Being Bisexual In Relationships | Q & A

Hello boys and girls today I'm doing a Q&A answering as many questions as I can, we are talking about bisexuality in relationships, some of my hobbies, what's my perfect guy and so much more.

[@lumiao1685]

'she said she didn't mind' .. I WISH I met a man who told me he was bisexual..

[@Courtney-Jai]

There's alot of guys on my channel who are bisexual also I'm bisexual 😋

[@jannygravanto3705]

im bisexual too... and i want to have a friendship with you

[@tcbell3694]

Yep. So do I!

[@thesundog8833]

Why do you wish that?

[@privatelove7898]

You really don't 😭

[@Courtney-Jai]

sorry my lights are a little bright

[@darron1969]

In the US that is slang for my nipples are hard. Sorry but it made me laugh!!

[@Courtney-Jai]

darron1969 haha that might be the funniest thing I've heard

[@meljundadag4483]

Hi

[@aquariusnot_real6491]

I love seeing that you posted I genuinely get happy. When you started questioning your sexuality you and your friend explored it together my friend just kissed me and we never spoke again the difference between us.

[@Courtney-Jai]

Sometimes it can make things very awkward or it can make you understand one another on a level most people can't

[@ibruceeasily1728]

Tb to when my girlfriend held a grudge against me for a year because I told her I was bisexual and she thought that I was into guys more. And she made me feel like a piece of shit for it for a while. Kind of my fault I didn’t tell her for a year and a half. But at that point I’d only told one other person. We’re good now.

[@Shark97281]

Mind if i ask how are you and your girlfriend doing now? Do you feel like you are missing out because you are not with a man? Do you see yourself being exclusive to her for the rest of your life? Be honest.

[@pancakesrbombford8313]

I CAME OUT LAST YEAR. IT FEELS GOOD NOT TO HAVE TO HIDE MY FEELINGS

[@Courtney-Jai]

It the best I always compare it to wearing a mask all your life and finally being able to change it

[@Courtney-Jai]

my question to you guys is what do you want most in life

[@mavexx]

Same

[@aliceagren2670]

Courtney-Jai travle

[@kennethbullard4225]

To be myself without fear of discrimination and to make enough money to live happily!!!! Also, find someone to share a life with!!!!

[@robertjazz3613]

Living happily with my lumbersexual man in our minimalistic house, and pursuing my acting/filmmmaking career.

[@kevaunthedreamer5810]

I would like to become a famous actor/writer.

[@OLDS98]

Congrats on your new apartment. You are making progress in your life. You are looking great too. You addressed the question about your girlfriend and about you being bisexual and about you being with a man. I did not ask the question, but I wondered. That is great what your mom did. That is a memory you can cherish.

[@mavexx]

I love your videos, I'm bi too and your videos helped me so much. Keep it up💗💕

[@Courtney-Jai]

I'm glad I could help

[@jiliandepaz2275]

I have a bisexual bestfriend. We made into relationship but later on he realized that we aren't fit to have deeper feelings for he is not yet ready to enter relationship with girls. So yeah, I'm still waiting for him to realize that I am the one

[@SteveJFrost]

It has been a while. Great to see you again.

[@Courtney-Jai]

Well it's lovely to have u here again

[@semschop3056]

Always love to learn more about you, and for my answer on your question what I want most in life is to just be able to do as much as I wand in the way I wand it wen ever I wand it if that makes any sense💜

[@Courtney-Jai]

That seems like a very reasonable answer

[@Noah-ITL]

I wonder why so many bisexual men especially never come out!? 🤔 Great video. Can I ask something, as a bisexual man you're clearly attracted to the feminine form, however with mem are you attracted to more feminine men Or more masculine looking men?..... Have a great day!

[@Courtney-Jai]

I'd say more masculine men Henry cavill , Michael b Jordan but the main reason alot of bi guys don't come out is because they are probably the most scrutinised from people within the lgbtq+ and people outside of it. To other queer people bisexuals can walk that line of appearing straight and alot of queer folk don't like that. See a bi guy with a man he's gay when he's with a women he's straight or lying he's gay generally how bi guys are viewed. As for women they tend to be over sexualised as bisexual unfortunately thats down to media and such.

[@Noah-ITL]

@@Courtney-Jai thank you. That's Interesting. Have a great day!

[@surmaster4618]

Just wanted to say your channel has great content 👍🏼 & you're really handsome 😍

[@Courtney-Jai]

Just want to say thank and I hope the new content to

[@surmaster4618]

Courtney-Jai thank you. what do you do to have such glowing skin?! What do you eat? Any specific skin care products?

