FOH… Ain’t no ketchup going on my hot dog… 🤣🤣 better start showing what that mouth do…

[@TheSunshinefee]

men are only back-up options for beautiful women they desire. there are plenty of other women who desire them equally but they don't want them, they want the beautiful women.

[@stevenplace3108]

Cory my name is Steven and for 5 years I been with this girl been through fights, break ups, good and bad time also had a child with her and lived with her. we were happy she kept asking when we will have another baby and get married and we were a happy family but a month ago she been talking to this new guy and she says she's in love. 11/29/15 she told me that she's gonna be alone and be hanging with her mom and I had to stay at my mom's bc I had to work and she didn't wanna drive me well I missed my family and went up there she was getting high and laughing when I got to the doors I stayed outside calling and I had enough I knocked on the door. she came out scared I said really and I told her if he doesn't leave and I do where over so she told him to stay and I lefted. I didn't talked to her until 12/01/15 she talked to me saying that she loved me and wants me badly I told her I want her but she made a choice next day she told me to give her apartment keys back and we were over I cried and begged but nothing and she will think about it later that night I drove up and knocked on the door for a hour in the snow and they was upstairs they didn't answer. next day I bought her a ring and drove up there and I got inside and took her upstairs and proposed she said no and she can't she said she loves him there together they fucked and were done no kisses nothing. they called the cops I lefted and from on there I begged and she said no chance and no she is telling me she loves me tells me look good and she keeps huging me and when she lefted she sound sad. she called me and text but she said no us and I told her I don't wanna lose our family come back let's get married and have another baby she says no what do I do. I been praying she also said she's depressed but won't tell me?

[@marcusmelton2295]

cole jazz that's what's your problem you were seen as needy I mean I understand that you want your family back together but still she kept denying you because she saw you as needy and desperate and and if she didn't want to drive you then that was wrong on her part because there's nothing wrong or shouldn't be a problem with a girl driving her man to somewhere and if she really doesn't want to do anything like that for you that involves driving you to somewhere then forget it but move on and try to see if you can get custody of your child of since she was talking and fucking around with another man just a suggestion but still don't keep pursuing her just leave her alone and don't do anything at all focus on your child and if she isn't there to help you with the child but is fucking and messing with the other guy then and doing all of this stuff then try to get full custody of the child and only make the child a priority not her since she's with another guy and it obviously seems like she isn't interested in keeping the family together so get full custody of the child and basically fuck her aka don't worry about her or try to bring her in or pursue her like contact, verbal and nonverbal contact, don't bring her anything basically don't do anything that would be considered pursuing and don't give her anything and if she calls back again and again don't give her attention just worry about you and the child since she's with someone else. and don't make her think she can keep coming back to you whenever she wants because she's already made her decision by fucking and talking to someone else so put some boundaries and don't and forget her because she doesn't care or love you since she's with someone else and fuck her being depressed because she showed that she didn't care for you and that she was into someone else so if she reaches out to you because she's feeling some type of way fuck it because she doesn't love or care for you and if you give her some support based on how she's feeling to her she's going to think that she can jeep doing that but yet she still won't feel the same about the relationship based on her actions but focus on you and the child that's it.

[@stevenplace3108]

Negan Tatorship ya you right I need to forget been a year in a half I still miss her buy I got a gf now her dude cheated now she with another guy than us but I'm focused on the baby, my boxing and MMA

[@andreguitarronerone5297]

Cole Jazz she don't know what she wants she's torn between the 2 of you guys i would just move on with your life and don't look back all the best to you thanks.

[@bryancrawford5211]

Hey baby why don't you come over with a pitcher of water and will make dinner together. Lmao yup using that sometime. 😂

[@phatmanlovescake]

Lmfao ... im gonna use that too hahaha

[@RebelSyntax]

Lol stealing that one too! I've got one right now doing the "I want to see you but not at your place" dance for weeks now on a dumper. She keeps texting tho lol

[@qbostic3375]

I know wrong video but lost a girl over a misunderstanding.. one that wasnt serious. Anyway we met a year prior hit it off. Couldn't really get together too much, so in the middle of courting she took another. No biggie. Now sometime later she comes back. Now we were intimate for 10 months. It was a Fwb situation. Well over the course I developed little bit feelings. Turned into a homie,lover,friend. Atleast in my eyes. I been shutdown emotionally awhile. She woke me up. So out of nowhere again when I turn slight pressure. She ghost. Background on why we fell off. I was in the area getting my property from a pawn. Which is near her house. Seen her leaving approached her. Just to see if she alright. Haven't heard from her in 4 days. Which last time was intimate. She was in a rush late for work. Cool later on get a text saying stopping by was uncalled for without notice. Dont contact me no more. What happened there lol?

[@jannieschluter9670]

This video was really painful to watch.

[@terrencedabney843]

Periods don't stop nothing but a sentence...

[@ryanturner9979]

Lol Corey is a great guy Red wings 😂😂😂😂

[@john-oh9cr]

I don't mind being a backup or a second option , just in case I don't have nothing going on . But I am not going to be making my night a , I may go out with this girl . It's going to be if she calls and I ain't doing nothing then yes but if I'm doing something and I am not going to arrange my whole night for girl that may have another plan .

[@thatrayguy37wc]

Red wings 🤣😂🤣😂

[@jmoneymaker96]

I often find that women think I'm boring in bed and they do this backup burner thing on me. How do you have better sex when you are fairly conventional like me? I feel like it's tough to get better when you yourself know what you like but what I like is not what girls like.

[@aftrdrk7263]

hahaha his puppy expression..but so damn true..

[@shrapnel77]

No Corey, no. Have had sex with heavy periods and it ain't no fun. It's quite disgusting, actually.

[@MsLotusBlooms]

I like your advice.