[@jamiefordx]

Missed you on youtube! I’m hype that you watch Game of thrones! ♥️ What’s your favorite house? :)

[@Courtney-Jai]

Well I don't really like any of the houses I think they all have their down falls but but I like tiryan and aura (think that's how they are spelt) ones just cocky and clever the others a total badass

[@zachevens4271]

Missed ya glad you are back :)

[@Courtney-Jai]

Glad to be back

[@HelloKittyGal16]

I want to be understood and I want to understand myself wholeheartedly.

[@Courtney-Jai]

Your at the right place

[@Juliana-xe4rr]

so hi, i know this video is kind of old but i need help, ive been dating this guy for about a month and he told me last night that he was bi, i still love him im just not happy that he waited to tell me, and advise ?

[@Courtney-Jai]

If anything you should be very happy it means he feels safe with you , telling people you are any sexuality from what's considered the norm is very hard and we only do it if we feel a true connection with someone so don't be mad with them respect them because he's no different from the day before and making him feel that way will only make him regret his decision to open up to you

[@RD-kw7mk]

I’m always afraid to tell a woman I’m dating I’m bi. I have some deeply seeded fear theyd leave me because of it

[@taehyungsboxysmile2303]

R if she likes you enough she’ll stay 😃

[@morgannyhan6875]

Omg shit the bed orange juice and pizza are my favourite foods too 😂

[@Courtney-Jai]

I love me some OJ

[@mavexx]

Youre so cuuttteeee😆😆😆❤❤

[@parkheeso7165]

I am a girl who inlove with my bisexual guy who is my bestfriend.. Please help me because i know he is not interested in me and fuck i can't control my feelings anymore.. Last night i asked him many things about his past relationship with both man and women he ever date and he really open with me.. What should i do now? I don't want to ruined our friendship but i inlove with him..

[@tiktokcok6107]

You are so freaking CUTE! HOLY COW :)

[@Courtney-Jai]

U r very kind

[@_echointhevoid_]

Yes more Q&As!

[@Courtney-Jai]

There's gonna be one soon so stay tuned

[@Sasha.studios_official]

Courtney i missed you

[@BOKsOo95]

Love it 😍

[@johnmoon3848]

You're a very wonderful and beautiful person!! ⚘

[@jimkaragkounis4750]

I though i might actually be straight but then I saw him in that shirt

[@ollyhendrickx7901]

🤟💛 thanks Courtney J’ai

[@simonluigiphillipson90]

I wish I had a boyfriend like you jai 😢😭

[@julianbaumann9500]

My bf is bi and i'm just kinda scared he might not like girls the way he likes boys and idk what to do

[@Courtney-Jai]

Talk to him thats the point of being in a relationship with someone if you can't talk to them , then there a deeper problem there.

[@kayjay6238]

Whoa didn't expect you to be an orc, a pretty solid choice tho. Also good choice on OJ and pizza

[@Courtney-Jai]

Orcs are cool

[@janmichaels8550]

You’re awesome love your presence you’re totally cool wishing you the very best thank you Jan Michaels

[@Courtney-Jai]

Thank u very much

[@oriolsalvador]

Ryan Reynolds 👍🏻 🔥

[@ruvenw4317]

Love Italian food too because my grandma is Italian✌🏻👍🏻

[@Courtney-Jai]

Nice does she make fresh pasta cuz that stuff is amazing

[@EddieBryan]

Into any meditation? Any vegetarianism? Astrology, reincarnation?

[@Courtney-Jai]

I like the idea of recantation I have meditated in yoga and I like having a varied diet wouldn't mind going vegetarian in small periods but I don't think I would stay as one.

[@Isa-cr7fd]

I said yes daddy I do 😛

[@Courtney-Jai]

Fair enough

[@najeebirfani]

HI BUDDY CAN YOU PLEASE GUIDE IN PRESENT COVID 19 PANDEMIC CORONA VIRUS DOING SEX WITH PARTNER IS HARMFUL OR NOT

[@Idrick-fu7sz]

I have a crush on a dude and I want to get close but don’t know how to talk too him scared he turn me down

[@Courtney-Jai]

Well talk to him as friend would most important thing to find out is if he's queer

[@Idrick-fu7sz]

@@Courtney-Jai he is a queer wat I love about him

[@Not-Ap]

Do you do video request?

[@Courtney-Jai]

Depends on the video idea if I like it I'm happy to do a video on it

[@Not-Ap]

Courtney-Jai Ok fair enough. Would you consider doing one on the difference between guy who's just experimenting vs a full on bisexual?

[@Courtney-Jai]

@@Not-Ap yeah sure sounds like an interesting enough premise

[@ham__za7833]

I'm in love with you ....I'm bi to 🔥😉

[@Courtney-Jai]

Haha love is a little strong lol

[@Vizible21]

So do you still have gay sex while being in a relationship with a girl?

[@Courtney-Jai]

No I don't have an open relationship I like monogamy

[@Alex_Dra]

Who do you think is a handsome girl? (Girlfrend does not count)

[@Courtney-Jai]

haha not sure I can answer that one without messaging her, I think any girl can be attractive different aspects make someone handsome/attractive personality , nice teeth , pretty eyes I'm not to bothered about height hair colour breast or bum size I just need to like the girl and then see where it goes from there

[@hyakintos]

You are like these all gay men from regious organisations who say that they are gay but can be with woman because of romantic attraction and their sex life is "fabulous". They don't say that all is one big fake.

[@Courtney-Jai]

Grammar. If you're going to be a twat, at least learn how to spell.

[@klodegarazeval8813]

He's so handsome

[@Courtney-Jai]

Your so kind

[@Growvloggiepolkadots]

Do you have a bf right now or a gf?

[@Courtney-Jai]

I have a gf all though it's funny how you put only a gf somehow insinuating that's a down grade

[@Growvloggiepolkadots]

@@Courtney-Jai That was a blunt typing error .I corrected . I was just curious .No bad intentions here .

[@surmaster4618]

Hey Courtney I have a question, Do you date other bisexual women or men? Or you date gay guys? I would like to understand your perspective.

[@Courtney-Jai]

I've actually answered your questions. By making a video about it thought it was an excellent topic to talk about so thank u

[@surmaster4618]

Courtney-Jai awesome, sweet! I'll be sure to check it out. Thanks man! What would it be titled as?

[@zorgodiffusealveolar4406]

I'm 11

[@yewani4018]

Hi

[@jannygravanto3705]

i want to have a relationship with respectful person and i want to travel with them in other country

[@Courtney-Jai]

Very respectable goals

[@harkapas5601]

Cool

[@Pradeep_889]

Hi, Indian here.

[@clossbm]

He is so freaking cute :3

[@Courtney-Jai]

U are very kind

[@patricksiege1965]

how old are you?

[@Courtney-Jai]

23

[@spawnofhell4981]

Going for deadpool

[@Courtney-Jai]

Deadpool is pretty awesome my fav super hero is spawn

[@spawnofhell4981]

Ya plus Reynolds acting made dead pool 1-2 my favorite marvel movie spawns my 2 next to dare devil

[@mithzynelson3110]

Cute!

[@Courtney-Jai]

Thank u 😋

[@vasilymoskalenko5682]

Commando 😍😍😍😍

[@kristoffigdalino1951]

hu babe i love you 😊😊

[@MarioPerez-ro1rm]

God! You’re handsome

[@jhonclarkmendoza1959]

I love crush!! Pleas accepted me gay love ❤️

[@Linkfireshrine]

There is always that one guy to dislike the video

[@Courtney-Jai]

Of course there is but that's the internet for you

[@sherwinmapalo7624]

iloveyou

[@bingleblorp993]

Ryan Reynolds is my fucking father uwuwuwuwuwuwuwuwuwuwuwuwuwuwuwuwuwuw

[@Courtney-Jai]

Good for you

[@xnellsbellsx]

God your gorgeous

[@AarmOZ84]

Dammit! The good looking ones are always taken. 😣

[@Courtney-Jai]

But there's always a better one who's single

[@AarmOZ84]

@@Courtney-Jai Thanks for the message of hope.

[@ishkibable]

Gosh you're cute, and that accent...

[@michaelsegovia9531]

damn this guy is hot where are the guys that look like him lol 🤤

[@Courtney-Jai]

Just waking up ri got to work

[@blockieran]

Can you change your intro to be more inclusive of nonbinary people?:) Example: boys and girls and nonbinary pals

[@Courtney-Jai]

Yeah I suppose or possibly I could say hello people's that might work better that way I'm just addressing everyone then anyone specifically

[@Courtney-Jai]

My Friend its cool ive already spoke with noemi and ive changes my intro its no biggy and if it makes everyone feel more welcomed to the channel then im happy to do so

[@Imnotallergictopeanuts]

I understand you want inclusion but you also need to understand some people might not believe or agree on it, not saying I don’t believe in it but you never know.

[@Courtney-Jai]

万里Hyukoh I really don't mind I can everybody this means my content is for everyone I'd hate to exclude someone simply because of an intro which is easily changed

[@Imnotallergictopeanuts]

Courtney-Jai that’s fair enough, I totally agree it’s good to include people but a lot of people aren’t tolerant still.